Older People Give Life Advice
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We took to the streets of LA and London to ask that all important question, what advice would you give to your younger self?
In a modern day society that's filled with so much pressure, the common theme from our interviewees is to just stop being so afraid.
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You mistake is - you've asked people that look E✌️IL. It's THEM who've made the Earth this place. They don't deserve their fathers.
I came to realise they almost all of them talked about "Don't be scared." Omg that's what always holds me back.
it's an evolutionary trait to protect you
@@DITTOE but the mutation in evolution happens mostly from those very few who are not afraid and fight the odds 😉
No one gave examples so I have no idea whether they're a bunch of nerds who were scared of getting a motorcycle, or didn't have enough affairs. Could be anything.
It holds all of us back. It held all of us back. It takes until you are older to realize you shouldn't have been so afraid. It's hard.
How old are you ? Honestly don’t worry about things. Try loads of thing. And fail. That how you learn and grow as a person. Go out of your comfort zone. You be surprised how much you grow as a person
One thing I get from these videos is that when you are young take the opportunity to do things, don't let fear hold you back because when you get older you will regret that you never took the opportunity.
Absolutely!
Yes. Because when you're young EVERYTHING is an opportunity, and you come to believe that this is how it will always be! But this isn't the case...
Responsibilities. Illnesses. Finances, etc., have their way of upending things.
Imbfeeling that now at 36
Except if you're a potential serial killer of course. Then please hold yourself back and don't bring suffering onto the rest of us. 😂
I’m 33 yr old now and I feel like it’s too late for me
"spread my feathers and let my beauty shine" has me sobbing over my dinner potatoes
That was actually the least beneficial advice. So clichè
@@barbiechix1 so? that doesn't mean i can't appreciate it. lmao
@@barbiechix1 Negative much?
same
@@barbiechix1
Different advice works for different people. Grow tf up
I would NOT get married at such a young age (19), and if and when I did marry I would marry someone more emotionally and financially stable. The hardest and most important lesson I learned during my lifetime ( I'm 68) is how to say NO, I don't want to do that or NO I don't want that. Saying YES all the time so as not to hurt someone's feelings or to keep the peace is not healthy.
God bless you Sonny ❤
At 62 i can say, That my friend is so true.
In the end Everybody else is sooo peacefull and you are like a handgranate without a pin. To many misuse people who is allways giving and kind.
Every “yes” is a “no” to something or someone else. Usually yourself. Or at least, that has been my experience.
There is this book called "When I say NO, I feel guilty" It help me a lot; I became more confident and I stop trying to make everyone happy.
People high on agreeabless need assertiveness training
It all really boils down to these:
Stop fearing failure and be less risk averse.
Stop fearing others judgement of you and how you would look.
Stop turning down experiences and opportunities that may never come again.
Stop putting things off and end up never getting around to doing those things.
Stop worrying and overthinking things too much and have more fun cause we all die anyways in the end.
Stop worrying about tomorrow and be more in the present as tomorrow isn't promised.
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Mind if I screenshot this?
@William oh shit how did you know?! You are so smart man
I took the screenshot without even asking! And when I clicked ok comment section I found you guys taking permission to take screenshot!!
By the way, thank you sir for your precious advice.❤
Me too
In summary, key thing that most people have said is don’t be scared, let go of fear, don’t worry too much , have fun.
Need to remind myself often .
Yes🙌
Yes I hear a lot of fear from Americans
@@karlabritfeld7104 From Germans, too....
@@karlabritfeld7104 Americans? They are bold.
But I have anxiety about death😢
As a person with an anxiety disorder, I agree. So much of my life has been spent worrying about things, not taking opportunities, and saying no to a lot of things.
This actually helps a lot, I hope this can plant a seed in me to start getting out of my shell more.
This video found you for a reason, thank you for being here ❤️
Let this plant a seed in you. And remember to water that everyday! Good luck!
There you go you answered it
It's like that story, you have 2 warring wolves inside you, which one will win? The one you feed!
The worry wolf or the adventure
wolf?
One that I haven't heard is, "Learn to set boundaries and say 'no' to things you don't believe in." I wish that at work I had ignored the BS things they gave us teachers to do, and just focused on my own mental well-being and connecting with students to teach them as well as I could. Learn to separate the must-do's from the shoulds, and ignore the shoulds if they don't further your agenda.
AMEN!!!! I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE AND WISDOM WHOLE-HEARTEDLY, I ALSO WAS A TEACHER AND BECAUSE I DID NOT IGNORE THE BS, I ALLOWED IT TO AFFECT ME SEVERLY EMOTIONALLY AND I WAS EVENTUALLY DIAGNOSED WITH AN AUTOIMMUNE DISEASE. THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT I LEFT THE TOXIC WORK ENVIRONMENT AND HEALED MYSELF: HEALTHY, PEACEFUL MIND LEADS TO A HEALTHY BODY. OUR BODIES TRULY LIVE IN OUR MINDS.💚💛💚
Totally agree regarding the bs teachers are presented with. Let them teach in their own style!
I am a teacher but there are too many bs at school that makes me hate 'going to work'. But few days ago, I began to teach my students 'literally', I felt so happy. It feels right
P.S : I got work beyond teaching that not often got me skip the class or just give my students assignment. So when I comeback to the classroom, I am so happy
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My father (58) often says when I’m anxious about something stupid and ask him what to do: “don’t live so detailed” («не живите так подробно»), and it helps 😅
This is so interesting❤️
Don’t care what people think, live a great life, and be happy.
Straight up
@Dr Chris Grayson lol. Not on youtube though 😂
That's how serial killer and serial rapist born
Palma Mingozzi Sembra facile ma...
@@bottle1lack743 😂what language is this?!! 🤣🤣
I’m 62 and all I’d say to my younger self would be to have more confidence in myself and do what you love doing never doubt myself as anything yes anything is possible
I let go of many opportunities and careers thinking I was not cut out for that which I very much regret after seeing seeing that less competent people have succeeded in those fields
Believe in yourselves , never compare yourselves to others and persevere and you’ll be surprised
Self belief, always ❤️
Thank you, fear of failure is holding me back, I should now be indifferent and face failure and move on. The other guy is right, we're all going to die anyway, we don't know how soon, so I should just embrace the moment and not fearful of things that might never happen anyway.
I lack the confidence to do anything.
@@user-gl3vr5vm9r Imagine your best friend or a family member saying that to you. What would you say to him or her ? Yh just stay there and never try ? Give up or
Why don’t you make a start for a change and see where it takes you ?
You are your best and the only asset you have. Wherever you go and it’s you and you only. Be kind and nice to yourself, bless yourself with kindness and patience
At least you could sleep well and feel good about yourself that you tried. It’s a daily fight and we have to keep that going whether we like it or not. We are alive and reading these comments because our forefathers didn’t give up that easily and lived to see their lives through - we are the result of that
Keep going and God be with you !
I'm 100% aligned with it, go for things, it's better to fail and learn than having regrets
I’m a “no thanks” and over-thinking, anxious kinda person, slowly started saying yes a bit. Live your life, don’t ruin it for others on your way out. ❤
Keep going!💪
@@DoseofSociety Thank you
1. Think for youself
2. Put yourself first
3. Get and keep the money.
4. Dream but do also
5. Live as you believe
6. Never stop studying
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Never stop studying lmao 🤣🤣🤣
@@Elektrikkiss glad you liked it
Yes, yourself vs society is the most epic fight in life
Don’t be afraid says it all. My parents offered to send me to Granada uni in Spain as a 19yr old but being really shy I said no. Now as a 76 yr old I can genuinely say it’s been one of the biggest regrets of my life…….it was a doorway I should’ve gone thru. Don’t make the same mistake……go for it.
One final thought (added later on)……people in the video mention wasting emotional energy but it’s also worth bearing in mind that worrying is also physically exhausting; big time.
You don't know, if it really was a mistake. Don't think about it.
Always go for it - thank you for sharing❤️
Maybe still go there for a little break, then you'll see the place and make a few memories 🎉
Getting old is underrated. Theres so much to learn and experience in this world, and almost all of it makes you a better person each day
Love this❤️
Getting Old is also an incredibly huge blessing. Not everybody is lucky enough to live to be in their late 60s, 70s & 80s despite all the medical discoveries.
I needed that . Both parents passed, sometimes you need to hear such things.
💯 Stay winning
same here i was striving for security alot after that. but sometimes you need to hear that’s ok to take risks
So true! Something I remember my mom saying, "when you're dealing with personal relationship matters, blabbing about it is like, having a pot full of 💩 and stirring it with a wooden spoon & asking everyone to take a whiff." It really painted a picture. 😂
Hearing everyone talk about fear just reinforces the idea we all long for comfort and love. We’re all afraid of failing but failure is not our story. Great video
Thank you ❤️
That first woman spoke to me. I have really bad anxiety that has held me back in SO MANY things. I’ve cried so many times at the aspect of socializing, making big decisions, and cutting people off that made me lose a lot of opportunities and cost me my mental health. My mom says I need to “get over” my fear but it’s not that easy.
It’s getting better with therapy but I still struggle
I've also struggled with anxiety, and while I'm not quite where I want to be with it, it has gotten better. I have gradually challenged myself when it comes to doing the scary and overwhelming things and it has helped some. If you don't have the courage or energy to take big leaps, it is still good to challenge yourself in small ways.
Sometimes it is better to focus on what you can do rather than what you can't.
Thank you for sharing this, you have our full support - you are on the journey ❤️
How is therapy helping? Are you trying behavioral therapy or talk therapy? I would guess you must be doing some behavioral therapy. I wonder if Mel Robinsons 5 second rule would help? 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 let's do this
manicmaiden Get over It, yea right.. for someone without anxiety or depression life Is way easier and a person without these mental disorders would never understand someone who has them. It's like trying to explain why I prefer drugs and booze to someone who never tried them before.
the best way to get over it is to just jump right in
it's so terrifying but it's rewarding, and is the most immediate fix
i say this as someone with severe anxiety who ran away from so many opportunities for over a decade
the next best way is small exposures. have a goal in mind of where you want to be (don't be afraid to think big). then, go towards that goal in small increments.
ex: you want to become a famous musician. instead of booking your first show immediately and playing on stage, sing a song into your phone microphone, and try showing it to a friend, or one random person online.
Whole narrative comes down to:
"DON'T BE AFRAID"! ❤🎉
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I think one thing I learned from my cancer social worker is to stop being in a rush to be where you're not able to be at. There's no race. Especially in this era where everything's so fast paced, I feel so behind where all my friends and peers are successful in marriage, career, or just living their life. Stop comparing yourself with others. Only compare yourself on how far you've grown. 2 steps forward, 1 step back.
'Comparison is the thief of joy' - just live life ❤️
Thank you I needed this
@@xyz-qo8eu you're awesome the way you are ❤️ you are so loved my friend.
And you never know what those successful friends are dealing with. A lot of people are struggling in secret and are a house of cards waiting to fall. You might be the friend that helps them stay sane when it does.
Never regret a decision you took in the past! At the time it was the best decision you could take!
This❤️
Yes, it's all very well all these old folk saying, 'should have been braver and worried less' etc but, at the end of the day, the decisions we made back then happened for good reason. In fact, one could go further still, by saying that those so called 'decisions' of ours weren't really ours at all! In the grand scheme of things, it was simply what happened. All by itself.
I learned that in high school
What if it wasn't?:(
@@spacecat942 then accept the fact that you allowed yourself to make stupid decision.
I am 68 and I would like to tell younger people that it all works out. Don’t be afraid of your future. I know life is very high anxiety but you have the strength and intelligence inside yourself to work through your problems.
If you are a woman, I hope your husband, children take good care of you
My biggest regrets at over 60 is spending over two decades in the retail industry and earning almost nothing. I started very late in life to have money and now at my age I'm starting to enjoy life. My biggest accomplishments is not having kids and I am indebted to no one
Now that I'm older I understand my Father's statement about worry makes more sense. He said "I try not to worry about things until they happen".
Exactly - don't worry twice ❤️
That's very wise advice
I’m in my 60’s and I’d say to find something you’re really interested in and then try to do that as much as you can. Immerse yourself in it. If it doesn’t work out then fine. Move on to something else that you enjoy doing. I retire in a year and have had 3 full careers in my life. All unrelated to each other. They weren’t huge and they didn’t make me rich, but they were exactly what I wanted to be doing at that point in my life. When my wife and I are trying to make decisions on things we use the phrase, “Just jump of the cliff and build your wings on the way down.” So far we’ve made it every time, but you really need to have focus, because you usually don’t have much time.
This is such an enlightening perspective, thank you so much for sharing ♥️
The last woman's words were so earnest and encouraging and she really is beautiful in every sense of the word. ☘️💫😊💚
Love this❤️
The Bible says “be not afraid” 365 times as a daily reminder to never be scared 💪 😎
Be not afraid, except of your almighty skydaddy sociopath.
At 72 yrs young I support this message wholeheartedly.! I have tried so many avenues in life and made a few mistakes, followed my heart and interests, but that's what life is about. Go for it.! You don't get a second chance to come back and do it again. 💪💪😃😃💃💃🧘🧘🏊♀🏊♀
Thanks for sharing!
This video is helping me to realise that although I may not have the career I want right now, by taking the big decision to move abroad and start a new life has given me the life I want and that just as, if not, more important 💛🙏🏾
Amazing! Thank you for being here❤️
My advice to all the young people of the world is to sit on the sofa, watch a movie, your phone or play a video game. All day.
Knowing you do the opposite of what you are adviced, I hope you chase after Happiness, Health, Love, your concept of Success, and don’t forget to call your parents once in awhile.
That's pretty lame advice sitting on the couch all day watching your phone
Karla, you didn't get it.
@@trundholm93 She cannot read
@@PeCo333 The punctuation is off.
@@rurunosepNo it's not?
That old lady saying "stop worrying things that you can't change but improve your own life instead" is stoic but positive it speaks not just young people but also average people lives in general
They always worry and whine about news, politics, society, etc. Yet they cannot do anything about it
The fact that most of them say "don't waste your time" explains it all :/
Time is life's currency.
Did we watch the same video? 🤔 I find this a bit weird because, while wanting not to lose time you might need to over busy yourself with many stuff and miss to find what you really like and who you really are. Sometimes it might be natural to be paralyzed in a cocoon with lack of movement.
I like talking to old people... They have been through the holes we might fall in.. They have so much wisdom to share.
Love this
80% of these people said they used to worry too much. Fear ruined their life. Yet i couldn't find an effective solution to fear! All these RUclips influencers giving out advices, nothing works.
I've tried the "just go for it" one several times. Yeah..there are consequences. There are reasons why people are so cautions. It's only when not in the situation anymore that it becomes easy to say "don't be so afraid"
Not all the time , its the saying "maybe". Sometime some people are lucky enough to have opportunites that work form them.
Yeah I asked my friend out with the mentality of “I can’t change our future if I don’t go for it” and got rejected with her cutting me out of her life right afterwards. So I guess don’t always just go for it
@@ChadHellgadowell you did nothing wrong in asking, it's actually good that you asked, taking risks is part of life, not everything goes your way. At least you know, the reason older people say they wish they were less afraid of taking risks is because now they'll never know, taking opportunities is always the way to go, if it doesn't work out it's fine, it's not the end of the world that something doesn't work out.
@@ryanname2503 🤭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, OF COURSE there are consequences! How the hell do you learn without consequences? What you SHOULD do is learn a different approach that won't produce the same results, not give up and say;
"🤤we...wElL... tHeRE iS ReASoN wHy pEOplE aRE sO cAuTIoNS🤤"
and, "🤤🤤iT eASy tO sAy🤤"
That's how you remain a failure in life.
The more "consequences" you face the better you become if you actually go home and think about what to change. It should take you HOURS thinking about how you can do things differently for better results, and even after that you will still fail again next time. With persistence you will start to understand things differently and that's how improvement will take place.
@@ChadHellgado how did you want her more? As a friend or a lover? Make a choice my guy, the problem is you don't even know what you wanted.
We have to accept the fact ...that our mind is continuously engaged in either regretting the past or worrying about the future !!
Only when we are in the act of doing something really engaging in the present moment . that we let go of these worries and regrets temporarily!
Live in the moment as much as possible!
I think I’m going to watch more of these types of videos. I need to know when can I stop thinking I will live forever. That stuff you feel in your 20’s and 30’s and then 40 rolls around and the fear starts to set in. Now I’m stuck trying to find my way to being ... an older man ... and peacefully reconcile it.
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When you're scared of something think of the opposite scenario like I am scared of death but when I imagine myself living forever I feel eternally grateful for death because I don't want to experience grief over and over again and i don't want to see this beautiful world destroyed by people try it maybe it helps
Say NO when you have to
I spent so much time thinking what am I going to lead myself into the future. Thinking all the time fearing for the outcome but endup wasting my time and not able to go anywhere.
I never felt so clear about that until I saw this video.
The heavy feeling that lingers in my head for so long has gone away now.
Thank you for the kind words and wisdom.
This is beautiful - we are so grateful you're here - thank you❤️
Perfect! As I could confirm several times in my life and in others testimonials, fear is the most crippling emotion we can have. Every time it manifests, we should be aware of it and analyze more carefully the situation before dropping an opportunity to do something.
I've just cried as soon as I listened to the phrase don't be fraid. I might need someone who talks to me like this. Thank you
Thank you for being here ❤️
The 'spread my feathers and let my beauty shine' guy had such a smile on his face after saying that ❤
I love this type of videos! They are fun to watch as well as helpful for younger people.
Thank you!
I'm in the 40s now😂 I'm still young at heart and not afraid to say yes to uncertain things in the future 😂❤
Don’t worry yourself about things that might never happen!😮that’s definitely going to sit with me thank you ma’am
Thank you for being here! We've just released part 5 of this series you should check it out ruclips.net/video/2CuA82qWNEE/видео.html - we'd love to hear your feedback❤️
The second woman they interviewed is so right! I'm turning 58 soon and, like she has, spent a great deal of my life worrying about the future.
Some of the things I wanted to do when younger probably would have been a mistake. I'm thankful for how things have worked out.
Glad to hear it
What advice I would give my younger self. Be brave about life. Don't let anyone, or any religion make you fear life. Don't waste time. It all passes by too quickly. Live each day as if it were your last. It very well could be. Love, whenever you get the chance. Tell someone each day that you love them. Don't hold grudges or hate. Let go of ANYTHING
, or ANYONE that hinders who you are. Accept that God made you and HE knows what HE'S done. Take care of yourself. There is NO guarantee that you will live a long, healthy life. Be respectful of the older generation. They've already been through what you could never even perceive. Pay it forward. Anything. Thank God every day FOR HIS LOVE AND PROTECTION IN YOUR LIFE. By the way........I'm 78.
Wow - thank you for this ♥️
They all seem like genuine people
One time I've learnt from the video is don't waste your energy in something you can't change it, and they are right 👍 I was worried so much about things and overthinking 😅 too but you're so right life is short and instead of living it in fear and sadness won't change the situation 🤜🤛
I am in tears watching this. I am 28 years old already. I am so afraid of people that make me unable to get a job and missed alot of opportunities. I am so worried about my future. I am so desperate to find a cure about my fear of people.
Read @TomUK7's comment it may help! We are sending so much support though just keep going any move forward is an achievement!
Hey we both have same age.. 1994?
I recommend therapy and/or healing any traumas. Therapy is one of the best things anyone can do to change or get more clarity, in my opinion
Sweetheart I am 41. It's okay, it will be okay. Everything will be okay in the end. Be gentle with yourself and don't put so much pressure on yourself. From where I stand, you are still *only* 28. Life is not easy in one's twenties.
Life is not a race. Go at your own pace. Like I said, be kind to yourself and be gentle with yourself. And seek help and support. You don't have to do this all alone.
"Don't regret for what you have done" - Mushashi Miyamoto
I'm glad that i'v learned this at my 30s, by myself ❤ and i would say the same to my 20s version. But learning and putting it into practice is a whole different level. Now I'm learning how to have the courage to overcome fear, because it's no longer hiding in the shadows of my mind.
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I needed to watch this video. I’ve never been scared to seize an opportunity before - but I was debating taking the safer route this time. Thanks for the reminder.
Some would say fate brought you to this video ♥
One of the actually great pieces of advice I remember hearing from someone was “You don’t have an interesting life by saying no to everything”
This video came at the right time. Thank you 💜
Thank you for being here❤️
Such beautiful people with big hearts sharing wisdom for better living. Thank you❤
Easy message, do things, even when you don't feel like it, because when you do things differently, things change. One step at a time even if you need to rest at each step you make. Thank you!
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I needed this advise. I have been struggling with this thing since last 2/3 years.. I sucks all my energy 😓😓
That’s beautiful. Thank you all.
"Don't be scared" is the main message here. I'm 2 years from being an adult currently, but there are many things I'm scared of. I'm scared to go to the gym, I'm scared to go shopping, I'm scared to go to places I want. All of them contrast with my ultimate dreams, which are to get fit, buy things I want and will cherish, and travel to places I've saved on my phone. I know my old self will say the same thing as all these people, but I don't know, fear is something I feel like I can't win against.
Maybe you don't need to see it as opponent - lessen what it means to you. it's allowed to be there we don't need to eradicate it we just need to acknowledge that it's not the voice of reason we think it is ❤️
“stop worrying about things you can't change“ how do i know i can't change something if i don't try? Sometimes you have to try something very often before you know you can't change it. Sometimes you just have to make your own experiences and mistakes.
1. Age doesn't always = wisdom. 2. A bad or evil person is not cured with age
Thanks grandpas and grandmas ❤️
Perfect video! I love when people are more direct and giving practical solutions rather than lots of words. Enjoyed!!
So glad you enjoyed it! We are here whenever you need ♥️
Gotta say though... The people, who had no fear and always did the things they might regret might be dead and not able to answer questions anymore. So being afraid is not completely useless. But still very good advice to not be afraid so much.
I would say, don't care so much about what others think... Calm and kind indifference to certain situations and people is quite liberating!
This❤️
"Don't be afraid" Why didn't I think of that? I'll just toggle that fear switch in my brain.
I really, really needed this. Thanks.
We are so glad to hear this! Thank you for being here❤️
They all said the same thing. I would say to myself "start loving yourself now" either the rest of interviewed people had been more lucky and loved themselves from the early age, or they totally overlooked that important thing. I did not love myself, that was my biggest problem.
Loving ourselves is so important!
Opportunities doesn't come to you, we've to find them out... And in persuit of that we get anxious, worried, and sometimes sceptical of ourselves in the process.... Its like a vicious cycle....so just be glad that whatever has happened was for good.
All of you a big thank you.
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Whew our older gems, much needed! 🤧
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Moral Of The Story: You want something, pull the trigger on it. Thinking about it will get you nowhere.
Trust your gut instinct, it s usually correct and tell more people to f*** off 😂
Beautiful! And so simple (and still we don’t see it sometimes, so that’s why you have to concentrate on noticing them!), strong and true words!
“Fear is the mind-killer.”
I absolutely love this video and these wonderful people.❤
Thank you for your support - so glad you enjoy!
@@DoseofSociety Thank you.☺️
Get comfortable being uncomfortable, and when you feel uncomfortable, do something with that anxious energy, hit the gym, or go do some work, or handle a task you’ve been putting off.
All the best ❤
Thank you for this❤️
Thank you to the second lady. I’ve been struggling with just that for the last 2 years.. Thank you so much
Thank you for being here❤️
I'll give you some life advice. You will be old in the blink of and eye, enjoy your youth. You will lose everyone you love, enjoy your family while their here. It will be hard to keep making money after 40, and your body will start to decay. You will die in the blink of an eye, and there's nothing that will stop it. " Time is precious, yes it's true. A wasted moment never returns to you. A passing day spent leisurely, turns into years it seems. And all the years that have passed you by can never be redeemed ". I wrote those words about twenty three years ago at 24. Man are those words the truest words I've ever read.
Yes! Just go for it! We are all just kids who come to the world to experience. Good or bad. That’s the meaning of life.
Experience is everything!
0:58 I SO needed to be reminded of this. Her gentle voice reminded me of my grandmother saying this as well 🥲
Love this ♥️
The most frequent advice given by old people is -- never get old !
Unless you die young, it happens to everyone. Oscar Wilde said, "The problem with getting older is that you are young." The only thing that changes when you are older is your body but your mind stays young - just wiser. That's why getting older is a gift. Only ageism in society makes it seem horrible. It's not.
This is so beautiful from beautiful people. Thank you so much ❤
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Don't leave the same moment twice
1st :in your mind when you imagine what will happen
2nd : when the actual moment happened
Just let it come then see what you can do
Travel! As much as you can, before you get stuck into a career and family.
Seeing the world is so important🌎❤️
As a 45 year old with a 5 year old son, I couldn't agree more with this statement. I absolutely WISH I traveled prior to having a child. It's not impossible now but it's definitely more expensive and the time and opportunities aren't as readily available at this stage.
I don’t like travelling alone though. If the people you know can’t go with you then what can i do
That old lady who says we shouldn't worry about things Is right. we often suffer in our own minds than in reality and we waste our energy on negative things when we should only be spending them on positivity! We can't control anything or anyone so we should just let things go and hope for the best instead of worrying.
Spread feathers I love you man you talking about the real deal
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Oh I would tell any young person to get your house in order by the time your 40.be debt free.after 40 your health can change.theres nothing worse than to be older and not be able to produce like you were in your 20s
Hello dear teacher
Thank you so much for your interesting interviews with old people, i do appreciate your job,i wish you peace and happness under the sky of prosperity. let me to say something in this domain :
By time indeed mankind is in loss except those who have believed and done righteous deeds and adviced each other to patience and truth.
Take care and have a good time.
All the best.
Your Student from Algeria.
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This video came out 8 months and I’m just now seeing this and I love this so much ❤ I’ve struggled with anxiety since I was 16 (I’m 21) after my grandpa passed away. It went away for a couple years from the age 17-19 and came back suddenly last year. Three months ago I witnessed something quite traumatizing and my anxiety has been through the roof every day ever since, it’s never been this bad before. It at one point got so bad that I couldn’t even function properly or leave anywhere. It’s gotten better since that point because I can leave the house again and do tasks around the house, but it’s still an everyday struggle that I try to get through. Watching this video helps so much! I always think “When I’m older I don’t want to remember my twenties as a bad time and a time that I didn’t live it up. I wanna remember my twenties being good, I don’t want to regret things.” The things these wonderful people said in the video I always try to remind myself. Thank you for posting this video ❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing this - we are so glad you're here and that we found you ♥️
After watching just this small vlog I subscribed your channel because you have feelings about something that can't be expressed in words, it's amazing experiences shared by these mature gentlemen/women's to teach the Youngs ones sharing their stories it's all about teaching, learning lessons, it worth watching, appreciate your thoughts and your work 👍
Put God first 🙏🏽❤️
As a person with anxiety telling me not to worry is like telling a depressed person to cheer up. I’m afraid it’s not that easy for some of us
Of course - everyone has their own story ❤️
Huge hugs. I've been there too, for much of my life. Things are a bit better for me now though.
I absolutely know first hand just how crippling severe anxiety can be. It can feel absolutely horrendous at times. And no, you can't simply shake it off. My number one advice is be very kind to yourself and be gentle with yourself. Things can get better. I hope you are seeking help and support.
@@tara34952 thank you for your kind words
Be careful who you sleep with should be in there.
they gave me so much peace
Wow, this is everything 💫
Thank you all of you very much ❤
Thank you ❤️
My help to the young ... on big decisions find a second opinion from three independent older people 55+, then take their advice, they will have either lived it themselves or know someone who has., so you can assess the risk with real life data.