15 Signs You’re Emotionally Mature
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- Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
- 15 Signs You’re Emotionally Mature | Sunday Motivation
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In this Alux.com video we'll try to answer the following questions:
What are some signs you are emotionally mature?
What are the signs someone is emotionally mature?
How do you know someone is emotionally mature?
How to tell is someone is emotionally mature?
What are ways to improve emotional maturity?
What is emotional maturity, and how do I achieve it?
What does it mean to be emotionally mature?
Is experience the only way to gain emotional maturity?
What are the traits of an emotionally mature person?
How to tell you're dating an emotionally mature person?
What to look for in an emotionally mature person?
How can we grow emotionally?
What are some signs of people who are emotionally immature?
What are some signs of emotional intelligence?
How to be more emotionally intelligent?
How I can learn to be more intelligent emotionally?
How to develop EQ?
What is EQ?
How to grow EQ?
Signs you have a developed EQ?
#alux #EQ #Maturity
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Hello Aluxers, What would you add to our list?
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Love the short intro's y'all are just the best
Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign...
No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning.
--you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
926, I went back and looked while I was sitting at traffic light. Did I miss something or do I have to look again when morning errands are done? ;)
@@koshalpandey5898 One of my many sayings - everything in life (as far as bad experiences go) is a education
YES Alux, I understand completely that other people can't read my mind, and iam proud to say that. #TRUEALUXER
I would also add one more thing to the list "I should be emotionally strong and know when to 'show' emotional weakness" I learnt this from Francis Underwood ✌️
Here is another sign:
You know when to leave an environment when love and respect is no longer served, instead of sticking with people.
I hope I learn this one early on my life.
true
15 Signs you’re emotionally mature
1. You chose your words carefully before you respond
2. You understand how you feel and can read that into people
3. You appreciate the little things in life
4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing
5.Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place
6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally
7. You understand that people can’t read your mind
8. You admit when your wrong and take responsibility
9.When you’re ok being vulnerable
10. You expose your to opposite points of view in order to grow
11.Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people’s opinions
12. You forgive your parents
13. You are aware of your limitations and biases
14. You know when,who and how to ask for help
15. You understand that happiness is a choice not a destination
16.We all have different growth rhythm
TYPING THE SIGNS DOSENT MEAN YOU SHOULDN’T WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO
Bro thanks for saving me some time @Just Watching
Thanks bro.
Alux get it to detail on each topic. So everyone should watch the video and go through the list 1 by 1. If your a real slider and not here to fool yourself in to thinking ur really learning
Thank You so Much for this comment
i was waiting for someone to do this 😂
Another sign according to me:
You know it's okay to want a life that others don't understand.
I like A lux a lot I wished I knew these fifty years ago . Thanks A lux it’s never too late
that is a big one
💯
Yes!
"When you have a Million Dollar vision, don't surround yourself with 1 cent minds."
This is so funny 😆😆😆
Hello Aluers,
Do you want to have the lasting impact from every powerful motivational video you see here. Make notes of every points when you first watch these videos to get a bird's eye view and later watch again to completely understand what they just said.
Hope that helps...
I really agree with that!
Most actually have trouble cutting ties with such friends.
Never lie to yourself.
Not looking at others as competition
“Confidence is silent insecurities are loud”
You resolve issues instead of attending to problems
Apply the lessons from the past good/bad whether mistakes or victories
See others victories & motivation as if it were your own
All of these were mentioned within the 16 reasons however the language I use is a bit more direct.
This one is real hard! Perhaps it would be more approachable to detect when you are lying to yourself.
Very True.
“You can’t be mad at someone if you haven’t communicated to them what they’re doing wrong.”
vlogster of the net I love this quote
Another Sign: You never take anything personally
“You understand that other people can’t read your mind”
Emotional maturity is taking time to acknowledge your feelings without indulging them.
Shown on the screen 9 minutes 29 seconds
This comment carries a lot of weight. Couldn’t have said it better.
Emotional maturity is when your emotions grow a white beard
I think “exploiting” your feelings is what’s to be avoided; not indulging in them is to deny what makes you human.
Great one.
Emotional maturity starts when you can forgive yourself for all the mistakes you've made in the past big like small🙏
What helped me was to realize that my mistakes were really lessons that I needed to learn.
Wow, thanks for this!!!
#BigFacts
Hmm...Hey Alux...This I believe could be the 17th sign...
No. 17: You feel that there are no bad experiences....just learning.
--you don't feel shy to share your feelings to the people who made you what you are....both good and bad.
Koshal Pandey I love this. So so true. It’s like the stoic perspective - Amor fati or love fate
And in business, unexpected costs and problems... are just considered tuition... payment for learning!
Self Awareness.... you know where you’re lacking and what you’re lacking and strive to improve each and everyone of them
The sign to be added can be..
"To stop judging someone we don't know about."
Because it's only we seeing the other person's situation with our perspective.
Emotional maturity is when you look left, and then right before crossing the street then get knocked down by an airplane. Wake up, dust off and walking away like nothing just happend.
A sign of emotional maturity I can think of is not expecting nor needing people to like you anymore
#1- you choose your words carefully before you respond.
#2- you understand how you feel and can read that into other people.
#3- you appreciate the little things in life.
#4- you know when to quit and when to keep pushing.
#5- your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place.
#6- you take feedback constructively instead of personally.
#7- you understand that other people can't read your life
#8- you admit when you are wrong and take responsibility.
#9- When you're ok with being vulnerable.
#10- you expose yourself to the opposite point of view
#11- your decision is based on your experience not on others' opinions.
#12- you forgive your parents.
#13- you are aware of your limitations and biases.
#14- you know when who and how to ask help.
#15- you understand that happiness is a choice and not a destination
Emotionally mature people know life is short and time is priceless, so they watch each episode of Alux as opposed to pewdiepie. Lol
'As opposed to'? Why not 'as well as'? Nobody looks to Pewdiepie's videos expecting sage advice, they go to Pewdiepie's videos when they've had a long, difficult day, are exhausted and want to relax to something that doesn't require them to think (which they've been doing all day).
Wow😂😂
Life is not an ether or world. It is an and world. Enjoy what makes you happy.
"Decisions are made from your experience not by others opinions." this is a valuable thing I learnt today.
You get emotionally matured that moment you understand that more people are in your life for what they can get than what they can contribute.
Another sign: not everything is about you
This is great. I am 54 years old and I’ve gone through some shit and I’m loving my Life these days. You called it. I wish I had access to this 30 years ago, but I still got “here”. I’d add that changing/growth fucking hurts sometimes and you have to ride it out and believe that it will get better BECAUSE it really is about your attitude and you’re attitude is how you think and act. Keep up the great work. Your game is vast and I hope people are paying attention.
Shown!
"You know that feelings are merely opinions. No matter how strong they are, you also know where to look at them from."
1. You choose your words carefully before you respond.
2.You understand how you feel and can read that into other people.
3. You appreciate the little things in life.
4. You know when to quit and when to keep pushing.
5. Your mind is no longer a dark or chaotic place.
6. You take feedback constructively instead of personally.
7. You understand that other people can't read your mind.
8. You admit when you are wrong and you take responsibility.
9. When you're ok with being vulnerable.
10. You expose yourself to opposite points of you in order to grow.
11. Your decisions are driven by experience and not other people's opinion.
12. You forgive your parents.
13. You are aware of your limitations and biases.
14. You know when, who and how to ask for help.
15. You understand the happiness is a choice not a destination.
16. We all have different growth rhythms.
You are welcome !!! :-)
thanks buddy
there's the cap
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The one sign you forgot to add is this
''you are open minded & don't judge people no matter what''
“You understand that other people can’t read your mind”
Erudite (Great word to have in any of your videos)
17: You're able to turn regrets into wisdom for future decisions.
Where do you see erudite?
On the side of the side of the building.
@@Josiah-X 👍
"Have the ability to understand someone else and there problems before relating it to your own."
Today is my birthday and Alux gifted me with this inspiring content 🎁 Thanks Alux! 😉
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday 🎉
@@alux Thanks! Really appreciate it 🙏
@@beautifulskyway Thanks sir! 🙏
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Wow never realised how important being emotionally intelligent really is thanks for opening my eyes Alux🙏🙏🙏🙏
We’re here for you Joe
Can you do 15 things about life after earning a college degree? That would be great for the next Sunday motivational video in alux
Watch this one: ruclips.net/video/sZDRWeKmpqY/видео.html
When your attitude towards other people isn't influenced by how their attitude is towards you but what with morals you have for yourself
There is a difference between protecting someone and hiding stuff from them .. never hide major stuff from your loved one. Your parents, family and friends.
Sign #1: you don't look at RUclips videos to validate your emotional maturity.
But Awesometastic video. Really enjoyed it!!!!
When you acknowledged that success is an endless journey and not just a single destination...
This is a great list, which makes it difficult to add anything to it. I always quote what Wayne Dyer says: “be open to everything and attached to nothing”. To me that is a sign of emotional maturity when someone is able to respond to life in that manner. Thanks Alux!
“You understand that other people cant rad your mind” 9 mins 29 seconds.
I think another sign of emotional maturity is .. that you feel comfortable with the idea of learning something from someone far younger than you.
This plays out as most people get set in their ways and feel that people younger to them know NOTHING, which is farthest from truth. I learn from books, @Alux and even the interns in my company.. as all of us can be teachers, and all of us are students for sure!
I still get upset when my Oreo drops in my milk buts that’s not on the list so 🙌🏼
A sign of emotional maturity is knowing that while your feelings are valid, they're just feelings.
You can maintain a positive/close relationship with persons who have believes and values systems which are different from yours.
"ERUDITE" = having or showing great knowledge or learning.
Awesome Ernie
Right on time ... thanks alux.. you inspired me to start up a company.. I did .. from Nigeria, a student pharmacist based in cyprus.. I know and believe alux will one day discuss my bussines success ..
Best wishes friend. I love people trying new things, taking new great steps. Keep pushing on
We look forward to that day :)
Alux.com pls can you do a video on what early innovators expects after starting up in life how to handle hard times on the process... I feel it will help 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Another sign of Emotional Maturity:
When your sad, you know how to understand that sadness and turn that sadness into happiness through having a motivation to change
Understanding Fear is legit, it’s ok to be afraid. Now understand why and overcome it
The ability to understand, set and respect boundaries.
Knowing when, why and how some relationships can be good or bad for you.
Another sign of emotional maturity is knowing when to shut up and when to fire your guns. It's one thing to be calm, and another to be brave. Both are qualities of a mature mind.
This is a very insighful vid tho. I'd def watch it again to keep my emotional health in check.
One more sign we are emotionally mature is we practice delayed gratification. We wait patiently for what we want while waiting we prepare for what we want such as a romantic relationship.
Hey Alux...
Great fan of your work.... Such information is hard to find...
Just a suggestion... Could you guys also write your own ebooks... I'd download them all
We're actually considering doing some ebooks where we put all our work (and maybe something extra)
Listened to the end Especially when speaking about bosses not valuing others opinions. To add to this is, active listening is important and showing that you are a mature leader.
Definitely waiting... 😂 I don't mind a personal copy
Thank you Alux, for another motivational video
You're very welcome Haritha
9 Minutes 29 seconds in🥰
One of the signs of emotional maturity is when a personal relationship has ended❌️ understand it's over. ‼️💯
Please by all means do not misunderstand what it is I'm saying. Sometimes when a person feels something is over it's not always necessarily over. But we have to be mature enough to know when you're at the point that is actually over 👌Over mean over!‼️Move on with your life and never want someone after they've STOPED wanting you.‼️👍💯 Some people are meant to be in our lives for a reason a season or lifetime. 👌Our job is to know the difference in any relationship regardless of it being personal or professional👍
Remember you're better than that‼️💯🥰🥰🥰
Thank you ALUX, Kings of #freegame.
Some signs of emotional maturity in my thinking are:
1. Accepting that you can't force success or change onto people no matter how much you love them.
2. Ability to stay focused on lifetime goals and not get sidetracked by the "tasty treats" life inevitably offers.
3. Not self-destrucing due to personal turmoil (emotionally mature people know that alcohol,pills,sexcapades etc don't erase the pain / reality of whatever may have taken place no matter how tragic it may be, and they use them responsibly or not at all).
4. Emotionally mature people are averse to shortcuts because they know that nothing good ever came easy or overnight.
All from personal experience.Love to all my Aluxer's , see you in the billionaire square
Legend says that if Im early,Alux will comment this.🤔
Yes bro
The legend was right!
Very nice profile picture😁😃
Brilliant.
"9:29" - 'ERUDITE', right?
That's what I got.
I didn't see words at 9,29. Just number 7's topic.
Yes you got it!!
Agreed
George Seese it’s on the side of the building
You have ability to look at things in 360 degrees points of view. This is another high level of emotional maturity
I keep revisiting this. Thank you soo much Alux for this video. If u release a premium edition on emotional maturity, count me in. It's one very good skills not taught in school among others.
“You understand that people can’t read your mind”
9:29 *"you understand that other people can't read your mind"*
*Me:- Do I deserve a heart and a reply from alux*
*Alux:- Nah 😕*
You got it wrong, try again.
@@alux is it this? *"ERUDITE"*
One of the most needed videos for my generation! Thanks Alux. As usual your video made my Sunday more productive and a better one
1. Emotionally mature person gives everyone a chance
2. A mature person won't judge that easily and doesn't let their prejudice influence their relationships
Hey alux friend and have a Happy Sunday ❤️💙(9.29)
Happy Sunday!
@@alux thank you alux lovely friend and I'll see you tomorrow ❤️💙difanately I'll come next year completely . it's sure alux friend ❤️💙(no issue alux friend.i con take it easy.i was meet plenty of insult in my life.and I never give up you and your channel up to particular year.its sure and I'm gonna sleep and I'll see you tomorrow .🙏)
"9:29" - ERUDITE right alux?
You tell the truth especially when it’s uncomfortable and especially to those whom you claim to love
The ultimate sign of emotional maturity is Contentment. Being content in whatever state you find yourself in. That doesn't mean you don't aspire for more, but it means instead that you don't fret when you fail not boast when you succeed. But, have constant and continous joy and hope wherever you find yourself. Contentment.
How are you guys commenting so fast? 😂
You're super early Sara! Always a great feeling seeing you in the comments!
Alux.com you always make me feel like a special snowflake on Sunday’s 😂🤗
Thank you. 👍 Not lacking. Just surrounded by jealous haters. Happens when you're great 💯✔
As usual great video ALUX. Thank you for this video. I am going through a crisis in my life and this video has given me the insight and courage to face it.
The last one was actually really useful to me. Thanks for the reassurance, Alux! ❤😄
Very ERUDITE video. In most of your videos when it comes to judging myself I was on the upside most of the times. And hence I expected the same results in this video as well but to my surprise I hardly can say yes to any of the points mentioned here. It is a great opportunity for me to introspect and become better version of myself. Thank you Alux for this ERUDITE video.
'You understand that other people can't read your mind'
Additional : You realize there's growth opportunities in every situation
You understand that other people can't read your mind.
I see where I'm falling short, even in the areas I should know & be better at.
Thank you for making this video.
It's A Good Video...
These Below Points are Critical :
1. Appreciating Small Things and Enjoying life...
2. Managing the situation under Vulnerable Conditions...
3. Accepting Your Mistake is a Really Strength of an Individual and He / She is very much on Course Correction...
4. Valuing Other View is Very Important and helps us in Team Building...
5.Stop Blamming Parents and There is an Expiry Date to Blamming Parents...Where, You are Today, Its Because of them ( In Most Cases ) and Be Grateful...
Thanks Alux for these Valuable Points...
With Warm Regards,
MM.Rao
Mumbai, India
Leaving a situation or friend group because it hurts you more than it helps you / putting you first
You are emotionally mature when you sit and listen to a video about being emotionally sure. LOL love this!
17. You accept that at the end nothing matters, just the change in your soul. (The emotions you give to other people)
shown on the screen at 9:29....i cant stop watching you guys
13. "I don't know... Let's find out!"
you learn to forgive even without receiving an apology. bec in the end, forgiving is all about freeing yourself (of burdens) & not the person who wronged you.
This video is one of them that’s really talking to me. Listening to this I’m realizing I have some mental rebuilding to do.
"You understand that other people can't read your mind." And I will add that a person is emotionally mature when he or she is aware that one day we'll all die and that the time to have a good life is now. He or she do everything to have a meaningful, balanced, and valuable life because the time to live is now.
9:29 Thanks @Alux for another amazing video I truly understand the kind of person I am lol I always thought of myself as an enigma turned out I’m just emotionally mature. There’s always a war going on in my head every minute of the day 💭how can I become successful, and help other people do the same what can I do to make my first million I’ll be 20 years old in eight days I remember commenting on one of your video a while ago about one of my goals to be a millionaire by age 21 it’s hard but I haven’t given up yet💪🏽💯 Your video are the reason I’m still moving strong 💪🏽 so thank you guys @ Alux and don’t stop the good work
Shown 9:29
When you learn [there's a time and a place for everything.] I've learned that everyone is more accepting of you when this rule is applied.
A key point that helps me is having compassion. Try not to be sympathetic, I try to be empathetic. That has ALWAYS helped me out when dealing with difficult people and situations.
9 minute 29 seconds.So true You can understand what others are going through.Sure sign of emotional maturity.
ERUDITE. Emotional maturity means you understand that you can't control life or the people around you, but you can control how you react and respond to these things. The ultimate emotional maturity comes with compassion and empathy for others.
Watched video 9mins 29 seconds / Thankyou, it echoed a lot of themes, that my youngest son (30’s age group) has described about working with colleagues who are resisting change, block constructive communication, have difficulty understanding certain design themes ( at one point he drew them a graph, another day drew a design, another day invited questions.) Challenging when there are deadlines to meet. A clear case of time values, missed, unwillingness to attend meetings. ) Yes he survived, didn’t bull dose way through. Later life turned it upside down, with some funny laughable out comes. So l now understand more fully is past dilemmas and keep encouraging to question, what did he learn, how does he feel and to look back and see how many big or little learning steps he’s taken. Stay positive. Be patient with other people’s views and opinions. Be true to oneself.
“Forgive your parents because they either gave you love or have you strength.” RESPECT
Great video..will watch again soon to stick these points in my head
9:29 - Well Spent.
Brilliant Video. Need to play on repeat mode to digest the information.
17. Not being calculative over petty expenses. This one plays a crucial role to let go over petty expenses and plug all unwanted expenses.
Number 16 is fucking relatable. At first i used get annoyed when i was with people who are not as grown up as i wish them to be. But afterwards one of my friend make me understand that this is natural. There is nothing wrong in it.
Shown at 9 minutes, 29 secs. Having put a brave face on for most of my life, I see the value in Respecting others. And building your Reserves with Kindness and Compassion.
"You understand other people can't read your mind". Love you Alux
No matter where you are in your life you always retain the humility to laugh at yourself. Take life seriously but never take yourself too seriously.
Thanks for sharing that, i’ve gain more perspective on the matter
Another 2 point:
1. "When you can differentiate between things as controllable and uncontrollable, especially when the lines are blurry"
2. "Fighting for the vision rather than getting lost in competition"
The word is ERUDITE
No17. No body could either be a permanent friend or a permanent enemy.
Great video, as always! 14/16, another sign which can prove that someone is emotionally mature is in my opinion to understand that you need to give and receive love no matter your age, sex, ethniciy etc. Shown on the screen at 9' 29''!
Everything in my life has been happening for me, not to me, to motivate my spiritual maturity.
When you don't get jealous or envious of your competitors/rivals' success.
15:57 Wow last few years have been about me practicing #12 and that has made such a MASSIVE difference I can't even say.
When you purge your heart of all anger, resentment, hate then you can grow and find peace.
First thank you, this was one of my favorite videos, I really needed this!
When you self actualize and accept your responsibility for, Say.. having a bad (energy with clients) work shift. Admitting you were trying to be positive, still worked hard, yet recognized you were a bit of a grumpy cat. I've done this and was reciprocated with a positive response at the end of the shift. Water under the bridge, unless you bring grumpy cat to every work day....