High Value Men Don't Want These Women? ©
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
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"Colorism exists"
"Colorism isn't the reason you are single woman"
The End
Discrimination based on skin color, also known as colorism or shadeism, is a form of prejudice or discrimination usually from members of the same race in which people are treated differently based on the social implications from cultural meanings attached to skin color.
Darker skin women don't have a fair chance at high value men
What is your biggest takeaway from this video?
Some people are use to being a victim. I have always been told by my mother, and father that I was beautiful. Yes, there are a couple of men that don't like dark skin. There are some women that don't like short men. The list could go on and on. Go where you are celebrated. Paying attention to people who don't like you gets you no where..
Seattle women want the Ciara package 📦.
Your 51 and look amazing
Color doesn’t matter. Take care of yourselves, women. Take
Pride in your appearance, learn to be submissive
Using colorism has an excuse that you cant get a partner...is just a crutch to not do better in life!
A women with a wife’s mentality is so refreshing. I met a women by complete chance who’s a millionaire with a successful business in China. She told me she has two kids. I asked her if she’s married because my American mind was like she’s probably single. She didn’t understand the question. Kevin she said “…of course who else would I have kids with.”. That alone made my day.
You & I both 😬🙌🏽
As a 22year old black woman listening to these conversations and reading the comments, the truth is crystal clear. Focus on setting yourself up to be the best you can be, heal from your trauma, do the work in therapy and keep your options open. Also keep it tight😉. Being dark skinned does not prevent anything, having a victim mentality does. Go where you are wanted and make yourself desirable to the kind of people you want to attract.
You get it sis
BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL
@Tiren Mickens I agree but sometimes you have to put in a little effort. I used to be very introverted and didn't like to be in public spaces but that also meant that no one is even going to see me or vice versa. A little strategic positioning is needed. I go to the gym a lot these days and it's unbelievable how much I get hit on. Also I am starting to think that even if the person is not what I imagined for a partner, so long as they love me, treat me well and there are no impossible differences I'll be happy. It's better to be loved more than to check certain boxes I think. 🤗
@Tiren Mickens Law of attraction you can have who u want if you believe you deserve that person. Match thier vibration
@Tiren Mickens I'm good at multitasking hahaha but yes you are right. Working on yourself is more important. We shouldn't wait to be saved or loved by someone. Thank you!
I'm going back re-watching Kevin's videos. We miss you already Godfather.....RIP my man.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
My sentiments exactly.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
I never stopped. RIP Godfather, u r sorely missed worldwide 💯
Right after his passing I couldn’t bring myself to watch his videos but I’m back binge watching all videos, even ones I’ve already watched, even more entertaining and insightful as the first time. You are truly missed ❤
Yup
@Radha Submissive Wife Happy Life 6 what is the reason you watch the channel, what do you get out of this man bashing black women?
I'm convinced , drinking those RedBulls & constant arguments with these toxic females is what took you from us . RIP Kevin the God Father Samuels 😢
It was big pharma’s blood cloth shot i think
I know a lot of dark skinned women who are married and never had problems getting men 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
This man is a colorist narcissist. He is a danger to the black community and black women!!
@@harmony3279 respectfully I don’t think that! But you are entitled to your opinion
@@naomimitchell8858 Did you listen to how disrespectful he was to the caller, didnt let her talk, insulted her and you follow men with this character? I feel sorry for women with your mentality you will allow a man to treat you any way and dont have any standards!!
@@harmony3279 actually I don’t let men treat me anyway and I have no problems with this man lol that’s the mentality that keeps women like you down...if it doesn’t apply to you why are you triggered? If what he says has nothing to do with you why so bothered? I will pray for your healing! 🙋🏾♀️😂
@@harmony3279 but no one is being mistreated that’s assuming lol who hurt you?
Shout out to my dark skinned men & women. This negative skin color conversation is played out. We look good. 💪🏿
Yes GOD😍 🍫
Its mental...I seen dark skin hate dark skin, I seen white or light love dark skin, I seen dark love light to white.
@@caracasboogie Nah, it's lazy and lacking motivation to grow. People (women) who blame their dark skin have horrible attitudes that they refuse to work on.
....Well tell them! and ESPECIALLY tell the dark skinned "men" that please ....
@sword I agree with you. I remember that there was an epidemic of team light skin vs team dark skin we as a people divide ourselves
i wish i could have called in :( .... Confident darkskin women don't have a negative skin issue with men. We still get chased by men and high value men of all nationalities.
Mrs Keisha D I got a sweet tooth for some chocolate.
@@jamalthompson5583 are you fetishizing dark skin women!?...your verbiage exudes that.
@@PranaChi369 whats wrong with a fetish? Should he not have his own preferences. Im sure you do.
Thank you.
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I have 2 daughters that are of a darker complexions & both got engaged the same year & married the same year. They will be married 6 years the end of this year.
I recently found Kevin Samuals videos… I have changed my behavior and increased my respect for men. I now have an amazing relationship with a high value mentally and emotionally balanced man. I continue to listen to his videos because it’s a continuous process of growth to unlearn the bad information that I was taught growing up. I am much happier in my position as a submissive woman. I’m a dark skinned woman, my complexion has never been an issue. My inability to allow the man to lead kept me from having a happy relationship. Every man is capable of leading, some need more attention or patients than others, by nature it is in every man’s DNA to lead and protect.
A high value man chose me. I didn't really think why for a long time. But out of instinct, I created a sanctuary home for him. He worked very hard for really long hours. I fell in love with his work ethic, his honor, and his commitment. The harder he worked for US, the harder I worked for HIM. So, we ended up with more than forty years of very happy marriage. I wish that for all couples.
What a blessing. Thank you for sharing.
I have a narrative like yours, ma'am . I don't know how I got so lucky. I was broken and thought i was stupid and ugly. He loves me and my children. We showed me his self-respect and that taught me mine. He takes no garbage from anyone, including me, yet he's three gentlest, most loving man. Works everyday for us. I learned the meaning of honor and yes, obey. He isn't bossy but when he says he thinks something is a bad idea, I've learned that he's not thinking emotionally, he's thinking in manner that is protective and caring. So i put down my false pride. We've been married 33 years and I'm happier than i ever dreamed possible. And yes, he encouraged me to work my dream job. It makes me so sad to hear women talk about marriage in selfish ways or put men down.
@@s.v.2796 I am truly pleased to hear your testimony. What a wonderful relationship!
@@trishfitzpatrick2066 & S.V. Thank you both for sharing, all credit to you for being utterly feminine, respectful & with great attitudes. You’ve really made my day. Cheers.
Me too! My husband told me he was a farmer when we met and I lit up and started asking a million questions. Turns out, he wasn’t a farmer. He was an EXTREMELY HVM. To this day I still don’t know how I got so lucky. But when I asked him why he chose me, he said it was because I made our home a sanctuary for him, and made his life easier. It was then that I realized what Kevin emphasized- make your home a peaceful soft place for your partner to come home to, and do the things they didn’t even know they needed you to do.
I am East African, black and proud. But I’m also quiet, feminine, and know my place in my marriage. Married at 24, and I’m so glad I did! There is no better feeling than a peace of mind to know that my husband is my rock, provider, and the leader in our lives.
Congratulations beloved. I married young as well, no regrets. I wish more of our sisters here in the US would peep game instead of living in shame. Blessings.
Esphians 5:22-23
Leave him now and marry me lol
Lav ❤️ Hi sweetheart, thanks for reaching out. I’m now 31 but it’s VERY important to learn when 20! I like these books for how to be a lady: “The Way Home: Beyond Feminism, Back to Reality” by Mary Pride AND “Fascinating Womanhood: How the ideal women awakens a Man's Deepest Love and tenderness” by Helen Adelin. I also watch RUclips channels like Mrs. Midwest and The Feminine Fancy. I hope this helps!
@Lav Hi beloved thank you 2020 will mark 14 years of marriage ^_^ and yes I agree Mrs Midwest gives great practical relationship advice I also really like Jumoke for inspiration. But you know what I read in my 30s? The BIBLE I know sounds cliche but honestly best marriage advice can't beat it imho. But yeah I definitely recommend to get married young to a man that you prayed for. Because our hearts are deceptive😅 we don't know what we're doing that young. I grew up in western culture and the first man I fell in love with at 18 was not good for me at allll so I believe following our hearts is bad advice - As women we need guidance and the good Lord will always send a man you'll love and trust and who is able to provide within reason🙏🏿. Love you
Colorism is a real thing. As a dark skin black man, I can tell you that I absolutely love dark skin black women... The darker the better... But yes, I've seen some dudes pass up beautiful black women for mediocre "yellas" or light skin girls. Maybe not too much as a man, but definitely as a kid. Thing is I don't hang out with grown men like that
True, but u can’t deny SOME dark skin women don’t want to date dark skin men and SOME dark skin men don’t want a dark skin woman.
@sahra Khasim it doesn't?
@sahra Khasim personally those things don't exist for you, and that's fine, but to say it doesn't exist isn't true. Especially for Black People who have experienced those things.
@sahra Khasim that's your story, and you stick to it. The same people who talk about there is no racism/ sexism colorism etc.. are always proven wrong. Those people aren't drinking koolaid, they're drinking dumb ass.
@sahra Khasim thank you
The most interesting part for me was when the young woman was on cam. I say that because a lot of men in the live chat section were asking about her body. I say it's interesting because when you know what an attractive woman looks like, you can see from her face, shoulders, etc, and it just adds up to more. That showed me that most men in the live chat section really had no clue on how that adds up. They showed who they were, they aren't used to having attractive women. And I add to that because... even after she showed that she was not all there upstairs, they still wanted to sleep with her. They wanted to sleep with a woman who didn't have it all mentally. That not only scared me, it really helped me understand the type of standards we as men have for ourselves. We rather think about sleeping with someone rather than where they are mentally.
On a serious note, fellas, we need help. We need to do better and be better and expect better of our counterparts.
It's men like that who give us male gender a bad name. Like right now in South Africa during the Covid-19 Lockdown there have been numerous reports on women/child abuse and rape. I literally saw it on every day's news on the TV. Also perverts, those bastards are also the reason men have a bad name. Sometimes you hear women ask now and then 'Where are the gentlemen in the world' or 'Where have all the good men gone?' like that song. We are out there, but we're not so approaching to women like those bad boys who don't plan to have anything serious with you.
You need to learn how to spell. Please don’t blame it on autocorrect. That is why you should proofread.
At the time of writing this I just scrolled through all 10 comments including yours and I have yet to come across the comments you were referring to in this video about men being thirsty. I do agree that men need to do better when it comes to holding women to a standard beyond the physical however until we can come up with a way to control men’s strong libido and inclination/drive for sex which is driven by our testosterone, men will always look for beauty and sexual attraction first long before seeking out a woman’s personality, her mentality and her life goals. The only exception to this is if you’re an older man or a man who’s serious about finding a quality woman to be in a LTR.
Its indoctrinated into you.
The saddest part is black America in general is matriarchal by design, so the women are complicit in (if not the originators of) this mindset.
"You gay", "you hate women", "you don't get/ can't get/ or are scared of 🐱".
THIS will be said by WOMEN when you as a man practice that discernment you mention.
The men are like this because the women shame them into this mindset, yet simultaneously complain about the consequences.
You're not supposed to have standards. That mindset leads many men to expect less from themselves as well which leads to men they complain about.
Look at how these women who call in expect to be in the median yet get the elite of men.
100 percent brotha! We definitely are prone to choosing poorly man!
I love dark skin women. But I hate a victim mentality.
xV NEW JACK CITY Vx Candace Owens is one black woman out of millions you incel get real she does not represent the majority of black women. That comment just exposed your experience with women to be non existent or very very very limited.
@Dylan James. Me too. A dark skin woman with glasses and short is sexy a.f.
Yet non of them try to holla back at their fellow darkskin brotha.
@xV NEW JACK CITY Vx it sounds like your implying all dark skin women are like Candace Owens based off your first comment.
No different than someone wearing red glasses in a room and i say "people wearing glasses are dumb" but then i say "people with red glasses are not dumb"....??? I think the person wearing red glasses would still be offended..because...they're wearing glasses lol. It's a broad generalization.
@xV NEW JACK CITY Vx I love'em. Don't mean I talk to'em like used to. It's equal opportunity now. Light skin, dark skin, latino, white, idc nomo.
@xV NEW JACK CITY Vx dark skinned women = a majority of women of high melanin...whether he say all or not...it's a broad generalization (dark skinned women)....yes! I see what u said "yeah and they think you should be shot by cops"....what sense does that make????? Because Candace Owens happen to be a dark skinned woman??? Or are you saying dark skinned women will call the cops for no reason??? You sound smart to someone that's dumb. Either you're not saying what u think u mean...or you're trying to finess your way out of a dumb ass comment by speaking well and belittling the people that's trying to understand it...it's only but so many ways to say "f you".
Why is it ok for Black men to say they only like Dark-skinned women but if they say they prefer Light-Skinned Black women they are harassed and BULLIED?!
What great timing. I work for a company based in Seattle. I met a BW who was condescending as hell. We had a difference of opinion and she was fighting to get me to say I was "wrong" but ultimately acknowledged that we had to agree to disagree. I met a middle eastern woman who acted like I was cake icing. You tell me who I'm going to date.
Nice bro 👌🏾
Because they will get their hands chopped off if they don’t treat you well. When you have Middle Eastern fathers who will kill their daughters for marrying a black man ( in many cases) or any man who they don’t prefer for their daughters. Do you damn right they are going to treat their men a certain way and fawn all over them. It’s not 100% of Black women who are one way. That’s no different than the angry black man stereotype. Not all black women are the same way. Black men are needed to help change the culture of the black community to help heal their daughters so that daughters don’t grow up with attitudes etc. the solution is not running away because that it why the problem exists in the first place.
I don't get how a single mother expects a man to run the household, but he can not discipline her kid.
Women always want their cake and eat it too
@@koreylr they want have their cake but eat yours
You can't run that household......period. Move on bro.
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They only want men to take the lead when the Bill's are do!
Ohhh Juliet Juliet, Juliet. She makes me want to drink too. My mother is a dark skinned African woman and had no problem bagging/married my father for 23 yrs, who was a high value, successful man until his death! Because of my mother's pleasant attitude and her femininity, she was sought-after by many successful men who had no problem with her being a widow with 4 young children. So, like Mr. Samuels said, it's all in your Attitude!
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It is queen a real man knows real flavors from authenticity.
Yes your gender needs to learn this but unfortunately their attitude stinks
Definitely we know a real queen when we see them and interact with them.
Thank you 😊
"You don't have to keep saying my name mam.. I know it very well."💯💥
So annoying. Talking down to him like he was her child. Men already have a mother! Be the wife. Thats it.
Gone WAY TOO DAMN SOON! He continues to lead from the other side of the veil.
Rest well Godfather!
Men almost never ignore young, pretty, feminine women with a nice body, no kids, and a pleasant attitude. Women complain about colorism, but do they consider their age, looks, weight, and if they meet the standards of the men they want as husbands?
Problem is tht black females tend to not "find themselves" until after they have kids or turn 30.
Kevin C . So True, BW that are a (4 & says she's a 9), that's overweight with kids, will waits until she's older to blame colorism as the reason why her (kitty 🐱 cat 🐱) didn't give her a pass to be with a tall, wealthy, good looking Black Man.
@@rikshaw2233 Yeah... don't be that guy. Those women are looking for a clean up man.
Even if a woman is all that- 90% of men wont meet her criteria which is basic; dont have a small dick, be taller than her, protect her and be masculine, make more money and provide (have ambition) and dont be gross looking ( ie, be hygienic and not too fat or too skinny). And be straightforward and loyal lol
We’re supposed to just settle for the attitude and bs because we’re Black men I guess 🤦🏾♂️
I see your point Mr. Samuel but as a dark skinned sister, I have been told directly I am cute to be so Black. A guy who admires me as a person says he never thought he would be interested in someone as Black as me. KML. He was certainly dismissed in a cordial manner.
Facts!! Like being dark skinned means your usually unattractive...
@@anniewilson6737 it’s the truth, we’re allowed to have a preference
Wooow 😂😂😂.
I always thought that was weird. Being a man and looked at with curiosity like "how are you this good looking for being dark" has irritated me and made me laugh simultaneously. A lady did it to me in a bookstore a few years back. Caught her studying my face so I guess she figured she had to say something 😂
Ok.....
@@D.Money187 and that's why soooo many Blacks Blacks esp. are unfulfilled, unhappy, and divorced. Preferences have superceded SUBSTANCE. Carry on.
In African families they do tell u to focus on school not relationships till u ready
You can have both if your cooperative
This tends to be true, but you can do both
This is accurate, most of our dating experience starts at university.
Thank you Marilyn. Its useless trying to explain this to black Americans
@@ronaldmczee3886 Facts, theres nothing wrong with going to college. But when it becomes an obsetion and is getting in the way of your life then thats when it becomes a problem.
I’m Hawaiian and I married a dark skin woman. She’s absolutely Gorgeous. That dark skin bs is all in her head. The 2nd lady confirmed it 🏆🏆🏆
And your b'e'dwench is practicing "R'a'cial H'y'pergamy" by the way (something she'll never confess to you). With this same mentality that you brought up, they believe if they are with non-b'lack men or men who are of a lighter s'kintone than theirs that they have hit the jackpot. Don't bother questioning her, she is either not gonna confess or is going to feed you a story.
Everyone has there own personal experiences, everything is not black and white. I am dark and grew up in 70”s and 80’s and some black boys teased me and they did not like me. I was constantly called black and ugly. It was hurtful and I experienced this in my family too. I could not grasp why my race had such dislike for me. I loved being black. What this taught me is to accept people for who they are. Based it on racism and not knowing who you are as people and we don’t. We have been indoctrinated with bs. As I got older, I knew all black men were not like that. As matter of fact I never really had problem with guys liking me. I was bullied by girls because I had long hair and pretty skin. I love black men. Even though some of my experiences with black men have been negative. Most have been so positive. Every income level. I have seen some love their wives so much. I have been married to a beautiful chocolate man for 35 years. I make a concerted effort to speak to every black man. I will even speak to the ones who I see working on work release.
This mans message is for all races. Wisdom has no colour. I am an old white man. We learned this message from when we were young people in Sunday school and church service. In church we were taught moral principles and the result of actions. This man will tell you the same principles from a laic viewpoint. Since people don’t go to church anymore it is uplifting to see someone speaking truth. If someone cares he is always harder on his own, because he loves them
Love is truth and taking the time to tell it.
The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice.
Your darkness is my weakness.
My daughters are Black.
Black is beautiful.
Now what!!??!!
Lighter skin black girls are generally MUCH more attractive than darker skin black girls. PERIOD! (Funny how you disingenuous people can express a preference for darker skin and nobody says anything at the moment somebody expresses a preference for lighter skin Then suddenly it is a problem!) 🙄
@@cashmeoutsidehowbowdat6452 you just sound ignorant. This is what colorism is. And self hate as well. Being closer to fair doesn't naturally make you more beautiful. The issue isn't expressing preference for light skin women. The issue is ducks like you, who have to put down dark skin women to lift another group up.
@@SinfulCadence LOL!!! 😁😀😅😂 THANK YOU For proving my point! I KNEW that somebody like you would respond to my comment and PROVE the very point I was making! (He just said _ "the *darker* the berry the *sweeter* the juice"_ expressing his preference for darker skin women. And that is fine.
And I just followed it by stating an absolute incontrovertible FACT ...Which is that the MAJORITY of men do in fact prefer LIGHTER skinned women And then YOU respond by exhibiting your IMMATURITY! 🤔 (LOL!!)
...And where did I put ANYBODY down genius?
@@cashmeoutsidehowbowdat6452
How do you know what men prefer? The nerve to speak on behalf of "a majority of men". LOL
@@Nonpeon EXACTLY.
Women and their bad decisions they regret later: "I was young and dumb". Well, eventually they stop being young. The other part seems to hang around very much longer.
KS be like
SHE: I noticed he changed after coming back from space :( "
KS: No No No ma'am don't give me that I used to be an Astronaut! lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm actually laughing out loud 😂 🤣 😆
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂... I just died and went to heaven. That comment is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
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LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Dang! Kevin knows how to control a conversation and doesnt let anyone push him around. Lot of respect for you sir! 😄
All is not lost. I got married at 40 with a child to a great man, there is hope.
Thank you for sharing. I’m 38. Still wanting to meet someone and have a child. There is hope. ❤️
You just lucked up most women ain't as lucky as you
Lucky you
You must be really pretty
@@1stone379 I am pretty to my husband but not Halley Berry. But I think it was more than that. I loved him, believed in him, supported him and provided companionship and excitement. I also can hold a conversation and be taken around his family and friends without worry about what I might do or say. He also was looking to settle down, we wanted the same things like a family unit. He had a daughter, I had a daughter. It just worked out. Been seven years still going strong.
That argument the first woman had Re dark skin is sad. How do they explain Kelly Rowland?
Quite honestly, I’m a dark skinned woman who has never thought about my skin color being the reason I’m not dating. I’m divorced and I KNOW it’s me choosing not to date. I have guys trying to get my attention and I’m so far past a relationship at this point, that I don’t even recognize it until later on or the guy actually says, “I’ve been trying to speak with you and you just say hello and keep walking.” It’s me and I think more dark skinned women, the few I know of anyway, come across as bitter about their own skin color. If YOU can’t accept you, how can anyone else. I taught my daughter early on, how you present yourself to the world is how you will be treated.
Respectfully, you set the narrative for yourself and if you love yourself and you are confident then you will be able to withstand negative feelings about your complexion, and so will your daughters. However, it is a fallacy to believe that people don't have negative feelings about dark-skinned people especially dark-skinned women and it is internal.
Full of Cap'n here. You know dudes trying to holla..You intentionally are just trying to ignore them and hope they leave. Better off just saying you aren't interested
SOOO true 🙌🏽
@@HelpANiggaOut Yeah they are never 100 percent honest. They always gotta twist a thing or two in the story.
I’d love me a beautiful feminine dark skinned woman, hands down
COLORIST MEN ARE NOT YOUR TYPE ANYWAY!
This lady was a horrible representative for the colorism topic. Kevin was super strategic about those questions & she sadly fell into the traps because she wasn't being smart about her angle. As a dark skin women I definitely experienced colorism mainly because I was the darkest female in my family...It definitely SUCKED ASS experiencing all that bias as a kid. It really takes a knock at your confidence. Now I'm a little older I refuse to give it any effort because it just brings anger. I know it exists...Kevin YOU KNOW IT EXISTS...but personally I refuse for it to even take an ounce of my happiness. If a black man prefers light or white women THAT'S HIS PREFERENCE even if it comes from a colorist place. You don't want that type of guy anyway so why beg for him. There are so many other guys that like dark skin women. Lets focus on happiness and self love dark skinned black women...JUST STAAAAP BEGGING THESE PARTICULAR MEN.
It exists but not to the capacity you give it credit. Change your attitude in life and watch things change up
@@NajAli85 It does exist in that capacity because I have personally experienced it...In South Africa men are very vocal about it...and as a dark skin women it has been told to my face...but I get why you would say that because you don't know my life nor my story...just like I don't know your life nor your story...and why you would text what you texted...never in my previous text did I mention that I'm stuck on these colorist men I just acknowledge they exist... My solution is to not care or fight them on their preference... I feel like that's an amazing attitude to have compared to the alternative.
@@gugudlhamini3677 listen, you are correct I don’t know your life nor story. Since you brought being from SA I can see why you say it exists in that capacity. This is america and the conversations as based on American culture. You are speaking for yourself about yourself with your experiences, as opposed to what the general consensus is here in the USA. I won’t argue with your attitude and perception on this matter. If you believe you are correct by all means continue. I hope it works out for you.
@@NajAli85 we'll try to downplay colorism but you see how people particularly black people are brutally beat up by the police still in 2022 if that is in colorism I don't know what is
How many black supermodels can you name I'm just saying it's here whether we downplay it with a -exaggerated it's in our face
Well he should have said is colorism exist but how do you upgrade yourself so you know it's just colorism and not your stank attitude you know it's colorism when you did everything right but you still didn't get the job etc. He means well but the delivery needs work
@@blindsey1043 but that racism your describing. Colorism is the thought that lightskins are more attractive than dark skins.
This man was a GIANT, playing with mice. 🙏RIP 🙏 🤜🏽🤛🏿
The girl who called in at 1 hour and 27 minutes was very self-aware . Instead of demanding the world to change which is almost impossible, she decided to change herself.
“A beautiful woman is one with a beautiful heart. ...
What bullshit!
🧀🧀 ...MOOOOOOOOO 👀
@Adi Adeee that's a choice
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3rd absolutely right
She’s raised in a culture where the parents run their lives
Mothers
The father tried to get her married, but she ignored the men. It’s her fault. Marriage wasn’t a priority or she didn’t find the man attractive and wants to claim those relationships didn’t go anywhere because she was busy with school. She blew it. Therapist told her t she has a defeatist attitude. She’s rude. I wouldn’t want to listen to her for many hours.
“Motherfucking looking for Romeo” god what a legend
As a beautiful dark skinned woman I have NEVER had an issue getting any type of men. Actually, alot of men were attracted to me because of my beautiful smooth chocolate skin. I love my skin color. My mom is extremely light skinned and my father had very beautiful chocolate skin. My mom said that I was the most beautiful baby in the world. Of course she was probably partial 🤣
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Why do people call in and get mad. you know exactly what your going to get with him.
Exactly? I want to do a self-esteem test on the women that called the show . I’ve never experienced anything like this , it’s absolutely amazing that someone would be this needy for validation that they will call. Do you not have fathers, brothers , hell a next-door neighbor that’s a man what is the purpose of calling this man! This shit is mine blowing it’s almost like watching explosion I can’t turn away from it because I just cannot believe that these women are this damn stupid and desperate
You are sooo right!!!😀Lol!
Women. Date a cheater then get mad the cheater cheated on. Smh
I did see some lonely birds on there the other day so some do ask for it.
Been cracking up all week
This reality that Kevin presents needs to be a class in high school!! The media has brainwashed women to think they can achieve unrealistic realities.
They all seem to have graduated with a PhD at the Derrick jaxn academy
SaniBravo djaxon is the biggest finesse artist in history respect that mans hustle 😂😂💯
@@AyStarmusic ON EVRYTHING!
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@@AyStarmusic Big facts! 😂😂 I can’t even knock bruh, if women gone eat that bullshit up he be saying I need to probably get my foot in the door
Man, this is so enlightening. Women spend all this time trying to excel in the things they are looking for not realizing men of value aren’t looking for any of those things.
Has it ever occurred to these women that men ultimately deal with who wants to deal with them? Most black women never gave me the time of day for whatever reason. I used to think it was because I don’t fit “black” stereotypes and always had an interest in things not thought to be associated with black people but I always wanted a black woman. Sadly though, the ones I wanted (good looking, smart, and fit) didn’t want me at the time and once they realized what they missed it was too late. I moved on and found someone who does want me and it had nothing to do with her color
Now we understand why she needs a new therapist. She searching for someone who will agree with her, instead of telling her she is defeatest! She is a skin bleaching candidate.
And will look as ugly as her attitude if she DID bleach her skin 🤢🤮
Absolutely E!
Ladies, help me understand. Why do u have kids with men u don't want to make a life with? Baby daddys and now u want to be saved by the same type of men u dismissed when u were hot.
That guy was building and now has succeeded. Why should this type of man even consider you??
You call callers rude for over talking you or cutting you off yet you repeatedly do it to them. The irony? Let people fully speak before you respond. It’s like you nit pick everything they said to fit your own narrative without fully hearing them out. That’s not classy dude
His show, hes not seeking help she is. U have 2 ears n 1 mouth for a reason. If you cant shut up when he trying to talk then you dont need his help
Totally agree. He was obnoxious and you saw right through his veneer.
I TOTALLY agree! When you demand respect give respect, he has to lead by example! Oftentimes they are asked a question and when they start talking he interrupts them, so annoying. He doesn't do this with men who call in and they go on and spit out a whole telenovela smh.
Hi Kevin I'm from Nova Scotia, Canada. I am currently living on Vancouver Island,British Columbia,Canada. As a Christian woman aged 37 I truly enjoy your content and agree with what you have expressed about all modern women. I really thank you for sharing your wisdom with all of us. Realistically, it may be hardest to hear for the hard headed. But to someone like me who has worked very hard to turn my life around I wish I would have had men in my life growing up to guide me just as truthful and insightful as you are to the women on your platform. I was raised by separated parents who both hate the opposite sex. The ramifications of this conflicted and confused form of ass backwards guidance is very tragic and wide spread to anyone of my generation. Thank God for men like you for mentoring our generation and the next.
your ten years past your sell by date.
You're not Christian, so stop with your garbage
Of all the black women that win contests like Ms Universe, Ms America, Ms USA, they’re usually darker skinned women. So objectively, dark skin doesn’t make a woman less attractive in the eyes of the world at large.
I’m a dark skinned African American man that occasionally gets mocked for looking like I can pass for an African/Jamaican/Islander/Any-darker-than-usual black guy. And I have no problem getting with black women (of all shades), mixed women, white women, etc. Some women have told me they messed with me in spite of preferring lighter or non-black guys. Some have told me being dark skinned was a turn on. Some have told me they don’t even consider me to be dark skinned. There’s a dozen other factors more than my skin tone that will make or break a woman’s desire to be with me. Same applies to women.
Of all the women I dated, the most physically gorgeous in my eyes was a 6ft tall, dark skinned, slim, feminine, Nigerian woman. But she had so many other issues going on mentally and emotionally that I couldn’t handle it.
I’ve always been more attracted to dark skinned women
AJweathersby The skin tone may not matter to you guys in particular but in more of a general consensus in this country and World and black population there is a lot of Colorism. not everyone individually feels that way but there are too many black men that do. especially when they feel that they are high value men and they want a trophy wife they consider the trophy wife to be a light-skinned woman or a white woman. There’s even black men on RUclips promoting white women over black women or dark skin women and I haven’t seen that happening to any other race but us. Look at the celebrities and see what they get all the time. there are individuals like you who don’t feel that way but too many men feel that way. Just think about it the media pushes a white beauty at everyone for years and years and years it’s just recent years that we’ve seen dark beauty being promoted. Now for men it’s the opposite being a dark skin man is considered a good thing because you guys are not judged on the same basis as women. ever since movies like new Jack city and others with Wesley snipes (Who in the past in Ebony magazine said he prefer Asian women instead of black women) and other celebrities has made being a dark skin black man more popular. Wesley is now trying to say that he loves Black people but I don’t know if the woman situation has changed as I found that just because someone says they love Black people they may still have a double standard regarding black women:
youhgv2010 I have always been MOST attracted to Dark Skinned women and I’ve had em all
@@youhgv2010 that's that victim mentality. Stop worrying about what others think of you, just be and love yourself but also improve your attitude towards black men.
marantzo69 I don’t have a victim mentality because I am no longer feeling the way I used too. However it’s sad that too many black man is going to go along with that propaganda against their own people. you don’t see Asian man, Spanish man or Indian man in large numbers doing that to their women and they’re not the majority either. I’m not against black man but the ones that have that attitude in this day and age to me that’s a very unintelligent attitude to have towards your own people. And I don’t see how some of you talk like there’s no colorism. that’s almost like saying there is no racism. and I don’t know if you’ve been living under a rock. I appreciate that some that some of you guys don’t go along with the status quo but unfortunately Colorism is the status quo. Skin tone determines attractiveness for to many especially black men. If there’s no colorism then why are these women complaining are they just inferior. Why are so many celebrities always with white or lite women
Did that caller really think that dudes who prefer lighter skin is the problem BUT this girl has 2 kids with different baby daddies??!! I’ve heard it all now y’all 😂
I missed tht part where she had 2 diff fathers!!! Tht is a 👎 everytime. I made tht mistake dating a babymomma at 19 & it took 7yrs of bs + stress to get my pockets back to zero.
Damn - two kids with different baby daddies? She's looking for a bailout and a clean up man. That's a No Go.
They don’t prefer light skin women they prefer women without baggage whose percentages without baggage are higher around light skinned women
With over 70% of Black kids born out of wedlock, that's a more likely reason that many Black women are ignored by top-tier men. Women somehow believe that showing up with other men's kids is not a problem.
I bet both baby daddy’s are light skinned too
Kevin could've allowed this woman to finish a sentence.
Ikr..this old man is being rude
Right!
@Adi Adeee 😂😂
So being combative and rude is real?
@Adi Adeee
Nah disrespectful behavior isn't real.
Capitalizing words doesn't make your point either. 😂😂
@Adi Adeee
We were originally talking about the show, now you made my statement personal.
In reference to the PH.D caller, unfortunately we are told and taught that we can't have this or that because we are dark-skinned. And because of that we limit ourselves and make excuses. But the truth is we need healing from the lies and insecurities of others. And loving ourselves and accepting ourselves in our deeply melanated skin. Therapy is highly important and I'm not just saying that because I am a therapist. Keep up the good work Kevin. It raw and it hurts but necessary.
The negative stereotype gives me GAS to shatter that narrative. I don't like being told no anyway 😂😂 I going through the front door or side. Either way, I'm getting in
I'm a 3 year subscriber to Mr. Samuels channel. Started out only watching the fragrance videos, somehow (via covid19) I started to pay closer attention to his other content. This is pure gold or like the OGs say "good game". Folks get too sidetracked by the delivery and semantics, and lose sight of the fact that Mr. Samuels consistently highlights the central themes of: accountability, introspection, and reverence; regardless of sex/gender/race or creed. The last caller, and the show's subject highlight a form of mental genocide and indoctrination that exists within the black community. Above all I sensed a lack of self-love and appreciation in the tone of those two women. Learn to love and embrace the strength of the black experience and spend less time fixating on those ignorant few who further perpetuate divisiveness. Black is beautiful! Black is bold! I think those were the central themes of tonight's show. Blessings to all.
Very well said!
@@peterssister421 Thanks. This seems to be a pervasive ideology amongst most minority groups and/or subgroups. Fairer/Whiter skin is often times incorrectly associated with superiority and status. In the black community both BM/BW can suffer from pronounced symptoms of "inferiority complex" and imposter syndrome. Colonialism is the culprit.
@@phillipakali8920 You're welcome King. I love when critical thinking and complete comprehensive context are the tools used to clearly articulate one's point of view. You were clear and concise!! #Bravo #Blackintelligence ❤
Me too 3 year subscriber also
Why do you talk to this man! He is so disrespectful
Black Women, men aren't turned off by your skin color, THEY'RE TURNED OFF BY YOUR ATTITUDE...
Exactly preach
But they don’t even approach because-
There’s no sense in pretending as if colorism doesn’t exist. It exists among other cultures as well. It is something that should be confronted, not ignored.
@@BadTasteforguys can you really stop people from not liking you because of your skin color tho?
Are you implying we should shame ppl into liking u because of your skin color?
Black men, the police don’t put you in jail unnecessarily because you’re skin color, YOU’RE BREAKING THE LAW
Lois Lane: Superman doesn't put me first.
KS:Ma'am! I used to live on Krypton know who you're talkin to.
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I'm a lightskin guy and I think we pursue darkskin women alot harder. Like I'd dropkick a lightskin girl to get to a cute darkskin girl lol
Opposite attract.
For real! 💯
Eyyy drop that IG
Yes! I. love my dark skin
noticed you said cute dark skin girl as in most aren't
Shid! Most fair skin and light skin brothers love dark skin women. We don’t like those that don’t take care of themselves. If that were the case Bria Myles wouldn’t get any play!
I agree. I’ve dated mostly lighter skinned men, not because that’s my preference, but because that’s what was attracted to me. I had a dark skinned man tell me he wouldn’t date dark skinned women because he didn’t want his children to be dark.
@@Denise_Cocoa Sad! Our dark skinned brothers and sisters have been bread to hate themselves.
@Florian it has to be hate cuz how tf can you claim to love yourself but don’t want your children to look like you??? And yes blacks were conditioned to believe light is better, otherwise we wouldn’t be having these conversations❗️I understand opposites attract but no one ever says that, that’s how ya know these aren’t actual “preferences”. Y’all just throw that word around to justify the BS 🙄
Colorism is real and it manifests within our own race . Not exclusively, but we oftentimes do it to ourselves. I've witnessed on several occasions even friends of mine who made it clear that they don't mess with dark-skinned women. Even one of my friends who is dark-skinned. Alot of us (black folks) treat dark-skinned women like white people treat us dismissively blaming black women for speaking out against colorism.
Minority people racist will say that ; majority Have no issues dating a women ; They dont care about skin colour what is important is she fit for relationship that the real issue
Had to shake my head, when you don’t want to take personal responsibility or humble yourself then no one can teach or tell you anything.
I gave up on North American women. Delusional, greedy, aggressive, tattooed up like a Russian prisoner, fake, smoking and drug use … I have been dating a natural, pure black African woman for two years. She’s feminine, kind, respectful, thoughtful and actually likes having a conversation She doesn’t talk over me or change the topic. .
I don't know what that PhD lady's problem is, but most of the men I know prefer dark skin women. I know I do. All five of my children are with a dark skin woman.
Dark skin women just have to compete a little bit harder but no matter how pretty you are or color it’s about your attitude/Mannerisms.
If you don't self sabotage you have a good chance. My cousin married a DS black woman they have 3 children he takes care of his wife she submits something damn near none of our women do. Also my mom submits to my Dad very few women especially the younger women will do such a thing.
Well said sister.
That's not true Sister.
ZW Please elaborate
Dark skin women don't have to compete harder. If she is an 8, 9 or 10 like Kevin says, men are gonna be at her regardless if she's dark skin or not.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
"Maybe what you want don't want you !"
Damn, that's _GANGSTA !_
Rest easy KS. 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
What really caught me was the anti social aspect. My ex, a dark-skinned black woman had the dark skin complex. She made more than I did, and that was touched on too. But what really stuck out was that she had no friends outside of one white woman and people at work.
And when we broke up, she came back around talking about i was her best friend, even though she'd repeatedly told me I was the hardest person she ever tried talking to.
I had to tell her being friends was a logical decision, just because you're lonely and that it was no longer my issue. If I were to be open, I have better and lo get relationships outside of my racial structure than within. Watching these videos I'm starting to see why.
Even if were true, which it isnt, that high value men dont like dark skinned women, so what? It's a logical fallacy to to try to take something that is inherently discriminatory like dating and try to make it fair. There's no fairness doctrine in dating and man has the right to disqualify any woman, at any time, for any reason without qualification or explanation. Men have the right to their preferences, and men who can actualize thier preferences, do just that. It is what is. Male, especially black male, selection proclivities are only an issue because, a lot of women, especially sisters dont have what it takes to attract and retain high value men. When men cant get a date, they're told to improve themselves, be it thier physically appearance by getting in shape, or thier clothing, improve thier financial standing by getting a better job/making more money, etc. The onus is always on him to improve because it's a personal issue. When women cant get a date, it's a societal problem and not a personal one. Their age, weight, children, attitude, personality, etc are never taken into account and it always devolves back I to the most intellectually dishonest and lazy arguments possible, usually some percieved "ism" or "shaming." Fat Shaming, slut shaming, colorism, etc are all branches on the same tree of excuses. Women of all shades are attractive. So if you can't get a high quality man, it's most likely not because of your skin tone.
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Facts
Peter's Sister
Why the side eye? Everything in comment complete makes sense.
They want 6 foot guys with 6 figures and 6% body fat and they aren't even 6s 😆
@@R_W_Goodson that WASN'T "the sideeye". I SEE YOU is what that means. I saw the comment. It was very well written. I can acknowledge intelligence sincerely and honestly, no sarcasm or cynicism. FYI "😏" is the sideeye emoji. Be well ❤
The first caller isn't even acknowledging anything, she's finding excuses.
I’m a darker skinned woman and I have no problem getting the attention from high value men. I’ve dated 3 millionaires two were black. I’m treated Like a Goddess I’ve never experienced feeling less preferable than any other woman whose come around me. I’ve been treated better than most the women I know and I’ve been proposed to 6 times in my life. I know how to carry myself and I know how to treat men and I’m 34 happily engaged to a 43 yr old high value man 👑
Marry this one, Kevin will say times running out and your too picky.
Same here and I'm dark skin as well
@@Amynicks1 a!
Where can I find one? What city do I need to move to?
I saw your profile videos and most are of twerking and sleezey hip hop scenes, doubt your seeing any man of value
Wasn't it Lil' Wayne who said that he will not be having any more children with "Dark-Skinned" women? The thing is.... he's not saying he won't have any more children with Black Women because of any character flaws, that brother is like..."I ain't having no more kids with them because I don't want to create any more dark-skinned children with kinky hair." But, isn't that the image of what he is?
Those rappers are all shallow why would any woman want somebody like him anyway. talk to these women long enough the truth comes out. Men who have their act together are approaching them and see them as potential life long partners but the woman doesn't want him. So men are approaching these women but he is too short , he is too nice, he doesn't make enough money for me. etc etc.
@@gina72916 But what about all of us black men that are not color struck? Just like what was said you American women are only interested in men that are not interested in you. I solved that problem by simply going to Africa. Me and my woman have been together for 8 years. Several women I knew were shocked that I was with her, they assumed I was a colorist. The problem is you ladies are too worried about these shallow high-status men, trying to get their acceptance.
Lil Wayne has gotten too arrogant to realize that women only create children with his challenged look self, because the color he brings...green.
Your using a the word of an adult whos moniker is lil, as a barometer of what Black Men want?
Are you in high school?
Little Wayne is a sad fellow. Pray for him
There’s definitely something to be said for the victim mindset and being a defeatist. But let’s not act like colorism isn’t real in the black community though. Ask yourself what’s promoted in the media as attractive in the world & in the black community by rappers in music videos etc...
Realize you put rappers at a pedestal for dictating to other men what's attractive to them and whats not. Rappers do not dictate who is beautiful and who is not.
Also there are plenty of black rappers who glorify dark-skinned women too. Are you just going to ignore those rappers just to add on to a rhetoric that black men do like women who are darker. Cause as a bm I can tell you "thats not true" and even so there are the same number of women who do the same to men.
Vile J3ster I didn’t put anyone on a pedestal, black culture and the black community collectively put rappers/entertainers on a pedestal. I simply pointed it out. If you don’t think the words that these entertainers speak have an influence on the minds of young black boys & girls Who consume their content, and then you are very much mistaken. Rappers that promoted dark skin women were definitely in the minority. How can you completely ignore that back then, a majority of video vixens had a certain look (light skin, mixed, exotic looking, curly non 4c hair) up until recently. many rappers might’ve slept with dark skin women but that wasn’t what was heavily promoted as being standard for attractive in the music until recently. I don’t disagree that women contributed as well.
High Frequency Radio if you say so boss. There’s absolutely no way that what is represented in the media has any effect on the behavior and thought patterns of any human being. That’s why brands waste so much money on advertising. Your neighborhood is a good indication of that. Goes beyond musicians too, it’s in movies, magazines etc... only focused on black media the first response but it’s in white media heavy as well.
Dark skin women get just as much representation as light skinned black women.....in TV movies and music videos....a lot of DS women just have victim mentalities
Nicoll_JK brandy in moesha, countess Vaughn and Monique in the parkers, the black girl from glee, Ashley from fresh prince, 2 of the 4 daughters on the Cosby show, one of them women in living single, the daughter on the Bernie Mac show, Chris’ younger sister Tanya on everybody hates Chris,the daughters in family matters, fancy from the Jamie Foxx show, the women on hangin with mr Cooper, and the countless cameos played by black women for single episode purposes.....for movies/music, I’m not even going to waste my time because denying they have a presence in movies and music videos is straight up disingenuous
Pretty is Pretty. According to the Wisdom that has been shared on this channel, by the time a woman receives her PH.D she's out of her prime , too old to mold, and to concern with her career. The Danger Zone is approaching. Dark Skinned women who are pretty get all types of men. It goes back to if are you attractive...point blank. I bet you the darkest African the color of a cast Iron skillet, will get attention if she is pretty and in shape. I've seen this to be true.
Yeah man after listening to colorists and thinking about it, I think the prettier dark skinned women probably don't complain about colorism in dating too much
Dark skin woman he put on camera was pretty. If she can’t get a man to stay around , it’s not her looks
It's interesting that women easily find the worst Black men, but have the hardest time finding and attracting men they want as husbands. Assuming we're talking high-caliber women, why is this an issue?
They attract what they earned.
@Tasheri Even if there aren't as not as many high quality Black men you'd like, your statement suggests that you're incapable of attracting top-tier men. Many women assume they're worthy of high-caliber men, and that's just not the case.
Kevin C Tasheri is an obese, unattractive swirler. Idk why she’s on this channel since she swirls. Black men shouldn’t even be on her mind
@Love 23Amazed Many women say "there are so few good men," but don't women get plenty of male attention in their early 20s? Why not use that time to find a great husband?
“Soundin like you just got off the fryer at Popeyes”. Idk why but out of all the tea and burns we saw on this episode, that one made me laugh the hardest.
"Ma'am if you think any man worth any salt is going to be a fool like I was & be a stepfather KNOWING WHAT WE KNOW NOW, you're outta your mind"
Godfather brilliance in a nutshell 🤣😂😭🤣😂😭
Thanks for sharing. I was raised by a step-father and knowing what I know now, I see the sacrifice he made to be with my mom. I truly appreciate everything he’s done for us. No way in hell I would be a step dad, though. Knowing what we know now, we can’t take certain women serious, serious:
-baby mommas 🚩
-women over 30 🚩
-combative, masculine, ungrateful 🚩
More to the list, but those are the most obvious. Let’s apply those standards.
Color is only an issue when a person makes it an issue. This video is soooo on POINT❤️❤️❤️
Yesssss
Nobody wants to be with a drunk. A cocktail or two in the evening is normal.
Man wasn’t a drunk. She painted him to be so
@@NajAli85 facts...it’s all hearsay at this point.
The reason why he was Smoking & drinking
Is because she drove him crazy..
Wow he cuts her off. I grew up seeing most of the darker skinned women being made fun off by the lighter skinned people. Guys would make fun of other guys who dated darker skinned women where I grew up outside of Philly.
Seems like this is all in the past.
@@WatchMan666 No it is not in the past.
Absolutely and it still happens especially in the South and out west
Yeah, but those are a minority of people, I grew up with most of the white people in my school mistaking for another black guy my height, do white people think all black men are the same? I can assure you all the women talking about colorism get asked out by dark skin men.
@@toade1583 Depends on the area...majority of dark-skinned women in the South are ignored by dark-skinned men and the two tend to avoid each other as a form of natural selection. They are conditioned to date lighter to give their children a fair chance and that is inherent reverse racism.
Women have 3 choices in life: they can work full-time, work part-time, or stay home and not work. Men also have 3 choices: work full-time, work full-time, or work full-time.
Tell that to the stay at home dads.
@@toade1583 how far an in between is that tho...😁😁😁✌✌✌
Man Brother Kevin you hold these women accountable frfr you give them no wiggle room for bullshit or deflection! You keep them in the center of the ring much love my brother love you show I've been spreading it amongst the brothers!
Some men just don’t like dark women. Ok. It does exist. So don’t dismiss people experience. However, find the ones who do.
I agree. Go where you’re appreciated. Don’t try to push yourself on them or make them like you or shame them for not liking you. Just get with someone who does like you.
I am sure that skin color/shade has been clearly been an issue in our community.
It has
Yep! And still is
Mainly with foreigners, that shit was more prevlent in the 80s.
Oh yes it is. Being super bright as I am. I learned. Get with people who like you and you like them. If they don't like you because of a certain skin tone. Move onto to someone who has not problem with it. I'm bright and my girl is dark skin. One girl thought I didn't like dark skin women. With her it was because she was always bringing up her skin color yet she was married twice before. So someone wanted your ass.
All the dark skinned women i knew growing up until my 40 y.o. self have never had a problem getting a man. I mean NEVER. Some married, some not but the men stayed after them. I have uncles and several cousins who are high yellow that have dated, married dark skin women. Hell some prefer it.
Most of the men that ask me out are very light skinned or biracial. I didn't know anything about colorism until a few years ago.
My uncle married a dark skinned woman and he's very light
Majority of the men who like us are fair-skinned but I don't think they are favored in Africa at all. They bleach themselves like Asians and Latinas because they hate their skin.
My cousin light skinned and married a young lady he met in junior high dark skinned had two beautiful girls but he passed away but she still love him graduated with a PHD worked for Walgreens and a supervisor at a pharmaceutical company and she an engineer dark skinned women get loved when playing their roles...😁😁😁✌✌✌
@@patrickmartin2689 dark skin women have no problem getting a man. That whole light vs dark is hype. Yeah some get clowned for being dark and some dudes prefer light skin chicks. Someones preference isnt necessarily a diss
I wish Kevin would talk to women who are older with experience who can go toe to toe with these conversations with him. Younger men and women would gain more knowledge and life skills hearing that type of exchange versus him cutting them off because they're thought process is not on his level. Just like a woman can't raise a man, a man can't raise a woman. Kevin and many men have no idea what it's like to walk in our shoes, so to even have an intelligent conversation about this topic with a Black man is only going to make you feel inadequate and entertainment for others. My Father has always given me excellent advice about how to maneuver through life and dating, without him being condescending. He taught me how spot characteristics in men based on his actions and words so I don't get caught up in the game, He taught me how to be smart about every decision so other's decisions do not affect me and my walk in life. Being knowledgeable and knowing how to use it breeds confidence. Confidence will attract a man who will assess themselves first to see if they're capable to step up to your level no matter what complexion you are.
He can’t go toe to toe. He makes points about HV people, however he is very shallow. He has an unattractive spirit. I am a solid 5, for some reason Medical Doctors, PhD.s, and men who run top fortune 100 seem to like me. I agree on the weight. I will see myself out at this point.
Amen because I'm ready to bring it to him really good.
True, his not listening to her at all and his the one taking over her. And his rude
Narcissist only prey on ppl who are inexperienced vulnerable... An experienced, wise women would never call his line because in actuality the man ain't sh%+
I don't know if they even need to be older but a woman who will stand up for herself and say, I'm speaking and you're cutting me off to set up the parameters for your own narrative. That's what he continues to do. He's down on women. Other men who think of themselves as "high value" do the same.
🕊EVERYONE JUST BE YOURSELF & ALL OTHER THINGS FALL INTO PLACE🕊
men love my dark skin
Just be your self.. So what do the people who hate people do? Stupid advice.
That's very dangerous
Why would you hate people? You attract what you are, would you be attracted to someone like yourself??🤐
Being yourself clearly ain't working
I like dark skinned woman and that s a fact ).
MOST men find lighter skin women more attractive than darker skinned women and that's just a FACT!
@@cashmeoutsidehowbowdat6452 I much prefer darker skin, turns me on big time. No clue why.
@@myjizzureye Thank you😊
I have to take Kevin in doses because there is definitely some truth to his message and I'm just trying to learn. But sometimes he is just so dang rude. I couldn't even get the woman's story b/c he kept cutting her off and tearing her down. My thing is, if these women are reaching out to you for advice, give it to them straight in your regular assertive manner but keep all the rude comments in your arsenal until it's really time to use them.
Sometimes if you hear enough bullshyt it becomes automatically pushing hard on the brakes remember these phone calls are one sided you don't hear the otherside...😁😁😁✌✌✌
I agree. I understand his rudeness a lot of the time but this time it was just annoying. I actually wanted to hear what she had to say but he wouldn’t allow us to.
Exactly
She hates herself
Book a session
When its free
Expect anything
When its paid for
He will be different
These comments had me thinking this was about dark skinned women being bashed. No, the issue is she thinks she’s above someone. What have we come to? No one says settle but don’t be intimate with someone for all of those years and depict them. Any who, anytime we think we are above ppl we get the short end of the stick. 🤷♀️
Women lack responsibility of their actions. Too many believe "I'm a nubian queen so I demand a black guy even after I have wasted my hot years to bums. I deserve a high value black man"
Bro why do you always cut your guests off. None of us are perfectl, we"ve all made mistakes and I'm sure you've made your share. It sounds like you judged her before she started talking.
Nah, she ( the lady on the older call) said if she was lighter, somehow things would’ve been better, but she had two men pretty close together. Then she said her African culture is better, but they were clapping those cheeks and she would abort a child. That doesn’t sound any better than the U.S. Lastly, as he said, she came in there to teach him a lesson by stating her feelings that were quickly debunked by the facts. Finally (lastly wasn’t last), it’s his show. If you don’t like it, don’t call, and don’t watch it on RUclips.
Because she won't answer the question. She wants to just babble about her excuses. We don't have that kind of time.
Exactly
But he gets mad as hell when women over talk him.🤦🏾♀️ Right is right... wrong is wrong.
@@stardust2172 Who is we?
I love how straight forward Kevin is. I wouldn’t get mad, I would thank him instead, but I guess it’s tough for some.
I thought this would be a great podcast but now it just seems colorist & misogynistic 😒He was extremely rude to this woman, she apologized he was still gaslighting 🙄
Here we go.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Exactly! He is not happy internally. You can’t be, and treat people like that.
@Asa Harvey Why take their calls then? I want to hear their perspective before they are cut off, talked down to, etc...
Lmao wow you can’t be serious 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@Asa Harvey What are you going to do? Deny us resources? Deny us access to your facilities? Start competing with white men instead of Black females and start building? You all are in a delusional dream world.
If every woman and man will own up to their bullshit, better themselves and compete you can have the type of relationship you want. PERIOD!
Good lookin Channel Kevin. My dad use to always tell me " Son, if you happen to be an ugly person on the inside or outside no matter your skin color, your just going to accept the fact your going to have to work for a living and some people won't like you " Anyways I don't have a dog in this fight I'm a white guy but I enjoyed hearing you speak and appreciated how you handled it. Have a good day sir.
It's not the skin color, it's the ATTITUDE...
Being dark skin doesn’t stop you from finding a partner.
...its funny how they say dark skin women are so unattractive but the main women that they are going after are trying to get inspiration from black women and want what we have whether its hair skin body they're getting inspiration while they're promoting black women to bleach or to feel like their melanin is a curse and should be diluted i feel like some people are lacking discernment but some of yall already know and yes i feel like from an honest stand point dark skin women should go were they're celebrated and not tolerated black women have options too
Charlene, they are hypocrites and goal post movers. They want black women to be confused and have low self esteem so you will feel trapped and worthless. Feeling trapped and worthless will set you up to be manipulated and vulnerable. When a black woman has expectations, certain men will deem these expectations as too much. Well, maybe those expectations are too much for certain men to achieve. When I happened to go outside my race, those expectations were already there with the man I gave my hand to. All black women got to do is drop blackistan mentality, learn skills, and take care of themselves.
Wait don’t 99% of bw wear weave and die their hair blonde?....but other women want to be black? I think you’re confused...
@@Highboostakon How about you stop nesting in a nonblack man's system? The fact that bm allowed the black community to nest in a nonblack system is the reason why so many bw wear weave.
Isn’t the vast majority of black men married/dating black women??
@@basedshogun_8048 Not exactly. WHEN Black males do marry, it is racially ambiguous or lighter hued women. If they do marry a darker hued black woman, she's just the starter chick or the "I hope I have a black son with her" chick. I didn't say it, bm said it.
If people are so embarrassed about their situation that they deflect every question just listen 👂🏾 and learn!
So simple yet women don't just listen. They are right even though they are calling asking for help. Smh. Madness
Kevin plays the best music before his show....really gets you ready to hear what he has to say....Keep it up Mr Samuels.....your show is awesome!!!
While I do agree that some women will use colorism as an excuse, when they are overweight or unattractive, it does play a role in the dating market. One study showed that light skinned black women were slighty more likely to get married than white women and way more likely to get married than darker skinned black women!
I'm a black man, and while some women are not motivated to compete, I think that sometimes the obesity and the attitudes from some of these darker skinned women is because if all else is equal, they light skinned girl wins! So essentially she has to be better than the light skinned girl!
Now this is a reality and life isn't fair. A black man has to be better than a white man to get the same opportunities in the dating market. A short man has to be better than a tall man. So you can always blame the individual for not being better than what they are.
With many of these women, they can improve, but it doesn't guarantee that they will get the man they want.
Unfortunately women who go to school and get advanced degrees and make high incomes, are hoping that their high income and education will make them a candidate for a successful man. But most successful men want a prettier girl, not a more successful woman!
@@cherryblossoms942 maybe you just don't want to hear what I have to say.