Imagine making a 12 year old pay for their own portion for a trip to cuba... I wonder what the parents would've said if he had wanted to stay home alone instead of using up all her savings.
My dad made my brother and I pay our own way on our trip to Disney World earlier this year. Brother is 24, I’m almost 31 and we both have jobs so his reasoning was we’re old enough and responsible enough to take care of it ourselves. Well I think technically we reimbursed him for our portions. Can’t remember if he made the payment before or after we transferred the money over. I think making the 20 year old pay for her way is reasonable as she is an adult. As for the other two…yeah sure the 15 year old may have a job but I doubt it pays enough to go to Cuba and making a 12 year old spend her savings on a family trip instead of a phone which is an absolute necessity in this day and age is fucking insane. For reference the WDW trip was like 1200 each and we live in the US. So a trip to Cuba from the US would be miles more expensive.
Yeah, assuming this is in the US and depending on the state, this kid can't legally get a job until they are at least 14 and basically they are giving their parents all the allowance and birthday/christmas money.
"I carried you for 9 months!!!!" "And whose fault is that?" "Excuse me?" "Whose fault is that? Who made the conscious decision to get pregnant?" "I never chose to be in your womb, so who did?"
People who come at you with “Blood is thicker than water” hit ‘‘em with the whole verse “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb” essentially the family you choose has a better bond than the family you were born into
I can't tell if that's what you meant, but that's actually what the expression is in its full form. I think people just assume it's like blood relation or whatever, but yes, it's talking about friends.
No, you should be nice. Be so nice that it’s off putting. Do what they tell you, stroke their egos, make them entirely dependent on you. And then leave them. Let them flounder as they realize you left with all their money, stopped paying their bills, and leave them in massive debt. Move to a Stand Your Ground state and if they show up at your house you can legally shoot them because you thought they were a threat to your life
I think the worst aspect of most "parents" is their obsessive need of comparing your struggles to their own, they think they are helping by "showing you it can be worse" or "at least you don't have it like this" when all it does is undermine the kid's feelings and confidence.
@@cubebutpro298 don't have a job yet so (i'm getting one next summer) but id imagine school + homework, especially if you are taking advanced classes, is harder and takes longer than a 9-5. it's the rest of being adult (taxes, finances, cooking, housekeeping, etc.) that make it more difficult. might be completely wrong though. i've heard many adults say that highschool was hell compared to being an adult, and ive heard many say the opposite
one of the few redeeming qualities of getting stage 3 cancer as a teenager is i win every argument over who had the harder childhood. "oh you ran away from home at 15 because you and your mom kept butting heads and neither one of you wanted to compromise? I spent 5 years in and out of hospitals, went bald before i could vote, and nearly died a handful of times". Check. Fucking. Mate.
@@cubebutpro298school is easily far harder, if you have a job you get much more time to rest while in school sometimes you might have to study the entire day for multiple days in a row
As a kid who has had parents that are in no way like this, I feel so bad for these tortured souls. Sure I've been through crap of losing a parent, but the abuse here is unimaginable to me
@@buddhull3657You do have some point here. While some of these may have been created for entertainment or for clout and aren’t actually true, there are definitely people who go through abusive and in general messed up things with their parents. There’s a lot of proof of this on the internet and the news, along with some other sources.
I can never understand parents like these..at all and I feel bad for those who have to deal with it. I was lucky to have my dad, who respects my privacy, helps me with my hobbies and passions and always knows how to make me smile when I'm down. He even tells stories of him and my mom that passed away to remind me she's still here as long as we remember her
My parents scream at me until I no longer feel SAFE IN OUR OWN HOUSE. Meanwhile I get BULLIED at school also they take my only source of happiness away. :(
Bro samee- I have a super cool dad and a mostly cool mom. Most of my friends have the worst type of parents and it honestly just like- makes me sad and worried. I do not understand the type of people who would just do the worst things to people that don't even have fully developed brains- It's just wrong
i'm pretty angry at my parents right now (i'm a teenager, so that explains most of it lol) but after watching this i'm glad that i'm lucky enough to have good parents
As a fellow teenager, I can relate. Trying not to get angry at parents when a teenager is especially hard and annoying, but thankfully most parents are not evil people and want to help you achieve the best you can.
@@koraary I am, thank you :) I live in my own home now with my two best friends who are helping me get through this. Hope you’re having an amazing day/night
4:50 "Blood is thicker than water" The full saying "The blood of the covenent is thicker than the water of the womb" Just cause they are family does not mean you cant cut them off
In the US, the punishment for wasting police resources (i.e. calling the cops to remove someone from their own home when they have committed no crimes) is up to 6 months in jail and possibly a fine
That only works when you don't have a parent who is buddy buddy with a bunch of cops... Which hopefully is most kids nowadays, but there are likely still some out there
I don’t know, that “YoU wiLL dO aS I sAy!” when I wanted to wear baggy pants as a kid, and calling my bio father a female dog, and plenty of other shit that will take more time to explain than you’ve got left, Mom.
Whenever my dad says something about not putting us in his will (this is a joke he’s not insane) we always say we’re gonna put him in the cheapest nursing home we can find (also a joke my family’s pretty chill ngl)
Reminds me a bit of my parents, my dad beat me often, often accused me of being a liar, belittled and disregarded my feelings, my mom did the same thing, plus emotionally manipulated me, constantly called me lazy bc I was never interested in anything, she even went so far to call me a psychopath bc I told her I'd feel nothing if her CT scan came back cancer positive, in all reality, I was hoping it did, then I wouldn't have to deal with her anymore, the day I heard my dad was dying from COPD, I started laughing hysterically, then called him up and asked to be in the hospital so I can watch them unplug the life support.
I understand that you went through a lot, and I agree that your parents are horrible, horrible people that pretty much deserve what they’re getting… but Jesus Christ
@@CarlosChacon-fs4kutheir parents literally abused them both emotionally and physically so bad that they seem insane, but they really dont seem like the problem afger reading carfully. i see why youd think that they might be the problem tho
These stories make me really grateful to have had at least one good parent, and, honestly, the second, lazy parent is still better than almost all of these people.
Parents when I was a child: “Your so useless” Parents when I won the lottery: “I’m SoRrY pLeAsE cOmE bAcK” *You know they’re not actually sorry. They’re just going to use you.*
Big hug to everyone who struggles with their family like this, whether you're underage or in a toxic relationship. It does get better as you gain independence, so keep that goal in mind and don't underestimate your mental health, it's important to have a support group.
I read these as an older man that started to repair motorcycles at 10 and left my parents home at 14 and they're quite funny to me. The level of entitlement is amazing.
Dude same. I was born on a rainy day in Liberia. During my youth, in the turbulent period that was the First Liberian Civil War, I was adopted by Solidus Snake, who named me and became my godfather after he killed my parents. I was subsequently raised as a child soldier and later fought in the country's Civil War in 1989. I and other children were shown Hollywood action films daily for "image training," and were given food mixed with gunpowder containing toluene to make us more controllable. I and the other members of the Small Boy Unit were forced to kill POWs and civilians. On one occasion, I was injected with an unknown substance during a physician's experiment. On another, I witnessed Solidus demonstrate to me that blades were a "noble weapon" compared to guns, by slitting another soldier's throat in front of me. I had to fight and kill, just to survive! Kids are so spoiled these days
16:45 actually, yes, that IS part of why you send them to a school. To learn how to socialize and deal with drama. Any parent who thinks otherwise doesn't know how school works.
This stuff is terrifying, honestly. Specially when you're in an argument with these kinds of people. There even exist counter arguments for stuff like "I carried you for nine months" or "I'm your parent and you'll do as I say". But there's hardly any worth in them, because what these people want is not to argue, but to control you, and they often can do just that.
I think the thing that infuriates me the most in this video is the mom reselling the vr headset her son bought with his own money pretending he should ask for permission to buy something like AAAAAA i'm screaming in frustration
@@theeclipsemaster i think that depends on how old he is, if he's above legal age then I'm pretty sure he can press charges since the warranty or whatever could be in his name and her attempting to sell it would be a crime since her name isn't on it
@@theeclipsemaster true, but getting a house or apartment in this day and age is an absolute nightmare, costs way too much to have your own place nowadays
i watch this sub for 2 reasons 1. i like all EmKay narrators 2. because i want to convince myself that my parents arent that bad yeah always turns out my parents are pretty bad considering they have done most things ive seen on all EmKay r/Insaneparents
@@oopsiexist maybe but that makes me feel like im accepting that my parents were shit when i was growing up and then it makes me feel like im just being dumb
My egg donator used the "1, 2, 3" threat on me. Hearing other parents use it to this day, at nearly 40 years old, can still be triggering. Because it wasn't an empty threat. If I hadn't complied by the "3," I would regret it, and learned quickly to jump as soon as I heard "1." Sometimes she would keep counting even as I ran to do what she wanted.
@@wyzololbrooo yes. I used to be terrible at keeping up on school work, but now I am hitting high school, I know I have to turn it around. But my parents are living in the past. They will still ask me if I have homework, which isn’t bad, but because of my previous behavior my dad will always have you done your homework, as if I have some and I haven’t done it. He also almost never believes me, even when I definitely telling the truth. It goes on and on too, but the rest more annoys my mom than anything else. And honestly, this is probably tame compared to others.
Parents: restricts child's freedom, watches their every move, and requires child to reply 24/7 Child: hates them and leaves them Parents: WhY dOes mY cHiLd HaTe mE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This really depends on the age of the child, If it's a child then it is justified. If it is a Teenager, It is less justified. And you have to count all the other factors too. Edit : let me rephrase, age has a factor in determining if someone is a bad parent or not but there are a lot of other factors to consider too.
My dad and my stepmom had been talking about going to Mexico for months. Everything was planned and my little brother was so excited to go (I had moved out by that point). Then the day before leaving, my father just told my brother, who had packed his things and everything "Yeah you're not coming with us" and dropped my brother off at our mom's while he, his girlfriend and her kids went. I endured 18 years of this kind of bullshit, my brother 19. And this doesn't even make it to the top 30 of the worst things he's done.
I love how my mom tried to “jokingly” slash me with a kitchen knife after I wouldn’t get her cigarettes from her car (i lived with her at the 3rd story apartment on the top) in -19 degree weather and when I said It’s too cold I can get it in the morning. When I confronted it about her she said “you know I wouldn’t stab you stop being so dramatic. I HAD TO MOVE OUT OF THE WAY SO FAST OR I WOULD HAVE A GIANT GASH IN MY FACE.
12:24 is too relatable, my parents frequently threaten to contact the police on me and file a missing persons report if i don't answer their calls after a day or two- I'm 22 and moved out a while ago. I actively ignore them since theyre incredibly insane, narcissistic, abusive.
14:58 I wonder FUCKING why the dog runs when she gets near. (In case if you don't know, dogs usually run away from people who hurt them because they are afraid of them.)
This sub helps me know how amazing my parents are. They are so kind. My mom has only one problem she talks to much at events so when i wana leave we stay an extra 20 - 60 min. Nothing compared to everyone on this sub.
My mom talks during movies and keeps up a running commentary. She loudly laughs (it's wonderful hearing her losing her shit) or gasps at character deaths or asks questions. It's honestly really great.
That doesn't really happen and in the very rare cases that it does you'd be notified pretty quickly cause the hospital has to legally pay attention to that stuff. One wrong baby home could mean a lawsuit.
Lemme go on a rant here. So this mainly happens to me. Parents can be stupid. Your child is upset, crying even, having a tantrum and a break down. What do you do? A: Calm them down, comfort them, give them their favorite thing (such as playing a movie on tv, etc) B: Leave them alone until they calm down, then talk to them. C: Spank them. Take away the things that keeps them calm. Lock them in a room, sometimes with the lights off when you know they’re scared of the dark. Know what most parents do (from my experience and some friends) They choose option C. That option isn’t good, it’s no bueno. Wanna know why? It teaches them to bottle up their anger, sadness, etc, tells them to NOT use things to calm them down, and sometimes even starts SH. The fact that my parents have told me that “Just find something else to calm you down.” When they literally lock me in a room, with nothing In it, disappoints me. It even makes it worse when people like me try to tell them “Hey, can you leave me alone for a bit, let me calm down?” And then they don’t let you do that,and then complain “Why didn’t you calm yourself down?” Or when your calming yourself down and then they keep pestering you. Like. Bro. Wtf. And then when you tell the truth like “Hey, whenever you do this it really affects me mentally- it feels like abuse. Sometimes it even makes me SH or worse” they go “No no, that’s discipline. Stop overreacting you cry baby.” Parents, if they somehow get this message and they’ve chosen one of the things in option C, please stop. Try Option A or B instead of taking things away, locking them up, or spanking them. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
I was a single mom of 2 boys, when they got older things got ruff. But I could easily say go to your room and calm down. We will talk later. When things cool down you talk, like talk about what happened. It usually calmed down when I brought food, or would ask them to help me do something and we'd talk while we were doing something
Parents like these are the reason I came up with the idea of government approved parental licensing. Extreme? Yes. Its because if there's anything in the world I hate, is abusive parents and toxic households.
yeah, lots of people have said this, and I feel you. it's a cool idea in theory but unfortunately humans are messed up and in all likelihood a license like that will just be used for eugenics or some similar crap. if there was one objective set of parenting qualifications that everyone agreed on that'd be great, but unfortunately that's...never happened in human history. you have to think, who would be in charge of something like that? how could anyone make sure their intentions are pure? what about all the infinite ways that could be used for discrimination? what agendas or biases could be intentionally or unintentionally contained in the test material? and if people _do_ get pregnant prior to receiving a license and don't get one, (which _will_ happen, and frequently) what are they gonna do, forced abortion? removal of the child from their birth parents as soon as they're born? it's unenforceable at best, and a dystopian nightmare at worst. It'll also probably cause an economic labor crisis like the one China is dealing with right now due to having their one-child law for so long. And it almost undoubtedly will discriminate against low-income people, and through that other minorities, particularly disabled people and certain ethnic groups. It's the same reason we can't have a test for who can vote, there are just too many opportunities for bias and discrimination for it to ever be practical.
It's not that extreme. Wanting to kill LGBTQ people is extreme and insane. Having parenting licenses just seems like it could be necessary at this point. Or at the very least give child services more power to investigate abusive families.
Think about how many bad drivers you've seen. Virtually all of them are licensed to drive, by the government. Passing a test only proves that you could pass a test, not actually use the knowledge.
20:39 I don’t know the law, but it has to be illegal, right ? Antidepressants are HEAVY medicine, stopping the medication suddenly can literally k!ll you.
Honestly yes screaming in pillows is good therapy. Join a screamo band! Also, as a side note, I feel as though letting your parents have a relationship with YOUR children is a privilege. If you've had a bad relationship with your parents, or you have trauma from things that happened in your childhood, for example, it's not hard to understand why you don't want to be in contact with them. And the amount of people that don't understand that is ridiculous, imo.
I started writing music and doing martial arts. I can take my anger out on my guitar (in a gentle manor because I don't wanna break it-) and on a punching bag and both ways are constructive :D
@@bombdotcom2168 yeah i totally get what you're saying!! it's funny I've wanted to do that for a while now but I just haven't had the motivation lmao music is a really great way to express your feelings, convey them, and understand them so yeah that's even better tbh
@@lillyplaysguitar Music is a great outlet, and I like to combine it with my other hobbies like martial arts and creating artwork. Whatever your talents or hobbies are, I hope you're able to find a way to use them in a way that benefits you and your mental health.
@@bombdotcom2168 thank you, genuinely, so much. I've now been inspired to actually make music!! Best wishes in whatever you decide to do, and thank you again. I hope you're successful in whatever you decide to do in life!
It always annoys me so much when me and my mother are having an argument about something serious, if she thinks it's not going to go her way or she just gets too annoyed with me, she'll just walk away and sulk in her room. But whenever I try to walk away from an argument, she gets mad at me and doesn't let me leave. One time, I needed to be alone, and I couldn't properly communicate that to her. She was standing in the doorway of my room and wouldn't let me leave, so I had to force my way past her. After that, a bunch more garbage ensued, I ended up trying to hide from her in the basement, and she was going to send me to live with my grandparents two provinces away. She still thinks she was in the right because I didn't explicitly tell her that I needed to be alone, and I was just saying, very clearly distressed, "I don't want to talk to you, can you please just go away?" Wow, quelle suprise that after being raised by her, someone who gets annoyed instead of comforting her children when they're in distress, and was raised by someone who didn't show any emotions other than anger, I wouldn't be able to properly portray my emotions and how I feel. For anyone who read that whole thing, thank you for reading, but also sorry you had to read all of that.
Nah bro, I’ve been through the same thing, except my mother knew I’d be happy to live with my grandmother, so she’d threaten to abandon me at an orphanage we lived near. It always makes me feel a little better knowing I’m not alone in thinking I wasn’t being the asshole during those moments. I’m sorry for what you’re going through, and I’m sorry to say it won’t change. But it may lessen the older you get, it did for me. I have to deal with new shit now about “hiding from my family” and “ignoring people”, but it’s better than dealing with the emotional abuse. It’s too bad seeing your child visually suffering isn’t enough for most parents to stop and question what they’re doing. I hope your mother looks at you someday, sees your heartbreak, and finally just listens. It’s all I’ve ever wanted, and I believe you deserve it too.
While growing up, man I spent HOURS of my life stomping... KOOPAS... in the original Mario Brothers arcade game. At my local laundromat. And then of course it came out on Nintendo, and I played that, I mean, maybe years of my life, uh, it's an HONOUR, truly, to be able to speak as the man, who created those memories for me, and it's an honour to work alongside them. It's been a lifelong dream of mine to become Mario. Um... that uhh, that-that dream, like all dreams, faces one critical challenge...As in the film. I must face off against an UTTERLY, ruthless, scene stealer. *self jumpcuts* Every great hero needs a diabolical enemy, and I could promise you I could not have been paired with a more perfect king of the koopas... BOWSER...And...my friend, the great and hilarious, and supremely talented, mister JACK BLACK.
I haven’t been through anything like this and I’m just sorry for you, I know a lot of people who would say: “Well why didn’t you tell your mum? Surely she would have respected your privacy.” It’s just annoying how stuff like this can happen. Edit: How old were you at the time, if it’s not a breach of privacy
My dad legit thinks I'm going to forgive him after he practically threw me across the kitchen and choked my, trying to call it restraining. It was a while ago but I'm traumatized. I'm only 12. Edit: I am now 13. Arguing still occasionally happens between my parents. Edit: 14 years old now! Things are going much better! I have a chill stepdad, a cool stepsis, a decent step bro, and my relationship with my dad is way better than it was. My parents are divorced.
If that's true, and (hopefully not) recurring behaviour, that's really messed up. Maybe talk to a trusted family member, teacher or something? Obviously I don't know anything outside that little snapshot, but that's really not okay.
The only situation I think this would be acceptable, is if you were trying to set the house on fire. Anything else and it’s, at least, abuse of power. I swear some dads think they’re “building character” or some shit. Or maybe he doesn’t know how strong he is?
Story from my teenhood, listen if you want to be angry: I was 15, I wanted new clothes since my old clothes were wearing out, I asked them for new clothes, they said: "get a job" I then asked, "Okay, and if I want new clothes then?" They said "Oh, you'll pay for them yourselves"
I'd get it if you were talking about super expensive high-fashion brands, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here. It's a parent's responsibility to provide the basics: roof, food, clothes, and love. They wouldn't even do that. Smh
To be fair at one point you do need a job, but it’s unfair to make your child buy clothes if they’re still in school (if your graduated high school I should expect you to be able to pay for your own clothes, especially if you don’t pay rent living with your parents)
@@fatcatlord8066 The story makes specific mention of “from my teenhood”. I would think they have severed ties with their parents by now if they are this selfish.
0:36 I FEEL THAT SO BAD I currently live at my parent’s house because I attend online college and rent is super high where I live. Instead I pay rent to the parents which is fine (800 a month). But what gets really awful is I’m often asked for extra for things such as “Using too much electricity” or “eating too much” both of which are very funny because 1. I’m almost always asleep at the house, doing schoolwork, or at work and 2. I eat a meal a day with very few snacks. On top of that it seems every time I get a bonus HALF of it has to go to them for random expenses such as “needing to fix the lawn”. I’m fast I had to give them 1,500 of my 2,500 tax return last year. Where did it go? Who knows, credit cards they have debt on because they like to go to WinStar to gamble or something like that. This isn’t the worst they’ve acted though, no way. They’re ultra conservative Catholic types and I’m a trans-femme non-binary person. I’ve gotten my lip busted open by my father for letting a girl paint my nails in high school and was told I’d “shame the family”, I was sent to Christian Therapy for having gay porn on my phone, and I was routinely made fun of or hit for liking boys. I remember vividly being driven to a theater where I had secrétele planned to go go with a boy. The parents took my phone, got it unlocked, and looked through it to find out who I was going with. Upon finding out it was a boy they scolded me, we drove up to the theater, parked right next to them, and my parents got out and yelled at me, the guy I was dating, and their mom. In public. In a parking lot. All of that ended up actually really harming my attraction to people and caused me to self harm, I felt gross for liking boys and it actually made it harder for me to well… get hard because every time I did I would hurt myself. I’m more fine now, but damn. Having a drug addicted bio-mom who is abusive and a stalker and then having an abusive stepmom and father who to this day mistreat you (got called rhe f-slur recently) is tough. Despite it I am trying to work towards getting out as soon as possible. Once I can get a remote job I’m moving in with my partner who lives in Colorado, and I’m gonna go as far away from this mess of a family.
Next time you argue with them, just go ham on how batshit insane these crackheads are. Then end it by telling them to kill themselves. I fucking mean it. (if u actually do that pls tell me how it went)
4:44 I know I don't know the mechanics of this app but... It locks their phones until they respond to their parents? How tf are they supposed to respond if their phone is locked?
So my mom grew up having to be 5x more responsible to be respected half as much as her older brothers in her mother's eyes. Her brothers are real pieces of work, too. All her life, my mom tried her darnedest to please her mother, but ultimately decided to take a step back after my siblings and I were born. The straw that broke the camel's back? My grandmother started criticizing me (a 2-or-3-year-old) and calling me rude for going to my room when I got overwhelmed by people. The really ironic part was that I got overwhelmed by people because I was so anxious that I would do something they would think was rude. According to my mom, that was when she realized that nothing would ever be good enough for her mother, and she wasn't going to subject her own children to that. We did have a relationship with my grandparents, but visits were definitely not even yearly. We learned that there was value in "loving from afar."
I've a story about my insane biological mother. I was adopted when I was really small, always knew I was. But fast forward to when I was 18-19 my parents told me to scram and I moved in with BM. things were fine until they werent. She was the most gaslighting, abusive, horrible person. The real kicker was when she assaulted me and kicked me out when I was in recovery from a surgery. Luckily my parents let me move back in for a while and I've a better relationship with them. but my BM always say the classic "I brought you into this world" bit. I have nothing to do with her now and frankly the 2 years I did know her made me realize my parents were right about BM being shit.
@@SianNadine cause there's this wonderful retarded things boomer parents do as a rite of passage that once you're 18, or hell, 16, you're out, you're an adult now.
@@SianNadine really late reply to this LOLLL (just going thru my comments history) the shortened version is I was 19, not going to college and only working part-time. My adoptive parents were born in the 1950s so they grew up very different and have a different parenting style than a lot of my peers. anyways it was their way of getting me to actually grow up. I dont resent them for it, and they did warn me about what type of person my biomom was. It's been so many years since that happened. I moved to another state and lived there for 5 years only to move back with my adoptive parents again since the rent and house prices are ridiculous here in the united states.
using "i carried you for nine months" is a terrible excuse "oooh look at me i am the only woman carrying a child i'm super special" no because you are not the only one who did that
this video made me mad but it was also like “oh my god i feel bad for them cause who in the hell taught them how to be a parent?” and then it’s like “oh wow, they’re such bad parents that i pity them.”
Don't pity them. If they gave a crap there are THOUSANDS of resources available on how not to ruin your child's life, from internet articles to books to actual classes. There are no excuses.
To be fair, most doesn’t realize they’re being assholes, and even when you rub their own shit in their faces, they’ll still deny everything to save themselves the metal distress. It’s only human nature to think of yourself first. My dad didn’t have a dad growing up, and my moms dad abused her, so yeah, I think they have valid reasons for abusing me other than they’re just assholes. It doesn’t make it right, but it helps me understand that it’s not me or them, it’s just life is fucked up for a lot of people. Hopefully one day, unlike them, I’ll get the chance to end to cycle, and maybe even patch things up with them. But until then, I will pity them, because god only knows the suffering they go through every brief moment reality breaks through and they realize what kind of monster they’ve been. It’s no wonder they’re running from it.
i honestly have my own little story if you guys dont mind that i got reminded of while watching this so basically, my dad and i went to my dad's friend's house for a get together. I was already in a sucky mood because i was dragged along to go there while i'd much rather be going to taekwondo. nontheless i had to go. while we were there i had nothing to do since i have no phone, still to this day, in order to stop me from being exposed to social medias and communicating with people online (which is why i made my own google account instead of being forced to share my parent's). My dad started making fun of me sitting there doing nothing, saying i had no friends and it was hard for me to socialize and such. When i tried to stand up for myself saying i wasnt feeling well and i had nothing to do since he took my phone away, he laughed and told me i had no control over my own life and it was funny how i thought i could make my own decisions. meanwhile everyone else at the dinner table went silent, till my dad's friend who was hosting the party, spoke up and said that it was mental torture what he was doing to me. i got sympathetic head nods from everyone i just really agree with robin about anything he says when it comes to this subreddit really :/ you do get to chose who your family is, and ive chosen mine
Because of this, I am now realising how good my parents are. But I can still relate because almost all my friends had parents that were various levels of horrible. I have always dreamed of screaming at some of them. And with each post on this redit, my scream-list grows. Even r/EXTREMELYINFURIATING doesn't make me produce half as much anger as this one. The fact that the same person can create a life and ruin it makes me ill.
That quote from Fairly Odd Parents being in the insane parents subreddit is oddly fitting considering Timmy’s parents are incompetent for the most part
One time: My dad and I were having an argument about if he told me to do something or not, I was winning the argument when my dad hit me with a,”Don’t be a republican and rewrite history.”
I've actually experienced with my terrible ex the horrors of insane mothers. Saint Patrick's day, he drove HIS car to my parent's house to have dinner with us (he was 25 I was 21). We hear a knock on the door and as it turns out, his psychopath mother followed him in her car to my house, told him to come with her (he did but that's another story), threatened us with legal action and screamed at my mother. Psychotic moms are nothing to mess with and I feel bad for anyone with one.
I know this isn’t the place to talk about this, but some of these really hit near home Parent’s (Specially mom) have been over protective for as long as I can remember; no social life outside school, never went out with friends, never had someone come over. I’m quite sure I’ve been dealing with some form of depression since when I was 12-14 I think, never tried nor will try to open up to them, they are the kind that claim that “people in my time never had those mental problems, we had it worse and we grew up just fine” Do I need to say that I’ve been told, all throughout my life about how useless I am? For the last 3 years (I’m 19btw), my relationship with my parents has been deteriorating, withering away, thanks God and not so thanks God; I just like boys way more than girls, and I know I want a boy in my life, it started with severe arguing, then went to a Psychologist, who was a very professional person and instead of trying to change my sexuality, just helped me with my anxiety issues; about two years ago, I started chatting with a boy over discord, he was 19 and me 17 at the moment, from another country, once my parents found out they lectured my (of course they did) and went as far as wanting to denounce my friend with the intention of charging him with Pedophilia just because we got a little frisky on chat, I don’t know how I did, but I got to still talk to him through gmail and then Steam chat, he would become my boyfriend, kept him a secret for almost 2 years until we broke up; I graduated and got to Uni, yet I was unlucky enough for my dad to find out I still watched porn (Like wtf, this is normal), he was mad like I’ve never seen him, he also thought I was talking to this guy on twitter, they kicked me out that day, I had to kneel and beg, I didn’t want this, then I got back home and it was kinda alright, in exchange I had to “change”, something I was clearly not planning on doing. I’m really lucky I ended up liking my career path, I wanted to study Piano and Composition; I played piano for around 12 years, and right then, when I was going to apply for Uni, they didn’t allow me to, they were having none of it, I wasn’t going to study that. I ended up in medschool and thank God I am liking it so far This year I broke up with my Boyfriend due some bad stuff I did, I started fooling around with boys and that very much killed my relationship, I would say my whole sexual life so far has just been brief hook ups in all kinds of places… feeling like shit after each one, scared, disgusted. As you might expect, enduring a break up in silence was no easy task, trying to hide the sadness, crying in silence each night, begging for sleep to come fast. Having the next semester around the corner, mom started threatening me with “Dad won’t pay your studies anymore” I’m used to this kind of comments, when ever there was a chance, mom would say to me “You haven’t changed” but this time it was very real, eventually, that day came around, I was kicked out once more, but I wasn’t having it, they don’t own me; mom hit me several times, slapped me in the face when I tried to stay firm to my heart, I ended up threatening them with suicide and by those means got to stay home, one condition in mind, I must bring a girls and make my mom believe she’s my girlfriend; once I finish Uni and get a job, I can fuck off Some weeks after that, I told my dad about my “Naughty escapades” and my ex-boyfriend, I really wasn’t prepared for what came next, they weren’t joking around, dad had the police over my phone and computer, they knew everything, he knew my boyfriends name, age, the place he lived, what he was studying, he knew everything I had been up to until now, he went as far a paying someone to be in Grindr and talk to me while I was at the gym, he showed me the chat, the pics we sent… And that’s my story so far I don’t know why it is that this video made me this angry, but it is certainly saddening
15:09 Nope. Nope. Nope. On my life, that monster would come to f'n regret those words, and if I lost a dog over behavior like that, then it's total war.
This is one of the few times I'm happy I was mentally tortured for 5 years and developed an "oh cool, don't care" to mean people, I'm also happy I have a very supportive mom :)
At 18:14, that "superstition" I believe was more of a veiled word for "Don't work at that time cause relatives might come over". And besides, during the old days there's no washing machines so it's possible that you might look messy and unpresentable. Old folks usually scared children with those kind of threats cause it usually works.
Me: tries to tell parents how the teachers at high school verbally abuse us daily and have been trying to tell us who to vote for My parents: bAck iN mY dAY tHEy CoUld sPaNk Us I swear, parents need to stop trying to treat our trauma as a competition for who had it worse. Edit: I don’t mean this in a way where their trauma doesn’t exist. What I mean by this is that parents and adults in general, when people try to tell them things, they straight up ignore what they’re saying and start on about how miserable their life was. Again, this doesn’t make their trauma magically disappear, we just need to get them to stop holding contests for who had it worse.
Gods, we were doing a poem (Little Boy Crying by Mervyn Morris) and it's about a father beating his three year old son for playing in the rain, and the teacher managed to convince more than half the class that the father was the one we should pity since he didn't actually want to hit the boy, he just knew that he had to so the boy could learn a 'valuable' lesson (how tf is playing in the rain bad, he's three years old, even adults play in the rain) and I just wanted to scream at this woman, especially since she emotionally abuses her own son (he's my friend) and constantly gets aggressive or touches him without his permission. I hate feeling helpless.
They weren't allowed to complain so hearing it from you whining "woe is me" over less than what they had to deal with is annoying. You're going to get yelled at so toughen up and don't let it so easily traumatize you.
@@ShadowSkyX I don't know man... Maybe YOU are the problem? Who the living fuck would bring back things that have happen? Let the Pass die out... No one likes 200 years prior and no one certainly would like to bring up bad things
"I carried you for nine months!" "Did you also make the decision to get pregnant? Mhm." also 0:54 "Why dont you ever come out of your room?" *When I do* "Hey look it's the cave man!" *When i take an extra thirty seconds in my shower* "What're you doing in there, washing the sticks and berries *extra* good?" *When I dont get the usual B or A because i cant do math worth a shit* "Wow, come on man, at this point you're just not paying attention."
8:15 welp. I hope the mother enjoys being alone with herself, cause once that daughter moves out at 18, that's it. She ain't coming anywhere near her mother for the rest of her life.
11:35 So this is actually a thing set into the Apple settings- Like I am a teenager and this is on my phone because of “poor choices”. It is called screen time and it can limit accessibility to your contacts, apps, and safari tabs. If parents/legal guardians decide to put this on a Apple device they can limit their phone to only be able to call known numbers (the contacts you have in ur phone) and nothing else. So if you are in need of help from either police or something you cannot get a hold of them. As a person who has had a difficult past in suicidal thoughts if I needed to call for help to the suicide hotline, I cannot. I believe this is a good way to limit a child’s access to a phone at a young age. Though I feel the need as a person gets older the need for this slowly goes away. :)
the lady selling the Oculus, my parents did pretty much the same thing to me, I bought a telescope of $1500 because I wanted to start studying Astronomy, was my first paycheck, I never managed to get into the study because it was too far away, pretty much the day I moved out, they sold the Telescope for $250 because ''You're not gonna use it anyway'' I literally used it every single clear night to gaze at the stars, I was given the $250 but never an apology or the rest of the money of the loss I made on that telescope, they also never offered to buy me a new one (my parents are pretty loaded so they easily could have)
I was born in 88, had my first child in 2011 and my second in 2013, they will be 11 and 9 this year. We have discussed several things that their father and stepmother do not agree with, things that honestly make them like the other parents on this video... however, I 100% agree that regardless of familial status, you are not required to love that person. You do not owe anyone anything. I have taught my children that they are not required to hug/kiss anyone in the family, including me, if they are not comfortable. I have taught them that their body is their own and their emotions/feelings also matter when it comes to familial relations as well. They do not have to love their father. They are not required to love their stepmother. They are not required to love me or their stepfather. I am lucky in the sense that they absolutely do love me and their stepfather and I have tried to bridge the gap between their father and stepmother and them, but there are far bigger issues that have happened than what I can fix. I have taught them privacy and I will not go into their rooms unless they have said "come in". I have taught them that privacy is two ways here... I do not want them coming into the bathroom on me nor do I want them coming into my room without knocking and waiting for a reply. Any money they earn is given to them and put into their piggy banks and they can spend it on whatever they want to. We go to the store, they look at the items they want, and if it's something they come to later wish they hadn't purchased (in lieu of the other item they really wanted) then they learn a lesson. They learn by doing. I don't hinder my kids from things. What I do is keep them safe. I make sure that everything happens within reason for their ages. Something else their father and stepmom reeeeally can't stand is the fact that I allow them to make their own decisions on what hairstyle they want and the clothes they choose to wear. I don't force them into wearing anything. It's all within the age appropriate range and I do not allow my daughter to wear anything that shows off her body - she's going to be 9, not 19. She also understands modesty and chooses to wear certain things. I don't force her. When we go shopping for clothes, they choose their outfits. They choose their shoes. Their father forces them to wear certain clothes and shoes. They forced my son into a few haircuts he didn't like. Thankfully it grows out quickly. During holidays, they make them wear all alike clothes to match them and her kids, but the kids come home, strip off the clothes they were made to wear, and go right into the clothes they are comfortable in. My husband has a mother and father who are toxic. We have nothing to do with them, either. Toxic is toxic, regardless of who it is. I have and will always allow my kids to make certain choices and let them learn from their mistakes. I will also continue to teach them that they are their own person and nothing and no one will ever come in the way of that. Am I wrong? Maybe to some. To me, I'm doing right by kids. My mother tried to keep control over me clear up until I was 26. She died when I was 26. I will not be that person.
@@enexua_07 Thank you. I try to do right by my children each and every day. I want them to one day be able to face this world as adults and have an understanding that I didn't have at that age. I want them to know what is and isn't okay and that their body is their own, regardless of who it is. I want them to understand that with every action, there are consequences, good or bad. Also, with every action, there's a reaction. A reaction by someone or something. Their journey in this life is not set by me. I cannot - and will not - control or try to control what they do. It is my job as their parent to guide them to adulthood and give them the tools to succeed and survive. I want them to do better than me. To go further than me. Travel to places I never could. See things, taste things, feel things, that I never could. I want them to soar above and beyond what I couldn't. I'll never hold them back. I'll always be here for them in any capacity they need me to be. As their mother, I'll teach them right from wrong, how to be good people, and how to make it in a world where many are cold and do not care about you. I love my children with all my being, and I'll love them regardless of the paths they choose in this life. It's who I am and who I wish my parents could have been for me.
4:58 Fun Fact: the full saying for *‘Blood is thicker than water’* is actually *’The blood of the Covenant head is thicker than the water of the womb.’* Meaning the bonds you chose are more important than the people who you are bound to by the water of the womb
If your mom believes that someone in your family will die if you do laundry on New Year's, then do the laundry. And if there's any nonexistent chance that the superstition could be true, you just gotta hope that she's the one who gets it.
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Imagine making a 12 year old pay for their own portion for a trip to cuba... I wonder what the parents would've said if he had wanted to stay home alone instead of using up all her savings.
if you're not financially stable enough to go on vacation- ie making your kids help pay- then you shouldn't be going on vacation...
that poor 12 yo...
My dad made my brother and I pay our own way on our trip to Disney World earlier this year. Brother is 24, I’m almost 31 and we both have jobs so his reasoning was we’re old enough and responsible enough to take care of it ourselves. Well I think technically we reimbursed him for our portions. Can’t remember if he made the payment before or after we transferred the money over.
I think making the 20 year old pay for her way is reasonable as she is an adult. As for the other two…yeah sure the 15 year old may have a job but I doubt it pays enough to go to Cuba and making a 12 year old spend her savings on a family trip instead of a phone which is an absolute necessity in this day and age is fucking insane.
For reference the WDW trip was like 1200 each and we live in the US. So a trip to Cuba from the US would be miles more expensive.
@@Boundwithflame23 I'm 32, if my parents invited me anywhere, they would pay for the trip.
Final solution: don’t go to Cuba, it’s THE dog-eat-dog island.
This a joke If you didn’t notice btw
Yeah, assuming this is in the US and depending on the state, this kid can't legally get a job until they are at least 14 and basically they are giving their parents all the allowance and birthday/christmas money.
If my mom told me “I carried you for 9 months”, I’d answer:
“Not my fault you decided to get pregnant.”
"How is it MY problem YOU couldn't keep your knees together?"
I tell my parents that since they carried me for 9 months, I'm still their responsibility.
Yea your the one who decided to have a baby
And that’s where the beating started
no you wouldnt you'd sit there looking like you saw death
Every kid deserves a parent, but every "parent" doesn't deserve a kid
"I didn't ask to born"
@@AkioKaneko mood
@@AkioKaneko “uhhhhh YOUR GROUNDED!”👩
The I want to punt everyone subreddit
@@AnIgniSign "you cant ground me, ill not do it, gonna spank me? do it i still wont do. Gonna whatever? Do, i will not be grounded."
"I carried you for 9 months!!!!"
"And whose fault is that?"
"Excuse me?"
"Whose fault is that? Who made the conscious decision to get pregnant?"
"I never chose to be in your womb, so who did?"
r/munderedbywords
r/damnthatstrue
@@MeTheLoverOfEatingNuggets r/ihavereddit
@@SomeDudeCauseYes r/ihadastroke
"uhhhh YOU'RE GROUNDED!"
"im calling grandma"
"NOOOOOOOOOOOO"
"karma"
"I carried you for nine months!"
*And then you put me down for 20 years.*
DAMN BRO THAT WAS COLD🧊🧊🧊
That's kinda dark actually...
GOD DAMN BRO
Bro got unlimited rizz
Anyone that has bad parents like the video, SAY THIS TO THEM WHEN THEY SAY THAT. please
People who come at you with “Blood is thicker than water” hit ‘‘em with the whole verse “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb” essentially the family you choose has a better bond than the family you were born into
I can't tell if that's what you meant, but that's actually what the expression is in its full form. I think people just assume it's like blood relation or whatever, but yes, it's talking about friends.
It's interesting how people sometimes create a meaning out of something that's the opposite of what was intended.
You are a freaking genius
or Syrup is thicker than blood
i shall use this thank you
From being mentally torture for 10 years of my life. The amount of people telling me i should not be angry with them and be nice is astounding.
SAME, LIKE DAMN
Arson
@@yinggamer7762 Arson :)
No, you should be nice. Be so nice that it’s off putting. Do what they tell you, stroke their egos, make them entirely dependent on you. And then leave them. Let them flounder as they realize you left with all their money, stopped paying their bills, and leave them in massive debt. Move to a Stand Your Ground state and if they show up at your house you can legally shoot them because you thought they were a threat to your life
@@PikachuLittle hi satan
I think the worst aspect of most "parents" is their obsessive need of comparing your struggles to their own, they think they are helping by "showing you it can be worse" or "at least you don't have it like this" when all it does is undermine the kid's feelings and confidence.
I mean jobs ARE harder arent they?
@@cubebutpro298 don't have a job yet so (i'm getting one next summer) but id imagine school + homework, especially if you are taking advanced classes, is harder and takes longer than a 9-5. it's the rest of being adult (taxes, finances, cooking, housekeeping, etc.) that make it more difficult. might be completely wrong though. i've heard many adults say that highschool was hell compared to being an adult, and ive heard many say the opposite
@@graygravity3856 thats interesting,good luck on that!
one of the few redeeming qualities of getting stage 3 cancer as a teenager is i win every argument over who had the harder childhood. "oh you ran away from home at 15 because you and your mom kept butting heads and neither one of you wanted to compromise? I spent 5 years in and out of hospitals, went bald before i could vote, and nearly died a handful of times". Check. Fucking. Mate.
@@cubebutpro298school is easily far harder, if you have a job you get much more time to rest while in school sometimes you might have to study the entire day for multiple days in a row
As a kid who has had parents that are in no way like this, I feel so bad for these tortured souls. Sure I've been through crap of losing a parent, but the abuse here is unimaginable to me
Same
Half these are fake and the other half blown out of proportion
@@buddhull3657 I wouldn’t be surprised if some of them were.. but there are terrible people like that. Many people are horrendous
@@buddhull3657You do have some point here. While some of these may have been created for entertainment or for clout and aren’t actually true, there are definitely people who go through abusive and in general messed up things with their parents. There’s a lot of proof of this on the internet and the news, along with some other sources.
@@buddhull3657 MMM I think not someone I know has an abusive mentally, and been SA by her boyfriend. Yeah CPS and shit did jack shit
2:10 Hearing him screaming like there absolutely no tomorrow is the best thing i saw today.
I want to hear you scream in my basement
Yo this guy can see sound
sums up this subredit
Dramatic sound recreation: rAAAAAAAAUGHHHH
how tf u seeing sound
I can never understand parents like these..at all and I feel bad for those who have to deal with it.
I was lucky to have my dad, who respects my privacy, helps me with my hobbies and passions and always knows how to make me smile when I'm down. He even tells stories of him and my mom that passed away to remind me she's still here as long as we remember her
My parents scream at me until I no longer feel SAFE IN OUR OWN HOUSE. Meanwhile I get BULLIED at school also they take my only source of happiness away. :(
@@WolfYT. stay strong. if it ever comes to the point of screaming back, just tell them "this is how you'll end up in the nursing home"
Same here, if the mother passed away, saw all the bad in the world and woke up with a vengeance the next day.
bruh i’m not even allowed a door
Bro samee-
I have a super cool dad and a mostly cool mom. Most of my friends have the worst type of parents and it honestly just like- makes me sad and worried. I do not understand the type of people who would just do the worst things to people that don't even have fully developed brains- It's just wrong
"I carried you for nine months"
And I gave you tax benefits
I really appreciate how the elder EmKay gods give Robin the subs they specifically know will cause him to burst an artery in his forehead
O Emkay lords
“Dear Emkay lords, please grant me a subreddit that will not make my blood boil, and I will be forever grateful.”
“lmao get a load of this guy”
and they give lexi the hardware/software subs
@@Rainbow- and the cute/wholesome subs
i'm pretty angry at my parents right now (i'm a teenager, so that explains most of it lol) but after watching this i'm glad that i'm lucky enough to have good parents
As a fellow teenager, I can relate. Trying not to get angry at parents when a teenager is especially hard and annoying, but thankfully most parents are not evil people and want to help you achieve the best you can.
Y’all are good kids.
I have the exact same thing. This makes me feel so grateful.
fuel that anger and grab a knife...and..AND!
make a sandwhich it always helps with my anger :]
They had us in the first half not gonna lie
Watching these is helping undo the years of manipulation and reminding me that my parents were not good parents
Nothing like memes to get you through your trauma
@@kadeisstuck8802 it's the best form of free therapy
Damn, hope you’re in a better place now
@@koraary I am, thank you :) I live in my own home now with my two best friends who are helping me get through this.
Hope you’re having an amazing day/night
Oh yeah, helps a lot to recognize those patterns. So much makes so much more sense looking back
4:50
"Blood is thicker than water"
The full saying
"The blood of the covenent is thicker than the water of the womb"
Just cause they are family does not mean you cant cut them off
There are tonnes of these
In the US, the punishment for wasting police resources (i.e. calling the cops to remove someone from their own home when they have committed no crimes) is up to 6 months in jail and possibly a fine
That only works when you don't have a parent who is buddy buddy with a bunch of cops...
Which hopefully is most kids nowadays, but there are likely still some out there
Depends on the state. Different states have different laws on it.
well that never gets implemented
_"Why did you leave me in the worst nursing home in the state??"_ -These parents
[insert trollface here]
>:D i dont know parents why did we leave you there hmHMHMMHMHMMHhmhhmmhmmhmHmMhmhmhmmHHm
I don’t know, that “YoU wiLL dO aS I sAy!” when I wanted to wear baggy pants as a kid, and calling my bio father a female dog, and plenty of other shit that will take more time to explain than you’ve got left, Mom.
bold of them to assume ill be sending them anywhere at all. no, you get dumped on the curb too.
Whenever my dad says something about not putting us in his will (this is a joke he’s not insane) we always say we’re gonna put him in the cheapest nursing home we can find (also a joke my family’s pretty chill ngl)
Reminds me a bit of my parents, my dad beat me often, often accused me of being a liar, belittled and disregarded my feelings, my mom did the same thing, plus emotionally manipulated me, constantly called me lazy bc I was never interested in anything, she even went so far to call me a psychopath bc I told her I'd feel nothing if her CT scan came back cancer positive, in all reality, I was hoping it did, then I wouldn't have to deal with her anymore, the day I heard my dad was dying from COPD, I started laughing hysterically, then called him up and asked to be in the hospital so I can watch them unplug the life support.
I understand that you went through a lot, and I agree that your parents are horrible, horrible people that pretty much deserve what they’re getting… but Jesus Christ
it sounds to me that you are the problem
My god, something tells me they broke an already fragile mind.
@@CarlosChacon-fs4kutheir parents literally abused them both emotionally and physically so bad that they seem insane, but they really dont seem like the problem afger reading carfully. i see why youd think that they might be the problem tho
They are right,becuase no one in their right mind would do that
These stories make me really grateful to have had at least one good parent, and, honestly, the second, lazy parent is still better than almost all of these people.
Honestly, it's great to have at least one parent on your side when the other just isn't willing to parent
I'm adult... but hearing/reading stories like this makes me want to punch someone in the face.
Fr
Makes me realize how blessed I am to have great parents
Almost the same, Mom eliminated student debt, dad existed and had cool cars
*relatable noises intensify*
Parents when I was a child: “Your so useless”
Parents when I won the lottery: “I’m SoRrY pLeAsE cOmE bAcK”
*You know they’re not actually sorry. They’re just going to use you.*
dont let them in to ur life again
Yep
i hate how parents think that children are retirement plans
Big hug to everyone who struggles with their family like this, whether you're underage or in a toxic relationship.
It does get better as you gain independence, so keep that goal in mind and don't underestimate your mental health, it's important to have a support group.
Okay, but the scream into the pillow at 2:17 made me laugh so hard. I know I probably shouldn’t but I laughed and it made me feel better
I read these as an older man that started to repair motorcycles at 10 and left my parents home at 14 and they're quite funny to me. The level of entitlement is amazing.
You remind me of my grandpa, he also left his parents around that age and said he never looked back. Quite unfortunate actually :(
I'm glad you were able to get out! You worked hard, it can't have been easy
how did you escape, so I can determine the risks
Dude same. I was born on a rainy day in Liberia. During my youth, in the turbulent period that was the First Liberian Civil War, I was adopted by Solidus Snake, who named me and became my godfather after he killed my parents. I was subsequently raised as a child soldier and later fought in the country's Civil War in 1989. I and other children were shown Hollywood action films daily for "image training," and were given food mixed with gunpowder containing toluene to make us more controllable. I and the other members of the Small Boy Unit were forced to kill POWs and civilians. On one occasion, I was injected with an unknown substance during a physician's experiment. On another, I witnessed Solidus demonstrate to me that blades were a "noble weapon" compared to guns, by slitting another soldier's throat in front of me. I had to fight and kill, just to survive! Kids are so spoiled these days
@@rassesse1293 Raiden! You are my idol, and I do agree that many are spoiled these days. May I ask how to learn the true meaning of based?
16:45 actually, yes, that IS part of why you send them to a school. To learn how to socialize and deal with drama. Any parent who thinks otherwise doesn't know how school works.
moms say you can talk to her about anything then get really angry when you say something negative about her
This stuff is terrifying, honestly. Specially when you're in an argument with these kinds of people. There even exist counter arguments for stuff like "I carried you for nine months" or "I'm your parent and you'll do as I say". But there's hardly any worth in them, because what these people want is not to argue, but to control you, and they often can do just that.
As an adopted person,I am glad I don’t have to deal with the “I carried you for 9 months” card.
Well, I do. But they haven't used it yet.
“We chose you.”
@@Kebinoo1885ovich😂😂😂
@@Kebinoo1885ovich a new card has been added to the deck!
"but you were the chosen one, you shan't argue with us"
I think the thing that infuriates me the most in this video is the mom reselling the vr headset her son bought with his own money pretending he should ask for permission to buy something like AAAAAA i'm screaming in frustration
Bro idk the law but shouldn't he be allowed to press charges or some shit? Bc that's HIS stuff
@@ghastlygavin no. Legally it belongs to the parents.
@@theeclipsemaster i think that depends on how old he is, if he's above legal age then I'm pretty sure he can press charges since the warranty or whatever could be in his name and her attempting to sell it would be a crime since her name isn't on it
@@jacksixterror last I checked, the age for that is 18. Considering he could just leave if he were that old, he must not be.
@@theeclipsemaster true, but getting a house or apartment in this day and age is an absolute nightmare, costs way too much to have your own place nowadays
i watch this sub for 2 reasons
1. i like all EmKay narrators
2. because i want to convince myself that my parents arent that bad
yeah always turns out my parents are pretty bad considering they have done most things ive seen on all EmKay r/Insaneparents
I'm sorry, that's awful. Hang in there, I've been there too
its gonna be good soon bro, just turn 18 and get the hell out of there, even 17 is ok if you can afford it by that time.
Same.
Perhaps you should also share your stories on the sub as well, you'll feel much better
@@oopsiexist maybe but that makes me feel like im accepting that my parents were shit when i was growing up and then it makes me feel like im just being dumb
In every situation like this, there is one good important quote "Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."
More like "Every child deserves a parent, but not every adult deserves to be a parent."
@@Asertix357 no I think it's what they said
@@G0bl1n_067 but what he said makes more sense
@@metaparalysis3441 what who said?
@@Asertix357 That literally what the original comment means
My egg donator used the "1, 2, 3" threat on me. Hearing other parents use it to this day, at nearly 40 years old, can still be triggering. Because it wasn't an empty threat. If I hadn't complied by the "3," I would regret it, and learned quickly to jump as soon as I heard "1." Sometimes she would keep counting even as I ran to do what she wanted.
i genuinely hate other things like this where they say like "get this done in 30 minutes" even after you start doing it
This sort of shit disgusts me. If a person has to resort to threats, violence, and intimidation, they shouldn’t be a parent.
@@wyzololbrooo yes. I used to be terrible at keeping up on school work, but now I am hitting high school, I know I have to turn it around. But my parents are living in the past. They will still ask me if I have homework, which isn’t bad, but because of my previous behavior my dad will always have you done your homework, as if I have some and I haven’t done it. He also almost never believes me, even when I definitely telling the truth. It goes on and on too, but the rest more annoys my mom than anything else. And honestly, this is probably tame compared to others.
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@@Frogman920tf is wrong with you
robin screaming into a pillow is something i did not expect to see on this channel. but this is insane parents. i feel like i should have expected it.
I love how parents are almost always self righteous.
mine are the almost ☺️
@@enemysamurai same
@@enemysamuraican't say the same about my parents.
Because they are
@@cubebutpro298hello Satan! how was your day? (ok fr parents aren't always right.)
Parents: restricts child's freedom, watches their every move, and requires child to reply 24/7
Child: hates them and leaves them
Parents: WhY dOes mY cHiLd HaTe mE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Me too
Help me that's my grandparents (the men in my family)
Hmmm yes I do wonder why your child hates you
This really depends on the age of the child, If it's a child then it is justified.
If it is a Teenager, It is less justified.
And you have to count all the other factors too.
Edit : let me rephrase, age has a factor in determining if someone is a bad parent or not but there are a lot of other factors to consider too.
My dad and my stepmom had been talking about going to Mexico for months. Everything was planned and my little brother was so excited to go (I had moved out by that point). Then the day before leaving, my father just told my brother, who had packed his things and everything "Yeah you're not coming with us" and dropped my brother off at our mom's while he, his girlfriend and her kids went.
I endured 18 years of this kind of bullshit, my brother 19. And this doesn't even make it to the top 30 of the worst things he's done.
I love how my mom tried to “jokingly” slash me with a kitchen knife after I wouldn’t get her cigarettes from her car (i lived with her at the 3rd story apartment on the top) in -19 degree weather and when I said It’s too cold I can get it in the morning. When I confronted it about her she said “you know I wouldn’t stab you stop being so dramatic. I HAD TO MOVE OUT OF THE WAY SO FAST OR I WOULD HAVE A GIANT GASH IN MY FACE.
gosh, you ok now?
And she almost stabbed you over some cigarettes. That is dumbest reason to ever do that. And why is she trying to stab HER OWN KID?!?!!!!
@@UserUserUserUserUserUserUserUs yep. I live with my brother half way across the country now.
@@Koji_lol that’s good. i genuinely hope everything goes well for you. no one should have to experience that
She is INSANE. ABUSIVE- I- SHE IS THE WORST. I read your replies btw, and glad to hear your away from her!
12:24 is too relatable, my parents frequently threaten to contact the police on me and file a missing persons report if i don't answer their calls after a day or two- I'm 22 and moved out a while ago. I actively ignore them since theyre incredibly insane, narcissistic, abusive.
14:58 I wonder FUCKING why the dog runs when she gets near. (In case if you don't know, dogs usually run away from people who hurt them because they are afraid of them.)
oh god
This sub helps me know how amazing my parents are. They are so kind. My mom has only one problem she talks to much at events so when i wana leave we stay an extra 20 - 60 min. Nothing compared to everyone on this sub.
my mom too haha, but im more talkative than her
Same lol, my dad also yells a lot, but they still love me and try their best to support me(ps. My dad yells at random stuff, not necessarily at me)
My mom talks during movies and keeps up a running commentary. She loudly laughs (it's wonderful hearing her losing her shit) or gasps at character deaths or asks questions. It's honestly really great.
Thank goodness my dad's not intentionally abusive, he's kind of just an idiot
10:38 that mom was sued for selling her sons property illegal since he wasn't in her house and the son sued her for breaking and entering his house
Source?
THANK GOD IF YOU AREN’T LYING. But, source?
18:00 Screw all that, literally just call CPS and say that it's been 5 days and your parents are refusing to allow you to bathe.
Man, this video made me realise just how nice my parents are.
Kind of same.
My parents were a bit unstable, but even they weren't as bad as some of these parents.
yeah even though one of my parents got angry and threatened to not let me use any devices for a day, because i didnt get him water
This kinds of videos make me realize how unstable my guardians really are. And they also brought back memories of the time my grandma told me to kms
@@olivercharles2930 same
Imagine being told “I carried you for 9 months” every time your mom’s losing an argument only to later learn they brought the wrong baby home.
That doesn't really happen and in the very rare cases that it does you'd be notified pretty quickly cause the hospital has to legally pay attention to that stuff. One wrong baby home could mean a lawsuit.
Imagine replying with "dad's balls carried me before that"
Mom: i carried you for 9 months
Me: did u give you permission to do that?
"I carried you for nine months"
"And I would have supported your abortion, but here we are!"
Honestly i say this to my mother all the time and she always gives me THAT face, you know that face every mother has? Yeah.. that one 😂😭
@@Amoral_Crow I somehow got which face you are talking about lol.
Lemme go on a rant here.
So this mainly happens to me.
Parents can be stupid.
Your child is upset, crying even, having a tantrum and a break down. What do you do?
A: Calm them down, comfort them, give them their favorite thing (such as playing a movie on tv, etc)
B: Leave them alone until they calm down, then talk to them.
C: Spank them. Take away the things that keeps them calm. Lock them in a room, sometimes with the lights off when you know they’re scared of the dark.
Know what most parents do (from my experience and some friends)
They choose option C. That option isn’t good, it’s no bueno. Wanna know why? It teaches them to bottle up their anger, sadness, etc, tells them to NOT use things to calm them down, and sometimes even starts SH.
The fact that my parents have told me that “Just find something else to calm you down.” When they literally lock me in a room, with nothing In it, disappoints me. It even makes it worse when people like me try to tell them “Hey, can you leave me alone for a bit, let me calm down?” And then they don’t let you do that,and then complain “Why didn’t you calm yourself down?” Or when your calming yourself down and then they keep pestering you.
Like.
Bro.
Wtf.
And then when you tell the truth like “Hey, whenever you do this it really affects me mentally- it feels like abuse. Sometimes it even makes me SH or worse” they go
“No no, that’s discipline. Stop overreacting you cry baby.”
Parents, if they somehow get this message and they’ve chosen one of the things in option C, please stop. Try Option A or B instead of taking things away, locking them up, or spanking them.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
I was a single mom of 2 boys, when they got older things got ruff. But I could easily say go to your room and calm down. We will talk later. When things cool down you talk, like talk about what happened. It usually calmed down when I brought food, or would ask them to help me do something and we'd talk while we were doing something
My parents have been saying “shut up.” for whenever i cry since i was 5.
@@dejus_e bru
Parents like these are the reason I came up with the idea of government approved parental licensing.
Extreme? Yes.
Its because if there's anything in the world I hate, is abusive parents and toxic households.
Yes!!!!!!! Having children should be a privilege, not a right.
yeah, lots of people have said this, and I feel you. it's a cool idea in theory but unfortunately humans are messed up and in all likelihood a license like that will just be used for eugenics or some similar crap. if there was one objective set of parenting qualifications that everyone agreed on that'd be great, but unfortunately that's...never happened in human history. you have to think, who would be in charge of something like that? how could anyone make sure their intentions are pure? what about all the infinite ways that could be used for discrimination? what agendas or biases could be intentionally or unintentionally contained in the test material?
and if people _do_ get pregnant prior to receiving a license and don't get one, (which _will_ happen, and frequently) what are they gonna do, forced abortion? removal of the child from their birth parents as soon as they're born? it's unenforceable at best, and a dystopian nightmare at worst. It'll also probably cause an economic labor crisis like the one China is dealing with right now due to having their one-child law for so long. And it almost undoubtedly will discriminate against low-income people, and through that other minorities, particularly disabled people and certain ethnic groups. It's the same reason we can't have a test for who can vote, there are just too many opportunities for bias and discrimination for it to ever be practical.
It's a utopian idea, basically. Would be nice, but only works in some kind of perfect controlled environment.
It's not that extreme. Wanting to kill LGBTQ people is extreme and insane. Having parenting licenses just seems like it could be necessary at this point. Or at the very least give child services more power to investigate abusive families.
Think about how many bad drivers you've seen. Virtually all of them are licensed to drive, by the government. Passing a test only proves that you could pass a test, not actually use the knowledge.
0:02
Dads version:
I carried you for 15 years 🪑🪑🪑
I mean technicallynit since you know the average guy c*ms
20:39
I don’t know the law, but it has to be illegal, right ? Antidepressants are HEAVY medicine, stopping the medication suddenly can literally k!ll you.
Honestly yes screaming in pillows is good therapy. Join a screamo band!
Also, as a side note, I feel as though letting your parents have a relationship with YOUR children is a privilege. If you've had a bad relationship with your parents, or you have trauma from things that happened in your childhood, for example, it's not hard to understand why you don't want to be in contact with them. And the amount of people that don't understand that is ridiculous, imo.
I started writing music and doing martial arts.
I can take my anger out on my guitar (in a gentle manor because I don't wanna break it-) and on a punching bag and both ways are constructive :D
@@bombdotcom2168 yeah i totally get what you're saying!! it's funny I've wanted to do that for a while now but I just haven't had the motivation lmao
music is a really great way to express your feelings, convey them, and understand them so yeah that's even better tbh
@@lillyplaysguitar Music is a great outlet, and I like to combine it with my other hobbies like martial arts and creating artwork.
Whatever your talents or hobbies are, I hope you're able to find a way to use them in a way that benefits you and your mental health.
@@bombdotcom2168 thank you, genuinely, so much. I've now been inspired to actually make music!!
Best wishes in whatever you decide to do, and thank you again. I hope you're successful in whatever you decide to do in life!
@@lillyplaysguitar I'm sure your music will be incredible ^^
I wish you luck in life as well
Insane parents are more infuriating than Karens mistreating workers. How will you treat your own kids like that?
I have no idea and it horrifies me.
The venn diagram of Karens mistreating workers, and insane parents....is a circle.
I want to go on a crusade against insane/abusive parents.
These videos always remind me of how grateful I am to have had a loving and kind family
same fr
Same
But a bit strict
real
Same....
It always annoys me so much when me and my mother are having an argument about something serious, if she thinks it's not going to go her way or she just gets too annoyed with me, she'll just walk away and sulk in her room. But whenever I try to walk away from an argument, she gets mad at me and doesn't let me leave. One time, I needed to be alone, and I couldn't properly communicate that to her. She was standing in the doorway of my room and wouldn't let me leave, so I had to force my way past her. After that, a bunch more garbage ensued, I ended up trying to hide from her in the basement, and she was going to send me to live with my grandparents two provinces away. She still thinks she was in the right because I didn't explicitly tell her that I needed to be alone, and I was just saying, very clearly distressed, "I don't want to talk to you, can you please just go away?" Wow, quelle suprise that after being raised by her, someone who gets annoyed instead of comforting her children when they're in distress, and was raised by someone who didn't show any emotions other than anger, I wouldn't be able to properly portray my emotions and how I feel.
For anyone who read that whole thing, thank you for reading, but also sorry you had to read all of that.
Nah bro, I’ve been through the same thing, except my mother knew I’d be happy to live with my grandmother, so she’d threaten to abandon me at an orphanage we lived near. It always makes me feel a little better knowing I’m not alone in thinking I wasn’t being the asshole during those moments. I’m sorry for what you’re going through, and I’m sorry to say it won’t change. But it may lessen the older you get, it did for me. I have to deal with new shit now about “hiding from my family” and “ignoring people”, but it’s better than dealing with the emotional abuse. It’s too bad seeing your child visually suffering isn’t enough for most parents to stop and question what they’re doing. I hope your mother looks at you someday, sees your heartbreak, and finally just listens. It’s all I’ve ever wanted, and I believe you deserve it too.
While growing up, man I spent HOURS of my life stomping... KOOPAS... in the original Mario Brothers arcade game. At my local laundromat. And then of course it came out on Nintendo, and I played that, I mean, maybe years of my life, uh, it's an HONOUR, truly, to be able to speak as the man, who created those memories for me, and it's an honour to work alongside them. It's been a lifelong dream of mine to become Mario.
Um... that uhh, that-that dream, like all dreams, faces one critical challenge...As in the film. I must face off against an UTTERLY, ruthless, scene stealer. *self jumpcuts* Every great hero needs a diabolical enemy, and I could promise you I could not have been paired with a more perfect king of the koopas... BOWSER...And...my friend, the great and hilarious, and supremely talented, mister JACK BLACK.
I haven’t been through anything like this and I’m just sorry for you, I know a lot of people who would say: “Well why didn’t you tell your mum? Surely she would have respected your privacy.” It’s just annoying how stuff like this can happen.
Edit: How old were you at the time, if it’s not a breach of privacy
My dad legit thinks I'm going to forgive him after he practically threw me across the kitchen and choked my, trying to call it restraining. It was a while ago but I'm traumatized. I'm only 12.
Edit: I am now 13. Arguing still occasionally happens between my parents.
Edit: 14 years old now! Things are going much better! I have a chill stepdad, a cool stepsis, a decent step bro, and my relationship with my dad is way better than it was. My parents are divorced.
If that's true, and (hopefully not) recurring behaviour, that's really messed up. Maybe talk to a trusted family member, teacher or something? Obviously I don't know anything outside that little snapshot, but that's really not okay.
If you can, try to play along. Maybe it'll prevent it from getting worse. If it doesn't, I am sincerely sorry. I am not a professional.
Is your name bart simpson?
@@Disbanded9998 Lol no it's not
The only situation I think this would be acceptable, is if you were trying to set the house on fire. Anything else and it’s, at least, abuse of power. I swear some dads think they’re “building character” or some shit. Or maybe he doesn’t know how strong he is?
The most cursed part about this is that EmKay manages to make all of these crazy stories funny
I can tell that he gets more frustrated with every one, holding himself back from saying what he really wants to say.
Whenever I'm mad at my parents I watch this and it makes me feel alot better
I love how they say "i carried you for 9 months" when we didn't even ask to be born
Story from my teenhood, listen if you want to be angry:
I was 15, I wanted new clothes since my old clothes were wearing out, I asked them for new clothes, they said: "get a job"
I then asked, "Okay, and if I want new clothes then?" They said "Oh, you'll pay for them yourselves"
ugh, that sucks. clothing is a necessity, not a "want." selfish parents
I'd get it if you were talking about super expensive high-fashion brands, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here. It's a parent's responsibility to provide the basics: roof, food, clothes, and love. They wouldn't even do that. Smh
To be fair at one point you do need a job, but it’s unfair to make your child buy clothes if they’re still in school (if your graduated high school I should expect you to be able to pay for your own clothes, especially if you don’t pay rent living with your parents)
@@fatcatlord8066 The story makes specific mention of “from my teenhood”. I would think they have severed ties with their parents by now if they are this selfish.
kool
0:36 I FEEL THAT SO BAD
I currently live at my parent’s house because I attend online college and rent is super high where I live. Instead I pay rent to the parents which is fine (800 a month). But what gets really awful is I’m often asked for extra for things such as “Using too much electricity” or “eating too much” both of which are very funny because 1. I’m almost always asleep at the house, doing schoolwork, or at work and 2. I eat a meal a day with very few snacks. On top of that it seems every time I get a bonus HALF of it has to go to them for random expenses such as “needing to fix the lawn”. I’m fast I had to give them 1,500 of my 2,500 tax return last year. Where did it go? Who knows, credit cards they have debt on because they like to go to WinStar to gamble or something like that.
This isn’t the worst they’ve acted though, no way. They’re ultra conservative Catholic types and I’m a trans-femme non-binary person. I’ve gotten my lip busted open by my father for letting a girl paint my nails in high school and was told I’d “shame the family”, I was sent to Christian Therapy for having gay porn on my phone, and I was routinely made fun of or hit for liking boys. I remember vividly being driven to a theater where I had secrétele planned to go go with a boy. The parents took my phone, got it unlocked, and looked through it to find out who I was going with. Upon finding out it was a boy they scolded me, we drove up to the theater, parked right next to them, and my parents got out and yelled at me, the guy I was dating, and their mom. In public. In a parking lot. All of that ended up actually really harming my attraction to people and caused me to self harm, I felt gross for liking boys and it actually made it harder for me to well… get hard because every time I did I would hurt myself. I’m more fine now, but damn. Having a drug addicted bio-mom who is abusive and a stalker and then having an abusive stepmom and father who to this day mistreat you (got called rhe f-slur recently) is tough. Despite it I am trying to work towards getting out as soon as possible. Once I can get a remote job I’m moving in with my partner who lives in Colorado, and I’m gonna go as far away from this mess of a family.
Eesh. Hope you get out as soon as possible.
And let me guess according to them “Christianity brings people together”?
@@E-6969 Yep!
Next time you argue with them, just go ham on how batshit insane these crackheads are. Then end it by telling them to kill themselves. I fucking mean it. (if u actually do that pls tell me how it went)
That's how they get put in a filthy nursing home where all the nurses are sexual predators
-“Blood is thicker than water”-
“The blood of the covenant is thicker than the waters of the womb”
4:44 I know I don't know the mechanics of this app but... It locks their phones until they respond to their parents? How tf are they supposed to respond if their phone is locked?
I'm assuming it locks every thing except their messages app(?)
Mom: "I carried you for nine months"
Me :"Yep, and then I lived with you for x years"
So my mom grew up having to be 5x more responsible to be respected half as much as her older brothers in her mother's eyes. Her brothers are real pieces of work, too. All her life, my mom tried her darnedest to please her mother, but ultimately decided to take a step back after my siblings and I were born. The straw that broke the camel's back? My grandmother started criticizing me (a 2-or-3-year-old) and calling me rude for going to my room when I got overwhelmed by people.
The really ironic part was that I got overwhelmed by people because I was so anxious that I would do something they would think was rude. According to my mom, that was when she realized that nothing would ever be good enough for her mother, and she wasn't going to subject her own children to that.
We did have a relationship with my grandparents, but visits were definitely not even yearly. We learned that there was value in "loving from afar."
this isnt a fucking essay board
@@crackdog1914 it is a comment section on a youtube video about crazy/abusive parents
@@crackdog1914 3 paragraphs doesn't make an essay. This is why you had to retake grade 4, 3 times.
these parents in this subreddit makes karens look like saints
How to be a good parent:
Watch this and do the exact opposite of all the posts.
Gigagigagigagigachad
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@@paolarei4418 gigagigagigagigaparent
I've a story about my insane biological mother. I was adopted when I was really small, always knew I was. But fast forward to when I was 18-19 my parents told me to scram and I moved in with BM. things were fine until they werent. She was the most gaslighting, abusive, horrible person. The real kicker was when she assaulted me and kicked me out when I was in recovery from a surgery. Luckily my parents let me move back in for a while and I've a better relationship with them. but my BM always say the classic "I brought you into this world" bit. I have nothing to do with her now and frankly the 2 years I did know her made me realize my parents were right about BM being shit.
Why did ur parents kick u out
@@SianNadine cause there's this wonderful retarded things boomer parents do as a rite of passage that once you're 18, or hell, 16, you're out, you're an adult now.
@@SianNadine I think it's the OP way of saying go visit your BM cause you're old now and start re-establish relationship with your BM.
@@SianNadine really late reply to this LOLLL (just going thru my comments history) the shortened version is I was 19, not going to college and only working part-time. My adoptive parents were born in the 1950s so they grew up very different and have a different parenting style than a lot of my peers. anyways it was their way of getting me to actually grow up. I dont resent them for it, and they did warn me about what type of person my biomom was. It's been so many years since that happened. I moved to another state and lived there for 5 years only to move back with my adoptive parents again since the rent and house prices are ridiculous here in the united states.
i think john a. emkay is putting robin through this as a torture method to see how effective making someone read aggravating subreddits like these are
This makes me grateful for the mother I have. She’s got her issues, but she’s still a good parent.
using "i carried you for nine months" is a terrible excuse "oooh look at me i am the only woman carrying a child i'm super special" no because you are not the only one who did that
this video made me mad but it was also like “oh my god i feel bad for them cause who in the hell taught them how to be a parent?” and then it’s like “oh wow, they’re such bad parents that i pity them.”
Don't pity them. If they gave a crap there are THOUSANDS of resources available on how not to ruin your child's life, from internet articles to books to actual classes. There are no excuses.
To be fair, most doesn’t realize they’re being assholes, and even when you rub their own shit in their faces, they’ll still deny everything to save themselves the metal distress. It’s only human nature to think of yourself first. My dad didn’t have a dad growing up, and my moms dad abused her, so yeah, I think they have valid reasons for abusing me other than they’re just assholes. It doesn’t make it right, but it helps me understand that it’s not me or them, it’s just life is fucked up for a lot of people. Hopefully one day, unlike them, I’ll get the chance to end to cycle, and maybe even patch things up with them. But until then, I will pity them, because god only knows the suffering they go through every brief moment reality breaks through and they realize what kind of monster they’ve been. It’s no wonder they’re running from it.
@@justalittleturtle5600 just because they got abused doesn't mean you should.
@@crackdog1914 Yep, they have reasons, but they do not justify their behavior
@@denki2558 It doesn’t justify their behavior, of course but that doesn’t mean you can’t feel pity for them.
0:14 their first mistake was expecting a boy named Jaden to stop playing Yu-Gi-Oh. Excuse me, Yugigo
No yuiogiuogiuo
@@threeawesomekids8316 no yuigog
@@lucasvidz9488 no yooigu
@@lucasvidz9488 no yguigoogigu
@@whydoiexist no yoigogui
One time my mom said the forbidden phrase "I carried you for 9 months". I said "you chose not to have protection". My dad lost his shit laughing.
Perfect
i honestly have my own little story if you guys dont mind that i got reminded of while watching this
so basically, my dad and i went to my dad's friend's house for a get together. I was already in a sucky mood because i was dragged along to go there while i'd much rather be going to taekwondo. nontheless i had to go. while we were there i had nothing to do since i have no phone, still to this day, in order to stop me from being exposed to social medias and communicating with people online (which is why i made my own google account instead of being forced to share my parent's). My dad started making fun of me sitting there doing nothing, saying i had no friends and it was hard for me to socialize and such. When i tried to stand up for myself saying i wasnt feeling well and i had nothing to do since he took my phone away, he laughed and told me i had no control over my own life and it was funny how i thought i could make my own decisions. meanwhile everyone else at the dinner table went silent, till my dad's friend who was hosting the party, spoke up and said that it was mental torture what he was doing to me. i got sympathetic head nods from everyone
i just really agree with robin about anything he says when it comes to this subreddit really :/
you do get to chose who your family is, and ive chosen mine
10:29 The mother's response should've been enough for the sale to be delisted and the people running the service to file a police report.
I talked to my dad about mental health days because of stress, his response was "school should not be stressful"
Have you heard of "School is Hell" by Matt Groening?
He's right. It shouldn't be.
I don't think you took it the right way, either that or you're purposefully leaving something out here.
@@razztastic It SHOULDN'T be stressful, yet it is.
@@razztasticschools fault.
0:25
I love how the person here doesnt even try to fight, he/she just scares the other person XD
Because of this, I am now realising how good my parents are. But I can still relate because almost all my friends had parents that were various levels of horrible. I have always dreamed of screaming at some of them. And with each post on this redit, my scream-list grows. Even r/EXTREMELYINFURIATING doesn't make me produce half as much anger as this one. The fact that the same person can create a life and ruin it makes me ill.
That quote from Fairly Odd Parents being in the insane parents subreddit is oddly fitting considering Timmy’s parents are incompetent for the most part
One time: My dad and I were having an argument about if he told me to do something or not, I was winning the argument when my dad hit me with a,”Don’t be a republican and rewrite history.”
r/rareinsults I think.
my dad once called me a comunist i don't actually remember for what lol (he clearly was meaning it as an insult and btw, i'm not a comunist)
@@namenotfound2456 Well, you should be.
Worker's of the world unite!
@@ngotemna8875lmao
I've actually experienced with my terrible ex the horrors of insane mothers. Saint Patrick's day, he drove HIS car to my parent's house to have dinner with us (he was 25 I was 21). We hear a knock on the door and as it turns out, his psychopath mother followed him in her car to my house, told him to come with her (he did but that's another story), threatened us with legal action and screamed at my mother. Psychotic moms are nothing to mess with and I feel bad for anyone with one.
I......... I don't no how to feel about this this is horrific
I know this isn’t the place to talk about this, but some of these really hit near home
Parent’s (Specially mom) have been over protective for as long as I can remember; no social life outside school, never went out with friends, never had someone come over.
I’m quite sure I’ve been dealing with some form of depression since when I was 12-14 I think, never tried nor will try to open up to them, they are the kind that claim that “people in my time never had those mental problems, we had it worse and we grew up just fine”
Do I need to say that I’ve been told, all throughout my life about how useless I am?
For the last 3 years (I’m 19btw), my relationship with my parents has been deteriorating, withering away, thanks God and not so thanks God; I just like boys way more than girls, and I know I want a boy in my life, it started with severe arguing, then went to a Psychologist, who was a very professional person and instead of trying to change my sexuality, just helped me with my anxiety issues; about two years ago, I started chatting with a boy over discord, he was 19 and me 17 at the moment, from another country, once my parents found out they lectured my (of course they did) and went as far as wanting to denounce my friend with the intention of charging him with Pedophilia just because we got a little frisky on chat, I don’t know how I did, but I got to still talk to him through gmail and then Steam chat, he would become my boyfriend, kept him a secret for almost 2 years until we broke up; I graduated and got to Uni, yet I was unlucky enough for my dad to find out I still watched porn (Like wtf, this is normal), he was mad like I’ve never seen him, he also thought I was talking to this guy on twitter, they kicked me out that day, I had to kneel and beg, I didn’t want this, then I got back home and it was kinda alright, in exchange I had to “change”, something I was clearly not planning on doing.
I’m really lucky I ended up liking my career path, I wanted to study Piano and Composition; I played piano for around 12 years, and right then, when I was going to apply for Uni, they didn’t allow me to, they were having none of it, I wasn’t going to study that. I ended up in medschool and thank God I am liking it so far
This year I broke up with my Boyfriend due some bad stuff I did, I started fooling around with boys and that very much killed my relationship, I would say my whole sexual life so far has just been brief hook ups in all kinds of places… feeling like shit after each one, scared, disgusted. As you might expect, enduring a break up in silence was no easy task, trying to hide the sadness, crying in silence each night, begging for sleep to come fast.
Having the next semester around the corner, mom started threatening me with “Dad won’t pay your studies anymore” I’m used to this kind of comments, when ever there was a chance, mom would say to me “You haven’t changed” but this time it was very real, eventually, that day came around, I was kicked out once more, but I wasn’t having it, they don’t own me; mom hit me several times, slapped me in the face when I tried to stay firm to my heart, I ended up threatening them with suicide and by those means got to stay home, one condition in mind, I must bring a girls and make my mom believe she’s my girlfriend; once I finish Uni and get a job, I can fuck off
Some weeks after that, I told my dad about my “Naughty escapades” and my
ex-boyfriend, I really wasn’t prepared for what came next, they weren’t joking around, dad had the police over my phone and computer, they knew everything, he knew my boyfriends name, age, the place he lived, what he was studying, he knew everything I had been up to until now, he went as far a paying someone to be in Grindr and talk to me while I was at the gym, he showed me the chat, the pics we sent…
And that’s my story so far
I don’t know why it is that this video made me this angry, but it is certainly saddening
oudh
Dude, call the police, now
ouch
I probably wouldn't be here if I was in your shoes.... I'm sorry for what u had to go through all those years
Sorry for your experiences but damn I wasn't expecting an emotional kick in the nuts
“every child needs an adult but not every adult needs a child”
-literally everyone
oh my god omori pfp
15:09 Nope. Nope. Nope. On my life, that monster would come to f'n regret those words, and if I lost a dog over behavior like that, then it's total war.
That's also called neglect.
Luckily for me my parents aren't like that
4:00 The count of 3 is to effective, the true fear you feel when they count down cannot be matched.
This is one of the few times I'm happy I was mentally tortured for 5 years and developed an "oh cool, don't care" to mean people, I'm also happy I have a very supportive mom :)
At 18:14, that "superstition" I believe was more of a veiled word for "Don't work at that time cause relatives might come over". And besides, during the old days there's no washing machines so it's possible that you might look messy and unpresentable.
Old folks usually scared children with those kind of threats cause it usually works.
Me: tries to tell parents how the teachers at high school verbally abuse us daily and have been trying to tell us who to vote for
My parents: bAck iN mY dAY tHEy CoUld sPaNk Us
I swear, parents need to stop trying to treat our trauma as a competition for who had it worse.
Edit: I don’t mean this in a way where their trauma doesn’t exist. What I mean by this is that parents and adults in general, when people try to tell them things, they straight up ignore what they’re saying and start on about how miserable their life was. Again, this doesn’t make their trauma magically disappear, we just need to get them to stop holding contests for who had it worse.
Gods, we were doing a poem (Little Boy Crying by Mervyn Morris) and it's about a father beating his three year old son for playing in the rain, and the teacher managed to convince more than half the class that the father was the one we should pity since he didn't actually want to hit the boy, he just knew that he had to so the boy could learn a 'valuable' lesson (how tf is playing in the rain bad, he's three years old, even adults play in the rain) and I just wanted to scream at this woman, especially since she emotionally abuses her own son (he's my friend) and constantly gets aggressive or touches him without his permission. I hate feeling helpless.
They weren't allowed to complain so hearing it from you whining "woe is me" over less than what they had to deal with is annoying. You're going to get yelled at so toughen up and don't let it so easily traumatize you.
@@ShadowSkyX I don't know man... Maybe YOU are the problem? Who the living fuck would bring back things that have happen? Let the Pass die out... No one likes 200 years prior and no one certainly would like to bring up bad things
"I carried you for nine months!"
"Did you also make the decision to get pregnant? Mhm."
also 0:54
"Why dont you ever come out of your room?"
*When I do*
"Hey look it's the cave man!"
*When i take an extra thirty seconds in my shower*
"What're you doing in there, washing the sticks and berries *extra* good?"
*When I dont get the usual B or A because i cant do math worth a shit*
"Wow, come on man, at this point you're just not paying attention."
6:00 if he is forced to stay home. 1) contact police cause that can either be child embandedment, or child abuse, sometimes both!
7:33 he would be able to sue his mom for vandalism, because it was not his mom’s items to break.
8:15 welp. I hope the mother enjoys being alone with herself, cause once that daughter moves out at 18, that's it. She ain't coming anywhere near her mother for the rest of her life.
11:35 So this is actually a thing set into the Apple settings-
Like I am a teenager and this is on my phone because of “poor choices”. It is called screen time and it can limit accessibility to your contacts, apps, and safari tabs.
If parents/legal guardians decide to put this on a Apple device they can limit their phone to only be able to call known numbers (the contacts you have in ur phone) and nothing else.
So if you are in need of help from either police or something you cannot get a hold of them.
As a person who has had a difficult past in suicidal thoughts if I needed to call for help to the suicide hotline, I cannot.
I believe this is a good way to limit a child’s access to a phone at a young age. Though I feel the need as a person gets older the need for this slowly goes away. :)
“I carried you for 9 months!”
“Gee wiz, wonder who chose to do that?”
"I carried you 9 months!" "I remember that time fondly, it was the last time you supported me"
I am a person of a certain age and I found myself s reaming into a pillow too. I have never treated my children likr this. Love all the work you do
as a person with a uncertain age, i cannot relate
good
the lady selling the Oculus, my parents did pretty much the same thing to me, I bought a telescope of $1500 because I wanted to start studying Astronomy, was my first paycheck, I never managed to get into the study because it was too far away, pretty much the day I moved out, they sold the Telescope for $250 because ''You're not gonna use it anyway'' I literally used it every single clear night to gaze at the stars, I was given the $250 but never an apology or the rest of the money of the loss I made on that telescope, they also never offered to buy me a new one (my parents are pretty loaded so they easily could have)
I was born in 88, had my first child in 2011 and my second in 2013, they will be 11 and 9 this year. We have discussed several things that their father and stepmother do not agree with, things that honestly make them like the other parents on this video... however, I 100% agree that regardless of familial status, you are not required to love that person. You do not owe anyone anything. I have taught my children that they are not required to hug/kiss anyone in the family, including me, if they are not comfortable. I have taught them that their body is their own and their emotions/feelings also matter when it comes to familial relations as well. They do not have to love their father. They are not required to love their stepmother. They are not required to love me or their stepfather. I am lucky in the sense that they absolutely do love me and their stepfather and I have tried to bridge the gap between their father and stepmother and them, but there are far bigger issues that have happened than what I can fix. I have taught them privacy and I will not go into their rooms unless they have said "come in". I have taught them that privacy is two ways here... I do not want them coming into the bathroom on me nor do I want them coming into my room without knocking and waiting for a reply. Any money they earn is given to them and put into their piggy banks and they can spend it on whatever they want to. We go to the store, they look at the items they want, and if it's something they come to later wish they hadn't purchased (in lieu of the other item they really wanted) then they learn a lesson. They learn by doing. I don't hinder my kids from things. What I do is keep them safe. I make sure that everything happens within reason for their ages. Something else their father and stepmom reeeeally can't stand is the fact that I allow them to make their own decisions on what hairstyle they want and the clothes they choose to wear. I don't force them into wearing anything. It's all within the age appropriate range and I do not allow my daughter to wear anything that shows off her body - she's going to be 9, not 19. She also understands modesty and chooses to wear certain things. I don't force her. When we go shopping for clothes, they choose their outfits. They choose their shoes. Their father forces them to wear certain clothes and shoes. They forced my son into a few haircuts he didn't like. Thankfully it grows out quickly. During holidays, they make them wear all alike clothes to match them and her kids, but the kids come home, strip off the clothes they were made to wear, and go right into the clothes they are comfortable in. My husband has a mother and father who are toxic. We have nothing to do with them, either. Toxic is toxic, regardless of who it is. I have and will always allow my kids to make certain choices and let them learn from their mistakes. I will also continue to teach them that they are their own person and nothing and no one will ever come in the way of that. Am I wrong? Maybe to some. To me, I'm doing right by kids. My mother tried to keep control over me clear up until I was 26. She died when I was 26. I will not be that person.
You're a good person
@@enexua_07 Thank you. I try to do right by my children each and every day. I want them to one day be able to face this world as adults and have an understanding that I didn't have at that age. I want them to know what is and isn't okay and that their body is their own, regardless of who it is. I want them to understand that with every action, there are consequences, good or bad. Also, with every action, there's a reaction. A reaction by someone or something. Their journey in this life is not set by me. I cannot - and will not - control or try to control what they do. It is my job as their parent to guide them to adulthood and give them the tools to succeed and survive. I want them to do better than me. To go further than me. Travel to places I never could. See things, taste things, feel things, that I never could. I want them to soar above and beyond what I couldn't. I'll never hold them back. I'll always be here for them in any capacity they need me to be. As their mother, I'll teach them right from wrong, how to be good people, and how to make it in a world where many are cold and do not care about you. I love my children with all my being, and I'll love them regardless of the paths they choose in this life. It's who I am and who I wish my parents could have been for me.
4:58 Fun Fact: the full saying for *‘Blood is thicker than water’* is actually *’The blood of the Covenant head is thicker than the water of the womb.’*
Meaning the bonds you chose are more important than the people who you are bound to by the water of the womb
This man screaming into the pillow isn't something I knew I needed.
Sounds fire 🔥
If your mom believes that someone in your family will die if you do laundry on New Year's, then do the laundry. And if there's any nonexistent chance that the superstition could be true, you just gotta hope that she's the one who gets it.