Why This Japanese Girl Became Homeless
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Now she work or not
Thank goodness. Hopefully this means a new chapter in her life.
Hi Mr Nobita. My little sister was not homeless and my parents were supportive but she could not cope and she kill her self age 22. Please keep up your good work and I hope this Young Lady gets a role that understands her. I think she would be great working a cat cafe looking after the cats and customers as she could bring her cat to work, talk to and help homeless customers, win win. Take Care and Stay Safe.
Awesome progress on the right track
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When she was listing her two goals with such humility, I had a huge jolt of perspective. Really made me think about how the simplest things are actually enough to give someone a happy and fulfilled life.
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Her simple 1st goal target was very unique when i had dozen of cat's living in my house....
She can make it....
IKR, count yo blessings, y'all!
Every time someone ask me what makes me happy l always tel no problem is what makes me happy l don’t need anything just no problem is what l wanted in life and all of them tell the same answer l will never be happy
Oh Paul, didn't expect to see you here. Keep up the good work, I'll be watching from Instagram~ :o
"But in the end, i really don't want to give up on my life" she is very strong
japanese people are one of the most mentally strong people in the world I think. I have lived here for more than 2 years, japanese people are very discipline oriented.
@@BLITSFRAPPS sadly they prone to blame themselves too much, i think that one of reason japanese government didn't tell the whole story of WW2
@@zbigbozbboy5245 I don't know about that but its too much with the rules and discipline for me here, at least. someone Japanese told me once that Japan is a strong nation but a weak society, and now I know why. and all the mental toughness, rules and discipline isn't worth It in my opinion.
@@zbigbozbboy5245 i know whole story of WW2 and yes my government hide many of history but it is their problem not mine
@@michaelkato8999 most of the people didn't know about the history
"The advertising revenue of this video will all go to her as a donation"
Time to watch some ads
Click on the ads, that's when they pay.
@@theshuttergrind Watched and clicked on everything (CPU fans didn't liked).
I opened the video in all of the browsers I have installed just so an ad could play in each one.
If it is a funny japanese ad, then i can watch it.
Turn off your adblockers boys, time to get her some more Beef Bowls
Guys seriously, i spent some time reading all the comments below and it drives me crazy. Poverty is not a thing that only Japan has. It's a thing all around the world, no matter where u look. So, instead of feeling heartbroken about this young woman, try to do something to help the poor and homeless in your area. Don't fool yourselves. If we don't do something, these people tomorrow will be gone. Governments don't give a shit about their lives. They don't give a shit about yours either. Let's help people around us so things may change for all of us.
bruh, this is the saddest thing. She isn't just homeless, she has nowhere to go. Someone set up a gofundme for this lady already
No she needs someone to stay with that also help her.
The ad revenue from the video is going to her, hopefully will get millions of views
No, what she needs is help to get her id cards. Is there a way for find her relatives? Not her parents but a relative sympathetic enough to help her get her identification papers and support her enough to get back on her feet.
@@willowsprite That can’t get ID card story just doesn’t add up.
She's literally the cleanest homeless person I've seen.
pretty fucked up that you can just have awful parents throw out your id and ruin your whole life completely in Japan, and it sounded like there's more than a just a few cases of that too..
If I may promote a channel, please check Hirosi Yamazoe. He was a hikkikomori and also have a spectrum disorder and what the parents do to him. You can understand more about what is japan is all about.
Japan becoming more like the USA.
What I really do not understand is, all the official places have a copy of your ID card here in japan, so it should be easy to be identified, log the old ID card as invalid and create a new one.
@@smallwisdom8819 it may not be that simple. Registration offices might have their own set of rules that come down to the family and as the girl said in the video, her parents feign responsibility in front of the authorities before dropping the mask behind closed doors. I hope she achieves the goals she has and eventually finds a home
@@smallwisdom8819 I think the girl explained that they refuse to create a new ID as you have to have an address. I believe it’s standard practice (at least in Canada here) for the government to mail you your new ID. No address, no place to send your ID. Theoretically, that problem could be solved if she had a friend who’d be willing to allow her to use their address for the government to send her ID. Unfortunately, it doesn’t sound as if she has much, if any, friends. That being said, Nobita could theoretically allow her to use his address.
She seems like a genuinely good person. I hope and pray she gets the help she needs, finds success and leads a happy and fulfilling life.
Even her family didnt treat her well,but she still good woman
She is amazing
Let's wish that for all the homeless people
Yeah my parents used to say that a person who has nobody beside them God would be always be with them and keep encouraging them to be alive
I really do hope so as well, she seems like a really nice girl!! how can parents treat their child like this..You are really strong Meru!!
wish you and anybody in this situation the best!
She wants to get a job helping others like her. She's got an altruistic spirit!
she's smiling even though she's having a hard days... I think her smile and laugh are her defense to cope up with her reality
How are you
@@raajofficial6520 guddo
Sounds like Japan in a nutshell...
@@longWriter
Joker
it's like she came out from a ghibli film
>need an address to get an ID card
>need an ID card to get an address
Surely, the government needs an office for addressing this exact type of catch 22.
UK law works in a similar way, although we don't have ID cards. Without an address you just don't exist. Some years ago a local council gave a park bench a postal address so that homeless people could use it as an address so that they could register for welfare.
@@mememaster147 I think in a lot of states in the US... you can just get a PO box
Japan is a loop hell. You need a phone number to open a bank account, and you need a bank account to have a phone number. lol. This case has workarounds tho.
@@hector1404 Do... do they not have throwaway phone numbers you can buy at any old store?
Perhaps she can actually ask for help from NGO association for teen like her(place she used to stay at) to use their address to get her ID card?🤔
And yet, despite the harsh internal battles she faces everyday, she still manages to keep such a beautiful and pure smile. Truly, what a strong woman
She is a 🌻 Always Bright and Positive
The fact that she is good looking makes it more sad
@@DrJams what mde me angry is her parents. Wtf the only one who is abnormal is her parent, why would they kick out a kid out of their house.
For having lived in Japan a long time I know that it has to do with the culture, but still, what a strong person!!
I truly wish that she'll find find happiness very soon!🍀
Yea, that was my first thought. She has the strength of character to not let it turn her dark. Impressive individual.
What would be you message to the people in the world who are really suffering during this pandemic?
She said "Even if you're denied by everyone and you have nobody now, you definitely have to be alive no matter how tough your life is." :(
why did the official hobby lobby account comment on this?
People say that but the fact is there are limits. People shouldn't be living hopeless like this. We need to create a way out of homelessness for those who want it. And really, humans shouldn't be on the streets like animals. What kind of society are we that we have mentally ill humans living in the streets like this? It's disgusting. We don't mind giving tons of tax money to fund kids to go to college for degrees they don't use half the time. Maybe funnel some of that to the mentally ill.
I love that line too, because that is what exactly happen in my situation right know. #Soryformyenglish
Good or Bad help each other for a better world :)
@@littleripper312 wmWe are not that much better than in the medieval times tbh technological and developmental progress but not much humanitarian progress sadly
She’s a strong girl that deserves all the love in the world. Sometimes people with the biggest hearts are the ones that have been hurt the most.
That is always true
this world is not fair, there are children in this world who lack food while on the one side there are rich children who use their money to buy drugs for fun
😀😆😆😆
@@user-qs2zs2gf9k what's so funny?
@@user-qs2zs2gf9k wth is funny
I really don't understand why people give birth to the child when they are not capable of taking care of them .
Abusing, violent , and careless parents are biggest concern of century.
Children a gift
Some people can't realize it and it's really sad.
In the future people should pass a evaluation to see if they are able to care for a child and raise them in a stable environment. The planet is already overpopulated anyways and raising children in violent environments contributes to them being violent on their own once they reach adulthood
@@joeh858 maybe so, but it can also be seen as a mercy
Not to be confrontational, but I really don't understand the your attitude here, I mean, If they hadn't given birth to her she wouldn't be alive, which would be a heck of a lot worse than the situation she is currently in. So, wouldn't it actually be better if her parents had had more kids?
All the world's problems can be traced to lousy parents.
Situations change. Parents lose jobs, homes, family members, have health issues, etc that affect thier ability to provide for children. It's called life. There are no guarantees.
She's been homeless for 3 years, she had no friends at school, she got fired from all her previous jobs and even her boyfriend kicked her out without a reason. This is all because of the abusive home environment, terrible parents and a bad childhood, it's really hard to recover from it. There's so much sadness behind the happy mask.
@@mephisto5585 I get what you mean, but I don't think she'll become a criminal or a killer. Most people who had a really bad childhood, live with chronic depression, have self-destructive personality disorder and become broken people.
@John Coughlan but it's not 100%. Even if there's a 0.1% chance of her not lying, I think we should still consider that. Imagine using words like "OBVIOUS LIE" to someone that didn't lie especially in this particular situation like this girl, it's just...not right
@John Coughlan I guess we'll just agree to disagree
@John Coughlan Yeah, it is over $45000 now, this is getting ridiculous. I thought she needed money to rent a room and buy food, but I guess she'll buy a house soon...
@John Coughlan I just wanted to say a bad childhood can completely break a person in my comment. If people still want to send her more money after they see $81000 on the gogetfunding page, I don't think deleting my comment can change anything.
It's kind of absurd to give a homeless person $80000 or more, based on a sad story and pretty face alone. Only a portion of that money is enough to change the lives of many people.
Her smile is a broken person's smile. I've seen a ton of people who smile like that. People who have things inside that they just can't show but they have no choice but to smile. She probably cried so much already that at this point crying just turns to smiling. This is depressing AF.
That's what I was thinking from what she tells she's been having it pretty rough all her life so at this point it's like her normal state... still she's not completely broke down but she does need help as soon as possible.
but she's liability.
she could work but can't maintain it.
same with having a partner.
she said , she don't know the reason he kicked her out but it's possible for the same reason she can't hold the job.
still sorry for her experience with 💩 parents and not be able to have her documents which could help in her situation.
@@fireinthenight9028 There most likely IS a reason why he kicked her out, indeed. But because of her diagnose combined with lack of love, empathy, trust and support from her parents, she clearly has some issues that needs time to be fixed. To me she looks like a lovable and positive girl, who can do good things for herself and the world. She just need the right opportunity, patience and be allowed to make mistakes and have setbacks. Changing her life isn't done in the blink of an eye, when most of her life up until now, 25 years, has been a negative spiral. But yeah, I definitely see hope for her, and I really wish that both she and other homeless in the same situation can get better support from the government. It is a catch 22 when she can't have ID and apply for decent jobs because she doesn't have a place to stay...
And.. do you spect what? That she would be smiling like a rainbow under sunshine!? Taf*** dude!
Is a miracle that she still able to smile! Much respect for the will of her spirit. 🙏🏻👊🏻
We can just comment.. And nothing we can do for her after sometimes you will forget everything like nothing happend
There are many free and empty houses in rural Japan in small towns that are struggling to increase their population. These young people should move into those places and start farming for their survival!
Man ... she knows how to carry a conversation, but her eyes tell everything. Peace, happiness, and fulfillment in this life for you!!
Exactly bro
Yes it is I am cried after watching this video
@@aaronnoisboy8122 Shed a tear or two aswell mate.......
kmtiger81
You are off. She said she is fighting dépression. She is not at peace. She is in battlefield mode to survive without hooking up with gangs on the street.
@@786swe
Looks Like The Issue Was From Your Side...
The Person Above Was Wishing The Lady All Positive Things.... After Mentioning How Her Eyes Depicting All That Didn't Being Said...
She doesn’t want to die and says no to people who want to turn her into a sex worker as an easy way out. Sounds like a pretty damn strong person to me! I would also throw money at a gofundme for her, especially since she just wants her cat and to help people like her. Much love
I just want to say tho, getting sex work is definitely not an easy way out. It would be a very dangerous path, and potentially one that sees her victimised even more. I think she is definitely very strong and has a clear mind given her situation to not fall for the pressures of predatory men, but yea, sex work is not an easy way out.
69 likes nice.
@@komocakeps527 cool story, bro.
@@duck6100 YOU RUINED IT
Many want to her help but how? I'm not from Japan but how can I help her?
It's very hard to believe the girl was fired from part-time job in Japan! I worked a lot in different places and never being fired for such a small things like breaking the plates or doing something wrong, and I never saw practically anybody being fired from part-time job in Japan! Sorry, but I don't believe her on this part. And she doesn't look like a person with communication problems AT ALL. And the girl go to police reporting her parents? Sounds really weird to me. I would like to hear the other side of the story.
I have an autistic friend whose parents made him homeless when he was 15. Now, he works at silicon valley as the head of innovation at one of the major companies there. His mental strength is really something. He worked very hard.
I've heard recounts of Autistic people having really high IQ. It's really amazing.
special people are very intelligent.
Your friend has a burden because others don't understand him but he has a remarkable gift of understanding his interests beyond the level of so called experts. It's a painful life
@@asbaran not all autistic people have high IQ. But there are some who suffer from aspergers(a form of autism) that do have enhanced intelligence, like in the case Forrest Gump. Common case are photographic memory and being really good at numbers. Basically they are really focused.
capitalist dystopian story repackaged into hearwarming BS. You're loved because you're exploited, that the society rn.
How can any parent just throw their child out like trash? She seems like such a lovely person full of potential! She is still alive despite her horrible up-bringing. That's strength, for you.
Happens all the time. LGBTQ especially....it's really sad.
@@midnull6009 It is sad. I grew up in a Christian family, but I would never discard any child of mine if they came out to me. I know that many people will have negative views of Christians and those views are not unwarranted. I have aunts and uncles who are so conservative that they could not comprehend their children being gay, they would say things like, "Oh, it's just a phase", or "it's disgusting", etc. But unlike them, I don't judge people for their sexuality. I refused to adopt such bigoted, ignorant views especially the views of "all gays burn in hell". That's such bull shit to me and I can't understand how anyone can say that and claim to be "Christian". Those are such ugly ways to think and it's no wonder lots of people have a negative view of us. I would love any child that I have in the future, whether they are gay, bi, trans, asexual, etc. Children are not a right, they are a privilege and it saddens me when there are parents who would just throw them out on the streets without a second thought...
My father would have if he had the chance.
My mom has told me he was never abusive or angry when they were together, before I was born. My parents were together for I think around 20 or so years. They had trouble having us. So, you could say I am a test tube baby. Ironically, he was an abusive parent. He kept saying over the years he was going to kick my sister and I out at 18. Knowing full well most people today can't live like that. I took most of the beatings than my fraternal twin sister. He made a really good income. My mom worked part time for a few hours a day. Anyhow, he would beat me up for the smallest things with metal objects and couldn't control his anger. Dragged our pets down into the basement because he couldn't stand a dog barking. Had me doing side jobs since I was around 5 yrs old if I had to guess...When my parents finally divorced, I was 13 yrs old, he did everything in his power to restrict alimony and child support. Child services didn't really believe us because I didn't have any bruises. I don't bruise easy. It took 10-11 years for a deal to be made in which my mom was finally able to receive a small portion of his pension in exchange for stopping alimony.....Otherwise the court battles would just go on for years on years on years.... I had to fight in court to get my small college fund. Which I had to use some of the fund for lawyer costs. His lawyers did not want to work with him and his attitude.
The judge told him, if he wanted to see his kids, he needed to go to therapy. He made the decision not to do that even though he moved out of state for work. Some how he contacted a side of his family that he never really knew a few years back and threatened I wouldn't get any money when he goes. I never replied. But honestly, I'm not upset about that.
My mom couldn't support my sister and I. We managed to get thru college before having to foreclose on the house a little over a year ago (was living in there for 10 years) and got into a mobile home. My mom and I split the bills now that I have a okay job.
My sister is like my father. I have plenty of stories about her too. She joined the national guard but was sent overseas because she is a nurse. Chose to get pregnant and married after meeting someone less than a year. Had the child last year right before COVID and chose to not let my mom ever see the child or hold it. While I had to care for my mother who has a bunch of medical issues.... My sister and I rarely spoke since she was 13 because she always had an attitude that was uncalled for. But my mom had a closer relationship with her. Yet out of the blue, told my mom and I that we were toxic... No she just wasn't getting any benefit..... She basically threw her family away.
You would think for how much money and time they spent to have my sister and I, you would think my father would be more caring. Instead, chose to slowly bankrupt us.
I have a daughter and i love Her more than any human can comprehend. I would rip my heart out if she needed it. So i don't really understand abusive parents.
Her eyes literally draws my attention. she looks like she wanna cry and seek comfort and at the same time she doesn't because she don't like to be pitied.
i don't understand how a homeless person can look so well groomed or kept, here in Florida, authorities will hurt you
I was homeless for a couple years some time ago here in the States. Honestly, it's not the sleeping outside in poor weather that gets to you most, or the cops kicking you awake, or the digging through dumpsters or days without food or being sick or afraid of violence... it's the ordinary people, pretending that they don't see. It's the waking up, each and every day, sure in the knowledge that no one, no where gives a DAMN whether you're alive or dead. That's the hardest part to bear. The few that DO see you either try to exploit you or sneer at you, yelling to 'get a job'. And, if you're lucky, you do, but people forget that you have no resume, no call back number, no way to wash clothes, nowhere safe to store belongings, no identification often, no alarm clock, no transportation... And, even if you DO find work, you're still homeless. A place to live usually means first month, last, security deposit, utilities, credit check... not to mention having to at the same time improve your appearance to fit your workplace and fend off others who will quickly learn you now have money and wish to extort it from you. And again, that's all IF you find an employer willing to take a chance. You're stuck in fight or flight mode, 24/7. Think of how often a person unwinds with a beer after a hard day. Is it any wonder so many turn tor alcohol or drugs for an escape from that sort of situation, even if it's only momentary, or detrimental to them in the long term? I'm not saying that I condone others that went that route, just that I can comprehend it. The bulk weren't homeless because they were addicts, they were addicts because they were homeless. It's a hard life. It either forcibly matures you at a rapid rate, or leaves you... frozen in time, locked at a mental maturity level until you get out of the situation. Something many never do. It hurts to think of how the anger and bitterness twisted some, but for a great many like myself, the situation also taught us to be more empathetic and caring to our common man. Please, if nothing else, just... acknowledge them as you pass by. You don't have to give food or coin if you don't wish, but, at least acknowledge that they're there. That they're human. That they're a part of your world and community too.
Oh wow. Thank you for sharing, man. Glad things worked out for you and I hope we can figure something out to help people who are curently homeless, where ever they may be.
@Roberto The Don Yeah, been off the streets near twenty years now. Some rough patches to be be sure along the way and for certain times living month to month, but doing fine financially now. ^_^
@@dona7616 After doing some volunteer work, I eventually went into social services myself and made a career there, trying to give back to some of the same services that helped me, as well as help others in positions I'd been in. Honestly... the biggest things seem to be a twofold issue: stopping it before it starts, and standard of living. For the first, you have a LOT of folks that are just overflow from mental health, nursing homes, or foster care, kicked out and left to fend for themselves due to lack of funding/space/support. Once they're on the sstreets, their condition spirals and it's insanely hard to get back off them. For the second, there will ALWAYS be some who are chronically homeless/not wanting to improve their lot, but if you only provide services based on a 'success rate', you wind up only helping those who probably would have made it without help anyhow. By improving their standard of living in general, yes some may coast, but desperate cases will succeed a lot more often and general mood and communication with the community in general will improve. Access to public toilets. Day centers to wash clothes and type resumes at. Safe meal spaces and access to counselors. Syringe drop off programs have been proven to drastically cut down on heroin overdoses, diseases, and loose drug paraphenalia in the community. Community outreach, such as the volunteers here in town that go to different camps handing out clean socks, lists of services to get help at, q tips, bandages, etc. A lot of times it's about improving things, even if you can't fix it completely. Sometimes, sadly the only person looking out for some of them was their dealer. Actually had one get ahold of me because he was worried one of his friends he dealt to was suicidal. Sure, it didn't fix the drug problem, but at least he was alive and using less after, since we got him attending little activies that were free in town and finding stuff to do, you know? Just... gotta meet folks halfway with things sometimes. Help lift em up, and the more you do, the more they'll naturally i prove on their own.
@@user-np4dp8gp2n SO much this. Never used drugs, very rarely splurged on some alcohol, never begged for cash... even still would get either ignored, spat at, or occasional looks and comments simply for sitting and talking to a friend now and again. You can try like hell to find work, but they only see that couple moments in the park or on the sidewalk and just assume that's all there is. And you're right. It's a crash course in humanity. And the scars it leaves... they stay with you. They never really leave. The self consciousness and depression, that loneliness even when you finally DO have others around you, the gnawing fear of winding up back homeless again... I wouldn't wish it all on my worst enemy. But, at the same time... I'm thankful for it. It made me a better person, made me appreciate things and meet people I wouldn't have otherwise. We don't need to love the fires that forge us, but we should at least respect them.
You are an amazing human being and Jesus loves you so much. May He bless, protect and keep you in his perfect peace.
She's telling the truth about not having an address is keeping her from getting identification. I had to go to my second house today and wait for the postman to deliver my insurance card. I had to physically be there and open the door for him before he could release the documents to me. I also had to use my official stamp to verify that I received the card.
Nobita, if you are reading this, get in touch with me please. I will help out the best I can. I am in Tokyo.
I hope you find a way to contact her and help her. Thank you very much 😭
Go jp love u bro go for it marry that girl take care there sending love from mars😊😘
Go jp help that poor girl
I wish I could be able to help her too! But unforunately I can't, so if you can, find her and help her with whatever you can...!
JP, thanks for reaching out. Her insta is linked in the video description.
I'm months away from becoming homeless. I need to get a job quickly, but I have severe mental issues that hinder me from taking the first steps. Seeing this woman who is pretty much my age gave me a lot of hope. I sincerely hope she achieves her goals. Her encouraging words were really inspiring
Hope everything works out for you man
. Hopefully you find a job. Try your best.
Is military an option? My friend didn’t know what to do after high school so he joined the military. They provided food, shelter, training (drone technician), salary, and funds for education once he gets out. When he left the military (he wanted to stay but his gf told me to leave), he had 100k+ in savings since he lived in the base and didn’t spend anything on food/shelter, and got funds to go to college. Also if he wanted, he could have continued as technician for a private company but instead he’s going to college to become an optometrist (paid by the government).
@@playertwoeightfourninezero4236 I'm not so sure. I would fail the physical tests since I'm too skinny and I don't do any sort of physical activity. My best choice is call centers and supermarkets, but thank you for your input. Hope all goes will with you and your friend!
Thank you guys
I think that a total donation of nearly $90,000 is an obscene amount of money just for one person living in a very, very wealthy country with a welfare system.
After all that bs she’s lived through she wants: a cat, a job.
I won’t be complaining about anything for the next life or two...
same
I think she needs a place to live as well!
im sorry but the truth is this is your only life
@@rpxy5187 im buddhist
Other's suffering does not take away from your own suffering
This girl is so sweet and deserves all the best. A missing Id card shouldn't stop her like this, that seems like a flawed system
What's worse, her parents took her ids probably knowing it would force her to be homeless and jobless. What monsters
Japan is very particular
simp
@@tomboysupremacy are you fucking serious? its a real life problem of a person being in a very difficult situation, not being to live a normal live bacuse of horrible paretns, and someone is being sympathetic to her and you call this person out for that?! you are seriously brain dead
@@skelet_kosciej it's even more stupid because I am a girl. But anyways yes I'm glad others here show empathy too :)
"The advertising revenue of this video will all go to her as a donation." --> rewatching the video so i can watch de ads
Das wholesome
Cause that's what heroes do - Thor
My man
I want to donate to a GoFundMe for her
Lying who would trust the words of a stranger
Cannot believe she only sleep about two hours a day. Something is wrong: her parents, or herself or other thing
She had a goal to take care of homeless people like her. We need to start the fund raising guys.
Yes. I'd like to contribute to this.
I'd contribute as well.
Me too
I'd contribute to this. You guys know how we can do that?
The problem is bigger than just money. The bearacrecy is a big problem... most wouldn´t let her rent an apartment because she has no job, probably no education, money, id, insurance?, etc... giving her a years worth of rent (plus the typical extra rent money required when moving into a japanese apartment) probably wouldn´t be enough.
"I really don't want to give up on my life. I believe I can be happy someday so I won't lose the will to live."
This. 😌 I'm proud of her. She's strong.
If I'm in her situation, I dom't think I can hold on that will to live.
She's a strong woman I hope she never gives up and can finally get the support she needs
I hope im like her. .so strong . .
I'm living in Japan. The system is seriously broken and cares about appearance more than helping. She went to police and her parents acted nice and they didn't do anything. My sister-in-law was hit by her husband and called the police more once and they convinced her not to press charges because he will be more angry. There was a case even like two years ago where child services did nothing after being called many times and a little girl was killed by her mom and her mom's bf. This homeless girl went to the city hall to get a new ID and prob told them her situation and they still said no. I can bet they told her to apologize to her parents and try to go back to them.
@Boo Hoo I think it's like everywhere in this world always strongests are in charge
How do you know she's telling the truth?
Kids lie often when they do something wrong. Children who have zero humility never issue apologies and will runaway instead of just apologize. We don't know the whole story just one side. I ran away from home but realized how foolish & selfish I was when I became an adult with my own children. Parents have it hard also and selfish children make life many times harder for everyone.
@@TheTinLion how do you know if is actually true. Cases like that do happen, violent parents are everywhere.
That second one probably also contributes to why there are less records of crime rates huh~
I didn't think it'd come to the point where the police themselves would encourage such a thing~
@@TheTinLion people have different circumstances my guy/gal
I really wish you had followed up with any of the jobs or ex boyfriends that she previously had.
I don't want speak ill of someone in such a dire situation but just the way she would deflect whenever the interviewer brought up contacting anyone else (friends/grandparents/relatives) made me think something wasn't adding up. When she was living with a boyfriend, why didn't she use their place as a residence to get an ID? Same for the jobs she had. I also feel that she could've reported her parents to the police for taking her ID cards. Perhaps she did do these things and they weren't told in the video but I came away with more questions about the girl rather than belief. (2 hours of sleep a day & 1 banana diet.)
I knew that. All over the world, the problem is almost always the same: the lack of a supportive or caring family.
IDK how it is in japan, but yeah, what all the violent criminals have in common in the west is fatherless homes, or sometime even if they have a both parents its down to a dysfunctional family.
also lack of kindness
No realtive or friend help them because they don't exist. That is the why they are homeless and lonely. This is really very sad and sometimes I think I am very lucky to be born in a supportive family because I know that no matter what, I will never live in the streets thanks to this.
This woman is very strong tough, but I wish someone will give her dignitous life, with food,a bed and a roof. It is a shame to see people living like this.
@@SuperCaterina also , she is quite mature about bad line on society like shady business etc.
@@SuperCaterina But, there is also some families where they kick out their old parents once their children took their hard work property from them and kick them out as useless for them , those kind of people I hate most
I wish things will turn around for her. Nobody deserves to be homeless.
That's a naive statement. There is people who deserved to be homeless. Heck, there is people who deserves to die. But do not get me wrong, she isn't one of them, so I do as well hope things turn around for her. On that note, what shitty parents and government assistance...
@@dfddsffdfdfgdfg6604 Good point. I do agree, her parents are shitty. Kicking her out because of a disability? Wtf
A Turtle doesn't approve of homelessness
@@dfddsffdfdfgdfg6604 Well you sound like a lovely person.
@@TurtleChad1 Hahaha. That's totally fine.
The moment she said she have been kicked out of home since she was a child, my heart just sank. I am a father to a beautiful daughter and I can never imagined to let go of my daughter yet alone kicking her out of the house.
Domestic violence in Japan is common. Some cannot stand the alpha male get kicks out, or run away. Not sure about this poor girl’s case. Hope she will have a better future .
@@WH1S93R this is true? I cant believe this..
@@freeskier64 jeez i thought japan's government is strict. Turn's out they don't care much.
@@czar6203 It is strict, just on the things they want to be strict though
@@WH1S93R I change my mind Japan not that good ... Idiot government and non educated parents
Am I the only one who finds holes in this story ?
For example, her identification documents are legally her property, so why doesn't she file a police complaint against her parents to get those ducuments back ? And can't she just use her biometric information to get a fresh copy of those documents ? Also, how is she even surviving ? Where is she getting food (the bananas) from ?
Nobita didn't even notice these holes ?
I see too much sadness in her life, mouth can smile, but her eyes can't lie
Many times in the video I thought she was crying because I was looking at her eyes.
True
that's the global society we live in.. we need to get better
its called stepford smiling
Yes Chico
After all she's gone through she wants to save her cat and help other people in the same situation as her. Why does always the purest hearts are the ones who suffers the most?
Because they are easy to take advantage of while the world still empowers wolves.
:(
I would say that it's because they've suffered so much that they can be so pure... :((
Because having going through the same situation as someone else makes you have more empathy for them
No... it's because suffering what humble us.
Dude... That's just horrible. I feel so bad for her... Nobita, maybe set up a gofundme for this girl. I'd donate.
In the description Nobita said all the ad revenue from this video is going to the girl to help her with her goals.
@@legoworksstudios1 But still, gofundme would be a great idea. I would donate too!
I double that!
I would donate too
Agree
She is one of the happiest homeless person on the planet!
I’m in Japan, I saw some dad with his daughter with a genetic disorder taking her to train for school, he showed love and support to her as he waves back at her while the train doors are closing and he stood there looking at her as long as the train is so far away that she isn’t visible anymore. Its heartwarming to see parents showing love and support to children who are different than normal, I wish this woman had a good parent like him but we live in a world where insecure and selfish people exist such as her parents which deserves proper justice.
She maybe clumsy at work, possibly because of a lack of confidence due to rejection suffered from school and at home, but she is not stupid to fall for indecent proposal from predators. Also she didn't commit suicide as some would choose to end their life to escape a problematic situation. I like her fighting spirit for survival.
PTSD or TBI from, say, beatings and abuse, can interrupt people's motor skills or situational awareness, especially under stress like a new job. It's pretty common to feel a bit disjointed in the motions or have, say, a freeze response kick in at times. It's possible to manage these things but they might never really go away. She might have done better if she hadn't been told 'A broken dish is your job on the line,' funny enough.
well but its also really hard for me to trust someone who got kicked out so many times from home and job
@@TheTranceCartel You seem like you have your own issues to work out. Good luck with that.
@@ge2565 Obviously that's a chain that began before she had much say in things, though. Whoever took her on without ID she should have had for instance, probably didn't trust her to ...say, calm down and do things right either. So a cycle goes on. Too much of the West considers poverty a character flaw. (Mr. Speculator.)
@@TheTranceCartel con artist don't sleep 2 hrs a day on a staircase and eat one banana to fill their stomach and she didn't asks them to approach her. so she is trying to be homeless for a small chance that someone will see this video and donate to her?
Just as I was gonna type feed her whatever she wanted I will pay through donation . You did it yourself, thanks.
Yeah, he's a good guy :D It made me happy to see her eat what she wanted
Nobita usually rocks.
I would've also given her 20000 yen, at least to help her out with food for a month or with some basic needs that she may have. You can't help everyone, but if you take time to make a video, then that much would've been nice. :(
@@KoinzellGaming
all over the world people suffer.
Is Nobita supposed to save everyone?
Maybe she don’t need help.
Is very mild kind of suffering.
There are people all over the world who suffer what makes her so special?
Don’t misunderstand though, I do wish her the best of luck.
But you know nothing of her.
You don’t really know if deep down they are good or bad.
I forget my point was but we value ourselves.
@@germangonzales2008 I am sorry but you didn't understand my message at all, and you completely missed the point I made. I guess English isn't your first language, so likely it may be a good idea to re-read it, or translate it with google translate.
I literally said that he doesn't need to help everyone, but rather he made a video about her that will make him money (likely more than 20k yen, which is around 200 bucks). Nobita used her to make money, the small meal he gave her cost at most 7-8 dollars. She badly needs money and likely will die if her diet of only bananas is continued.
200 dollars is not a lot of money in Japan, especially if you're as popular as Nobita in youtube.
He also had the option of starting a gofundme for her, just to help her out a bit (something that wouldn't have needed any money from him). He didn't do that either.
My morality would've made me give her money if I was in the same position as Nobita. I think that if he used her for a video and to make money, she should get a cut of his profits from this video.
Most gorgeous homeless person I've seen I wish the best on her and anyone else in this situation
This video has left me speechless... Someone who brings a child into the world is supposed to take responsibility and take care of it. I really don't know what to say. Hope her dreams will come true
It's more common than you realise. And it'll never change unless people do something, unless someone reaches in, unless society itself changes.
I don't want to bring a child to this world because am not rich enough in this crap capitalism system, but if i had a child i would make my life all around that child to make he / she grow happy, educated, well fed that's the BARE minimum. She had awful parents, awful people.
@@user-sf5iq2fl1l the fuq you saying? Without capitalism in my country you think thr feudal land owners would give us any right to be waged properly and have our own homes. Before, we sleep under the roofs of royals and nobles and are literally slaves by our own kin. With the republic being established and capitalism came in. People were able to get the chance of buying a small piece of land for a home. And we can go to school, get scholarships, and a decent job. I prefer not to shit on capitalism that gave my family the chance to earn more than they did 50 years ago.
@@janinebelleestrada7096 In Capitalism there should be some form of socialism in order for it to work in long run and contribute to all people . For example there could be an organisation that could take homeless people and give them chance to rehabilitate back into society .
Parents, who don't love their children, will be judged by heaven, and be sent to the dark pit, of the underworld, where there's no escape. They won't be reborn in a new body, like the buddhists believe happens.
The more I watch this channel, the more respect that I have for Nobita.
He hit it out of the ballpark, with this one.
No lie, his content has evolved and improved vastly throughout the years.
Same. Nobita is definitely my favorite RUclips channel.
The man has seriously leveled up over the years
What. Why? Lol
She says she's "mentally weak" and then says she doesn't want to give up on life and believes she can be happy some day. She's definitely more mentally stronger than she cares to admit, stronger than most people I'd say. With that sort of attitude and a little help from you Nobita she will definitely make it.
Yes, a absolutely agree, she is not mentally weak at all. She's probably too modest but I think that she's mentally on the level of the special forces.
She isn't "stronger" than she cares to admit. She's grinding on her last bits of energy if she says that she's mentally weak and doesn't want to give up. It's a cry for help that people who didn't go through shit, never understand until the person calling for help is dead. There's countless of accounts of this happening and people dying, and it goes on and on and on.
@@riseandshinemrfriman5925 She definitely is stronger than she knows, maybe doesn't even realize it herself but from the way she talks it's clear she hasn't given up despite everything that's happened to her.
Only 2 hours sleep time and no black eyebag?!!!!😮😮
Even tho she's homeless even her boyfriend kicked her out for no reason even tho they call her mentally ill.
She still believe that one day it all will go and she can have a better life.
She is the real life model 😭.
Nobita please open a fundraiser for her
Well yes, and I feel for her. But I also thought: her boyfriend just kicked her out...for NO reason?.... are these all the facts about this story? Maybe something might me amiss here?... Just saying. Overall I felt for her and her depressing life story, and wish her best luck in life. But that detail..........
@@nahanddejan2984 yeah parents kicked her out, then boyfriend, then employer... There should be some accountability here too. But it's understandable for someone who eats a banana on the hours of sleep.
@@nahanddejan2984 u really think someone who had no support around her wouldnt instantly jump to the first person who would love her? u've seen this happen too many times, girls like this are looking for people too love them like a parent
@@nahanddejan2984 meaning she probably got involved with a toxic bf
@@loliwinxedits6095 why toxic?
she couldn't maintain her job when she has one.
on top , Japan is a different culture and mentality , maybe her bf try to help but it's huge difference between help and be taken care of.
Nobita, please start a gofundme for her. I know giving her money isn't a long term solution but it's all I could do for her at the moment as I'm not living in Japan. You should recommend an NGO to her so she can be given accommodation and teach her life skills so she'd at least be able to hold down a part-time job.
@@kurtgomez4171 I think giving her an address would be better, if they feel bad about it they can pay whoever provided it some monetary compensation and leave when they can get a permanent residence.
@@kurtgomez4171 SO, maybe she will accept it, don't make decisions for her
she has no bank account from what i understood...
This broke my heart, poor girl some people don't deserve to have kids. I lost mine and cannot imagine how terrible a person must be to treat a sweet child kid so bad like this.
Sorry for your loss...
@@tatan4939 Thank you!!
I pray to god to bless you with a child you will love and raise.
So pitiful!
@Uncle Gold eu ia perguntar a mesma coisa...
外国で見たホームレスも、西成も山谷のドヤ街でも、ホームレスは大概ガリガリ。でもこの人プクプクだねｗ洋服もキレイ。顔も汚れ一つないね。髪もかなり手入れしている。本当のホームレス女の髪なんか、ごわごわですけどね。本当の貧困を知る私からしたらこの人、かなり怪しい。
That women is the strongest women I have ever seen...she was describing her miseries without dropping a single tear
@@mephisto5585 strange
She smiling, but her eyes looks so sad to mee
she ran out of tears to shed
When i moved to Japan i started smiling just like her, despite topic of conversation. Its rather a manner of speaking than actual smile.
@@wagamamaShoujo fake peoples
Her second wish is having a job and help young homeless is really got my respect 🙏 she's poor but her heart is different
I think it is not ”she's poor but”, but ”she's poor so”. I suffered a lot of loneliness in my life so there is almost nothing more important to me than helping alone people to be happier. So I think it is the same for her, people just don't want others to suffer from what they suffered from.
Back in 2010 when I first visited Japan I was told by a Japanese tour guide that there were only old homeless people but that they chose to be homeless and that they always had a lot of money in their bank accounts. I've known for some time that her words were just to save face but it's horrifying hearing how the young end up homeless
Argh, major eye roll
At least Japan, a highly developed country, already eradicated absolute poverty long time ago... unlike shitholes like Chyna
@OMEGALUL 123 about what?
''You definitely have to be alive, no matter how tough your life is.'' 💯
that is the right attitude
Inosuke
Yes, as long as it's a good person.
I've been homeless once or twice in my years, it is a draining experience, I was lucky to have somebody teach me their craft and help me get out of the hole, at least she's not giving up, hope she finds somebody that helps her like my teacher, sure the government seems satisfied with just waiting for them to die off, so it's up to those able to help.
I don't know if it means anything coming from a stranger like me, but I wish you both best of luck in your life. You are strong people and I hope others in the similar situations find this strength too.
@elf twentyfive sounds like your family has some addiction issues
@elf twentyfive I'm 100% impressed, when you live in the streets you cannot eat balanced food or be in good shape, you managed to save lot of money even if things went totally wrong every time. In some countries the cost of life is so high + the rent, lot of citizens are at the minimum wages and homeless so it becomes possible to save money. It has been 10 years for me lol, when I'm too tired I "waste" my saving to rent in airbnb. Unfortunately paperless foreighners here get priority to any help for job, lodging, or 'allowance from the state"
@elf twentyfive I nearly cant believe what I did read. Man idk what to say, there are no words for this. Hope you do well now :p
I am just wondering, based on your experiences, is it possible for NGOs to step in and help.. I have this crazy idea of taking those who are willing to rural towns where there are closed schools/facilities, that can be converted into housing and centres for skills training for employment. Could also provide other help and services for them while they take shelter there.
she was smiling, but her eyes cant lie. this world have already failed her.. she deserves more, everyone deserve more
The world hasn’t done anything wrong, it’s just there. You can blame everyone even the homeless lady herself but not a single shred of that blame will do a damn thing. I believe everyone has control of their own fate and if she truly wants a better life, she’ll get it.
@@Edaf304 Everyone doesn't not have a full control on life
There are many factors for starter -where and what kind of environment you are born in
-The luck in many things
These things impacts life without even knowing
@@MysticalStd Everyone has control of their lives whether they realize it or not. It doesn’t matter where you come from, what your status is, your race or religion. We all have the same thing in common, the ability to change. What normally happens when you run into a problem? You FIND A SOLUTION. So you can have all the excuses in the world and not a single one will help you solve what it is you’re going through because excuses sound best to those that make them.
@@Edaf304 You're an incredibly naive person if you think the world works like that.
@@TankSenior then naive I’ll stay, to accept and cower because of limitations is the mindset of the weak, those that are unwilling to change for the better. I’d rather stay naive than become those that are to afraid to take that step forward. So you can accept whatever way you think the world works or makes you feel better about your life.
She's strong, she's a survivor. If she ever reads this I hope she knows she can overcome this. My heart goes out to you.
I think there are many abandoned homes in country side. Government can arrange these homes for the people those who have no homes..
She is so strong mentally and her attitude is so impressive. Smiling even when she was suffering was Comendible. Best of luck to her in life.
At least that's how she presents herself. I do hope that is her true spirit shining through, but depression often leads to lying to others as well as yourself. I wish the best for her and everyone in her situation.
Japan is different man,, you might saw her smile but you dont know truly
@@SaMiChi well, i can confirm this, sometimes i just dont know what i am talking about.
@Maigy 99xx i know you are japanese, thats why i didnt get what you are talking about, except that one.
Please do a follow up on this young lady, and yes many half of a million subscribers you currently possess would gladly help this young girl get back on her feet. anything from clothes, feminine supplies, make up, money or food would happily be sent to help her. no one deserves to be "thrown away" and I have faith that she would pay it forward for many years to come.
My family has an expression, " sometimes you have to have had nothing to appreciate something". her spirit shines far too bright to be forced to live in darkness.
Yea. I was just thinking.
1. Give her a temporary job. 2. Set her up with a gofundme. 3. Set her up with a mailing address for donations from the international community.
That is at least the basics to get her out of this cycle.
Yes i second this, i hope nobita sees this. we'd love to see her live a comfortable life.
Exactly, pretty sure the subbers and viewers would help. The only thing is long term sustenance.
Those are some profound words. Been there myself for a long time, and it took years to get even a semblance of hope to the situation bettering. You truly learn to appreciate even the most trivial of things. I don't really have much, but I would definitely help out the young woman.
Please give us an update on this young woman in the future. She seem like a really sweet girl. The fact that she didn't burst into tears on some of the topic shows how strong she is.
Check the pin comment, there has been an update.
Channel owner posted an update in the comments but he didn't pin it (which he should have done) so u have to look for the comment. The girl did get her ID back from those fcked up "parents" with the help of non-profit organization so she can finally look for job, rent an apartment and get a phone number, also she gets some support from people, tho there's some issues with donating. Well u should read it yourself
@@erikasl.7050 Thank you for telling me that because I was looking for the pinned comment but couldn't find it.
@@erikasl.7050 I bet when they saw their daughter in the video, it showed them exactly how wicked they are.
@@Phawks-Phire yw and i doubt those "parents" care tbh and i doubt they watched the video
"I believe I can be happy someday." What a strong woman. Hope things will be better for her.
This young lady's homeless, but she has such a strong spirit and will to live. She still wants to help others in her situation and not giving up. I respect her so much and hope someone will give her the chance to help others.
imagine having a child that didn't want to be born only to force them into being homeless for being different. people are extremely selfish these days
The more think about it latest studies shows that the rate of child being born is decreasing so Its always all about human survival. But dont worry several thousand of years our race would go extinct. Then someone would quote several thousand years from now "that kid got lucky to be born on an endangeref species which is us humans.
@@koujin4406 who would even be that "someone" if humans were to go extinct? aliens? lmao
Always have been. :notameme:
@@floopk8036 oh so your not open with that kind of idea. Evolution nor outworld entities your even laughing with your complacency.but i respect your opinion because your way to intelligent and more knowledgable man. Praise floopk
Wait a minute are you a man or a woman. Sorry for assuming something hahahha
I’m 25 and I was homeless pretty recently too. There are so many struggles you have to face with no car, home, or mobile devices. Being homeless puts you at a huge disadvantage at obtaining a stable life. I live in an apartment now, but I still don’t even have a bed. Life is really slow for me right now. I want to go to Japan and possibly live there. I hope things get better for those in poverty though. Being homeless sucks.
Glad things are looking up for you. Having lived and worked in Japan I have to say while I love the country, it can be a cold cruel place with minimal support and harsh working environments. But I hope you get to realize your dream maybe it will be better for you then me.
Dude, where are you from? I am from indonesia, my friends go to japan work as a farm labour, some of them go to australia work as fruit picking at apple farm. Some of them go to malaysia work as farm labour, cleaning services, and some of them go to singapore work at fast food restaurant. So why are you homeless?
@@luckyspin8225 he's not homeless anymore if you read the text.
Glad that you have an apartment! Soon, you’ll get a bed :)
@@luckyspin8225 disana karena covid banyak di yg diputus kontrak
"Even if you're denied by everyone and you have nobody now, you definitely have to be alive, no matter how tough your life is. You definitely should not commit suicide. "
These are not the words of an inspirational person, a politician or a successful person who has experienced 100 failures.
It came from a homeless girl.
She made my day. 🙂
Definitely, her words are amazing. I mean like I'm a 22 year old guy. I'm having everything, money, place to live, education, my parents quite wealthy and very kind. However, I feel lonely, I only have few friends and want to become sociable person but it's hard for me. Also, I want to have a girlfriend but since I don't have connection and lonely it so hard to get one. She makes me feel grateful for my life and makes me happy.
Why not? I don't like this stigma because it may perpetuate undeserved suffering
Nobita!!! Please start a gofundme for this girl, I’m sure there are many people who would donate to her cause and help her stand back up on her feet!
Agree!
Yes, Nobita should do that when meeting with people who are going through these difficulties.
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@@Pilgrim182 I think all of us could make a big difference for this one individual, if Nobita starts a gofundme for her, we can help her change her life!
And I only would trust the gofundme if it was Nobit who start it!
Man I was searching for such comment.....Im willing to donate.
girl: *get homeless and kicked out of the house without ID*
govt: seems fine to me.
Its different over there. They (the government) don't want to see things that dont put them in good standing because if you dont shine a spot light on it no one sees it. Its just a matter of saving face and as a result these people let lost and forgotten.
@@jewelplate It's also a social behaviour to keep your spirit high and to be positive no matter what. And then people don't allow themselves to feel down or speak about it when reality becomes sad or ugly. And nobody wanting to see things.
Anyway my take on this matter is about a government not doing its job.
Japanese government is very good at hiding dark side of the society. Homeless is a problem they cannot solve and not interested in trying. The media is also not helping, they are only interested in bashing China. I am glad that there is still independent RUclipsr like Nobita who don’t mind to show the problem instead of sweeping under the carpet.
@@freeskier64
I agree. The Japanese government is promoting the good parts of Japan to overseas and advertising that "Japan is a wonderful country", but the actual problem is quite deep-rooted. Of course it is a good country. However, as a Japanese person, I have been working in this country for about 15 years, and I think that this country is not suitable for working.
Of course, foreigners need more trouble. It is quite difficult for foreigners to work in Japan. It's a pension issue. Since that is a system for Japanese people, foreigners will lose money. Foreigners who want to work in Japan should first know about the Japanese pension system. It's similar to the Ponzi scheme.
I admit to tearing up when I saw they'd bought her a meal. Her situation is so horribly unfair that seeing her get some basic human kindness was heartbreaking. I hope she can somehow get her identification cards so that she can get on her feet, she's such a strong woman to be able to keep such a positive attitude.
me too nick, because like her I also have a social anxiety disorder, I work hard to suppress it, even in school, I'm the one that ate alone, here at my workplace also
@@joeoleary6813 i feel you brother. Had a difficult time at school even now sitting jobless. my Parents got some issues but after watching this I'm glad i have them. The thing about dealing with this thing
@@joeoleary6813 i improved my appearance. It automatically brought back my confidence to a small extent. Later i started hanging out with seniors at school due to sports. It made me a bit famous at my school hence gave me more confidence. It'll take time to change yourself and change the perception of you in other's eyes but it's just tweaking a bit to get more acceptance.
This will take time. in my case took 3-4 years.
I think she needs to learn how to socialize and work. Seems most of her problems come from screwing up at work (breaking things). Also, its weird how the boy friend kicked her out for "no reason". I am sure there was a reason. I hope she can get her life back however. Throwing money at her wont really help in the end though. Give a man a fish, he eats for a day. Teach a man how to fish...
Depression is like everyday having a mind trying to die, while having a body striving to survive. For us, it's so hard to change. Change means adjusting to this trashy and cold-hearted world. What's more, We didn't wish to be born and suffer the cruelty of people. I can feel her pain while she's talking. Makes me wanna cry...
The world is not what our hearts expected. We just got to live and appreciate what we have, every chance we get.
Yeah, life is just pointless suffer with death as the ending
This is just Japan bro.... " cold-hearted Japan..."
I have a heart. Don't you have one?
@@ZzrozZ Yes.. I do have a heart and feel terrible for those in a tough situation...
But I also have NO tolerance for others (That would be you) that are just interested in painting themselves as a victim when they have every opportunity to get off their asses and lead a happy and productive life instead of blaming everyone and society for everything they perceive wrong and unfair.
Nobita, my wife and I have always wanted to have a daughter. When I see parents who treat their daughter like that it hits me very hard. Learning disabilities and other mental challenges are common all over the world. That no reason to be angry at your daughter. She needs that much more love. I really feel sorry for her. It's also too bad the government will not help them. She needs an ID to get an Address. She needs an address to get money. To make money, she needs an ID. We have young people in Montreal who live in the streets. A Catholic Priest, affectionately called Pops by the kids, would go around with a camping car and feed them hot dogs and soft drink. He would just listen to them. He was a very nice man. It's like your gesture of getting that meal for her. You are a very nice man too, Nobita. 👍
That's very sad that government doesnt help these children when abused by parents. End up being homeless. At least government need to give them counseling and set them up for some jobs to survive.
The address hell loop is an idiocy, I remember seeing this portraited in a recent Yakuza video game, where the main characters couldn't get a job because they didn't have an address
@@hector1404 There's also the family register thing for other stuff. The government simply ignores people who don't fit nicely into ideal family situations. That's messed up.
@@pokyboss4281 Of course, it's a sum of a lot of things, it is not a simple issue to tackle, but the government could at least ease the burden with that address requirement loophole.
@@hector1404 This is also a thing (address, or phone number for some) in the west.
@@hector1404 the loop doesn't stop there they can't work because the company / anyone will refuse to accept people like them,
The easiest way to out of this situation is by committing a crime.
Where is she now?
Not gonna lie, Japan looks like a terribly depressing place to live, even those with a certain degree of "stability", seem to be projecting a fake smile, constantly.
@@lainiwakura1776 I agree, but I'm talking about Japan in general, not basing things on a single smile; all the japanese people I've met throughout 3 decades, have always told me of how surprised and pleased they were, when they got out of their country, they have encountered warmth and humanity in ways that a japanese person can only dream of in their own country.
I think it's because the formalities in their culture make them somewhat cold
@@Frank-gs3kf Then those formalities need to change. It also has to do with social engineering and government (govern ment, governing mentalities) control through institutionalized education; this has deep roots in their past, after all, we are talking about what is perhaps the only culture on the planet, that has formal ritualized suicide.
@@TalkingAboutGames it's likely that the younger generation is slightly different as it's been influenced by the internet and globalization. Also, as outsiders we don't know the full picture, so it's not our place to judge another culture. There's always good and bad everywhere depending where you look.
@@Frank-gs3kf Except that, if you read my other post on this thread, japanese themselves have said so, and I can judge whatever culture I want, you, nor anyone else, don't get to decide that.
What a legend. She's so strong. I've been a homeless girl for years. Me too, I had the possibility of prostitution but I never ever wanted to do it. I struggled but actually I have a home and a good job. Nothing is impossible. It's just harder. My best wishes to this strong girl
Great message. Are you french?
Her first goal wanting to live with the cat almost made me cry. Everyone out there wants to be the next Bill Gates with huge villas so much money they don't know how to spend it. This girl just wants to live with her cat. How pure is that? I really hope this dream of hers will come true. ♥️ She also seems like a very polite and interesting person. She deserves the best of luck.
Well said !!
This current form of Neoliberal Oligarchic Plutocratic Capitalism is an evil ideology that needs to go into the trash bin of history. Rewarding scumbags like Jeff Bozos with two yachts and meanwhile people are being thrown out on the streets.
Sei troppo fiduciosa negli altri che non conosci davvero. Sei veramente troppo bambina tendente al pianto. Non credere a tutto quello che vedi su RUclips !!!
この子のチャンネル、更新が途絶えてますけど生きてるんですか？クラウドファンディング900万のその後のシーンの取材をぜひ。
I’m always surprised when people in such tough situations are smiling. I’ve met very well of people that never smile, not even once. Seems backwards to me
When people are regularly down, and little bit of success is a moment of happiness. Once you're well off, you're too worried about trying to keep your standards of living.
When you're smiling people leave you alone. "He / she is smiling, thus they must be ok". No bombardment of dumb / annoying questions like "how are you?" or "are you ok?" and alike. Eventually it becomes an automatic "default" face you have whenever someone's near you.
It's a smile that has no actual happiness in it, it's just a "leave me alone" message
It's why the world was created this way and it's also the justification for the existence of evil. Once you hit your lowest point, you realize what is important. Also, being in the low point gives you valuable information about the world you would never have gleaned otherwise.
If the world were made perfect with no flaws, we'd all be incapable of imagining anything else, therefore, a good life would have no meaning. After all, it's only because of her condition that you even know this girl exists and are able to feel compassion for her.
It's a front, a short of defense mechanism, it doesn't reflect how they feel inside.
I smiled every time someone talked to me when I was really fucked up
I have 2 goals:
1. "I want to be able to live with the cat again."
2. "I want to have a job that supports young homeless people like me.
Non credo che tu sia giapponese. Se sei un senzatetto come ti puoi permettere un computer per scrivere su RUclips ?
How about some farming, like raise some vegetables or animals outside city, i think there are lots abandoned house outside nowadays.
I'm jobless too but thank god that I have my parents that supports me. I'm never gonna complain about my life again and never gonna give up
Me too I'm jobless for nearly 7 months now. I'm lucky enough to have nice parents to support me though I'm already old enough to support myself. I still hope to get a job even it's hard because of Covid.
@@jajasatorashi136 yes love we're on the same boat. The biggest thing is to keep trying 😊
Yes. Never give up.
Its common in Nepal.But the culture is Japan is different
@@sumeetamang6257 yep..are you a college graduate?
Can we get an update/video to what she did the donation money
This is so sad. I can see tears in her eyes even though she is not crying literally..
I love Japanese people
Meru's story brought tears to my eyes... She went through abuse from her family, had no friends in school, could bare keep a job, kicked to the streets by her boyfriend, and is and literally alone on the streets and sleeping 2 hours a day - and having the strength to refuse suicide as an escape deeply inspired me...
I recently went through breakup with a women I loved and she loved me. We wanted to spend our lives together. Our circumstances separated us. We were long distance and my mother is sick, so I chose to stay in California... Leaving her in Washington DC... I fell in deep depression... Questioning my existence everyday. Trying not to resent my dysfunctional family. Trying not to give up as I'm in between jobs trying to make a career change from work I hate and not wanting to return... I thought about grabbing my gun and ending it all, day after day....
Thankfully I just came out of that deep depression with a new look on life. And for me to watch this video as I step into the light with new faith in myself, I have to thank Meru for her words as she shows life is worth living regardless of how hard and cruel it can be towards you. KEEP LIVING!
I wish I can support Meru. I've always had deep compassion and sympathy for the homeless since I was a kid...
The mentality "it's a family issue" may be one of the worse things authorities have to shove down the throats of many victims.
This girl looks so clean and her hair so shiny and for someone that sleeps just 2 has a night she sure looked bright. I find it difficult to trust what I see on the internet. If she is genuinely homeless then I pray she is housed now and safe.
This woman is an ubermensch. Despite her hard life, she continues to struggle and does not compromise her values to avoid struggle. The Japanese government should be paying her just to be around Japanese people as a role model.
Thats not the definition of a übermensch but I understand what u mean
They won't.
Because those kinds of people that are exactly have the tendency to undermine or even oppose the bureaucratic clerkdom and their ruling masters mate.
Why would they promote such individuals along with certain behaviors that may endanger their own existence yes?
Seeing her all I could think was, "even if I had only a spare couch she could use that."
The thought of being homeless & roaming for 3 year sounds like a nightmare.
Unfortunately she also got dealt beyond terrible parents. Proof that some people shouldn't have kids.
No, it's proof that terrible parents can still produce strong, inspiring children.
I'm actually a u.s. military Navy Veteran and I have been homeless several times after serving 14 year's honorable in the military and I was so heart broken to see 14 and 15 years old teenage kids on the street in San Diego California USA and I will give them what ever money or food that I had on me and try to find help for them and myself and I always remember that, even though I am not on the streets and homeless anymore, I always try to help these kids and I pray for them and I still cry 😭 over their situation 😭, I want to be rich so I could get them off the streets and not be homeless, thank you for allowing me to share my life story.
@@nathanieldortch7502 what's the use of being a wealthy nation when many people suffer like this... I hope all the countries focus on ensuring there is a minimum bar, a life of dignity should be guaranteed, atleast a possibility or opportunity at such a life.
@@AdityaPrasad007 The government, and banks, steal most of the nation's wealth.
In today's modern world, everyone should be billionaires, rightfully.
Most people don't know that, but that's the level of corruption at the top of the pyramid.
Some lunatics should be sterilized
Damn, that's heartbreaking. She seems like a sweet, intelligent young woman, who smiles easily even though she's endured a lot. I hope things turn better for her, that maybe someone might see your video and think, "that's just the person we need". I think she'd do well in some field like public relations.
Is she really homeless or just an actress for the homeless? She seems too talented and positive for someone of her circumstance, too clean and privileged (judging from her apparel) to be really homeless..
What a beautiful strong girl she is. She said that she wants a job so she could support those that are homeless wow!!! That is incredible! Keep fighting beautiful one.
she said she wants a job directly working with homeless people that involves helping them '.' like that would be a vocational accomplishment that would make her feel good about her life
"if you have a good family environment or human relationships, you're less likely to be in poverty" well, that explains a lot :/
And if you accept that mentality then you deserve to be so.
"Human relationships"... lol, if you have a vagina, the only reason you're homeless is if you refuse to have sex with men. Even if you completely fail at life, all you have to do is find a man (they are almost all desperate) and move into his house and have him provide you food. And if you get pregnant, the state will take care of you. Homelessness for women under 30 is a choice.
@@BoopSnoot Don’t undervalue the physical and psychological burden that sex can have on a woman, especially a young woman.
@@danielz.7346 You must be really bad in bed if sex is a burden for your partners.
I want my cat back and get a job... Such a light... I will pray for this girl. Please survive. There will be a better life for you and very soon. I believe in you.
Amen ❤️
ADHD is very difficult especially when you're homeless and comes from a dysfunctional family. i feel for her. i hope she will have better days ahead :) i'd say she's mentally stronger than me
What ADHD?
@@abilmut its a developmental disorder that make it hard to focus and concentrate. there are medication that can help though.