I’m 29. Just ended an 8 month relationship with a 40 year old doctor (never been married no kids.) All he did was talk about how he’s a family man without a family and how he wants a Christian wife and children. He is 6’2, makes a load of money as a doctor, no debt, not necessarily a hot man but a decent looking clean cut one….. I realized if he truly wanted one so bad he wouldn’t be 40 and unmarried by choice. I had to admit to myself that he will never marry me. He probably won’t marry anyone for a while because he sees himself as the ultimate catch and finds unforgivable faults in every woman he has talked to. All I know is he doesn’t want me and I can tell by his actions so I’m done. I am not gonna waste another second of my youth on a man who won’t marry me.
Great decision. Most of us as women have a very difficult time understanding the difference between a man wanting us vs a man wanting access to us. They are 2 different things. Very proud of you that you knew the difference and left.
All facts! This is why I feel like the godly spouse rhetoric is played out. I’m tired of these single male RUclipsrs preaching to me about how to position myself correctly so God can send me a husband. All this spiritual advice with a sprinkle of logic. I’m over it. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge❤
This made me think of a famous relationship coach who I won't mention his name, but I remember when he was on a podcast and the host asked him how does he meet women to date. This man says out his mouth his seminars...smh. WOW...SPEAKS volumes 😉
“Ladies you got to be paying attention!”” 😂 FACTS! Please pay attention to this host! I am humbled to be in 25 years of marriage and serving many couples. Trust the REPORTS AND FINDINGS REGARDING HUMAN BEHAVIOR. It doesn’t deviate. Nothing new in how primal behavior is mapped in the mind. LIES AREN’T SCHOLARLY OR SOPHISTICATED ENOUGH TO STAND UP TO WISDOM & TRUTH.
In my case his wife was in another country and the divorce was pending. after a few months I put it together he scammed me a single mother and she left the USA to get away from him. Be careful ladies please. Next time he taught me to do a background check! damn shame.
The vulnerabilities of single, lonely, Christian are preyed upon weekly! It’s grifting, but with a “holy” spin! The grift won’t stop, because the money is too good! I’m glad I’m deconstructing from religion! It’s the biggest game changer in bringing clarity especially as it relates to the black fundamentalist church culture! This message was so needed and timely!
Great video. I've said for years, when a man really wants a wife, it doesn't take years. They don't want to be married for whatever reason. They play games, have excuses, while portraying a façade.
I just came across this video today. I felt like the guy for the Dear Future Wifey Podcast was a joke and I could not continue to watch his podcast because I thought he was lying about wanting to get married again. I guess since I don't want to get married again I can spot a man a mile away who feels the same way that I do. My intuition has been on point lately and I have been avoiding these men running game on RUclips. I could not take him seriously when he would cry or get emotionally behind his guests talking about their love stories.
Girl! I’m loving your podcast!!! I agree with what you said about the podcast (Dear Future Wifey Podcast). I actually spoke to the host… and girl! 🤦🏾♀️ you speaking truth.
Many manipulators and abusers use religion to prey. Ask questions, and watch behaviors. Does actions match words? Trust your gut. Dear Wifey dude asks a lot questions to retain and use later...is what my gut says. The day he cried on his podcast bc the woman he shortly dated broke it off bc she sd she had to work on herself....despite him saying he was going to work on her with her and take her stuff just bc he loved her so much...was a big Red Flag to me. And that woman felt the same. She followed her gut. Dear Wifey guy gives me toxic. Even by his Da’Naia interview I felt this by his questions. He’s learning to adjust his game by the answers given by women and men.
I wish that I could high five you!! I thought to myself that the Dear Future Wifey guy was off, I get that he is recovering from s-x addiction but I listened a couple of times and was thinking “that spirit still controls you bro”…my senses were heightened when he had Essence Atkins on the show…forgive me but he was salivating smh. And what really took me over the edge was a few months ago (may have been longer) he comes on there confessing that he had just broke up with someone and the way had was explaining it, I just couldn’t deal. Stopped listening from there. I’m like you, you are surrounded by some many saved, beautiful and successful woman -I will not believe you have not come across one that is suitable as a wife. Just playing games.
@ LaCo Yes he gives me " full of b.s" vibes. Its like he has a cult type following where all his comments are 100% in agreement with everything he says, which is weird. I read him as being ungenuine.
I saw that video. I couldn't finish it. When he was explaining what happened, it sounds like what Christian men have been doing for decades. It was a weird story.
Girl SAME! I always side eyed him whenever he told his story. Just red flags everywhere. I felt the language he used indicated he was not the man of God he wanted to portray himself to be. When he told the story about the woman he was dating, he sounded like a narcissist who love bombed her and she discerned who he was quickly and wanted to separate. When he said he broke down and started texting her erratically while at his daughter’s wedding I thought it was so manipulative and controlling - a ploy to force her to talk to him. I was disgusted. I couldn’t take him seriously after that. By the time he brought Derrick Jackson on I was all the way done. Just another person tryna make money off of people’s pain points in relationships, adding no value.
Now that Tony and Laterrus are fighting, this broadcast need a part 2! Theyre both scammers and weirdos. Tony has a DARK energy that I cant name just yet. I used to be close to a sex addict, and I see that same spirit on Tony. He mentioned that sometimes he doesnt hace sex with his wife for a month. That raised serious red flags. Idk whats up with tony, but it'll come out. Laterrus is very obviously a fraud, but Tony is more insidious somehow.
The Future Wifey podcast guy comes off as a tremendous flirt. I think where there is flirtation by a guy, there will be some physical action, eventually. And I don’t mean him getting married.
This was very good and very on point! I feel the same way about the Dear Wifey Guy. I have been exactly where you are speaking on with a few Single Preacher/Pastor players; I Thank God for healing and now discernment. God always gave me warnings and even said clearly that’s a NO NO and I ignored it. I am great now after been there done that and putting in the work. I can truly write a book.Again, this was AWESOME! Thank you!❤❤🙏🏽
This was extremely helpful. God bless you. I have no clue how to navigate these dating streets but your podcasts really have opened my eyes to many things. I married young and remained as such until my husband passed away. I sought counseling for the grief and for me going forward, but times have truly changed. It has been 7 years since that happened, and I am at peace. I will be real careful to not let someone disturb that peace. Thank you for your profound perspective.
THIS IS SUCH A DEEP PROFOUND MESSAGE...VERY INFORMATIVE...YOU SHOULD TEACH A CLASS TO SINGLE CHURCH WOMEN WANTING A RELATIONSHIP...GIVE THEM THE SIGNS OF REALNESS AND GAME WHEN IT COMES TO MALE /FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS...IMO.. SUPER GREAT JOB...
Wow! You’re like the classy female auntie we all need! Thank you for coming onto youtube- but it’s interesting how since DJ ex wife interview came out quite a few people felt something off about the interviewer as well. Besides his laughing they felt it was something disingenuous but you’ve articulated your point so well. Also I agree with the men and a bunch of female friends- when Cynthia Bailey from housewives of Atlanta was getting married to her then second husband he had a lot of female friends and it seemed very suspect but they proceeded in marriage anyway and I think 2 years later they were divorced and I’m not saying they got divorced because of the female friends but I’m sure that played a role or at least it’s something that single women should be mindful of
When I watched the Sorry Ms Jackson podcast, God revealed so much to me but I didn't go into to much other than I will continue to pray for her.... You confirmed what I was feeling
This is so 💯, the friend circle of women is called a Narcissists Harem. Male Narcissts keep female friends, and in that circle of friends, they're all fighting each other for his attention. Im watching this play out at church.
It’s quite funny that this has come back up with him and Tony Gaskins. I’m not a huge fan of him either, but Laterras Whitfield is so easy to see through. It was only a matter of time before someone else called him out.
It’s sad to see these women who were labeled as “friends” for twenty years acting like they got something special now that the Pastor/Bishop finally married them. There’s one in Detroit who did the same thing Noel Jones did. They got married because the man is too old and sick and can’t run from one woman to another woman anymore.
“You’ll love me more than you’ll love you.” - ADAM…man of clay. THIS PODCAST. Follow people who give you RESOURCES AND FOOTNOTES spot on presentation💯💯💯(one observation, do we follow our consciousness or our convictions which come from our moral compass which Is inspired by the Holy Spirit? (Psalm 139, Psalm 51, Titus 2, Habbakuk 2, James 1).
I absolutely love the message on your show, however some women run more game than men. Men also get tricked into believing that a woman loves them but they really don't. Some men are generally used for their money and once they run out, the woman is on to the next one. So really this a mutual game men and women play, we just have to pray and watch out for the once who are trying to play and decieve us. Discernment
Hi, the dear future guy did a show some months ago about his girlfriend who declined his proposal, otherwise would be engaged now. But you do make vaild points 👍🏾
This is laughable that you think this means something. Your common sense should tell that if the girl refused she had a darn good reason cause he's a cheater ma'am.
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I’m 29. Just ended an 8 month relationship with a 40 year old doctor (never been married no kids.) All he did was talk about how he’s a family man without a family and how he wants a Christian wife and children. He is 6’2, makes a load of money as a doctor, no debt, not necessarily a hot man but a decent looking clean cut one….. I realized if he truly wanted one so bad he wouldn’t be 40 and unmarried by choice. I had to admit to myself that he will never marry me. He probably won’t marry anyone for a while because he sees himself as the ultimate catch and finds unforgivable faults in every woman he has talked to. All I know is he doesn’t want me and I can tell by his actions so I’m done. I am not gonna waste another second of my youth on a man who won’t marry me.
Great decision. Most of us as women have a very difficult time understanding the difference between a man wanting us vs a man wanting access to us. They are 2 different things. Very proud of you that you knew the difference and left.
My gut has never failed me..I fail me when I ignor my gut.
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You broke the game down. These men “relationship gurus” are getting paid off of desperate women. Relationship videos are at the top of the algorithm.
Yup! I’m glad I unsubscribed from a bunch of them.
All facts! This is why I feel like the godly spouse rhetoric is played out. I’m tired of these single male RUclipsrs preaching to me about how to position myself correctly so God can send me a husband. All this spiritual advice with a sprinkle of logic. I’m over it. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge❤
reminds me cam newton praying for a wife while having a new baby and a whole gf 🙄#liars #decepticons
That Noel Jones situation is a great lesson for the younger generation. Everything you touched on is 100% FACTS!
This made me think of a famous relationship coach who I won't mention his name, but I remember when he was on a podcast and the host asked him how does he meet women to date. This man says out his mouth his seminars...smh. WOW...SPEAKS volumes 😉
Woooooow!
“Ladies you got to be paying attention!”” 😂 FACTS! Please pay attention to this host! I am humbled to be in 25 years of marriage and serving many couples. Trust the REPORTS AND FINDINGS REGARDING HUMAN BEHAVIOR. It doesn’t deviate. Nothing new in how primal behavior is mapped in the mind. LIES AREN’T SCHOLARLY OR SOPHISTICATED ENOUGH TO STAND UP TO WISDOM & TRUTH.
You're the sister we all need, thank you ❤
I knew that Future Wifey guy was off! 👍🏽
2024 August and he's still not married! Smh!
In my case his wife was in another country and the divorce was pending. after a few months I put it together he scammed me a single mother and she left the USA to get away from him. Be careful ladies please. Next time he taught me to do a background check! damn shame.
The vulnerabilities of single, lonely, Christian are preyed upon weekly! It’s grifting, but with a “holy” spin! The grift won’t stop, because the money is too good! I’m glad I’m deconstructing from religion! It’s the biggest game changer in bringing clarity especially as it relates to the black fundamentalist church culture! This message was so needed and timely!
Great video. I've said for years, when a man really wants a wife, it doesn't take years. They don't want to be married for whatever reason. They play games, have excuses, while portraying a façade.
It definitely don’t take 10 or 20 years. No self respecting woman would put up with that.
@@suric4828 Exactly!
I just came across this video today. I felt like the guy for the Dear Future Wifey Podcast was a joke and I could not continue to watch his podcast because I thought he was lying about wanting to get married again. I guess since I don't want to get married again I can spot a man a mile away who feels the same way that I do. My intuition has been on point lately and I have been avoiding these men running game on RUclips. I could not take him seriously when he would cry or get emotionally behind his guests talking about their love stories.
👋🏽 MVMO! You are awesome! Love love love your commentary! Keep up the EXCELLENT work!! 👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Girl! I’m loving your podcast!!! I agree with what you said about the podcast (Dear Future Wifey Podcast). I actually spoke to the host… and girl! 🤦🏾♀️ you speaking truth.
Sooooo goood!!! I feel the same way about dear future wifey host , jay Barnett, dread head guy, and etc how are you guy single for years
Wow! " You love me More than you love You! " Powerful!
This was VERY GOOD!!! I love this channel. So much common sense advise.
Please can you do more of these videos that warn us, especially church girls who are so naive.
Hi. I only do these when we are talking about celebs or something now. I don't want to make such convos the mainstay of the channel.
You took me out with the Vitamin D comment! This reflection was on point. Please take it to the next level with a conference !
Many manipulators and abusers use religion to prey. Ask questions, and watch behaviors. Does actions match words? Trust your gut.
Dear Wifey dude asks a lot questions to retain and use later...is what my gut says.
The day he cried on his podcast bc the woman he shortly dated broke it off bc she sd she had to work on herself....despite him saying he was going to work on her with her and take her stuff just bc he loved her so much...was a big Red Flag to me. And that woman felt the same. She followed her gut. Dear Wifey guy gives me toxic. Even by his Da’Naia interview I felt this by his questions. He’s learning to adjust his game by the answers given by women and men.
Cracked me up “calm down girl”! Lol I love this!
Thank you for teaching us!! I could listen to you all day!
I wish that I could high five you!! I thought to myself that the Dear Future Wifey guy was off, I get that he is recovering from s-x addiction but I listened a couple of times and was thinking “that spirit still controls you bro”…my senses were heightened when he had Essence Atkins on the show…forgive me but he was salivating smh. And what really took me over the edge was a few months ago (may have been longer) he comes on there confessing that he had just broke up with someone and the way had was explaining it, I just couldn’t deal. Stopped listening from there. I’m like you, you are surrounded by some many saved, beautiful and successful woman -I will not believe you have not come across one that is suitable as a wife. Just playing games.
@ LaCo Yes he gives me " full of b.s" vibes. Its like he has a cult type following where all his comments are 100% in agreement with everything he says, which is weird. I read him as being ungenuine.
I saw that video. I couldn't finish it. When he was explaining what happened, it sounds like what Christian men have been doing for decades. It was a weird story.
Girl SAME! I always side eyed him whenever he told his story. Just red flags everywhere. I felt the language he used indicated he was not the man of God he wanted to portray himself to be. When he told the story about the woman he was dating, he sounded like a narcissist who love bombed her and she discerned who he was quickly and wanted to separate. When he said he broke down and started texting her erratically while at his daughter’s wedding I thought it was so manipulative and controlling - a ploy to force her to talk to him. I was disgusted. I couldn’t take him seriously after that. By the time he brought Derrick Jackson on I was all the way done. Just another person tryna make money off of people’s pain points in relationships, adding no value.
how i feel when a man asks me if I'm married i say yes then he asks 'happily?' 😶
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Ooh I thought about Cynthia from RHOA recent ex husband. All those women friends he had, I said the same thing about him.
Now that Tony and Laterrus are fighting, this broadcast need a part 2! Theyre both scammers and weirdos. Tony has a DARK energy that I cant name just yet. I used to be close to a sex addict, and I see that same spirit on Tony. He mentioned that sometimes he doesnt hace sex with his wife for a month. That raised serious red flags. Idk whats up with tony, but it'll come out. Laterrus is very obviously a fraud, but Tony is more insidious somehow.
Yes same feeling abt the guy Dear Future Wifey. Something abt him.
Very insightful. Great commentary as usual 😊
Dating Log will help me follow my gut.❤
The Future Wifey podcast guy comes off as a tremendous flirt.
I think where there is flirtation by a guy, there will be some physical action, eventually. And I don’t mean him getting married.
Excellent!!!! I hope this message didn't fall on deaf ears.
This was very good and very on point! I feel the same way about the Dear Wifey Guy. I have been exactly where you are speaking on with a few Single Preacher/Pastor players; I Thank God for healing and now discernment. God always gave me warnings and even said clearly that’s a NO NO and I ignored it. I am great now after been there done that and putting in the work. I can truly write a book.Again, this was AWESOME! Thank you!❤❤🙏🏽
This was an excellent show.
This was extremely helpful. God bless you. I have no clue how to navigate these dating streets but your podcasts really have opened my eyes to many things. I married young and remained as such until my husband passed away. I sought counseling for the grief and for me going forward, but times have truly changed. It has been 7 years since that happened, and I am at peace. I will be real careful to not let someone disturb that peace. Thank you for your profound perspective.
THIS IS SUCH A DEEP PROFOUND MESSAGE...VERY INFORMATIVE...YOU SHOULD TEACH A CLASS TO SINGLE CHURCH WOMEN WANTING A RELATIONSHIP...GIVE THEM THE SIGNS OF REALNESS AND GAME WHEN IT COMES TO MALE /FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS...IMO..
SUPER GREAT JOB...
Wow! You’re like the classy female auntie we all need! Thank you for coming onto youtube- but it’s interesting how since DJ ex wife interview came out quite a few people felt something off about the interviewer as well. Besides his laughing they felt it was something disingenuous but you’ve articulated your point so well. Also I agree with the men and a bunch of female friends- when Cynthia Bailey from housewives of Atlanta was getting married to her then second husband he had a lot of female friends and it seemed very suspect but they proceeded in marriage anyway and I think 2 years later they were divorced and I’m not saying they got divorced because of the female friends but I’m sure that played a role or at least it’s something that single women should be mindful of
I knew he was a fake 😂
I love your commentary ❤
A friend of mine was interviewed on the my future wifey podcast…I wasn’t feeling him then either 😣
When I watched the Sorry Ms Jackson podcast, God revealed so much to me but I didn't go into to much other than I will continue to pray for her.... You confirmed what I was feeling
This is so 💯, the friend circle of women is called a Narcissists Harem. Male Narcissts keep female friends, and in that circle of friends, they're all fighting each other for his attention. Im watching this play out at church.
Yes. Follow your gut.
It’s quite funny that this has come back up with him and Tony Gaskins. I’m not a huge fan of him either, but Laterras Whitfield is so easy to see through. It was only a matter of time before someone else called him out.
Thanks Again Big Sis(in my head lol)
WE ALL AWAIT PART 2
Excellent!
Thank you
It’s sad to see these women who were labeled as “friends” for twenty years acting like they got something special now that the Pastor/Bishop finally married them. There’s one in Detroit who did the same thing Noel Jones did. They got married because the man is too old and sick and can’t run from one woman to another woman anymore.
Oh my not the Vitamin D! Your observations is spot on! Thank you !! We have to guard our hearts because out of it the issues of life flows from it.
Bravo👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❣️
Now she hosting high tea telling women how to get a man🤷🏾♀️ no ty sis. Not taking advice from a 30 year side chick or almost 30 years
You're kidding me!!!
“You’ll love me more than you’ll love you.” - ADAM…man of clay. THIS PODCAST. Follow people who give you RESOURCES AND FOOTNOTES spot on presentation💯💯💯(one observation, do we follow our consciousness or our convictions which come from our moral compass which Is inspired by the Holy Spirit? (Psalm 139, Psalm 51, Titus 2, Habbakuk 2, James 1).
Thank you kindly, again🤭---🔥 🎯‼️💯...❤
Truth 🔥🙏🏽🎯
Agreed, she spoke only words of wisdom!
By the way MVMO can you talk about Dania Jackson charging people 4K to do 1 on 1 infidelity recovery coaching… I’m thinking 🤔 this is too much
What!!! You've got to be kidding me. Let me look into it.
I left a comment and felt the same way
Whew! This is so true.
Awesome.
I absolutely love the message on your show, however some women run more game than men. Men also get tricked into believing that a woman loves them but they really don't. Some men are generally used for their money and once they run out, the woman is on to the next one. So really this a mutual game men and women play, we just have to pray and watch out for the once who are trying to play and decieve us. Discernment
Will the meet and greet include free food 😂😂
Hi, the dear future guy did a show some months ago about his girlfriend who declined his proposal, otherwise would be engaged now.
But you do make vaild points 👍🏾
This is laughable that you think this means something. Your common sense should tell that if the girl refused she had a darn good reason cause he's a cheater ma'am.
@@mvmochannelI was looking for this comment... a year later, August 2024 and he's still single! Smh!
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