@@Denmosocial Still nothing. Not when it's a flat one-sided conversation. And what - you drag out the 'lemme get your number"? ...but I'll keep being afraid lol
@@Denmosocial i worked in a retail store for 5 years. I can pretty much read the human body language on a good level but you still got always something new for me with your speech skills. Definitely worth the watch.
The best flirts I ever had always had their fair share of awkward moments. The first time I flirted with a girl it was so awkward, but still so nice because we were laughing at the awkwardness together. Not taking it too serious. That changed me ever since.
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Thx for the vids and tips on this man,really helped me with courage and confidence overall ngl,but I got a question,will it be normal for me to approach a girl when the fathers there or is there a different route or tactic to it😅?thx
@@Bryce627 Juan, from ThatWasEpic, once got a girls number when her parents were with her. His channel is not about teaching you things but you can learn a lot from him. Basically same things Jack says here: be confident, play it cool and dont be afraid of rejections
27 years old, your videos have motivated me to change my life Denmo, today I talked to the hottest girl I saw at the cinema. I didn't went perfect but at least the girl add me to facebook and I completed the aproaching without pissing my pants, so un my book that's an acomplishment. My goal is to talk to a different girl each week at public spaces until I get a woman that's worthwhile to keep. Wish me luck.
26 here. I've been approaching random people and doing things to start interactions. Never even realized how unsocial people really are around ME. Even guys with girlfriends seem really shy. I've been these interactions about every chance I get just walking up to people. It's definitely the best homework I've ever done.
Yes yes yes, did the same thing. One time it was two girls at the cafe, and we TALKED and I didn't passed out😂 Maan I'm rooting here for you, keep going. It's brutal for me, I mean it's hard but it's easier everytime I approach new girl or man 💪SOCIALIZERS COME ON 💪
You're very inspiring. A lot of guys get discouraged after being blown out and rejected because they suck at talking to girls and don't want to experience the cringe/awkwardness again, so they give up on girls.
You've got to be able to get through the cringe with persistent effort and dissect what YOU did wrong, because 9 times out of 10, the girl is rejecting your approach, not you as a person.
Bro your videos are absolute gems. It's not even only about the girls for me, it's about confidence and self development. I have bumped on tons of content trying to sort it out but the way you put it is just gold. No bullshit, straight to the point and real. I'm 33 and engaged, still I highly admire your work. Thanks, fo real
I can attest to this. I’ve been approaching women (usually in the gym) for the past year or so. I was definitely awkward and extremely nervous when I started. I still am to some degree but I’ve developed way more confidence and skill at approaching and holding a conversation. It’s not perfect, there are still some awkward silences, corny jokes and lines, and total confusion but it’s way better than it was. The key is just to go do it and learn from each experience.
Thanks Jack, I’ve been struggling hard lately with just going for the approach. You nailed it on the head though - it’s my stupid ego wanting to go smoothly and perfectly. This has inspired to go and awkwardly screw up some approaches let’s gooo!!
this is something that you need to do, and of course, with girls is more important. Be direct. For girls is boring when a guy comes and tries to hide what they want and is worse when they can clearly see what they really want because they can see the truth, he is a coward and is scared of being honest and get "rejected". Be direct, be nice, dont be aggressive, be confident, is just a girl, a human like you. When you are confident, and is not the same to "look" confident than being real confident, she sees that you are strong, you are not affraid to lose, girls see that unconsciously and that is attractive in general.
A guy like Jack can say whatever to a girl. "Hey I just shit my pants, luckily I live with my grandma she'll wash my dirty underwear". The words doesn't matter, the confidence and totally indifference will go through, the girl will pick up on that and line up in the queue.
@@xXSgtWolfXx Still works. However you guys severly underestimate how hard it is to build confidence starting from very little or perhaps even social anxiety. The worst battles will be the mental ones if you want to improve. Upgrading your looks is not that hard, changing the inside is..
At the end of the day it always feels like getting past my anxiety w women is extemely hard due to how I grew up but you give me hope and make me want to progress jack. Thanks man
Dude, you've actually given me courage. All this crap on RUclips about being good at it and doing the perfect intro, just gets you to overthink even more, and think it's all gonna go perfect, instead of teaching you to be real and chill. The key is simple, go for it, and go with it. Sometimes you just need to come out and say "I thought you were cute, and I needed to come say hi." And it will probably suck for a few times, and fail, that's okay, it's supposed to happen. That's how you grow. It's also how you get less afraid. After all, what kind of man leaves his own fears unchecked? This has helped, for real Jack. Thanks a bunch
Hey Jack! I'm 51 years old and just recently divorced and Your content is giving me the courage to approach Women...Its not just young guys Bro! ....your videos are pure Gold Jerry! GOLD! (It's s Seinfeld thing...lol)
I don't really want to get into girls' pants, but these videos have been awesome to watch to just learn general charisma and how to appear confident. Keep up this fire content, Jack!
Yesterday I tried cold approaching for the first time and 7 out of 10 girls gave there number to me. But Tbh, it would be really great of u would tell how text a girl after getting there number because with only 2 of them I could set up a date with 😢😢. So I think mostly everyone gives there number nowadays, but what really matters is if they go out with u or not.
Something that has really helped me with girls, has beem having a job where you have to interact with people. Sitting as a cashier or standing behind the bar, means you interact with hundreds of people every day, and learn to overcome/not care about the cringe things that happen when talking with strangers. Never been a cashier tho.
Shit man you don't even know how much that video inspired me rn. It came almost in the right time, you're just 1 day off. There's this girl at the gym I had crush on for half a year now, but I was afraid to approach her, because it's gym and we're seeing each other almost everyday, but I decided to grow fucking balls and talked to her a week ago. It was awkward, because I've approached only 3 girls in my life before and I still learn German, because I moved here (it ain't even a full year since then), so that's like another big obstacle for me, because while I talk I still think on the grammatics and shit. So... it looked a little bit like interview, but she was sweet enough that she didn't mind my visible awkwardness, but I still wasn't happy with my performance. I also talked to her yesterday and that was much better, although because of the stress, it didn't go as I expected, but I'm proud of myself anyway that I'm shooting my shot. I'm trying to do it like you adviced in your video about approaching girls in the gym, so I don't rush it too much. Today's video gave me inspiration and courage I needed, my main goal would be to build an amazing relationship, but I want to clap those cheeks ain't gonna lie lmao
Hey man. I don't know if you'll see this comment you probably won't, but I just wanted to let you know, from the heart, I'm an 18 y/o from Ottawa that doesn't know what he wants to do with his life, and has had problems with a plethora of things. Your honest no bullshit videos have really helped me, genuinely. Thank you
After watching your content I decided I was going to go talk to this girl. But instead she walked up to me, talked to me, and then asked for my number 😅
Jack, you're an awesome romodel. I walked up to a group of 4 girls for the first time in the theatre parking lot and it was a good interaction and one of them had her eyes in my soul. (The "pls f**k me" eyes) I get less cringe the more I approach and interact with people and I've made a few new friends already. 🤙🏼 Been doing these interactions as homework/skills I need. It has been benefitting my life and later on my childrens' lives. Approached a girl yesterday at the park. She was writing, sitting on a bench. I had a good interaction, she eventually blurted out that she had a boyfriend like an automated robot response even though I didn't flirt at all. But I don't take it personally like I used to. I told her to take care and I kept walking. It only motivates me at this point to keep the momentum.
So Today I approached a girl for the first time, and man, that was total cringe and disaster, but still I feel okay because I at least tried, and I kinda expected that result. Hope I can get better over time
Anything we try at first is gonna be awkward, especially when you're putting your ego on the line. Exposing yourself to that fear over and over and over again desensitises it, and that's when the awkwardness starts go away. Women pick up on and mirror body language and vibes, and if your vibe is awkward and nervous, so will theirs be. Just keep exposing yourself (I don't mean exposing your dick), and keep approaching until it starts to feel easier.
Life is too short to be shy and not take a shot. Remember: you miss 100% of shots you don't take. Even stats are in your odds, meaning the more you approach, the more likely you meet a girl that will be attracted to you.
Denmo, I hadn’t really done much daygame since pre-COVID. Just apps and social circle. So today I set a goal to approach 3 girls whilst doing my shopping. The nerves were back but I was able to push through. I certainly need more practise but it felt so good to do and all 3 girls were really happy that I talked with them. I’m going to make a mindful effort to do this more often from now on.
I have been going to the gym and not watching porn for years but this is what I've been missing. Out of the three approaches I've made so far I've got 2 numbers. You're inspiring me to have the confidence to just ask. The worst she can say is no. But the experience of just asking is invaluable so regardless of win lose or draw I'm not hung up on it. The only way to take them off the pedestal we've put them on is to just talk to them like anyone else.
Going direct is great for forcing yourself to improve, but I think it greatly depends on your height and appearance when first starting to get enough traction for moving anything along (and learning how to keep moving farther)
@@Denmosocial I'm 5'9 and handsome just mainly have dead skin cells always on my hair/head, face especially around nose looks like buggers and maggots when I get it with my thumb nail looks disgusting 🤢
I'm 20 and about to graduate from Uni. I've literally never even just hung out with a girl. It's not that I don't want to, I'm just really withdrawn and always feel like an outsider around strangers. I desperately wanna enjoy my last few months at uni. How do I go from sad virgin to Casanova during that time?
I'm not sure which country you're in but if you're United States or a few other first world countries our grandfathers and great grandfathers stormed The beach at Normandy. If they can brave getting killed to take back control from an evil overlord, then shouldn't we have the guts to approach a woman? Let me tell you what my story is briefly. I was a good looking guy but I didn't think I was. Such a fool looking back. Then unfortunately I started balding around the age of 24/25. Yes I was short but the facial aesthetics were there I just didn't have the confidence. Barely dated anybody and after I started balding things just didn't get any easier. My twenties were barren for the most part due to my lack of self-confidence. But back when the world went to s*** in 2020 I said f*** it...I asked one of the most beautiful women I've met to go out after getting to know her for a bit and guess what? She said yes! In 2 months it will be 3 years. My lack of hair seriously brought my confidence down but as it turns out some women are into that look You just have to grow a pair talk them up and ask. The biggest thing holding me back right now though is financial success which is why denmo goes into it a lot about getting your s*** together before having a serious relationship. But that doesn't mean don't practice it just means most women are not going to want to be in a serious relationship with someone unless they have their financials worked out. Don't be like me. You have no idea what will happen to you in the future so man up, talk to some women you aren't attracted to for practice and then eventually you'll develop confidence. You have to fake it until you make it since it's not natural to you. I wish I had someone to tell me all this stuff back when I was 20 and I kind of sort of did but not to the extent on which I just told you. Everything I just wrote here is what I would have told myself back when I was 20. Good luck stranger!
If you look at her face at the end of the interaction, it seemed more like she was just weirded out by the whole thing and probably gave her number out to make him go away. The real question here is did she reply to any follow up texts or set a date? But Denmo has a gf himself so did he even try to follow up?
She's visibly uncomfortable the entire time, it's unnatural to just go about it like this, no vetting of her personality, small talk, not smooth or intriguing in any way 🤷
I definitely feel inspired after watching this. Its an ego thing that I should make this absolute perfect Chad-like approach when it's really not needed. I'm approaching 5 girls this weekend.
Bruh, In today's world everyone gives there numbers. I tried for the first time yesterday thanks to u yesterday and 7 out of girls gave there number. But what actually matters is when u text them whether they go out with u or not 😢. So would be great to make some texting videos!!
It's me recalling those times when I approached a couple of girls separately , I succeeded with one girl in college days, the other it was a terrible experience but I'm not regretting it i did for the sake of challenging myself she said no & I didn't take it personally.
I’m gonna go talk to girls because of your help knowing it’s okay to make very minor mistakes while still nailing a conversation and going to get her number
You have the gift of gab. Lucky you. I remember trying to get laid when I was a young buck before these type of vids and it was rough, not having a natural gift of jawing about nothing in particular. Blah blah. Small talk was always nothing to me. Nothing. Amazing I still had my share of women. Probably because I had interests that made me.....interesting. God how I hated it tho. Chasing women. What a collosal waste of time. Just to get laid, LOL
Been watching your vids this week. You inspired me to get out there and start getting my reps in. Zero approaches yesterday cuz I wimped out. Two approaches today on 4 girls total. I feel electrified right now. I kept your lessons in mind. My ego isn't important. The goal is leaving girls with genuine smiles. Working up the courage to lengthen conversations and finally getting numbers. Trying again tomorrow. All thanks to you ❤
@@ambiven10 You get it. It's not about the result just yet. It's the courage to confront your fears. Of course we're gonna fuck it up the first few times. But you're not gonna let that stop you.
All good things, good skills, takes practice, and if you expect smooth conversations in your first try, you're like expecting a hawk to turn to color white
Just wanted to say thanks for aspiring me to not be a cockroach and talk with women. I was able to pull a number because of the great advice! Keep up the great vids
He did great until the end, was stumbling and whatnot. You can tell by the girls reaction with the blue top when he walks away that it was awkward and cringe. Didnt need to call her his crush like 5 times lol coulda came up with a way better exit line.
Your videos genuinely do help, I've found out that if I watch one of your videos before going to approach a girl, it really improves my delivery and I don't seem like that much of a jackass, plus I've made 4 to 5 new female friends using your advice, and I did ask one of them out but she friendzoned me... But its progress nonetheless!
Thanks man out of all the similar content creators , you are the one who inspired me to do my first approach last year . Didn’t even go that bad, Lookikg forward to getting back in the rhythm of approaching .
Have a question about approaching a girl who is sitting. Is it best to get down to her level whether that’s sitting with her or kneeling or is it better to stay standing?
It looked like you could made the interaction go longer. When you asked her what she was doing and she said "I was actually going to go home but Im doing nothing really" that was her way of letting you know she had some free time. She seemed loosened up by then, her body language definitely gave away that she found you attractive. Possibly coulda pulled the insta date.
That ending high five was weird, really weird and her face at the end was not one of being excited. She was at first. Maybe he just wanted to show to talk the girls and not be afraid and not take it to the next level since now he is leading on the girl with false intentions.
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a smooth sea never made a wise sailor; the more you try, the more you will be rejected but you learn from those experiences and as a consolation prize, you will have a batting average of 10-20%. It's a numbers game, swallow your pride, brace for rejection but give it your best shot nonetheless!
Tried you’re technique yesterday didn’t compliment her but got that IG. She didn’t ask me any questions back was waiting for her friend but got the ig she was smiling alot tho
I have run into way too many fragile women. Even the smallest amount of sarcasm or making fun of them completely shuts them down. The ones I have attempted it on just don't get it. When I was trying to slightly ruffle their feathers, I guess they thought I was being serious. I must be good at talking to women that need to relax a little. I just need to find some different women in different locations.
Because I’m in high school I’m scared to talk to girl because they are less mature and I feel like I’m going to be rejected just because I’m not over 6ft tall
I love how his confidence made her instantly nervous and cautious at the same time. You caught her off guard and the bodylanguage speaks volumes. 😂😂😂
did you learn a thing or two brother
@@Denmosocialwe all learned a thing or two my guy. Love the discord btw
@@Denmosocial Still nothing. Not when it's a flat one-sided conversation.
And what - you drag out the 'lemme get your number"? ...but I'll keep being afraid lol
@@Denmosocial i worked in a retail store for 5 years. I can pretty much read the human body language on a good level but you still got always something new for me with your speech skills. Definitely worth the watch.
What happens if you’re super attractive and every girl is super nervous to talk to you?
The best flirts I ever had always had their fair share of awkward moments. The first time I flirted with a girl it was so awkward, but still so nice because we were laughing at the awkwardness together. Not taking it too serious. That changed me ever since.
Walking legend. I need to create more opportunities for myself. Do go out but been limited to working full-time now.
Not gonna lie, your my favorite RUclipsr by far!!!💪
Very inspiring 👏
10:43 somebody clip this
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Thx for the vids and tips on this man,really helped me with courage and confidence overall ngl,but I got a question,will it be normal for me to approach a girl when the fathers there or is there a different route or tactic to it😅?thx
@@Bryce627 why is ur dad with you lmao
@@jeffjefflover Nah I mean the girls dad is with her😂
@@Bryce627 Juan, from ThatWasEpic, once got a girls number when her parents were with her. His channel is not about teaching you things but you can learn a lot from him. Basically same things Jack says here: be confident, play it cool and dont be afraid of rejections
@@Bryce627 oh shit lmao, that makes more sense, i got no clue bro gl tho
27 years old, your videos have motivated me to change my life Denmo, today I talked to the hottest girl I saw at the cinema. I didn't went perfect but at least the girl add me to facebook and I completed the aproaching without pissing my pants, so un my book that's an acomplishment. My goal is to talk to a different girl each week at public spaces until I get a woman that's worthwhile to keep. Wish me luck.
proud of you bro
26 here. I've been approaching random people and doing things to start interactions. Never even realized how unsocial people really are around ME. Even guys with girlfriends seem really shy. I've been these interactions about every chance I get just walking up to people. It's definitely the best homework I've ever done.
Yoo that's some dope shit man. You're definitely going far with that.
Yes yes yes, did the same thing. One time it was two girls at the cafe, and we TALKED and I didn't passed out😂 Maan I'm rooting here for you, keep going. It's brutal for me, I mean it's hard but it's easier everytime I approach new girl or man 💪SOCIALIZERS COME ON 💪
You're very inspiring. A lot of guys get discouraged after being blown out and rejected because they suck at talking to girls and don't want to experience the cringe/awkwardness again, so they give up on girls.
Giving up on girls is actually a good idea
survival of the fittest I guess
You've got to be able to get through the cringe with persistent effort and dissect what YOU did wrong, because 9 times out of 10, the girl is rejecting your approach, not you as a person.
@@Ash_Hudsonim black
@@Jedilord882 Sounds like an excuse in this context.
Bro your videos are absolute gems. It's not even only about the girls for me, it's about confidence and self development. I have bumped on tons of content trying to sort it out but the way you put it is just gold. No bullshit, straight to the point and real. I'm 33 and engaged, still I highly admire your work. Thanks, fo real
glad it helped you G thanks for the love
I can attest to this. I’ve been approaching women (usually in the gym) for the past year or so. I was definitely awkward and extremely nervous when I started. I still am to some degree but I’ve developed way more confidence and skill at approaching and holding a conversation. It’s not perfect, there are still some awkward silences, corny jokes and lines, and total confusion but it’s way better than it was. The key is just to go do it and learn from each experience.
That's very good keep it up brother. I'm in the same boat as you btw.
Thanks Jack, I’ve been struggling hard lately with just going for the approach. You nailed it on the head though - it’s my stupid ego wanting to go smoothly and perfectly. This has inspired to go and awkwardly screw up some approaches let’s gooo!!
good man glad to hear
Hope you’re not black
1:40 did Hamza dirty 😂
Yeah exactly, Hamza is a massive fraud, I'd rather watch paint dry than listen to that moron.
this is something that you need to do, and of course, with girls is more important. Be direct. For girls is boring when a guy comes and tries to hide what they want and is worse when they can clearly see what they really want because they can see the truth, he is a coward and is scared of being honest and get "rejected". Be direct, be nice, dont be aggressive, be confident, is just a girl, a human like you. When you are confident, and is not the same to "look" confident than being real confident, she sees that you are strong, you are not affraid to lose, girls see that unconsciously and that is attractive in general.
This made my understanding of The vídeo so mucho clearer, thx man
and you are a girl or a guy?
“Excuse me, um, but I have a boyfriend.” Said every women everywhere.
A guy like Jack can say whatever to a girl. "Hey I just shit my pants, luckily I live with my grandma she'll wash my dirty underwear". The words doesn't matter, the confidence and totally indifference will go through, the girl will pick up on that and line up in the queue.
"just be confident bro" no. this isn't 2007 any more. doesn't work.
Well, also Jack is white, tall, handsome, so ofc girls are gonna be more friendlier and give him a chance without auto rejecting him.
@@xXSgtWolfXx Still works. However you guys severly underestimate how hard it is to build confidence starting from very little or perhaps even social anxiety.
The worst battles will be the mental ones if you want to improve. Upgrading your looks is not that hard, changing the inside is..
@@CommandoMaster i doubt he is the most handsome. sorry jack xD but he's tall af and confident af
@@xXSgtWolfXx Humans have changed from 2007? lol
I need a confidence like Denmo 😅
Just start talking and don't think to much and hope for the best 😅
if only there was a course
It's built over many approaches.
@@Denmosocial good salesman reply hahahaha
At the end of the day it always feels like getting past my anxiety w women is extemely hard due to how I grew up but you give me hope and make me want to progress jack. Thanks man
Dude, you've actually given me courage. All this crap on RUclips about being good at it and doing the perfect intro, just gets you to overthink even more, and think it's all gonna go perfect, instead of teaching you to be real and chill. The key is simple, go for it, and go with it. Sometimes you just need to come out and say "I thought you were cute, and I needed to come say hi."
And it will probably suck for a few times, and fail, that's okay, it's supposed to happen. That's how you grow. It's also how you get less afraid. After all, what kind of man leaves his own fears unchecked?
This has helped, for real Jack. Thanks a bunch
no worries bro. see you in my socializer community hopefully one day
Hey Jack! I'm 51 years old and just recently divorced and Your content is giving me the courage to approach Women...Its not just young guys Bro! ....your videos are pure Gold Jerry! GOLD! (It's s Seinfeld thing...lol)
You should be geomaxxing instead of cold approaching women 😂😂
It's over gramps.
I don't really want to get into girls' pants, but these videos have been awesome to watch to just learn general charisma and how to appear confident. Keep up this fire content, Jack!
fair play
I have a friend at school who’s so fucking confident, he can say the stupidest shit but with his delivery, he sounds like Adonis.
Yesterday I tried cold approaching for the first time and 7 out of 10 girls gave there number to me. But Tbh, it would be really great of u would tell how text a girl after getting there number because with only 2 of them I could set up a date with 😢😢. So I think mostly everyone gives there number nowadays, but what really matters is if they go out with u or not.
Something that has really helped me with girls, has beem having a job where you have to interact with people. Sitting as a cashier or standing behind the bar, means you interact with hundreds of people every day, and learn to overcome/not care about the cringe things that happen when talking with strangers. Never been a cashier tho.
Cold approached a girl at the park today, and I had a long conversation with her. We are going on a date next week. Wish me luck🤞
Shit man you don't even know how much that video inspired me rn. It came almost in the right time, you're just 1 day off. There's this girl at the gym I had crush on for half a year now, but I was afraid to approach her, because it's gym and we're seeing each other almost everyday, but I decided to grow fucking balls and talked to her a week ago. It was awkward, because I've approached only 3 girls in my life before and I still learn German, because I moved here (it ain't even a full year since then), so that's like another big obstacle for me, because while I talk I still think on the grammatics and shit.
So... it looked a little bit like interview, but she was sweet enough that she didn't mind my visible awkwardness, but I still wasn't happy with my performance. I also talked to her yesterday and that was much better, although because of the stress, it didn't go as I expected, but I'm proud of myself anyway that I'm shooting my shot. I'm trying to do it like you adviced in your video about approaching girls in the gym, so I don't rush it too much. Today's video gave me inspiration and courage I needed, my main goal would be to build an amazing relationship, but I want to clap those cheeks ain't gonna lie lmao
big W
Gj and goodluck bro i’m on a similar journey
😂😂😂
Good job bro , practice makes perfect
It was wholesome then I read the last sentence
People shouldn’t be just trying to get laid. It’s destroying our society
Out of the languages Denmo decided to speak facts
also wdf at 10:40 lmao
lmao
tbh i overcame the ''i cant talk women phase'' but i just love to watch these
Hey man. I don't know if you'll see this comment you probably won't, but I just wanted to let you know, from the heart, I'm an 18 y/o from Ottawa that doesn't know what he wants to do with his life, and has had problems with a plethora of things. Your honest no bullshit videos have really helped me, genuinely. Thank you
i see it and im honored it helped you bro. Love ya
After watching your content I decided I was going to go talk to this girl. But instead she walked up to me, talked to me, and then asked for my number 😅
Jack, you're an awesome romodel.
I walked up to a group of 4 girls for the first time in the theatre parking lot and it was a good interaction and one of them had her eyes in my soul. (The "pls f**k me" eyes) I get less cringe the more I approach and interact with people and I've made a few new friends already. 🤙🏼
Been doing these interactions as homework/skills I need. It has been benefitting my life and later on my childrens' lives.
Approached a girl yesterday at the park. She was writing, sitting on a bench. I had a good interaction, she eventually blurted out that she had a boyfriend like an automated robot response even though I didn't flirt at all. But I don't take it personally like I used to. I told her to take care and I kept walking. It only motivates me at this point to keep the momentum.
Keep it up brother you will make it no doubt!
So Today I approached a girl for the first time, and man, that was total cringe and disaster, but still I feel okay because I at least tried, and I kinda expected that result. Hope I can get better over time
Think as if you're acting out a role you're thinking to hard
Bro thank you, I was needing this video 😂. I thought that feeling that awkward was just me, but I can see it’s not only myself when I approach a woman
i gotchu bro
Anything we try at first is gonna be awkward, especially when you're putting your ego on the line. Exposing yourself to that fear over and over and over again desensitises it, and that's when the awkwardness starts go away. Women pick up on and mirror body language and vibes, and if your vibe is awkward and nervous, so will theirs be. Just keep exposing yourself (I don't mean exposing your dick), and keep approaching until it starts to feel easier.
Life is too short to be shy and not take a shot. Remember: you miss 100% of shots you don't take.
Even stats are in your odds, meaning the more you approach, the more likely you meet a girl that will be attracted to you.
I got inspired by that intro. Im gonna go do that now cya
ayyyyyy
Update?
@@emicadena2105 worked 😁
@jersey devil dw bro, there will always people that wont like you, but that doesnt mean everyone will dislike you.
Denmo, I hadn’t really done much daygame since pre-COVID. Just apps and social circle. So today I set a goal to approach 3 girls whilst doing my shopping. The nerves were back but I was able to push through. I certainly need more practise but it felt so good to do and all 3 girls were really happy that I talked with them. I’m going to make a mindful effort to do this more often from now on.
Stop going after the women you like and go after the women that like you. That's the only game there is.
okay. the women that like me are all fat, ugly, or have STDs
That's the boring game 😆
@@rodriguesaplacino6612exactly 🤣
I have been going to the gym and not watching porn for years but this is what I've been missing. Out of the three approaches I've made so far I've got 2 numbers. You're inspiring me to have the confidence to just ask. The worst she can say is no. But the experience of just asking is invaluable so regardless of win lose or draw I'm not hung up on it.
The only way to take them off the pedestal we've put them on is to just talk to them like anyone else.
Exactly man up and talk
we got this
Going direct is great for forcing yourself to improve, but I think it greatly depends on your height and appearance when first starting to get enough traction for moving anything along (and learning how to keep moving farther)
we got this
Yeah obviously those two things helps a lot , but if you don’t have them you still don’t lose anything by trying .
@@Denmosocial I'm 5'9 and handsome just mainly have dead skin cells always on my hair/head, face especially around nose looks like buggers and maggots when I get it with my thumb nail looks disgusting 🤢
@@Military.FutureUrbanCamo chilll
Approached another girl today she didnt give me her number, But another W
how did the convo go? was she nice at letting you down at least?
@@travisdingolaite6184 Nope she said No directly and I said ok cool and left, I didnt feel bad about it anyways
@@itzskyliter I love how you handle the rejection! Everytime you have the courage to approach its a win! Keep it up brother
I'm 20 and about to graduate from Uni. I've literally never even just hung out with a girl. It's not that I don't want to, I'm just really withdrawn and always feel like an outsider around strangers.
I desperately wanna enjoy my last few months at uni. How do I go from sad virgin to Casanova during that time?
I'm not sure which country you're in but if you're United States or a few other first world countries our grandfathers and great grandfathers stormed The beach at Normandy.
If they can brave getting killed to take back control from an evil overlord, then shouldn't we have the guts to approach a woman?
Let me tell you what my story is briefly. I was a good looking guy but I didn't think I was. Such a fool looking back. Then unfortunately I started balding around the age of 24/25. Yes I was short but the facial aesthetics were there I just didn't have the confidence. Barely dated anybody and after I started balding things just didn't get any easier. My twenties were barren for the most part due to my lack of self-confidence.
But back when the world went to s*** in 2020 I said f*** it...I asked one of the most beautiful women I've met to go out after getting to know her for a bit and guess what? She said yes! In 2 months it will be 3 years. My lack of hair seriously brought my confidence down but as it turns out some women are into that look You just have to grow a pair talk them up and ask.
The biggest thing holding me back right now though is financial success which is why denmo goes into it a lot about getting your s*** together before having a serious relationship. But that doesn't mean don't practice it just means most women are not going to want to be in a serious relationship with someone unless they have their financials worked out.
Don't be like me. You have no idea what will happen to you in the future so man up, talk to some women you aren't attracted to for practice and then eventually you'll develop confidence. You have to fake it until you make it since it's not natural to you.
I wish I had someone to tell me all this stuff back when I was 20 and I kind of sort of did but not to the extent on which I just told you. Everything I just wrote here is what I would have told myself back when I was 20. Good luck stranger!
If you look at her face at the end of the interaction, it seemed more like she was just weirded out by the whole thing and probably gave her number out to make him go away. The real question here is did she reply to any follow up texts or set a date? But Denmo has a gf himself so did he even try to follow up?
She's visibly uncomfortable the entire time, it's unnatural to just go about it like this, no vetting of her personality, small talk, not smooth or intriguing in any way 🤷
She definitely ghosted him.
I definitely feel inspired after watching this. Its an ego thing that I should make this absolute perfect Chad-like approach when it's really not needed.
I'm approaching 5 girls this weekend.
Keep us updated on your endeavors bro.
I will do 5 too. I need to get in the groove again
4:40 🤣damn, this is definitely a new level of humour!
That video was cringe lol i honestly thought you meant to be that cringe.
Just tge beggining one. Good video over all
Bruh, In today's world everyone gives there numbers. I tried for the first time yesterday thanks to u yesterday and 7 out of girls gave there number. But what actually matters is when u text them whether they go out with u or not 😢. So would be great to make some texting videos!!
Am I the only one who gets nervous watching/listening to him talk to girls?
This video is actually hilarious
Stop this bro, we dont need women's validation to live a happy life
It's me recalling those times when I approached a couple of girls separately , I succeeded with one girl in college days, the other it was a terrible experience but I'm not regretting it i did for the sake of challenging myself she said no & I didn't take it personally.
I’m gonna go talk to girls because of your help knowing it’s okay to make very minor mistakes while still nailing a conversation and going to get her number
You have the gift of gab. Lucky you. I remember trying to get laid when I was a young buck before these type of vids and it was rough, not having a natural gift of jawing about nothing in particular. Blah blah. Small talk was always nothing to me. Nothing. Amazing I still had my share of women. Probably because I had interests that made me.....interesting. God how I hated it tho. Chasing women. What a collosal waste of time. Just to get laid, LOL
Been watching your vids this week. You inspired me to get out there and start getting my reps in. Zero approaches yesterday cuz I wimped out. Two approaches today on 4 girls total. I feel electrified right now.
I kept your lessons in mind. My ego isn't important. The goal is leaving girls with genuine smiles. Working up the courage to lengthen conversations and finally getting numbers.
Trying again tomorrow. All thanks to you ❤
Thats awesome man. I started today, asked one girl. Couldn't get her number, but feels good.
@@ambiven10 You get it. It's not about the result just yet. It's the courage to confront your fears. Of course we're gonna fuck it up the first few times. But you're not gonna let that stop you.
Honestly there actually IS someone else teaching the "Natural" style. It's James Marshall from Natural Lifestyle.
All good things, good skills, takes practice, and if you expect smooth conversations in your first try, you're like expecting a hawk to turn to color white
I think imma just watch the videos instead of paying $600+ for coaching
Just wanted to say thanks for aspiring me to not be a cockroach and talk with women. I was able to pull a number because of the great advice! Keep up the great vids
Sarcasm, jokes, making fun of yourself and them in a good way, can make them more attracted to you than compliment could ever have
Thanks Jack, it's always good to watch your videos ❤️
This just help me with my confidence thank you bro
He did great until the end, was stumbling and whatnot. You can tell by the girls reaction with the blue top when he walks away that it was awkward and cringe. Didnt need to call her his crush like 5 times lol coulda came up with a way better exit line.
Your tips better work in trusting you on another level man
I love being awkward when it's funny but when It's JUST awkward it's a different thing ans it's something I need to learn dealing with
1:37 our basic purpose of life
pump
@@Denmosocial Lord denmo Bless us💟
Denmo can i get your help with social skills in general , i'm struggling
Yeah. I agree with you. Most first approaches between men and women are awkward.
Your videos genuinely do help, I've found out that if I watch one of your videos before going to approach a girl, it really improves my delivery and I don't seem like that much of a jackass, plus I've made 4 to 5 new female friends using your advice, and I did ask one of them out but she friendzoned me... But its progress nonetheless!
Im wondering If she realy have you her Number XD
Bro, I laughed so hard on the Cristal girl 😂.
lmao
dude i clipped the part on 10:40 and i'll send it to all of my gfs lets see what happens
yea nah I gotta get my money up first, fix my health n shit, then date
I think bro just changed my fcking life 🖤🖤
10:39 my dad walked into the room 😭😭😭
CLAP THEM FREAKIN CHEEEEKS!!!!
10:42 Thats gold 😂
Thanks man out of all the similar content creators , you are the one who inspired me to do my first approach last year . Didn’t even go that bad, Lookikg forward to getting back in the rhythm of approaching .
I am not a clown, I want to be who I am around girls.
Have a question about approaching a girl who is sitting. Is it best to get down to her level whether that’s sitting with her or kneeling or is it better to stay standing?
does not matter
can you teach us how to start conversation
with your crush
How would anyone spend 670 dollars on a course tho
dam thats me
NEVER CHANGE YOUR HAIR THAT IS AT 1:21!
10:33 BEST PART
fr hahha
If I did whst he'd did. I'd be on a list.
It looked like you could made the interaction go longer. When you asked her what she was doing and she said "I was actually going to go home but Im doing nothing really" that was her way of letting you know she had some free time. She seemed loosened up by then, her body language definitely gave away that she found you attractive. Possibly coulda pulled the insta date.
That ending high five was weird, really weird and her face at the end was not one of being excited. She was at first. Maybe he just wanted to show to talk the girls and not be afraid and not take it to the next level since now he is leading on the girl with false intentions.
@@scott1294 I doubt he would pass up the opportunity to smash her.
bro he makes his own examples in real life for us ❤
i gotchu brother
Maan, it was HILARIOUS for the whole video and informative at the same tame, thanks, you're the best! 🎉💪🤜🤛
No sex before marriage
O Allah the Almighty Allah Allah
Protect me and guide me
To your love and mercy
Ya Allah don’t deprive me
From beholding your beauty
O my Lord accept this plea
What a video let's
NORMALIZED Rejection ✅
Awkward moments
Cringe ANd Fear in Game
Invented sex lol
I love this dude.
Very eye opening denmo your one of the actual guys to not be cowards
short is advantage!!!!
a smooth sea never made a wise sailor; the more you try, the more you will be rejected but you learn from those experiences and as a consolation prize, you will have a batting average of 10-20%. It's a numbers game, swallow your pride, brace for rejection but give it your best shot nonetheless!
Tried you’re technique yesterday didn’t compliment her but got that IG. She didn’t ask me any questions back was waiting for her friend but got the ig she was smiling alot tho
I have run into way too many fragile women. Even the smallest amount of sarcasm or making fun of them completely shuts them down. The ones I have attempted it on just don't get it. When I was trying to slightly ruffle their feathers, I guess they thought I was being serious. I must be good at talking to women that need to relax a little. I just need to find some different women in different locations.
Step #1 Be over 6ft Tall
Because I’m in high school I’m scared to talk to girl because they are less mature and I feel like I’m going to be rejected just because I’m not over 6ft tall
Your videos are fun to watch, but no, it won't change my mind to approach girls. 😂