15 Signs You're an Emotionally Intelligent Couple

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @alux
    @alux  3 года назад +9

    Hello Aluxers! When did you last say sorry, and how did it positively affect your relationship with that person?
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    • @JimiEastman
      @JimiEastman 3 года назад +1

      Thanks for this video, really needed right now.

  • @lysiaray
    @lysiaray 3 года назад +59

    1. You make a conscious decision to be an emotionally intelligent couple
    2. They have positive bias towards their partners
    3. You allow for healthy time apart
    4. Each person actively seeks time to connect
    5. You're not in the relationship for personal gain
    6. Partners endeavour to see things from their partner's perspective
    7. They seek professional help when they can't manage a situation themselves
    8. They work towards becoming better people
    9. Kindness is the underlying driving force
    10. When you have issues, your partner is the person you talk to first
    11. Remember when fighting, it's you and your partner against the problem
    12. You have a deep friendship with each other
    13. Respect all of your partner
    14. You make time for fun
    15. You say 'thank you' and 'I'm sorry'
    16. It's not about having the same EQ but how you deal with it. Go to therapy. Use 'I feel' statements.

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад

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  • @successwithin4706
    @successwithin4706 3 года назад +5

    Being with someone who can actually understand you and help you succeed, problems always arise, but going through it , that is a good relationship

  • @jayinfluencer
    @jayinfluencer 3 года назад +33

    The partner can either make or break you in all aspects of your life, so choose wisely! Unpopular opinion: Men especially should NOT focus on relationships in their 20s but rather on their purpose to become high value and attract a high value woman!

    • @damanicgrinam8053
      @damanicgrinam8053 3 года назад +2

      Well said jay influencer!

    • @NothingMaster
      @NothingMaster 3 года назад +1

      You make it sound like a relationship is merely a business affair! ‘A high value woman’? And what would that be? A valued piece of property?!

    • @Undesignedd
      @Undesignedd 3 года назад +2

      @@NothingMaster because relationship is just "a way to improve your business" for these people. They see woman and they say : hmm can she help me to get better? Can she motivate me?
      And they probably don't care what's going on with woman's life. She's just a trainer, life coach
      Pc: it's not about everyone but some business people i personally know who use women and call this "relationship".

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 3 года назад

      Amen!

    • @shelbysittig1047
      @shelbysittig1047 3 года назад

      I would say the same for women. You want a strong man then work on attracting a strong man. Better on both ends will be a dynamic relationship for the best of the couple and all those impacted by them.

  • @terryroland3992
    @terryroland3992 3 года назад +1

    Last time I said sorry was over three years ago. For it was hard decisions to be made, but when you and your partner agree on it that’s when it’s truly meant to of been. Not of a sex partner but of true love and support of a partner. My schnauzer terrier, I’ve had to put her down three years ago and trust me, she was a ride or die girl with me. For I could go on and on how me and her choose each other compared to anything else. Of how we fought against things, and for each other more then all. And yes, the rule to my main girlfriends were, what my schnauzer terrier said is what goes!! I LOVE u DAY and DOE!!!

  • @jakobnunez4964
    @jakobnunez4964 3 года назад +1

    We should all strive to be like lily and Marshall and jake and amy.

  • @gmchixx7652
    @gmchixx7652 3 года назад +6

    Plz make a video on how to get into a relationship in the first place..😅😅

    • @mightyr9721
      @mightyr9721 3 года назад +2

      You ought to start a relationship with YOURSELF FIRST!!!

    • @gmchixx7652
      @gmchixx7652 3 года назад

      @@mightyr9721 this is what i call some bullshit kinda of message...😅😅
      Love yourself first, have confidence in yourself first, respect yourself first... all these i call them BS.
      Give me some real ways to do it...😂

  • @zainae
    @zainae 3 года назад +5

    Looks like we are doing good as partners... But some extra tips are always welcome. 😆

  • @arb1384
    @arb1384 3 года назад +8

    00:00 - Intro
    00:22 - You make a conscious decision to be an emotionally intelligent couple
    01:04 - They have positive “bias” towards their partners
    01:58 - You allow for healthy time apart
    02:46 - Each person actively seeks time to connect
    03:29 - You’re not in the relationship for personal gain
    04:20 - Partner’s endeavour to see things from their partners perspective
    05:11 - They seek professional help when they can’t manage a situation themselves
    05:49 - They work towards becoming better people
    06:39 - Kindness is the underlying driving force
    07:43 - When you have issues, your partner is the first person you talk to
    08:34 - Remember when fighting, it’s you and your partner against the problem…
    09:20 - You have a deep friendship
    10:00 - Respect all of your partner…
    10:35 - You make time for fun
    11:17 - You say thank you, and I’m sorry
    11:54 - Question

  • @vakil6875
    @vakil6875 3 года назад +11

    Please make videos on Lawyers, Advocates and legal field, Courts.

    • @eddyst4955
      @eddyst4955 3 года назад

      First antitrust bro? :)))))

    • @shauntaym1585
      @shauntaym1585 3 года назад

      They do have one. Its called 10 best legal advice
      ruclips.net/video/AuSyNXyItVI/видео.html

    • @advabbaskhaskheli6093
      @advabbaskhaskheli6093 3 года назад

      Please tell me any best motivational channel for lawyers I am lawyer myself

  • @WealthbuilderzTV
    @WealthbuilderzTV 3 года назад +2

    A relationship is like a business partnership but with sex.

  • @amakaamaka3959
    @amakaamaka3959 3 года назад +2

    did Alux encourage lexibian from some of ur pix displayed

  • @MarcosLopez-cu6ui
    @MarcosLopez-cu6ui 3 года назад +4

    Oh my Alux friends… this is so true!!! This lists things to take into account if thinking about marriage… Thank you again, and again…🙏🤑

  • @octaviorodriguez1621
    @octaviorodriguez1621 3 года назад +2

    I said sorry last month but despite she agreed, she didn't want to continue then I realize she's not the ONE because I deserve a better future!!!

  • @mara_9178
    @mara_9178 3 года назад +4

    seems like I am blessed with one of this kind of relationship. But number 6 is a problem lol. I'm having a hard time to stop arguing and say I was wrong

  • @austinboateng6971
    @austinboateng6971 3 года назад +1

    We often allow pride to control our emotions without realizing that this is the exact negative feeling that holds us back from decisions that will foster our relationships. Acknowledging fault or admitting wrongdoing goes a long way. I last said sorry almost three years ago to a dear colleague, and it brought a sense of relief, joy, relaxation and has rekindled and strengthened our relationship. Thank you, ALUX!

  • @NothingMaster
    @NothingMaster 3 года назад +10

    15 signs you’re a commercially intelligent and financially rewarded RUclips channel.

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад

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  • @yuvarajbatna6516
    @yuvarajbatna6516 3 года назад +2

    Emotional intelligence (otherwise known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict. ... Social awareness - You have empathy.

  • @whitequetzal3574
    @whitequetzal3574 6 месяцев назад

    Google algorithm please tell me what woman you're talking about, I'm not married and I have no girlfriend.

  • @mars_z7851
    @mars_z7851 3 года назад +17

    Most probably I will be Single throughout the life as I have to build big Business Empire

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад

      ~W•H•A•T•S•A•P•P
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    • @Manuel-gu9ls
      @Manuel-gu9ls 3 года назад +2

      Quote from instagram;
      “Build an Empire then date a boss”

    • @jbkeebs
      @jbkeebs 3 года назад

      Yeah OK

  • @shelbysittig1047
    @shelbysittig1047 3 года назад +1

    If you disagree with your partner on something then sit down and talk out the why and your perspective. Personality to me is the first step to understanding your partner and yourself so that you can find your own faults and how to deal with them.

  • @nkugwa19
    @nkugwa19 3 года назад +20

    it’s so informative buh am so peaceful being single ✌️/

    • @cs-wn4rl
      @cs-wn4rl 3 года назад

      Good for you

    • @silverfranklin508
      @silverfranklin508 3 года назад

      Investment are stepping stones to success, investment is what create wealth

    • @jessicamolly9733
      @jessicamolly9733 3 года назад

      When you invest you're buying a day you don't have to work

  • @MiamiMichelleable
    @MiamiMichelleable 3 года назад +2

    It's one of the most important things in a relationship.

  • @derekb4life
    @derekb4life 3 года назад +1

    One of our main marriage motto is “Never go to bed angry”. Stay up and talk no matter how long it takes.

  • @Postulatedstate
    @Postulatedstate 3 года назад +2

    Alux is bad ass

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 года назад +2

    You have to say you’re sorry. And you can both increase your EQ.

  • @GoldieGoldillo
    @GoldieGoldillo 3 года назад +1

    Great advice and a great video! Thanks Alux!

  • @shelbysittig1047
    @shelbysittig1047 3 года назад +1

    Fun can be as simple as trying a new restaurant. Encourage new experiences together will build memories that help with the craziness of life.

  • @madhavichalke2805
    @madhavichalke2805 3 года назад +2

    I love they featured LGBT people in this vedio.

  • @ArbitratorsSanctuary
    @ArbitratorsSanctuary 3 года назад +2

    This is a great video!

  • @yashpalkar9557
    @yashpalkar9557 3 года назад +2

    Damn I am single and I am watching this video😂

  • @antonialuis4156
    @antonialuis4156 3 года назад +8

    *I've tried to be successful in Bitcoin/forex trading and stock but I always end up losing money, last month I lost about $4,500 trying to trade for myself😭😭😭*

    • @johntheo3853
      @johntheo3853 3 года назад

      Starting early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth,investing remains the priority. Forex trading has plenty of opportunities to earn a decent payout,with the right skills and proper understanding of how the market works

    • @SkyB777
      @SkyB777 3 года назад

      Hi dear please be careful

    • @SkyB777
      @SkyB777 3 года назад

      @@johntheo3853 thanks

    • @GenerativeiDS
      @GenerativeiDS 3 года назад +1

      Wow, this is serious but I hope you've leaned and gained some experience. Keep up but play it safe.

  • @alisardo1119
    @alisardo1119 3 года назад +3

    Without mutual concessions nothing will work,so there is a great need for emotional concessions balance in a straight woma-man relationship believe me 😎

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 3 года назад

    but does alux keep couples financially healthy?

  • @dannyrivera7823
    @dannyrivera7823 3 года назад

    Most people connect on a physical level instead on a spiritual level married to my wife 11 years she’s my business partner my best friend my wife And the best mom to my kids

  • @tilliowilloskits3577
    @tilliowilloskits3577 3 года назад +1

    Got some things to work on but it's lookin g pretty good lol

  • @lillithwynn3234
    @lillithwynn3234 3 года назад

    Yes! You are Canadian! When you said sorry on number 15 it completely came out Canadian!

  • @otbren11
    @otbren11 3 года назад +1

    Alux forever

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад

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  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x 3 года назад +2

    This is so blue-pilled.

    • @agentsnorlson7913
      @agentsnorlson7913 3 года назад +1

      Honestly with any social/psych stuff here, just don't bother.
      The financial and investment advice is usually good and the motivation is fantastic but yeah, theyre strangely left-leaning socially.

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 3 года назад

      I agree with most of the points, not all. Some made sense.

  • @AluxProvider
    @AluxProvider 21 день назад

    Show up and be seen the 15 one isn't thought with meeting each other. We did a lot, everyday partner I insist to and want justice. I want to know who you are? Stop hide ALUX we are alux (team) or lover not a youtuber. Am waiting for you like everyday

  • @TGREAT1
    @TGREAT1 3 года назад

    #alux why did you post about emotionally intelligent couple when it was important to post about how to increase EQ or emotionally intelligent male. Because higher eq person attracts higher eq partner!

  • @royalmodelz4853
    @royalmodelz4853 3 года назад

    Important content

  • @manofsteel3589
    @manofsteel3589 3 года назад

    Make a video on how to start film production house...

  • @mzdjamtunes5197
    @mzdjamtunes5197 3 года назад +1

    Am

  • @christineedgehill7533
    @christineedgehill7533 Год назад

    Michelle Obama said yes I guess for me to visit in her country. She has publish a book. Would be gladly like to read it, would also like you to be strict a boss and speak with authority because its important today. Making a brief announcement on when am traveling to start on our commodities as an investment that cannot be procrastinated or canceled. Date and time the name of the American airline where I would arrive the state and whose accompanying me on the airport once I arrive in america the hotel or motel or guess house or apartment or private home. Michelle Obama is the wife of a former president of the united states of America. She could organize a stay for me to settle then we can continue the ALUX name as business partners.

  • @royalmodelz4853
    @royalmodelz4853 3 года назад

    Relationship isn't all about feelings. You should grow or you quit

  • @topranked744
    @topranked744 3 года назад

    Amazing video 🔥

  • @scottphilip7852
    @scottphilip7852 3 года назад

    I love your video at large but I'll advise everybody who's into cryptos to stick with ETH, BTC and DOGE, as much as you can guys. If anyone sells when it starts to fall which at a point it will the dream maybe lost because of it being too volatile for companies to get

    • @missxsx
      @missxsx 3 года назад

      Good luck with doge

  • @selvar9323
    @selvar9323 3 года назад +1

    Billionaire ❤🙏

  • @theropilane4812
    @theropilane4812 3 года назад

    Wow this video has no dislikes? This is a miracle..or RUclips changed something?

  • @SkyB777
    @SkyB777 3 года назад

    You need the right partner to success in life... please help me

  • @taylorivory0939
    @taylorivory0939 3 года назад +1

    Love this

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад +1

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  • @lucifermorningstar8454
    @lucifermorningstar8454 3 года назад

    Proud to see marshmallow and lilypad

  • @julieteviota1482
    @julieteviota1482 3 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️❤️

    • @pinnedliving_with_luci4101
      @pinnedliving_with_luci4101 3 года назад

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  • @abinblessen9553
    @abinblessen9553 3 года назад

    Great 🔥

  • @hamryalasad
    @hamryalasad 3 года назад

    So bestie, now that you’re done watching this, can you come pm to find me and let’s start our own relationship? I know you’re here somewhere

    • @mara_9178
      @mara_9178 3 года назад +1

      Are you looking for a human or another bear? 🍯

    • @hamryalasad
      @hamryalasad 3 года назад

      @@mara_9178 we could jointly choose what we’ll be.

    • @mara_9178
      @mara_9178 3 года назад +1

      @@hamryalasad Orcas are my fav animals. would you like me if I choose to be an Orca?

    • @hamryalasad
      @hamryalasad 3 года назад

      @@mara_9178 @hamry_al_asad on Instagram. Why not follow me there to know what I think about Orcas?

  • @HoodSkilz
    @HoodSkilz 3 года назад +2

    9 people think intelligent couples don't exist. Lol