Hello beautiful friends! We love sharing our lives with you and strive to keep things positive but some days things pile up and it's a struggle. I know it's not the brightest vlog but we think it's one of our most important ones yet. Please go easy on us, we're all only human after all XX
Thank you Lisa. We love this community and believe that everyone has the right to share their opinion (we think it's what makes RUclips special). Just asking people to understand that we're just two humans sitting behind the other screen and that this video makes us very vulnerable. Cannot thank you enough for being you, for being a part of our family and for sending your love + light. I send it all right back to you XX
You guys are awesome! I appreciate the real talk, sometimes we need to acknowledge and feel what we feel to get to the other side of it. It takes a lot of courage to do that publicly so thank you!! I can’t wait for the podcast to come out. Much love!! ❤️
From a follower who has 73 years of life, entrepreneurship, experience let me encourage you guys with the fact that "normal" people/the average aren't the ones that have advanced society or culture. It takes lonely adventurers to make the changes that make the world a better place. You two are some of the most genuine, honest people. I absolutely love your authenticity. There is "something" about you guys that draws me to look forward to viewing everything you post! Btw...you may be interested in reading a book called "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Smalley if you haven't heard of it.
I’m sure they’re very familiar with the Love Languages book- bed called them “words of affirmation” ffs! If they weren’t familiar w Love Languges, she almost certainly would’ve called them compliments 🙂
@@Puglover130 except for the fact that "words of affirmation" is a well worn common colloquialism in the English language well outside of that book, which personally the title does not ring a bell. I will though look it up.
Loved the realness of this guys. After only a few months, we already feel you on so may things you touched on (especially when you put everything in to a video and it tanks..). You guys have been killing it for so long, just keep being you, we all love you for it. Wish we could give you a hug Bec! And Eamon, we miss your tofu scramble. Come back to us! xoxo
Hi beautiful people! Thanks for always taking the time to send us kindness and love. We love you both (and Occy of course) for it. You are absolutely crushing this new platform so please do not EVER doubt yourselves. Tofu scrambles on us anytiiiiime XX
One of yalls best videos. No other channel that I have seen has been this honest and real. That's what makes people relate and differentiates you from the world. Yeah, the strive for perfection is one thing we all face especially in 2020 but at the end of the day we are all dealing with our own things and seeing the not so shiny side of life really grounds yall and makes you relatable. One of my fav things about your videos is that you do include bloopers, mistakes, and now vulnerabilities. Just remember that "EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY." It's the best quote I've ever heard and stands true to EVERYTHING. All these emotions of doubt or insecurity will eventually fade and you will be back on the more positive side. Remember you dont get good without bad. Dont get happy without sad. It's all temporary and will all pass, so be aware of it, feel it, and know it will soon pass. It's all a part of being human! You are getting more and more supporters, costumers, and viewers every single day! Much love! Peace!🥰🥰🥰❤
Sometimes you just have to decide if what you’re doing will fulfill your needs for security and happiness. You two aren’t even 30 yet you’ve traveled and done more already than many will see in their lives. Do you realize how big that is? That can never be taken away! Most people will tell you that when you’re older your regrets will be more what you didn’t do than what you did. Big hug for you both and good luck with whatever you two decide. Thanks for keeping it real.❤️✌️🏻🚐
So happy you shared this and got vulnerable because it’s an important message to spread. Being an entrepreneur and creator isn’t always as glamorous as it seems, but you guys truly are making a difference with what you do. So keep on keeping on and everything will work out. I truly believe that those who create and provide value for the world succeed.
*oh man* , I've definitely been there Bec & Eamon. Literally 4 weeks before our wedding, I lost one of my biggest video clients. I had been solo fulltime for about 5 months, and this client was the pillar to make the transition to Marriage a lot more "safe." It felt very personal and was hard for me to get over mentally. I thought about it daily for about 3-4 months. It only got easier when there was more time in between. The roller coaster of living an unconventional life is certainly very real. I do beleive the process of seeing the journey all the way through, brings about a life that has far more "mountain top moments" than any other way of doing it. It feels like there is a lot more risk in this path, but what seems riskier is the golden hancuffs of a job that doesn't challenge you, doesn't provide a path towards freedom, has no online community, and doesn't have greater rewards for smart effort and strategy over a long period of time. It is lonely in it's own unique ways though, Janelle and I have not found answers to that yet. Look forward to seeing you two soon!!
Levi, dear friend, how can we feel so close to someone we have yet to meet in person?! Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with us. We identify with it in so many ways and by you sharing I feel like you've helped in our journey. Losing a big client shouldn't be easy but what we can do is learn from it and grow through it. SO SO SO excited to chat and meet and share this weekend XXX
Thank you for being real with us. Please realize you have already made a beautiful impact on this world. All that matters in the end is the meaningful relationships you’ve made and how you’ve treated the people you’ve come across in this life. You both inspire me so so much everyday. My fiancé and I religiously watch your videos and hope one day we can covert to van life it’s a dream of ours. Life is always filled with ups and downs regardless of having a stable job or living a more non traditional lifestyle. Keep being yourselves and doing what you’re doing you guys are beyond amazing!!!!!❤️❤️
Bec! Don’t ever feel mad for needing love from us. This a community that your guys have created and there’s lots of love to give. I think it’s super refreshing that you guys are openly sharing the lows of your life because many people don’t. Whatever you guys choose to do we all will support and continue to follow along through the journey! For me you guys are such a positive and fun people to watch. I love your videos, they make me laugh and I love your story. I love you guys!
In todays world. Nothing is normal. Eamon & Bec...You two are real and beautiful. You two are forging your own path and with all that is going on you still inspire others, more than you know. You inspire me. So thank you so very much for another REAL & BEAUTIFUL video. ChaiWallaChai, RUclipsrs, Podcasters and VeganVanwrap makers.
Brave,Beautiful, Bodacious. Our family and friends all watch your videos. And yes we r a bunch of 45ish friends that adore your videos over wine and legal weed.🤩😍🤙🍲🍄🍷
Here in 2022 and when Bec said “I want to have an impact on this world” I smiled. You guys have had a huge impact, and so many people love and adore y’all. I’m so glad as a fan now that y’all didn’t give up when you felt so low and so heavy about it all. I’m so Proud of y’all for fighting through this funk and for keeping going.
I feel we are so privileged that you allow us into your lives, not just the pretty side (like so many other RUclipsr's) but the very real sides as well. The downs that come inbetween the ups, the struggles and the triumphs, your feelings, your vulnerabilities, your joys, your "fights" (really just disagreements), your self judgment, your love for each other and your families etc etc. You are, together and separately, an inspiration to so many. Even though we've never met we LOVE you and we respect you for all that you are doing and all that you are achieving. I've been wondering since watching this if you've ever thought of expanding your product line? Bec, remember Everything Happens For A Reason!! I taught my four ( now adult) kids and many's the time that belief has gotten them through a very difficult challenge because they know they are going to grow and learn. Some risk taking is good because it helps you to push your boundaries and grow. Remember that to be brave you must experience fear.... Anyway, enough of that, lol. In the end you are loved. The community YOU have built loves you and supports you! Sending you both blessings 🙏 Love from Australia 🇦🇺 💝
Love your beautiful honesty and transparency. Just a reminder that stability is an illusion. Houses burn down. Businesses fail. Families experience catastrophes whether they live in a van and have a nomadic life or a house with a job and a boss. Your stability is your ability to be resilient and shift your focus back to your passion and what your intuition tells you to do next. Sounds like you are both a bit overwhelmed. Love to you both. You ARE making an incredible impact, but impact is in the eye of the beholder. All you can do is create the space of possibility and live your most joyful, transparent, love-filled, passion-filled life. It's all beautiful...even the tears.
I am new to your channel but let me just say what attracted me to watch your videos is your wanderlust and beautiful spirits. I’ve been working my way through your videos and this one so far is my favorite. I appreciate so much listening to you guys keeping things so realistic. Despite life’s challenges, especially these non traditional ones, you guys are and always will get through what life’s throws your way. This video was more encouraging than anything and truly made me feel closer to you guys, this community, and the offbeat track of life. Thank you guys. Lots of love and peace 💖✌🏽😊
Super encouraging video guys - we miss you already and it is so nice to see you guys being yourselves and being vulnerable online. You're the hardest working people we know and are always inspiring us. Have a blast at your spa date!!
You guys are great. I think a lot of us want so many things that we really can't have all at the same time. I do love watching your videos, and I hope you continue to share, even if it has to be less. I find your lifestyle and the way you are going after untraditional things really inspiring. We can all relate. Everybody has bummer times where you question everything you've done and whether you'll ever have the things you have yet to accomplish but are very important to you. There are seasons of life, you know. You'll figure it out as you go. Every decision we make makes a difference. ♡
I just want to reach out and hug you !!! Thank you both for sharing your vulnerability and being so honest. We love you through good and bad, ups and downs. Keep on keeping on. I can’t imagine a week without you. ❤️ Sending lots and lots of love and positive vibes. xox
You are such and inspiration to so many! Everything we do in life makes us question “is this what I’m supposed to be doing’ life is difficult no matter the obstacles. Bec, I personally have had to question recently everything in my life. We all go through it, you’re both amazing people. Keep your head up, what path you decide is yours alone. We will all be here to support you in anyway. ❤️
You are so right! I love to support others in all walks of life and sometimes that can lead to comparison as well. I do trust the process and know that we're on the right path just thought it was important to share some of those darker thoughts I spiral into in the hopes that it relates to someone in our community. Big hugs to you Kristians XX
Agreed. I own a very successful business with 25 employees but it took me 20 years to get here. Real success doesn’t happen quickly, the internet would tell you otherwise.
Thank you both for sharing the difficulty and fear and questions that there are in not going the traditional path, it's always helpful to me to hear other humans navigate the same things that I go through 'cause as you said Eamon, it's a lonely life. I believe it is lonely not because we don't have coworkers or a boss but because we are not going the traditional path and we have to make our paths ourselves. Thank you for being real, it helps a lot.
You guys are too hungry to not succeed. It’s friggen defeating being an entrepreneur sometimes but as long as you remain hungry and you have a clear defined solid WHY, you will be successful. You guys ARE successful. You receive what you put out there and your honesty is special.
Thank you Ellie! We appreciate you taking the time to share your kind words and thoughts with us. Thank you for being a part of this beautiful, uplifting community!!
Bec...Life is risk... Not such thing as a stable job any more life changes so quickly. you have your home and each other remember there are two of you so you always have each others back
have each others back but study how parallelism works and how to combat it - insist be authentic they´re games only work for so long and only work in the shadows. They hate being caught - image is everything to them ...
Got a government job. Safe and stable, health insurance, pension and retirement. I won't be a millionaire, but I'll be comfortable and fulfilled knowing I've been of service to the people. However, the trade off is your stuck in a single location and have a boss that tells you what to do at times and deadlines. So my point is everything is a trade off, everything needs a balance. Find your balance. I love my job and it hardly feels like work. Stay hungry, stay balanced.
Y’all have yalls own LIVES!! You are going to be ready to start a new thing when your ready! Y’all are inspiring to do what you do starting a new life in a van and having a successful channel don’t cry or down on yourself your both amazing people! I wish I could honestly do this keep inspiring keep making people take these steps into doing themselves I’m literally living through y’all! You are Both amazing people and wish the best happiness!
There's nothing wrong with living in a home and occasionally travel. Or living in a van. RUclips will always be here. Do what's best. Do that podcast and kick butts!!!
You guys inspire more people than you will ever now. You are living the dream. You've made it this far and I'm sure you'll go even farther. I've learned so much from your videos and loved every minute. Life is about perspective. There are so many people suffering in this world and whenever you feel down (we all do sometimes) it's important to count your blessings. You've brought joy into so many people's lives and for that, you are already millionaires of the heart. Thank you for bringing us along!
I loved the vulnerability in this video... Would love a dedicated one about the hardships we might not know about your business, van life, marriage, etc! xx
Thank you Crystal. It's not easy to share about these hardships but I am understanding the importance of it through the beautiful community and comments on this video. I will make a point to share more with of course a nice mix of fun and adventure XX
We all have these feelings. I'm 34 and my husband and I moved across the country from Tennessee to the Bay area and literally everything went wrong every step of the way. We stayed in the Bay for 6 months with people that we trusted and they completely turned on us and everything went to shit. We had to skip town and now we are in Tucson trying to make the best of it. We've been here since March and my husband still can't find a job, I'm not making good money, everything is stressful and hard and we have no savings, renting a room from some friends, and feel completely screwed. But it will get better. You guys have done so much with your life and you are strong, smart people. We will all keep moving forward and have amazing experiences and do wonderful things. Just gotta keep that chin up and hold on to the ones we love. I, too, am very emotional and when I do anything I put my whole heart in it. If I say I'll do something I do it. I'm not a quitter and I'm super loyal, so I get your feels Bec. You will be okay, you will do the thing, it will get better.
The problem with being creative/entrepreneurial types is "to many ideas" . The inevitable outcome of this short attention span is the inability to see a good idea through to its potential. Tea: You have worked hard to get customers for your product. You know these customers buy more than Chai. You could expand your line but a new idea charms away your attention. Your creative nature makes it impossible to follow through. I'm guessing; Bob, as willing as he is to help is not going to take that business where it should go. He's done his thing. He wants to cruise around in his van and he should. The only way to pursue multiple endeavors is with partners. Get someone to work closely with you to push that tea business. Everyone of these avenues you're attempting deserves more attention than you can possibly give. You will always have more ideas than you can execute. Find people who "can" focus, share ownership and see it through. You didn't really ask for my advice, but that's what you get for baring your soul. Ideas are great but they make it hard to meditate.
Hi Robert, appreciate the advice! I actually think it is something we've needed to hear because as much as we want to give all of these avenues 110% we're only two people and the time has come to find some strategic partners. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us!
You two are precious and such an inspiration to me. I can get pretty nihilistic at times, but the life you both share so openly with the world gives me a reason to believe that there is still beauty, hope, and pure joy. Sending you all the love and appreciation for what you’re doing. 💛🙏
Thank you for being honest, the 'van life' is often pictured as such a relaxing care free and easy lifestyle, and it is easy to miss some of the realities, especially from an outsiders perspective. It is good for me as someone potentially looking to do this in the future to see all sides and not just the 'best bits'. Thanks guys and best of luck!
I love that you share so much of your lives with us, the good and the sad. You are so authentic and making such a beautiful impact on the world and you never need to apologize for crying. Sending you much love!
hey Bec, do yourself a quick solid, go outside, take a deep breath and look around, and remember, all that scary stuff and all that hard work has led you to right here and right now, and tommorow and any day after it will lead you to so many more awesome places and awesome people (same way it led you to the Minimal Millenials for instance), meanwhile I am stuck here in my little flat in the dreary Netherlands yet I still think one day I will get out of here because thanks to people like you I know it's possible, will there be struggles along the way? sure! but if you ask me they are more then worth it! and from what I have seen so far from your videos I think you are a lot stronger then you give yourself credit for
Everyone has an “off-day” or “low, inward-day”, it’s normal. It’s great that you show it. REAL is better than “reality”. Enjoy your options and strive to do things well. While there is a right way and a wrong way to live... only God can tell you what that is..... try this.... pray (if you don’t already) about your situation and what direction your going. You might be surprised at the results. Thank you for your hard work creating content and willingness to share your beautiful lives. Soak up the summer. Taste the sunshine. Remember that in a couple of months it’s going to be soooo cold. And whatever you do... remember to pray. May God Bless You.
Hi Jill! Bec here. Appreciate you saying that! It's tough to find the right balance between sharing too much/not enough and never want this beautiful community to feel like we're complaining about our beautiful, beautiful lives. Sending you a virtual hug XX
Thanks for sharing so honestly. The entrepreneur community needs more of this. Totally relate in terms of the highs and lows. Been running my own small business for the last few years and I can't tell you how many times I've doubted my abilities, sunken so low only to be uplifted the very next week. Nobody truly gets it unless you've been in it. Trust yourself and know that you are savvy, smart and driven. And that you have each other and get to have a great adventure! Look forward to the podcast.
Twice in my life, I have had to take big steps backwards, to go forward. It's not easy when a setback happens, but you find ways to dig deep, crawl through the mud, and come out stronger, bigger and better. You WILL get through this patch, and you will find something great!! Keep digging you two, you have that drive, that passion. Eamon, no less than 20 compliments a day my friend 👍👍 she will love you forever ❤❤ keep the wheels rolling, we've all got your back. Oh, and don't feel that a 9 to 5 job means vanlifers is over. There are many who work and live the life as well. I'm sure you can find a few of them in Vancouver
I have been telling my family this is the year of positive energy!! No matter how hard it can get!!! We all are going to do wonderful things this year!! I so understand how you feel!! I have been feeling that way as well!! Stay positive and keep pushing forward!!!
I appreciate you two for sharing your personal parts of your life/situation. Reasons why I appreciate it is because not everyone RUclipsr shares these parts of their life's and always want to be perfect. I'll support and always will stick around when you guys get bumbs on the road and even wrong Lanes and turns. Now I'll always look back when you guys shared this genuine moment. Love you two even more! I followed for the Van Life and now I follow for those behind the wheel! Like your amazing Travels, The road and journey must drive on and venture out to! ❤❤❤❤
I teach young adults in college and have referred to you in my talks with them as I exhort them to higher places. We that strive to lift others up never know how we affect others. Unless I told you about this you would have never known of the impact you may have breathed into someone's life. I don't say this so that you might keep score but to exhort you to keep on keeping on. You guys are great and I look forward to seeing you reach higher, just remember to breath and savour every moment. All the very best to you both!
Aw, Bec, it'll be okay. 😊💕 It's easy to get caught up in what others are doing and what you 'should' be doing. Do you guys actually even want those 'shoulds' or are you just feeling pressure from family/friends/society to conform to the 'Life Script? That could be what's causing you distress. Either way, you two always go after what you want so I know it'll all work out in the end. Also, about the loss of that big account. It was either money or convenience that swayed them - definitely don't take it personally. I've had to 'let go' a few big accounts in my career for this reason and I hate doing it - it's the worst. :( New opportunities are just around the corner. xx
Chin up guys, you two are absolute goals and everything you do is perfect. You’ve inspired me no end to try van life and helped me through my recent break up more than you’ll ever know. Whatever you choose to do, it will work out in the end because you’re awesome and you’ve got all 86,000 ish of us behind you and love you. Good luck guys and I can’t wait to see what you come up with next
Thanks for keeping it real. We all struggle in different ways. The ups and downs are necessary, otherwise we wouldn't grow. Keep on keeping on. Love you guys.✌️
I too had a business, it is always stressful but most times it is very rewarding to sit back and look at what you have created. Life in general is full of ups and downs. Bec, it shows us you are caring and passionate about what you do, don’t ever be ashamed of that! It will always work out in the end, it may not seem like it today but it will. Eamon, you rock as always and it’s refreshing to see someone that supports your partner the way you do. I have been a huge fan since I watched your first video. You guys ARE destined to do good things, lots of love and hang in there
Mental health days are muy importante!!! Glad you guys are getting treated to a spa. You definitely deserve it....especially all that HOT WATER!!! Am I right??? P.S. You are both champions of life. Remember that.
I love you two! You don't know me of course but your raw passion that you show in all aspects of your life and the way the two of you wear your hearts on your sleeve is what sets you apart and makes you shine. I have followed you for a while and watching your struggles but more importantly your SUCCESS not only in business but in the success of cultivating positive thoughts and a wonderful community inspires me every day. Thank you so much for being you.
Life is so hard sometimes! You guys are amazing and such an inspiration. Admitting the tough times and being real is not often shown on RUclips, and so many people can learn from that. Thanks for your honesty! Keep moving forward.
Thank you guys so much for being real! I really appreciate you touching in the struggles of entrepreneurship. It’s not something that people talk about much, but as a fellow creator and “solopreneur”, I empathize with how difficult it is to feel alone on the journey. Even when you have an abundant community of fam and friends, not everyone gets the struggles of entrepreneurship (like where you need to put your time, how work is a lot of hours, what to tell people your “real” job is, or how people tell you that you should go get a “real” job when you have low moments like these, figuring out how to keep yourself moving forward, etc.). Being happy and fulfilled and positive, truly, comes from being authentic in recognizing and sharing the sad, hard moments alongside the exciting, easy ones. As entrepreneurs/creators, we recognize that we have chosen this path. And we don't necessarily complain about hardships, but we just give them a nod and share them with other people who might understand. Then we move onto the things we are grateful for and reconnect with our original motivation of creating our own business in the first place. (Like you guys so beautifully did in the video.) Thanks for the awesome content, you guys are beautiful souls, so please keep rocking it! I really appreciate all of the inspiration 💕
Guys..I'm no expert but losing an account that is going single stream really speaks more to the change in your client...good or bad...but having said that with a product such as yours, keeping to the client that is the true target of the non single source client isn't always a bad thing. I understand the loss, but perhaps the loss is theirs more than yours, let the gain be in finding another client that has a more refined focus in mind that better matches your product. Sometimes small needs to stay with small...that in many ways it what certain customers like myself really look for...while I am a patron of the mainstream, other times I want small, refined, and special focused businesses like yours. As a photographer, I have been through things like you as well. Hang in there.
It takes courage to be honest and vulnerable on social media, you guys are awesome. Just wanted to add that stability comes from loving parents/parent, a loving environment, family, and everything else is an illusion. I watch Bus Life NZ, a family living on the road who's children are having the time of their lives, learning from all the experiences, nature and their parents. You can do it in an non-traditional manner and raise amazing human -beings and still be honest to yourselves and your creative lives.
You guys are awesome and an inspiration to thousands, including me. This uncertainty and spiraling is totally normal! One of my most recent videos is about the spiral and what steps to take to snap out of it, it seems to be extremely relevant right now - a lot of the folks in my life and online seem to be having similar struggles. You've got this! You've got support and you've got love and you've got grit. Don't stop making videos :)
There is no such thing as a stable job! That's part of what let us to the life we live now. Husband worked the 9-5 and got let go at a really bad time. It killed the both of us at the time and we thought it was the worst thing ever at the time not realizing it had to happen in order for us to be where we are today. Keep your heads up and do what you all do best. Oh, and a nomadic lifestyle is possible with a family and in my opinion an amazing one. We travel full-time with our 2 kids and they love it and learn more than they ever would in a "normal" life. : )
You are so brave allowing yourselves to be vulnerable, putting your lives out there for the world to see and building a business from the the bottom up! You are inspiring to many (myself included) so please remind yourselves of that when feeling down. Ups and downs take place in every lifestyle, so you should expect them. Love and happiness your way! 💓💛💗
Bec, thank you for sharing your struggle to make sense of the risks and rewards of your project and your business. I’m so impressed by you initiative and grit. Eamon, you’re a wonderful partner and very funny. Hang in there, guys.
Thank you love! If I'm not being real with you, then I just don't see a point to all of this so I am overwhelmed by the support and connection that has come as a result of this very raw video. See you in the next one lovely XX
You gotta let that emotion out! Speaking for myself (but I feel many others as well)- I appreciate the candid conversation. I actually try and limit social media use because of the phenomenon of comparing myself to everyone's else's best selves which makes me feel not good enough. I think this is highly relatable. I am currently building out a van. I have a bachelor's degree and I wonder everyday if I'm wasting time I can't get back on not pursuing a master's and phd and getting a "stable" job. But I've also learned that I can't be happy in conventional job settings - I feel like I'm in a prison and claustrophobic, always have. But I still stress every day because if I don't go the academic route, I have no idea what to do. So the existential crisis I totally am right there with you. A lot of things in my life have changed drastically the past few years and I see friends getting married, having children, buying houses... and I wonder when I'm going to get it together, but we each have our own paths and I think what you guys are doing is extremely brave and inspirational. So thank you for sharing and being REAL - the world needs both sides of the truth (in general), not just the shiny, polished side. It's good for our mental health.
Thank you for being real and sharing your doubts and worries. It's refreshing to see the other side as well and not just a "dream life" scenario all the time. Keep your heads up and it will get better! You have THE BEST personalities and I believe that you can make it. :D
Thank you for always being vulnerable and honest on your platforms. It makes watching you and following along truly feel like a privilege. Listen to your intuition and I believe you'll continue to find your path! Much love ❤️
Welcome to being a small business owner! It sucks sometimes but look at the positives. We all get the slumps and highs. Take stock in your position, you get to travel as your “job”, you’re in a small group of people who’ve made a career out of doing what you love. Learn from the bumps, don’t take it personal (it is business) and keep rolling. Remain positive for your partner because attitude is contagious. Even if it’s forced it can keep you and your partner from spiraling. 👍🏽🚐💨
It's interesting to watch this video just because I have the same thoughts even though my life might be a bit more traditional. I am going to school full time and only have a associates degree which took me five years even though its a 2 year degree and I'm finally getting my undergrad. Anyway I look around and see people being more "successful" then me. I watched your videos and thinking the same thing, thinking you have it all together and here I am doing nothing.I keep thinking about what I do wrong too. I think this is something that everyone struggles with for the most part. I think that's why it's so important being open about it. I hope you have better luck and I also hope that your channel grows more because you two deserve it. I cannot wait for your podcast. I just know that you two will rise above this and do something amazing.
Thank you Renee. Please know that you are beautiful and hardworking and that you truly are DOING YOUR BEST! Everyone is going to grow at their own pace and that's okay. Happy that by sharing I was able to show you those with the greener grass on the other side have it all together. Sending you lots of LOVE and light XX
Bec, you inspire me so much! I’m very risk adverse and often miss out on wonderful opportunities because I dwell too much on everything at once. Everyone has down moments where it feels like everything is spiraling or too much, you have too many people that care for you guys to let you fall on your faces! I absolutely love your videos and I’m inspired by the both of you individually and together ❤️
Honest and raw conversations belong on youtube, thank you for sharing whats going on. RUclips is a lot of fluff now a days but I am encouraged by your honesty. It's helping me realize we all share the same struggles. RUclips has a way of filtering out the "real" Your content is beautiful, just keep going.
Thank you Samantha. I totally agree that RUclips seems to push over-edited videos that can make ANY consumer question everything! We ALL have struggles and while it was super nerve-racking to share all of this online I am over the moon that my struggles have helped a few of us connect deeper. Sending you lots of love XX Bec.
I work the grind and also am a Run Coach. Everything and everyone has their ups and downs. So don’t feel lonely. My days start at 4:50am and usually end around 8:30pm. Because I get up and meet clients to run early in the morning, go to the YMCA to shower and get ready for work, work 9-10 hours, then leave work to go back to the YMCA to change and meet more clients to Coach. It’s ok to always question decisions but at the end of the day, you take the good with the bad and life moves on. Do what you enjoy and keep up the good work! Love following your journey!
I think your idea for your reroot podcast is a great idea. I lived in Ontario my whole life and decided to sell my house and everything in it, bought a van and drove out to BC, a dream I had since I was 12. My life has definitely changed, the way I see things, about who I am and how much my family means to me. I am so excited to hear your podcast to relate with others who have chosen a reroot too.
I really appreciate it when you guys show the ups and downs as they come, it keeps things real. You're both amazing people and i hope for nothing but good to come to your lives and your business! Love your videos 😊
I really appreciate what you both do. Believe it when I say that what you do makes a difference with others. Sharing your life and things you do is really inspiring. I know things can get hard especially being in a van but you two are a strong young couple and you have each other as well as family and friends. Don't worry too much on the bed because I know that together you two will do well. If there's a way that I can help let me know.
Thank you so much Rex. I always love reading your comments and feel like we know each other just from our quick communication back and forth here. We both appreciate you and send you lots of love XX
Can’t believe I didn’t catch this vlog until now. Thank you for being so real. My family and I want to take our lives on the road within the next couple years. It’s scary difficult. But we need to see videos like this. We need the reality of it. So thank you! And I’m sure you know, through failure is growth as I’m sure you’ve already grown from this experience since it’s been a month from its release. You are both amazing. And I certainly look forward to finding your podcast.
Hey folks, I worked for myself for years. I have been broke and rich. Not knowing how to make a mortgage payment to flying private. Toughen up, it will happen again. You are young and suffering is important. You will do great things but it will be hard so push and when it looks the worst push harder. Borrow, ask for help, tell friends, do what needs to be done. Most people cannot live on thier own, y'all can so dry up - it is not supposed to be easy. Y'all will get there and when you do, it will feel good.
Entrepreneurship is extremely challenging at times. But the key thing I try to remember is change is inevitable. Time to go catch a bigger whale. Life is all about how you react. I know yall will be fine, you guys are the bomb. I CANNOT WAIT to add this to my list of podcasts.
You guys are my fave. No matter what you do, you're going to be successful because you have the drive and passion. Having the right attitude is game changing and we all experience set backs from time to time. Don't let it get you down; you got this!
You guys are so inspirational! Don’t stop what you’re doing, my only advice take it or leave it is to talk to other creators when you have days like this. You’re lucky you have Lauren Toyota for a friend, I know she would provide great insight 😃 Love you both and I’m looking forward to hearing the podcast ❤️
Shit happens. Feelings are weird and don't always make sense. But thank you for keeping it real and putting the unfiltered truth out there! I think one of the problems we have with our feelings these days is that so many people only put out the beautiful parts, and we experience our normal lives and look at the beautiful stuff of others' lives and think we're doing something wrong. So, honestly, these kinds of videos talking about real, confusing, emotional things are SO HELPFUL
Love you guys lots, and your vulnerability reads as absolute strength here. Can’t wait to keep following along and see all the great things y’all are going to continue to do.
Wow. I can totally relate. My husband and I started a business last year while working full-time and are still in the process of the highs and lows of a business. We also feel like we are letting go of friendships because our mindset is changing as we transition out of the 9-5 and living a very different life. It feels almost like we are alone together on how we think and what we want to do. Love this video. Thanks for being vulnerable!
Bec you are making a huge impact in this world..... Super tons of live to y'all ... Take a step back and breath deep girl, your freaking killin it 💗😘 you will do great things
I can 100% relate to this video; from the hanger and chips before groceries, to the talk about being risk-adverse and just feeling down by the grind and the struggle but also being more scared of the traditional path to "success".
I love you guys! Never feel ashamed of showing any real ness. Everyone’s life has tough decisions and hard days. You guys are amazing for putting your life on display. I can relate about always thinking about where I want to be in life, making Improvements to live the best life but also making moves for the future. I’m 30 how old are you guys if you don’t mind me asking? Just hang in there and keep being you and making the best decisions. We all know you guys are amazing people who always give us your best!!! Thank you!! ❤️
i’m no one special and have not accomplished or experienced half as much as you guys.. but I really connect with what you are saying. I think it’s extremely difficult to be going through life in a completely different way than everyone you may know. i’m not certain, but i feel like you guys are creating a path no one in your immediate circles have been down before. sometimes down that road you get hit with a few storms and blizzards but if I know one thing to be true, is that people like you guys are put in these situations to persevere and continue to bring great things into this world. rolling with the punches can be hard when it feels like you have to always be great for us ‘subscribers & viewers.’ you guys are real people, with real emotions and true ups & downs. I lost my point here.. but I guess I just want to give my support for you guys and say tell you not to be so hard on yourselves. we are always our own toughest critics. I truly appreciate and love the things you guys create. maybe it’s not said enough but you guys are inspiring, please don’t forget it! the little things always fall into place. i’m interested in the podcast, i’ll definitely be on the lookout for it! Cheers Friends!
I adore you kids and wish you the best with your adventure in life. You both have a great connections with you viewing audience, your authenticity and simple truth comes across in your VLOG. Best of luck! You guys are inspiring! Much Luv!
Thank you so much Laura. I really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts with us and spread some kindness here. Sending you a big virtual HUG XXX
I am not sure if you guys will see this because of how old the video is but wow did I need this one. So thank you, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing the lows. Bec I've connected with you over insta about the matching Lee necklace - you guys are my favourite part of every Sunday which usually ends up always being my favourite moment of the week. My boyfriend and I share a lot of the same values and interest as you guys & are fellow Ontarians! I have been having a day, the type of day where you are questioning everything. Your video naturally came up on my homepage and it was exactly what I needed to hear. It honestly has felt like you both have been such a push to live life in the dreamers lane. To stay true to who you are and want to be in this lifetime. It can be extremely lonely - so its videos like this that bring people closer. Connection is everything. Thank you!
I'm in tears. Thanks for being so honest about the struggles of being content creators/entrepreneurs/now podcasters! I've recently graduated college with the aspiration of creating this sort of lifestyle & y'all have inspired me to chase my wild ass dreams in more ways than one. I know things may seem difficult and uncertain right now, but remember all of the INCREDIBLE things you have already accomplished so far. Everything you need to succeed is already within you! No one has the crazy, adventurous, beautiful lives that y'all have. Just keep believing in yourselves and the rest will follow. Btw, I freaking love the podcast idea!
One door closes and another 3 open. You have a heart like a baby bird. The world is not gentle at times. Nobody will care as much about the things you care about. You guys have a moment and have it fully and let it pass. Don’t stay in it longer than you need to. Your brand will grow as will your channel. Funny you should mention pod cast I would recommend you check out The Ground Up Show. Great for creators ....👍 I also think you need to show all aspects of your life. It is real. Being real connects you. Have a blessed day.
Stopping video half way to say thank you for posting this! I think seeing the parts of your live like this are so much more helpful. I am planning on getting a van soon and have also started working on some ground work for a small business and I feel like this all the time! Sometimes I think maybe it’s just because I have bad luck or that I don’t know what I’m doing. Thank you
I understand the feeling. When you care it's hard to not to take everything personal. I have that same issue with my business. Hang in there! You have made so much progress with your channel even in the short time I've been watching you! I ordered your Chai and cant wait to try it!
Thank you so much Alyssa a) for being you and for being a part of our RUclips family... please know that we love and appreciate you b) for supporting small business and our business in particular c) for changing the world with your own business... I hope I can support you some day!
Awww thanks! I have a full time pet sitting and dog walking business I've been doing for about 10 years. But me and my cat are moving into a van taking a break from the pet sitting and hitting the road full time in less than a year hopefully so maybe we will see you guys around!
I love you two SOO much! I love seeing all of your adventures and hearing the good AND not so good stories. I genuinely appreciate how raw your content is and how open you both are! Praying for clarity and a BOOM in your business! I CANNOT WAIT FOR YOUR PODCAST!
Owning your own biz is definitely the hardest job ever and makes you feel isolated. Thanks for being so real. Many of us have been there just like you.
Sounds like this is one aspect of your lives that you struggle with-we all have that one area-it’s what we do when we recognize our one area. There are folks who get bogged down in the struggle and never are able to identify the problem much less be proactive about fixing it, as y’all have done. You two seem to have a very healthy attitude about life and living. Recognizing there will be down days and being willing to deal with them in our own context is what life is about. Carry on, good job. Btw, we ALL need sincere words of affirmation on a regular basis!
Hello beautiful friends! We love sharing our lives with you and strive to keep things positive but some days things pile up and it's a struggle. I know it's not the brightest vlog but we think it's one of our most important ones yet. Please go easy on us, we're all only human after all XX
Eamon & Bec you guys are awesome! Block any haters 💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you Lisa. We love this community and believe that everyone has the right to share their opinion (we think it's what makes RUclips special). Just asking people to understand that we're just two humans sitting behind the other screen and that this video makes us very vulnerable. Cannot thank you enough for being you, for being a part of our family and for sending your love + light. I send it all right back to you XX
Eamon & Bec love your channel....happy when u have a new vlog! Positive vibes heading your way ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Kjaers (sorry my keyboard can't type your name properly). Sending lots of love back from Canada.
You guys are awesome! I appreciate the real talk, sometimes we need to acknowledge and feel what we feel to get to the other side of it. It takes a lot of courage to do that publicly so thank you!! I can’t wait for the podcast to come out. Much love!! ❤️
From a follower who has 73 years of life, entrepreneurship, experience let me encourage you guys with the fact that "normal" people/the average aren't the ones that have advanced society or culture. It takes lonely adventurers to make the changes that make the world a better place. You two are some of the most genuine, honest people. I absolutely love your authenticity. There is "something" about you guys that draws me to look forward to viewing everything you post! Btw...you may be interested in reading a book called "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Smalley if you haven't heard of it.
Gary Ellis I loved that book!
I’m sure they’re very familiar with the Love Languages book- bed called them “words of affirmation” ffs! If they weren’t familiar w Love Languges, she almost certainly would’ve called them compliments 🙂
"lonely adventurers" I love that
This comment needs a heart.
@@Puglover130 except for the fact that "words of affirmation" is a well worn common colloquialism in the English language well outside of that book, which personally the title does not ring a bell. I will though look it up.
Loved the realness of this guys. After only a few months, we already feel you on so may things you touched on (especially when you put everything in to a video and it tanks..). You guys have been killing it for so long, just keep being you, we all love you for it. Wish we could give you a hug Bec! And Eamon, we miss your tofu scramble. Come back to us! xoxo
Max & Lee Love you two so much! Can't wait til you two are back together!!
You have to be really gullible to believe these scammers.
Hi beautiful people! Thanks for always taking the time to send us kindness and love. We love you both (and Occy of course) for it. You are absolutely crushing this new platform so please do not EVER doubt yourselves. Tofu scrambles on us anytiiiiime XX
@@alvinkarpis5755 creep!
One of yalls best videos. No other channel that I have seen has been this honest and real. That's what makes people relate and differentiates you from the world. Yeah, the strive for perfection is one thing we all face especially in 2020 but at the end of the day we are all dealing with our own things and seeing the not so shiny side of life really grounds yall and makes you relatable. One of my fav things about your videos is that you do include bloopers, mistakes, and now vulnerabilities. Just remember that "EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY." It's the best quote I've ever heard and stands true to EVERYTHING. All these emotions of doubt or insecurity will eventually fade and you will be back on the more positive side. Remember you dont get good without bad. Dont get happy without sad. It's all temporary and will all pass, so be aware of it, feel it, and know it will soon pass. It's all a part of being human! You are getting more and more supporters, costumers, and viewers every single day! Much love! Peace!🥰🥰🥰❤
Sometimes you just have to decide if what you’re doing will fulfill your needs for security and happiness. You two aren’t even 30 yet you’ve traveled and done more already than many will see in their lives. Do you realize how big that is? That can never be taken away! Most people will tell you that when you’re older your regrets will be more what you didn’t do than what you did. Big hug for you both and good luck with whatever you two decide. Thanks for keeping it real.❤️✌️🏻🚐
So happy you shared this and got vulnerable because it’s an important message to spread. Being an entrepreneur and creator isn’t always as glamorous as it seems, but you guys truly are making a difference with what you do. So keep on keeping on and everything will work out. I truly believe that those who create and provide value for the world succeed.
Thanks you two! Couldn't agree more -- just got to keep on keeping on. Excited to meet you guys IRL very very soon... when are you headed to BC?!!?
*oh man* , I've definitely been there Bec & Eamon.
Literally 4 weeks before our wedding, I lost one of my biggest video clients. I had been solo fulltime for about 5 months, and this client was the pillar to make the transition to Marriage a lot more "safe."
It felt very personal and was hard for me to get over mentally. I thought about it daily for about 3-4 months. It only got easier when there was more time in between.
The roller coaster of living an unconventional life is certainly very real. I do beleive the process of seeing the journey all the way through, brings about a life that has far more "mountain top moments" than any other way of doing it.
It feels like there is a lot more risk in this path, but what seems riskier is the golden hancuffs of a job that doesn't challenge you, doesn't provide a path towards freedom, has no online community, and doesn't have greater rewards for smart effort and strategy over a long period of time.
It is lonely in it's own unique ways though, Janelle and I have not found answers to that yet.
Look forward to seeing you two soon!!
Levi, dear friend, how can we feel so close to someone we have yet to meet in person?! Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with us. We identify with it in so many ways and by you sharing I feel like you've helped in our journey. Losing a big client shouldn't be easy but what we can do is learn from it and grow through it. SO SO SO excited to chat and meet and share this weekend XXX
Golden Handcuffs, so true...
Thank you for being real with us. Please realize you have already made a beautiful impact on this world. All that matters in the end is the meaningful relationships you’ve made and how you’ve treated the people you’ve come across in this life. You both inspire me so so much everyday. My fiancé and I religiously watch your videos and hope one day we can covert to van life it’s a dream of ours. Life is always filled with ups and downs regardless of having a stable job or living a more non traditional lifestyle. Keep being yourselves and doing what you’re doing you guys are beyond amazing!!!!!❤️❤️
Bec! Don’t ever feel mad for needing love from us. This a community that your guys have created and there’s lots of love to give. I think it’s super refreshing that you guys are openly sharing the lows of your life because many people don’t. Whatever you guys choose to do we all will support and continue to follow along through the journey! For me you guys are such a positive and fun people to watch. I love your videos, they make me laugh and I love your story. I love you guys!
In todays world. Nothing is normal. Eamon & Bec...You two are real and beautiful. You two are forging your own path and with all that is going on you still inspire others, more than you know. You inspire me. So thank you so very much for another REAL & BEAUTIFUL video. ChaiWallaChai, RUclipsrs, Podcasters and VeganVanwrap makers.
Thank you for taking the time to share your love and kindness with us XX
Brave,Beautiful, Bodacious. Our family and friends all watch your videos. And yes we r a bunch of 45ish friends that adore your videos over wine and legal weed.🤩😍🤙🍲🍄🍷
Here in 2022 and when Bec said “I want to have an impact on this world” I smiled. You guys have had a huge impact, and so many people love and adore y’all. I’m so glad as a fan now that y’all didn’t give up when you felt so low and so heavy about it all. I’m so
Proud of y’all for fighting through this funk and for keeping going.
You have such a kind and gentle heart, Bec. You guys are so young, but have already touched so many people. Give yourselves some love! 💕
I feel we are so privileged that you allow us into your lives, not just the pretty side (like so many other RUclipsr's) but the very real sides as well. The downs that come inbetween the ups, the struggles and the triumphs, your feelings, your vulnerabilities, your joys, your "fights" (really just disagreements), your self judgment, your love for each other and your families etc etc. You are, together and separately, an inspiration to so many. Even though we've never met we LOVE you and we respect you for all that you are doing and all that you are achieving. I've been wondering since watching this if you've ever thought of expanding your product line? Bec, remember Everything Happens For A Reason!! I taught my four ( now adult) kids and many's the time that belief has gotten them through a very difficult challenge because they know they are going to grow and learn. Some risk taking is good because it helps you to push your boundaries and grow. Remember that to be brave you must experience fear.... Anyway, enough of that, lol. In the end you are loved. The community YOU have built loves you and supports you! Sending you both blessings 🙏 Love from Australia 🇦🇺 💝
Love your beautiful honesty and transparency. Just a reminder that stability is an illusion. Houses burn down. Businesses fail. Families experience catastrophes whether they live in a van and have a nomadic life or a house with a job and a boss. Your stability is your ability to be resilient and shift your focus back to your passion and what your intuition tells you to do next. Sounds like you are both a bit overwhelmed. Love to you both. You ARE making an incredible impact, but impact is in the eye of the beholder. All you can do is create the space of possibility and live your most joyful, transparent, love-filled, passion-filled life. It's all beautiful...even the tears.
Maybe the Universe is about to Bless you’re business tremendously. Keep your eyes open. 😇😇
I am new to your channel but let me just say what attracted me to watch your videos is your wanderlust and beautiful spirits. I’ve been working my way through your videos and this one so far is my favorite. I appreciate so much listening to you guys keeping things so realistic. Despite life’s challenges, especially these non traditional ones, you guys are and always will get through what life’s throws your way. This video was more encouraging than anything and truly made me feel closer to you guys, this community, and the offbeat track of life. Thank you guys. Lots of love and peace 💖✌🏽😊
Super encouraging video guys - we miss you already and it is so nice to see you guys being yourselves and being vulnerable online. You're the hardest working people we know and are always inspiring us. Have a blast at your spa date!!
Minimal Millennials I hope you two are doing better as well. I hope your not in the same city as that crazy nut still.
Thanks besties. We love you guys!!
You guys are great. I think a lot of us want so many things that we really can't have all at the same time. I do love watching your videos, and I hope you continue to share, even if it has to be less. I find your lifestyle and the way you are going after untraditional things really inspiring. We can all relate. Everybody has bummer times where you question everything you've done and whether you'll ever have the things you have yet to accomplish but are very important to you. There are seasons of life, you know. You'll figure it out as you go. Every decision we make makes a difference. ♡
I just want to reach out and hug you !!! Thank you both for sharing your vulnerability and being so honest. We love you through good and bad, ups and downs. Keep on keeping on. I can’t imagine a week without you. ❤️ Sending lots and lots of love and positive vibes. xox
You are such and inspiration to so many! Everything we do in life makes us question “is this what I’m supposed to be doing’ life is difficult no matter the obstacles. Bec, I personally have had to question recently everything in my life. We all go through it, you’re both amazing people. Keep your head up, what path you decide is yours alone. We will all be here to support you in anyway. ❤️
Comparing yourself to others is the death of you. Keep building your empire and check back in 20 years, you’ll be on top! Stop comparing!
You are so right! I love to support others in all walks of life and sometimes that can lead to comparison as well. I do trust the process and know that we're on the right path just thought it was important to share some of those darker thoughts I spiral into in the hopes that it relates to someone in our community. Big hugs to you Kristians XX
Agreed. I own a very successful business with 25 employees but it took me 20 years to get here. Real success doesn’t happen quickly, the internet would tell you otherwise.
Eamon & Bec It only gets better. 🤜
Thank you both for sharing the difficulty and fear and questions that there are in not going the traditional path, it's always helpful to me to hear other humans navigate the same things that I go through 'cause as you said Eamon, it's a lonely life. I believe it is lonely not because we don't have coworkers or a boss but because we are not going the traditional path and we have to make our paths ourselves.
Thank you for being real, it helps a lot.
You guys are too hungry to not succeed. It’s friggen defeating being an entrepreneur sometimes but as long as you remain hungry and you have a clear defined solid WHY, you will be successful. You guys ARE successful. You receive what you put out there and your honesty is special.
Thank you Ellie! We appreciate you taking the time to share your kind words and thoughts with us. Thank you for being a part of this beautiful, uplifting community!!
This is the type of event that can define you as a business and a couple. Stay strong!
Bec...Life is risk... Not such thing as a stable job any more life changes so quickly. you have your home and each other remember there are two of you so you always have each others back
TheGrowGeek...your comment is so true.
Well said. Beautiful reminder... thank you XX
Exactly! Your 9 to 5 job may be here today and gone tomorrow. Go take risks and go have fun. Make your life the way you want to live it!
have each others back but study how parallelism works and how to combat it - insist be authentic they´re games only work for so long and only work in the shadows. They hate being caught - image is everything to them ...
Got a government job. Safe and stable, health insurance, pension and retirement. I won't be a millionaire, but I'll be comfortable and fulfilled knowing I've been of service to the people. However, the trade off is your stuck in a single location and have a boss that tells you what to do at times and deadlines. So my point is everything is a trade off, everything needs a balance. Find your balance. I love my job and it hardly feels like work. Stay hungry, stay balanced.
Y’all have yalls own LIVES!! You are going to be ready to start a new thing when your ready! Y’all are inspiring to do what you do starting a new life in a van and having a successful channel don’t cry or down on yourself your both amazing people! I wish I could honestly do this keep inspiring keep making people take these steps into doing themselves I’m literally living through y’all! You are Both amazing people and wish the best happiness!
There's nothing wrong with living in a home and occasionally travel. Or living in a van. RUclips will always be here. Do what's best. Do that podcast and kick butts!!!
You guys inspire more people than you will ever now. You are living the dream. You've made it this far and I'm sure you'll go even farther. I've learned so much from your videos and loved every minute. Life is about perspective. There are so many people suffering in this world and whenever you feel down (we all do sometimes) it's important to count your blessings. You've brought joy into so many people's lives and for that, you are already millionaires of the heart. Thank you for bringing us along!
I loved the vulnerability in this video... Would love a dedicated one about the hardships we might not know about your business, van life, marriage, etc! xx
Thank you Crystal. It's not easy to share about these hardships but I am understanding the importance of it through the beautiful community and comments on this video. I will make a point to share more with of course a nice mix of fun and adventure XX
We all have these feelings. I'm 34 and my husband and I moved across the country from Tennessee to the Bay area and literally everything went wrong every step of the way. We stayed in the Bay for 6 months with people that we trusted and they completely turned on us and everything went to shit. We had to skip town and now we are in Tucson trying to make the best of it.
We've been here since March and my husband still can't find a job, I'm not making good money, everything is stressful and hard and we have no savings, renting a room from some friends, and feel completely screwed. But it will get better.
You guys have done so much with your life and you are strong, smart people. We will all keep moving forward and have amazing experiences and do wonderful things. Just gotta keep that chin up and hold on to the ones we love.
I, too, am very emotional and when I do anything I put my whole heart in it. If I say I'll do something I do it. I'm not a quitter and I'm super loyal, so I get your feels Bec. You will be okay, you will do the thing, it will get better.
The problem with being creative/entrepreneurial types is "to many ideas" . The inevitable outcome of this short attention span is the inability to see a good idea through to its potential.
Tea: You have worked hard to get customers for your product. You know these customers buy more than Chai. You could expand your line but a new idea charms away your attention. Your creative nature makes it impossible to follow through. I'm guessing; Bob, as willing as he is to help is not going to take that business where it should go. He's done his thing. He wants to cruise around in his van and he should.
The only way to pursue multiple endeavors is with partners. Get someone to work closely with you to push that tea business.
Everyone of these avenues you're attempting deserves more attention than you can possibly give. You will always have more ideas than you can execute. Find people who "can" focus, share ownership and see it through.
You didn't really ask for my advice, but that's what you get for baring your soul. Ideas are great but they make it hard to meditate.
Hi Robert, appreciate the advice! I actually think it is something we've needed to hear because as much as we want to give all of these avenues 110% we're only two people and the time has come to find some strategic partners. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us!
You two are precious and such an inspiration to me. I can get pretty nihilistic at times, but the life you both share so openly with the world gives me a reason to believe that there is still beauty, hope, and pure joy. Sending you all the love and appreciation for what you’re doing. 💛🙏
Thank you for being honest, the 'van life' is often pictured as such a relaxing care free and easy lifestyle, and it is easy to miss some of the realities, especially from an outsiders perspective. It is good for me as someone potentially looking to do this in the future to see all sides and not just the 'best bits'. Thanks guys and best of luck!
I love that you share so much of your lives with us, the good and the sad. You are so authentic and making such a beautiful impact on the world and you never need to apologize for crying. Sending you much love!
hey Bec, do yourself a quick solid, go outside, take a deep breath and look around, and remember, all that scary stuff and all that hard work has led you to right here and right now, and tommorow and any day after it will lead you to so many more awesome places and awesome people (same way it led you to the Minimal Millenials for instance), meanwhile I am stuck here in my little flat in the dreary Netherlands yet I still think one day I will get out of here because thanks to people like you I know it's possible, will there be struggles along the way? sure! but if you ask me they are more then worth it! and from what I have seen so far from your videos I think you are a lot stronger then you give yourself credit for
Everyone has an “off-day” or “low, inward-day”, it’s normal. It’s great that you show it. REAL is better than “reality”. Enjoy your options and strive to do things well. While there is a right way and a wrong way to live... only God can tell you what that is..... try this.... pray (if you don’t already) about your situation and what direction your going. You might be surprised at the results. Thank you for your hard work creating content and willingness to share your beautiful lives. Soak up the summer. Taste the sunshine. Remember that in a couple of months it’s going to be soooo cold. And whatever you do... remember to pray. May God Bless You.
Man i wanted to hear more from her ! Didn’t want her to feel like she needed to stop talking- we like real ness.
Hi Jill! Bec here. Appreciate you saying that! It's tough to find the right balance between sharing too much/not enough and never want this beautiful community to feel like we're complaining about our beautiful, beautiful lives. Sending you a virtual hug XX
Thanks for sharing so honestly. The entrepreneur community needs more of this. Totally relate in terms of the highs and lows. Been running my own small business for the last few years and I can't tell you how many times I've doubted my abilities, sunken so low only to be uplifted the very next week. Nobody truly gets it unless you've been in it. Trust yourself and know that you are savvy, smart and driven. And that you have each other and get to have a great adventure! Look forward to the podcast.
Twice in my life, I have had to take big steps backwards, to go forward. It's not easy when a setback happens, but you find ways to dig deep, crawl through the mud, and come out stronger, bigger and better. You WILL get through this patch, and you will find something great!! Keep digging you two, you have that drive, that passion. Eamon, no less than 20 compliments a day my friend 👍👍 she will love you forever ❤❤ keep the wheels rolling, we've all got your back. Oh, and don't feel that a 9 to 5 job means vanlifers is over. There are many who work and live the life as well. I'm sure you can find a few of them in Vancouver
I have been telling my family this is the year of positive energy!! No matter how hard it can get!!! We all are going to do wonderful things this year!! I so understand how you feel!! I have been feeling that way as well!! Stay positive and keep pushing forward!!!
I appreciate you two for sharing your personal parts of your life/situation. Reasons why I appreciate it is because not everyone RUclipsr shares these parts of their life's and always want to be perfect. I'll support and always will stick around when you guys get bumbs on the road and even wrong Lanes and turns. Now I'll always look back when you guys shared this genuine moment. Love you two even more! I followed for the Van Life and now I follow for those behind the wheel! Like your amazing Travels, The road and journey must drive on and venture out to! ❤❤❤❤
I teach young adults in college and have referred to you in my talks with them as I exhort them to higher places. We that strive to lift others up never know how we affect others. Unless I told you about this you would have never known of the impact you may have breathed into someone's life. I don't say this so that you might keep score but to exhort you to keep on keeping on. You guys are great and I look forward to seeing you reach higher, just remember to breath and savour every moment. All the very best to you both!
Aw, Bec, it'll be okay. 😊💕 It's easy to get caught up in what others are doing and what you 'should' be doing. Do you guys actually even want those 'shoulds' or are you just feeling pressure from family/friends/society to conform to the 'Life Script? That could be what's causing you distress. Either way, you two always go after what you want so I know it'll all work out in the end.
Also, about the loss of that big account. It was either money or convenience that swayed them - definitely don't take it personally. I've had to 'let go' a few big accounts in my career for this reason and I hate doing it - it's the worst. :( New opportunities are just around the corner. xx
Chin up guys, you two are absolute goals and everything you do is perfect. You’ve inspired me no end to try van life and helped me through my recent break up more than you’ll ever know.
Whatever you choose to do, it will work out in the end because you’re awesome and you’ve got all 86,000 ish of us behind you and love you.
Good luck guys and I can’t wait to see what you come up with next
Thanks for keeping it real. We all struggle in different ways. The ups and downs are necessary, otherwise we wouldn't grow. Keep on keeping on. Love you guys.✌️
I too had a business, it is always stressful but most times it is very rewarding to sit back and look at what you have created. Life in general is full of ups and downs.
Bec, it shows us you are caring and passionate about what you do, don’t ever be ashamed of that! It will always work out in the end, it may not seem like it today but it will.
Eamon, you rock as always and it’s refreshing to see someone that supports your partner the way you do.
I have been a huge fan since I watched your first video. You guys ARE destined to do good things, lots of love and hang in there
Mental health days are muy importante!!! Glad you guys are getting treated to a spa. You definitely deserve it....especially all that HOT WATER!!! Am I right??? P.S. You are both champions of life. Remember that.
I love you two! You don't know me of course but your raw passion that you show in all aspects of your life and the way the two of you wear your hearts on your sleeve is what sets you apart and makes you shine. I have followed you for a while and watching your struggles but more importantly your SUCCESS not only in business but in the success of cultivating positive thoughts and a wonderful community inspires me every day. Thank you so much for being you.
Life is so hard sometimes! You guys are amazing and such an inspiration. Admitting the tough times and being real is not often shown on RUclips, and so many people can learn from that. Thanks for your honesty! Keep moving forward.
Thank you guys so much for being real! I really appreciate you touching in the struggles of entrepreneurship. It’s not something that people talk about much, but as a fellow creator and “solopreneur”, I empathize with how difficult it is to feel alone on the journey. Even when you have an abundant community of fam and friends, not everyone gets the struggles of entrepreneurship (like where you need to put your time, how work is a lot of hours, what to tell people your “real” job is, or how people tell you that you should go get a “real” job when you have low moments like these, figuring out how to keep yourself moving forward, etc.). Being happy and fulfilled and positive, truly, comes from being authentic in recognizing and sharing the sad, hard moments alongside the exciting, easy ones. As entrepreneurs/creators, we recognize that we have chosen this path. And we don't necessarily complain about hardships, but we just give them a nod and share them with other people who might understand. Then we move onto the things we are grateful for and reconnect with our original motivation of creating our own business in the first place. (Like you guys so beautifully did in the video.) Thanks for the awesome content, you guys are beautiful souls, so please keep rocking it! I really appreciate all of the inspiration 💕
Guys..I'm no expert but losing an account that is going single stream really speaks more to the change in your client...good or bad...but having said that with a product such as yours, keeping to the client that is the true target of the non single source client isn't always a bad thing. I understand the loss, but perhaps the loss is theirs more than yours, let the gain be in finding another client that has a more refined focus in mind that better matches your product. Sometimes small needs to stay with small...that in many ways it what certain customers like myself really look for...while I am a patron of the mainstream, other times I want small, refined, and special focused businesses like yours. As a photographer, I have been through things like you as well. Hang in there.
It takes courage to be honest and vulnerable on social media, you guys are awesome. Just wanted to add that stability comes from loving parents/parent, a loving environment, family, and everything else is an illusion. I watch Bus Life NZ, a family living on the road who's children are having the time of their lives, learning from all the experiences, nature and their parents. You can do it in an non-traditional manner and raise amazing human -beings and still be honest to yourselves and your creative lives.
It's just amazing to see how understanding two people can be
You guys are really lucky to have found each other 🌻🌻
Couldn't agree more! Lucky to have one another XX
You guys are awesome and an inspiration to thousands, including me. This uncertainty and spiraling is totally normal! One of my most recent videos is about the spiral and what steps to take to snap out of it, it seems to be extremely relevant right now - a lot of the folks in my life and online seem to be having similar struggles. You've got this! You've got support and you've got love and you've got grit. Don't stop making videos :)
There is no such thing as a stable job! That's part of what let us to the life we live now. Husband worked the 9-5 and got let go at a really bad time. It killed the both of us at the time and we thought it was the worst thing ever at the time not realizing it had to happen in order for us to be where we are today. Keep your heads up and do what you all do best. Oh, and a nomadic lifestyle is possible with a family and in my opinion an amazing one. We travel full-time with our 2 kids and they love it and learn more than they ever would in a "normal" life. : )
You are so brave allowing yourselves to be vulnerable, putting your lives out there for the world to see and building a business from the the bottom up! You are inspiring to many (myself included) so please remind yourselves of that when feeling down. Ups and downs take place in every lifestyle, so you should expect them. Love and happiness your way! 💓💛💗
Bec, thank you for sharing your struggle to make sense of the risks and rewards of your project and your business. I’m so impressed by you initiative and grit. Eamon, you’re a wonderful partner and very funny. Hang in there, guys.
Thank you love! If I'm not being real with you, then I just don't see a point to all of this so I am overwhelmed by the support and connection that has come as a result of this very raw video. See you in the next one lovely XX
You gotta let that emotion out! Speaking for myself (but I feel many others as well)- I appreciate the candid conversation. I actually try and limit social media use because of the phenomenon of comparing myself to everyone's else's best selves which makes me feel not good enough. I think this is highly relatable. I am currently building out a van. I have a bachelor's degree and I wonder everyday if I'm wasting time I can't get back on not pursuing a master's and phd and getting a "stable" job. But I've also learned that I can't be happy in conventional job settings - I feel like I'm in a prison and claustrophobic, always have. But I still stress every day because if I don't go the academic route, I have no idea what to do. So the existential crisis I totally am right there with you. A lot of things in my life have changed drastically the past few years and I see friends getting married, having children, buying houses... and I wonder when I'm going to get it together, but we each have our own paths and I think what you guys are doing is extremely brave and inspirational. So thank you for sharing and being REAL - the world needs both sides of the truth (in general), not just the shiny, polished side. It's good for our mental health.
Thank you for being real and sharing your doubts and worries.
It's refreshing to see the other side as well and not just a "dream life" scenario all the time.
Keep your heads up and it will get better! You have THE BEST personalities and I believe that you can make it. :D
Thank you for taking the time to write such kind words to us Krystal. Much love XX
Thank you for always being vulnerable and honest on your platforms. It makes watching you and following along truly feel like a privilege. Listen to your intuition and I believe you'll continue to find your path! Much love ❤️
Being real is the only way. Truth always wins.
If only, but I know it doesn't.
kathryn witte in the end. Don’t mistake battles for wars. The big picture.
Welcome to being a small business owner! It sucks sometimes but look at the positives. We all get the slumps and highs. Take stock in your position, you get to travel as your “job”, you’re in a small group of people who’ve made a career out of doing what you love. Learn from the bumps, don’t take it personal (it is business) and keep rolling. Remain positive for your partner because attitude is contagious. Even if it’s forced it can keep you and your partner from spiraling. 👍🏽🚐💨
It's interesting to watch this video just because I have the same thoughts even though my life might be a bit more traditional. I am going to school full time and only have a associates degree which took me five years even though its a 2 year degree and I'm finally getting my undergrad. Anyway I look around and see people being more "successful" then me. I watched your videos and thinking the same thing, thinking you have it all together and here I am doing nothing.I keep thinking about what I do wrong too. I think this is something that everyone struggles with for the most part. I think that's why it's so important being open about it. I hope you have better luck and I also hope that your channel grows more because you two deserve it. I cannot wait for your podcast. I just know that you two will rise above this and do something amazing.
Thank you Renee. Please know that you are beautiful and hardworking and that you truly are DOING YOUR BEST! Everyone is going to grow at their own pace and that's okay. Happy that by sharing I was able to show you those with the greener grass on the other side have it all together. Sending you lots of LOVE and light XX
Listen to the lyrics of the song "The Grand Illusion" by Styx.
Bec, you inspire me so much! I’m very risk adverse and often miss out on wonderful opportunities because I dwell too much on everything at once. Everyone has down moments where it feels like everything is spiraling or too much, you have too many people that care for you guys to let you fall on your faces! I absolutely love your videos and I’m inspired by the both of you individually and together ❤️
Love you guys! Stay strong - no matter what. Focus on what's going well. 😊
Hugs and encouragement! Tomorrow is a new day. My family loves following you...ups and downs. Deep breathe, exhale. You are loved!
Honest and raw conversations belong on youtube, thank you for sharing whats going on. RUclips is a lot of fluff now a days but I am encouraged by your honesty. It's helping me realize we all share the same struggles. RUclips has a way of filtering out the "real" Your content is beautiful, just keep going.
Thank you Samantha. I totally agree that RUclips seems to push over-edited videos that can make ANY consumer question everything! We ALL have struggles and while it was super nerve-racking to share all of this online I am over the moon that my struggles have helped a few of us connect deeper. Sending you lots of love XX Bec.
I work the grind and also am a Run Coach. Everything and everyone has their ups and downs. So don’t feel lonely. My days start at 4:50am and usually end around 8:30pm. Because I get up and meet clients to run early in the morning, go to the YMCA to shower and get ready for work, work 9-10 hours, then leave work to go back to the YMCA to change and meet more clients to Coach. It’s ok to always question decisions but at the end of the day, you take the good with the bad and life moves on. Do what you enjoy and keep up the good work! Love following your journey!
I think your idea for your reroot podcast is a great idea. I lived in Ontario my whole life and decided to sell my house and everything in it, bought a van and drove out to BC, a dream I had since I was 12. My life has definitely changed, the way I see things, about who I am and how much my family means to me. I am so excited to hear your podcast to relate with others who have chosen a reroot too.
Excited to share with you!!
I really appreciate it when you guys show the ups and downs as they come, it keeps things real. You're both amazing people and i hope for nothing but good to come to your lives and your business! Love your videos 😊
I really appreciate what you both do. Believe it when I say that what you do makes a difference with others. Sharing your life and things you do is really inspiring. I know things can get hard especially being in a van but you two are a strong young couple and you have each other as well as family and friends. Don't worry too much on the bed because I know that together you two will do well. If there's a way that I can help let me know.
Thank you so much Rex. I always love reading your comments and feel like we know each other just from our quick communication back and forth here. We both appreciate you and send you lots of love XX
Eamon & Bec it’s no problem. I too feel like we all know each other and like I’m with you everywhere you’re at in your vlogs.
Can’t believe I didn’t catch this vlog until now. Thank you for being so real. My family and I want to take our lives on the road within the next couple years. It’s scary difficult. But we need to see videos like this. We need the reality of it. So thank you! And I’m sure you know, through failure is growth as I’m sure you’ve already grown from this experience since it’s been a month from its release. You are both amazing. And I certainly look forward to finding your podcast.
Hey folks, I worked for myself for years. I have been broke and rich. Not knowing how to make a mortgage payment to flying private. Toughen up, it will happen again. You are young and suffering is important. You will do great things but it will be hard so push and when it looks the worst push harder. Borrow, ask for help, tell friends, do what needs to be done. Most people cannot live on thier own, y'all can so dry up - it is not supposed to be easy. Y'all will get there and when you do, it will feel good.
Pain is growth. Change is inevitable. Good luck. You have a lot to be grateful for.
Entrepreneurship is extremely challenging at times. But the key thing I try to remember is change is inevitable. Time to go catch a bigger whale. Life is all about how you react. I know yall will be fine, you guys are the bomb. I CANNOT WAIT to add this to my list of podcasts.
You guys are my fave. No matter what you do, you're going to be successful because you have the drive and passion. Having the right attitude is game changing and we all experience set backs from time to time. Don't let it get you down; you got this!
You guys are so inspirational! Don’t stop what you’re doing, my only advice take it or leave it is to talk to other creators when you have days like this. You’re lucky you have Lauren Toyota for a friend, I know she would provide great insight 😃 Love you both and I’m looking forward to hearing the podcast ❤️
Shit happens. Feelings are weird and don't always make sense. But thank you for keeping it real and putting the unfiltered truth out there! I think one of the problems we have with our feelings these days is that so many people only put out the beautiful parts, and we experience our normal lives and look at the beautiful stuff of others' lives and think we're doing something wrong. So, honestly, these kinds of videos talking about real, confusing, emotional things are SO HELPFUL
Love you guys lots, and your vulnerability reads as absolute strength here. Can’t wait to keep following along and see all the great things y’all are going to continue to do.
Awe, thank you Bailey. Means a lot XX
Wow. I can totally relate. My husband and I started a business last year while working full-time and are still in the process of the highs and lows of a business. We also feel like we are letting go of friendships because our mindset is changing as we transition out of the 9-5 and living a very different life. It feels almost like we are alone together on how we think and what we want to do. Love this video. Thanks for being vulnerable!
Bec you are making a huge impact in this world..... Super tons of live to y'all ... Take a step back and breath deep girl, your freaking killin it 💗😘 you will do great things
William Chesser I agree 100% Bec!
I can 100% relate to this video; from the hanger and chips before groceries, to the talk about being risk-adverse and just feeling down by the grind and the struggle but also being more scared of the traditional path to "success".
I understand that it is hard, but another great opportunity for you and your business will come around! I will always believe in you ❤️
I love you guys! Never feel ashamed of showing any real ness. Everyone’s life has tough decisions and hard days. You guys are amazing for putting your life on display. I can relate about always thinking about where I want to be in life, making Improvements to live the best life but also making moves for the future. I’m 30 how old are you guys if you don’t mind me asking? Just hang in there and keep being you and making the best decisions. We all know you guys are amazing people who always give us your best!!! Thank you!! ❤️
Love you sweet Bec, and love you guys's videos! I look forward to them every week - they brighten my day!
i’m no one special and have not accomplished or experienced half as much as you guys.. but I really connect with what you are saying. I think it’s extremely difficult to be going through life in a completely different way than everyone you may know. i’m not certain, but i feel like you guys are creating a path no one in your immediate circles have been down before. sometimes down that road you get hit with a few storms and blizzards but if I know one thing to be true, is that people like you guys are put in these situations to persevere and continue to bring great things into this world. rolling with the punches can be hard when it feels like you have to always be great for us ‘subscribers & viewers.’ you guys are real people, with real emotions and true ups & downs.
I lost my point here.. but I guess I just want to give my support for you guys and say tell you not to be so hard on yourselves. we are always our own toughest critics.
I truly appreciate and love the things you guys create. maybe it’s not said enough but you guys are inspiring, please don’t forget it!
the little things always fall into place.
i’m interested in the podcast, i’ll definitely be on the lookout for it!
Cheers Friends!
I get it guys bless you and don't need to apologize, luv you guys, ty for being real
You two seem like the sweetest people !!! You deserve anything and everything you want !!!
I adore you kids and wish you the best with your adventure in life. You both have a great connections with you viewing audience, your authenticity and simple truth comes across in your VLOG. Best of luck! You guys are inspiring! Much Luv!
Thank you so much Laura. I really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts with us and spread some kindness here. Sending you a big virtual HUG XXX
I am not sure if you guys will see this because of how old the video is but wow did I need this one. So thank you, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing the lows. Bec I've connected with you over insta about the matching Lee necklace - you guys are my favourite part of every Sunday which usually ends up always being my favourite moment of the week. My boyfriend and I share a lot of the same values and interest as you guys & are fellow Ontarians! I have been having a day, the type of day where you are questioning everything. Your video naturally came up on my homepage and it was exactly what I needed to hear. It honestly has felt like you both have been such a push to live life in the dreamers lane. To stay true to who you are and want to be in this lifetime. It can be extremely lonely - so its videos like this that bring people closer. Connection is everything. Thank you!
I recommend having a vacation once in awhile
all about finding the right balance :)
I'm in tears. Thanks for being so honest about the struggles of being content creators/entrepreneurs/now podcasters! I've recently graduated college with the aspiration of creating this sort of lifestyle & y'all have inspired me to chase my wild ass dreams in more ways than one. I know things may seem difficult and uncertain right now, but remember all of the INCREDIBLE things you have already accomplished so far. Everything you need to succeed is already within you! No one has the crazy, adventurous, beautiful lives that y'all have. Just keep believing in yourselves and the rest will follow. Btw, I freaking love the podcast idea!
One door closes and another 3 open. You have a heart like a baby bird. The world is not gentle at times. Nobody will care as much about the things you care about. You guys have a moment and have it fully and let it pass. Don’t stay in it longer than you need to. Your brand will grow as will your channel. Funny you should mention pod cast I would recommend you check out The Ground Up Show. Great for creators ....👍 I also think you need to show all aspects of your life. It is real. Being real connects you. Have a blessed day.
Stopping video half way to say thank you for posting this! I think seeing the parts of your live like this are so much more helpful. I am planning on getting a van soon and have also started working on some ground work for a small business and I feel like this all the time! Sometimes I think maybe it’s just because I have bad luck or that I don’t know what I’m doing. Thank you
I understand the feeling. When you care it's hard to not to take everything personal. I have that same issue with my business. Hang in there! You have made so much progress with your channel even in the short time I've been watching you! I ordered your Chai and cant wait to try it!
Thank you so much Alyssa a) for being you and for being a part of our RUclips family... please know that we love and appreciate you b) for supporting small business and our business in particular c) for changing the world with your own business... I hope I can support you some day!
Awww thanks! I have a full time pet sitting and dog walking business I've been doing for about 10 years. But me and my cat are moving into a van taking a break from the pet sitting and hitting the road full time in less than a year hopefully so maybe we will see you guys around!
I love you two SOO much! I love seeing all of your adventures and hearing the good AND not so good stories. I genuinely appreciate how raw your content is and how open you both are! Praying for clarity and a BOOM in your business! I CANNOT WAIT FOR YOUR PODCAST!
Chin up guys you are doing great!
Thanks friends!! Hope to meet and share stories some day XX
yow am doing bostin
Owning your own biz is definitely the hardest job ever and makes you feel isolated. Thanks for being so real. Many of us have been there just like you.
I love your human-ness! Don’t change!
Thank you Amber! We love being authentic with all of you and appreciate your support whether we're smiling/laughing or having a tough day XX
Sounds like this is one aspect of your lives that you struggle with-we all have that one area-it’s what we do when we recognize our one area. There are folks who get bogged down in the struggle and never are able to identify the problem much less be proactive about fixing it, as y’all have done. You two seem to have a very healthy attitude about life and living. Recognizing there will be down days and being willing to deal with them in our own context is what life is about. Carry on, good job. Btw, we ALL need sincere words of affirmation on a regular basis!