You're NOT MISSING OUT on anything with your NARCISSISTIC ex. TRUST ME! Love Over Narcissism!
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
- You're NOT MISSING OUT on anything with your NARCISSISTIC ex. TRUST ME! Love Over Narcissism!
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You won if they discarded you or you left them! They dont even joke around or laugh 😒 🙄 HELL yes they get worse deadly
You’re only missing lies, drama, deceit and foolishness.
Big facts!
yup
Amen amen.
Yall THEY ARE NEVER HAPPY
Thanks for this man. I was just discarded out of nowhere and served with divorce papers.
I miss the person he pretended to be. Now I'm just sad. I'm still in the healing process. And I'm so sick and tired of it. It's been 16 months. 🤦♀️
We dont miss the person. We miss the lie. Keep searching for the truth in this world.
think about the red flags 5 months it took me and she means now way less then a used shoe
“You didn’t lose the love of your life…you have to heal…don’t rush the process”. Thank you for these words that I needed to hear so badly. Literally crying from relief and comfort. Thank you 🙏🏽
Aww, I'm glad I can help ☺️
This is so real. my ex made herself look like a victim. Then she started posting photos of her looking all dressed up like she's living the good life. but when we were together, she constantly put herself down lol. what bullshit lol
This sounds all too familiar I swear lol
been there sounds like my ex bs
You'll be missing a headache. Anxiety, constantly trying to fn figure them out, there enticement, there constantly need for validation, you will gain clarity, new experiences, peace, you will evolve they will not. They implode. They lose good down to earth spiritually enlightened people. It never ends good for them.. there crappy ugly people.
Theres alot of love out here people trust me
He's on my mind 24/7 and I don't want him to be. I also feel it in my chest that I miss him so much, I don't want to feel this way.
Bro that 1 dislike is becoming hilarious lol
You’re so right. “They’re doing the same thing nothing changed”. It’s a fantasy in our minds that they are good people.
You are speaking truth, at 57, reconnected with my grade school crush. She was great in the beginning, all smoke and mirrors. Temper tantrums, cheating behavior, if they’re not in your eyeline, don’t trust them. Move on. 🙌🏻🙏🏻 The pain you’re feeling, is the disappointment of not having your love received and cherished by them. This was tough for me too, even at my age it still hurts. You are loved and worthy of receiving love, this was a lesson for you to know what love really feels like, not lust. Trust in yourself, your creator, and know there is a better reward coming for you.
I just got out of a 2 year narcissistic abusive relationship... a week ago. I'm so messed up .. physical abuse mental and then just discarded me. I'm sick everyday I can't bring myself to stop crying and take back my life. I wanna be strong so badly but I feel so unloved and unworthy of healthy love..
Thank you so much for these videos. I don't know how I stumbled across them but thank you. They are saving me right now.
To put things into perspective, the narcissist projected all of their feelings of worthlessness onto you. you are NOT unloved. you just put your love into someone that is unlovable. it's not yours fault. Start to focus on your healing and take care of yourself. be kind to yourself. you're not alone
@@jcdezmen
I heard this on Saturday and I'll be honest. Today is the third day I listen to this. I feel relieved to know that there are men out there that have been to a similar experience. It's frustrating to know that you were a pawn in someone's life.
@ttrobertoproductions You live and learn. Apply the lessons life gives you and move forward in life. I've learned and will never make these mistakes again
@@jcdezmen keep up the great work brother
God knows too... if your a believer God does repay
I needed to hear this ,he treated me so bad and I truly loved him 😢thank you
I'm so sorry 😢
Looking great brother! Caught myself missing the nex, wondering if he missed me but listened to a voicemail he had left long long ago and that cleared that delusion right up ✅ 😂
Keep reminding yourself that you're better off without them. Trust me. You are!
I’m glad I saved my exes as well. Althou only a month hold her bitterness and anger helps remind me why I’m better the dumped me
I am the dummy that has literally wasted about a year of my life with her. After all the lies i forgave her. I found out she still lives with her husband she is supposedly "seperated" from. She lied to me for months telling me she lived at her mom's and on Easter i came to find out that was a damn lie, and im still here taking the shit. Its hard for me to cut her off because of my feelings for her. I know its something i must do because she is wasting my time and she broke my trust and i simply cannot trust her AT ALL.
damn I'm so sorry man.
you're not a dummy. you have her the benefit of the doubt cause you loved her. it's ok. but now you know what she is and you must do what you can to move forward and focus on yourself
The worst of it is when l reflect on the good times l see that was an illusion, part of the cognitive dissonance. The reality was l was very miserable. Always crying and being called names or smirked at and humiliated. That's what l am missing...👍😁
Bro, thank you 💊.
Facts brother and I broke up with a narcissist/toxic girl in January
congrats brother. you're free
@@jcdezmen amen and it was a long set of history
@@jcdezmen control,manipulation,tried to set me up/loyalty test, gets belligerent with her parents, joked about baby trapping and more. Dated this girl for 9 months
He deserved that discard i gave him.....!!!.....Devine gave me a revelation and I new he was up to no good ....he was mad he couldn't abuse me or lie to me
I needed to hear this! Thank you! I been healing over two years. This makes me keep going and stay in no contact and chosen not to date.
My ex narc talked about ex supplies to me every day of our relationship so I’m sure there doing the same to me to the monkey branch supply
Your sent from Heaven. 20 yrs down the drain. Never saw her mean ways. 🥰
Wow! I JUST wrote these questions to myself (what do I miss), an hour ago, in my journal and then this video was in my YT feed. The Lord works in mysterious ways.🙏💜
Brother JC. I appreciate this, keep getting the message out
Thank you I needed to her that so much. Peace from UK 🇬🇧
you're very welcome 🙏💓
for some reason i was laughing out loud when you reminded me what i know... thanks dude, awesome video
Thank You my man. You helped me stop crying. Hug buddy
No the need to be in prison!
Facts ♠️
I am struggling, I was in such an intense relationship for 2 weeks and I loved how attentive he was, he was there for me and protective over me. I've never had anyone be protective of me the way he was. 4 months on and I still miss him. I've never been so attracted to someone but I've watched many videos on Narcs, he seems to have many symptoms of a Narc. I miss him so much. Neither me or him have social media so it's been cold turkey. I ended it with him because he wanted someone 'pure' and I've had a relationship before. He was projecting as well and didn't like me saying hello to like the cleaner at my block of flats for example because he was a man.
2 weeks is enough time to form a trauma bond. Don't go searching for him. I'm glad you didn't endure any more toxicity. Just know that this guy is no good for you or anyone else. focus on your healing. focus on your passion in life and seek comfort in your friends. You got this. missing him is normal. but you'll get over it eventually
@@jcdezmen thank u, I know I will one day, I hate waking up and going to sleep with him on my mind and feeling his absense, thank u for this video
Trust me, you dodged a bullet ❤️
@@rabtrenkz2257 thank u ❤️
Thank you so much ❤
Im trying to get rid of her, but she has me trauma bonded.... After all the lies she has told me, i have lost interest in her and i dont feel the same way i used to feel about her anymore. She's just a damn liar and a mess that i don't need in my life.
Listen man. discard her and find something you are passionate about. and dive fully into that. start focusing on your happiness and healing. this woman will nene heal from her own bullshit. trust me she I tell you. she is not happy at all. but you can be of you put effort into getting yourself back.
I think people miss out on the GOOD TIMES. They just want it back for a while. Like enough is enough ya know. They miss the companionship, intamacy etc. This is just a guess btw.
I understand that 100% but what people need to realize is that it was ALL A LIE. It was never real. What was absolutely real was the abuse and the games these people play. That's kind of the point to the video. To remind people that all the "Good" times they miss is not real. So they're not missing out on anything now that their ex is gone. You feel me?
@@jcdezmen year definitely. I accept it was bs. They even said "THAT WAS THEN, THIS IS NOW...I DON'T CAREEEE ABOUT ALL THAT, I'M NOT THAT PERSON..."
whatever the hell that meant. As in I'm 40 and I changed, or I was just playing a character.
Those last 30 days felt like she took my wife and put her in a dungeon and she was desperate looking for me. Like she stuck her in a shoe box and put her away.
It's bizzar bc it LOOKS like them, SOUNDS like that, but...it's utterly someone else. Like dismissive and very cold. Then they bring me a plate of food etc. Then they go cold again then move everything out 7 months now.
It's like...they put doom on you, then lift it with some hope, then rip it away, then give a little more, then utterly destroy it and dissappear. Idk what else to make of it.
Yup.
I always look forward to your videos. You helped me tremendously this past year. I’m forever grateful. Words can’t express my thankfulness to you JC !
Thanks for all you do !!
That's very kind of you ☺
The projection is immense!
How does RUclips know my thoughts?!!? Regardless, glad this video found me when it did.
Thankyou man this made me feel better
Hes for my fans
My ex cheated , tried scamming me, gaslighted etc... the whole shabamm. Now she got a kid of the new guy.. And she texting me again .. wanting to talk.. Thanks for this vid, its true ney never change.. They are the best manipulators..
they've been doing it their whole lives. manipulation is all they know
@jcdezmen it's a tripp 😢
I just love a fake personality all this time sad but true😢
Thank you for sharing your insights and wisdom with the world. Some of us really needed to hear/watch your video to open our eyes to narcissists and narcissistic abuse.
God bless you.
Oh man my ex broke up with me because she couldn’t control me and later found out she is a narcissist. 3weeks later she found a new supppy and was trying to control me still even after the break up… she still lies and wants me to be friends and co parents with her.. she doesn’t want to leave me alone.. call me late at night in the beginning still wants me to do stuff for her…
block her on all platforms and all forms of communication
@@jcdezmen she still wants me to go to her house and thinks that I’ll get jealous on what I see and I don’t even mention it.. she try’s using my kid against me to get in contact with me.. even though I told her no on friends she got all mad… like she told be she doesn’t want a relationship with no more that I push her to far but yet she wants to be friends it doesn’t make sense
she wants control over you. that's the only sense to make of it. she's a broken soul, brother
I miss the man I had at the start of the relationship...but he changed after he moved in...I'm sad he threw me away...Antonio I 🩷d you and I hope you find true happiness
he won't find happiness. I guarantee this
@jcdezmen I know you shouldn't depend on no one for happiness except yourself & your favorite downtime hobbies but I was happy when we had our good days...which was rarely...maybe once or twice a week if I was lucky...
Needed this brother
Thanku for this video I’m still healing but I’m sooo much better off I’ve realized that I allowed someone so broken and damaged to really hurt me, I raise our child alone and that right there made me understand that if you can’t be a good man or father to her…it’s pointless!!! when you love yourself and have some type of religious belief you feel condemned when mistreating others that was genuine and sincere and there for you 🙏🏽 stay strong and focused if it was meant to be it wouldn’t have fallen apart! They mean you no well
Wow thanks for the advice bro my ex narc is doing the samething and try to reach out to me
From different numbers after I went no contact
Thank you for this video ❤
you're very welcome ☺
Thanks for the reminder 🙏🏽💯
This was beautiful
I needed to hear this. Thank you. 🙏🏽❤️
I'm happy I can help 🙂
@@jcdezmen 🙏🏽❤️☺️
Thanks
Thank you!!
Just found yr video.
Really needed to hear this
Right now i'm in this situation, and you helped me a lot thank you for everything. Hope you do more videos like so so I can heal faster🙏🏾❤️
brother I have over 200 videos that talk about narcissistic abuse. feel free to check them out. I'm glad they can help man. Keep your head up. this shall pass. I promise you
@@jcdezmen I am destroyed by the fact that I've sacrificed my life for that one girl back in 2018 to be with her. She gave me 2 beautiful years even when I saw the red flags but I wasn't sure of myself I was scared to make regrets, and 3 years after I've got abuse, manipulate, treated poorly etc to the point I was scared answering her phone calls or text. Then I got blamed for her bad toxic behavior and showing herself on social media about
"herself self worth and growing with God"
That really got me fuck up🤦🏾♂️
Even tho I'm the one who break up it requires some balls the leave the relationship because she made it toxic asf.... But despite that I really loved her but she really got me fuck up🤦🏾♂️
Thank you for this, I really needed to hear this!
Thank you
Ty.
I love you JC❤ Ur videos really helped me out dealing wid the narcissist I dated
aww thank you. I'm glad the videos help ❤
Thank you i needed this
This video gave me LIFE. thank you 🥺💕
I'm happy it helps. You DO have life. they don't. always remember that. no matter what, they can never be happy. you can ❤
@@jcdezmen omg this touched my soul. Thank you so much 🙏 you’re a blessing to so many of us
@@emiiheaven That is very sweet of you. Thank you
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✴YOU LOOK ✳ LIKE VOCAB MALONE ✴ GOOD VIDEO ✳
Sounds like a handsome fella lol
Thank you man... I needed this
Thank you
Needed to hear this today, thank you ❤