Will a hysterectomy change my sex life??

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024

Комментарии • 52

  • @violetgovender8957
    @violetgovender8957 Год назад +24

    This is her story..just one interview. My sex drive died off completely after my hysterectomy doc, it's been four years now after and I'm dead😞

    • @autumngrace8541
      @autumngrace8541 Год назад +5

      Mine too. I had uterine cancer, no hrt, been three years since total hysterectomy, at two and half years I have no desire for sex, I'm repulsed to even french kiss.

    • @violetgovender8957
      @violetgovender8957 Год назад +3

      @Autumngrace 🤣 kissing for me also is a total NoNo.. I'm glad to know that I'm not the only person that has gone off intercouse after the op

    • @autumngrace8541
      @autumngrace8541 Год назад

      @Violet Govender my spouse can't live without it, so divorce is in the cards.
      I also deal with ADHD -Self diagnosed,I was born with congenital hypothyroid, and I come from too many years of narcissistic abuse and I'm just tired mentally and physically. I've got auto immune issues and fight or flight doesn't turn off. Then the symptoms of surgical menopause added in, ugh. I have insomnia and it's 430am. It feels like his dick is more important in the relationship, even if my body parts have been carved out. He feels betrayed, told me last week that I might as well have cheated on him like his other two wives. So, maybe that's my cue to let go even more. I don't trust him with my emotions from other issues. Plus he said, "maybe you just can't give me what I need at this time in my life"... there isn't enough info out there for us surgical menopause people. I want to start a podcast and get more out there.

    • @ChantelTGill
      @ChantelTGill Год назад +3

      So what happened to your relationship???

    • @Doormanswift
      @Doormanswift Год назад +1

      ​@@ChantelTGill It's also dead.

  • @NLR759
    @NLR759 Год назад +10

    My gynaecologist said women who have a hysterectomy but keep their ovaries go into menopause 2-3 years earlier than they would have without the hysterectomy. This is because blood flow to the ovaries is greatly reduced after hysterectomy.

  • @IvySnowFillyVideos
    @IvySnowFillyVideos 2 года назад +11

    Please consider doing a video on long term effects & increased health risks related to having a hysterectomy

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  2 года назад +1

      Ivy Snow Filly Videos: Thanks for the suggestion. I will share with our production team

  • @pegatheetoo1437
    @pegatheetoo1437 Год назад +8

    I had a hysterectomy with ovaries taken also. I had horrible hot flashes for years. It was 30+ years ago. I still cannot tolerate any temps over 72° & if I'm walking or moving around, 65°. Ruined my sex life. I regret that I had to get it done! 😢

  • @jeanetteraichel8299
    @jeanetteraichel8299 2 года назад +6

    Two years TAH BSO and estradiol gel working great and no prolapse. The recovery time for open abdominal is much longer, but the surgery was well worth it.
    Do a video on ovarian cysts and ovarian/endometrial cancer.....

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  2 года назад +2

      Jeanette: check out our video on ovarian cysts here!
      ruclips.net/video/WKmmYldESCs/видео.html
      I have just the person in mind to do a video on ovarian/endometrial cancer. stay tuned!

  • @amyl.7570
    @amyl.7570 Год назад +9

    I used to be hyper sexual in my marriage. Had a total hysterectomy a year and 4 mts ago and now taking low estrogen pills, 2 mg. I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE DESIRE for sex nor masturbating!!! NONE! Maybe it's all in my mind but I could go the rest of my life without it. I don't know what happened but it ruined me. Having no menstrual cycle is HEAVEN but I miss sex or even the desire for it 😳😲😓

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  Год назад +2

      Thanks for being a subscriber! This is a great point. Women who have a total hysterectomy (including ovary removal) will experience drastic hormonal changes that directly affect sex drive. The studies on sexual satisfaction what we refer to here only pertain to women who KEEP their ovaries during a hysterectomy. This is a critical distinction, and we appreciate your comment

    • @chchwoman9960
      @chchwoman9960 Год назад +3

      The uterus is definitely a sex organ. That is where sexual feelings occur. Thanks for your honesty, so many women will not admit this.

  • @MuMu-fu7qe
    @MuMu-fu7qe Год назад +7

    I'll miss my cervix.

  • @andriaknobel5241
    @andriaknobel5241 8 месяцев назад +3

    Interview her 5 years after a hysterectomy

  • @lisakew448
    @lisakew448 Год назад +2

    Yes and the meds can put u in an emotional break down

  • @talithialee9608
    @talithialee9608 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for this. I get mine in September

  • @bricondon4820
    @bricondon4820 10 месяцев назад +3

    I went in menopause . Full blown at 33. He was to take my ovaries because I had endometriosis since 13. Very painful periods, I missed school and Ledford precipitous strength meds to help. I had cysts rupture many diff x. Painful and startling. I told him I've never snore sex I had 5 kids by this time it always like I was stabbed in my uterus. Said he would take a look did ultrasound after Exam showed pics and where endometriosis was in there he said it isn't too much but we will look. I told him it felt tilted like something wasn't right and that if that's how it felt women were lying about how much they liked it. It felt like stands in the back of my uterus. I had surgery which was suppose to be my ovaries and that was all. He took everything but stated I was right my uterus and cervix was ate up with cysts and endometriosis. They had to take it all my tires as well. Have you know I just had a. C-section and tubal not even yrs purple. I had 4 natural births 1 c-section cause they meet me lay in labor all day I was in pain and I just was like ya ain't sending me home get her out. Anyhow he told me my uterus was tilted like 15 percent and no wonder I didn't enjoy intimate moments of use tampon Comfortably.he left ovaries even though they were serious enough for the hysterectomy to be initiated hoping they would produce estrogen. They were laying dormid. No prescription hormones replacement. My meds he wanted us to pick up meds have you know I just had invasive surgery but wanted me to pick up 90 to 120 go back and 3 days and get the refill like what? What pharmacy in their right mind is doing that also what person can read their chicken scratch coming out of A invasive surgery w script that says pick up in 3 days but then because you didn't and because you know pharmacy have rules on controlled substances you are basically told f off not my problem your fault like for real. That wasn't in the postoperative the appt before nothing not even in discharge papers. Now I've been laying for a couple yrs new cause it is easy worse I need the ovaries that were suppose to be put out out. Oh and Then laughed cause i was going through menopause and asked we didn't give you any replacement? Prescribed me some 3x didn't work then gave me a sample that worked said he would get it approved since i tried others i had tried enough to get approved. My ex drove did increase like crazy.

    • @gunessashok6429
      @gunessashok6429 9 месяцев назад

      l

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  9 месяцев назад

      It sounds like there were unexpected complications during the hysterectomy procedure, impacting your overall well-being. The miscommunication about prescription medication and the difficulties you encountered with the pharmacy add an additional layer of frustration to your experience. It's crucial to have clear communication and support, especially during postoperative care.

  • @stephenfiore9960
    @stephenfiore9960 2 месяца назад

    ….His voice is muffled. Don’t know if it is muffled

  • @NannyJuju
    @NannyJuju 5 месяцев назад

    I didn't have a hysterectomy but a pelvic clearance due to too much radiotherapy given to me when they changed from usual radium to caesium 137.

  • @study2921
    @study2921 2 года назад +2

    Heyy I've been following your for s while and i think you must make some shots of the video you posts like from their video you try choosing a few parts and make a few small shots
    Trust me it'll get intresting in the end
    And you can make a reactive video like where ppl are pranking each other about anything even if it's a cramp or just passing out
    The more famous the RUclipsr is the more views you can get , well I've also found you through a cramp prank

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  2 года назад

      my goals: fantastic suggestions! thanks for being a fan. I will share all with our production team

  • @dkendall96
    @dkendall96 Год назад +5

    I had one at age 38. I’m 52 now. I was great for 2 days…lol then I was crying and a mess lol…estrogen plummet. I got a b12 shot and estrogen. Low dose. And resume all functions. No difference at all in the sack. So no worries ladies!!! You can still achieve the O. Best thing I ever did was get rid of the uterus. I do have a question….I had one oophorectomy…I was told the ovary will die off is that true??? Can you explain how that works illustrate it and long term….

    • @dkendall96
      @dkendall96 Год назад +2

      I took estrogen for a short time and stopped and was fine until 50….hot flashes. Estrogen for a short time now I’m fine. Hot flashes are no fun at all but you deal.

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  Год назад

      The average age of menopause is 51.3 years old. Patients who are left with a single ovary should continue to produce hormones until this time. The typical menopause range is 45-55 years old. Women will 'run out of eggs' to ovulate at this age and the ovary will stop producing any significant hormones at that time. Hot flashes and other 'vasomotor' symptoms will continue for several years.

  • @jefferydoyle5276
    @jefferydoyle5276 Год назад +1

    God bless you on what you do always from Jeff

  • @elizabethlaureano7504
    @elizabethlaureano7504 6 месяцев назад

    Doctor, you mentioned in this video that everyone can get s robotic hysterectomy. I am wondering when is the uterus too large for this type of hysterectomy?

    • @anikluv7732
      @anikluv7732 5 месяцев назад

      I just had a robotic hysterectomy three weeks ago tomorrow. My uterus was 4x’s the normal size. It was so large that it was under my rib cage so my incision is just higher up.

  • @annawood8912
    @annawood8912 2 года назад +2

    Hi! I just found your channel, and so far, I love it! Could you do a video on Vulvodynia?

    • @DoctorRich
      @DoctorRich  2 года назад +3

      Anna: Great suggestion! I will share with the production team

    • @annawood8912
      @annawood8912 2 года назад

      @@DoctorRich thank you so much!

  • @delanieowens2133
    @delanieowens2133 9 месяцев назад

    It is very painful to have sex after this. I have no desire at all. Feels like my bladder is being beaten when I have sex and I bleed. I no longer have sex. I’m sixty five and so is my husband. Hell just have to get over it. I’ve do e my time.

    • @paulperrella670
      @paulperrella670 4 месяца назад +3

      Imagine if he said to you “I’ve done my time” while you still had sexual desire?
      haha.. i bet you’d be looking for another man in a flash and be calling him lame (and limp).
      I hope your a bit more considerate about his needs than the way it’s coming across from your comment

    • @CarlaNicholson-jm8iq
      @CarlaNicholson-jm8iq 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@paulperrella670That was kind of selfish. He really doesn't have to get over it he can find him a woman with sexual desires.

  • @swayzocrazo4398
    @swayzocrazo4398 Год назад

    Just your tubs better option

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Год назад +2

    I don't I have all my vital organs in my body I think you need to ask my sister's why they had a hysterectomy why didn't have no kids I have all my beside my body so whoever had the hysterectomy something wrong with her I've never had an operation a day in my life

  • @DawnRiley-xw1nk
    @DawnRiley-xw1nk 22 дня назад

    Ya can’t fill anything sooo selabet

  • @larry1824
    @larry1824 Год назад

    Trump is happy he had his