I'm in a similar divorce situation and am certainly no feminist, although I am a very strong woman. I cry when I watch your videos, for you, your children, me and my children, and the men who should be with us and are no longer. We push through though, our Eternal Husband and Lover of our souls, (not in a creepy way,) is Jesus. He will sustain us and give us strength. I love you, your courage and your strength. You have friends out here, Bri.
I feel the same way, although I have a husband he’s a workaholic. I am just so in pressed and urged inside to grow my own food and to share with my friends when I watch you and your family it makes me happy you are strong I am strong I have my own story, I am praying for you and your family and I pray bountiful blessings upon your garden in Jesus name
Ohh so many hard situations like this, my heart goes out to you as well. My prayers for you to get through a though time this to shell pass. In Jesus you have hope He will never forsake you 🙏 🤗
Bri, when you decided to keep going on RUclips, I continued to watch out of dedication and support. I thought there would be little content for a retired woman with no kids or grandkids. But woman, you ROCK this channel! Every episode has had applicable content. And I enjoy watching you grow stronger and more confident! You are an inspiration for women of all ages and background! Bless you and your family!
Bri!! That real moment when you stopped to grieve for the loss of a partner to do life with was everything. Recently divorced myself and while I pride myself on handling all the things ….. I do stop to cry and grieve that loss all the time. And then just keep going❤
Props to you for putting the wagons together even when you hate it. It's a lesson for all of us. You're going great! May God continue to give you strength.
You're doing awesome, Bri. I garden on a much larger scale than most. I'm 56 and married. But, he doesn't help hardly at all. Begging for help is no fun either. You've GOT THIS!! The Most High knows your mission!! You're going to succeed!!!!
I was a single mom without the help of brothers or parents/family to help out. It was hard and I often felt pretty hopeless and depressed. I faced many challenges alone. But things do get better. When you put that cart together.....I connected on a deep level that look and that feeling, and pulling myself out of despair. For my children. It's empowering to master accomplishments! Keep going Bri ❤️🩹❤
I had four. I was a single mom even before my divorce. I quickly learned I can do anything I set my mind to. But take help when it’s offered. Remember too, you cannot be all things to all people. You need to take time to love yourself. Let me tell you even with all my parental mistakes; All my kiddos grew up and are productive members of society; great parents; and even though they are spread out from Indiana to Fl; they are still very close and we have a family vacation every year. You can do this!
Bri, you have been so hard on yourself. Please be kind.You didn’t sign up for what you have been dealt with, it was not your choice. You have experienced trauma. One step at a time, one day at a time,one week at a time. Life moves forward and you are too. Look what you accomplished for yourself. Although not your choice, you are rocking this girl. Be proud
Bri, you are such a beautiful soul and you truly are a woman of great grace. I was in a similar situation as you are when my children were young. When I see how you handle yourself and how patient, loving, and kind you are in the midst of your grief and struggles, I am truly inspired. I don’t know what happened to Arthur, and you probably don’t, either. I never could understand what happened to my ex husband. What I do know is you are handling this situation so much better than I did when I walked through the same thing. Sadly, so many women go through this, and you are setting a great example how to push through it with a kind and positive attitude. God bless.
I, too have made many mistakes in grief and anger and fear and pain. Bri makes grace and beauty look effortless and for that I applaud her. However God is using my past not so gracious attitude to shape my life and my children's life today. He makes beauty for ashes every time.
You are right, so many women go through this, i did in my 30's and my daughter has gone through it twice, incredibly. She has two children, one from each marriage. She is really struggling right now, a full year after her second divorce. Both men have been very little help. Her father got worse and worse as he got older---not better. So many lost men. I often wonder WHY.
@@ritasmallwood1605 yes, recently Bri said that Art was seeing the kids. I am new to this channel and my heart breaks for Bri but she has wonderful kids and i trust she will get through this. It's intensely private and i hope she keeps much of her privacy. She deserves all the best.
My 18m old loves watching your videos with me. She knows you have the twins and when they show up she says, baby! And even when it’s just you she runs over to listen.
It must be heartbreaking for Art to watch these videos and see how amazing you’re doing with your family and new life. I pray he can heal and God brings home back to you to be the husband and father he was supposed to be. ❤
I just don’t understand it all. If he’s not doing well now there’s a great chance with the right help he’ll get better. I don’t know what the situation is but I would think that Art would do better with the support of his family instead of without. It makes me sad. I can’t even imagine how Bri does it all but I think for the next Halloween she should definitely be Superwoman!
@@dianee7778 I am a firm believer that the spirit world is very real. It looks to me that their family is under spiritual attack. I’m keeping them in my prayers hope they will be delivered. Most Christians today don’t realize that demons attack and need to be cast out. It would explain the mental issues he’s having. Church wake up, the Holy Spirit is a mighty power that can and should be used to fight against evil. Read the book of Acts.
I remember the snake video LOL BUT can't blame you one bit. On my homestead, last year was the worst by far so i ended up carrying a small shovel spade with me everywhere! AND had NO MERCY when I was cutting the grass !! Just seeing one leaves me shaky and weak in the knees ... Bri- SO GOOD to see that smile, it's what I call a TRUE smile for what makes you HAPPY - KEEP IT UP
As soon as you started explaining laying the tarps I remember the snake bed videos I'm thinking oh my gosh Who's gonna step up and take care of them if they're any God forbid 🤔
I used to feel like you about the strong independent woman when my marriage of 23 years went down the pan. Like you I have 7 kids, last two are twins too. Now 9 years post marriage I actually love being single. My relationship with their dad is amicable and my kids are grown now and happy. You will be OK. Your kids will be OK. ((( huge hugs))
I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR! Helen Reddy, song, Sing it Bri ! I love gardening it grounds you, and it is solitude in its own way. Go Strong Girl, you got this. Kids give the best hugs.🙏
So exciting to see you in the garden again. I'm so glad you have John to help you with this. I have followed him for years with the Veteran's Healing Farm. God bless you all as your new garden takes shape. I can remember all the blood, sweat and tears and love you put into your beautiful garden at your farm. Can't wait to watch this one's transformation! Enjoy! Enjoy!!!😊😊❤❤🍓🐓🌻🍉🍏🍇🥕🥔🥑🍅🌽🌶🥒🥬🥦🍄
I just wanted to send you some love and encouragement...I'm so proud of you for being able to move forward....I'm a mom of 6, going through cancer, and five of my kiddos have special needs....I understand what it's like to feel overwhelmed when life throws you a hurdle that seems insurmountable...keep moving forward, God will provide....may not be how you expected it to be but each day is a new beginning....I'm an avid gardener and literally believe that Jesus used a garden when he needed to renew....you got this! I hope the kids are able to understand that none of this situation is their fault and that they see the strength in you. Blessings to you and the kiddos!! Good job, momma!
I love seeing you going on. My heart HURTS for you and I really do miss Art. This is none of my business but I am also a mother and a gardener and I think your mid summer self would thank your spring self if you do woven weed fabric down. ❤
Long time subscriber … I remember!! 🐍 Suburban garden = no snakes!! (Probably) So that’s an upside! Thank you for deciding to continue YT. I know this is a hard season of life and yet you are blessed and it’s uplifting to see.
Hello Bree. I'm a long time follower from when y'all first started your channel. I remember anxiously awaiting the news when baby Wilder was born it seemed like you didn't post for 2 days... And of course the twins. My husband and I dreamed of selling our house and buying a small farm or homestead but in the midst of that he had cancer and after a 3-year battle he passed away. When he died, my kids were 5, 7, 10, 12 and 15. It's been 3 years... But it's really hard to single parent. I'm much more motivated to work alongside with. I was definitely created to be a helper completer. I'm so excited to watch you start your garden from scratch. I feel like every year I'm starting from scratch. We have a food forest but every year I feel like I'm battling the weeds. We got our fruit trees and berry trees planted just a few months before my husband died, but he did all the planning in the layout. Our goal is to not mow or even weed whack and the food forest but that was just an invitation for weeds to take over. I think I'm going to try to do a silage tarp and several areas that I want to kill down. Even if it just sits and kills out in the sun and I plant it meant to late summer that would be much better than fighting the weeds year-round. I bought my first plants today and I hope to get my cabbage and broccoli and lettuce in the ground. We have about 50 chickens and 50 rabbits on our 2 acre lot in Roanoke Virginia, so I plan to dump lot of rabbit poop and make beds like you are. It's hard to motivate myself to clean house or do yard work alone. I do much better when I hire a friend to come out and help me. The trail life troop that my husband helped found came and did a whole day work project on Saturday and built me a shed and did a lot of major reading and trailer full of mulch. It was a huge blessing. Sometimes I think about if I had a RUclips channel what sort of content would I have. I think knowing that I had to produce some content would be good accountability to actually get up and do some stuff. I'm so proud of you for continuing. I think there's a lot of story to be told and people care about hearing how a single mom is able to manage juggling a lot of hats. Thanks for keeping it real and helping us see that it's possible to persevere even in the rough times. Blessings to you. You're not alone
It’s my garden therapy! I feel after my daughter passed from car wreck at 29 years and then my son-in-law passed 1 1/2 years later leaving 2 small children…that I would never feel again. My garden slowly has brought me to joy and happiness again. And of course along with prayer and reliance on the true god. I can truly say gardening is a blessing! So proud of you Bri and your precious family!!! Big hugs sweet lady!!! 💖😊🍓🫐🥦🍆🌶️🍅🥕
i'm so sorry for your losses, it sounds similar to my family, two car accidents (fatal) and brain cancer, within 10 years (all young victims). Peace be with you.
Bri, I agree. It is so nice to have a partner in life. I consider myself to be a strong, 'independent' woman in that I can do most things myself and enjoy doing so, but at the same time can rely on my husband for any help I need and am always available to help him out as well. You are doing a Fantastic job with your new home, garden and of course all your sweet kids. We could feel your excitement for your garden and the thoughts of what you will turn it in to. I feel the same way each Spring about my garden.
Lol Caught myself with a huge smile watching your garden birth. Lol. I get the joy!! I could give up a lot of animals, if I could just keep the peace and joy of a garden. ❤️🥰
I was SO glad the wind did not kick up when you were putting out the silage tarps! I felt like a kite tail when I put mine out last week 🪁🪁🪁🪁Great job with the carts. You will stretch and grow in ways you never dreamed possible. You can do ALL things through Christ who gives you strength!
It was very beautiful how you acknowledged how you missed your husband. Pointing out how men and women complement each other. The Lord's grace be with you and Art.
I feel that way sometimes also Bri. Just know it is only a season in our lives. You have a wonderful family and friends. We don’t always have to be so strong; it is ok to ask for help. God bless you sweet lady.
God is with you sister! So proud of all that you are handling and with great boundaries and wisdom. The closest I ever came was when my husband deployed for a year at a time. Oh how I felt that scene where you were unboxing the wagon cart. I learned in his absence that I was more capable than I had given myself credit for, and it caused me to appreciate him more. Hugs. Keep pressing on girl! I love watching your videos!
I remember the snakes at your old garden when you guys were lifting up the tarps and Grace not being afraid of them. Blessings to you, your family and your new garden! 🤗
My mom is a Scandinavian midwesterner (who married a guy from Brooklyn and created a wonderfully diverse life together!) would love you- she always says “use it up, wear it out, do with it or do without.” It is from the depression- I think it was my grandmother who ingrained that in her head. Watching you use what you have and make your current life into such a beautiful experience for your kids is really remarkable. I grieve your loss of your partner for you. You are the picture of grace. Thank you for sharing with us!
Honestly you look so happy at this moment. And I am so happy to see it. And I have used rocks in my garden. Sometimes the best things are free. I always look forward to my garden. It frees me up and brings me so much happiness. And it's wonderful to see it does that for you too. God bless
Oh Bri. I remember watching your video of your last garden as you guys scooped up buckets and buckets of rocks from the garden in order to get it going. A fan of yours for 5 years now. I also left a home with. A garden we worked so hard on. I left perennials, and fruit trees I've cried over since the move. Now I'm waiting to have the budget to fence our garden and property since we have tons and tons of deer and racoons.
Love your step by step, practical approach to jumpstarting your garden. Lots of folks can use this way to get growing in manageable stages, and build towards more costly goals like no til and raised beds. Thank you for sharing your journey and being real about the challenges!
Now that the garden is laid out like that it's huge and you still got more space for the kids to run around. So glad your getting a garden again. I dream of a day where I can do something even if it's a potted garden. Fingers crossed i get space one day. Can't wait to see what your garden looks like with plants
I'm so enjoying your channel again! So glad you decided to keep it going!! Love seeing your garden come together, and thankful you have wonderful friends to help!
Bri, I'm a long hauler, been here since the beginning on RUclips. First I must say, your strength and determination is amazing. Your kids will learn more value in that than anything. Second, that's suburban gardening? No,no...that's country living! The area looks very peaceful 😌 ❤
Never underestimate what you can do when needed. Our daughter is now a single parent of two kids, and I am amazed and so proud of what she has learned to do on your own. Besides baseball games, volleyball, and piano lessons she keeps up with her home and landscaping. She knows it is what it is and you shake your head and carry on.
Your stronger then you know and way smarter then most in the important things of life . Super Momma !Love the new garden area. Praying for a bumper crop of fresh food .
Your house is not a disaster at all! 💜it's a Home. Piles of clean clothes are better then piles of dirty clothes. I'm commenting about your newest video 💜your home really isn't that bad at all. On a normal day my home looks like yours 😜. I have 2 kids and my place has looked far worse then yours lol. Anyone who has anything negative to say to you about your home most likely don't have 7kids💜Go easy on yourself, your doing the best you can.
MAMAS UNITE!! Can we all please find a video of hers to share online? We need to get her views to an average of 100k so she can be monetized and sponsored!! I noticed her subscriber to viewer ratio is wayyy off!!
I love that porch. Crocheting and knitting and reading! And while doing that, babies playing and running around. That is called time out. Don't forget to take a half hour or so for a time out. Helps to keep one's nerves level.❤
One of the things I appreciate is that you remind us that we can (and should, IMHO) think about what solutions, tools, and outside the box thinking we can apply to our own contexts to help us reach our own goals. A great reminder to keep our eyes on the goal ( and God) and not get stuck in the process. Like you, we are going thru a rebirth of sorts-our home burned down last spring. This spring, instead of gardening, I will be overseeing the foundation work and placement of the structure and hopefully the build out so we will can have our home back. I choose to feel blessed that we will be able to move into our own home, even if that means a very small garden effort. Blessings on you and your family.
I feel for you... March 22nd middle of the night , my house burned : ( 39 years there, raised my babies, and others as I did in home babysitting. Lost my kitten, a beautiful 'retired' husky and two little hens in a henden in the porch, treating them for sour crop, I can't rebuild, I cureently have a camper and oversee my gardens and the rest of the homestead, it's because of Bri that I knew to do the camper thing
@@katehopkinsbrent5573 I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru this. Our rebuilding process will be very modest ( think 800 sq ft instead of 2400 sq ft) but we’re choosing to recognize that’s what we need to do at this time in our lives. I don’t see how it will all play out and I’m pretty sure it won’t look like the picture in My head but I’m ok with not having a magazine worthy house- I’ll just appreciate having my own space back. It has been a true Godsend to be able to stay with relatives locally, but there is something about having your own space. Best wishes to you on your journey.
@@lindakurtz2653 awwwww THANK YOU : ) Not likely to rebuild for me, BUT the land is HOME. I have the small camper too so stay the summer to tend gardens, and hens, goats and just be home... my Husky Sorcha actaully emotionally completely healed once we went and stayed in the camper... firemen brought her out the next morning... found her on my bed with her dear little face between the pillows. I had hold of her a few times that night but couldn't get her high enough to get her out the window. The smoke was thick and I couldn't see her and then couldn't feel her anywhere, the vet called next day at the motel saying they had her and she was doing very good. GOD BE THANKED. Im good with just the camper, maybe buildon a small room to house my wood stove THEN I can stay year round
I so feel you Bri! I hate doing computer work for my business…but I’m embracing it! I decided to embrace everything I don’t like doing, I’m embracing snakes and crocodiles and I’m embracing apps, pins and passwords! Even financial info. I feel it’s my lesson for this stage! I’m saying you and I are in this together!! And this stage will pass too! Love you!
Bri you might like having an au pair or Workaway volunteers to come help you. It could be enrichment for the kids to meet adults from other places and give you a couple more eyes and hands in exchange for room and board.
Gardens are so fulfilling and wonderful. I started my tiny greenhouse about two weeks ago, so now my greens are coming up. Five color silver beets and red lettuce and Tom thumb lettuce. And cabbage.and cucumbers. But I have to start other things like tomatoes. And pumpkins. I found out a trick for me last year on pickles. My pickles use to be soft and I fixed that last year. I wasn't putting in enough huge grape leaves!. Our big tiller died three years back so we will have to wing it again by hand. God bless your garden bri'. ❤️🥦🌼🍓🍅
I definitely see your point about the strong woman movement being overrated BUT what I also think is super overrated is staying in relationships when the goals, values, love, passion, responsibilities, etc., are not shared. I've seen so many people struggle to manage more than their reasonable share and it is not only exhausting physically, it is exhausting mentally and emotionally. It takes so much strength and courage to do it alone but it is possible. And you are killing it Bri. I admire you a lot and know your children will appreciate it in the future. Much love to you all 💛
Bri, it’s ok to grieve what you’ve lost. You don’t need anybody’s permission for that but sometimes we need to hear it from outside ourselves. You got this! It’s hard but you got it!
I wish people wouldn't make people feel bad about the "way" they garden, if you are trying and are growing food for your family you are doing good, whether you till, do raised beds, do organic non gmo, or have to do what you need to protect your crop from pests, etc. Do what you can with what you have and the Lord will bless you in your efforts, Just do your part and he will do the rest! #HAPPYGARDENING #JESUSLOVESYALL
Girl your weaknesses are about to become your new Super Strengths!!!!! Just as they have to get you this point of providing for your family and creating a safe heaven for them ❤️❤️❤️ I love your channel and you inspire all women ✌️❤️☀️
I’m so happy for you ❤ God is good and little by little you’re doing it girl keep it up you’re not alone the great I’m the king of kings is by your side, and he has blessed you with great friends ❤️🙏🏻blessings for you and your beautiful kids love you all ❤️🙏🏻
All I can say is that you are amazing lady. God Bless you and your children. My husband would help you in a heart beat if we were your neighbours but alas we live in the frozen country of Alberta Canada. No gardening here for along while. Hugs
Bri, what a inspiration you are. I love how the Lord has supported you with strength, wisdom, and love. What a wonderful God we have. I am so sorry for the hardship. Please get your rest and pampering. I love your channel. I love your knowledge, patience, wisdom, and how you bring a calmness to even a watcher of videos. Take care hun!
You are such an amazingly strong woman! I can't tell you how happy it makes my heart to see you doing so well and all your kids are doing great! Stay strong!
I have a husband but…… he is against my farm and won’t help with anything. I guess the harder it is for me in his mind the quicker I will give it up. But my animals and caring for them has saved me from my own mental health issues. I do everything myself. Even if it’s too heavy or I don’t have the knowledge. Even though I hate gardening and he is very good at it I’ve decided to do that on my own too. All because you inspire me. We can do hard things.
Hi Bri, I just found you and ironically just spent the day in my veggie garden - the first in my first home. I too am a single mum (only one though!). THE STRUGGLE IS REAL. I work full time and just finished a Masters degree so I now have the time to get my garden setup after two years in the house. You’ll finding me checking in with you constantly - good luck to you and the kidlets.
Strength, healing and love to you and children. I went through the same thing when my children were young with God it was day by day. Some good days and some not so good. Hard choice s sometimes but God Made a way. You are in my prayers Bri, ❤🙏
As your children, especially boys grow older they will be a huge help putting things together for you. It’s hard now while they are so small, but take heart your boys (and possibly your girls too!) will be able to confidently do these sorts of projects for you. When I was divorced my son was 7 and by the time he was 12 he was doing these sorts of things and later there was nothing that boy couldn’t do!
Bri, you are an inspiration and a blessing. As a middle aged woman with a disabled husband and son I morn the loss of partnership we had. At the onset of the pandemic I moved us to a farm and my dream has been slow to progress but your perseverance through such a loss has boughtback the motivation and I am trying to match your garden progress. I started with the animals and am working back towards the garden. New calves are due in the next month and my milking cow will be back in. We are eating lots of eggs, chicken and ducks. Thank you for sharing, it means more than you know 💞
I love putting things together but gardening isn't my favorite thing. I'm a good helper and not afraid of hard work but I know exactly what you mean. We don't NEED that complimentary person, but we WANT them. You got this,You go mama!
Looks great, we use rocks, we live in the Catskills, 1 part dirt 20 part rock, lol😂😂. Great kids and the garden looks wonderful. Blessings, I am psyched once our snow is gone, we are in the middle of this crazy northeaster.
All I feel is love ❤️ when I watch your videos 📹 ♥️, love for family , love for your blessings, love for the hope for a amazing caring future, stay strong, you have the victory, you are an overcomer ❤️, 😊👍💕💕💕
I'm so excited for you Bri. Gardening is my happy place too. And knowing that I'm growing good food for my family is priceless. So worth the sweat and time that we put into it. I so want to have a bonfire now and do hotdogs over it. Looked so yummy!! Have a great rest of your week. You got this you're doing an amazing job!!
I find that tasks that used to be my partner's responsibility take double the effort because not only are you learning something new but you are grieving too.
I like the idea of the 6 tarps too! I totally get what you're saying about having the flexibility of covering/uncovering one or more portions of the garden as needed. Keeping it covered is so important to the soil health. I'm looking forward to seeing your garden grow this year!
Bri, I wondered during initial planning if the walking rows would be wide enough. They seemed much more narrow than you used at the farm. Air circulation between rows will help minimize pests. In this video when you said the cart shouldn’t go down, maybe you were just talking right now but I’ve found my cart to be the minimum width for walking rows. I only mention this because you’ve suggested or said spacing isn’t your strongest suit. I so admire your dedication to staying calm and present with your children. A subject for a video your audience might enjoying hearing more about.
That looks awesome!!! I cannot wait until all of the snow is gone here so I can get outside. I love seeing the kids help! I look forward to my grandkids helping me. My 3 year old grandson was my watering helper last year!
I'm in a similar divorce situation and am certainly no feminist, although I am a very strong woman. I cry when I watch your videos, for you, your children, me and my children, and the men who should be with us and are no longer. We push through though, our Eternal Husband and Lover of our souls, (not in a creepy way,) is Jesus. He will sustain us and give us strength. I love you, your courage and your strength. You have friends out here, Bri.
AMEN, so beautifully said❤.
I feel the same way, although I have a husband he’s a workaholic. I am just so in pressed and urged inside to grow my own food and to share with my friends when I watch you and your family it makes me happy you are strong I am strong I have my own story, I am praying for you and your family and I pray bountiful blessings upon your garden in Jesus name
Amen. 🙏
Ohh so many hard situations like this, my heart goes out to you as well. My prayers for you to get through a though time this to shell pass. In Jesus you have hope He will never forsake you 🙏 🤗
What a nice post ❤
Bri, when you decided to keep going on RUclips, I continued to watch out of dedication and support. I thought there would be little content for a retired woman with no kids or grandkids.
But woman, you ROCK this channel! Every episode has had applicable content. And I enjoy watching you grow stronger and more confident! You are an inspiration for women of all ages and background!
Bless you and your family!
Thank you so much!!
What a kind and thoughtful comment! I feel the same way!
I concur with this 100 percent
Totally agree! ❤
YES! Ma'am she does, doesn't she. :)
Bri!! That real moment when you stopped to grieve for the loss of a partner to do life with was everything. Recently divorced myself and while I pride myself on handling all the things ….. I do stop to cry and grieve that loss all the time. And then just keep going❤
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Props to you for putting the wagons together even when you hate it. It's a lesson for all of us. You're going great! May God continue to give you strength.
Your face was glowing not by the sun but with happiness when you said, " I'm starting my garden". God bless you and your family.❤
You are inspiring with such a big garden.. I use a little tikes children's wagon. Instead of silage tarps, I got a really big black /silver tarp.
So sweet, I love seeing that glow from Bri she is so special to our family
You're doing awesome, Bri. I garden on a much larger scale than most. I'm 56 and married. But, he doesn't help hardly at all. Begging for help is no fun either. You've GOT THIS!! The Most High knows your mission!! You're going to succeed!!!!
I was a single mom without the help of brothers or parents/family to help out. It was hard and I often felt pretty hopeless and depressed. I faced many challenges alone. But things do get better. When you put that cart together.....I connected on a deep level that look and that feeling, and pulling myself out of despair. For my children. It's empowering to master accomplishments! Keep going Bri ❤️🩹❤
I had four. I was a single mom even before my divorce. I quickly learned I can do anything I set my mind to. But take help when it’s offered. Remember too, you cannot be all things to all people. You need to take time to love yourself. Let me tell you even with all my parental mistakes; All my kiddos grew up and are productive members of society; great parents; and even though they are spread out from Indiana to Fl; they are still very close and we have a family vacation every year. You can do this!
Bri, you have been so hard on yourself. Please be kind.You didn’t sign up for what you have been dealt with, it was not your choice. You have experienced trauma. One step at a time, one day at a time,one week at a time. Life moves forward and you are too. Look what you accomplished for yourself. Although not your choice, you are rocking this girl. Be proud
Bri, you are such a beautiful soul and you truly are a woman of great grace. I was in a similar situation as you are when my children were young. When I see how you handle yourself and how patient, loving, and kind you are in the midst of your grief and struggles, I am truly inspired. I don’t know what happened to Arthur, and you probably don’t, either. I never could understand what happened to my ex husband. What I do know is you are handling this situation so much better than I did when I walked through the same thing. Sadly, so many women go through this, and you are setting a great example how to push through it with a kind and positive attitude. God bless.
I couldn't have said it better!
I, too have made many mistakes in grief and anger and fear and pain. Bri makes grace and beauty look effortless and for that I applaud her. However God is using my past not so gracious attitude to shape my life and my children's life today. He makes beauty for ashes every time.
You are right, so many women go through this, i did in my 30's and my daughter has gone through it twice, incredibly. She has two children, one from each marriage. She is really struggling right now, a full year after her second divorce. Both men have been very little help. Her father got worse and worse as he got older---not better. So many lost men. I often wonder WHY.
@@ritasmallwood1605 yes, recently Bri said that Art was seeing the kids. I am new to this channel and my heart breaks for Bri but she has wonderful kids and i trust she will get through this. It's intensely private and i hope she keeps much of her privacy. She deserves all the best.
@@pamelajackson2383 an evil agenda from many sides to destroy Gods institution, the family.
My 18m old loves watching your videos with me. She knows you have the twins and when they show up she says, baby! And even when it’s just you she runs over to listen.
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It must be heartbreaking for Art to watch these videos and see how amazing you’re doing with your family and new life. I pray he can heal and God brings home back to you to be the husband and father he was supposed to be. ❤
Amen 🙏
I’ve thought same thing.
I just don’t understand it all. If he’s not doing well now there’s a great chance with the right help he’ll get better. I don’t know what the situation is but I would think that Art would do better with the support of his family instead of without. It makes me sad. I can’t even imagine how Bri does it all but I think for the next Halloween she should definitely be Superwoman!
@@dianee7778 I am a firm believer that the spirit world is very real. It looks to me that their family is under spiritual attack. I’m keeping them in my prayers hope they will be delivered. Most Christians today don’t realize that demons attack and need to be cast out. It would explain the mental issues he’s having. Church wake up, the Holy Spirit is a mighty power that can and should be used to fight against evil. Read the book of Acts.
@@SunnyStruck86 why are you telling me this?????
Yes, you have a garden!!! Bri is back again! I'm so happy for you.
Seeing your happiness talking about your garden and your kids’ excitement to walk barefoot in the soil made me smile ❤️
I remember the snake video LOL BUT can't blame you one bit. On my homestead, last year was the worst by far so i ended up carrying a small shovel spade with me everywhere! AND had NO MERCY when I was cutting the grass !! Just seeing one leaves me shaky and weak in the knees ... Bri- SO GOOD to see that smile, it's what I call a TRUE smile for what makes you HAPPY - KEEP IT UP
As soon as you started explaining laying the tarps I remember the snake bed videos I'm thinking oh my gosh Who's gonna step up and take care of them if they're any God forbid 🤔
I used to feel like you about the strong independent woman when my marriage of 23 years went down the pan. Like you I have 7 kids, last two are twins too. Now 9 years post marriage I actually love being single. My relationship with their dad is amicable and my kids are grown now and happy. You will be OK. Your kids will be OK. ((( huge hugs))
I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR! Helen Reddy, song, Sing it Bri ! I love gardening it grounds you, and it is solitude in its own way. Go Strong Girl, you got this. Kids give the best hugs.🙏
So exciting to see you in the garden again. I'm so glad you have John to help you with this. I have followed him for years with the Veteran's Healing Farm. God bless you all as your new garden takes shape. I can remember all the blood, sweat and tears and love you put into your beautiful garden at your farm. Can't wait to watch this one's transformation! Enjoy! Enjoy!!!😊😊❤❤🍓🐓🌻🍉🍏🍇🥕🥔🥑🍅🌽🌶🥒🥬🥦🍄
I just wanted to send you some love and encouragement...I'm so proud of you for being able to move forward....I'm a mom of 6, going through cancer, and five of my kiddos have special needs....I understand what it's like to feel overwhelmed when life throws you a hurdle that seems insurmountable...keep moving forward, God will provide....may not be how you expected it to be but each day is a new beginning....I'm an avid gardener and literally believe that Jesus used a garden when he needed to renew....you got this! I hope the kids are able to understand that none of this situation is their fault and that they see the strength in you. Blessings to you and the kiddos!! Good job, momma!
I love seeing you going on. My heart HURTS for you and I really do miss Art.
This is none of my business but I am also a mother and a gardener and I think your mid summer self would thank your spring self if you do woven weed fabric down. ❤
I am going to do weed fabric. I don’t love weed fabric, but I feel like I need to this year.
Long time subscriber … I remember!! 🐍 Suburban garden = no snakes!! (Probably) So that’s an upside!
Thank you for deciding to continue YT. I know this is a hard season of life and yet you are blessed and it’s uplifting to see.
Hello Bree. I'm a long time follower from when y'all first started your channel. I remember anxiously awaiting the news when baby Wilder was born it seemed like you didn't post for 2 days... And of course the twins.
My husband and I dreamed of selling our house and buying a small farm or homestead but in the midst of that he had cancer and after a 3-year battle he passed away. When he died, my kids were 5, 7, 10, 12 and 15. It's been 3 years... But it's really hard to single parent. I'm much more motivated to work alongside with. I was definitely created to be a helper completer.
I'm so excited to watch you start your garden from scratch. I feel like every year I'm starting from scratch. We have a food forest but every year I feel like I'm battling the weeds. We got our fruit trees and berry trees planted just a few months before my husband died, but he did all the planning in the layout. Our goal is to not mow or even weed whack and the food forest but that was just an invitation for weeds to take over. I think I'm going to try to do a silage tarp and several areas that I want to kill down. Even if it just sits and kills out in the sun and I plant it meant to late summer that would be much better than fighting the weeds year-round.
I bought my first plants today and I hope to get my cabbage and broccoli and lettuce in the ground.
We have about 50 chickens and 50 rabbits on our 2 acre lot in Roanoke Virginia, so I plan to dump lot of rabbit poop and make beds like you are.
It's hard to motivate myself to clean house or do yard work alone. I do much better when I hire a friend to come out and help me. The trail life troop that my husband helped found came and did a whole day work project on Saturday and built me a shed and did a lot of major reading and trailer full of mulch. It was a huge blessing.
Sometimes I think about if I had a RUclips channel what sort of content would I have. I think knowing that I had to produce some content would be good accountability to actually get up and do some stuff. I'm so proud of you for continuing. I think there's a lot of story to be told and people care about hearing how a single mom is able to manage juggling a lot of hats. Thanks for keeping it real and helping us see that it's possible to persevere even in the rough times.
Blessings to you. You're not alone
Huge hugs!! We just keep truckin along. Bless you and your kids 💝💝💝
Thank you for sharing all of that! Bless you and I am glad that some folks are helping.
It’s my garden therapy! I feel after my daughter passed from car wreck at 29 years and then my son-in-law passed 1 1/2 years later leaving 2 small children…that I would never feel again. My garden slowly has brought me to joy and happiness again. And of course along with prayer and reliance on the true god.
I can truly say gardening is a blessing!
So proud of you Bri and your precious family!!! Big hugs sweet lady!!!
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Wow, I’m so sorry for all your losses. And glad you are relying on God to heal your hurting heart.
i'm so sorry for your losses, it sounds similar to my family, two car accidents (fatal) and brain cancer, within 10 years (all young victims). Peace be with you.
Bri, I agree. It is so nice to have a partner in life. I consider myself to be a strong, 'independent' woman in that I can do most things myself and enjoy doing so, but at the same time can rely on my husband for any help I need and am always available to help him out as well. You are doing a Fantastic job with your new home, garden and of course all your sweet kids. We could feel your excitement for your garden and the thoughts of what you will turn it in to. I feel the same way each Spring about my garden.
Thanks for your honesty. Being a single mom is tough but you are doing great. One step at a time and the blessing will continue.
Lol Caught myself with a huge smile watching your garden birth. Lol. I get the joy!! I could give up a lot of animals, if I could just keep the peace and joy of a garden. ❤️🥰
I'm excited for you.
The garden is good medicine. 🌱
Your videos are very good Bri.
How exciting, Bri!! So happy for you!
I was SO glad the wind did not kick up when you were putting out the silage tarps! I felt like a kite tail when I put mine out last week 🪁🪁🪁🪁Great job with the carts. You will stretch and grow in ways you never dreamed possible. You can do ALL things through Christ who gives you strength!
It was very beautiful how you acknowledged how you missed your husband. Pointing out how men and women complement each other. The Lord's grace be with you and Art.
I feel that way sometimes also Bri. Just know it is only a season in our lives. You have a wonderful family and friends. We don’t always have to be so strong; it is ok to ask for help. God bless you sweet lady.
God is with you sister! So proud of all that you are handling and with great boundaries and wisdom. The closest I ever came was when my husband deployed for a year at a time. Oh how I felt that scene where you were unboxing the wagon cart. I learned in his absence that I was more capable than I had given myself credit for, and it caused me to appreciate him more. Hugs. Keep pressing on girl! I love watching your videos!
I remember the snakes at your old garden when you guys were lifting up the tarps and Grace not being afraid of them. Blessings to you, your family and your new garden! 🤗
My mom is a Scandinavian midwesterner (who married a guy from Brooklyn and created a wonderfully diverse life together!) would love you- she always says “use it up, wear it out, do with it or do without.” It is from the depression- I think it was my grandmother who ingrained that in her head. Watching you use what you have and make your current life into such a beautiful experience for your kids is really remarkable. I grieve your loss of your partner for you. You are the picture of grace. Thank you for sharing with us!
Honestly you look so happy at this moment. And I am so happy to see it. And I have used rocks in my garden. Sometimes the best things are free. I always look forward to my garden. It frees me up and brings me so much happiness. And it's wonderful to see it does that for you too. God bless
Oh Bri. I remember watching your video of your last garden as you guys scooped up buckets and buckets of rocks from the garden in order to get it going. A fan of yours for 5 years now. I also left a home with. A garden we worked so hard on. I left perennials, and fruit trees I've cried over since the move. Now I'm waiting to have the budget to fence our garden and property since we have tons and tons of deer and racoons.
We should all always like bris videos to support her she deserves as much likes as we can give her .
Love your step by step, practical approach to jumpstarting your garden. Lots of folks can use this way to get growing in manageable stages, and build towards more costly goals like no til and raised beds. Thank you for sharing your journey and being real about the challenges!
Now that the garden is laid out like that it's huge and you still got more space for the kids to run around. So glad your getting a garden again. I dream of a day where I can do something even if it's a potted garden. Fingers crossed i get space one day. Can't wait to see what your garden looks like with plants
I'm so enjoying your channel again! So glad you decided to keep it going!! Love seeing your garden come together, and thankful you have wonderful friends to help!
Bri, I'm a long hauler, been here since the beginning on RUclips.
First I must say, your strength and determination is amazing. Your kids will learn more value in that than anything.
Second, that's suburban gardening? No,no...that's country living! The area looks very peaceful 😌 ❤
Never underestimate what you can do when needed. Our daughter is now a single parent of two kids, and I am amazed and so proud of what she has learned to do on your own. Besides baseball games, volleyball, and piano lessons she keeps up with her home and landscaping. She knows it is what it is and you shake your head and carry on.
I actually smelled the soil when you did that! It brought tears of praise to my eyes. I can't wait! Snow in Nebraska overnight.
Your stronger then you know and way smarter then most in the important things of life . Super Momma !Love the new garden area. Praying for a bumper crop of fresh food .
Your house is not a disaster at all! 💜it's a Home. Piles of clean clothes are better then piles of dirty clothes. I'm commenting about your newest video 💜your home really isn't that bad at all. On a normal day my home looks like yours 😜. I have 2 kids and my place has looked far worse then yours lol. Anyone who has anything negative to say to you about your home most likely don't have 7kids💜Go easy on yourself, your doing the best you can.
MAMAS UNITE!!
Can we all please find a video of hers to share online? We need to get her views to an average of 100k so she can be monetized and sponsored!!
I noticed her subscriber to viewer ratio is wayyy off!!
SHE REALLY DOES ROCK THIS CHANNEL
KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK
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I love that porch. Crocheting and knitting and reading! And while doing that, babies playing and running around. That is called time out. Don't forget to take a half hour or so for a time out. Helps to keep one's nerves level.❤
One of the things I appreciate is that you remind us that we can (and should, IMHO) think about what solutions, tools, and outside the box thinking we can apply to our own contexts to help us reach our own goals. A great reminder to keep our eyes on the goal ( and God) and not get stuck in the process. Like you, we are going thru a rebirth of sorts-our home burned down last spring. This spring, instead of gardening, I will be overseeing the foundation work and placement of the structure and hopefully the build out so we will can have our home back. I choose to feel blessed that we will be able to move into our own home, even if that means a very small garden effort. Blessings on you and your family.
I feel for you... March 22nd middle of the night , my house burned : ( 39 years there, raised my babies, and others as I did in home babysitting. Lost my kitten, a beautiful 'retired' husky and two little hens in a henden in the porch, treating them for sour crop, I can't rebuild, I cureently have a camper and oversee my gardens and the rest of the homestead, it's because of Bri that I knew to do the camper thing
You are amazing as well!why can't you rebuild?
@@katehopkinsbrent5573 I’m so sorry you’ve had to go thru this. Our rebuilding process will be very modest ( think 800 sq ft instead of 2400 sq ft) but we’re choosing to recognize that’s what we need to do at this time in our lives. I don’t see how it will all play out and I’m pretty sure it won’t look like the picture in My head but I’m ok with not having a magazine worthy house- I’ll just appreciate having my own space back. It has been a true Godsend to be able to stay with relatives locally, but there is something about having your own space. Best wishes to you on your journey.
@@lindakurtz2653 awwwww THANK YOU : ) Not likely to rebuild for me, BUT the land is HOME. I have the small camper too so stay the summer to tend gardens, and hens, goats and just be home... my Husky Sorcha actaully emotionally completely healed once we went and stayed in the camper... firemen brought her out the next morning... found her on my bed with her dear little face between the pillows. I had hold of her a few times that night but couldn't get her high enough to get her out the window. The smoke was thick and I couldn't see her and then couldn't feel her anywhere, the vet called next day at the motel saying they had her and she was doing very good. GOD BE THANKED. Im good with just the camper, maybe buildon a small room to house my wood stove THEN I can stay year round
I so feel you Bri! I hate doing computer work for my business…but I’m embracing it! I decided to embrace everything I don’t like doing, I’m embracing snakes and crocodiles and I’m embracing apps, pins and passwords! Even financial info. I feel it’s my lesson for this stage! I’m saying you and I are in this together!! And this stage will pass too! Love you!
Your moment with the cart, girl, been there, bless you, stay strong!!! ❤❤
Bri you might like having an au pair or Workaway volunteers to come help you. It could be enrichment for the kids to meet adults from other places and give you a couple more eyes and hands in exchange for room and board.
WOW Bri , you are such a FUN Mom. God Bless you and your family
Gardens are so fulfilling and wonderful. I started my tiny greenhouse about two weeks ago, so now my greens are coming up. Five color silver beets and red lettuce and Tom thumb lettuce. And cabbage.and cucumbers. But I have to start other things like tomatoes. And pumpkins. I found out a trick for me last year on pickles. My pickles use to be soft and I fixed that last year. I wasn't putting in enough huge grape leaves!. Our big tiller died three years back so we will have to wing it again by hand. God bless your garden bri'. ❤️🥦🌼🍓🍅
I definitely see your point about the strong woman movement being overrated BUT what I also think is super overrated is staying in relationships when the goals, values, love, passion, responsibilities, etc., are not shared. I've seen so many people struggle to manage more than their reasonable share and it is not only exhausting physically, it is exhausting mentally and emotionally. It takes so much strength and courage to do it alone but it is possible. And you are killing it Bri. I admire you a lot and know your children will appreciate it in the future. Much love to you all 💛
Let the garden adventure begin!
I know your SUPER excited to get your garden going!! Congratulations !
Bri, it’s ok to grieve what you’ve lost. You don’t need anybody’s permission for that but sometimes we need to hear it from outside ourselves. You got this! It’s hard but you got it!
I wish people wouldn't make people feel bad about the "way" they garden, if you are trying and are growing food for your family you are doing good, whether you till, do raised beds, do organic non gmo, or have to do what you need to protect your crop from pests, etc. Do what you can with what you have and the Lord will bless you in your efforts, Just do your part and he will do the rest! #HAPPYGARDENING #JESUSLOVESYALL
Girl your weaknesses are about to become your new Super Strengths!!!!! Just as they have to get you this point of providing for your family and creating a safe heaven for them ❤️❤️❤️ I love your channel and you inspire all women ✌️❤️☀️
Seeing all that grass disappear into gorgeous soil made my day. ❤
I’m so happy for you ❤ God is good and little by little you’re doing it girl keep it up you’re not alone the great I’m the king of kings is by your side, and he has blessed you with great friends ❤️🙏🏻blessings for you and your beautiful kids love you all ❤️🙏🏻
I'm excited for you and your garden.
All I can say is that you are amazing lady. God Bless you and your children. My husband would help you in a heart beat if we were your neighbours but alas we live in the frozen country of Alberta Canada. No gardening here for along while. Hugs
Bri, what a inspiration you are. I love how the Lord has supported you with strength, wisdom, and love. What a wonderful God we have. I am so sorry for the hardship. Please get your rest and pampering. I love your channel. I love your knowledge, patience, wisdom, and how you bring a calmness to even a watcher of videos. Take care hun!
Your new content has encouraged me tremendously. You are amazing.
You are such an amazingly strong woman! I can't tell you how happy it makes my heart to see you doing so well and all your kids are doing great! Stay strong!
I have a husband but…… he is against my farm and won’t help with anything. I guess the harder it is for me in his mind the quicker I will give it up. But my animals and caring for them has saved me from my own mental health issues. I do everything myself. Even if it’s too heavy or I don’t have the knowledge. Even though I hate gardening and he is very good at it I’ve decided to do that on my own too. All because you inspire me. We can do hard things.
I love to see your smile you're just a good old country girl at heart 🤠
You are so inspiring to women! You have got this Girl! Hugs Bri ❤
FANTASTIC - masterclass in resilience.
Smile, smiles n lot smiles BRI. Love watching you.
Tilling is good. Establish your beds faster. Its a good start Bri. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Hi Bri, I just found you and ironically just spent the day in my veggie garden - the first in my first home. I too am a single mum (only one though!). THE STRUGGLE IS REAL. I work full time and just finished a Masters degree so I now have the time to get my garden setup after two years in the house. You’ll finding me checking in with you constantly - good luck to you and the kidlets.
Welcome!
I am SO EXCITED to see your garden!!!! You are amazing Bri! In all your videos outside the birds are always so loud I absolutely love it.
Good morning , beautiful friend! 😍
Great progress & sweet family & friends! You put those carts together! I’m so happy for you all! Blessings to all🤗💜🇨🇦
Strength, healing and love to you and children. I went through the same thing when my children were young with God it was day by day. Some good days and some not so good. Hard choice s sometimes but God Made a way. You are in my prayers Bri, ❤🙏
Thank you for acknowledging the lost of your strength
You are absolutely positively the most amazing woman I know!!! God continue to bless you and your little ones.....🥰🥰🥰
It's going to be WONDERFUL, Brianna!! 🤩
As your children, especially boys grow older they will be a huge help putting things together for you. It’s hard now while they are so small, but take heart your boys (and possibly your girls too!) will be able to confidently do these sorts of projects for you. When I was divorced my son was 7 and by the time he was 12 he was doing these sorts of things and later there was nothing that boy couldn’t do!
Bri, you are an inspiration and a blessing. As a middle aged woman with a disabled husband and son I morn the loss of partnership we had. At the onset of the pandemic I moved us to a farm and my dream has been slow to progress but your perseverance through such a loss has boughtback the motivation and I am trying to match your garden progress.
I started with the animals and am working back towards the garden.
New calves are due in the next month and my milking cow will be back in. We are eating lots of eggs, chicken and ducks. Thank you for sharing, it means more than you know 💞
So lovely to hear the birds singing and the woodpecker, So happy for you for the garden🌷🍃🫶🙏💕
I love putting things together but gardening isn't my favorite thing. I'm a good helper and not afraid of hard work but I know exactly what you mean. We don't NEED that complimentary person, but we WANT them. You got this,You go mama!
Looks great, we use rocks, we live in the Catskills, 1 part dirt 20 part rock, lol😂😂. Great kids and the garden looks wonderful. Blessings, I am psyched once our snow is gone, we are in the middle of this crazy northeaster.
That cart assembly, I soooo get it! been there done that, Youll get better and better at it
You happily pulling a wagon around your garden with them is exactly what I saw when you found out you were having twins!
What a hard worker you are you should be very proud of yourself it’s exhausting just raising children let alone all that you do above and beyond
Hello 👋 good morning, sending love, have a great day as I know u will be well and be love ❤️ take care ❤️
All I feel is love ❤️ when I watch your videos 📹 ♥️, love for family , love for your blessings, love for the hope for a amazing caring future, stay strong, you have the victory, you are an overcomer ❤️, 😊👍💕💕💕
Love this channel! Way to go Bri!
I'm so excited for you Bri. Gardening is my happy place too. And knowing that I'm growing good food for my family is priceless. So worth the sweat and time that we put into it. I so want to have a bonfire now and do hotdogs over it. Looked so yummy!! Have a great rest of your week. You got this you're doing an amazing job!!
I find that tasks that used to be my partner's responsibility take double the effort because not only are you learning something new but you are grieving too.
Great job Bri!! You are one amazing human being! So looking forward to see your garden progress. 🌻🌼🥬🌶️🥒🧅
I like the idea of the 6 tarps too! I totally get what you're saying about having the flexibility of covering/uncovering one or more portions of the garden as needed. Keeping it covered is so important to the soil health. I'm looking forward to seeing your garden grow this year!
Bri, I wondered during initial planning if the walking rows would be wide enough. They seemed much more narrow than you used at the farm. Air circulation between rows will help minimize pests. In this video when you said the cart shouldn’t go down, maybe you were just talking right now but I’ve found my cart to be the minimum width for walking rows. I only mention this because you’ve suggested or said spacing isn’t your strongest suit.
I so admire your dedication to staying calm and present with your children. A subject for a video your audience might enjoying hearing more about.
Makes my day every time you post a new video!!! :)
Gorilla carts are really amazing. I splurged last year for one. Love it !!!
That looks awesome!!! I cannot wait until all of the snow is gone here so I can get outside. I love seeing the kids help! I look forward to my grandkids helping me. My 3 year old grandson was my watering helper last year!