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  • Опубликовано: 10 окт 2024

Комментарии • 136

  • @gxmfu
    @gxmfu 2 дня назад +19

    I admire how much you bring up Emerson. I first heard about him from your videos on life-changing books and I bought his works & now he is by far my favorite writer!
    He was truly a wise, eclectic mind, and every time I read his writings I tend to contemplate on life's universal truths.

  • @CW-rx2js
    @CW-rx2js 2 дня назад +62

    I'm starting my entire life anew... separation from husband, starting business for the first time, in a new country.... Scary

    • @mianzainuddin9784
      @mianzainuddin9784 2 дня назад +11

      Making these decisions in themselves are acts of courage, so in some sense you've already faced some of the daunting fears involved in the process. For the ones that may yet come up, you just have to exhibit more of the courage I believe you already have. :)

    • @Kosmo999
      @Kosmo999 2 дня назад +2

      Gooo you !!!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @douaaberroho7893
      @douaaberroho7893 2 дня назад +2

      Hang on, good luck

    • @Thundapus
      @Thundapus 2 дня назад +2

      Amazing new steps, sounds scary but also very rewarding

    • @sayeeda2545
      @sayeeda2545 День назад

      You will do it with the grace of Almighty... A hollow can't complete hollow. Sending peace to your way.

  • @thegirl150Ebisu
    @thegirl150Ebisu 2 дня назад +23

    "If it aligns, good for you. If it doesn't align, also good for you because now you know that it doesn't align. Adapt. Try something new. Do not resent."

  • @cbrashsorensen
    @cbrashsorensen 2 дня назад +33

    I have no idea how I "found" this channel in mid-summer but the topics and logic are profound. Thank you.

  • @PrinceJha-fz4cv
    @PrinceJha-fz4cv 2 дня назад +24

    I came across your channel just a few days ago, and I have to say, it’s easily the best one I’ve found on RUclips. I’m a 17-year-old who’s stepped away from society for the past six months to prepare for one of the toughest exams in the world-only 400 out of 1.5 million make it through. And yet, I’ve been enjoying every bit of this journey so much that the outcome no longer matters to me. It’s as if the process itself has become the reward, and because of that, these months of preparation have turned into one of the best periods of my life.
    Now, I feel completely indifferent to the result, content to immerse myself in what I study, simply for the joy of learning. Your content has made this experience even richer for me, adding value to each step of the way. I just wanted to thank you, Sir, for that. May you find peace and clarity today, and continue to strive to act with wisdom and integrity.

    • @mianzainuddin9784
      @mianzainuddin9784 2 дня назад +6

      Your ability to think that way as a teenager is inspiring. I might be coming from a place of ignorance and risking some offense saying that, but I do believe teenage is generally associated with rash thought processes and decisions. Stay committed to the path of self awareness. With an early start, your development won't know any limits. Good luck with your exam!

  • @creepydani3225
    @creepydani3225 День назад +2

    "Failing does not mean you are a failure" I needed to hear that today.

  • @hi_im_ana
    @hi_im_ana 2 дня назад +23

    I can't believe it, your timing is divine, thank you again for your words of calm and wisdom in such troubled times.

  • @MrButt6
    @MrButt6 День назад +3

    Amid all the random content on social media your videos are always very thought provoking and gives a new perspective every-time.

  • @eljor.thesun
    @eljor.thesun 2 дня назад +8

    It blows my mind how the divine timing works. This video came up right after I thought that I should quit watching "these kind of videos" on youtube and think for myself. After watching this video, I realized that I don't like the way I was looking at educating myself spiritually and psichologicaly. I can quit watching videos and think for myself, or I can educate myself, but be aware of what resonates with me in the video and take it with me, or I can listen, and if it doesn't resonate, yey, I have heard someone's perspective but here I can think for myself. Both ways I advance. But I prefer educating myself and being in a community,. Wanted to share, fits the theme. Thank you so much for this video. Sensational perspective that I'm taking with me. Can't wait to explore your content!

  • @thomasdimes8570
    @thomasdimes8570 2 дня назад +15

    Good timing as always!

  • @rene9892
    @rene9892 2 дня назад +9

    11:18 "adapt, try something new, do not resent"

  • @aaria2046
    @aaria2046 2 дня назад +5

    Every single time you appear in perfect synchronization- perfect timing. Thank you. I just started a new job, but it is coming with an entirely new chapter.

    • @aaria2046
      @aaria2046 2 дня назад

      I left contact from my dad, lost the entire half side of his family, several pets have died, several people in my outer circle dead- now there's another huge hurricane. (The wars, too). There's so much going on in the world. It's crazy. This is a new age, new chapter, a new page for me.

    • @clove6435
      @clove6435 День назад

      @@aaria2046 i am so sorry about what you have been experiencing, thank fully Milton was Cat2? it was predicted cat5. I moved away couple of years ago from Sarasota, kept getting dreams messages what was to come. Stay strong... and best wishes to your way...

  • @LovelyFlipFlops-jl9kl
    @LovelyFlipFlops-jl9kl 2 дня назад +2

    I'm always starting something new. Thank you! I hope you have a great night.

  • @Introvert.1s
    @Introvert.1s 2 дня назад +3

    Thank you, these words carry the weight of knowledge, wisdom and experience.

  • @taraleightaracumming6726
    @taraleightaracumming6726 2 дня назад +13

    A new life, that’s what I’m starting

    • @Ranas-qm8vn
      @Ranas-qm8vn 2 дня назад +2

      same

    • @PrinceJha-fz4cv
      @PrinceJha-fz4cv 2 дня назад +3

      May you find peace in the journey ahead. Wishing you strength and clarity in all you do

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths День назад +2

    At first, things may feel overwhelming or confusing. You might not see immediate progress, but trust that the small steps add up. Persistence is key. Keep going, and soon you'll look back and realize how far you've come.

  • @dailyrepsofficial
    @dailyrepsofficial День назад +1

    The courage to begin is the first step toward greatness.
    As Aristotle said, "Well begun is half done." Starting something new is a powerful act that sets the foundation for success.
    Embrace the unknown, take that leap, and trust in your ability to grow.

  • @LucidDream
    @LucidDream 2 дня назад +2

    This video came at an appropriate time in my life. I'm going through many changes lately and I'm starting a new chapter in my life. Thanks for the wisdom.

  • @mataram9819
    @mataram9819 День назад

    Lebih baik pernah mencoba walaupun hasilnya tidak serupa seperti yang diinginkan, dari pada hanya berdiam diri dan menyerah di awal. Mengelola ekspektasi ini sangat penting. Seorang pemikir Islam pernah berkata “semakin sedikit hal yang membuatmu bahagia, semakin sedikit juga yang akan membuatmu bersedih”
    Terimakasih mr universe. Aku selalu menunggu videomu tiap minggu karena merasa videomu sangat membantuku dalam banyak hal.
    Greetings from Lombok Island, Indonesia.

  • @topsi91
    @topsi91 2 дня назад +4

    You are so handsome - not just looks wise, but you are smart, deep thinker, you love books as well.. the perfect man.

  • @kabilanbaskaran6813
    @kabilanbaskaran6813 2 дня назад +1

    There is a stoic technique to say “fate permitting” when we state our desires. Like “I want a promotion, fate permitting”. This makes us acknowledge the impact of externals on our desires on a mindset level.
    Religions do this with “god willing” and “inshallah”

    • @sayeeda2545
      @sayeeda2545 День назад +1

      Yeah ..like
      wise he also talked about submitting to universe ... also we can only se the tiny corner of universe and may or may not match to universal standards and alignment

  • @liliannart
    @liliannart День назад

    I just recently moved to a new country and have been experiencing so many crazy obstacles and challenges and this video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve finally gained clarity, thank you for your wisdom.

  • @MattsFreeChannel1
    @MattsFreeChannel1 2 дня назад +7

    Thank you for repeating that Emerson quote, lol. I still don't think I have cracked it. But it feels like something solid.
    Edit: Having paused. You are now returning to it, perhaps for all of us in the front. (Asking about it, lol.)

  • @sherrybuckner377
    @sherrybuckner377 2 дня назад +1

    I am so moved. Thank you for this very deep discussion about expectations and regret. I feel relieved of a burden, perhaps I have been carrying for a long time. I am so grateful.

  • @ceydasu.8
    @ceydasu.8 2 дня назад +2

    Perfect timing, thank you ❤

  • @MrAlekoukos
    @MrAlekoukos День назад

    wow that last quote, was comforting. Thank you!

  • @beadld
    @beadld 2 дня назад

    I’m starting a new job in several weeks, so this video comes just in time. I’m so grateful to have discovered your channel.

  • @miceup
    @miceup 2 дня назад +1

    I am starting a new career path and am overwhelmed with worry, feeling scared about it not working out. This video couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you so much.

  • @Scarfknitter
    @Scarfknitter 2 дня назад +1

    I love this video. So grateful for you 💗

  • @adityakalway
    @adityakalway 2 дня назад +1

    I stumbled upon your channel randomly one day a few month's back and I haven't not clicked on a video that you post since then. It is very profound, going through some battles inside and figuring stuff out. This really helped. Thanks 🙏🏽

  • @phantompayne8248
    @phantompayne8248 2 дня назад +2

    Your timing couldn't be more perfect, thank you

  • @jenniferrosebruce6385
    @jenniferrosebruce6385 2 дня назад

    Impeccable timing of this subject matter. I thank you for your attention, once again. Love from Bangkok Thailand😊

  • @ijustwannabeatpeace
    @ijustwannabeatpeace 2 дня назад +6

    Your videos are one of the few things that's keeping my sanity in this world.
    Thank you!
    P.S: Read Self-Reliance By Emerson, Great stuff.

  • @AshleyvanDyke
    @AshleyvanDyke 2 дня назад +1

    Thank you for another real and heartfelt message

  • @sayeeda2545
    @sayeeda2545 2 дня назад +2

    I am unable to process why every video you post especially from past 3 months I resonate to next level .. ofcourse Almighty is pleased with you that he sent words through you for my peace .. Subhaan Allah. Stay blessed you pure soul. Yeah started reading new book and added few of habits to my routine.

    • @mataram9819
      @mataram9819 День назад

      I think the same too ! His video help me a lot, i think Allah just want me to learn Wisdom from him.
      Allah bless u mr universe
      Salam from lombok Island, Indonesia.

    • @sayeeda2545
      @sayeeda2545 День назад

      @@mataram9819 Ameen for Mr universe .. May Allah bless you and have peace and mercy upon you!

  • @anushreerai4012
    @anushreerai4012 2 дня назад +1

    Loved the quote by Emerson! Although I gotta say that the human delusion/ arrogance was elegantly mocked by "Are you not aware?..." Gosh, the tones are everything. Amazing content!

  • @winsie_w-m6l
    @winsie_w-m6l 2 дня назад +1

    I've recently met someone new and it's been awhile since I've had involvement. So now I'm under the pressure of my own thoughts as to what I think the outcome should be! Overthinking the expectations which leaves me feeling uneasy... instead of just trusting the flow of the experience.,

  • @yazan2025
    @yazan2025 2 дня назад

    Your videos keep coming at the right time; it feels that it's in tune with my life story. I just moved to Berlin; I've left everything behind me, and I am starting a new life. I know that in many years I will revisit this comment and admire these tough times that I am going through right now. I truly wish you the best, Many thanks.

  • @ITcourage369
    @ITcourage369 20 часов назад

    Thank you for sharing the wisdom in this video!

  • @douaaberroho7893
    @douaaberroho7893 2 дня назад +1

    This is similar to an islamic concept called "Qadaa' & Qadr" -literally translating to Predestination & Divine Destination, it's a fancier way to designate Past & Future Fate. Surrender, acceptance, and submission to Qadaa' & Qadr is one of the 7 cornerstones of imaan (meaning belief). It means you believe that once your will and efforts enacted, God (or the Universe) would act in your favor, and that whatever fate insues from it, itwould be good in some way, either serving as a lesson or stepping stone to something greater.
    As timely and as poignant as usual. Keep up the good work!

  • @ainslie187
    @ainslie187 2 дня назад +1

    An Emerson quote that stuck with me: “Society never advances. It recedes as fast on one side as it gains on the other. It undergoes continual changes; it is barbarous, it is civilized, it is christianized, it is rich, it is scientific; but this change is not amelioration. For every thing that is given, something is taken." I mention it here because the temporal world seems fundamentally paradoxical and absurd to me (which is why this quote stuck in my head), and in light of this view I do find it difficult to have expectations to a large extent. I do have expectations and hope for realizing a fuller, more "spiritual" existence (ie. without paradox) at some point but I don't have much hope for that expectation coming to fruition on Earth.

  • @MaybeMazi
    @MaybeMazi 2 дня назад

    The timing was so right 🙏🏻 thank you

  • @SoyYoLot
    @SoyYoLot 21 час назад

    I needed to hear this because I am angry, resentful and sad about the fact that I only wanted my elderly mother and I to have one of the best times of our lives by taking her to her first international trip to Europe but it ended badly because a month before our trip she had a mini stroke that led her to become disabled. I still pushed for it so on our second week she broke her hip when I left her waiting for thirty minutes. It never occurred to me that someone disabled was still going to break a bone! I lost her 4 months after her operation.

  • @arieblock2337
    @arieblock2337 2 дня назад

    Just when I needed this most, you uploaded it. Thank you my friend

  • @suffocator8787
    @suffocator8787 2 дня назад

    I am starting law studies, and I am afraid that I might not be intelligent enough for them or that this path might not be right for me. I intend to write down this quote and look at it as often as possible to keep it as my inspiration: 'Are you not aware that you are not allowed to go? If you are not equally willing to be prevented from going.' Thank you.

  • @Diya-ht2ue
    @Diya-ht2ue День назад

    Isn't it natural to expect a little care & love..honesty & trust in return if they claim a special place in my heart?
    I remember i cried my heart out everytime my dad forgot to wish me on my birthday.. i felt hurt. Because i expected? Of course i will.. i don't wanna overburden anyone with a lot of expectations but we can't deny the little things of life affect us. I consoled myself thinking may be he is getting older.. but i know he loves me a lot. After thinking like this in every situation whether it's my dad or friends or anyone i believe i've learnt to respond better. But i cry alone & just pretend it's alright 😂
    Bdw i have just started reading a book called "Nausea" by Jean Paul Sartre. As i always say, your videos are so effective & inspiring. I hope you know that. Thank you 😊

  • @7lexanderp634
    @7lexanderp634 2 дня назад

    Thanks for providing the links to the seneca letters on the newsletter 😁

  • @Chrisoric
    @Chrisoric 2 дня назад

    Your videos are incredible! Thank you!
    I'm gonna continue to advance towards advancement now.

  • @babenabe5849
    @babenabe5849 2 дня назад

    I love your views and I'm so glad I found your channel

  • @margaridavelhinho1618
    @margaridavelhinho1618 2 дня назад

    I big thank you from Portugal.

  • @melodyvonsmith745
    @melodyvonsmith745 2 дня назад

    I've heard a similar idea, expressed as "don't be attached to the outcome." Yes I want this, but the "journey" - be that writing a book, or making a new friend, or starting a business - the act of doing those things, participating in those things, should be its own reward. Interesting and enjoyable. That way, we are going about enjoying ourselves, exploring our universe, and if our desires and expectations do come true it's a bonus.

  • @oneyedeagle
    @oneyedeagle 2 дня назад +1

    Are you aware that you are not allowed to go if you’re not equally willing to be prevented from going. This one will stick with me, thanks for sharing this amazing quote by Emerson

  • @DavidB.Fischer
    @DavidB.Fischer 2 дня назад

    Our anger stems from past trauma, perhaps. Also our angers reflected by our own experience and different situations with others, but it’s not necessarily how we feel, but our feelings are valid. We just don’t know how to express them at times.

  • @margaridavelhinho1618
    @margaridavelhinho1618 2 дня назад

    Encontrei o seu canal há poucos dias e já vi muitos dos seus vídeos. A sua calma e o modo claro como expõe as suas ideias, para além da sabedoria nelas encerrada, é uma grande ajuda para nós. Neste caso respondem precisamente a uma situação pela qual passo. Obrigada novamente.

  • @ayyyowill2803
    @ayyyowill2803 2 дня назад +1

    Perfect timing once again

  • @oriolvinasalvarez646
    @oriolvinasalvarez646 2 дня назад

    Accepting the universe's universal standard helps us progress, whether our plans succeed or not.

  • @Calm_n_Clear
    @Calm_n_Clear День назад +1

    Expect, but wear the vest of your expectations lightly.

  • @michaelcerafan1
    @michaelcerafan1 2 дня назад

    just started learning japanese, perfect timing. i definitely have expectations of what certain things should like like with me learning japanese

  • @RupertMcGruber
    @RupertMcGruber День назад

    Have expectations, but don't be attached to particular outcomes.

  • @anabreseneuman
    @anabreseneuman 2 дня назад

    Its a good point, we can give things our best shot but some things are not meant to be, and perhaps we are being redirected, like the saying, 'rejection is god's protection' - but no matter what we aim for, we are always further on, more expanded and having learned many lessons on the way.

  • @productanalysis5291
    @productanalysis5291 2 дня назад +1

    Silence. Time for wisdom. Will press start now.

  • @lizaa_sarkar
    @lizaa_sarkar 2 дня назад

    Thank You 🤍

  • @MatcDesiGn
    @MatcDesiGn 2 дня назад +1

    I just got a dog to take care of, and it is as scary as it is fullfilling

  • @MrBboyle1
    @MrBboyle1 2 дня назад

    One can still have goals and ambitions without expectations (i.e. without being attached to the outcome)

  • @foodchainer2722
    @foodchainer2722 День назад +1

    Hi. Stop scrolling and focus.

  • @SeekingSikhiStories
    @SeekingSikhiStories 2 дня назад

    We are allowed to, and should, have ambitions and expectations, and of course opinions (because the two former concepts cannot exist without the latter). However, we need not concern ourselves with the outcomes of such endeavours - if we do our “best” with the resources and knowledge we have at our disposal. The outcomes are ultimately decided by the Universe; whichever name with which you choose to refer to “it.”
    ✌🏼💜🙏🏼

  • @Kuk_24
    @Kuk_24 День назад

    what a powerful episode

  • @elmarnigmatullin4490
    @elmarnigmatullin4490 2 дня назад

    Thanks for your words Disney Prince. Right on time.

  • @relatableshorts24
    @relatableshorts24 2 дня назад

    God bless him

  • @mianzainuddin9784
    @mianzainuddin9784 2 дня назад

    Quite extraordinary! I'm taking a big risk chasing a dream, and this grounded as well as motivated me. Even if I 'fail', I'll still end up somewhere on the path. Also, if anyone could elaborate a bit on 'the universal standard', it'd clear up things for me even more, even though I feel I get the gist of it.

  • @valerioc2464
    @valerioc2464 2 дня назад

    This is just what I needed

  • @margaretmcgregor5686
    @margaretmcgregor5686 2 дня назад

    I love this one philosophy man - i haven't read Emerson yet but that quote is mind blowing! I wonder how many writers i can be reading at the same time? Seneca and Marcus Aurelius provide immediate results and I have begun Epictetus this week since I am on the second reading of Aurelius. It's a whole new world. I will be forever grateful to you philosophy man 😊 from Scotland

  • @camdarling6423
    @camdarling6423 2 дня назад +1

    This is very unrelated to the video, but I would love to see a house tour.

  • @ĐinhHưngTrọng
    @ĐinhHưngTrọng День назад

    this format really suits me

  • @yasesaka
    @yasesaka 2 дня назад

    Just.. Thanks, as I always tell you! :)

  • @ChungLinhLam
    @ChungLinhLam День назад

    love this

  • @georgi.torres1189
    @georgi.torres1189 2 дня назад

    once we try and let go of the outcomes life is a pleasure

  • @megganvandermast8441
    @megganvandermast8441 2 дня назад

    A beautifully said message. To clarify, Emerson who you refer is Ralph Waldo Emerson?

  • @pratapdas8116
    @pratapdas8116 День назад

    Sir are you writing on substack? that platform is built for people like you.

  • @joshuadedokun
    @joshuadedokun День назад

    could someone give an explanation of the Emerson quote? "Are you not aware that you are not allowed to go if you are not equally willing to be prevented from going?" i have a very surface-level understanding, but i'm not grasping the deeper meaning.

  • @Dew_2080
    @Dew_2080 2 дня назад

    Love from Egypt❤❤

  • @KristinAngelee
    @KristinAngelee 2 дня назад

    Well done.

  • @favOriTe-v6e
    @favOriTe-v6e 2 дня назад

    perfect timing

  • @the_twinkling_aishwarya
    @the_twinkling_aishwarya 2 дня назад +1

    ☀️

  • @parneetsingh3499
    @parneetsingh3499 2 дня назад

    Great vid❤

  • @daolinchen
    @daolinchen 2 дня назад +1

    life never meets the plan, accept it - a quote by me, the German Daoist Daolinchen

  • @gentillygirl545
    @gentillygirl545 2 дня назад

    In order to form a more perfect union.

  • @DorMeles
    @DorMeles 2 дня назад

    Every time your vids strike a chord!

  • @Djellowman
    @Djellowman 2 дня назад

    I can't lower my standard and can't accept what is happening to me. Resentment seems like the only option

  • @NoahBarkley
    @NoahBarkley 2 дня назад

    So good! Thank you. Sounds like you caught a cold? If so, hope you feel better....but no expectations ;-P

  • @homa_ghaiedi2626
    @homa_ghaiedi2626 2 дня назад

    I hope I can have an in person conversation with you someday!

  • @bradgers92
    @bradgers92 2 дня назад

    Conceit means that you have a concept, you should know that nothing that exists, including ideas, are unreasonable. Nothing happens for no reason.

  • @samar1462
    @samar1462 2 дня назад +1

    What does the quote mean? Could you plz explain what you understood from it?
    Great video anyway!

    • @shreyasmohan23
      @shreyasmohan23 2 дня назад

      You can go somewhere only if you are willing to go

  • @animalfarm8560
    @animalfarm8560 2 дня назад

    I'm starting a new day

  • @juliemay-k2w
    @juliemay-k2w 2 дня назад

    hello, I hope this reaches you only. But, a couple videos ago, you mentioned Virtue. Did you know that aligns with Harvard Law's ideal "applicant" ?

  • @bhumiandmusic
    @bhumiandmusic 2 дня назад +2

    What if you have goals but not the gear?

    • @r.g6170
      @r.g6170 2 дня назад +1

      great question

    • @PrinceJha-fz4cv
      @PrinceJha-fz4cv 2 дня назад +4

      Focus in what is in your control. Lack the gear? Improvise and Adapt to the best of your ability.
      Still couldn't achieve the best possible? Be content knowing that you did all you could and inculcate indifference towards the outcome.
      May you find peace in the journey ahead. Wishing you strength and clarity in all you do

  • @adarshgeorge6860
    @adarshgeorge6860 2 дня назад

    Hey please new video for books on philosophy or whatever you like to suggest us

  • @mizb.7777
    @mizb.7777 2 дня назад

    ❤yes….

  • @skandeRfps
    @skandeRfps 2 дня назад

    Or have we advanced to acceptance if our expectations don't come true?

  • @pavana9188
    @pavana9188 День назад

    you mentioned beautifully but some say to come up with causes n ideas which bend the universe. so, am confused