my seduction icon is Cher! she was a tiny, skinny, flat chested, big nosed woman (like myself) and she was the hottest in the room, proud of her body, not apologetic at all. oh, i love Cher so much.
I LOVED her old nose. I looked up to Cher getting up. I thought her nose was so beautiful and regal. Wish she would have kept it. They all get nose jobs. No one wants to represent us women who have noses with character.
Wasn't it Joe DiMaggio whose last words were, "I can't wait to see my Marylin," before he died? He was madly in love with her to his dying day! She was great at what she did! Unforgettable beauty!!
I agree on everything you said about Monica Bellucci. She’s the epitome of class, femininity and effortless elegance and I think she’s an incredible idol to look up to when we need inspiration on all of those things.
I think Elizabeth Moss' character June Osborne in The Handmaid's Tale is such an amazing example of using seduction as a means of survival. There's something so "unintentionally" sensual about her voice, it's feminine but holds so much tension and conviction. Just like you said Shallon, it's about slowing down the pace to command attention.
The getting slower and slower ahahahhah I laughed so hard. Not only do you bring so much wisdom to your videos, you are also bloody hilarious! And the accents!!!!! Love you Shallon !!
My seductive archetype is Jane Seymour. She released this book in the 90’s called ‘ Guide To Romantic Living’ and it’s basically about how she set herself up to live the most romantic sensual life possible. That had a huge influence on me when I was like… 8. I’ll never forget the story about how she had an audition, and she went in wearing a hat with her hair pinned beneath it. Then when she pulled the hat off she pulled out the pin so her long hair tumbled down, and the audition guys eyes glassed over. You should check it out sometime Shallon I know you’d love it
@@lillys2988 It’s basically an autobiography, only the theme is how she was first raised to live a romantic life, then how she worked to cultivate one for herself after. She was so determined to live out all these fantasies from the movies she was in that she bought herself a castle called St Catherine’s and renovated it to every room was palatial and to her taste. There’s lots of advice in there on how to feel sensual, and to make the most of every occasion, and how to dress up every day to be your own main character. Lots of relationship, marital and even child rearing advice, and the whole thing is full of these stunning pictures she took, while she was interpreting cosplay into her every day life. It’s quite amazing that she published this over 30 years ago, back when romanticizing ones life was the least of anyone’s priorities. I got it so young I could only look at the pictures, but even that had an impact on me, and as I grew older and learned to read it, I became even more obsessed. My kids will tell you that I try to do the same thing now, even without her money :)
@@SKMunt nice to meet you then😅 It helped me romanticize life before tiktok ever coined this term and become more feminine. She talked about things that femininity channels talk about nowadays. Truly ahead of her time. Jane Seymore is a treasure! Beautiful, intelligent and talented. I'm obsessed. It makes me sad that she got a divorce from the husband she talked about in that book. She really believed that one was forever.
I love you girl! I can’t tell you how many times Your videos have prevented me from doing something ridiculous… Thank you for helping me preserve my integrity
For the ladies who are saying this is fake, gimmicky or can't last, you are wrong and here's why. People think it's an act that doesn't last long, but this is just coming from jaded cynicism. I've tried the "act" time and time again with 100% success. To the point of unwanted stalking. The guys knew my real personality. The fact is, once they are enamoured with you, and the real you gradually seeps out, they feel almost lucky that they were the *special* one who you exposed yourself to. "You" are like a russian doll, a fortune cookie with something sweet written inside. The layers of you is part of the seduction! You don't have to adjust your real essence in any way at ALL. If you have a smart seductive front, the real you is an extension of that. It is a uniqueness and your ultimate advantage! The truth is, people are so easy to love! Think of how many coworkers, friends, celebrities that you LOVE because of their quirks. Everyone has a seductive form tailored to their natural persona. Duh. But "wrapping" is important too. Someone might not give the real you the time of day. But if you present yourself as an enigma, then they get to know you, they truly and deeply believe there is NO one else like you, even if you have the most basic and flat personality in the world.
my seductive icons are from the world of Indian cinema - Madhuri Dixit and Sushmita Sen being my favorites! Gorgeous, charming actresses that knew how to mesmerize their audiences
“Men model their seductive characters off their mothers”. I’ve never felt this so hard. My boyfriend literally says that I literally remind him of his mother, we’re both Scorpios, hella crazy and loud, but we’re also strong and get shit done 🤘🏻
You forgot the most important characteristic of the coquette. It’s one I know well. It’s the hot and cold, the emotional withdrawal. Leave them wanting more. Anyone can master these traits, and should. You’re a bit of coquette also!
When I think of seduction I think of Lana Del Rey she really got that down to a T in my opnion. In her earlier days of her music career she was more of a Coquette type rather than a Siren that she is now I think, because she basically emaluted in her debut era in her music video of 'National Anthem', Marilyn Monroe and had the looks of Prisiclla Presley during the 'Born To Die' era. She still is a Siren type to me till this day.
Thank you so much Shallon. I’ve been watching your RUclips videos for three years now every morning, the minute I wake up. You’ve been such a huge help and support. I really needed to watch this today. I absolutely love Monica Bellucci. My sensual women have always been Monica Bellucci, Angelina Jolie, Salma Hayek and Marilyn Monroe.
For me Marilyn is the most special and beautiful actress of all time. It was the way she was her natural beauty really did come through and her innocence and showing her vulnerability made her so attractive and loved by everyone. I think acting feminine is always what men want, especially old fashioned and good men. For me Marilyn, Jean Harlow, Garbo and Joan Crawford had the perfect style. All today's stars are off putting Miley, the Kardashians etc. There is just no mystery to these women which makes them less appealing. Also wow that John Mayer story 😂 you're so funny and beautiful btw💗
You are so freakin hilarious Shallon! I found myself lol while listing at work. Hopefully my Bluetooth never fails while listening in the office. Especially during evil week!
Shallon you have a gift for making complex ideas accessible to regular people. Robert Greene is great I love the 48 laws of power. But the original and the best guide to strategic power play is Machiavelli's Prince. Although it is a much harder read, it is pretty dense unlike Greene's book which is also requires deep study but in relation it is clear and practical. I have this cool edition of the Prince that has commentary by Napoleon Bonaparte. I think you would really love this edition Shallon! A lot of it is really underhanded but as I'm sure you will agree these are things one needs to know, if not to use them oneself, at least it arms one with the knowledge of know how a really calculating opponent might think.
Shallon, I'm 20, almost 21 and initially when I found you it triggered me. But over time watching you has given me so much power. True power that makes me feel capable and audacious. I feel so much in my element when I watch you. It's not for everyone but it can do wonders if you keep an open mind. I'm glad I found this stuff so young because I see women well into their 20s and 30s giving and giving and not utilising their power..my own mother who is 52 benefits from whatever I share with her from your videos
Hey! Psychologist right here 👋🏻 I've been watching lots of your videos lately and was amazed by your charm and energetic vibe! Of course I noticed your narcissistic personality traits but it's good to know that you've recognized that for yourself too. Very fun to watch your videos though
This is gonna sound crazy, but Elvira from Scarface. The low, slow, seductive voice and manner of speech. Her eye contact and the way she moved. Ok, so she was a drug user, but even she had standards! Tony had to come to her correct.
She did that because she was bored and high all the time. She didn’t work or do anything and she was a kept woman for a drug dealer. She was supposed to be bland she came from a garbage city (Baltimore) looking for excitement and Tony liked her because he was trying to fit in with Americans by dating a blonde white woman. That was the whole point of the movie- that Tony and Manner were trashy and too dumb to pick up on class and manners. Easy to deceive.
JLo is not seductive, at all! She’s in the Miley Cyrus camp to me, just older. Her laugh is obnoxious, she’s always trying to get attention with lewd clothes (although appropriate for her job), and her urban vibe is far from feminine.
Bridgette Bardot and Audrey Hepburn…when I watch them, I see that they have a playful innocence about them, in the case of Audrey Hepburn she retains that sweetness into her old age. Audrey Tatou is another one (I’ve even been told I resemble her). There’s a carefree, child-like quality to these ladies that is also present in my own demeanor. Being seductive can feel abit awkward if you try to change your own demeanor to mimic someone like Monroe or Bellucci, so I try to find icons whose demeanors are abit closer to my own. The seduction process is still the same, whether one emulates the sensuous, mysterious Monica Bellucci or the carefree and innocent Audrey Hepburn. It’s calm, confident, deliberate and quietly sensual.
Oh, I just found your channel and learnt so much! I think I do the feast & famine but felt guilty when I wanted famine because I thought I was being lazy in that relationship. I should've been upfront about needing that break - what a great thing to learn for next time ☺️
this works for seducing but it wouldnt work for an actual relationship. as you said, we are not blank canvases and therefor if we allow a guy to project any desire he might have onto us, the relationship eventually ends once you cant continue the act of being whatever he wanted. Honestly its better to lead from the beggining with your natural personality and wait off until you find your true match, then you are buildung on a real foundation instead of all this games. They worked for me when I was like in high school and not interested in companionship
You are so right, a little be of game is sexy, but we have to show who we are since the very beggining, other wise we gonna become a mirror of a partner, also in sex, we gonna have to do whatever the John Meyers of this world want to in order to live up to their fantasies.
This is not true. I've tried the "act" time and time again with 100% success. To the point of unwanted stalking. The guys knew my real personality. The fact is, once they are enamoured with you, and the real you gradually seeps out, they feel almost lucky that they were the ones who you exposed yourself to. "You" are like a russian doll, a fortune cookie with something sweet written inside. The layers of you is part of the seduction! You don't have to adjust your real essence in any way. If you have a smart seductive front, the real you is an extension of that. It is a uniqueness and your ultimate advantage! The truth is, people are so easy to love! Think of how many coworkers, friends, celebrities that you love because of their quirks. Everyone has a seductive form tailored to their natural persona. Duh. But "wrapping" is important too. Someone might not give the real you the time of day. But if you present yourself as an enigma, then they get to know you, they truly and deeply believe there is NO one else like you, even if you have the most basic and flat personality in the world.
@@wurlycurlygirly I am not even exaggerating but you completely changed my mind. The way in which you described it makes absolute sense. Thank you for the comment.
I ran into your video by accident , your personality is absolutely irresistable , i love it , i think seduction is also being most authentic yourself , and you are just that.🌼
Thank you Shallon for your video, you always inspire me and motivate me to become my best self 💕. I remember the first time seeing Monica Bellucci in a movie - it was in Asterix and Obelix and she was playing Cleopatra and at that time I was still a child but I was like, when I grow up I want to become her. And you are an icon to me, too ⭐️.
I've watched every Marilyn movie and when was she at her most sexy? Her last full length feature, the Misfits. You'd think she'd be going downhill by then but not at all, she got better with age.
You are my spirit animal :) My whole life I have said, "more is more." Thanks for your love and evil, darling! My seducer type is the "Charmer," and my partner of 11 years is probably the "Ideal Lover." He is always sincere, and I seduce with humour, appropriate behaviour, and inappropriate eye-contact.
Omg! I just found you tonight and you made me laugh so much….I adore you, I want you to be my spirt animal. Wonderful Commentary, Brava Bella! Marilyn would be so proud of you 💋✨
Shallon! I just love you soo much 🤗❤️. You’re too talented, your impressions always drive your point straight home. I’m also genuinely terrified of married life cause I know Im going to want to consistently dip off by myself for like 2 weeks and I assume that would be frowned upon… or just inadvertently look suspicious 😩🤣
I think Britney Spears, at the height of her popularity, was a modern day Marilyn Monroe. Tons of mixing of effervescent innocence and complete sex in her overall image. People couldn't get enough of it and kept trying to define her as one or the other but she and her team did such a brilliant job at tapping into each of those sides.
Is this why I attract older men???? I tend to seem shy and very feminine…. And tend to look like a “good girl” I haven’t even realized it but I’ve been called that before too Lol
Oh, that's the “natural” type! I'm one as well. It usually comes off as naturally playful, naive and maybe a little childlike. There’s a certain “innocence” to it, that’s the charm. People who are attracted to that are either very businesslike or older, maybe a little jaded. They like the freshness and youthfulness, it cuts down their seriousness, makes them feel joyful. Older men are, well, old. They like feeling younger and more carefree.
I think someone who is spiralling into an anti-seductive role is Damiano David from Måneskin. He was a smoke-show during Måneskin's performance at Eurovision and even before that when he had longer hair, but now... he’s...messy. He’s becoming the male version of Miley Cyrus. The mystery is gone. Watch the mv for “Torna a Casa” and then the mv for “MAMMAMIA” and tell me I’m wrong.
Being thrown off by John Mayer and the comments you made about things he would “say to … young ladies” at parties with genuinely disturbed and disapproving look on your face had me cracking up at 1:30 am Promise I’m going to bed girl 🤪
My favorite seductive icon actress is Kim Cattrall from Sex and the City. She was in her 40s and still sexy and attractive. She was perfect for that role.
The great Cleopatra, if you look at her coins she wasn’t most traditionally attractive women, but she had most powerful men down on their knees, Why because she was smart. Cleopatra was so hated that her enemies turned into the great seductress (remember the conquerors write history.) I am not saying wasn’t a great seductress, but it wasn’t about her sex appeal, but her mind.
my seduction icon is Cher! she was a tiny, skinny, flat chested, big nosed woman (like myself) and she was the hottest in the room, proud of her body, not apologetic at all. oh, i love Cher so much.
i know right. too bad she’s supposedly very rude
I never focused on her nose, I think she's gorgeous, she plays out her eyes to the max. She's hypnotic. (I'm clearly not over Burlesque 🔥🔥🔥)
Cher is such a beauty and a powerhouse of a woman. Truly an icon. So much presence and confidence and uniqueness about her.
SAME
I LOVED her old nose. I looked up to Cher getting up. I thought her nose was so beautiful and regal. Wish she would have kept it. They all get nose jobs. No one wants to represent us women who have noses with character.
Wasn't it Joe DiMaggio whose last words were, "I can't wait to see my Marylin," before he died? He was madly in love with her to his dying day! She was great at what she did! Unforgettable beauty!!
Exactly, he said "I'll finally get to see Marilyn" 😭😭. Makes me cry.
@@JennyAnneV127But he beated her
I’d love you to make a video where you go over each of the 18 seductive archetypes. I love to hear you explain them!
Thiss plzzz
Marilyn Monroe is the perfect example of femininity is power
"So explain to me again why that fuckboy is too busy to text you back." I was not expecting THAT level of attack today. Damn
I agree on everything you said about Monica Bellucci. She’s the epitome of class, femininity and effortless elegance and I think she’s an incredible idol to look up to when we need inspiration on all of those things.
“When Billie was dressed like a sensuous Soviet spy” I can’t xD
I think Elizabeth Moss' character June Osborne in The Handmaid's Tale is such an amazing example of using seduction as a means of survival. There's something so "unintentionally" sensual about her voice, it's feminine but holds so much tension and conviction. Just like you said Shallon, it's about slowing down the pace to command attention.
Absolutely!
The getting slower and slower ahahahhah I laughed so hard. Not only do you bring so much wisdom to your videos, you are also bloody hilarious! And the accents!!!!! Love you Shallon !!
My seductive archetype is Jane Seymour. She released this book in the 90’s called ‘ Guide To Romantic Living’ and it’s basically about how she set herself up to live the most romantic sensual life possible. That had a huge influence on me when I was like… 8. I’ll never forget the story about how she had an audition, and she went in wearing a hat with her hair pinned beneath it. Then when she pulled the hat off she pulled out the pin so her long hair tumbled down, and the audition guys eyes glassed over.
You should check it out sometime Shallon I know you’d love it
Nicee! Can you give me a small summary? Or some more great examples?
@@lillys2988 It’s basically an autobiography, only the theme is how she was first raised to live a romantic life, then how she worked to cultivate one for herself after. She was so determined to live out all these fantasies from the movies she was in that she bought herself a castle called St Catherine’s and renovated it to every room was palatial and to her taste. There’s lots of advice in there on how to feel sensual, and to make the most of every occasion, and how to dress up every day to be your own main character. Lots of relationship, marital and even child rearing advice, and the whole thing is full of these stunning pictures she took, while she was interpreting cosplay into her every day life.
It’s quite amazing that she published this over 30 years ago, back when romanticizing ones life was the least of anyone’s priorities. I got it so young I could only look at the pictures, but even that had an impact on me, and as I grew older and learned to read it, I became even more obsessed. My kids will tell you that I try to do the same thing now, even without her money :)
Her book changed my life.
I don't think I've ever met anyone else who's read it!
@@SKMunt nice to meet you then😅
It helped me romanticize life before tiktok ever coined this term and become more feminine. She talked about things that femininity channels talk about nowadays. Truly ahead of her time.
Jane Seymore is a treasure! Beautiful, intelligent and talented. I'm obsessed.
It makes me sad that she got a divorce from the husband she talked about in that book. She really believed that one was forever.
I love you girl! I can’t tell you how many times Your videos have prevented me from doing something ridiculous… Thank you for helping me preserve my integrity
For the ladies who are saying this is fake, gimmicky or can't last, you are wrong and here's why.
People think it's an act that doesn't last long, but this is just coming from jaded cynicism.
I've tried the "act" time and time again with 100% success. To the point of unwanted stalking.
The guys knew my real personality. The fact is, once they are enamoured with you, and the real you gradually seeps out, they feel almost lucky that they were the *special* one who you exposed yourself to. "You" are like a russian doll, a fortune cookie with something sweet written inside. The layers of you is part of the seduction! You don't have to adjust your real essence in any way at ALL.
If you have a smart seductive front, the real you is an extension of that. It is a uniqueness and your ultimate advantage! The truth is, people are so easy to love! Think of how many coworkers, friends, celebrities that you LOVE because of their quirks. Everyone has a seductive form tailored to their natural persona. Duh.
But "wrapping" is important too. Someone might not give the real you the time of day. But if you present yourself as an enigma, then they get to know you, they truly and deeply believe there is NO one else like you, even if you have the most basic and flat personality in the world.
my seductive icons are from the world of Indian cinema - Madhuri Dixit and Sushmita Sen being my favorites! Gorgeous, charming actresses that knew how to mesmerize their audiences
“Men model their seductive characters off their mothers”. I’ve never felt this so hard. My boyfriend literally says that I literally remind him of his mother, we’re both Scorpios, hella crazy and loud, but we’re also strong and get shit done 🤘🏻
You forgot the most important characteristic of the coquette. It’s one I know well. It’s the hot and cold, the emotional withdrawal. Leave them wanting more. Anyone can master these traits, and should. You’re a bit of coquette also!
When I think of seduction I think of Lana Del Rey she really got that down to a T in my opnion. In her earlier days of her music career she was more of a Coquette type rather than a Siren that she is now I think, because she basically emaluted in her debut era in her music video of 'National Anthem', Marilyn Monroe and had the looks of Prisiclla Presley during the 'Born To Die' era. She still is a Siren type to me till this day.
Thank you so much Shallon. I’ve been watching your RUclips videos for three years now every morning, the minute I wake up. You’ve been such a huge help and support. I really needed to watch this today. I absolutely love Monica Bellucci. My sensual women have always been Monica Bellucci, Angelina Jolie, Salma Hayek and Marilyn Monroe.
For me Marilyn is the most special and beautiful actress of all time. It was the way she was her natural beauty really did come through and her innocence and showing her vulnerability made her so attractive and loved by everyone.
I think acting feminine is always what men want, especially old fashioned and good men.
For me Marilyn, Jean Harlow, Garbo and Joan Crawford had the perfect style.
All today's stars are off putting Miley, the Kardashians etc. There is just no mystery to these women which makes them less appealing.
Also wow that John Mayer story 😂 you're so funny and beautiful btw💗
I would have love to see you all dressed up as Marilyn, i think it would suit you very well!
You are so freakin hilarious Shallon! I found myself lol while listing at work. Hopefully my Bluetooth never fails while listening in the office. Especially during evil week!
"John Mayer will come out the woodwork!" lmao, You are hilarious! I will be reading your book(s)
I was actually waiting for another upload. Thank you for coming through Shallon 🥰
I love when you talk to us like we're best friends or something
I’m obsessed with Shallon “see these hips, yea they’re made to carry babies but I’m gonna lay on top of you and love you” hahaha
I'll never stop being in awe of your acting skills, Shallon
Shallon you have a gift for making complex ideas accessible to regular people. Robert Greene is great I love the 48 laws of power. But the original and the best guide to strategic power play is Machiavelli's Prince. Although it is a much harder read, it is pretty dense unlike Greene's book which is also requires deep study but in relation it is clear and practical. I have this cool edition of the Prince that has commentary by Napoleon Bonaparte. I think you would really love this edition Shallon! A lot of it is really underhanded but as I'm sure you will agree these are things one needs to know, if not to use them oneself, at least it arms one with the knowledge of know how a really calculating opponent might think.
Shallon, I'm 20, almost 21 and initially when I found you it triggered me. But over time watching you has given me so much power. True power that makes me feel capable and audacious. I feel so much in my element when I watch you. It's not for everyone but it can do wonders if you keep an open mind. I'm glad I found this stuff so young because I see women well into their 20s and 30s giving and giving and not utilising their power..my own mother who is 52 benefits from whatever I share with her from your videos
Hey! Psychologist right here 👋🏻 I've been watching lots of your videos lately and was amazed by your charm and energetic vibe! Of course I noticed your narcissistic personality traits but it's good to know that you've recognized that for yourself too. Very fun to watch your videos though
IDK how I stumbled on your channel but I have LITERALLY found my FAVORITE channel! Yes yes yessss to all the things!!! 🙌🙏👌🥰
Marilyn is one of my favorite classics! Glad I could be early to this video!
This is gonna sound crazy, but Elvira from Scarface. The low, slow, seductive voice and manner of speech. Her eye contact and the way she moved. Ok, so she was a drug user, but even she had standards! Tony had to come to her correct.
She did that because she was bored and high all the time. She didn’t work or do anything and she was a kept woman for a drug dealer. She was supposed to be bland she came from a garbage city (Baltimore) looking for excitement and Tony liked her because he was trying to fit in with Americans by dating a blonde white woman. That was the whole point of the movie- that Tony and Manner were trashy and too dumb to pick up on class and manners. Easy to deceive.
i have to say this is one of your best videos! not only was the advice great but you also had me dying of laughter half the time.
JLo is not seductive, at all! She’s in the Miley Cyrus camp to me, just older. Her laugh is obnoxious, she’s always trying to get attention with lewd clothes (although appropriate for her job), and her urban vibe is far from feminine.
I agree ☝️ but I still think she is fire 🔥.
Agree to disagree. Jlo is sexy classy while Monica is more like elegant classy.
agree af. shes so awkward and i mean... in 2024- shes a total flop.
Bridgette Bardot and Audrey Hepburn…when I watch them, I see that they have a playful innocence about them, in the case of Audrey Hepburn she retains that sweetness into her old age. Audrey Tatou is another one (I’ve even been told I resemble her). There’s a carefree, child-like quality to these ladies that is also present in my own demeanor. Being seductive can feel abit awkward if you try to change your own demeanor to mimic someone like Monroe or Bellucci, so I try to find icons whose demeanors are abit closer to my own. The seduction process is still the same, whether one emulates the sensuous, mysterious Monica Bellucci or the carefree and innocent Audrey Hepburn. It’s calm, confident, deliberate and quietly sensual.
God I freaking love you! You smart smart genius of a woman!
Bought Art of Seduction and this is hands down the best book purchase, every woman should own…love it ❤️
shallon.. pls never stop making videos! i live by these videos
*Enjoying this channel as I organize my perfume bottles and laundry*
I love how you explain things Shallon
The impersonations in this were perfectly amazing ❤️
Hahaha, I had a good time laughing when Shallon made parodies of people 😅
Oh, I just found your channel and learnt so much! I think I do the feast & famine but felt guilty when I wanted famine because I thought I was being lazy in that relationship. I should've been upfront about needing that break - what a great thing to learn for next time ☺️
this works for seducing but it wouldnt work for an actual relationship. as you said, we are not blank canvases and therefor if we allow a guy to project any desire he might have onto us, the relationship eventually ends once you cant continue the act of being whatever he wanted.
Honestly its better to lead from the beggining with your natural personality and wait off until you find your true match, then you are buildung on a real foundation instead of all this games.
They worked for me when I was like in high school and not interested in companionship
You are so right, a little be of game is sexy, but we have to show who we are since the very beggining, other wise we gonna become a mirror of a partner, also in sex, we gonna have to do whatever the John Meyers of this world want to in order to live up to their fantasies.
This is not true. I've tried the "act" time and time again with 100% success. To the point of unwanted stalking.
The guys knew my real personality. The fact is, once they are enamoured with you, and the real you gradually seeps out, they feel almost lucky that they were the ones who you exposed yourself to. "You" are like a russian doll, a fortune cookie with something sweet written inside. The layers of you is part of the seduction! You don't have to adjust your real essence in any way.
If you have a smart seductive front, the real you is an extension of that. It is a uniqueness and your ultimate advantage! The truth is, people are so easy to love! Think of how many coworkers, friends, celebrities that you love because of their quirks. Everyone has a seductive form tailored to their natural persona. Duh.
But "wrapping" is important too. Someone might not give the real you the time of day. But if you present yourself as an enigma, then they get to know you, they truly and deeply believe there is NO one else like you, even if you have the most basic and flat personality in the world.
@@wurlycurlygirly I am not even exaggerating but you completely changed my mind. The way in which you described it makes absolute sense. Thank you for the comment.
You slay as an actress/comedienne I must say! Wow I haven't laughed that hard in a while!
I ran into your video by accident , your personality is absolutely irresistable , i love it , i think seduction is also being most authentic yourself , and you are just that.🌼
Excited to watch, Marilyn is my beauty inspo, in fashion makeup etc
This episode was genius 👌🏽
Thank you Shallon for your video, you always inspire me and motivate me to become my best self 💕.
I remember the first time seeing Monica Bellucci in a movie - it was in Asterix and Obelix and she was playing Cleopatra and at that time I was still a child but I was like, when I grow up I want to become her. And you are an icon to me, too ⭐️.
This was the best and most fun video!!! Loved the extra stories!
Aaahh! You talked about Mónica Belluci! She is my female icon
Monica is my favorite as well
The siren is a combination of all of types of seduction types
Damn, Shallon. You’re smart.
Hey, you give me something i missed in the youtube community: PERSONALITY, THANK YOU ICON
you talk so passionately about this, I love it!
I've watched every Marilyn movie and when was she at her most sexy? Her last full length feature, the Misfits. You'd think she'd be going downhill by then but not at all, she got better with age.
I'm dying at "The dick goes in here!!!" 🤣
Love how you breakdown things. All well said!
Loved this series! ❤️
Comes to my mind, one thing Marilyn said: your clothes should be tight enough it shows you're a woman but loose enough it shows you're a Lady
sometimes i feel like i cant deal any more with my issues, but than i hear the jhon mayer story again and there is a reason to keep going.
Shallon you're so funny 🤣
You are just so hilarious! I love you ❤️
Hahaha love this. You’re so funny. I enjoy listening to you! Thank you ❤
You are just fantastic !!! Shallon
lol shallon you're so funny! this is better than a netflix show
I think this is your best video yet. The kind I’m saving to watch again, bravo 👏
You are my spirit animal :) My whole life I have said, "more is more." Thanks for your love and evil, darling! My seducer type is the "Charmer," and my partner of 11 years is probably the "Ideal Lover." He is always sincere, and I seduce with humour, appropriate behaviour, and inappropriate eye-contact.
Omg! I just found you tonight and you made me laugh so much….I adore you, I want you to be my spirt animal. Wonderful Commentary, Brava Bella! Marilyn would be so proud of you 💋✨
Shallon! I just love you soo much 🤗❤️. You’re too talented, your impressions always drive your point straight home. I’m also genuinely terrified of married life cause I know Im going to want to consistently dip off by myself for like 2 weeks and I assume that would be frowned upon… or just inadvertently look suspicious 😩🤣
I like your video. What you said makes a lot of sense and you make me laugh.
I think Britney Spears, at the height of her popularity, was a modern day Marilyn Monroe. Tons of mixing of effervescent innocence and complete sex in her overall image. People couldn't get enough of it and kept trying to define her as one or the other but she and her team did such a brilliant job at tapping into each of those sides.
Omg 😱 TRUE
I just found you and I can not get enough!!!!!!
Is this why I attract older men???? I tend to seem shy and very feminine…. And tend to look like a “good girl” I haven’t even realized it but I’ve been called that before too Lol
Oh, that's the “natural” type! I'm one as well. It usually comes off as naturally playful, naive and maybe a little childlike. There’s a certain “innocence” to it, that’s the charm. People who are attracted to that are either very businesslike or older, maybe a little jaded. They like the freshness and youthfulness, it cuts down their seriousness, makes them feel joyful. Older men are, well, old. They like feeling younger and more carefree.
@@mgr3969 I agree with this comment completely.
I love the empowerment! Yes! It's time to change old behaviours that have no purpose!! Shallon Empowerment Sessions! It's Evil!!!
amazing video Shallon
I think someone who is spiralling into an anti-seductive role is Damiano David from Måneskin. He was a smoke-show during Måneskin's performance at Eurovision and even before that when he had longer hair, but now... he’s...messy. He’s becoming the male version of Miley Cyrus. The mystery is gone. Watch the mv for “Torna a Casa” and then the mv for “MAMMAMIA” and tell me I’m wrong.
Shallon you’re too funny I love you 😂❤️
A lot of very good points made in this video 👍🏼
Men who have girlfriend goes for woman who seem easy to sleep with, and woman that are mean to other woman. They feel your competitive energy
OMG THAT INTERVIEW COMMENT WAS ME LMFAO OMG!!!!!! yes i love both u & robert!!!
I knew it from the beginning in the age of nudity we have to be sensual to win 🤣
Excellent analysis.
Being thrown off by John Mayer and the comments you made about things he would “say to … young ladies” at parties with genuinely disturbed and disapproving look on your face had me cracking up at 1:30 am
Promise I’m going to bed girl 🤪
It’s always so fun to hear your stories and your bluntness, love yah girl
"Sex was always the best with Joe."
-Marilyn Monroe on Joe DiMaggio
An ugly guy, but still a professional athlete and Italian, haha.
He was a legend when he retired from baseball.
My favorite seductive icon actress is Kim Cattrall from Sex and the City. She was in her 40s and still sexy and attractive. She was perfect for that role.
I admire you so much Shallon, I could listen to you all day.
*This is embarrassing. I do this a lot* I feel so exposed, right now. I didn't realise I was using my trauma. Ewww...
Dont feel embarrassed--we can't change what we don't acknowledge. Learn to turn that "weakness" into a weapon.
You're so funny lmaooo
The great Cleopatra, if you look at her coins she wasn’t most traditionally attractive women, but she had most powerful men down on their knees, Why because she was smart. Cleopatra was so hated that her enemies turned into the great seductress (remember the conquerors write history.) I am not saying wasn’t a great seductress, but it wasn’t about her sex appeal, but her mind.
the segment at 12:00 had me cracking up 😂
Oof you nailed this.
I agree. Jennifer Lopez is beautiful and sexy but she doesn't ooze sexuality.
you are the best 👌
Nice video
Charlize Theron is my all-time favourite, she is like a deity to me.
she got me taking notes lol.. i have at least 20 something notes or 20 jus of dis 37 min vid
Shallon you’re the fucking best 🙌🏾
My seductive icons r Marylin Monroe, Pamela Anderson Lee, & Anna Nicole Smith
Just bought the art of seduction ❤
My favourite book of all time
i love the fact she's strategic, with seduction it's different