My husband and I stayed married!!! 12 years, 6 children, we had to remember our commitment and our love. The road was rocky in the beginning, but every day we are so grateful we got sober, and had a forgiveness ceremony and fell more deeply in love.
I paid the most in my divorce. I paid the lawyer...and i paid the most emotionally and in financial loss and in my retirement. It was a failure however after 24 years I was no longer willing to live a life totally under his control and live a life of co-existing. while he spent his time in the bars, the ball field, the camp ground with his buddies while i was left home to care for our son's, the house and yard and ALL the responsibilities of parenthood, life etc.....
I think one of the biggest mistakes is basing a relationship on emotions instead of commitment.
My husband and I stayed married!!! 12 years, 6 children, we had to remember our commitment and our love. The road was rocky in the beginning, but every day we are so grateful we got sober, and had a forgiveness ceremony and fell more deeply in love.
I paid the most in my divorce. I paid the lawyer...and i paid the most emotionally and in financial loss and in my retirement. It was a failure however after 24 years I was no longer willing to live a life totally under his control and live a life of co-existing. while he spent his time in the bars, the ball field, the camp ground with his buddies while i was left home to care for our son's, the house and yard and ALL the responsibilities of parenthood, life etc.....
My ex cheated and paternity frauded me, there's no reconciliation after that. And she got the daughter too.
👎 Honestly, I Never Wanted to Marry Someone who is bigger Bad Influence than Me!