What tips can you give an ISFP to be successful? | ISFP self improvement | CS Joseph Responds
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- CS Joseph responds and explores ISFP self improvement answering what tips can you give an ISFP to be successful?
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As an ISFP who’s 17 i’ve always been really stubborn and always had a strong desire to do what i want. Like my parents would’ve wanted me to study law school since my mom’s a lawyer and i would’ve had it easier. I told them from the start i refuse to do anything else but interior design/architecture and maybe even fashion design or singing. She wasn’t happy but since i refused to even try anything else she had no choice but support it. I always gave the side eye to my friends who let their parents choose their careers or do something they absolutely despise just to make them happy. Like i love my parents as well but i wouldn’t compromise my life like that. Like what’s the point of making everyone else happy if you ain’t happy yourself
To address your last point, it's called Fe, honey.
A healthy Fe I suppose, that is you become happy when you make others happy by servings their needs(to the point of self sacrifice).
Any successful society cannot function without it.
Probably any Fi dom difficult to understand this concept.
@@honor9lite1337 ok but i still don’t get the point of being something u don’t want to be just for pleasing other ppl. Like what’s the point of becoming a lawyer just bcuz my parents would be happier than if i were a designer. In fact it’s my life my future and my happiness. Other ppl might call it selfish but i call it being smart and authentic. My grandma(ESFJ and mom(ISFJ) and 2 best friends( one is ISFJ and the other one isESFJ) always call me self absorbed simply bcuz i know what i want and while i care about pleasing ppl i don’t do it to a point of sacrificing myself too much. Like my grandma always talks about how all her life she only did what made other ppl happy at her own expense about how she always cared about what other ppl think of her and always chose her life based on what make other ppl happy .same did my mom. Like they always treat ppl well even though those ppl treated them like crap for the sake of”mantaining relationships” while i am not necessary rude if i had enough of someone i say nothing and just leave pretending i don’t even know them. Like just ignoring their existance
@@Moana_moo Unfortunately to say, but that is how Fe work.
definitely
Don’t worry. I don’t understand it either. My excuse is that I’m in growing pains of my life. Maybe one day I will embrace my Fe more lol.
I’m an Isfp and this was so helpful! In the past I have lost jobs for lack of caring about them. Even the best, most well paying job I could’ve dreamed of that had all the benefits I thought I wanted, it wasn’t enough. I couldn’t get myself to care. I knew I was slipping with my attendance and workmanship. Colleagues and friends were like WHY?? And the only answer I had was “I just don’t care about this job”. I’m working on ideas of what to do next and this video gave some really good pointers on self reflection. Thank you!
Do you like intj men?
I’m typed INFP but I get this too. It’s so hard to even CARE. Most people won’t get it because they’re motivated by money and social obligation I think.
@t-man5196
Why would an intj man want to be with an isfp woman?
I'm Isfp and that really relates to me. If I can't see a purpose, a future or importance to something I have to do, I'm gonna do nothing about this, don't matter how "important" (or how people say how important) it could be. And I actually don't care about a lot of things, so… ya know. Idleness.
At the end of the video, when you talked about the isfp leadership, somehow I understood why I've always taken the leadership of my past school group works (in an almost instinctive way). Even when it was overwhelming to me, I loved, LOVED to be on that position of management, giving ideas, finding solutions, delegating tasks etc. It was always a strange desire to me, but I really wanted to be a leader in some way. I have to discover more about it. Thank you.
Let's be real, we're dying alone. -INTJ
Tbh I love being alone be free and it is just not worth it to be with someone but u know the "community" doesnt like it
Nooo stop hiding from me intjs
i like you guys. you guys are cool
-istp
@@hardlybreathe93 Thanks bro, you too.
Nah Look at Jay Z.
As an ISFP, every mmo I’ve ever played, I was a guild leader. I enjoyed making the calls. If it reached a point in the game where my guild wanted to merge and I would lose leadership in that merge, I started backing out of that game lol. Super selfish but I don’t like being ruled over. My parents always warned me that no matter what I do in life, I’ll always have a boss. It was slightly infuriating to accept that truth. I intend on becoming a teacher / orchestra director. It should give me a small measure of the autonomy that I want. I remember when I was younger, I would pull all nighters easily to finish an art project or finish writing a piece of music. Once I’m motivated, I will plow through the work with little regard to eating or sleeping xD But at the same time, motivation can disappear easily and the most painful thing is, I have to be self motivated. No one else can motivate me. Though I did have a teacher, whom I suspect was an ESFJ, whom I absolutely adored and was willing to work for. They gave good constructive criticism and always gave lots of encouragement. They made time for all their students that wanted to work individually. They always built students up. They’re what made me want to become a teacher.
This is totally on point! Thanks for the advice! The caring and leadership part resonates heavily with me. One day will you give some advice to ISFPs who enjoy academia and who are in the field of education? - ISFP female
Its really hard to concentrate at what you are saying, had to rewind like 10 times, shes just so cute!
Yes!
notice how he's petting his cat throughout the whole video knowing that he's talking to ISFPs who love to see people caring about other people or animals :P
Love these respond videos!
I am thankful
Just what I needed as an ISFP very epic thank you bruh xd 👌😂
One of the most precious 11.42 minutes in my life.
Thank you so much. From an ISFP.
Works for all types: articulation of desires + confidence + hard work
I think the title is wrong
As an ISFP, I've been determined to become an airline pilot since age 7. That was 11 years ago and I'm still on this road, this is what Ni child carong about sg looks like
That is so true.. I have never seen a more truthful video
Leadership? No. They lead just fine. They are quite adorable when they get people under them that want to be there. They have a little trouble firing people, but they move on okay. Their trouble is putting up with being an employee long enough to get the money to go off on their own. Like all artists, they do best when they get themselves a patron as soon as possible.
Wow, as an isfp I do not relate to being lazy on the job. Since I am 18, I have gotten or been offered a promotion at almost every job. I just got a promotion at the job I've been at 7 years, over others who had more technical experience, because of my integrity and passion on the job. I detest laziness and chatting on the job. Im guessing thats a Fi-Te loop that causes me to get completely irritated with people who dont care on the job and have low motivation or don't see the purpose in the job. That being said, I dont necessarily love my job. But I see the why behind what I bring to the table.
i am very indecisive and have a debilitating feeling of being incapable. leadership scares me. i have no passions that will get me anywhere in life. i’m not creative like the stereotypical isfp. i would be upset with myself when i didn’t meet my goals to the point where i just stopped having them because i prioritized my feelings too much and didn’t want to have any unpleasant feelings.. i’m trying to gain some willpower and determination back. thanks for this video.
shocking to learn intj's can even get married
😂😂😂
Harsh 😭😂
Very well spoken man I appreciate the fuck out of this one. Nailed down exactly what a lot of us needed to hear. Imma have to rewatch this from time to time to get it to stick.
I love how you hug that little cat. It seems like you know that infp cats need this kind of affection and you give it to them 😂.
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While even if INFPs care, they stay lazy😿
Thank you. I needed this. I worry about judgement and what people think too much. Too much so it makes me idle and not make progress on the stuff I desire to do.. just lacking courage
Another good ISFP question: Why do they all die young?!
You're so right, just thinking about people Chase typed, there's Avicii (28), Aaliyah (22), XXXTentacion (20), Kobe Bryant (41)
@@ShadowQuik Not to mention other probable ISFPs like Elvis.
jesus christ asher you scared me with that question
@lili keea I hope not. I can say that I've wondered about it too. I think so many do because we let our Ni child run free and it ends up getting us in a bad situation. Which is really ironic. TBH I look forward to being old. Everyone thinks your smart when you have white hair.
@lili keea I wouldn't project who I am now on the person I could be in the future. Future you could be a completely different person.
Also that's a different generation's old people. Our generation is completely different.
My INTJ best friend loves ESFJ's as much as I do ENFP's
C.S.Joseph, could you explain or do a quick clip on why specifically leadership is critical to an ISFPs successful entrepreneurship? Or the explanation of the process of getting there and how that transpires in the isfp. Thank you.
Isfps as leaders really?
Glad I stumble on this video. Gave me an understanding why I've been so lack of interest in my work.
10:45 great advice that I needed right now. Thank you
I've been binging your videos, and I somehow still can't put it all together. I'm an INFP and I'd LOVE to get the INFP version of this video. Would really appreciate, thank you!
hi mr. Joseph my esfj golden pair is a gold digger, what should i do ?
Oh my god.....this is so helpful thank you
Theres a discrepancy between the video content and the title at the time of this comments posting
Title says: "Why are most INTj men married to an ESFJ woman". The video played is: "tips to help ISFPs be successful"
You are the only RUclipsr who gets Isfps. Others don’t and they also don’t like isfp type on paper.
What are the best careers for ISFP?
creative freedom is everything
Why do Ni optimistic types cheat the most?
Cause of their wantiness and Ne nemesis jumping to conclusions that the other partner betrayed them?
Dear cs, i think the title of this precious video needs a little change♥️
Ne-child can seem like Ne-hero perhaps, though that one ESFJ woman would have a ton of husbands. ;P
ISFP here. Tks, but I was actually expecting a video that talks about how to be a more mature ISFP, perhaps with real tips on how to become a more subconscious or unconscious-like person. 'Crush it' seems to be one of those useless books on 'follow your passion and you won't have to work one single day of your life'. C'mon, caring for something does not necessarily pay the bills, Joseph. You know that!! INFPs and ISFPs are the types with the lowest incomes, in contrast to their subconscious types. Following a personal passion and unrealistic perspectives has led both types to insufficient impact. Let's be honest here: a passion that nobody cares about is a hobby!! Our Te inferior needs meaningful advice, bro. You didn't prepare much for this one, did you?? Lol
Does it matter? Like why would i care tho lol
Watching the video for the 2nd time, still with no answers.
First View and Comment !!!
Isfp needs to be an entrepreneur
Decisionmaker
Less you care others opinions, more success
My best friend's idol was an INTJ. His crush was an ENTP. His love rival was another INTJ. And he didn't have any interest in typology. So I thought about how it must be that my best friend didn't know any better about his idol. But now it seems it was me who didn't know any better about relationship on typology lol.
Edit: My best friend was an ESFJ
> ESFJ guy
> Crush on an ENTP
oh no
Haha, Walter white and Skyler
Looool true
Is there a correlation between being an intj and having asperger's?
Asperger's is basically like having Fe-PoLR, and though there are Aspies of each type it would seem to fit both ISTJs (for the more tedious detail oriented variety of Aspie) and INTJs (for the more fixation based variety) better than types with more usable Fe.
@Plumpy Tomato @BenevolensPsittacorum
Thank you for your answers.
Then probably someone could be mistaken to have autism but they just have Fe-PoLR?
I recently discovered that I had been diagnosed as an Aspie as a kid. But my parents never told me. So I wondered if being an INTJ and a high functioning autist, was the same. And what should I do about it
You’re hilarious 😂 “some INFP is giving advice to other INFPs for some reason.” Very insightful advice. I could not reconcile my “bossiness” in certain projects with my usual attitude towards letting people do what they want. I have even been annoyed at others in projects that did not meet my same production level. Even your point on art...I used to love to create and draw and paint but my work never received as much praise or appreciation as the art of others in my class. It took the wind out of my sails where I lost motivation to paint because I felt like I wasn’t good enough. This is making me reevaluate that decision. Thank you 🙏🏼 for your advice! “Leadership and creativity”
ENTJ subconcious?
why are you posting these to your main channel now instead of your second channel?
I think it's cause this channel will no longer have lectures
@@runawaymusic8888 really? i hadn't heard about this. why?
Lectures are for members at csjoseph.life/members
Thanks for standing up for us intjs lol
So if an isfp needs to care, to succeed.. An intj just needs to "want" something to succeed?
Almost sounds like the Secret LOL
Is this the 'let Te critic rip' channel
Im definitely faithful when i love someone most likely i would break up if i dont care. when i was cheated on it made me not care about their feelings i went for revenge. Other than that i been good
my younger bro (isfp) has test coming up and im tutoring him the best i could. but idk if anything i do is working. its an exam where he can get a certificate equivalent to hs diploma. we have a month left and all he does is sleep and procastinate on it. i gave him advices and tips on how to atleast have a passable quota marks. he never had any motivations or goal in his life so idk if my (istp) estj shadow/infp supergo is doing anything but worse
Give him a reason to care. Make him care
Tell him if he does well you will give him a good amount of money, the amount he actually wants to have. Not too much but enough to motivate. Ni child wount move untill it wants to and money is always a good motivation for wayfarers.
@@Riiiiiingo not always but whatever. What if he already has the amount of money he wants?
@@Mugzchunch How? Do you just give him pocket money? Take it from him. If he wants money he has to work for it. Bad grades means no pocket money, no cool clothes, minimun care. A man has to be ale to support himself financially. If he can support himself then leave him alone if he cant take everything from him. Oh, and post on social media how terrrible he is.
@@Riiiiiingo Not everyone has strict parents.
Wow, I had Cernovich pegged as an ENTP! I guess I got to hit the books again...
I thought he's possibly a toxic ENTP
so ni positive cheat more, but at least speaking an ESTP is more a cheater in % than a ISTP, then why? I kinda get that NI positive move so faster but still ni inferior isn't worse? (and also why ni hero you say?) From an infp standpoint to find someone then is kinda sad i guess, bronze pairs ESTP and silvers infjs mh (golden i don't think would work)
Okay. So leadership is key to our happiness. Can you expand on this? Why is it so important to learn leadership to our happiness C.S Joseph? 🧐
Because your subconscious (a place where happiness resides) is ENTJ, a hardcore leader.
probably cuz u don't do well with rules and getting ordered around or hurried to do a task and you have a goal or a vision leaning towards creativity that you want to execute and feel like if you don't manage it yourself others will ruin it for you
A.J. Great point. Thank you!
5:10, 6:53
You’re so fucking adorable, Chase/INFP cat^-^
4:49 ;)
How to be productive and successful as an INTP ??
Up!
Not Mike Cernovich 🤦♀️
is weird to hear that intj woman can be that cheating
Well, crap.
So cute UwU
:3