EVIL WEEK: THE SECRETS OF LIGHT & DARK FEMININE ENERGY! How to Seduce Anyone | Shallon Lester

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @somethingspecific3619
    @somethingspecific3619 Год назад +99

    Evil week is finally back to RUclips 😍😍
    Shallon, I'm Syrian (gay man). I've been religiously following you since early 2020, and now I'm out of Syria and at a refugee camp in the Netherlands.. once you're back in Italy, I'll finally (hopefully) get the chance to see you. ❤
    You've been, unbeknownst to you, part of this journey. ❤

    • @evaavanesian31
      @evaavanesian31 Год назад +9

      Hi lovely!!
      I’m a fan of Shallons from the Netherlands as well. If you need anything, just let me know xx ❤

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit Год назад +1

      Hi, and best wishes
      from America

  • @cappygurl
    @cappygurl Год назад +310

    We really need this Shallon. Women are working harder then ever in every aspects of life and getting less and less. From jobs, from men, from friends and the world at large. They expect so much from us, but won't even give us what women used to get, provision, protection, commitment. We are working 10x harder for less pay so to speak. It's not that I want to be in my "masculine" energy, I haven't been given a choice if I don't take care of me who will? Most guys have learned to give us scraps of love, affection and commitment while expecting the same benefits a gf or a wife with actual titles give. I'm tired of it.

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb Год назад +8

      I understand your frustration because during certain seasons of my life everything seemed hard. I have the problem of asking for help. I never learned that damsel in distress role that many have been taught to do to get things from people. Most have no problem keeping their hands out. Beggars night isn't for one day out the year. It's a 24 hour hustle for the majority of modern women paired with the spell work. Men verbally say they are tired of it, but yet they pay in various quiet ways. Just like these Beggars ask in various ways. The best thing is to truly believe there is a higher power that sees your good and honest work. That also appreciate your individuality and the contribution you are making to a messed up society. Most are people pleasers so they will never elevate beyond a certain level because they yearn for approval or they won't feel fake important. If you live for God, you naturally are important and see these suggestions as something that can work or not work. Master manipulators do both all day. To everyone. Just like she said, they are the sluts. The always gotta please people all the time, the best, first. Their celebrity status comes from scamming, being a clout chaser, and hacking electronics. Basically a ain't shit human. Don't be like that.

    • @oliviaday8672
      @oliviaday8672 Год назад

      @@Erica-cf1xbbrilliant

    • @grazielaalmeida8438
      @grazielaalmeida8438 Год назад +8

      Do you really believe that women lives were better back then, no, they had the money and material provision, and becouse of that they had to be subservient, they didn't even had their own ID and bank account, let alone scape a abusive man. Of course today is not perfect, we have many problems, but it's better than the past.

    • @Clauds71
      @Clauds71 Год назад

      Me too 😪

    • @Blackheathenly
      @Blackheathenly Год назад

      Don't listen to this trashy cooze! Sheesh!

  • @pinkpurr6978
    @pinkpurr6978 Год назад +33

    Had a revelation today about femininity. I’ve been thinking about this, as I was washing dishes passive aggressively because of something my boyfriend did. I’ve been with him for 6 months and I regret most of it. He hasn’t been taught how to be a man. He doesn’t know how to treat a woman. He asked me to teach and guide him. It was heartbreaking and humiliating since it hurts me every time I have to speak out on my needs. My most basic needs. But I asked him to do things, I showed him what way worked best for me, I repeated myself as many times as he wanted. Whilst also doing anything and everything to prove to him I’m worthy of all this. Of love. Because he’s not the type of give it, or anything at all. Everything must be earned with him. I struggled to be me in this relationship, be a woman and let him be a man.
    Don’t be like me. Walk away. Life is too short to become a teacher with no pay. Because all this that I’ve been doing gave me absolutely nothing good back. I wish someone told me before I wasted all this time.

    • @MyhandlerisYeshua
      @MyhandlerisYeshua 10 месяцев назад +6

      6 months is not 6 yrs so leave now.

    • @ghitaelalloussi
      @ghitaelalloussi 9 месяцев назад

      girl you deserve better leave his ass and get a new hobby

  • @zcargirl77
    @zcargirl77 Год назад +52

    This resonates so much. I was married to someone for several decades who lived inside hard rules, and expected me to live in there too. He was intensely straight-edge and vegetarian, and over time I realized that it also became an isolation tactic because we couldn’t go anyplace where people weren’t in line with these inflexible limitations. This meant no bars, no fancy restaurants, no parties, no work events-nothing. I spent most of my 20’s and 30’s feeling left out of all the fun social activities that others frequently participated in without me. I was told many times “I’d divorce you if you ever drank, or ate meat.” This scared me because I didn’t have my OWN feminine energy and power yet-mostly because it was never allowed to blossom. But I knew I had to build some up to get out of this toxic marriage and get MY life, MY energy, and MY autonomy back! Ladies, if you’re with someone who forces you into constraints that you don’t agree with, I am here to tell you that you are SO MUCH MORE than someone else’s rules and desires.

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit Год назад +3

      I hope you have a happy life now, going to all fun events that you want to.

    • @zcargirl77
      @zcargirl77 Год назад +1

      @@bluecollarlit Thank you! I absolutely do! ☺️

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 11 месяцев назад

      Why did you care about all of those activities in the first place? You had the spouse. Why allow FOMO to sow seeds of contention?
      No bars, parties, and restaurants? Oh, no! 😱

    • @zcargirl77
      @zcargirl77 11 месяцев назад

      @@NoqqinI know it probably sounds superficial, but it wasn’t completely about the events-it was about a grown adult telling another grown adult what they can and cannot do. It was about being treated like a child. This extended far beyond just social events. And I can tell you that if you’d rather go to a party than stay home with your spouse, then that’s not the right spouse for you. This is why I chose to leave, because we both deserved to find the right people for ourselves. And it wasn’t each other.

    • @Noqqin
      @Noqqin 11 месяцев назад

      @@zcargirl77 Fair enough. My remark seems to have been proven quite presumptuous.
      Good luck finding the right one.

  • @itsasherzzz
    @itsasherzzz Год назад +36

    I put in my two weeks at my job on Sunday. I just got a job a hour before I started watching this video. It took me a lot of courage to leave because I was comfortable, even though I know I can maybe make more money and I was struggling. I’m a autistic empath on top of it, so work drained me. You mentioned leaving a job and this whole journey has been resonating with me. I’ve been on edge and really mean to people the past month, but people appreciate me so much more when I let me emotional thoughts out. It’s a balance. I have a lot of respect at work bc I can call out the bullshit and defend people at the same time and show my kind heart.
    I’ve been learning to regulate my emotions and when to use dark and light energy, this was a video I needed.

  • @tobiasexarchopoulos721
    @tobiasexarchopoulos721 Год назад +132

    Shallon is always constantly raising the bar and I’m here for it

  • @conservativearabgirl5273
    @conservativearabgirl5273 Год назад +22

    Shallon you mentioning your grandmother and mother relationship and relating it to light feminine energy is exactly how i felt about dark feminine energy. my mother is the man in the relationship to my father (he is not alpha in any way and is very miserable) and so i hated the idea of being an overly masculine women and thinking this is what dark feminine energy is. i attribute this to me being so skinless and letting wrong people get what they want from me and stepping all over me. no more. i want to embrace my dark feminine energy without being overbearing.

  • @mohittiwarii20
    @mohittiwarii20 Год назад +205

    I LOVE YOU. Thank you for posting this for us. We love you mother. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Yasamin44
    @Yasamin44 Год назад +61

    You’re an incredible woman Shallon. I’ve been following you for years now and you’ve made me realize the strength that was always within me. You’ve literally shifted my life after a long and abusive relationship. I listen to you every single morning. Love you! ❤️

    • @Forexroadrunner
      @Forexroadrunner Год назад +5

      I totally love her and I am so glad I found her

    • @Blackheathenly
      @Blackheathenly Год назад

      You need better role models.

    • @Forexroadrunner
      @Forexroadrunner Год назад +1

      @@Blackheathenly who's your role model since you're so concerned?

    • @laurac86
      @laurac86 Год назад +2

      @@Forexroadrunner - That person has left multiple comments and for someone who seems to dislike Shannon so much they sure like to watch and comment 🤣🤣

    • @Forexroadrunner
      @Forexroadrunner Год назад +2

      @@laurac86 omg really lol. Well they suck anyway. Shallon is sooo Wise. I love her

  • @PassionateFlower
    @PassionateFlower Год назад +14

    I want to be a feminine powerful version of me that truly benefits ME, not one that benefits MEN.

  • @fatoumfatoumeh
    @fatoumfatoumeh Год назад +35

    Interesting…I’m a dark feminine who has isolated herself after the death of my family. I look sweet and innocent on the outside, and my aesthetics are very light feminine, but…I need to get out of my rut. I have 10-12 pounds I need to lose and a makeover, so tired of grieving, it’s been 2 years.

  • @morganlefay999
    @morganlefay999 Год назад +6

    Shallon lester is the badass older sister we all need.

  • @sweettooth.02
    @sweettooth.02 Год назад +8

    This video is a MASTERPIECE! You don't find this kind of content on youtube or internet at all. BTW Shallon, you look extremely beautiful😍

  • @dieschnaddi88
    @dieschnaddi88 Год назад +3

    Dear Shallon, I'm watching you for a long time now. Since you started your channel in New York. You are so authentic, entertaining, wise, and smart. But the reason I keppt watching your videos is that I can feel and see you are contantly growing and eevolving in such a real authentic way. I love that energy. Thank you for beeing a constant in my live ❤❤❤ you go girl. I'm on your side 😊

  • @sammielee4936
    @sammielee4936 Год назад +5

    This is the most amazing evolution of evil week that my jaw literally dropped seeing the layout of this video.💋

  • @Lalalissy09
    @Lalalissy09 Год назад +34

    Shallon! This is an absolute masterpiece, I absolutely love your all your videos but some reason I usually skip evil week, I’m not saying they’re bad I just never been gravitated towards them, but this is my bread and butter and I can’t get enough I’m gonna sign up for whatever you have to offer because this is something so special, in my opinion because I really don’t wanna apologize for being a woman, but actually utilize it as a tool for my life so I can embrace and appreciate that I was born with this superpower that is being a woman.

  • @keri287
    @keri287 Год назад +6

    “…exhaustion.” Yes, exactly!

  • @rasakors
    @rasakors Год назад +21

    Shallon, you look INCREDIBLE. The hair, the bodysuit (and body of course), lip & eyeshadow. The background!!! You look royal, majestic! Wow!!!!🖤

  • @Valerie-s6n
    @Valerie-s6n Год назад +17

    It is time 😈 Thank you, Shallon!

  • @spawnofdanger
    @spawnofdanger Год назад +5

    I really like your take on this stuff. A lot of creators have been talking about it, but you have a really valuable / unique take and I learned a lot! Excited for more ✨

  • @daria6624
    @daria6624 Год назад +3

    Finally it’s the best week of the year

  • @autumnrose1998
    @autumnrose1998 Год назад +7

    Just caught my first cold of the season and yet the channel keeps me going 🥰

  • @Kate-cj6xp
    @Kate-cj6xp Год назад +5

    This is giving me chills!!! So cinematic and enticing! Can’t wait for more ❤❤❤

  • @hazar2354
    @hazar2354 Год назад +1

    Always happy to listen to you. You helped me over the last years. Im very proud of the woman I am today

  • @Natalie-dw9jy
    @Natalie-dw9jy Год назад +4

    This hit home! I do just feel *tired*. Thank you, Shallon!

  • @Nyuffykah
    @Nyuffykah 9 месяцев назад

    Girl, you had some serious glow up since i last clicked on you!
    I am definately dark. It came so easy for me as a teen, then i spent my 20s conditioning myself into being light and now.. i am finally ready to balance it out.

  • @yagirlXoXo
    @yagirlXoXo Год назад +4

    I didn’t watch the video yet, BUT IM SO HAPPY THAT THERE IS EVIL WEEK AGAIN 😍😍

  • @mjones1187
    @mjones1187 Год назад +1

    shallon you age like a fine wine, i hope i can too. pls make a video on what u do to stay looking STUNNING!! ok back to the video now.

  • @hope3894
    @hope3894 Год назад +4

    I’m so excited 😈

  • @nelaela647
    @nelaela647 Год назад +7

    İm sooooo excited for Evil Week 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @lucydubois3865
    @lucydubois3865 Год назад +1

    Omg SHALLON the settings you used for this video is beautiful!! Ugh I’m so jealous ! It’s so pretty ❤️🥺❤️❤️ you look like a queen

  • @sophiezhong3879
    @sophiezhong3879 Год назад +1

    Love you! I have been subscribed to your channel for almost 10 years now. You have helped me during difficult times. Xoxo!

  • @user-cn6br4rd1n
    @user-cn6br4rd1n Год назад +2

    Just started watching. YOU LOOK GORGEOUS EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS THE CORSET THE BACKGROUD❤

  • @K4y_L00
    @K4y_L00 Год назад +1

    As a woman let me just say: You look positively scrumptious, Shallon. Have a fabulous day!

  • @anamersi4888
    @anamersi4888 Год назад +1

    I love how all the comments on this video are positive

  • @ms.ongnipotent
    @ms.ongnipotent Год назад +2

    THE GLOW!!! 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @RoriAngie-lg8ju
    @RoriAngie-lg8ju Год назад

    Oh baby you have no idea how much you helped me &still do .. by evil week ❤ I love you shallon you are amazing person ❤❤❤❤

  • @SoftWifeLife
    @SoftWifeLife Год назад +4

    Shallon, I was the 1st person to comment that you needed to tap into your feminine energy a few years ago. Looks like you understood the assignment. Great job! And You’re welcome! 😊

  • @MomsNotSick
    @MomsNotSick Год назад +1

    Can I just say, you look FREAKING amazing!🔥

  • @aidamamieva
    @aidamamieva Год назад +8

    Shallon, THANK YOU. This video is exactly what I needed right now. I recently broke up with my bf of 1.5 years (though I loved him a lot) because he is so passive, lazy, didn't want to do anything, to provide etc. And I felt like I am the man in our relationship, because I was the only one who was holding onto it for a long time, tried to help him "find himself", to motivate him to do anything (and yeah, I make more money than him even though I don't earn a lot). Of course, it gave no results, except one - I am SO tired now... And this video is so reassuring because it tells me that I made the right decision.

    • @Wweactionfigures45
      @Wweactionfigures45 Год назад +1

      Girl ! I was exactly in the same boat. My mother was the man in her relationship, and I inherited that mentally later in life. And it’s exhausting… we have to keep reminding ourselves we are women and it should be mandatory for a man to treat us and want to take care of us. Leave those bum feminine men behind !

  • @onewisteria
    @onewisteria Год назад +3

    You are glowing girl😩🤌✨✨

  • @sibymiller
    @sibymiller Год назад +4

    And good men like that flexibility that some women have, for example: They are the ones that tell you to quit that job where you are miserable and where you are not being respected. But the one dimensional women say: “No! in have to continue because I cannot seem weak” 🙄 When something is so simple to fix and you don't change it…men get bored because you are actively making the decision of being miserable.

    • @joannawinters6592
      @joannawinters6592 Год назад +3

      What does it really matter what men like and what bores them?

  • @CLARELO
    @CLARELO Год назад +4

    This could not have come at a more perfect time 😢❤

  • @mkwaterz
    @mkwaterz Год назад +7

    EVIL WEEK! The girls who get it, get it.

  • @sarararahhh
    @sarararahhh Год назад +1

    shallon this is my favorite video you've ever done you look STUNNING.

  • @milenabianca9787
    @milenabianca9787 Год назад +10

    I wait all year for this week. My kids trick or treat and I’m watching Shallon ❤ love you girl 😊

  • @emily2675
    @emily2675 Год назад +14

    So needing this right now. Have been so burnt out and exhausted from all the labor I provide everyone in my life. Thank you, Queen Shallon!

  • @berlinblix
    @berlinblix Год назад +2

    Evil week is HEREEE 😈

  • @lynnemccully6014
    @lynnemccully6014 Год назад

    Queen of swords tarot energy, wonderful. Thanks, Shallon ❤

  • @MechaJutaro
    @MechaJutaro Год назад +6

    9:20 For whatever consolation it might provide, ladies... Lots of guys are having to learn a similar lesson now: "You're not a woman, so get out of your feminine energy"

  • @ZeyuYang-m1g
    @ZeyuYang-m1g 9 месяцев назад

    Your channel just become my fav when doing makeup hahaha

  • @liacastrobugliossi8792
    @liacastrobugliossi8792 Год назад +2

    So proud to say that you are my favorite RUclipsr ♥️
    I love you

  • @elianaxjulia
    @elianaxjulia Год назад +1

    Ffs Shallon you look absolutely gorgeous hereee 🔥 and of course the content is just chefs kiss as usual. Love from New Zealand 🤍

  • @laurynwentzell2916
    @laurynwentzell2916 Год назад +5

    Shallon!! This is art.

  • @Stephanie.101
    @Stephanie.101 Год назад +1

    I love this I’m not rigid I’m always open to negotiation. I think truly and deeply that I am dark feminine but try to be light feminine because I scared people and was called a bully in school. But now I feel like it’s time to go back to my true authentic dark feminine self

  • @HollywoodStalksMe
    @HollywoodStalksMe Год назад +2

    Danggg girl you look gorgeous on your cover!!!!!!!!!! As always 💯

  • @mkwaterz
    @mkwaterz Год назад +1

    I loved the visual creativity in this video

  • @dreamscometrue233
    @dreamscometrue233 Год назад

    Shallon!! Let me tell you, this video helped me master my dark feminine energy more than the books I've read about this topic and the gurus I watched, they spoke so much nonsense and they made me confused! I mastered Light feminine energy but I needed the dark one as well. When I tried to master it, I always accidentally Stepped into the masculine energy because I did't UNDERSTAND it. I LOVE the fact that you always give logical and practical advice and I'm looking forward for your next videos about this topic!!❤❤❤

  • @joanehutchington5547
    @joanehutchington5547 Год назад

    The camera quality is top notch!! 😮

  • @kindredkey
    @kindredkey Год назад +3

    I definitely skew toward the dark feminine. I love reading sexual energy, doing shadow and root work with myself and others.
    For most of my life I was conditioned to think that part of me was bad so I was very isolated and tried to suppress it. Now, I'm shameless in my dark pursuits. I definitely have light fem. energy too and quite enjoy playing the two off of each other. It certainly keeps people guessing and on their toes. It is so satisfying to switch it up and see people's reaction!
    Don't we all love the play of shadows on the wall, wondering what the true source of the form is? The wonder the mystery agree that too much and out of balance or being expressed in low vibration and we get fear, anxiety, terror. It's the unpredictability that draws them in. How dismissive are we with things that we can label quickly?
    Love this topic, quite enjoy the taboo!

  • @shuyaaraya1552
    @shuyaaraya1552 Год назад +1

    Evil week is back!!!!

  • @AshleyChing-c3o
    @AshleyChing-c3o 10 месяцев назад

    Driving in circles takes as much energy as driving to a destination

  • @KB-tf8vp
    @KB-tf8vp Год назад +2

    Love the glam look so much…and your background.

  • @bunnym.2414
    @bunnym.2414 Год назад

    my favorite week of the year!

  • @ulat14
    @ulat14 Год назад +2

    I love you shallon. You made me feel good every time I watch your Videos. When I feel sad I just watch your videos and made me feel better 😘

  • @MrsDannunzio
    @MrsDannunzio Год назад

    OMG! You look amazing and so is your background!

  • @ddivintyrose
    @ddivintyrose Год назад

    I’m so incredibly excited for this! Topic couldn’t be better, can’t wait

  • @caitlin9781
    @caitlin9781 Год назад +1

    You are looking AMAZING!

  • @samanthagupta
    @samanthagupta Год назад +3

    Ahhh I so excited 🎉🎉🎉

  • @elzaocean
    @elzaocean Год назад

    OMGGGG you look stunning!!!!!!!! I'm on first 10 seconds but I couldn't resist commenting that immediately

  • @meganhernandez857
    @meganhernandez857 Год назад +1

    RETWEET SHALLON THANK YOU!!! I felt like I could sigh of relief hearing your intro in this video. 💓💓

  • @VictoriaGisele
    @VictoriaGisele Год назад +1

    WE LOVE YOU SHALLON

  • @amymccall2000
    @amymccall2000 Год назад +2

    Love the background and your look!

  • @inlove4coffee
    @inlove4coffee Год назад +1

    It’s the most wonderful time of the year! ❤❤❤❤

  • @mollesmart
    @mollesmart 11 месяцев назад

    I love your channel. I love the room and your outfit. You are banging, just as your message is.

  • @shaunelamarca577
    @shaunelamarca577 Год назад

    Shallon, you look absolutely beautiful in these shoots, both the light and the dark personas. Bravo! I will check out the course prices, it sounds juicy. Thanks for everything you do.

  • @mandymasters6610
    @mandymasters6610 Год назад +1

    YESSSSS!!!! It’s evil week!!!!

  • @MalloryNewcomb
    @MalloryNewcomb Год назад

    YESSS she’s back! ❤

  • @pannadekadencja
    @pannadekadencja Год назад

    Oh, BTW I was thinking I'm light, u made me realized I'm mostly dark with light side to me around people I feel safe enough to share it with, which often comes as surprise

  • @kristinanikolovska8284
    @kristinanikolovska8284 Год назад +9

    I adore you!!! For the last two years listening to you has been life changing Keep killing it girl!!!!! Only channel I follow I think lol

  • @WesleyLindsey
    @WesleyLindsey Год назад +3

    Evil week is here!! 😈🎉🎉🎉

  • @faeray1016
    @faeray1016 Год назад +1

    Evil Week. LETS GO. 🔥🔮💎👑⚡🐍🌑

  • @VSFutureModel
    @VSFutureModel Год назад +1

    SO EXCITED FOR THIS SERIES

  • @bluecollarlit
    @bluecollarlit Год назад

    The background!
    It's mysterious, I'm like - is this a room in her house, or what?

  • @susansmith7804
    @susansmith7804 Год назад

    Wonderful video, love the different characters Shallon is playing! I too was the peacekeeper in my house growing up, and it has been difficult to let go of the masculine side, but I'm trying. This has definitely helped! Much love Shallon! 💜

  • @sherryelebeauty
    @sherryelebeauty Год назад

    I Love you, Shallon! You're right. I totally feel what you're saying. Hugs

  • @jenni230
    @jenni230 Год назад +1

    Wow you look amazing Shallon!

  • @jenrosecreed
    @jenrosecreed Год назад +1

    This is awesome, I'm here for it too!

  • @evereve1
    @evereve1 Год назад

    This are facts. 👏 Shallon knows. Thanks for this video❤

  • @pannadekadencja
    @pannadekadencja Год назад +3

    Just when I'm starting to embrace my femininity ❤

  • @marta17_gustavsson
    @marta17_gustavsson Год назад

    Yes! I love you so much for this Shallon!

  • @QuiietHeart
    @QuiietHeart Год назад

    i’m so excited for this

  • @SharonBurc
    @SharonBurc Год назад +1

    Shallon, you are like a fine wine ❤

  • @marim5620
    @marim5620 Год назад +2

    I really needed this video! Thank you shallon

  • @christinewhuang
    @christinewhuang Год назад +1

    LOVE YOU QUEEEEN!❤

  • @1984watchr
    @1984watchr Год назад

    Shallon you look beautiful in this video!! this look suits you.

  • @lauraosswald5812
    @lauraosswald5812 Год назад +7

    My JAW DROPPED when I saw you, you’re actually so beautiful Shallon ❤️

  • @violetaine
    @violetaine Год назад +1

    You're amazing Shallon. You inspire me so much!

  • @Idkdraydyn
    @Idkdraydyn Год назад

    Wow Shallon you look absolutely STUNNING ❤

  • @hannahpelt3224
    @hannahpelt3224 Год назад +1

    Shallon, you look AMAZING! 😍