The Most Accurate Way To Get Men To Actually Fall In Love And Become Obsessed
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- Опубликовано: 4 сен 2023
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My name is Elliot Scott and I am a dating coach that is going to teach you how to get a boyfriend and attract the guy you like. I am going to teach you numerous ways to attract your crush and get him to fall for you. I have helped thousands of women all over get the guy of their dreams. I am going to tell you how to find out if a guy likes you and the signs that a guy likes you. I also will teach you why men pull away and what to do if they pull away.
I am going to give you a ton of free dating and relationship advice. Everything you need on how to make a guy fall for you is in my guides and videos. Don’t worry about men pulling away or losing interest. I show you how to get a guy to like you again. I show you how to get a guy back once and for all. If you have any topic or question on attraction and getting guys to desire you then you will find it here. I have been doing this for a long time and I don’t plan on stopping. I love what I do.
I cover a lot of the following: How to get a guy to like you, signs a guy likes you, how to get a guy back, how to get your ex back, how to get him to like you again, how to get a guy to text back or text faster, and many more.
I am no way a professional or licensed. This is all just my experience, knowledge, and opinion.
One more thing: I don’t want you to ever think I am trying to blame you or gaslight you into thinking something that isn’t true or actually happening. My intentions are to give you another way of looking at things and to help you question what is actually going on. My intention is to give clarity and insight. You don’t have to agree with that is being said.
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So true! I’ve been watching your videos for like 2 yrs. Dating a guy almost 5 months now. Used everything you say. The guy is insanely into me and yes he said I’m a unicorn! After 2.5 months he wanted a exclusive relationship. Think this is going just how I want it too!
he asked for exclusivity but why is he worthy of taking yourself off of the market? is he a provider? does he pay all of your bills? youre the prize. exclusivity needs to benefit you.
@@basicinfo2022 no he’s not paying my bills! But he’s doing everything else at 5 months that is considered good! A gentleman, helps me if I need “guy” stuff done around my house, takes me out to dinners. Respects me. He communicates daily. I don’t expect him to pay my bills. But for my birthday in November he said he is paying all for and taking my to the Caribbean.
2.5 months? Way too long to wait!
@@katarzynarajska7608no, it is not! You do not know who the person is until about 3 months. That's when the real personality comes out.
So much negative comments. I'm glad you found him
That so called 'X' factor that he's referring to is just a facet of your personality where he can use you to benefit himself. It's not that he's admiring you because of it. He just wants to use it to make his life more comfortable at YOUR expense instead of improving himself in the areas he's lacking. Men are generally users. They don't fall in love with you they just fall in love with the idea of being with you.
Yesss yesss you got it!! You precisely said it best! 💯
Basically it’s saying that there is really only very little people you will connect with.
There will be many wrong ones naturally-until you find the right one.
anxiety is living in the future
Depression is living in the past
The present is peace ❤
Men fall in love in the distance. Give him your attention then disappear for a few days.
What if he got married? His my ex and its been a month of getting married and he was talking to me recently but then he said he can't talk because his married now
@@private4735 sorry about that. Sometimes a door closes because God has something better for you. Even if you don't think so now, give yourself the space, kindness and love you need to continue moving forward. Things will improve eventually 🙏
@@private4735 are you sure he wasn't married before? Or did he marry an old flame?
If he is into you - he will not give you distance. I see that from my male friends, they overtext even if she doesn't respond, they have no brakes if they're into that women, same when women are into men.
X factor = what value can you bring to his life? Every guy has different values and what they want so that will change depending on the person. And yes the x factor IS an illusion. It’s the potential that person thinks he can strive to be while being with YOU and only you.
You're awesome. Very clear message and makes so much sense. Thanks Elliot.🙂
😅 I disagree I dealt with someone and I was in my feminine energy and still he choose someone else , and yea pretty much we both have careers etc that does not mean anything when you are dealing with Someone dismissive and narcissistic, and yes I’m a high value women but many man are broken ! And have not healed and never been to therapy , let’s be real some man are stuck in their childhood wound it goes way deeper . I say focus on yourself and find someone who has healed any trauma because the rabbit hole is way deeper 😊
But he didn’t say it’s how to get anyone you desire. He basically is saying you sort through men to find the guy who falls in love with things about you and falls hard. Any coach that says they have the answer to making any man love you is a total liar. It’s always about finding the right guy and quickly letting go of the wrong ones.
Why would you want a dismissive narcissist to choose you?
Why would a feminine and high valued woman get played by a narcissist?
Because narcs love choosing the best but that's only so they can cut you down. @@Franziska1008
Amen
Im grateful for you helping us all Elliot, truly ❤
I love your guide!!! I can’t put it down!! Thank you and so easy to read! I love it and I would dare you
If you think that's amazing you should work with me. I'd transform your life
@@ElliotScottDating you said I’m not your type in the guide! Lol yeah I would love to talk to you! I love your videos and they are so true!!! Your my favourite ❤️
Brilliant! Very interesting indeed xx
i would love to see a video with the topic of being with someone who ended up recently and how to manage it!
You want the pool small though. I wanted a guy that took care of himself and was passionate about an active lifestyle just as much as me. Of course I would meet him at the gym. I've been hovering around as a success story for awhile now and I can't recommend the guide enough. Please consider giving it a read.
But does this work on guys that are emotionally available/ dismissive avoidant? I feel this is perfect advice for when a man is looking for a woman/ relationship, not if he’s in the dating world but closed offf
Avoidant? You cannot fix a person. I know no one wants to hear that. But you can’t. They will fix themselves if you require them to, to be in a relationship. You do nothing but say what you require and stand by it. My boyfriend said he was not going to date anyone because he liked his life as is. I said that he must’ve had some difficult relationships because in a good relationship, you don’r feel forced or uncomfortable. You actually like that person so much that you are happy to make room for them. I said that i do not do casual relationships. He knew that meant nothing physical. Not even kissing. It took some weeks of staying close friends, but he asked me out on dates. Several. We had a great time always. That lead to a first kiss. That lead to him saying “i love you.” That lead to being intimate. We spent the holidays together with our families. We have an outstanding relationship. If i had known how much time i was wasting trying be too understanding, trying to fix that a guy kept thinking of excuses. The secret is that a guy thats truly into you will do all the work. He will get himself together to give you the good relationship you want. We all think we’re dating the exception, the guy with a really complicated situation. Because it hurts less than saying it’s not going to work with him. A guy who wants you, will do what it takes to have you.
Probably not lol. Maybe in rare cases
Avoid avoidants that's the best advice, women don't chase
I’m glad I already have that X factor, but sometimes it takes time for a woman to learn how to be that type of woman and sometimes people just needs to be patient
My daughter; They'll see her, think she's pretty, then approach her. Often, they end up getting mad at her. I don't know why? So now she doesn't want to date because it's like they won't put in effort and expect a reaction right away. I tell her, if he can't be nice in the beginning, he won't be down the road. I feel their self-ego is overblown; like they don't think they have to do anything, and she'll magically smile and think they are whatever. If someone could just come up to her as a friend at first and look at her like a person, he'd win big points with her. She's tired of these guys who look like they're about to have a fit in front of her.
You describe this problem very well! They dont see women as a person or equal human being..part of it is historical, as it was lived by men in a patriarchal society, which needs to change of course! But another problem I see is the overconsumption (due to easy accessability) of pornography. Many are even addicted. All most porn is showing is, the woman as an object they can "use", that has to conform to them and their needs completely. This overuse of porn leads to men seeing real women as objects in everyday life! Not to speak of the very early confrontation with porn. Very sad. And nothing is being done.
Not only your daughter this entire generation zoomers or whatever they call us going through this. Hookup has become so normal they don’t even wanna pretend to be your friend and even if the guy isn’t sexually active he will think hookup is so common because of what social media portrays 😢
@@Kh-nr4ng This must feel really, really bad! So normal relationships are not possible anymore at all. Do you think it is mostly guys who want it that way and girls just playing along? 🤔 The Internet and social media /online dating is to blame. So sad.
Most men, especially the red pilled ones are looking for a long term prostitute hire/purchase.
Of she's they're physical type they want her and get upset when she has human feelings, partnership needs and life outside of servicing him
It's called been immature and not raised correctly. No discipline no good male role models. Extremely entitled and spoilt. Wait till the younger generation comes to full maturity. Absolute clown show... I'll be keeping my distance. Weak is an understatement.🤡
Sounds depressing if it’s come to this
😂 ikr. The woman has to be the perfect package a 10/10 to get any attention. Ridiculous 😂
This is EXTREMELY true. I have the X factor in general & especially for a particular type of guy (more artsy/creative). The player type guy who’s obsessed w/ me loves Alexa Demie & Jenna Ortega to give you an idea of my vibe/x factor type. He loves it because it’s kind of hard to find around here.
Elliot, i love you ❤I would give anything to work with you. I need it, I try so hard to follow your advice but my "bad" tendencies are so difficult to overcome. But unfortunately I’m a broke ass college student. I’ve got $11 in my bank account.
But does the x-factor count for an emotional unavailable guy?
What if I feel that way about a guy? What if he sees me as a margin of error and I see the x factor in him. I'm underselling myself here to this cocky guy but I can't get over him. He ghosted me and I am not over him.
He played the game better than you. Nothing wrong with that.
@@ElliotScottDating thank you for responding Eliot. Your videos have been eye opening. To save my honour i sent a closure text last month and he didn't respond. This means I can never text him again and he won the game. Sigh.
This is embarrassing to even say, Would it look desperate if I text him again in a few months?
@@Natalielovespurplee please do not text him. It does not matter how you feel about him. What matters is that he shows no interest in you when he is aware of your interest in him. Close the book. You’re only making it harder on yourself. He’s fine. He’s already looking at other options. It’s like loving a dead person. “But i love them. They’re so special. One day they might love me back.” Been there. Done that. He won’t. He will cheat on you, though, if you persist enough in trying. He’ll finally show some interest and say just what you hoped. All the while still looking around. Do not pursue a man who already rejected you. You’ll regret it later.
@@NatalielovespurpleeGirl don't.. You deserve better. Anytime you want to text him just remember you know you'll 99% suffer again at the end.. You know it's not going to worth it. So please don't knowingly hurt yourself.. You are strong, keep choosing mind over heart
@@Natalielovespurplee Please stay calm. God is protecting you from this player. Work in yourself FIRST, Keep your sanity & dignity. Ciao !
Yes. If you hot enough, no matter what you do - a man will chase after you. Because they know all men want you, they love the feeling like walking on eggshells in a relationship, that constant validation that hot woman gives them. Look at Anfisa and Jorge from 90 days fiance, she was crazy, and he was a complete simp.
What's the X factor?
The x factor is what trait you have that a particular man is longing for more than the other men you’ve dated . Maybe you have a quirky sense of humor. Maybe you’re very bold and assertive. Maybe it’s that you’re super affectionate with hugs and kisses. It’s whatever thing that man may not even realize he deeply wants and hasn’t found until you. It’s different for every man.
I feel like some women either have it or they don’t. Maybe I’m wrong.
Completely wrong lol. I understand how you may feel that tho. I worked with women and changed their lives with jjst some tweaks.
Hey Elliot! Why don't you just finally cut to the Chase and get to the actual main point that has to do with the title and caption of this podcast?! instead of jumping around from topic to different topic, and keeping us viewers guessing and left in ambiguity? You're an extremely intelligent relationship coach and teacher, but I can sense that you could be struggling to to verbalize the correct and direct answer because, I myself as a woman, know very well that the thing that makes a man fall in love with a woman, has very little to do with superficiality in terms of her looks, how beautiful or pretty she is, the clothing that she wears, the car that she drives, the career that she has those are all superficial qualities that only shallow men or players would look for in a woman that they want to play around with and not truly fall in love with. So instead of being specific about one man's type of personality when it comes to falling in love with a woman, why don't you reveal the answer directly in regards to how the majority of men, in general fall in love with women? Instead of giving an example of only one man's style and preference of how he falls in love with a woman. Teach and reveal about how men fall in love in general with a woman. And I have to tell you, like I said it has nothing to do with superficial qualities about a woman. Men mostly want a woman who will listen to him and be there for him when he needs emotional support and a shoulder to lean on someone whom he can confide in.
Thankyou; Elliot ; Your The Best 🤍 ✨🙌