CSJ spitting truth. You've described a majority of the ESTPs I've known over the years. It seems when good ESTPs get into their late 30s early 40s they tend to find themselves and what matters in life. When ESTPs become a true family man and begin to realize life has consequences they become some of the most solid people to have around.
Im an estp . I have a super high paying job , I have a great car , but I’m super disorganized . I have people around me that like me and care and respect me , but I have no idea what the future holds . I am always afraid, deep down but I act strong .
i about to read every book in that wealth and relationship section and start trusting myself. if i was working as hard i could to be where i wanna be i wouldn’t have that pit in my stomach. it’s time. thank u man
I felt so fcking ashamed that everything you said actually happened to me 100%. I'm still 22 and I will follow this guidance you gave, I don't and will not die a loser
you know what sucks? getting better at life is just harder. I used to watch these kinds of videos hoping that there was something in me missing and that maybe the burden of denying yourself would get easier. it doesn't. now that hope is gone, and replaced with a calmness. I never look back and wish to re experience, because every day is a step closer to manifestation of potential and the ride is dreary but bearable. the idea of being younger sounds awful to me because why would i want to lose all those failures that shaped me? I just check in from time to time to see if Chase has any new insights for my type, and even though he does, it doesn't change the humdrum of life. But harder is better, honorable is fulfilling, wanting is direction and pursuing obligations is it's own reward.
I have to say I am watching a older estp, a estp in their 30s and a estp in his late 20s. It's very unusual, I think maybe one is unconscious focused. The other two are sub focused and I can't help but see them as "childish"? They want everything and have anxiety and can't see the consequences of their actions of taking out vengeance to other people that actual don't deserve it. ( A estp taking it out on a istp.) I had to get another boss to talk to a estp about him throwing away his job because everyone else is not following the rules. When he has no other opportunities for a job. Had to talk him out of it... For his own sake. The guy has only read maybe 1 or 2 books. Makes me sad. Are most estps sub focused? Also how do you get them to read book? And is this a problem for women estps? (Also finally realized it was a estp not a enfj that I dated. He admitted that he never read books and would say that's for nerds.)
9:58 He trusted the wrong woman. She didn’t actually love him. Samson chose the wrong woman and didn’t trust his intuition about her. If an ESTP chooses a woman who truly loves him, him being able to be a beta isn’t a problem. ESTPs need to be both an alpha and a beta, it’s situational as to when they need to be which.
I will remember these teachings to help my ESTP brother if he has issues with personal responsibility. He is SD/SF and is already 30 years old. It's very different from when he was 20 and I care about him. we have a great relationship together. I'm still not sure about one thing: so to have beta traits just read non-fiction books and take responsibility, i already do that but i'm not sure how to have alpha traits. I like to exercise regularly, sometimes together with my brother, but I imagine that's not all. Is having alpha traits just putting your own needs above others?
@@dudeitsamy1210 I fuck with u, came to the realisation that that would have to happen years ago but when them new opportunities arise its easy to act on impulse instead of considering some obscure future scenario. Think I’ve just got to put myself in different environments and FORCE myself to adapt to them (including new social circles), it really doesn’t make sense to restrict your social circle because then you miss out on much help and many a opportunity
How can u possibly even determine this? like creating an immaturity index and scale and then typing everyone ever and then measuring them? :/ I think the answer will differ based on who u ask. Some may come across the best of a type and others the worst of the same type.
@@user-xk9cr3mu3k Every type is a category on its own when it comes to maturity. Every type starts out immature in their youth and ends up being potentially mature at some point later in life. Types are human nature. Being mature immature for ur type is nurture. You are trying to answer pure nurture with pure nature. Which doesn't work in this case. Different types are mature at different points and their maturity comes off differently from one another, since they have different cognitive functions aka their damn brain don't work the same
Hey Chase, is this harshness a tactic to get the ESTPs to understand or you are using the opportunity to bash at them over a beef? haha. Anyway i like the harsh approach(i do believe it is the most effective way to make an ESTP truly process these things), even though i disagree of some of the caracteristics you say all ESTPs have (in an adult phase)
16:26 once again this is a false statement. I refer you to the Law of Gender. You cannot manifest without both in balance: 50/50. Balance is the key to self mastery. Balance between the ego and shadow (mental mastery), balance between the masculine and feminine (which is balance between the ego and subconscious), balance between the subconscious and super ego (soul mastery), balance between all four sides to find the “self.”
My brother is an Estp and I noticed that you guys are very hard on yourself. I think you have some really negative self talk that discourages you from getting the long term results that you want.
CSJ spitting truth. You've described a majority of the ESTPs I've known over the years. It seems when good ESTPs get into their late 30s early 40s they tend to find themselves and what matters in life. When ESTPs become a true family man and begin to realize life has consequences they become some of the most solid people to have around.
Im an estp . I have a super high paying job , I have a great car , but I’m super disorganized . I have people around me that like me and care and respect me , but I have no idea what the future holds . I am always afraid, deep down but I act strong .
I appreciate it Chase. The suffering when captured in wisdom, is not wasted, it has become eternal
Well, that shows very accurately how mature ESTPs are distinguished from the ones who don't really know what they are doing with their existence…
15:00 "those are all the books I've read" - I will one day catch up 😉
i about to read every book in that wealth and relationship section and start trusting myself. if i was working as hard i could to be where i wanna be i wouldn’t have that pit in my stomach. it’s time. thank u man
I felt so fcking ashamed that everything you said actually happened to me 100%. I'm still 22 and I will follow this guidance you gave, I don't and will not die a loser
I felt bad for ESTPs in this one
you know what sucks? getting better at life is just harder. I used to watch these kinds of videos hoping that there was something in me missing and that maybe the burden of denying yourself would get easier. it doesn't. now that hope is gone, and replaced with a calmness. I never look back and wish to re experience, because every day is a step closer to manifestation of potential and the ride is dreary but bearable. the idea of being younger sounds awful to me because why would i want to lose all those failures that shaped me? I just check in from time to time to see if Chase has any new insights for my type, and even though he does, it doesn't change the humdrum of life.
But harder is better, honorable is fulfilling, wanting is direction and pursuing obligations is it's own reward.
Great references to the Grateful Dead and especially Samson and his guide-on judging, the numbers of the philes listed in this.🙏
I had no idea I was referring to the Grateful Dead
@@CSJoseph Terrapin Station
Samson and Delilah 3:29 Track 4
Samson judging the philistines?
Sam's son judged by syphilis?
Stay trippin'!
You should talk more about this type. We need to understand them better.
We need more views and customers from them.
Great episode!
Reminds me of the first time we met. Lol. Surrounded by more successful people these days, My main goal is to stick to my routine.
I have to say I am watching a older estp, a estp in their 30s and a estp in his late 20s. It's very unusual, I think maybe one is unconscious focused. The other two are sub focused and I can't help but see them as "childish"? They want everything and have anxiety and can't see the consequences of their actions of taking out vengeance to other people that actual don't deserve it. ( A estp taking it out on a istp.) I had to get another boss to talk to a estp about him throwing away his job because everyone else is not following the rules. When he has no other opportunities for a job. Had to talk him out of it... For his own sake. The guy has only read maybe 1 or 2 books. Makes me sad.
Are most estps sub focused? Also how do you get them to read book? And is this a problem for women estps?
(Also finally realized it was a estp not a enfj that I dated. He admitted that he never read books and would say that's for nerds.)
I guess giving examples of book readers who are successful in life and may appear "strong" to the estps may get them interested in reading.
God I relate to everything here , everything . I feel I am about to go depressed but I have no idea what to do .
9:58 He trusted the wrong woman. She didn’t actually love him. Samson chose the wrong woman and didn’t trust his intuition about her. If an ESTP chooses a woman who truly loves him, him being able to be a beta isn’t a problem. ESTPs need to be both an alpha and a beta, it’s situational as to when they need to be which.
facts
I was watching this to hopefully help my ESTP daughter, but I would never share this ranty, basically ragey thing with anyone.
I will remember these teachings to help my ESTP brother if he has issues with personal responsibility. He is SD/SF and is already 30 years old. It's very different from when he was 20 and I care about him. we have a great relationship together.
I'm still not sure about one thing:
so to have beta traits just read non-fiction books and take responsibility, i already do that but i'm not sure how to have alpha traits. I like to exercise regularly, sometimes together with my brother, but I imagine that's not all. Is having alpha traits just putting your own needs above others?
I’m an ESTP 8w7, been through a lot and still going through a lot. Find it difficult not being violent and sexual
Ditch the losers in your life; surround yourself with those that make you want to be better
@@dudeitsamy1210 I fuck with u, came to the realisation that that would have to happen years ago but when them new opportunities arise its easy to act on impulse instead of considering some obscure future scenario. Think I’ve just got to put myself in different environments and FORCE myself to adapt to them (including new social circles), it really doesn’t make sense to restrict your social circle because then you miss out on much help and many a opportunity
i needed this
the xstps ik must be shadow focused cuz they be having a whole meltdown over little shit like something being misplaced.
The retro grades are rolling right now. 😉
Yo its so crazy I would love to talk to u coz rha we’re into a lot of the same shit even sunglasses and cigars
Is intjs one of most immature types?
In which area ?
@@NexusDecoder no
How can u possibly even determine this? like creating an immaturity index and scale and then typing everyone ever and then measuring them? :/
I think the answer will differ based on who u ask. Some may come across the best of a type and others the worst of the same type.
@@simpletomash could you elaborate please?
@@user-xk9cr3mu3k Every type is a category on its own when it comes to maturity. Every type starts out immature in their youth and ends up being potentially mature at some point later in life.
Types are human nature.
Being mature immature for ur type is nurture.
You are trying to answer pure nurture with pure nature. Which doesn't work in this case. Different types are mature at different points and their maturity comes off differently from one another, since they have different cognitive functions aka their damn brain don't work the same
Hey Chase, is this harshness a tactic to get the ESTPs to understand or you are using the opportunity to bash at them over a beef? haha. Anyway i like the harsh approach(i do believe it is the most effective way to make an ESTP truly process these things), even though i disagree of some of the caracteristics you say all ESTPs have (in an adult phase)
Sounds like harsh but necessary words.
Super harsh. Very personal.
How are ESFPs faring on the alpha-beta scale over time?
Depends
Types are on the spectrum, my friend!
Random question but isn’t Tony Stark an INTJ Focused ENTP? I been meaning to ask C.S. this…
Yes
whats octogram?
It is found within the knowledge of the tetragrammaton!
It's why 1/4th oz is about 8 grams.
@@minusstage3 lol
Hey Samson actually died a pretty noble way. At the end he came thru final life crisis alpha style.
Could have been better
Tumba la casa!
This man got heartbroken by an ESTP. Look at his previous videos on ESTP and compare with them now. 😂😂😂
He is married to one actually.
Okay but I'm literally thirsting for ENTJ contents, it's been age ... it's always INTJ for XXTJ but really rarely ENTJ
Intjs pay for their questions
16:26 once again this is a false statement. I refer you to the Law of Gender. You cannot manifest without both in balance: 50/50.
Balance is the key to self mastery. Balance between the ego and shadow (mental mastery), balance between the masculine and feminine (which is balance between the ego and subconscious), balance between the subconscious and super ego (soul mastery), balance between all four sides to find the “self.”
My brother is an Estp and I noticed that you guys are very hard on yourself. I think you have some really negative self talk that discourages you from getting the long term results that you want.
If ur an ESTP bump “Me vs Me” by moneybagg yo. Thank me later
Isn't it good for woman, to bread winners when it comes to such men,
An estp who, is in their Loyalty Virtue
No
😢😢😢 you are 100000000000000% wrong😅
Or you are mistyped