My heart breaks for Spawn. Oh my God, both of these people are absolutely insane. I'm so glad she got the hell out of there. I hope their moldy abode crumbles around them without her there to keep it running.
I know, that poor child. So much of what she described sounds a lot like my childhood, but my mother was an absolute saint compared to those crackpots.
I feel like our society went from "we need to talk about mental health more" to "I'm blaming my sexual harassment of others on my succubus alter" way too quickly.
When you can 'justify' your actions by blaming your mental issues, rather than correcting your behavior, yeah I imagine it spiraled out real fast with the victim mentality leftists. 29:20 - 30:07
My joke to the younger generations is that "someone handed my generation a copy of the DSM and the damage incurred from that has never been healed. I'm sorry little ones."
This shit is wild. I feel like it's worst because everyone can find each other on the internet and feed into each other's delusions. People like this have always existed, but they were either locked up in pysch or pretended to be normal in public. I'm all for being your true self...but this is outta control
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@@get.sassyxd i watched the genesis of all this on tumblr, as did anyone observing the internet in that time frame. it seemed relatively harmless, a bunch of outcasts all pretending their regular teenage angst made them somehow a fiftieth gender. no one ever thought it would become as popular as it has. it's to the point where they claim, hilariously, that their infinity genders is academic consensus. they're not even growing out of it, but actually passing it on to children. wild.
@@Glados00663 ...no, not exactly? While there's a significant number of therapists who were inspired by their own journey, most simply recognise at some point that they've got good empathy and like how people think. Also, no, most therapists shouldn't be actively suffering from mental illnesses, besides burnout, which ideally should be responsibly dealt with.
@@ericraululyeetusdelyeetus5028 probably all my therapist friends are statistical anomaly. One of them got chronical issues, and went to school mainly because she wanted to learn more about their condition, and another one had long going depression and after getting help from therapy got inspired to help another people with similar issues. But their experiences does not represent everyone's else offcourse.
@@SoloBroBrofeelings matter because mental health is on the bottom of the basic needs pyramid. It's essential to feel okay to preform okay in any work scene. So, feelings do matter
True story i have a friend whose husband currently wont drive her 20 minutes into town to the hospital. Because “his back is always killing him when he gets off work”. And she has no liscence and lives hours away from all of her family so therefore cant do it herself. And she is currently suffering from some severe chronic muscle ailment. Thats she can’t even get checked out because the guy is a selfish prick that wants to keep her trapped at home 24/7. These people saddly exist (Edit: she dumped him and finally escaped)
Im not a parent but I can't imagine. I get debilitating migraines, I really have no warning for when they come on but there is absolutely nothing that could stop me from getting my partner the care they need. He does the same for me. These people clearly just don't care about anyone but themselves.
@@jojocaitlin8508 same here, i have a neurological condition so i have chronic migraines too. if my kid (step child or not) needs to see the dentist, im taking them there. idgaf if i have a migraine, when ur a parent/step parent that means u step up.
@@eyeballz5970 I recently got some migraine glasses from Zenni, the 80% tint ones have helped me SO much. If light really bothers you when you have them, they may help. 🖤
@@bobo_official_YT but they're over the age of 18 and the only person that would have any authority would be Poppy. Zena wouldn't be unless there was a court order that made Spawn their dependant.
fr. everyone ive met who actually had that got depressed. but the ones using it as an excuse were always just NASTY and blamed it on that, no matter what time in their cycle it was
@@KimberTheBartender... I'm not sure but I don't think that's what Lycan said. If it is, they, as in only they, may correct me, as, foremost, it is their statement and people that hide behind diagnoses DO exist.
that's not true though. it may not cause YOU to become abusive in any way, but everyone shows symptoms and behaviors differently. that's like me saying BPD doesn't make people abusive bc i don't present those symptoms (anymore). people who have BPD can ABSOLUTELY be abusive because of it because of the anger and emotional dysregulation. it is possible for someone to be abusive in some way due to almost any disorder, it all depends on the person and how bad certain symptoms are. emotional abuse is not rare. it is very common, actually, and it is perpetrated by people with mild-severe mental illnesses all the time. i say this as someone who has been emotionally abusive before, and who has BPD. people deny, deny, deny that BPD can cause abusive tendencies but people who have loved ones with BPD say otherwise, and people who have it who have severe symptoms say otherwise too. you are not the only person with PMDD... you know that. so you can't speak for everyone. when a disorder includes mood swings and any kinds of emotional dysregulation or anger, it can bring about abusive behavior. it's not always beating people or severe verbal abuse. emotional abuse and all sorts of things like you saw in this video are forms of abuse that people don't really talk about that often. i'm just saying... being depressed is not the only symptom of PMDD. and being depressed doesn't cancel out being abusive, either. that's all
Like the time my coworker with an eating disorder had a therapist who talked about how "you aren't that skinny." Betterhealth was partnered with my old job and we got several "free sessions." I left the job soon after that.
@@goddosyourself7970there is a difference between giving your child up for adoption due to whatever reason than treating your child that crap while under your care. Big difference.
To not have your child's back over your partners is absolutely disgustingly unacceptable! You can always find another partner, but you only have one child. I went through the same type of situation growing up. Which is why I have never let anyone come in-between my son and never will!
Just wanted to say, scheduling bathroom usage for someone in a household is absolutely fucking insane and criminally abusive. That's a common practice in nearly all of the most horrible child abuse deaths I have ever read or heard about. It is beyond controlling, moving into dehumanizing territory.
I can understand if someone has digestive issues and have a decent idea when they're going flare up and they post a loose bathroom time for themselves is valid. Every other time? Fuck off. I would've just shit on the floor to make a point.
My previous roommate was insane like that. She wouldn't let me use the bathroom when she was in the hose, and I couldn't go at night cause her bedroom was next to the bathroom. She also loudly played DOTA2 in the living room next to my bedroom despite having a gaming rig in her own bedroom. Good thing I got out of there after a few months.
Another thing commonly seen is parents accusing their children of stealing food. I.e they’re withholding food/starving their child and the child desperately tries to get something to eat. It’s crazy how the most basic things are used as punishment by some.
In this specific case it’s actually disability abuse. POTS can be quite a serious physical condition, it’s crucial to manage symptoms so as not to cause avoidable life threatening complications. It’s an autonomic dysfunction disorder, meaning many bodily systems are dysfunctional. Frequently needing to pee is an uncontrollable common symptom, leading to either wetting oneself or causing a uti if access to a toilet is denied. Vomiting and loss of bowel control are two other symptoms that require bathroom access at a moments notice. Also, it’s crucial to keep up high fluid intake including electrolytes(many have to use saline drips), as well as high salt via regular snacks and meals. Denying these essentials when needed can lead to pots attacks, for some fainting is a common outcome and may prove dangerous as hitting one’s head during an attack can cause concussions or worse. 9 hours of chores too? Also dangerous for pots. Medical fatigue is also a symptom, made much worse by not pacing exertion and activities carefully. This is disability abuse, and endangering her life. Unlike the numerous disabilities these two attention seekers have created for themselves and have demanded take priority. I acknowledge Pmdd is very real, however it’s not life endangering simply by cutting off water access. I also understand BPD is very serious, but again, an emotional meltdown doesn’t take precedence over someone needing an epipen in the midst of anaphylaxis or a diabetic needing insulin. These two individuals, above all else, are sadistic narcissistic menaces and a danger to those around them. They’re living in a fantasy of their own creation and demanding everyone bow to their reality. ‘Spawn’ deserved so much better than this from life.
The same people that support these exact kinds of people and this weird shit are the one's trying to convince us JD Vance is "just weird". Not to get into politics. But I mean, it's pretty funny.
@@womanenjoyer22 But JD isn’t weird at all. Theres nothing remotely weird about the guy. It’s a bizarre slander campaign because he’s running with Trump. If you ran as Trump VP, they’d craft some bizarre fucking story to destroy your character too. The left-wing and Democrats have zero semblance of morality, ethics or honesty. They’ll ruin as many lives as it takes to acquire and maintain power.
"Spawn" should a) get therapy immediately (from a real therapist) and b) check with a doctor to see if she really has these illnesses or if they just were some Münchhausen by proxy thing.
@@mikl12354Spawn is Poppy's daughter. This is the definition of Münchausen by Proxy off of Wikipedia: "-Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSbP) after Munchausen syndrome, is a mental health disorder in which a caregiver creates the appearance of health problems in another person, typically their child, and sometimes (rarely) when an adult simulates an illness in another adult partner.-"
I don’t understand this girl was in her early 20s why didn’t she get outa there sooner. There is no way this behavior just popped up during quarantine it was either there the whole time or it built up over time
As a parent, this is absolutely infuriating. No child should ever have to go through this or any kind of abuse. This actually has managed to make me angry. Hoping for the best for "Spawn," that's just horrible.
I can't feel bad for a 22 year old because they have controlling parents at home. Fucking leave bro. I left at 17 and never looked back, and I love my parents, just didn't want to live with them
a nightmare would be more preferable, atleast you’d wake up and realize it wasnt real. i genuinely feel so bad for Spawn, wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
@@Chronor yeah, I think she could. esp with the text receipts showing they were withholding food and bathroom time, and maybe even the stuff where they force her to work in the heat with POTS. idk too much about the law tho so idk how the trial would play out or what actually qualifies for suing someone who has caused you emotional distress, but there is definitely something solid there so i hope shes able to talk to a lawyer.
@@NashTheInsomniac @Chronor She certainly can sue, for emotional and financial damages caused by their behavior towards her. The withholding of food, the scheduled bathroom times, their forcing her to work in the heat with pots, her hair literally falling out from the stress they were causing her (if that can be proven) would count as emotional damages, and if she can show that she missed several online job interviews due to her internet being throttled or cut off, that could count as financial damages, as well as showing the kind of controlling behavior at the detriment of one's child that is characteristic of child abuse
my dad emailed me this as a "beware queer furries" warning but he's done all of this same shit sleeping in the kitchen. screaming at my mother when she does the dishes because it "takes too long". forbidding me and my mother from cooking food because the smell irritates him. allowing me to play with his morning wood when i was a child. "it's your fault for making me yell at you" i don't understand what he meant by sending me this video. "don't be raised by an abuser"??? what is the message here
Sounds like he wants you to avoid queer furries because he probably thinks all of them act like Poppy. Also sorry that he can’t self-reflect & you went through all of thay :( I wonder if he even watched the video?
You need to report your dad to the fucking police he’s literally a ped@. I’m sure he has lots and lots of inappropriate content of children on his laptop and phone. How have you not reported him yet? How old are you????
@@TearThatRedFlagDown Well, "gaslighting" IS a form of manipulation, a specific one at that. just calling it manipulation is too broad, and I think that the term "gaslighting" carries a direct enough meaning for everyone to understand the meaning. I can be arguably cleaner language, but not euphemistic.
fr all furries i met are always thinking about the universe and stuff and thinking about how things come to be the way they are some are so smart it makes me mad edit: i was trying to make the opposite of ragebait rn
Anyone real-time strategy game or city builder sim really. Like, no normal person would play those types of games for more than 20 minutes, of which time you're probably just getting out of the tutorial.
@@thaddeusmarcuscheeleyjr.786 Yeah, but it takes a special kind of place on the spectrum to play Warhammer. You need to be into sci-fi, art, miniatures, war games with bullshit rules, and have the time and patience to go down rabbit hole after rabbit hole of lore and know you’ve barely scratched the surface. In addition, you need the improv skills to interact with the rest of the fandom in character. We don’t call each other normies or tryhards, we call each other heretic, corpse worshipper, mon-keigh, and xenos lover.
ive yet to meet an actual autistic person who actually plays warhammer, which is shocking because i run a warhammer club just down the road from a special needs school
Basically the same comment but phrased differently. They live their lives in a constant state of argument, probably stemming from people trying to stop them from making the myriad mistakes that led to their present situation. Their entire world is warped around defending every stupid thing that they do.
Dude, have you been paying attention? Everything is politicized to these people. Which means every action and behavior is a part of an "argument" on what is "right".
They have to have something to be mad about. Politics have been proven to cause stress, anger, anxiety, and depression. Some people have the (very flawed) mentality that everything must be political, which turns everything personal into political situations. (I know this is a bit stereotypical of a reference, but the best example is in the novel 1984, where the personal/private is political/public) When seen through the lens of politics, every action or decision is made much more stressful, especially when your mentality forces you to make a decision, otherwise you’re enabling some sort of ideology.
@@ArkadioMoralesJP sadly usually overwhelmed - I worked at an agency that was at 40% staffing and we were forced to hold 50+ investigations at once. It’s unfortunate but the work is very hard and taxing
@@Official_JakeClips im sorry, im aware thats probabbly systemic issue and most people there are doing it from the calling. Thank you for all of you giving their best to protect childern. I was heavly emotional writing this, but let me clear anger was direteced at she systrem, for all of you peep caring and helping, thank you.
@@ArkadioMoralesJP I totally understand I just wanted to give as much background info as I could. There are lots of great people in the field and want to help people everyday. Plus the stories are wild so it helps keep me atleast interesting at parties
There are also (at least in the state I live in) dumb rules and laws that make CPS practically useless, and often an active detriment to children. I know there are plenty of people in the system who certainly care, but there are also a lot who unfortunately don't give a crap.
i’m a trans dude who’s been on T for damn near a decade, i lowkey refuse to believe Zena has ever been on HRT a day in their life bc they do not look it at all.
To be fair (1) we dont know their dosage (2) if they got off of it at any point in time (could be because of medical reasons, money, or accessibility) or (3) If they already or are near their goal of transitioning
Eh, being in your mid 20s and marrying a 19 year old is a red flag if you ask me. Just because the biological mother wasn't a tumblurite doesn't mean she would've necessarily been a healthy person to be around.
@@Atsomri the sentiment is nice however it's just transgender and polyamourous? Everyone knows what a Transgender person is in this day and age and even the straightest of straight men knows the word polyamoury lol
I have autism and POTS, and went through the same thing with my own stepmother and father. Add in cult like behavior, medical gaslighting, and physical. I feel so so much for this person. It makes you feel like you have no way out.
Hope you are doing better. I got lucky that my mom was on my side when dealing with pots/other conditions. I always tell people I wouldn’t be here still if it wasn’t for her. I’m feel so upset for people that don’t have that
I have a severe heart condition and yeah, medical abuse sucks. People also don't believe you - sometimes by the time you realize it's NOT normal or ok you're already on the edge of a mental breakdown. It sucks. I still get weird about getting a caretaker bc I feel like such a liar, this is like life long damage
absolutely. I know so many trans men transitioning and on T (including myself) and it floors me that anyone would use testosterone as an excuse to be violent and shitty to anyone, especially their child or partner...frustrating to see people using T as an excuse, it doesn't change who you are, you've just always been an asshole if you suddenly cite hormones as the rationale
agreed. NOTHING is an excuse to be abusive. and I say this as a person with a bunch of labels and a few different mental disorders. nothing should ever excuse abuse, no matter what condition you have, it's our responsibility to handle ourselves and find ways around things, not the responsibility of those who deserve much better and who do not deserve to be abused
I’ve got multiple, legitimate, specialist doctor diagnosed chronic health conditions. I’ve had 2 spinal surgeries in the last 10 months. I would give anything to reduce my daily pain and discomfort. I work hard to do everything I can to live a normal life for myself and my loved ones. These dorks collecting diagnosis’s like they’re Pokémon so that they can LARP the life I try to move beyond every day makes me really fucking mad.
The Pokémon comparison is good. These people's social media bios listing out all of their identities and (self-)diagnoses look like a damn gym badge case.
I feel this, I’ve permanent nerve damage and in constant pain despite 3 surgeries and a long list of pain meds, I’m mostly bedridden and if I do manage to do some walking I use a cane, and cPTSD being a child abuse survivor (both related, nerve damage caused by a spicy volatile home), but I try to live what normal life I can, try to do what I can for myself, get help from my best friend with everything else, enjoy my hobbies and interests where possible. Basically finding ways to make life enjoyable! Seeing these idiots larping is just beyond annoying, like imagine wanting to be ✨oppressed✨because you completely lack a personality, to the point you pretend to have multiple medical conditions/disabilities for attention, I’ll never understand that at all.
I feel ya. An awful lot of people online seem to think it's actually fun to have four billion minor things you need to avoid just to get through the day or a miswired brain that tries to sabotage your life. I try to be fair and not judge people who self-diagnose, but when most of them seem to think their online quiz-based findings are a "get out of basic human responsibility free" card, it's incredibly hard to do that.
100%. Josh is a predator & I believe nothing they said since 19. Zena is a big time sicko / showing all the red flags for freaking murder. Spawn was groomed & brainwashed & I hope she can cut all ties & eventually cope with whatever disgusting perversion that Josh has been into. There is something even worse at the root here.
PMDD is truly awful, it can make you feel insane and suicidal overnight lasting up to several weeks and then vanishes the moment your period starts. It really does make life difficult. It does NOT make you an abusive, controlling asshole, however
ehhh I dunno, I have PMDD and before I got on birth control, I'd have the suicidal depression and crippling anxiety for five days before my period, but it'd also give me an INSANE hair trigger temper. I'd scream-cry at someone over a seemingly trivial matter until I'd almost lose my voice, but then once those 5 days ended, I'd be like "Oh my god I'm a monster, what tf is wrong with me??". So like...screaming at someone like that is admittedly abusive, but 1. it's not like you can't DO anything about it 2. it's not like the fact it stems from crazy hormones ABSOLVES you 3. it doesn't explain acting like that ALL THE TIME
@@Rainfromthemoon premenstrual dysphoric disorder. Basically an abnormally bad response to hormonal changes in the menstrual cycle. You really do just suddenly feel fucking insane and suicidal but it will just go away the moment your period starts - not that knowing that helps, in the moment you feel like life is ending. It's a horrible thing to suffer with.
I don’t blame Spawn for leaving her family. I can understand turning off the internet to an extent but literally denying someone food because of a headache and finding anything to get them in trouble is beyond abusive, that’s just sociopathic Narcissism.
Also the combo of forcing someone to get a job while actively sabotaging their efforts (denying the internet access, inundating them with house chores). They just wanted to keep Spawn in some cult-like servitude position 😐
plurality is a colloquial term for the identity associated with people that have DID, so it is not entirely unrecognized, and DID is indeed real. however, the way DID is described by poppy poorly reflects on the diagnosis as a whole, and i am inclined to believe it is a self-diagnosis based on her lack of credibility otherwise.
As a therapist I was so unsurprised to see this title. I’m recently finding out that there’s a lot of… not so great people who are therapists. Makes my life harder because I don’t want my profession to be stained by that. Just to let everyone know - good therapy can be life changing. Bad or middling therapy can be a waste of time or worse..
Oof. Hope you like a challenge, friend. Trying to turn that back around looks like a Herculean task. Good therapists are great and do great things...but finding one that isn't poisoned by and/or ideologically captured, insane, incompetent, or a grifter, is unfortunately a task in of itself.
One thing I've noticed is..a lot of people who get into therapy are always the ones who have issues themselves. Often the reaosn they themsewlves need therapy is because they overthink everyting in life and won't actually make a difference on their own. Meanwhile people who are ACTUALLY good at therapy or just normal human reflection and think/decision making are often better than trained ''job profession therapists'' Because they don't really know HOW to reflect on themselves and others they only know what the therapy book taught them and want the therapy badge from the state so they can feel good about having the rank to show people how mcuh they care about others. Those who are good at talking and understanding are often the ones that stay quiet and live outside of drama and trouble so you don't see them often but everyone has atleast one of those in their life.
@@G.M.C2005 Ikit Claw is a ratman that uses a mix of "rat" magic and technology. He is also severly insane and uses a lot of stuff that explode including a nuke, poison mortars and a "cannon" that shoots green lighting. Also uses ratling gunners ( literally just rats with miniguns ) and a workshop mechanic that give boost. When using Ikit, friendly fire is mandatory and almost unavoidable. If you like guns, explosion and a shit ton of collateral deaths he is you man ( your ratman that is xD ).
Id immediately believe a therapist or counsellor in the UK could be this and a lot more criminal. The regulators literally don't care and will protect criminality amongst their members
As a mother, these "people" make me sick. I have BPD and live a perfectly normal life. I have a full time job, a family, friends. As a "therapist," they should know that behavioral therapy works wonders. I absolutely hate when people blame all their crap on BPD. My daughter also has POTS, so I understand the kid's needs. This is all just disgusting.
BPD makes shit harder, but harder doesn't mean impossible. And at best disorders like that can explain messed up behaviour, but they can never excuse it. It's up to all of us to find ways to handle our lives, regardless of the hardships we face. Life might not be fair, but we make the best out of it regardless, that's called being an mature adult. And yes, i'm glad to read you managed to find ways to live a decent life. Overcoming hardships like that legitimately gives you the right to hold up your head a bit higher and be proud about yourself.
girl same... i have PMDD but i take care of myself and actually try to ease my symptoms and deal with them in a healthy way so that I can live a good life and treat myself and others correctly. giving up on controlling your disorder and just using it as a shield from responsibility is so annoying and childish.
19:39 im autistic and am horrible at reading sarcasm or taking things as a joke over text. Tone tags are only needed for something that could be taken as offensive. Much love, your videos are playing while i draw❤❤
for me it helps to think about it for a moment: I think “Okay, would this person say this IRL? Does this statement make sense based off the context?” etc. etc. this might help
@SoloTheStaticHater2810 This is extremely funny comedy. Every time i reread, I laugh out loud. thank you for the blessed funny comedy have merry 4th of july.
They lack the courage and/or mental capacity. It's really sad. The way "Spawn" complains to their friend on Discord makes me think; why the hell did they not stand up against those two lunatic "parents"? Why did they not just go in the shower, cook food or take a piss whenever they wanted to? They were 22 years old and the "parents" were two mentally ill scrawny weirdos. What are they gonna do, yell at you? Kick you out of that horrorhouse of psychosis and filth? That would be a blessing for "Spawn". Such a sad situation for him/her or whatever they are.
Don’t say that. Let’s not start a catch phrase for that foolish idiot. She’s not a heroine, she’s a manipulative lying criminal that was pretending to have medical issues.
I thought you were doing some hyperbole when I first read your comment. After watching the video more, I agree with you. I'm honestly surprised that she didn't go postal.
@@Komikmaker I think there are going to be more and more cases of those coming out... not to mention there is likely already quite a few similar cases, whether it involves Munchausen's by proxy or some other kind of extreme circumstance.
one of my closest friends has POTS and needing access to food is an understatement. i’ve had her physically pass out in front of me because she didn’t have access to the salt/iron she needed. the fact that spawn wasn’t allowed food is CRAZY and i’m surprised that no one got involved earlier
Someone with mental illnesses should be able to have guardianship of a child depending on what they are, how the illnesses affect the person, and if there's another more competent parent taking care of the child.
The 22 yo child is the only adult in this situation. Edit: yes geniuses, 22 yo is an adult physiologically. My point was to highlight the she is more grounded and stable than her parents. I'm 42 yo and I'm still a child to my mother. Words can mean different things.
Can we seriously stop referring to women as children even when they are 18+ years old? Adult women aren't children, they are adults. Grown adults with the full responsibility of one.
The irony of those who claim to be loving and tolerant of others, but are instead incredibly neglectful and toxic with the most harmless of our species. This should be seen as red flag for future people you meet that love to constantly preach how morally good they are…
I never trust anyone who repeats how they´re in any way virtuous. "I´m honest, reliable, creative, unique, friendly, peaceful, understanding etc." You see this all the time, they say it to suckerpunch an opinion into people that don´t know them well enough as a way of manipulation. Remember how Chris-chan always repeated how he was "true and honest", but lied his ass off constantly? Only one example.
Probably because people were being lobotomized and a lot of people who were sent there had things outside the realm of mental disorders. Autism, Epilepsy, “female hysteria” to name a few
@@crow4834 Not true, only severely mentally ill people went to asylums and since getting shut down they’re all on the streets and internet doing messed up stuff and doing drugs.
@howyouremindme1 I'm not american, I thought "jelly" was just what we called "jam", I have jam i don't like in my fridge from 6-7 years ago and it's perfectly fine.
@@brendo7363 Properly sealed and canned jams can last for a long time, rule of thumb is that it's fine as long as it's unopened. Once opened, the most exposure it has to air the faster it will grow mold(the sugar acts as preservative, but it can only do so much). If you're quick to stick a (clean) knife in and get what you need out the jar, then it can last quite a while. But keeping edible jam for several years after it's been opened just seems...a bit unlikely.
@@novatare made up. The person in question is likely fabricating stories about their imaginary friends because they want attention and sympathy, like every other DID/MPD larper on social media. It's a disease that affects less than 1% of the total world population. The likelihood that this person is actually affected are slim to none, ergo; I believe they're not being truthful in order to gain attention
14:43 can’t help but feel like Spawn not being her bio daughter (like you said the mom was pregnant at 3 months meeting Poppy) I bet it was a trauma response to Spawn growing up to look like her mom, or maybe because she didn’t? Idk either way becoming abusive like this post puberty gives weird vibes
I suffer from schizophrenia alongside crippling depression. I was diagnosed when I was 10 by a professional. I can only speak for myself but i find it disgusting when people use mental illness as an excuse to be a terrible human being or avoid any kind of responsibility and accountability. I have been trying my whole life to not let my illness define me but people these days use it as a badge of honor and part of or their whole personality. If you bring up bettering yourself to these people . How it can improve your quality of life as well as others who are part of your life you are chastised.
I been screaming this since forever. I have a lot mental issues and as hard as it is to cope with my disorders (ADHD, bipolar disorder, generalize anxiety disorder, depression, etc). I try not to lash out and I'm getting help, but i have a cousin with the same problems who refuses to get help and i tried to steer her from the dark side but after she told me to die, i showed her how unhinge i can be and aint forgive her sense. My mom tries to make me tabe civil with her and tells me she needs help and I told her i spent our entire childhood helping her and now idc about her. Shes using her disorders to justify how she (cousin) used to physically, verbally, and emotionally abuse me. Enough was enough. Needless to say, that heffa is terrified of me and thats how it should be. Now shes 19 and pregnant with a felons baby.
PMDD does not make you abusive. I’ve struggled with it since I started getting periods and although it can make you want to take your life or get extremely irritable at people before your period, it wouldn’t make you roid out uncontrollably at people you love/constantly abuse them. It’s essentially a severe depression before your period. It is not a violent disorder. It’s also something you only suffer with for two weeks out of the month, so it shouldn’t severely impact your job or disable you
Probably because she was on test can fuck up your hormone levels and give you either 0 periods or constant periods , not excusing the insane behavior though just a thought as a dude whose researched heavily on them for potential bodybuilding reasons
@@timbloxrox1 not with women. Steroid aggression is real, but you'd need to reach superficial levels around 1,300-1,400 which is close to impossible for her. But... A lot of doctors in the US give dozens of vials to patients under informed consent when they want, so she might actually be able to reach those levels. Even then, steroids don't cause these issues on their own. They make them worse. If she is having constant periods, her dose is so high her test is aromatising back into estrogen. She also has ZERO effects of test you'd except on someone who is female, which means she does probably take a dose that high (around 250mg, since a vial usually has that amount). To add on: I suffer from transsexualism. So I'm a trans man. Even on a low dose of 40,5mg Testogel a day my period stopped within a week of starting and I haven't had it in 3 months. She was clearly mentally ill before she took test, superficial levels of test (probably around 250-300mg a week or more) made her 100x worse. Informed consent is a nightmare.
@DownByTheGrave I wasn't talking about steroid aggression, I was talking about her supposed illness related to periods strictly, steroid aggression isn't really applicable on small amounts of test , but I highly agree doctors should not be giving patients bulk hormones in the first place. I do appreciate an informed answer though ❤️
As a moderate to left leaning voter and someone who works in the medical field, saying that all therapists have to be left leaning (paraphrasing) is ridiculous. I’ve gone to several different mental health providers during my 54 years. For the most part I don’t know anything about their political views and it’s not necessary for me to know. I know one psychologist hated a certain politician because we were in the middle of the 2016 election and I mentioned that I was canvassing door to door on weekends with my sister for our congresswoman when he asked me if I was getting out of the house enough. This psychologist then let it slip how much he couldn’t stand someone in the presidential race. It struck me as odd, but I let it slide because it never came up again. If a therapist can’t be professional enough to work with someone who has an opposing viewpoint then they aren’t worth their salt as a therapist. I didn’t go to therapy for someone to reinforce my beliefs, I went to therapy to get treatment for depression, anxiety and PTSD. Just do your research before making an appointment with someone. Know what they specialize in. Therapist is a general term. There are some therapists who are Christian therapists, some are Children therapists, Grief Counselor’s (my dad works with families who’ve lost loved ones to cancer, he’s retired now). Just make sure you know they’re licensed and qualified to help you with your specific mental health needs. Just as not everyone should be a parent, not everyone should be a therapist. I stumbled across this upload and I am disgusted by this person. One of my best therapists was transgender. Poppy isn’t a representative of transgender therapists or the transgender community in general. She’s a very sick person masquerading as a therapist.
Why does it seem like people who are messed up in the head always want to be therapists/psychologists for other people? You wouldn't go to a barber with a bad haircut, or a dentist who has messed up teeth
My guess is it's a combination of them being obsessed with learning about themselves, and them being relatively socially competent enough to have been there for someone in the past and being told by said person that they really helped them. Basically it's an undeserved sense of confidence
Sometimes it's about getting the sense of control over themselves and others where they normally wouldn't have, because we tend to trust professionals more. It can also give some a sense of being this unfortunate martyr who leads people to a happiness and stability they themselves can't posses for some reason. And in this case it's about finding excuses for why you're acting the way you are without improving because you just have so many issues and they're all so debilitating.
Because contributing to actually _doing something_ with their lives is the scariest thing in the universe to them, due to requiring some sort of actual effort. Judging people and telling them what's wrong with them allows you to channel your basic instincts into something society has placed value on for some reason. It's basically the feminine equivalent of becoming a soldier.
@SomeRUclipsTraveler I think you're conflating legitimate counseling with the malpractice these idiologs do by pushing their agenda on clients. I can assure you that good counselors work very hard to earn and keep their license, and go into it to actually help people help themselves (which is what counseling is supposed to be: giving people the tools and knowledge to improve their lives and states of mind)
"Go play Warhammer like a real autistic person" Dude, fuck you with that timing. I was working on a McFarlane 40k marine (Nightlord custom)... and yeah I do have the 'tism 🤣
Which is ironic because 40k fans are usually amongst the most social, articulate and outspoken people I've ever met. And it's when they're sober, I must add. I guess all those litanies actually do work
Tips for ppl thinking about going to therapy: 1) See their face. 2) Go in person, avoid telehealth. At minimum do facetime but I highly recommend face to face. 3) Do not fall into the "I can solve any issue" sales pitches. Find someone who specializes in what you're looking for. 4) Realize that the 1st meeting is an interview to see if you are good to work with eachother. 5) My therapist told me the first session (I did a year for ptsd) to PACE YOURSELF. 6) For God's sake, avoid furries
I would like to add: check if they're professionally licensed psychologists. I'm not sure about the US but in my country you can be a "therapist" just with some shitty course. (PL)
@ashiri8445 In the US, there's therapists, who in all the cases I had were educated(my three at least had done college psychology and such courses), but only psychiatrists can prescribe medication.
is no one gonna point out that DID and the discourse surrounding it predates tiktok? and that it is a valid illness, just incredibly rare and does tend to have people claiming to have it when they dont? if youre gonna call someone out for medical misinformation, make sure you dont perpetuate misinformation yourself. there is absolutely an issue with people claiming this disorder who dont have it, and compounded with decades long misunderstanding, it can be difficult to diagnose and treat but it is still very much a real, diagnosable disorder.
right!! i have a friend with DID and this just sounded very invalidating to them. lots of systems struggle with even accepting the fact that they have DID themselves, and it's worse to tell them that they're just "faking" it for attention...
Everyone knows DID is real. However it is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY rare and brought on by the most horrific levels of abuse to a young child. The problem is all of you get on TikTok and claim you have it because your mom grounded you from Tumblr once. You guys have to make up having debilitating illnesses to feel like you're important
@@SoggyMs who the fuck is "you guys"? i'm 32 years old with over 20 years of intensive first hand experience being mentally ill, learning about the many i have or could have, as well as varying illnesses and treatments because it an interest of mine. i don't use tiktok. and no, most people DON'T actually know that DID is real. there is so much misinformation about the illness and as i said in my initial comment, the fact that so many people will claim it when they don't have it only lends credence to the idea that it's a made up disease. don't come tagging me with an attitude when nothing youve said is at all in conflict with what i said, and you made a whole hell of a lot of assumptions about me. i've known people with DID. i've also seen how most people treat their illness like some sensationalized thing they saw in tv and doubt the reality of it. don't use me as your relief from irritation with other people.
@@SoggyMs It actually isn't brought on by the most "horrific levels of abuse" in childhood, that's just a misconception that was popularized by how MPD was viewed and talked about in the 80s, and how it was associated with the Satanic Panic. People have been diagnosed with DID through experiencing things like emotional abuse and emotional neglect very early on in life. DID is caused by any childhood trauma that involves a very severe and early disruption of attachment, a sense of inescapability, and a complex combination of dissociative responses.
My daughter is 17. She suffers from Anxiety Disorder and PMDD. She was diagnosed last year. Thankfully she came to me and told me about her thoughts of self harm and severe spiral she was experiencing. I immediately made an appointment with her primary and they started the bloodwork. She did a blood draw a week prior to menstruation and then during and after. It showed her hormone levels were severely up and down which is the cause of pmdd. She began medications and while she still has bad days, they are few and far in between now. There’s so much that goes into this diagnosis bc it’s a newer diagnosis but also not very common but more so in young girls.
Wow, that's awesome that you're on the ball about it at her young age. So many women have to beg and plead for that kind of care from doctors and acknowledgenent from loved ones, so it's wonderful to read that your daughter at 17 has had that bloodwork. And that she has a doctor that's recognizing there's an imbalance occurring. You rock! Your love for her and finding a good doctor will likely save her from a harsher, longer experience with PMDD - speaking from experience. In my case, bioidentical progesterone taken during my luteal phase is the only thing that allows me to function and saves me from the mental suffering. That's the hormone that drops in my case. That might not be what she needs, but thought I would share. Take care!
I’m happy for the younger generation. Growing up with POTS I was told that I was faking, that I need to suck it up, and that I just wasn’t trying in gym class even though I used to collapse. I am so glad to hear you saying that it is a real disorder that requires real accommodations.
I've heard COVID caused a lot more people to develop POTS, fingers crossed with more people suffering it leads to a cure/better treatment. It seems to be very under researched and not enough funding goes into treatments. Now that it's a bit more common, that may change. At least I hope it changes.
Didn't expect to see so much information about POTS in this video. Thanks for talking about it. I don't have a diagnosis, but I've got all the symptoms and my cardiologist believes I probably have it. It can be difficult to get a diagnosis for POTS- most doctors I've talked to don't even know what it is. It's an incredibly frustrating condition to have.
How are people like this allowed to even be around kids, much less raise them? That kid didn't stand a chance. Thank God these criminals were stupid enough to document it all online. No one would believe it otherwise.
Because those in power want you to be grown adult children, constantly taking what little scraps you are thrown and always being "listened to and catered to" because your views and opinions help speed up the decay of society and the easy power grab by our masters :).... now you WORSHIP your mentallty ill supervisors, because you arn't allowed to answer them back :) See how it works?
i can guarantee that she doesn’t have bpd and did💀 these diagnoses are so common in these communities because none of them actually have them and just self diagnose and make real mental illnesses look like quirky little character traits
Don't forget using them as justifications to act like terrible human beings without ever having to change themselves. "I didn't scream at you because I'm abusive, I screamed at you because I have BPD! And now I'm really sad and you're evil for making me feel bad because of my BPD!" It almost seems like they're trying to collect beneficial tags. Mentally disabled, physically disabled, LGBT, sympathetic parent of disabled child, etc. Just so that they never have to justify their actions to anyone. Any time anyone tries to criticize them they can just say something like "Well, you try living as a single personality in someone with multiple personality disorder, while being trans, and lesbian, and bipolar, and having to keep up with multiple partners because you're poly, and raise a child with POTS, Autism, ADHD" etc. etc. etc.
Yeah I actually DO have BPD and I’m sick of online weirdos acting like that’s an excuse for bad behavior. They don’t even care to take the time to actually LEARN what it IS. And it’s not sht to brag about and it’s NOT why they’re abusive. As a matter of fact it’s why most of us women who go into relationships end up being abused. I hate these people
Well said! I, too, have BPD and am so tired of them putting such an more horrible label on an already difficult disorder. If you want to be a shit person, then so be it, but at least have the balls to take credit for it. Stop tainting the perception of others who would rather not be able to claim the disorder.
Honestly, furry and trans are fine as they dont rlly have anything to do with the child as long as the adult is responsible Poly, is highly questionable and I would argue its confusing for a child but I also am sure that there are poly families out there MPD is the killer here for me. Its going to be similar to parents with BPD where the parent cannot control their emotions and will just be not fit to take care of another fragile life
I was surprised being transgender got pointed out as something negative/essentially a red flag. Like, feels unrelated? If anything, it's something bigots can use to further fuel their transphobic narrative, ESPECIALLY considering the trans folks' situation in the UK rn.
Alas people often focus on the "trans" & it often takes the focus off the word people. Unfortunately most people, regardless of gender, sex or even sexuality are bellends. Don't worry it's a just a shame but a fact that people are often just well people 😂
@@umtic i think you are reinforcing the statement. the point is no matter how bad it is in there it's safer than out here. for the rest of society that is.
@@jeremiahdyck7882 you talk like that until you are thrown to an asylum for an unfair reason. if you watch the video I mentioned you would see that most of the people thrown there were ordinary folk. that's why the concept failed, because it was highly inefficient and often misused by authorities
And while the past is always an indicator for the future, we do live in a time that is far more likely to expose and prosecute those things. Mental illness is treated with a better level of understanding and severity. I believe that a new, reformed, asylum system could benefit the US in cases where it is very clear that someone cannot be trusted to remain in public for fear of harming themselves or others.@@umtic
Imagine getting exposed for being a child predator, then making a loli furry oc. Cant make this shit up. And i thought I WAS EXTREMLY MENTALY ILL... 3 diagnosis and multiple hospitalisations, yet still somehow still less menataly ill
also, Hey you (whenever you get around to seeing this) I've been seeing a lot of people online talk about getting told that they don't deserve love so I will counteract that by saying that you deserve love. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to have friends that'll support you and stick by you no matter what. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Man, that time/chore stuff described my father so well. Not seen or spoken to the man in 15 years~ and it still made me feel physically sick. Thanks for highlighting these monsters.
I have BPD. It's one of the most difficult disorders to have. Everything I feel is heightened to an extreme degree: anger, sadness, love, happiness, etc. However.. That isn't an excuse for hurting others. Yes, BPD is extremely difficult to cope with/control. It can easily get out of hand. But you are ALWAYS responsible for your own actions. It's absolutely disgusting to see these people using their mental disorders as excuses to be abusive and controlling. BPD can never be cured but it can be managed, especially with therapy and consistent personal effort. As a therapist, Poppy should have known that. I know they're all likely faking and using disorders to excuse their behavior, which is even worse. BPD folks have it bad enough. They need to stop adding to the stigma.
@@Viroh ok so first of all, that's a little rude to just throw that at me. Second of all, I am on meds, thank you. And thirdly, yes, meds are vital for folks with BPD. But again, there is so much stigma that some people with BPD are hesitant to get medicated.
My husband has it too and it can be a nightmare without meds and actively making an effort to not let it control you. He always takes responsibility if he blows up at me or whatever because it got out of control, usually just needs a few minutes to calm down and clear his head. And I totally get that as someone who is on the spectrum among other things. You can tell people you have a mental health issue and that you may have bad moments occasionally but it doesn't give you free reign to be an asshole and just shrug and act like it isn't on you. Especially as an adult who has had years to learn to cope with your shit, though I suspect these people just want to catch em all to fill up their mental health pokedex rather than actually having most of what they claim.
Couldn't bpd just be the name given to people unable or naive to coping mechanisms to handle their emotions effectively? Couldn't it just be you have a harder time processing your emotions and you merely need to learn and do it. No mental illness excuse to slam pills into you, no expensive therapy for decades, no being told over and over you are mentally ill and it's not curable. Sounds like telling someone they have mental health problems will convince them its true. Now, call me mean for suggesting you simply need to get over it, but maybe I'm ignorant to BPD. Is it a literal observable physical issue, like there's biological evidence? Or is it merely a doctor asking you a series of questions and then diagnosing you based on that? Is there observable, provable evidence for this mental illness, or is it diagnosed through verbal communication?
I actually know, through extended friend groups, some of the furries in Poppy's proverbial orbit. And it's just a freak-show all the way down. I'm not even just talking general furry weirdness, but stuff that's even worse than you can even imagine.
@@Sonjaslostson yeaah dont buy the figures just print them 110 pounds for a set is insane 💀 also when i bought my set there was a duplicant so i couldnt make few units :3
Man the biological mother must be rolling in her grave, poor kid is literally being treated like a slave.
I'm assuming it was made in a lab somewhere or something
Rolling? More like earthshattering
@@MeCooperthe kid came from before their relationship she was someone elses
@@MeCooper did you not watch the video? poppy or whatever had a bio wife while she was still pregnant transition and had a kid
Given that the mother didn't even care enough to keep track of who the father was, that's doubtful.
“It’s not the non-binary furry coming out of the closet that’s interesting here, but the skeletons that are still in it” is kind of a banger line wtf
I'm non-binary and that was hilarious
@@allykingston4429co-signed
There are chilren in the closet
🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
@@allykingston4429ew, like a vegan. No one asked.
If this is your therapist, get a refund.
i had a therapist that almost convinced my i was trans.
At that point, you're just going to walk out with more problems than you started with.
@@DbonnRPtherapists are usually mentally ill themselves. It’s a cope & it doesn’t work.
No sht
Better yet, get their license and qualifications revoked.
My heart breaks for Spawn. Oh my God, both of these people are absolutely insane. I'm so glad she got the hell out of there. I hope their moldy abode crumbles around them without her there to keep it running.
I know, that poor child. So much of what she described sounds a lot like my childhood, but my mother was an absolute saint compared to those crackpots.
I feel like our society went from "we need to talk about mental health more" to "I'm blaming my sexual harassment of others on my succubus alter" way too quickly.
When you can 'justify' your actions by blaming your mental issues, rather than correcting your behavior, yeah I imagine it spiraled out real fast with the victim mentality leftists.
29:20 - 30:07
My joke to the younger generations is that "someone handed my generation a copy of the DSM and the damage incurred from that has never been healed.
I'm sorry little ones."
@@DeadpoolX9these people use DSM as a manual
This shit is wild. I feel like it's worst because everyone can find each other on the internet and feed into each other's delusions.
People like this have always existed, but they were either locked up in pysch or pretended to be normal in public.
I'm all for being your true self...but this is outta control
@@get.sassyxd i watched the genesis of all this on tumblr, as did anyone observing the internet in that time frame. it seemed relatively harmless, a bunch of outcasts all pretending their regular teenage angst made them somehow a fiftieth gender. no one ever thought it would become as popular as it has. it's to the point where they claim, hilariously, that their infinity genders is academic consensus. they're not even growing out of it, but actually passing it on to children. wild.
If your therapist is in a worse mental condition than you, you're entitled to financial compensation
Lot of therapist have mental issues. That's usually main reason why they got interested In mental health in the first place.
@@Glados00663 ...no, not exactly?
While there's a significant number of therapists who were inspired by their own journey, most simply recognise at some point that they've got good empathy and like how people think.
Also, no, most therapists shouldn't be actively suffering from mental illnesses, besides burnout, which ideally should be responsibly dealt with.
@@ericraululyeetusdelyeetus5028 probably all my therapist friends are statistical anomaly. One of them got chronical issues, and went to school mainly because she wanted to learn more about their condition, and another one had long going depression and after getting help from therapy got inspired to help another people with similar issues. But their experiences does not represent everyone's else offcourse.
@@Glados00663where did you learn or find that info?
@@Glados00663what a retarded comment
"im sorry you felt yelled at" is the biggest fuck you of an apology ive ever seen. classic sign of manipulation
They are a Narc!
Why should I care about feelings? Something so subjective. Nah.
@@SoloBroBro omg ur so different
@@magi_mations stop being emotional. Nobody cares about ur feelings.
@@SoloBroBrofeelings matter because mental health is on the bottom of the basic needs pyramid. It's essential to feel okay to preform okay in any work scene. So, feelings do matter
bro got the "How did We Get Here" achievment for mental illnesses
😭😭😭😭😭😭
This was funny asf.
The good Ole "How did we fail?" Achievement.
If you showed this to someone 20 years ago they would instantly die
They'd think this was esoteric satire
20 years ago people were on therianthropy forums talking about p-shifting and being real werewolves, it's not new to be mental lmfao
Or achieve Chim and go on a console command rampage.
20 years ago was the My Immortal era so this is business as usual
Nah, they'd think it would make good reality TV.
"Zena won't take me [to the dentist for urgent medical care] because they MIGHT get a migraine." Put these people under the jail with Ruby Franke.
“I won’t preform the Heimlich maneuver on you because I might pull a muscle”
True story i have a friend whose husband currently wont drive her 20 minutes into town to the hospital. Because “his back is always killing him when he gets off work”. And she has no liscence and lives hours away from all of her family so therefore cant do it herself. And she is currently suffering from some severe chronic muscle ailment. Thats she can’t even get checked out because the guy is a selfish prick that wants to keep her trapped at home 24/7. These people saddly exist
(Edit: she dumped him and finally escaped)
Im not a parent but I can't imagine. I get debilitating migraines, I really have no warning for when they come on but there is absolutely nothing that could stop me from getting my partner the care they need. He does the same for me. These people clearly just don't care about anyone but themselves.
@@jojocaitlin8508 same here, i have a neurological condition so i have chronic migraines too. if my kid (step child or not) needs to see the dentist, im taking them there. idgaf if i have a migraine, when ur a parent/step parent that means u step up.
@@eyeballz5970 I recently got some migraine glasses from Zenni, the 80% tint ones have helped me SO much. If light really bothers you when you have them, they may help. 🖤
Fun fact, mail is federally protected, withholding someones mail is a felony punishable by up to twelve years in federal prison
got you to 69 likes
But she is a trans furry so I'm pretty sure the prosecutor wouldn't do sh*t
Up to an extent if your guardian looks through its legal
@@bobo_official_YT but they're over the age of 18 and the only person that would have any authority would be Poppy. Zena wouldn't be unless there was a court order that made Spawn their dependant.
Fun fact the united states postal service has a tactical team so you can get swatted by mail men
As someone who has PMDD (diagnosed), THAT SHIT JUST MAKES YOU DEPRESSED! NOT ABUSIVE
That's what I'm saying!!! This video is so misinformed and poorly done
fr. everyone ive met who actually had that got depressed. but the ones using it as an excuse were always just NASTY and blamed it on that, no matter what time in their cycle it was
it literally makes me suicidal and hella emotional 😭😭 it’s not an excuse to be shitty to anyone at all
@@KimberTheBartender... I'm not sure but I don't think that's what Lycan said. If it is, they, as in only they, may correct me, as, foremost, it is their statement and people that hide behind diagnoses DO exist.
that's not true though. it may not cause YOU to become abusive in any way, but everyone shows symptoms and behaviors differently. that's like me saying BPD doesn't make people abusive bc i don't present those symptoms (anymore). people who have BPD can ABSOLUTELY be abusive because of it because of the anger and emotional dysregulation.
it is possible for someone to be abusive in some way due to almost any disorder, it all depends on the person and how bad certain symptoms are. emotional abuse is not rare. it is very common, actually, and it is perpetrated by people with mild-severe mental illnesses all the time. i say this as someone who has been emotionally abusive before, and who has BPD. people deny, deny, deny that BPD can cause abusive tendencies but people who have loved ones with BPD say otherwise, and people who have it who have severe symptoms say otherwise too.
you are not the only person with PMDD... you know that. so you can't speak for everyone. when a disorder includes mood swings and any kinds of emotional dysregulation or anger, it can bring about abusive behavior. it's not always beating people or severe verbal abuse. emotional abuse and all sorts of things like you saw in this video are forms of abuse that people don't really talk about that often.
i'm just saying... being depressed is not the only symptom of PMDD. and being depressed doesn't cancel out being abusive, either. that's all
"My alter personality is 12-14 years old" that's great, face the wall.
lmfaooooo
What? 😭
TTD
Yeah, at some point we'll have to stop asking these people nicely to be normal.
Hahaha
This is 100% your average therapist who works for BetterHelp.
Even before hearing BetterHelp had controversies, I would've put my money on this.
BetterHelps strongest soldier
Like the time my coworker with an eating disorder had a therapist who talked about how "you aren't that skinny." Betterhealth was partnered with my old job and we got several "free sessions." I left the job soon after that.
Therapy in general is already shitty.
@@caucasoidape8838 Nah in my area it is extremely good and free if you're under 24. I've never had a problem and I've seen at least 10 of em.
Prioritizing your partner over your own child is one of the biggest red flags you could ever have as a parent
Lol why?My girlfriend and I had a kid and we put it up for adoption what does that make us?Sinners?
@@goddosyourself7970 nice bait
@@goddosyourself7970there is a difference between giving your child up for adoption due to whatever reason than treating your child that crap while under your care. Big difference.
@@FaerieFlowerMaidenaverage picrew pfp responding to bait to virtue signal about things we already all feel
@@goddosyourself7970Stop the cap
To not have your child's back over your partners is absolutely disgustingly unacceptable! You can always find another partner, but you only have one child. I went through the same type of situation growing up. Which is why I have never let anyone come in-between my son and never will!
I kept forgetting Spawn was just her user name and just kept thinking how these people treated her so poorly they named her Spawn.
These types of people always have names like Bread and Tooth lmao
@@StarlaBizarreErm my cat's name is Mac and Cheese
She could have named herself that for that reason.
Its gotta be this @@erikm8707
It’s almost like there may be a correlation here
Bro I thought I was mentally ill. I feel like a million bucks after this
me too man
Bruh same I thought I was having a hard time but not after watching this circus
Seriously. These asshats make depression look like a vacation illness compared to the brain rot they are riddled with.
Watching Turkey Tom vids is better than therapy
Dude, Sometimes i think im in a unproductive spiral but then i hear of things like this, i wouldn't wish this kind of "living" on my worst enemy
Just wanted to say, scheduling bathroom usage for someone in a household is absolutely fucking insane and criminally abusive. That's a common practice in nearly all of the most horrible child abuse deaths I have ever read or heard about. It is beyond controlling, moving into dehumanizing territory.
I can understand if someone has digestive issues and have a decent idea when they're going flare up and they post a loose bathroom time for themselves is valid.
Every other time? Fuck off. I would've just shit on the floor to make a point.
My previous roommate was insane like that. She wouldn't let me use the bathroom when she was in the hose, and I couldn't go at night cause her bedroom was next to the bathroom.
She also loudly played DOTA2 in the living room next to my bedroom despite having a gaming rig in her own bedroom.
Good thing I got out of there after a few months.
Another thing commonly seen is parents accusing their children of stealing food. I.e they’re withholding food/starving their child and the child desperately tries to get something to eat.
It’s crazy how the most basic things are used as punishment by some.
In this specific case it’s actually disability abuse. POTS can be quite a serious physical condition, it’s crucial to manage symptoms so as not to cause avoidable life threatening complications. It’s an autonomic dysfunction disorder, meaning many bodily systems are dysfunctional.
Frequently needing to pee is an uncontrollable common symptom, leading to either wetting oneself or causing a uti if access to a toilet is denied. Vomiting and loss of bowel control are two other symptoms that require bathroom access at a moments notice.
Also, it’s crucial to keep up high fluid intake including electrolytes(many have to use saline drips), as well as high salt via regular snacks and meals. Denying these essentials when needed can lead to pots attacks, for some fainting is a common outcome and may prove dangerous as hitting one’s head during an attack can cause concussions or worse.
9 hours of chores too? Also dangerous for pots. Medical fatigue is also a symptom, made much worse by not pacing exertion and activities carefully.
This is disability abuse, and endangering her life. Unlike the numerous disabilities these two attention seekers have created for themselves and have demanded take priority. I acknowledge Pmdd is very real, however it’s not life endangering simply by cutting off water access. I also understand BPD is very serious, but again, an emotional meltdown doesn’t take precedence over someone needing an epipen in the midst of anaphylaxis or a diabetic needing insulin.
These two individuals, above all else, are sadistic narcissistic menaces and a danger to those around them. They’re living in a fantasy of their own creation and demanding everyone bow to their reality. ‘Spawn’ deserved so much better than this from life.
Remember, if you think you’re weird, people mentioned in this video exist.
The same people that support these exact kinds of people and this weird shit are the one's trying to convince us JD Vance is "just weird". Not to get into politics. But I mean, it's pretty funny.
@@Guberstwo things can be true. these ppl are weird, JD vance is too. difficult concept, ik
@@womanenjoyer22 But JD isn’t weird at all. Theres nothing remotely weird about the guy. It’s a bizarre slander campaign because he’s running with Trump. If you ran as Trump VP, they’d craft some bizarre fucking story to destroy your character too. The left-wing and Democrats have zero semblance of morality, ethics or honesty. They’ll ruin as many lives as it takes to acquire and maintain power.
@@Gubersyou are weird
@@denboix7524 When normal is woke delusion, yes.
"Spawn" should a) get therapy immediately (from a real therapist) and b) check with a doctor to see if she really has these illnesses or if they just were some Münchhausen by proxy thing.
The fact ik what youre talking about is sad...
@@mikl12354Spawn is Poppy's daughter. This is the definition of Münchausen by Proxy off of Wikipedia: "-Munchausen syndrome by proxy (MSbP) after Munchausen syndrome, is a mental health disorder in which a caregiver creates the appearance of health problems in another person, typically their child, and sometimes (rarely) when an adult simulates an illness in another adult partner.-"
It's definitely Munchausen by proxy, and likely just Munchausen without the proxy too
3) hire john wick.
@@chocov1233he said he knew 😂
“played the martyr and got heroically kicked out of a boy scout camp for admitting to being a lesbian” I’m sorry WHAT🤣
That just sums up this entire video in a nutshell.
"What?"
"From the producers who brought you, 'Chris chan and Loretta: can you top this?'...
Yeah I had to relisten to that to try and make sense of it... NOPE! Still don't understand.
Apparently they were some sort of camp counselor? Which doesn't clarify much of anything.
Most boy scout groups don't allow gays. They're a religious group.
-Child is in quarantine
-Child is starving
-Parents are neglectful
I've played this game and it doesn't end well for the parents.
Unfortunately they're part of the privileged class so nothing will be done.
if she went full on Michale Myers I would not blame her.
Just waiting for the cultist neighbor to show up now and set everything else in motion.
Same here , quite a hellish landscape
I don’t understand this girl was in her early 20s why didn’t she get outa there sooner. There is no way this behavior just popped up during quarantine it was either there the whole time or it built up over time
Faking/abusing mental health issues to hide behind when you are just a horrible person is one of the most despicable acts a person can commit.
to be fair i'm sure despicable people aren't mentally healthy lol. it's definitely fucked that they use it as an excuse though
As a parent, this is absolutely infuriating. No child should ever have to go through this or any kind of abuse. This actually has managed to make me angry. Hoping for the best for "Spawn," that's just horrible.
You’re a good parent
I know, if someone did that to my kids , idk how I would react.
This video provokes murderous intent. It makes me so angry that a child had to grow up in this environment, and then became an adult slave.
I wouldn't blame her if she offed them.
@@BillyBob-kj4qq Careful not to fedpost. As much as you might think that the capital I internet might not like that.
The fact that these family disputes are happening over discord is simply mind boggling like what the fuck
welcome to postmodernity
I can't feel bad for a 22 year old because they have controlling parents at home. Fucking leave bro. I left at 17 and never looked back, and I love my parents, just didn't want to live with them
I can barely contact my own parents over text since they keep forgetting to charge their phones, the fuck is wrong with these people?
FR
That's probably the least mind boggling considering the context of all the other insanity
I hope Spawn is doing well, this kind of upbringing sounds like a nightmare.
a nightmare would be more preferable, atleast you’d wake up and realize it wasnt real. i genuinely feel so bad for Spawn, wouldn’t wish this on anyone.
@@NashTheInsomniac can she sue for emotional distress
@@Chronor yeah, I think she could. esp with the text receipts showing they were withholding food and bathroom time, and maybe even the stuff where they force her to work in the heat with POTS. idk too much about the law tho so idk how the trial would play out or what actually qualifies for suing someone who has caused you emotional distress, but there is definitely something solid there so i hope shes able to talk to a lawyer.
@@NashTheInsomniac @Chronor She certainly can sue, for emotional and financial damages caused by their behavior towards her. The withholding of food, the scheduled bathroom times, their forcing her to work in the heat with pots, her hair literally falling out from the stress they were causing her (if that can be proven) would count as emotional damages, and if she can show that she missed several online job interviews due to her internet being throttled or cut off, that could count as financial damages, as well as showing the kind of controlling behavior at the detriment of one's child that is characteristic of child abuse
@@Chronor I hope she does, this upbringing is probably going to follow her for her entire life.
my dad emailed me this as a "beware queer furries" warning but he's done all of this same shit
sleeping in the kitchen. screaming at my mother when she does the dishes because it "takes too long". forbidding me and my mother from cooking food because the smell irritates him. allowing me to play with his morning wood when i was a child. "it's your fault for making me yell at you"
i don't understand what he meant by sending me this video. "don't be raised by an abuser"??? what is the message here
Im sorry you went through that. Are you ok?
Sounds like he wants you to avoid queer furries because he probably thinks all of them act like Poppy.
Also sorry that he can’t self-reflect & you went through all of thay :( I wonder if he even watched the video?
Tell him to go fuck himself
Be a man.
You need to report your dad to the fucking police he’s literally a ped@. I’m sure he has lots and lots of inappropriate content of children on his laptop and phone. How have you not reported him yet? How old are you????
*yells at person*
"I'm sorry you felt yelled at"
"felt yelled at"
*you shook the mf walls*
Is this what the kiddos call “gaslighting”??
@@ce6ej Yeah, I prefer just calling it an attempt at manipulation because it is. I don't like weak, euphemistic language like "gaslighting".
My dad did that. It sucked 🙄
@@TearThatRedFlagDown Well, "gaslighting" IS a form of manipulation, a specific one at that. just calling it manipulation is too broad, and I think that the term "gaslighting" carries a direct enough meaning for everyone to understand the meaning. I can be arguably cleaner language, but not euphemistic.
I for one am shocked that a furry therapist turned out to be batshit insane.
ive never saw it coming!
plot twist hit me like a train
and I for one am not
fr all furries i met are always thinking about the universe and stuff and thinking about how things come to be the way they are
some are so smart it makes me mad
edit: i was trying to make the opposite of ragebait rn
Yea seemed so normal 🤣 🤣 🤣
I'm batshit insane clinically and not even I'm like this, it's worse than batshit
Really puts the "rapist" in "Therapist"
Therapist ✗
The Rapist ✓
😂😂 stop it! you're too much 😂
HA
They very well could also be an analyst too... the world's second analrapist.
Lol, remember that SNL Jeopardy sketch, one of the categories was "Therapists" and Sean Connery said, "I'll take the rapists for $400"? lol.
these are full grown adults giving themselves mental illnesses.. how sick.
“Go play Warhammer like a real autistic person!”
Truer words have not been spoken.
Anyone real-time strategy game or city builder sim really. Like, no normal person would play those types of games for more than 20 minutes, of which time you're probably just getting out of the tutorial.
@@thaddeusmarcuscheeleyjr.786 Yeah, but it takes a special kind of place on the spectrum to play Warhammer. You need to be into sci-fi, art, miniatures, war games with bullshit rules, and have the time and patience to go down rabbit hole after rabbit hole of lore and know you’ve barely scratched the surface. In addition, you need the improv skills to interact with the rest of the fandom in character. We don’t call each other normies or tryhards, we call each other heretic, corpse worshipper, mon-keigh, and xenos lover.
@@guyperson754 Dont forget broke, those models aint cheap
The Emperor has put me on the spectrum
ive yet to meet an actual autistic person who actually plays warhammer, which is shocking because i run a warhammer club just down the road from a special needs school
Why do these people treat parenting like a political debate? I see the texts reading like a crazy person's Twitter reply 💀
Because they were on Tumblr and Twitter 99.9% of their life
Basically the same comment but phrased differently.
They live their lives in a constant state of argument, probably stemming from people trying to stop them from making the myriad mistakes that led to their present situation.
Their entire world is warped around defending every stupid thing that they do.
@@SearedBooks basically eating themselves alive at this point
Dude, have you been paying attention?
Everything is politicized to these people.
Which means every action and behavior is a part of an "argument" on what is "right".
They have to have something to be mad about.
Politics have been proven to cause stress, anger, anxiety, and depression. Some people have the (very flawed) mentality that everything must be political, which turns everything personal into political situations. (I know this is a bit stereotypical of a reference, but the best example is in the novel 1984, where the personal/private is political/public)
When seen through the lens of politics, every action or decision is made much more stressful, especially when your mentality forces you to make a decision, otherwise you’re enabling some sort of ideology.
As a CPS worker (I know this is obvious) but this is CLEAR child abuse
SO WHERE WHERE YOU ALL THIS FKN TIME? CPS IS USLESS
@@ArkadioMoralesJP sadly usually overwhelmed - I worked at an agency that was at 40% staffing and we were forced to hold 50+ investigations at once. It’s unfortunate but the work is very hard and taxing
@@Official_JakeClips im sorry, im aware thats probabbly systemic issue and most people there are doing it from the calling. Thank you for all of you giving their best to protect childern. I was heavly emotional writing this, but let me clear anger was direteced at she systrem, for all of you peep caring and helping, thank you.
@@ArkadioMoralesJP I totally understand I just wanted to give as much background info as I could. There are lots of great people in the field and want to help people everyday. Plus the stories are wild so it helps keep me atleast interesting at parties
There are also (at least in the state I live in) dumb rules and laws that make CPS practically useless, and often an active detriment to children. I know there are plenty of people in the system who certainly care, but there are also a lot who unfortunately don't give a crap.
i’m a trans dude who’s been on T for damn near a decade, i lowkey refuse to believe Zena has ever been on HRT a day in their life bc they do not look it at all.
To be fair (1) we dont know their dosage (2) if they got off of it at any point in time (could be because of medical reasons, money, or accessibility) or (3) If they already or are near their goal of transitioning
@@RosieKittyMenos u know what, yea u have a good point
@@serkotsins glad I could help!
A chick will always be a chick and a dude will always be a dude, even if you’re all pumping yourselves full of drugs.
The thumbnail looks like one of these spongebob close-up scenes
moufronn
@@moufronncool gimmick bro
@@Mai.Calico moufronn
@@Mai.Calico this guy is so unigue,am i right?
Honorable mention: misadventures of flapjack
I feel so genuinely terrible for the way that kid was treated her whole life. As fucked as it sounds, the wrong parent died, without a doubt.
They were put into a almost no win situation. Im sure alot if damage is done.
It isn't fucked, it's facts. Poppy and the other freak deserves at least life in prison for what she did to the poor kid.
What a waste of human life this Poppy person is.
Eh, being in your mid 20s and marrying a 19 year old is a red flag if you ask me. Just because the biological mother wasn't a tumblurite doesn't mean she would've necessarily been a healthy person to be around.
A Furry, Trans, Poly, MPD sounds like an 2000s euro dance band
Bro You gotta get into trans poly mpd bro its this crazy trance subgenre from Germany in the 80s.
I may be part of the LGBTQ but bro wtf is these titles I feel like I'm reading a historical poem 💀
@@Atsomri we queers gotta get our shit straight man fr. We making people read scholarly texts just to introduce themselves
@@matthewv9169 Fr shi can we just not use titles can we just like be ourselves and not slap labels on it chat
@@Atsomri the sentiment is nice however it's just transgender and polyamourous? Everyone knows what a Transgender person is in this day and age and even the straightest of straight men knows the word polyamoury lol
"The job was what kept the lights on and the kitchen counter moldy" lmao
I have autism and POTS, and went through the same thing with my own stepmother and father. Add in cult like behavior, medical gaslighting, and physical. I feel so so much for this person. It makes you feel like you have no way out.
Hope you are doing better. I got lucky that my mom was on my side when dealing with pots/other conditions. I always tell people I wouldn’t be here still if it wasn’t for her. I’m feel so upset for people that don’t have that
I have a severe heart condition and yeah, medical abuse sucks. People also don't believe you - sometimes by the time you realize it's NOT normal or ok you're already on the edge of a mental breakdown. It sucks.
I still get weird about getting a caretaker bc I feel like such a liar, this is like life long damage
Woop, same. I'm sorry. I hope things are better now.
Being on testosterone is not excuse to be abusive
absolutely. I know so many trans men transitioning and on T (including myself) and it floors me that anyone would use testosterone as an excuse to be violent and shitty to anyone, especially their child or partner...frustrating to see people using T as an excuse, it doesn't change who you are, you've just always been an asshole if you suddenly cite hormones as the rationale
agreed. NOTHING is an excuse to be abusive. and I say this as a person with a bunch of labels and a few different mental disorders. nothing should ever excuse abuse, no matter what condition you have, it's our responsibility to handle ourselves and find ways around things, not the responsibility of those who deserve much better and who do not deserve to be abused
@@thefluffyaj4119 Agreed, as another person with a bunch of labels and a few mental disorders.
@@urusaiinu glad to see another
I thought she was on estrogen
I’ve got multiple, legitimate, specialist doctor diagnosed chronic health conditions. I’ve had 2 spinal surgeries in the last 10 months. I would give anything to reduce my daily pain and discomfort. I work hard to do everything I can to live a normal life for myself and my loved ones. These dorks collecting diagnosis’s like they’re Pokémon so that they can LARP the life I try to move beyond every day makes me really fucking mad.
jonesy from frotnite
The Pokémon comparison is good. These people's social media bios listing out all of their identities and (self-)diagnoses look like a damn gym badge case.
I feel this, I’ve permanent nerve damage and in constant pain despite 3 surgeries and a long list of pain meds, I’m mostly bedridden and if I do manage to do some walking I use a cane, and cPTSD being a child abuse survivor (both related, nerve damage caused by a spicy volatile home), but I try to live what normal life I can, try to do what I can for myself, get help from my best friend with everything else, enjoy my hobbies and interests where possible. Basically finding ways to make life enjoyable! Seeing these idiots larping is just beyond annoying, like imagine wanting to be ✨oppressed✨because you completely lack a personality, to the point you pretend to have multiple medical conditions/disabilities for attention, I’ll never understand that at all.
I feel ya. An awful lot of people online seem to think it's actually fun to have four billion minor things you need to avoid just to get through the day or a miswired brain that tries to sabotage your life. I try to be fair and not judge people who self-diagnose, but when most of them seem to think their online quiz-based findings are a "get out of basic human responsibility free" card, it's incredibly hard to do that.
who asked
Anybody can be groomed. The age of 19 doesn't magically make a person immune to grooming, although I am not saying josh was necessarily groomed.
100%. Josh is a predator & I believe nothing they said since 19. Zena is a big time sicko / showing all the red flags for freaking murder. Spawn was groomed & brainwashed & I hope she can cut all ties & eventually cope with whatever disgusting perversion that Josh has been into. There is something even worse at the root here.
PMDD is truly awful, it can make you feel insane and suicidal overnight lasting up to several weeks and then vanishes the moment your period starts. It really does make life difficult. It does NOT make you an abusive, controlling asshole, however
I have PMDD and I tend to isolate when my mood gets out of control. I hate hurting people and thankfully birth control makes it a bit better.
What is PMDD?
@@Rainfromthemoon Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. It's basically PMS on steroids to put it really simple.
ehhh I dunno, I have PMDD and before I got on birth control, I'd have the suicidal depression and crippling anxiety for five days before my period, but it'd also give me an INSANE hair trigger temper. I'd scream-cry at someone over a seemingly trivial matter until I'd almost lose my voice, but then once those 5 days ended, I'd be like "Oh my god I'm a monster, what tf is wrong with me??". So like...screaming at someone like that is admittedly abusive, but 1. it's not like you can't DO anything about it 2. it's not like the fact it stems from crazy hormones ABSOLVES you 3. it doesn't explain acting like that ALL THE TIME
@@Rainfromthemoon premenstrual dysphoric disorder. Basically an abnormally bad response to hormonal changes in the menstrual cycle. You really do just suddenly feel fucking insane and suicidal but it will just go away the moment your period starts - not that knowing that helps, in the moment you feel like life is ending. It's a horrible thing to suffer with.
I'm becoming more and more convinced that these people would literally combust if they touched even a blade of grass
Yea we would
@@TheCleaner.I'm sorry... WE?!?!
@@TheCleaner. Who is "WE"
@@TheCleaner. >we
@@unseasonedsalad :)
I don’t blame Spawn for leaving her family. I can understand turning off the internet to an extent but literally denying someone food because of a headache and finding anything to get them in trouble is beyond abusive, that’s just sociopathic Narcissism.
There’s more freedom in prison.
@@deltasavesalso gulag sounds still better then this.
scheduled bathroom visits is actual insanity
Spawn needs to run far far far away from these people and never look back. That is not family!
Also the combo of forcing someone to get a job while actively sabotaging their efforts (denying the internet access, inundating them with house chores). They just wanted to keep Spawn in some cult-like servitude position 😐
plurality is a colloquial term for the identity associated with people that have DID, so it is not entirely unrecognized, and DID is indeed real. however, the way DID is described by poppy poorly reflects on the diagnosis as a whole, and i am inclined to believe it is a self-diagnosis based on her lack of credibility otherwise.
As a therapist I was so unsurprised to see this title. I’m recently finding out that there’s a lot of… not so great people who are therapists. Makes my life harder because I don’t want my profession to be stained by that. Just to let everyone know - good therapy can be life changing. Bad or middling therapy can be a waste of time or worse..
Oof. Hope you like a challenge, friend. Trying to turn that back around looks like a Herculean task.
Good therapists are great and do great things...but finding one that isn't poisoned by and/or ideologically captured, insane, incompetent, or a grifter, is unfortunately a task in of itself.
Can confirm there are some that aren't great people.
loads of people in therapy and psychology are in those fields to understand their own wierdness. the problem is when they take it out on others.
One thing I've noticed is..a lot of people who get into therapy are always the ones who have issues themselves. Often the reaosn they themsewlves need therapy is because they overthink everyting in life and won't actually make a difference on their own.
Meanwhile people who are ACTUALLY good at therapy or just normal human reflection and think/decision making are often better than trained ''job profession therapists'' Because they don't really know HOW to reflect on themselves and others they only know what the therapy book taught them and want the therapy badge from the state so they can feel good about having the rank to show people how mcuh they care about others.
Those who are good at talking and understanding are often the ones that stay quiet and live outside of drama and trouble so you don't see them often but everyone has atleast one of those in their life.
too late
The kid naming themselves SPAWN online is wild.
Like, a video game mob. Just spawnd. Treated with hostility. Microd with ruthless efficiency.
I see it as representative of how they didn't feel like anyone's child, just someone's spawn.
or....the comic book character?
have you ever seen a comic book, my friend
@@nothobbesmufc949these are fucking 10 year olds they do not know culture or influence passed 2020
The 22 year old “kid” 😂
"GO PLAY WARHAMMER LIKE A ACTUAL AUTISTIC PERSON" caught me dead💀
I did as asked, and just to be extra autistic im playing as Ikit Claw ( if you dont know, look him up).
@@G.M.C2005 Ikit Claw is a ratman that uses a mix of "rat" magic and technology. He is also severly insane and uses a lot of stuff that explode including a nuke, poison mortars and a "cannon" that shoots green lighting. Also uses ratling gunners ( literally just rats with miniguns ) and a workshop mechanic that give boost.
When using Ikit, friendly fire is mandatory and almost unavoidable. If you like guns, explosion and a shit ton of collateral deaths he is you man ( your ratman that is xD ).
Bruh I was actually painting minis when I heard it 💀
@@NordicTobzbro I think he meant “he doesn’t know what Warhammer is” not he doesn’t know who Ikit Claw is 😂
@@misanthropicservitorofmars2116 Oh
Id immediately believe a therapist or counsellor in the UK could be this and a lot more criminal.
The regulators literally don't care and will protect criminality amongst their members
As a mother, these "people" make me sick. I have BPD and live a perfectly normal life. I have a full time job, a family, friends. As a "therapist," they should know that behavioral therapy works wonders. I absolutely hate when people blame all their crap on BPD. My daughter also has POTS, so I understand the kid's needs. This is all just disgusting.
Most mental illnesses are now merely justification for moral failings/degeneracy
That's because you're your own person, while people like that only define themselves by the disorders they have
BPD makes shit harder, but harder doesn't mean impossible. And at best disorders like that can explain messed up behaviour, but they can never excuse it. It's up to all of us to find ways to handle our lives, regardless of the hardships we face.
Life might not be fair, but we make the best out of it regardless, that's called being an mature adult.
And yes, i'm glad to read you managed to find ways to live a decent life. Overcoming hardships like that legitimately gives you the right to hold up your head a bit higher and be proud about yourself.
girl same... i have PMDD but i take care of myself and actually try to ease my symptoms and deal with them in a healthy way so that I can live a good life and treat myself and others correctly. giving up on controlling your disorder and just using it as a shield from responsibility is so annoying and childish.
You don't have shit, mental illnesses is a scam. You just want attention, lady.
honestly being homeless is less abusive than this
Can confirm
@@chungusamongus519^
she had to feel captive or sum
Some people go homeless because of situations like this for sure.
Currently in between homes, yeah I agree
"Zena" sounds like the human embodiment of a migraine
We’ll see how male coded Zena is after some dude beats the piss out of her for being a dick
19:39 im autistic and am horrible at reading sarcasm or taking things as a joke over text. Tone tags are only needed for something that could be taken as offensive. Much love, your videos are playing while i draw❤❤
for me it helps to think about it for a moment: I think “Okay, would this person say this IRL? Does this statement make sense based off the context?” etc. etc. this might help
This is like having a 600 pound person as your personal trainer.
That sounds like a funny comedy.
@FTChomp9980 ur comment is very a funny comedy
Like D J Khalid?
@SoloTheStaticHater2810 This is extremely funny comedy. Every time i reread, I laugh out loud. thank you for the blessed funny comedy have merry 4th of july.
Basically every gym teacher
I'm honestly surprised that more of these kids/young adults don't go Gypsy Rose on the "mothers."
They lack the courage and/or mental capacity. It's really sad. The way "Spawn" complains to their friend on Discord makes me think; why the hell did they not stand up against those two lunatic "parents"? Why did they not just go in the shower, cook food or take a piss whenever they wanted to? They were 22 years old and the "parents" were two mentally ill scrawny weirdos. What are they gonna do, yell at you? Kick you out of that horrorhouse of psychosis and filth? That would be a blessing for "Spawn". Such a sad situation for him/her or whatever they are.
Don’t say that. Let’s not start a catch phrase for that foolish idiot. She’s not a heroine, she’s a manipulative lying criminal that was pretending to have medical issues.
I thought you were doing some hyperbole when I first read your comment. After watching the video more, I agree with you. I'm honestly surprised that she didn't go postal.
Its sad, I see more cases become Fred and Rose West every day honestly
@@Komikmaker I think there are going to be more and more cases of those coming out... not to mention there is likely already quite a few similar cases, whether it involves Munchausen's by proxy or some other kind of extreme circumstance.
one of my closest friends has POTS and needing access to food is an understatement. i’ve had her physically pass out in front of me because she didn’t have access to the salt/iron she needed. the fact that spawn wasn’t allowed food is CRAZY and i’m surprised that no one got involved earlier
WTF... someone with a list of mental illnesses should not be working in therapy, or have guardianship of a child.
Someone with mental illnesses should be able to have guardianship of a child depending on what they are, how the illnesses affect the person, and if there's another more competent parent taking care of the child.
Well he did say that only leftists should work in therapy so he is advocating for all therapists to be mentally ill.
@@ImperialSenpai Why do you think leftists are mentally ill? Or are you just trying to be funny?
The 22 yo child is the only adult in this situation.
Edit: yes geniuses, 22 yo is an adult physiologically. My point was to highlight the she is more grounded and stable than her parents. I'm 42 yo and I'm still a child to my mother. Words can mean different things.
I'm sorry.... 22 year old child? 🤨
@@patrickbateman312I guess the child age is raised to 22.
@@patrickbateman312
Lmao, "SHE'S JUST 22 YOU FXKING PDFILE"
I read this in Brak's voice.
Can we seriously stop referring to women as children even when they are 18+ years old?
Adult women aren't children, they are adults. Grown adults with the full responsibility of one.
"GO PLAY WAR HAMMER LIKE A REAL AUTISTIC PERSON" -Turkey Tom 2024
No no no, you play Pokemon
That’s how you know you’re autistic 😂
"I DON'T CARE THAT YOU WANT TO KNIT. YOU ARE GOING TO PAINT THE AUTISM FIGURINES AND YOU'RE GOING TO LIKE IT."
@@gs4011NOOO
@@gs4011 the lore of the autism figurines is crazy we have gay robotic skeletons and a vegetable of an emperor
I'm autistic and the only reason why I avoid Warhammer is because I fear what that rabbit hole will do to me
The irony of those who claim to be loving and tolerant of others, but are instead incredibly neglectful and toxic with the most harmless of our species. This should be seen as red flag for future people you meet that love to constantly preach how morally good they are…
I never trust anyone who repeats how they´re in any way virtuous. "I´m honest, reliable, creative, unique, friendly, peaceful, understanding etc."
You see this all the time, they say it to suckerpunch an opinion into people that don´t know them well enough as a way of manipulation.
Remember how Chris-chan always repeated how he was "true and honest", but lied his ass off constantly? Only one example.
@@ainulvr9808that and ‘ i’m an empath ’. 🚩🚩🏃🏽🚩🚩
The best people in the world will often think they themselves are monsters.
Claims of "tolerance" are always a cover for terrible behavior in private. Real tolerant people don't need to say it.
Anyone who HAS to tell you a virtue, does not have that virtue. If they did it would show and they wouldn't NEED you to believe them
Why did reagan shut down the mental asylums
Well it was actually jfk and it might have had something to do with those lobotomies
Probably because people were being lobotomized and a lot of people who were sent there had things outside the realm of mental disorders. Autism, Epilepsy, “female hysteria” to name a few
@@buffalosauce47 Democrats needed a voter base.
@@crow4834 Not true, only severely mentally ill people went to asylums and since getting shut down they’re all on the streets and internet doing messed up stuff and doing drugs.
Average BetterHelp therapist:
Stop 😂 too real
LMFAAOOOO REAL
FOR REALLLLLL
real idk why youtubers don’t research their sponsors 😭 like money ig but overtime it’s more harmful
LMFAO FR
Look at my therapist zawg im going to the asylum 😭
Lmaooo I'm dead "I'm so fucked look at these freaks"
bro i’ve edited all my friends on dat lawyer meme 😂😂
the aslume
So basically the patients are still running the asylum.
Yes, whilst postulating as the doctors.
Its been that way since Freud, who was an utter degenerate.
This is one of the most frustrating things to watch. Those "parents" are genuinely evil, its so disgusting
HOW THE HELL DOES JELLY GO MOLDY?
if the container isnt properly closed or if there's food residue in the jelly
Jelly is organic and has a lot of nutrients that fungi likes. Culture plates are literally made out of seaweed jelly.
@howyouremindme1 I'm not american, I thought "jelly" was just what we called "jam", I have jam i don't like in my fridge from 6-7 years ago and it's perfectly fine.
@@brendo7363 jam can get moldy too? Especially if it was opened at least couple of times
@@brendo7363 Properly sealed and canned jams can last for a long time, rule of thumb is that it's fine as long as it's unopened. Once opened, the most exposure it has to air the faster it will grow mold(the sugar acts as preservative, but it can only do so much). If you're quick to stick a (clean) knife in and get what you need out the jar, then it can last quite a while. But keeping edible jam for several years after it's been opened just seems...a bit unlikely.
I can barely look at these people. You can almost smell them through the screen. How do they live like that?
drugs
Untreated mental illness obviously is what causes them to live in these types of states and existence obviously.
I KNOW the soap and laundry detergent is untouched 😰
Poppy's "headmates" sound like D&D characters
why the quotes?
@@novatarebecause it's made up
@@troubleinbound define "made up".
@@novatare you speak English don't you?
@@novatare made up. The person in question is likely fabricating stories about their imaginary friends because they want attention and sympathy, like every other DID/MPD larper on social media. It's a disease that affects less than 1% of the total world population. The likelihood that this person is actually affected are slim to none, ergo; I believe they're not being truthful in order to gain attention
14:43 can’t help but feel like Spawn not being her bio daughter (like you said the mom was pregnant at 3 months meeting Poppy) I bet it was a trauma response to Spawn growing up to look like her mom, or maybe because she didn’t? Idk either way becoming abusive like this post puberty gives weird vibes
All these mental illnesses are real but ppl shouldn’t use mental illness as a shield to justify bad behavior nor should they self diagnose
I've seen it said somewhere else before that Mental illness is not an excuse, it is a responsibility.
I suffer from schizophrenia alongside crippling depression. I was diagnosed when I was 10 by a professional. I can only speak for myself but i find it disgusting when people use mental illness as an excuse to be a terrible human being or avoid any kind of responsibility and accountability. I have been trying my whole life to not let my illness define me but people these days use it as a badge of honor and part of or their whole personality. If you bring up bettering yourself to these people . How it can improve your quality of life as well as others who are part of your life you are chastised.
I been screaming this since forever. I have a lot mental issues and as hard as it is to cope with my disorders (ADHD, bipolar disorder, generalize anxiety disorder, depression, etc). I try not to lash out and I'm getting help, but i have a cousin with the same problems who refuses to get help and i tried to steer her from the dark side but after she told me to die, i showed her how unhinge i can be and aint forgive her sense. My mom tries to make me tabe civil with her and tells me she needs help and I told her i spent our entire childhood helping her and now idc about her. Shes using her disorders to justify how she (cousin) used to physically, verbally, and emotionally abuse me. Enough was enough.
Needless to say, that heffa is terrified of me and thats how it should be. Now shes 19 and pregnant with a felons baby.
@@lazyfrogeyes5949 Because they don't want to be better, they want everyone else to be worse than them.
it's because she's a scorpio!
"Im something of a mental illness expert myself" (I have all of them)
If you get 5 you'll unlock some cool ass powers
@@AmbeanWambulance I used to know someone who claimed to have seven or eight mental illnesses at the same time.
@@Flamsterettethey think they the avatar or something😭
@@ratioratio7354 Bad grammar.
@@Flamsterette my god dawg it’s the internet it’s not that serious
PMDD does not make you abusive. I’ve struggled with it since I started getting periods and although it can make you want to take your life or get extremely irritable at people before your period, it wouldn’t make you roid out uncontrollably at people you love/constantly abuse them. It’s essentially a severe depression before your period. It is not a violent disorder. It’s also something you only suffer with for two weeks out of the month, so it shouldn’t severely impact your job or disable you
Probably because she was on test can fuck up your hormone levels and give you either 0 periods or constant periods , not excusing the insane behavior though just a thought as a dude whose researched heavily on them for potential bodybuilding reasons
Yup, can confirm
@@timbloxrox1 not with women. Steroid aggression is real, but you'd need to reach superficial levels around 1,300-1,400 which is close to impossible for her. But... A lot of doctors in the US give dozens of vials to patients under informed consent when they want, so she might actually be able to reach those levels.
Even then, steroids don't cause these issues on their own. They make them worse.
If she is having constant periods, her dose is so high her test is aromatising back into estrogen. She also has ZERO effects of test you'd except on someone who is female, which means she does probably take a dose that high (around 250mg, since a vial usually has that amount).
To add on: I suffer from transsexualism. So I'm a trans man. Even on a low dose of 40,5mg Testogel a day my period stopped within a week of starting and I haven't had it in 3 months.
She was clearly mentally ill before she took test, superficial levels of test (probably around 250-300mg a week or more) made her 100x worse. Informed consent is a nightmare.
@DownByTheGrave I wasn't talking about steroid aggression, I was talking about her supposed illness related to periods strictly, steroid aggression isn't really applicable on small amounts of test , but I highly agree doctors should not be giving patients bulk hormones in the first place.
I do appreciate an informed answer though ❤️
As a moderate to left leaning voter and someone who works in the medical field, saying that all therapists have to be left leaning (paraphrasing) is ridiculous. I’ve gone to several different mental health providers during my 54 years. For the most part I don’t know anything about their political views and it’s not necessary for me to know. I know one psychologist hated a certain politician because we were in the middle of the 2016 election and I mentioned that I was canvassing door to door on weekends with my sister for our congresswoman when he asked me if I was getting out of the house enough. This psychologist then let it slip how much he couldn’t stand someone in the presidential race. It struck me as odd, but I let it slide because it never came up again.
If a therapist can’t be professional enough to work with someone who has an opposing viewpoint then they aren’t worth their salt as a therapist. I didn’t go to therapy for someone to reinforce my beliefs, I went to therapy to get treatment for depression, anxiety and PTSD.
Just do your research before making an appointment with someone. Know what they specialize in. Therapist is a general term. There are some therapists who are Christian therapists, some are Children therapists, Grief Counselor’s (my dad works with families who’ve lost loved ones to cancer, he’s retired now). Just make sure you know they’re licensed and qualified to help you with your specific mental health needs.
Just as not everyone should be a parent, not everyone should be a therapist.
I stumbled across this upload and I am disgusted by this person. One of my best therapists was transgender. Poppy isn’t a representative of transgender therapists or the transgender community in general. She’s a very sick person masquerading as a therapist.
words words words words
Why does it seem like people who are messed up in the head always want to be therapists/psychologists for other people? You wouldn't go to a barber with a bad haircut, or a dentist who has messed up teeth
My guess is it's a combination of them being obsessed with learning about themselves, and them being relatively socially competent enough to have been there for someone in the past and being told by said person that they really helped them. Basically it's an undeserved sense of confidence
Sometimes it's about getting the sense of control over themselves and others where they normally wouldn't have, because we tend to trust professionals more.
It can also give some a sense of being this unfortunate martyr who leads people to a happiness and stability they themselves can't posses for some reason.
And in this case it's about finding excuses for why you're acting the way you are without improving because you just have so many issues and they're all so debilitating.
People with mental health issues take interest in learning about mental health issues.
Because contributing to actually _doing something_ with their lives is the scariest thing in the universe to them, due to requiring some sort of actual effort. Judging people and telling them what's wrong with them allows you to channel your basic instincts into something society has placed value on for some reason. It's basically the feminine equivalent of becoming a soldier.
@SomeRUclipsTraveler I think you're conflating legitimate counseling with the malpractice these idiologs do by pushing their agenda on clients.
I can assure you that good counselors work very hard to earn and keep their license, and go into it to actually help people help themselves (which is what counseling is supposed to be: giving people the tools and knowledge to improve their lives and states of mind)
"Go play Warhammer like a real autistic person" Dude, fuck you with that timing. I was working on a McFarlane 40k marine (Nightlord custom)... and yeah I do have the 'tism 🤣
Ayeee just did some first born black templar sternguard vet
Which is ironic because 40k fans are usually amongst the most social, articulate and outspoken people I've ever met. And it's when they're sober, I must add. I guess all those litanies actually do work
Now that’s how a real man spends his time 😍😍
Of course you have it
That's lovely, now go take a Shower
Tips for ppl thinking about going to therapy: 1) See their face. 2) Go in person, avoid telehealth. At minimum do facetime but I highly recommend face to face. 3) Do not fall into the "I can solve any issue" sales pitches. Find someone who specializes in what you're looking for. 4) Realize that the 1st meeting is an interview to see if you are good to work with eachother. 5) My therapist told me the first session (I did a year for ptsd) to PACE YOURSELF. 6) For God's sake, avoid furries
Number 3 is really good advice, it’s stuff I honestly wish I would’ve done sooner. And as a furry myself, I got a good laugh out of number 6.
@@UncleSamsoniteLover69 I got nothing against y’all (we’re all weird) but the ppl in this vid made me put it there for therapy 😂
I would like to add: check if they're professionally licensed psychologists. I'm not sure about the US but in my country you can be a "therapist" just with some shitty course. (PL)
@ashiri8445 In the US, there's therapists, who in all the cases I had were educated(my three at least had done college psychology and such courses), but only psychiatrists can prescribe medication.
@@ashiri-chanIn the us, you need at minimum a MA and a license to be a therapist.
is no one gonna point out that DID and the discourse surrounding it predates tiktok? and that it is a valid illness, just incredibly rare and does tend to have people claiming to have it when they dont? if youre gonna call someone out for medical misinformation, make sure you dont perpetuate misinformation yourself. there is absolutely an issue with people claiming this disorder who dont have it, and compounded with decades long misunderstanding, it can be difficult to diagnose and treat but it is still very much a real, diagnosable disorder.
right!! i have a friend with DID and this just sounded very invalidating to them. lots of systems struggle with even accepting the fact that they have DID themselves, and it's worse to tell them that they're just "faking" it for attention...
Everyone knows DID is real. However it is EXTREMELY EXTREMELY rare and brought on by the most horrific levels of abuse to a young child. The problem is all of you get on TikTok and claim you have it because your mom grounded you from Tumblr once. You guys have to make up having debilitating illnesses to feel like you're important
@@SoggyMs who the fuck is "you guys"? i'm 32 years old with over 20 years of intensive first hand experience being mentally ill, learning about the many i have or could have, as well as varying illnesses and treatments because it an interest of mine. i don't use tiktok. and no, most people DON'T actually know that DID is real. there is so much misinformation about the illness and as i said in my initial comment, the fact that so many people will claim it when they don't have it only lends credence to the idea that it's a made up disease. don't come tagging me with an attitude when nothing youve said is at all in conflict with what i said, and you made a whole hell of a lot of assumptions about me.
i've known people with DID. i've also seen how most people treat their illness like some sensationalized thing they saw in tv and doubt the reality of it. don't use me as your relief from irritation with other people.
@@SoggyMs It actually isn't brought on by the most "horrific levels of abuse" in childhood, that's just a misconception that was popularized by how MPD was viewed and talked about in the 80s, and how it was associated with the Satanic Panic. People have been diagnosed with DID through experiencing things like emotional abuse and emotional neglect very early on in life. DID is caused by any childhood trauma that involves a very severe and early disruption of attachment, a sense of inescapability, and a complex combination of dissociative responses.
My daughter is 17. She suffers from Anxiety Disorder and PMDD. She was diagnosed last year. Thankfully she came to me and told me about her thoughts of self harm and severe spiral she was experiencing. I immediately made an appointment with her primary and they started the bloodwork. She did a blood draw a week prior to menstruation and then during and after. It showed her hormone levels were severely up and down which is the cause of pmdd. She began medications and while she still has bad days, they are few and far in between now. There’s so much that goes into this diagnosis bc it’s a newer diagnosis but also not very common but more so in young girls.
Wow, that's awesome that you're on the ball about it at her young age. So many women have to beg and plead for that kind of care from doctors and acknowledgenent from loved ones, so it's wonderful to read that your daughter at 17 has had that bloodwork. And that she has a doctor that's recognizing there's an imbalance occurring. You rock! Your love for her and finding a good doctor will likely save her from a harsher, longer experience with PMDD - speaking from experience.
In my case, bioidentical progesterone taken during my luteal phase is the only thing that allows me to function and saves me from the mental suffering. That's the hormone that drops in my case. That might not be what she needs, but thought I would share. Take care!
that person being a mental health councilor is like if an arsonist became a fire safety councilor
you should look up the case of john orr
Frank William Abagnale Jr.
I’m happy for the younger generation. Growing up with POTS I was told that I was faking, that I need to suck it up, and that I just wasn’t trying in gym class even though I used to collapse. I am so glad to hear you saying that it is a real disorder that requires real accommodations.
I've heard COVID caused a lot more people to develop POTS, fingers crossed with more people suffering it leads to a cure/better treatment. It seems to be very under researched and not enough funding goes into treatments. Now that it's a bit more common, that may change. At least I hope it changes.
i have POTS too! it sucks
I’ve got tv static too- hang in there, hopefully it’ll get better!
I have Orthostatic intolerance (similar) and yes, it makes me so happy when people understand and help 🥹😌🧂
@@darcey6392yeah I had minor autonomic symptoms before (most likely caused/exacerbated by years of anorexia) but COVID made it so much worse 😭
Didn't expect to see so much information about POTS in this video. Thanks for talking about it. I don't have a diagnosis, but I've got all the symptoms and my cardiologist believes I probably have it. It can be difficult to get a diagnosis for POTS- most doctors I've talked to don't even know what it is. It's an incredibly frustrating condition to have.
How are people like this allowed to even be around kids, much less raise them? That kid didn't stand a chance.
Thank God these criminals were stupid enough to document it all online. No one would believe it otherwise.
Because we have to ”accept them” something like that 🙄
We've normalized degeneracy in society
@@eliphas_vlka Speak for yourself, I'll never accept them.
@@yosutzuhruoj sane people who want to protect C should never support this
Because those in power want you to be grown adult children, constantly taking what little scraps you are thrown and always being "listened to and catered to" because your views and opinions help speed up the decay of society and the easy power grab by our masters :).... now you WORSHIP your mentallty ill supervisors, because you arn't allowed to answer them back :) See how it works?
i can guarantee that she doesn’t have bpd and did💀 these diagnoses are so common in these communities because none of them actually have them and just self diagnose and make real mental illnesses look like quirky little character traits
Don't forget using them as justifications to act like terrible human beings without ever having to change themselves. "I didn't scream at you because I'm abusive, I screamed at you because I have BPD! And now I'm really sad and you're evil for making me feel bad because of my BPD!"
It almost seems like they're trying to collect beneficial tags. Mentally disabled, physically disabled, LGBT, sympathetic parent of disabled child, etc. Just so that they never have to justify their actions to anyone. Any time anyone tries to criticize them they can just say something like "Well, you try living as a single personality in someone with multiple personality disorder, while being trans, and lesbian, and bipolar, and having to keep up with multiple partners because you're poly, and raise a child with POTS, Autism, ADHD" etc. etc. etc.
@@duskmare0000 yeap.. they like using all of these mental disorders to shield themselves.
Yeah I actually DO have BPD and I’m sick of online weirdos acting like that’s an excuse for bad behavior. They don’t even care to take the time to actually LEARN what it IS. And it’s not sht to brag about and it’s NOT why they’re abusive. As a matter of fact it’s why most of us women who go into relationships end up being abused.
I hate these people
Well said! I, too, have BPD and am so tired of them putting such an more horrible label on an already difficult disorder. If you want to be a shit person, then so be it, but at least have the balls to take credit for it. Stop tainting the perception of others who would rather not be able to claim the disorder.
Wouldnt be surprised if she has N P D
a person who is a Furry, Trans, Poly, MPD being your therapist actually sounds like it's the set up for a joke
Honestly, furry and trans are fine as they dont rlly have anything to do with the child as long as the adult is responsible
Poly, is highly questionable and I would argue its confusing for a child but I also am sure that there are poly families out there
MPD is the killer here for me. Its going to be similar to parents with BPD where the parent cannot control their emotions and will just be not fit to take care of another fragile life
I was surprised being transgender got pointed out as something negative/essentially a red flag. Like, feels unrelated? If anything, it's something bigots can use to further fuel their transphobic narrative, ESPECIALLY considering the trans folks' situation in the UK rn.
@@sorafowler4497 Is everything but that not an option anymore?
Hell I'm FROM a broken family and I'd take my own family over that crap
We live in clown world.
@@sorafowler4497besides that the MPD is fake
This makes me wish I wasn't trans. These "people" make us look bad
Alas people often focus on the "trans" & it often takes the focus off the word people.
Unfortunately most people, regardless of gender, sex or even sexuality are bellends.
Don't worry it's a just a shame but a fact that people are often just well people 😂
‘groomed into being a husband’
the absolute audacity and mental hula hoops required to come to that conclusion is astounding. bring back asylums.
I would recommend you watching Papa Meat's video on asylums if you genuinely believe we should bring back asylums
@@umtic i think you are reinforcing the statement. the point is no matter how bad it is in there it's safer than out here. for the rest of society that is.
@@jeremiahdyck7882 you talk like that until you are thrown to an asylum for an unfair reason. if you watch the video I mentioned you would see that most of the people thrown there were ordinary folk. that's why the concept failed, because it was highly inefficient and often misused by authorities
@@jeremiahdyck7882 and on top of that they were used by dictatorships like the Soviets as a tool to silence the dissent
And while the past is always an indicator for the future, we do live in a time that is far more likely to expose and prosecute those things.
Mental illness is treated with a better level of understanding and severity.
I believe that a new, reformed, asylum system could benefit the US in cases where it is very clear that someone cannot be trusted to remain in public for fear of harming themselves or others.@@umtic
Imagine getting exposed for being a child predator, then making a loli furry oc. Cant make this shit up.
And i thought I WAS EXTREMLY MENTALY ILL...
3 diagnosis and multiple hospitalisations, yet still somehow still less menataly ill
i hope you're doing well atm 💖💖
Dont forget. If you don't believe in mental health issues, you can't get them. - Andrew Tate
Because you have what they don't: self awareness
also,
Hey you (whenever you get around to seeing this) I've been seeing a lot of people online talk about getting told that they don't deserve love so I will counteract that by saying that you deserve love. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to have friends that'll support you and stick by you no matter what. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
They're not more mentally ill, just vastly more terrible people. Two different qualitative tracks.
Imagine Tom's next video is "investigating furry's inflated TF2 incident ft. Pyrocynical"
moufronn
He could investigate and expose nothing but furries for the rest of his RUclips career and never run out of them to cover.
Did somebody say… augh… *my belly gets all big and round*
I’d watch that shit all day lol
I would love that so much
4:12 FOR THE EMPEROR
Man, that time/chore stuff described my father so well. Not seen or spoken to the man in 15 years~ and it still made me feel physically sick. Thanks for highlighting these monsters.
I have BPD. It's one of the most difficult disorders to have. Everything I feel is heightened to an extreme degree: anger, sadness, love, happiness, etc. However.. That isn't an excuse for hurting others. Yes, BPD is extremely difficult to cope with/control. It can easily get out of hand. But you are ALWAYS responsible for your own actions. It's absolutely disgusting to see these people using their mental disorders as excuses to be abusive and controlling. BPD can never be cured but it can be managed, especially with therapy and consistent personal effort. As a therapist, Poppy should have known that. I know they're all likely faking and using disorders to excuse their behavior, which is even worse. BPD folks have it bad enough. They need to stop adding to the stigma.
Get meds
@@Viroh ok so first of all, that's a little rude to just throw that at me. Second of all, I am on meds, thank you. And thirdly, yes, meds are vital for folks with BPD. But again, there is so much stigma that some people with BPD are hesitant to get medicated.
My husband has it too and it can be a nightmare without meds and actively making an effort to not let it control you. He always takes responsibility if he blows up at me or whatever because it got out of control, usually just needs a few minutes to calm down and clear his head. And I totally get that as someone who is on the spectrum among other things. You can tell people you have a mental health issue and that you may have bad moments occasionally but it doesn't give you free reign to be an asshole and just shrug and act like it isn't on you. Especially as an adult who has had years to learn to cope with your shit, though I suspect these people just want to catch em all to fill up their mental health pokedex rather than actually having most of what they claim.
Couldn't bpd just be the name given to people unable or naive to coping mechanisms to handle their emotions effectively? Couldn't it just be you have a harder time processing your emotions and you merely need to learn and do it. No mental illness excuse to slam pills into you, no expensive therapy for decades, no being told over and over you are mentally ill and it's not curable. Sounds like telling someone they have mental health problems will convince them its true.
Now, call me mean for suggesting you simply need to get over it, but maybe I'm ignorant to BPD. Is it a literal observable physical issue, like there's biological evidence? Or is it merely a doctor asking you a series of questions and then diagnosing you based on that? Is there observable, provable evidence for this mental illness, or is it diagnosed through verbal communication?
BPD is the most bs mental illness ever lol
Imagine being 40 something acting like you're still in your early 20s 💀
early 20s don't act this idiotic
@@martond336 most of em don't at least
Nothing wrong with that unless if in your 20s, you were fucking insane.
This 14 minimum
Like they're in freaking HS.
Things like this are strong arguments for just going back to having no internet
That poor Mom did not know she left her kid with a monster. Where is the biological father, he might have been better.
Lol the biological dad has been there the whole time. Didn't pay good enough attention?
@octoberwildsmoke9065 where? Because at the beginning tom made it pretty clear that poppy wasn't related to spawn biologically.
@@Slo7hfulAcediaTrue
ironically he is the one not paying attention 😅
@perfectcell1157 I'll never understand people being so confidently wrong when they think they'll get to dunk on someone
I just watched the south park ep where butters has a therapist with MPD and it was so freaking dark and terrifying lmao
Even a south park episode is better than this guy
I have to see that one, lol.
@@thomasbrown6332the city sushi episode
I actually know, through extended friend groups, some of the furries in Poppy's proverbial orbit. And it's just a freak-show all the way down. I'm not even just talking general furry weirdness, but stuff that's even worse than you can even imagine.
Like some Mandy type shit ? (The nic cage one)
You can't just leave a cliff-hanger like that, you gotta give us some details. Anyone sitting through this horror show deserves to know!
@@juneslugg2yeah don’t just hint at that yet tell us nothing.
tell us great soul give us the forbidden knowledge
@@justaurora01 Don't bring Mandy into this, man! lol
4:11 "GO PLAY WARHAMMER LIKE A REAL AUTISTIC PERSON"
lmao so true gotta paint my minis
I'm too broke to get into warhammer.
@@Sonjaslostson yeaah dont buy the figures just print them 110 pounds for a set is insane 💀
also when i bought my set there was a duplicant so i couldnt make few units :3