Never stay at a job that sucks your soul dry. Just leave with dignity. Make sure to plan ahead for future jobs by not saying anything negative. It does no good, as satisfying as it might feel to tell someone off. Have another job lined up first, if possible.
It happened to me. Bullies I delt with still with the company sad to say management protect them. I lost my job in 1997 after I got into a fight with a bully. I still suffer PTSD from bullying
@@coreyanderson7424 After I became older and wiser I figured things out. Love Bomb ring the bell. Some Coworkers are nice until they start love bomb management. That how they get away with wrong doing.
I am very sorry that you suffered abuse and illegal crimes committed against you - and that bully purposely traumatized you. You never deserved that, and I'm so sorry you went through that. Much blessings and healings from the Heavenly Father your way 💜
@@iheartlol90 sad part is management and the owner are at the core of the “clique” i went to the owner about my concerns several times and even quit and came back after the first bully left but i am always gaslit with “i think your just being a victim” and “maybe its just not a good fit” after 3 years 🙄
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 yeah they always have their excuses rather than addressing the real problem. My manager was a bully. His behavior just emboldened the main bully. Best thing to do in toxic environments is quit because they usually don’t change.
@@iheartlol90 yeah im in the process of making that decision now. Its a culture in this small town so i may end up somewhere else, less money, same problem. I think im gonna move to the city in the spring where its less competitive in the “who knows/likes who” category. Its so high school here i cant stand it.
They do this when you are a lot older worker as well even when you work hard, fast, effi iently and do a really good job. What makes it bad is when the Supervisor is doing it and encouraging others to do so as well.
There is one....that is gunning to take me out. It's just a matter of time. She started bullying me approximately one month into my employment. Nothing will stop her insecurity around me. I am just biding my time at this job, and learning all that I can...so I can avoid this nasty, old alcoholic altogether.
I've been target in my office,and besides the threats of losing my job they also do not socialize in any way. Lately the team leader (also part of the mob) seems obsessed into getting me to go to lunch with this group outside the office. Really don't know how to react as this seems mandatory to her. Any ideas?
Thank you for this video , im going thru it now got someone that has completely distroyed my reputation at the place im working ! Im good person and everywhere ive worked i have been well liked and trusted , but here its all being done by one guy , and im trying to deal with it , sometimes i want to crawl under a rock and hide its so bad ! He has no empathy and is just an ass in the worse ways , no you ask him will he say yes i mean nothing ! I tryed to build a fire truck to fight fires here we have a lot of them need bad better ways to handle them , but my hands are tied with him i can see why the place got so ran down with him in charge everyone afraid to do anything unless he tells them !
Im at magna in bowling green ky i work in facilities maintenance dept and my boss is a jerk , finding out how i can deal with this without telling on him ! He way to well liked to go to them ! Trust me on that
Workplace bullying is a huge problem. I've seen really good workers get harassed and bullies don't have any consequences.
Never stay at a job that sucks your soul dry. Just leave with dignity. Make sure to plan ahead for future jobs by not saying anything negative. It does no good, as satisfying as it might feel to tell someone off. Have another job lined up first, if possible.
I love that Dr. Namie continues to speak up about this. Workers need protection.
It happened to me. Bullies I delt with still with the company sad to say management protect them.
I lost my job in 1997 after I got into a fight with a bully. I still suffer PTSD from bullying
I'm sorry. It seems like because bullies lovebomb managers, and only target victims, it's hard to get managers to address it.
@@coreyanderson7424 After I became older and wiser I figured things out.
Love Bomb ring the bell.
Some Coworkers are nice until they start love bomb management. That how they get away with wrong doing.
I am very sorry that you suffered abuse and illegal crimes committed against you - and that bully purposely traumatized you. You never deserved that, and I'm so sorry you went through that. Much blessings and healings from the Heavenly Father your way 💜
Your coworkers will probably not help you. In my case, the coworkers joined in with the bullying.
Same. We have a small staff and they are all friends. They make sure i know im NOT part of the group.
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 not uncommon. The bully usually gets goonies around them cuz they’re too weak and pathetic alone.
@@iheartlol90 sad part is management and the owner are at the core of the “clique” i went to the owner about my concerns several times and even quit and came back after the first bully left but i am always gaslit with “i think your just being a victim” and “maybe its just not a good fit” after 3 years 🙄
@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 yeah they always have their excuses rather than addressing the real problem. My manager was a bully. His behavior just emboldened the main bully. Best thing to do in toxic environments is quit because they usually don’t change.
@@iheartlol90 yeah im in the process of making that decision now. Its a culture in this small town so i may end up somewhere else, less money, same problem.
I think im gonna move to the city in the spring where its less competitive in the “who knows/likes who” category. Its so high school here i cant stand it.
They do this when you are a lot older worker as well even when you work hard, fast, effi iently and do a really good job. What makes it bad is when the Supervisor is doing it and encouraging others to do so as well.
Yes, this is called mobbing.
Someone’s been bullying the doctor
Workplace bullying is awful.
I experienced workplace bullying in the military. No different from what I experienced with being bullied in elementary school ./
There is one....that is gunning to take me out. It's just a matter of time. She started bullying me approximately one month into my employment. Nothing will stop her insecurity around me. I am just biding my time at this job, and learning all that I can...so I can avoid this nasty, old alcoholic altogether.
I've been target in my office,and besides the threats of losing my job they also do not socialize in any way. Lately the team leader (also part of the mob) seems obsessed into getting me to go to lunch with this group outside the office. Really don't know how to react as this seems mandatory to her. Any ideas?
Don’t go and start recording them.
He has gotten me to researching to see if this is a pattern of his and is known to have done it others in past ! And he has done it before !
Thank you for this video , im going thru it now got someone that has completely distroyed my reputation at the place im working ! Im good person and everywhere ive worked i have been well liked and trusted , but here its all being done by one guy , and im trying to deal with it , sometimes i want to crawl under a rock and hide its so bad ! He has no empathy and is just an ass in the worse ways , no you ask him will he say yes i mean nothing ! I tryed to build a fire truck to fight fires here we have a lot of them need bad better ways to handle them , but my hands are tied with him i can see why the place got so ran down with him in charge everyone afraid to do anything unless he tells them !
Im at magna in bowling green ky i work in facilities maintenance dept and my boss is a jerk , finding out how i can deal with this without telling on him ! He way to well liked to go to them ! Trust me on that
Anyone got any ideas for me out there email me please
What horrible his best buddies are the hr dept that sucks cant go there
He has no trust in his team and is the most toxic person i ever met in my life just straight up rude !
misgendering someone is bullying?