10 things only gay men will understand 🧠
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- 10 things only gay men will understand. How many did you understand?
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You are so cute Chris ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@@dubon9999 I’m a 52 years old Irish gay man and I consider Chris a very handsome young man ❤️
@@michaeljohndennis2231 Yes he is ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 He is cute ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
You may think about Dragula as different queer crowd to Drag Race!
The shorts about feeling alone resonates with me, as I grew up as an only child as a Catholic in Rural Ireland during the 1980’s, yet because of this, my only child and ultra strict Irish Catholic upbringing led to my not having my sexual orientation being regarded as real nor valid by other gay men on the Dublin gay scene at the time, even during the 1990’s - early 2000’s when I’d lived in Dublin for 3 years - this was much worse when I’d moved to Manchester U.K. in 2002 and as a result, I’d gradually distanced myself from the gay scene for a long time, but there are certain things that I fundamentally disagree with on gay life and the gay scene as a devout traditional Catholic and Irish patriot - needless to say, Covid has changed our world in so many ways, so at age 52, I feel that the gay community is at an important crossroads in relation to so many issues and aspects of gay life going forward
I HAVE NEVER watched Drag Race. Seriously.
Me neither. I've been to a few drag shows. That's it. I'm not for banning drag shows, but drag shows seem to be overdone. Sometimes less is more.
Me either. I love drag queens but I’ve never watched the show.
I haven't either!
You’re not alone. Couldn’t get into it. It’s like with straight guys and sports honestly.
Same
i'm gay and i've *never* watched drag race.
Same.
@@SergeDuka ok but are you single
@@user-oq7vm1hg1f Nope. Is that the reason? Why? For the record, my husband is also gay, so there's no "conflict of interests." 😂
You should try it even if you only watch 1 episode
Same
Unpopular opinion:
I’m gay, and I personally don’t do things or pick hobbies because I like men.
I see being gay as just who I’m attracted to.
I’m just not into all these identity politics, stating that I’m supposed to like certain things or hold certain opinions because of my identity.
Be open to everything, don't limit your opportunities
💯
I like you, you're ok.
Ohhhhhh........ you're one of THOSE gays...... 😲😱😵
@@markmh835 And what is one of “those gays”?
We’re all just individuals. There are exceptions to every rule. For instance my father was wonderful and my mother was horrible. That’s just how it is sometimes. I do sometimes find myself envious of boys and men who are close to their mothers.
Yeah some people I've seen have really close, sweet bonds with their mothers. They feel so comfortable around them. I've never felt that close to my mom. We fought a lot when I was a teen. I felt unheard a lot.
As a gay man I have never been a big fan of drag. But I am very open minded and believe everyone should be able to live and express themselves in what ever way makes them feel whole and happy. I don't allow stereotypes or peer pressure to ever dictate how I look, act or feel. I am a fierce supporter of LGBTQ+ rights and freedom's and a huge ally for women's rights to control their own bodies. I passionately despise any type of racial or trans hate and discrimination.
Drag Queens were front and center when the AIDS crisis broke out. So many fund raisers for many different causes. It's also a way to watch a show that's part comedy, part musical and was a great way to socialize and have a sense of community.
Ditto this - Yh have never watched drag- not for me.
😢Romans 1 (KJV)
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²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from holy bible)
@@jerradriggs2884Who cares? That doesn’t mean we have to enjoy a TV show that you do.
@@user-pn6es6ju9v I wonder what God thinks about idiots who seem fixated on other people's sex lives? Because of words written by MEN in an old book.
Gay, married and I’ve never watched RuPaul’s Drag Race..neither of us are interested in men dressed in women’s clothes. Not that we are against it..just not interested 😊
Thank you for saying what I think. 🤗
how old are you jusf curious?:)
@@loveyourself1986 old enough not to answer age inquiries lol
I USED to think the exact same thing about drag especially out in the clubs, and I knew it was cuz I was there to get loaded and laid and not by a dude in a dress. HOWEVER, I started watching drag race around season 8 and I’m now a super fan! It’s absolutely hilarious and it’s absolutely entertaining. Their talent is incredible and they deserve the recognition and respect by their own community. I suggest that you give it a try, RuPaul is so damn funny and even though it’s not your thing or my thing, you’ll relate cuz gay is the same no matter where we’re from. The jokes, innuendos etc. you’ll appreciate it! ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
Hard same, I know it's a culture thing. But I have zero interest in girl's clothes.
I'm an old man now. I identify with some of this but it's no longer important to me. I don't go out on the gay scene anymore. I'm not interested. My gaydar fall off years ago. Some of the things mentioned are stereotypical, I've met gay men who don't have any fashion sense and come across as straight. You are young Chris you will change as you get older. What seems important to you now won't in the future.
How old is old ? I’m 65.
@@louisdewit4429 My choice is not to have anything to do with the gay scene now. I feel I'm past it to be honest. I was 17 when I went out to a gay bar back in the 1970s. You do what you think is right for you . I wish you well.
@@carltwidle9046 yes feel the same way. i am 63
@@randysmith7045 HI Randy, I'm older than you. I have made a choice not to go out on the gay scene now. I did from the seventies up to the early 2000s. There's nothing for me. I went on gay pride protests an marches to bring about change fo us gays. Campaigned in the 1980s. I've done my bit. I live a quiet life ,and that's what i want.
Wise and true, Carl.
I never watched drag race. No dad issue but I was very close to my mother until her death.
I am an old man also and I agree with the comments that things that seem important in our youth doesn't matter anymore.
Great work Chris.
I am a 14 year old Gay, And I never had a dad and I kind of just turned sorta gay during 5th grade then just became fully gay in 6th grade. I LOVE! Rupaul's drag race I watch it every chance I get and I love pop music mostly I love ariana grande and drag queen music and a lot more.
What up, Chris!! I don't think I've said this but I'm brand new to your channel and I've basically been binge watching your videos the last couple of days along with Calvin's videos. In this video, #8 "feeling like the only one" is the one that struck me the most. I'm a 41 year old gay black man from southeast Alabama and have ALWAYS felt like I'm the ONLY ONE. Even in 2023, I still feel this. #1 was also another thing that clicked in my brain. Since I'm not "obviously gay" I definitely try to find ways to show that I am gay. Like wearing subtle pride jewelry like earrings or bracelets. Hmmm....what else. I have watched Drag Race quite a few times. Sometimes it's too cringe so I flip back over to the Golden Girls but for the most part, I like watching drag race. And, I've never really had a good gaydar, surprisingly, but now YES my gaydar is even MORE off these days. Idk who the f**k is what anymore. I get vibes, then hear "oh yeah, and my girlfriend...." and I'm like WTF, weren't you just flirting with me? 🤔I've really been enjoying your videos. I wish this kind of outlet had been around when I was a 20 something year old, lol. But it just shows how far things have come along and I'm glad for it. Keep doing what you do, fam!! You have a positive influence on LGBTQ+ people across all age ranges!! It's a beautiful thing! 🥰
Try 51. It'd even harder.
Oh no not that, I meant the gaydar skills😂
I'm hitting your message cause I live Golden Girls. Chris should have made a clip about it. Good Luck. I hope you find love.
I've never actually watched Ru Paul's Drag Race, to be honest. But I do remember seeing him dance and entertain at Weekend's, on Peachtree, in Atlanta. Met him a few times, in fact, and in later years, my husband inadvertently kicked him out of a gay bookstore. Long funny story.
Haha disagree in most of the things listed. I've never seen drag shows. Not into pop, instead rock and metal. I believe it affects the place where you live and come from. So... It depends.
i said gay guys can like metal and rock
I can only relate to number’s 8 and 9
1. I just put on whatever
2. My gaydar is so bad that I just keep my feelings to myself nowadays.
3. What’s dating? Everyone just wants to hookup.
4. Drag never interested me in the slightest.
5. I feel closer to my dad at times because my mom can be so judgmental that it’s hard telling her anything.
6. I listen to themes from video games, lord of the rings, and Star Trek. Lol don’t @ my music taste.
7. I don’t party much
8. Yes, I feel alone even among fellow gay peers because I don’t fit any of these stereotypes.
9. I found it very strange that all my childhood friends ended up gay.
10. No, I haven’t been stereotyped.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m Bi or queer because I don’t fit in with the gay community. It’s hard to relate
It's really hard Christopher, we're part of a subgroup who of all people should know how arbitrary standards imposed on everyone suck yey we're all supposed to love Ru Paul, hate sports, be hardcore Swifties. I honestly just do my thing and sometimes it will be extremely "gay: stuff and sometimes it won't. It's hard to really be your own self out there in the world but once you do it it's so liberating.
btw, my 1st vid of yours. great speaking voice, organization, delivery, very articulate. you had me laughing as you were dancing around and then sent that little smile after "don't come for me" hahaa. cute as hell. hope you and the bf are suuuuper happy. anyway, it's fun watching you. also, reminding me i need some gym time haha. 👍
I've always considered drag as entertainment and big part of gay nightlife but I have always said that I would prefer watching a cute dancer boy on a box by the Dance Floor than watching a drag show
Yes I binged an entire season of drag race in 2 days. I could relate to all 10.
I'm a gay guy in my 50's.(huh...) I've grown out of a lot of what you're talking about, yet I'm glad that I'm not too "old" to relate. I've experienced a lot of those 10 things - thanks for the reminder that things haven't changed for us as much as I've thought. I'm talking about part (+) and part (-). As a whole, I'm satisfied with my life.😊
😢Romans 1 (KJV)
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²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from holy bible)
Your videos are good. As an older gay man now I enjoy the quiet life. Backnin the day my partner and I owned a Country Gay bar in Texas for 11 years. We had a blast and drag shows a couple times a month. We sold it in 2010 and now we are just a couple of old gay guys. Great to see you young ones still carrying on the traditions and making some new ones.
Close to my mom, never watched Ru Paul, love the oldies from the 40’s, jazz ,EnYa, buying an outfit the day of a party for fashion, don’t like femine men don’t like stereotypical portrayals, love drag shows the witty the better, love StanChris his wits and humor,
Do I get to keep my card?
Everything you noted is pretty much true for everyone. Not to say everyone is all in on some of them. There are some downsides to being gay. Did you mention being judge mental or racially bias. Some of us can also be bitchy divas which some think it funny others consider it, especially if you’re on the receiving end, very hurtful which is similar to “The Mean Girls”. Oh, gays can be very cliquish.
“Unrealistic body standards” insert thirst trap 😂❤
I have watched drag race, as an older man (53) you actually spoke very well about all your topics. congrats!
Dude... first off.. MAD respect for shooting the under shot! You might be the first gay male ALIVE to film himself from below eye level (and look FAB uu lous), instead of the typical 'from above or up shot' which makes most people appear younger and in better shape (not that you need that for that reason). Second, u would be a perfect bestie.. just cuz! Cheers n' continued success!
not gay but closeted bi guy here:
1. i'm a shut in so i don't really care about how i dress because no one is gonna see
2. i never really had the opportunity to practice my gaydar
3. i've never tried dating before
4. never watched drag race but i've heard of it
5. i am out to my mom and we do have a close bond, but i'm not out to my dad but i do still have a pretty good relationship with him
6. i love music, i like all kinds of genres
7. i've never thrown a party
8. i'm definitely alone
9. i only have one bisexual friend, the rest are straight
10. i often relate to the joke stereotypes about bisexuals, like being unable to sit in chairs properly or doing the finger guns
Same here except that I’m not out to my mom and I have a bad relationship with my dad (of course not because of being bi)
At least you're true to yourself. I respect your decision.
"The rest are straight..." Well, MAYBE...
Do the "rest who are straight" think you are Bi? Didn't think so. How do you know they aren't Bi?
@@willsingourd2523 first of all, i am out to my friends. second they have never shown any kind of attraction to other guys ever, and also since they call themselves straight, i call them straight
I have watched Drag Race in the past. I worked for a company that had equipment in gay bars and they had drag shows. One of the owners would emcee the shows dressed as Dolly Parton. Unfortunately, I live in Tennessee and you know what happening here. No matter how hard we try, the conservatives have always outvoted us at the polls and it looks they will stay in office and continue to legislate how people should lead their lives. Keep up the good work, I enjoy your videos.
ATLANTA BOY HERE - LET ME TELL YA HOW YA GET THINGS DONE!
PLACE: Metro Atlanta / Cobb County Georgia
ISSUE: Cobb Co. Would Not Allow Olympic Soccer Games To Take Place Because Of Gay Team Members
ENTER: The Gays! We Lined Up On EVERY Major Interstate ALL SIX! At 8:00 Am / Noon / and 5:00pm
We Did This For FIVE DAYS IN A ROW - THEY CAVED! The Soccer Games and an Additional Two Hundred Thousand GAYS With Red Disney Shirts Could Be Seen EVERYWHERE! It Was The Same 200,000 Red T-Shirt Gays That MADE DISNEY Allow Gay Couples To Dance IN Disney World! AND THAT! IS HOW YA HANDLE THAT SITUATION! Atlanta Georgia and Nashville Practically Mirro Each Other When It Come To Christian Demographics and The Progressive VOTERS! THE PROGRESSIVE VOTERS ARE THE ONES ON THE INTERSTATE!!! DRIVING TO WORK, TO LUNCH and BACK HOME! THEY WILL GET IT DONE. Do It A FULL WEEK Before THe Election To Turn That Over! THIS IS A PROVEN SCIENCE IT WORKS EVERY! TIME!
You Will Need EIGHT DRIVERS For Every Lane You Plan To Block!
That WIll Take Care Of No-Shows AND Will Rotate The Drivers So That Every Driver Every Day For Every Lane Is A Different Driver! The Same Driver Is Not Late For Work That Many Days In A Row. EVERY DRIVER Gets ONE TICKET. And You Change The Gathering Place For EVERY DAY You Intend To Drive. ALSO Dont Drive Over or Under 40 Mph. THATS LEGAL! The Workers Will SCREAM, The Employers Will SCREAM, The Transit System Will SCREAM, The Lunch Restaurants Will SCREAM - EVERYBODY BUT THE GAYS LOSE! Organizing is KEY! Secrecy is KEY. DOING IT! IS THE KEY!
I don’t like reality shows so I’ve never watched Drag Race. I love Ru Paul though, he’s fabulous.
I found your channel now and I cant wait to watching all of your videos!
I’ve never watched drag race. And every time I’ve gone to a gay bar and the drag show starts always go out and smoke a joint and hang out with some friends until it’s over and then go back into the bar.
met my future husband shortly after getting out of the military. Met him in a gay bar and fell in love right away. We dated for like three years before he moved in and been together ever since. Most all of our friends are straight couples, and we get together fairly often for house parties, lots of wine 🍷 and food. Love to BBQ so we always get a large group.
Neither of us have really been into watching drag race, but have watched it a couple of times.
I've been a blue-collar worker working outdoors my entire life, so not really into clothes. Mainly jeans or shorts and a T-shirt with my cowboy hat.
Chris, I absolutely love your channel and I think you definitely found your niche in regards to social media. Your boyfriend is very lucky to have such an awesome intelligent creative guy in his life… Plus you're really easy on the eyes. 🤣✌🏻 I will.🏳️🌈😊
😢Romans 1 (KJV)
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²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from the Bible, read the Bible)
@@user-pn6es6ju9v Religious spam. The worst kind of spam. Please, tell me about my car's expired warranty so I can laugh about it.
I have never watched all of Drag Race. You hit all the areas rite on. I’m 65+. The more everything changes the more it stays the same. Loved this and will follow you!!
38 years old here and an introvert so the dating apps I usually attempt and quickly become over them usually within a week.😄 totally agree with your statement on the apps and the shallow part of it 🙌
Ow God...
Is this gonna be another video with his vision of what gays do, say or like? 😳😅
Yep 🤢😂
@@redbones6046 Thought so...
If I wanted to see someone in a dress I would have been straight. 😅
I see drag race the same way i see football/soccer, i can sit and watch, but i don't really like 🤷♂
Chris, I saw your Short on #8 Feeling like you're the only one, that was #1 with me.
I was born in 1965, I just turned 59 on April 2nd, the oldest of seven, of which I'm only close with one. I knew/felt "different" since the day I was born. When I was 3 years old I felt so intensely sad and alone, that there was NO ONE ELSE in the entire world who felt like I felt. I felt that way until I was 19, graduated high school, and moved away. Today, it's just me and my dogs. I'm celibate and love my solitude. And I'm honored and proud to be a fellow member of our worldwide LGBTQ+ community. 🙂❤🙏
I actually haven‘t watched drag content in general, I definitely don‘t have an issue with it I‘ve just never really decided to watch it
I feel like I’m the only gay guy who really isn’t to drag.
You are not the only one.
Most of us aren’t. We’re attracted to other men, not dressing up in women’s clothes. All the people I know who watch that show are straight girls 😂
I'm one.
Lol I don’t know anyone but 2 guys who like to watch but not even do it themselves. I’ve always found it kinda random but I grew up in the 90’s. We used to have bars where drag was the focal point and sports bars, dance clubs, leather bars for men only, lesbian bars, etc. it’s all gone now. We’re accepted in society and most of us don’t wanna go hang out with people screaming yassssssss kween
"The wittiness of the drag queens." 💯 They're also the ones who championed gay rights a lot (something to keep in mind!)
I relate so much to the Mom thing and the music. I always go through great lengths to find new artists to listen to while running and stuff. Also I try my best to talk to my mom all the time. She lives in San Diego and I live in Denver so i try super hard to keep a close relationship with her because she’s my mom and I know one day I’ll wish we were closer. She doesn’t know I’m gay though. I’ve known for years and I’ve told my sisters but not my Mom and my Dad died before I could tell him. I’m gonna tell her I’m just not ready.
I had to laugh on #2. When I got back into dating after my partner had passed away, there was this guy at work who used to hang around my desk all the time. We, or maybe I should "I" went out on two dates with this guy until I found out he was straight. Hahaha, I wanted to ask him, "would iit have been all that bad". Anyway, my gaydar was in serious need of repairs
When I was using internet dating sites I was very narrow minded, and overly optimistic! I have now been in the first long term relationship of my life! I did not find his pictures attractive. I was super hesitant to even meet him because I thought I would stop talking to him after seeing him. However, "I instantly feel head over heels for I love" for him. He was not the body type I was looking for, but for some reason I was instantly in love with him. We have been together now for over 9 years, we plan to get married in the summer of 2024. Love can come to you in a way you never expected!
good luck to yall
Great piece.. and love that Chris posts things that are his observations.. and love that people relate to those observations...
So important to have these discussions. Of course everyone does not like of so all the same things...
My guess is though that gay Men , in general, have a quicker deeper ability to accept and sometimes to understand and to recognize other peoples' points of view, likes, dislikes.. and such...
Fascinating ... that is only part of the celebration of Diversity that has sort of gotten messed up and being manipulated by some people in society ..
It is the differences that we share that move us forward.. gotta love and celebrate all that!!
Thank you Chris!!?
Love how u r developing your style...more & more u and relaxed...
I like your videos and can relate to the isolated part of the LGBTQ community, and turning 50 this year doesn't help when you're struggling with social anxiety disorder and depression
😢Romans 1 (KJV)
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²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from the Bible, read the Bible)
@@user-pn6es6ju9v Your religion is bullshit.
@@user-pn6es6ju9v Religious spam. The worst kind of spam. Please, tell me about my car's expired warranty so I can laugh about it.
Hi! I'm Ana and I'm from Romania. I've been trying to learn English by myself for almost 2 years, so I often watch English videos to practice. Otherwise, I ended up having several RUclips channels in English as recommendations, and your channel is among them. I want to tell you that you are brave and determined, the fact that you could expose yourself so much surprised me. In my country the LGBT+ community is still seen very badly, that's why I can't really see in Romania what I saw on your channel. And I have to thank you for the fact that you speak slowly and clearly, so I can understand what you are saying. I learned new words with you and I'm glad for that. Good job!
Your grasp of English in writing your post is impressive.
@@french1956 🥹👍
I’ve been learning English for 2years and still my vocuablry aren’t as good as you !
You’re fluency is spot on
Also where I live (Saudi Arabia )
The lgbtq community faces discrimination so I wont be able to see people like him talking about their sexuality openly !😢
@@mz6367 I'm not as fluent as you think, I use 3 applications to translate, speak and write in English. You don't want to know how many times I used Google Translate to write messages, even the text above is written in Google Translate, to my shame. I still have a lot to learn, but that's all I could do for now.
😢Romans 1 (KJV)
¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯
²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from holy bible)
I've never watched drag race (cars or Queens) and I'm sure I'm not alone 😃
Apart from finding the perfect outfit and drag race
All the things you’ve mentioned are interestingly accurate for me !
Good video ,keep it up🤍
I relate to alot of them. I just don't do parties very much. I have hard time telling a gay man unless is obvious. I don't have a relationship with the women who gave birth to me for multiple reasons but I have my stepmother who's my ma. Close to my parents. I struggle with hiw to show being gay but don't go over the edge. Leaving there's no exact way it's just what I want.
Can I talk to you
I'm an atypical gay man. I only relate to about 3 out of these 10 things.
Sayme
you got me so hard on the music and mother parts
Love it Chris. Totally get all 10. You're funny
I literally love Drag Race ❤❤
And I can totally relate to the gaydar especially when you're rounded with a femenine-ish straight classmates, it's just really hard to determine
SAMEEE
I can’t stand my mom. She is super homophobic. She poured a soda down the gas tank of my first boyfriend. No guy ever loved me the same as he did and he ended the relationship afterwards and I don’t blame him. For me my mom made me dislike women even more.
👍x10
Thank you for not only list but how you spoke about them. You are wonderfully articulate and I appreciate that and enjoy it. And yes I have watched one episode of Drag Race. Name dropping time, 🤭 I actually met RuPaul back in the mid-90s 🤷🏼♂️ in Calgary, Alberta, Canada, 🇨🇦 before he became popular.
Nice you got over 3K likes. Also great vid XOXO
I’ve watched all the seasons of Drag Race, All Stars, and all the other English speaking franchises. 🎉 It’s kinda like watching sports and reality tv wrapped into one. 😂
Didn't hit all 10 personally, but you nailed it pretty well!
Speaking to the influencer aspect, more organic episodes where you go on location and talk to people documentary style has the most chance of changing the way people think, simply by being a more social agent of change and cultivating positive thinking toward lgb community.
I've watched every episode of Drag Race since the beginning. I agree it's a great expression of taent and art, and I particularly like getting to know the personalities of the contestants. If you're averse to "very gay" guys, you might not appreciate the show, but my guard has been far more opened by individuals i've been fortunate enough to know better.
I’ve never conformed to the gay fashion standards and I still don’t lol I go to this gay social event sometimes each month full of gays and I always usually wear a T-shirt I love and Hollister sweatpants or sometimes blue jeans lol I still mainly wear graphic T-shirts from concerts and places I’ve traveled to the event and all the time too because that’s what makes me happy and I hope more gay men will keep seeing you need to just be the guy God made you to be! ❤
Apparently a lot of gay men are really into masculine men. That came as a surprise to me because feminine fashion styles seem to be more popular in the community. Every kind of gender presentation is equally valid and in an ideal world people wouldn't discriminate. But you might find that the way you dress actually makes guys more attracted to you.
@@CallumMcPherson It's possible the gay men who are into masculine men just tend to be more introverted. I know that's true for me. 😆
I must be the worst gay man. Not many of this applies to me at all . Growing up 90-early 2000s meant gay clothes or being noticed as gay meant gay bashing . That was engrained . Drag race wasn’t my thing for years . If people found out you were gay you could lose housing , job , etc . I just want a quiet life away from humanity. I wish I could be as care free and think like this but that won’t happen bc that’s not what I
Experienced.
Being his age, he hasn’t had the world affect him yet like so many of us have, especially gay men. I grew up in the 90s too. I watched RuPaul’s maybe first and second season and that’s it. I feel you about wanting a quiet life. Too many people on this planet and constant noise. Elon says we need more people. 😂
I grew up in the 90’s in Texas and it’s exaggerated how “hard” we had it. Early 2000’s yes, but I started high school in 05 and was always open. No one cared. Don’t feel bad, friend, most of us can’t stand drag race. And it isn’t mean it’s just like pageant shows or “say yes to the dress” for me. Not my thing. My straight girlfriends love it and respect that I have no interest though I’ve gone when Adore Delano comes only because I like her lol. Be you
@@jbar_85 Idk which season is which but my besties had me watch (before going out that weekend long ago) like an episode or 2 and I just don’t get it? Now I love my jasmine masters and adore on RUclips but the actual show, I just don’t get it lmao. But I have heard the early seasons were better, idk.
Not at all. There was no particularly more gay bashing in early 90s than it is now. It was already open. I don't where people are coming up with that nonsense. It was the same as today. Yes, you may always be discriminated because of your certain behavior even today as it was then. I am suspecting you might have had flaming or too much gay swag acting that will get you unwanted attention even today.
Im so excited for the video 😊
Throwing parties, and music, are all I can relate to. All my friends are straight or lesbian, and I don't date, or go to clubs, and except for memes, never seen drag race
Only watched 1 season, and I'm asked all the time! " you sure your gay" cuz I fix things and not flaming , I'm a 🐻 who loves Twink's like U 2 , 🔥🖖
I also have never watched DR and have no idea what the point of it is. So don’t include me on your list. I’ve been out and proud and married a wonderful guy for 43 years so I can say that I know what gay life is all about, but as I say don’t assume all gay men are interested in watching drag on tv or out on the town. Thanks.
I missed pretty much all of them. Maybe I need an "unlabeled" banner coffee mug.
I'm new to your channel. You have awesome content!
Peace..✌️
You definitely crushed it! Thank you for the video! Happy pride! 🌈
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²⁶ For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
²⁷ And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
²⁸ And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;😢(from holy bible)
@@user-pn6es6ju9v Religious spam. The worst kind of spam. Please, tell me about my car's expired warranty so I can laugh about it.
I think you’re great, but why labels ?
Who cares, be yourself be happy.
I used to be forced to binge-watch Drag Race by a now ex, and I wasn’t allowed to leave the room for any reason. I do watch the UK version now though, as does one of my teammates; she’s a heterosexual woman with homophobic kids.
As for parental bonds, I get on really well with my Dad; he has proper conversations with me and tries to understand me and whatever I’m going through. To my Mom I’ve always been a disappointment - a gay (“How could you know that?”), autistic (“Stop acting up and behave normally!”) lad with a history of mental health struggles.
I have no fashion sense at all, and I have good rhythm when playing music but can’t dance.
Thank you for the video! #8 is definitely true
Hi Chris… I can’t say I’ve watched an entire episode of Drag Race, but I have sampled it in small doses. I loved your little dance#… so cute! 🥰
OMG! I am so glad you asked about the Gaydar feeling off. I've been saying this for two years now.
I have been to lots of drag shows and drag luncheons, but I have never watched Drag Race. Yes, now that I am an older gay man, i am going through that "am I the only one" phase. And it sucks
I related to all 10😊 thank you for making me remember those are all great times😊
Definitely all 10’- excellent work!
I'm gay but I have no sense of fashion , not a big fan of drag.
I came out to my parents right before my 18th birthday, I'm getting ready to go to college now, but I swear I have the strongest relationship with my mom out of my other siblings. I don't know what it is but you can just tell. The music taste I agree with, I can literally listen to anything I want and not be criticized for it, where I feel like if you are a straight guy people think you can't listen to the same music. The stereotypes omg girlies literally the entirety of highschool is everyone assuming, "do you have daddy issues, do you have a dad?" Doesn't make any sense to me at all.
Uh. My Gaydar has never been good and these days its really frustrating for the reasons that you said. Great video!
I only watched the first few seasons when it first came on years ago, but haven't watched it since. Maybe it's time to watch it again ! 🤷
I can understand all of these, but really only relate personally to about half. I am not regular Ru Paul viewer, but have seen clips on other shows. I have terrible fashion sense. My gaydar was never good. I am not a good party giver. I think I was always pretty current in pop music. I was close to my mom, until her death. My dad was fairly distant when I was a kid. Interesting video, and well produced. I hope you get good responses Chris. 👍😃
I'm Gay and I have never been into drag. perhaps I'm odd
9 out of 10, and yes I have watched several seasons of Drag Race. Fun video Chris!
I watched 3 seasons of RuPaul Drage Race, and for me is very important for went away from a self imposed "masculinity standard" for my self, and now I use make up sometimes and do jokes pretending to be a woman or saying things like "no way babe, definitely us! Slaaaaay!!" and I know that could be a bit cringy or obvious, but for me was so important, and the top of that was reached when the first season of Drage Race Italy (I'm Italian) was started on main TV channel ❤
I've binged a couple of seasons, loved every minute!
Great video as always.
Never watched Drag Race and haven’t a big knowledge of music.
And really dislike stereotypes. 😊
I’m an middle aged man from Ireland 🇮🇪.
I can definitely relate to the mother statement. My mam is no longer with us rip.
I like clothes and yes loneliness is definitely a thing 😊
Yes, I related to all ten. And what is it about gaydar? I feel like mine is off much of the time, and I think it IS because straight guys are less hung up on appearing macho like they used to be. And maybe it's because there are more guys who are "a little bit gay." 🙂 BTW, Chris, I like the new haircut.
Thank you helpful and very useful information.
How many times did you say gay In this
I have watched a episode of drag race but not a huge fan
This whole video is stereotyping
You could use the grinder sound for your messages to out you to your peer ! 🤭
I'm in the closet right now and this video legit helped me and I'm coming out to my parents next week
and by the way I'm 17 just for some context
I've never watched Drag Race. Sorry, I just have never got the allure.
I lost my mom at 15 to cancer. Wish I could have come out to her
Yaaas Hunty I have watched RPDR - All T No Shade Hunty - and Guurl, the struggle is real ❤️
One of the mosts thing that I love of being gay is that we aren't commited to fit into a certain type of masculinity or femininity, we can just express ourselves as we want, we dont have that one preassure to be "macho".
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I have watched every season of Drag Race....... love the humor....the memes...the queens themselves. They are such great artists and entertainer, comedians, performer. Really one of the best thing I discovered in recent years.
I’ve always identified as 100% gay, but I can only relate to one of your criteria.
Is it a generational difference or am I just a straight guy who loves dick?
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Who knew we straights could be closeted, too?
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The taste in music is absolutely right 💯
I saw some people doing thier lists of what they agree with and thought it might be fun
1. I have a terrible fashion sense, it’s hard enough to find something to wear in general I mostly just wear hoodies 😂😂😂
2.Same I feel like I never had a great gaydar but it’s been getting worse instead of better 😅
3. I’ve never dated someone but part of the reason is probably because it can be hard. I always kinda fantasized about the whole random appearing in each others life from romances and I suck at texting and messaging so dating apps sound intimidating. I still get they are the probably the best option but I still envy that straight people don’t really need to worry about finding people to date like this.
4. Okay soooo I’m gonna be honest I’ve seen a couple clips but I heard a woman talking about it making her feel as if she was being made fun of and mocked and that has stopped me from really getting too into it. What she said just kinda spoke to me and I don’t want people to feel that way.
5. Yes. I love my mom. ❤ I don’t really have a great relationship with my dad because he is super Christian and we don’t live together anymore and my sisters share that with me and they are also LGBTQ. I also find I pulled away from male role models as a kid like my uncles and my granddad.
6. I had weird upbringing so my my knowledge of popular music pretty limited and right now my playlists kinda bacic. I am a completive and classical musician however I still really adore it and hope to become a composer one day. 🎵😙
7. Super introverted so parties are not really my thing
8. Yessss!😩 I feel that completely I feel like I’ve had 5 gay or bi people in my life and I wouldn’t even call most of them friends.😭😭😭
9. Again the introvert in me makes it hard to get to know people like this so I’m not able to answer this one yet but I feel like I’m the future that will change.
10. Yes I agree all the time I had a gay friend and they just kinda assumed I loved drag and fashion because we are both gay so as you can imagine that was a little awkward 😅 but yeah it pretty rampant even within the community.