Right! Like her timing adds up. If 7-13 mins is adequate sex, then take 5 to do kissing and all that 10 for foreplay, 10 for sex thats damn near 30 mins lmfao
Ikr, I came to comments thinking it would be same, disagreeing with Adrienne. Trust me 20-30 minutes is so correct for real normal realistic people and if living with partner long, it’s not even an everyday thing. They’re just saying it for camera. I believe Tamera but sometimes making love but close to 1r and that will be once or twice weekly
@@markk4473 If you take a full hour, then you'll probably have to give up simply from physical fatigue, even if you take breaks during the act (been there, done that)!
I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is about right. That includes EVERYTHING! Kissing, hugging, foreplay, the wam bam and then you continue about your day, lol. Unless, like Tamera said, you're just looking for a quickie then that could take about 5-10 minutes. I hate how they tried to make Adrienne look like she was crazy. I AGREE WITH YOU ADRIENNE!!! Lol!
The other ladies are married and with kids they cant exactly just have a whirlwind going on in the bedroom. Its different when ur married and things are different when ur still dating. Different strokes for different folks as long as there is a happy ending in the end duration shouldnt be an issue. Coz u can have 30 mins of horrible sex.
1 hour is the least I expect. Never been with a girl who wanted less than 1 hour with me. Every girl I've been with went on and on with me even on regular days. Never had sex for under even 45 minutes before. Not sure who these ladies have been fucking. They seem really unsexed at all. They need to really get fuckedddd .... loooong
I've been married for 10 years and together from 12 years with the same man, it all depends when we are tired it last about 10-15 mins. When we are not tired and it s on and poppin' it's a good 40-120 mins. Like Adrienne said that includes kissing, foreplay, etc. You need passion to have a good sex life.
That awkward moment when Loni says, "Idk what man you're with" to Adrienne and Adrienne just recently called off her engagement...too soon Loni, too soon... And I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is a good amount of time lol.
I agree! 30 minutes for the whole thing is on average. not including complete foreplay of oral and allat. anddd if you're going back to back with different positions that's about an hour.
I agree with the first chick, 20-30 minutes is fair game. Women who require and demand 4-6 hours AND more than one round are insatiable and need medical help. That's almost a full time job.
Zack jay Women are different and get satisfied in different ways. Some women anatomically can only orgasm through their clit. Its like they don't even have g-spot (or it takes hours). I also know women who only take 2mins. Its all varied. Regardless of a man's technique, there's some women that you may never satiate
+latina7292 Agreed, if I don't got anything to do that day I could have it all day tbh lol...but I think what Adrienne was saying is normal, 30 minutes is a television show how is that too long? I think it's funny us as women be acting like we doin ALL the work anyway
+James Kiefer what is wrong with you telling everyone who does it for more than 2 seconds that they're doing it wrong? How do you even do sex wrong lol. If you finish that fast it's not everyone else's fault for being able to enjoy it for longer🙄
well when your atracted to woman you may cum faster ...but when there is love it's difrent story for me personaly i try to make the girl orgasm before me and then i can let my dick do his work lol
I agree with Adrienne. I don't know who the hell Lonni has been sleeping with. Sounds like Tamar ain't used to getting it for at least 20 minutes either. Either I've been with some really good men or they just are with the wrong ones.
I totally agree with Adrienne about the 20 to 30 minutes. And yes, that is including foreplay. 20 minutes is reasonable. That is, if you really love and care for each other and want the sex to be good. I think the other "real" gals thought she meant doing the actual deed for that long. By what Adrienne said here, you can tell that deep intimate sensual good sex and connection is important for her.
I completely agree with Adrienne that 20-30 minutes is a good time to make love with someone. That's not a very long time, because you're doing different things within that amount of time. I don't believe that the girls fully understood what Adrienne meant.
Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan I'm young and only been with three girls, but I read up on sex positions and foreplay and stuff, so I've always tried to good even though I had no ideas what I was doing, but usually foreplay is about 10-15min, I learned 20min might make her mad cus its taking long (some women think that I guess). after that I go through the usual missionary, doggy, spooning, whayever that would be I guess another 10-15min at least. I also read Kamasutra recently so I've added like three of four others to try. I'm doing all this and I'm only a teenager. I'd say about 45-60min goes by like NOTHING.
I'm guessing that Tamera, Jeannie, and Tamar's perspectives are all coming from women who have been with their men and have been married for years. A perspective I can't at this point in my life understand and hopefully one that I never have to accept as truth when I settle down and get married 😂! But for now, 30 minutes or more, please!
I don't know how long it SHOULD last but it tends to last over an hour most definitely. I can't have a quickie. my body won't let me. lmao. 45 minutes minimum is all I got.
+Houston Scott I agree. with my bf and I, we could both go 45 minutes pleasuring each other easily (not including foreplay). with foreplay, that's an hour. even in a rush, we need at least 25 mins (without foreplay). my bf and I both like the intimacy that you get when you're building up to the moment. Like Tamera said, making love is different from "wam bam thank you mam"
+Ishrat Huque I love foreplay and I can hardly go without it when it comes to sex and like you it lasts quite awhile. actual intercourse is never short for me. haha
LMAO!! Adrienne looked genuinely confused @1:43. I don't know why they were acting like what she was saying was such a long time. Of course not every time you foop with your partner is gonna be that long. There are some times where you wanna actually make love and caress and canoodle and all that and there are times where you want that quick fix and have that quick shake down on the bathroom sink. It varies but Adrienne's response is definitely not incredulous like they were making it seem.
You all are nuts. If you can get it longer do it. My fiancé and I go for at least 30 minimum, our first night was6 hours. If you can't last 30 minutes your gone.
+James Kiefer not even funny. What is wrong with you all?! Everyone is different! So what that I love long sex. I'm not here for 10 minutes. And if I'm telling lies why don't you come find out!
I died! I'm surprised the comments ain't going mad at this, she was like a kid is preschool who wants to get picked to answer a question but spills the answer too quick! 😆😆
Everyone is so judgemental about this topic lol as if there is a right and wrong amount of time sex is suppose to be. Do what works for BOTH OF YOU problem solved!
Sounds like they don't want 30 minutes and they don't get that far. Jeannine said 5 :-/ and Tamar and Loni were gasping like that's an outrageous amount of time. Smh
+Melissa Jackson well tamar I love my girl but let's be honest her man can not last that long at all. only position she getting is he hitting it from the back and she riding. and he has health problems so that's y she acting like that. loni ass ain't having sex cause she so lame nobody ain't running to hit that.
"5 minutes... I like that one" "making love takes 15 minutes" "doesn't that hurt?" "that's a lot of cramping" i feel bad for these ladies. different strokes for different folks, but i guess they're not getting a lot of strokes.
@@Sophie.H just depends, I was with a man who lasted about 40 mins with his last gf, and with me it would be like 10 minutes. He just got off quicker with me.
Man. They are not getting that many strokes so what? If she finishes why would she want sex of a thousand years? My boyfriend is amazing at eating me out and i can finish in 5 minutes when he does that. Sometimes we have time to keep fucking after oral to each other sometimes no.
sabrina berriez I’m a mom of 3 year old twins. 15-20 mins is perfection for us. We get what we need and it feels great and we don’t need much else. That’s just average for us though, it depends sometimes. But I don’t have a lot of time with these damn kids lol
+Robyn Dae Thank you ... seriously ... i don't get loni .. either she can reach orgasm as fast as guys could ooor she really doesn't get any herself which would be extremely sad ..
I agree with Adrienne. I think a good amount of time is 20-30 mins and I've been married before. I thought more people would agree or say longer lol. A quickie to me is between 2-10mins! that's the same amount of time I take for a smoke break! p.s Yes i know smoking is bad. I don't encourage anyone to start...")
I knw I'm disliking the way she's reacting to the subjects they be talking about. like she don't care & looking at the rest of the girls like their dumb or something.
+Shrutika Ondich I wish we could've seen the look on Tamera's face when she paused when Loni was making annoying ass noises and comments when she was talking about the different types of intercourse
+madeyoulook I think its kinda funny that they pick on Tamera, but I agree. she's married! she knows what it is! Loni acts like she knows everything about sex
Adrienne was the most honest of them,she spoke to her mind ,I can feel the others were not being honest their playing social politics to appear acceptable,and shamed Adrienne.How ever practically it is well proven with many researches that women need more time than men.For men 5 to 10 min may be enough but ,for women it is just a start of the marathon .....,
Being in love with each other FORREAL and the kids are away for a few days makes ALL the difference. When you're in love and he's crazy in love with you makes the difference.
Am I the only person that agreed with Adrienne? Why was everyone looking at her weird lol, I would rather have 30 minutes then 15 minutes of just rushing the entire thing.
LMAO!! I never comment but I MUST chime in on this one! Adrienne boo boo kitty, I feel you girl! 20-30 mins including the wind up is definitely adequate. anything beyond that is just too much
Did Tamera yell "doesn't it hurt" when Adrienne said 30? Lol everyones body is different because sometime I feel like I don't want my hubby to ever stop lol. I would have thought Tamar would be the one to say 30 because she talks about cracking her back...guess not lol
Same... I think its mostly because Tamar, Tamara and Jeannie all have been in a relationship for a long time and are married.... in the beginning obvi sex lasts longer when it's still fresh and new... but after years of being with someone it doesnt last that long... I've been with my boyfriend 7 years and I agree with the others and not Adrienne...
@@victoriasmith2965 Whaaat? Who are you married to, a 65 year old retiree. My wife and I, 50minutes - 1hr .15 minute averages. Yep, we always keep track of time. Ever heard of sex therapy as a form of keeping a stronger bond in marriage? We are still in our late 30s, got married in our early 20s and have kids .... we F like rabbits ... atleats 4x in a week and all of every weekend except for the 5 - 6 days period breaks. Please please please .... get the book 365 Days of Sex by Anne Harper. Y'all ain't living. I truly feel sad for your sex life ..... like seriously?
OMG no wonder why women are so rigid in today's world .... 😂😂😂😂. Y'all ain't getting DICKED right. Wow ..... y'all been living with 10 minute sex men. WTF .... are you even happy? .... WOOOW! ..... Get into sex therapy with your man ASAP! Get 365 Days of Sex with Anne Hooper. Y'all will F like rabbits. I love quickies .... but that's always a prelude to a good 1 hour average later that day or evening. My wife and I only stop F'ing when she's in her 5 - 6 days period. We jump right back at it. Sex therapy teaches, never use tiredness as an excuse not to F*. Get a good 30 minutes in even on the days that your are very tired. Teach your brain to F your lover, ALL THE TIME .... and no, THERE IS NO SICH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX. Married since 2005 ..... in my late 30's with MULTIPLE KIDS .... soooooo 👀
Honestly, we'd just be getting started at 30 minutes; Making-out and fondling. One hour later, still making-out and fondling; "Get your life" ladies of The Real.
They left out so much of this discussion. Jeanie used Lionel Ritchie's "All Night Long" as an example, "Are you counting sleeping? Because I want to sleep 5 hours, and night is 8 hours, so you have 3 hours left. All night long?!? I can't get up and walk!!" Then they say that there's breaks in between. Tamar: "Ain't nobody kickin' it all night...Good Night!" Adrienne: "At the same time, you don't want Missy Elliott's 'One Minute Man'". Tamar: "Well, you know...Fine with me!!" Adrienne looking shocked. Tamara: "Tamar, would you agree with this...When you have a toddler, you learn the art of a great quickie" Tamar: "What you talkin' about Willis" and they high-five. Tamara: "Because the toddler comes walking into the room wanting mommy and daddy and you have make sure to take care of yourself and you don't want to get caught." Adrienne: "Have you ever been caught?" Tamar punts, but Tamara looks uncomfortable and winces. Adrienne: "Tamara, have you ever been caught?" Tamara: "No comment." Adrienne's jaw hits the floor. THEN they go to commercial.
For me, and I can only speak for myself; the amount of time spent having sex depends on how often we have it. Like if we're having it everyday, multiple times a day, I need it to last only like 5 minutes max. But if we're having it only a couple times a week then yes, I agree 30 minutes is not long at all.
Most of the people complaining about 7-10 minutes being short are the same ones who can't jog for 5. The problem is that everyone's adding foreplay. That's NOT sex. That's the prelude to sex. 10-15 minutes isn't short for the actual act of sex.
abc zyx EXACTLY! I've noticed (experience & conversations) that a lot of the lazy ones like to have sex for a long time. Of course, because you aren't putting in work. Sex with a tranquilized mattress will take 30+ minutes
15 mins is a quickie for me, I need an hour or 2 then we are good. As long as its good to u, I dont think a time limit is necessary and long u 2 can get ur satisfaction.
blancamunoz3151 2 hours??? Hell no. 15 minutes is not a quickie either. A quickie is 5 minutes or less. I know for a fact you can’t stay wet that long and after a while you get dry and makes the dick numb. If I was fucking past an hour there is no way I could reach climax I would be too tired and my dick would be too numb to cum. So it would just be pointless at that point.
It depends on how long you/your body wants that pleasure. Besides, it's not about how long you do it, it's about the quality of the sex. Me personally, I'm good as long as I actually got my satisfaction met. I don't necessarily need marathon sessions. As long as we got our enjoyment out of the sex, that's all that matters to me.
One of the things I hate about this show sometimes is how judgmental these women can be. This is a matter of opinion. Personally, I agree that with foreplay included, sex should last 20-30 minutes. That's not some bizarre thing. The actual sex may only last 5 minutes, but there needs to be that 15-25 minutes of foreplay for a normal sex session. Quickies can be a few minutes and love making and be 45+ minutes of seduction and romance and sex, but for me, 20-30 is ideal and that's all Adrienne was trying to say and these women hound her and make her seem crazy for what she thinks is ideal.
I´ve never has sex, becuase I wanna wait until marriage, but Loni´s schedule of cooking while getting it on sounds interesting. You enjoy, then you eat.
when you have been with the same person long and you have sex frequently. you know what they like and they know what you like. so it 5 to 10 mins and your done!!
I'm gonna have to agree with Adrienne, INCLUDING foreplay and all the stuff besides the actual intercourse, it should last a good 20-30 minutes. I think it all depends on how you do it
5 mins? Yes please! As a busy and exhausted mom I want it to be done fast so I can get to bed. I do it not for my satisfaction because I choose sleep over sex. I do it so my husband can do what he needs to do and feel good. Now when we are alone celebrating it can go on for an hour or so.
I sometimes feel like the other hosts don't take Adrienne seriously because she's the youngest. Did you notice they were all laughing at her & she was trying to share her opinion on the topic? Like, stop snickering & let her share her viewpoint.
+Sienna Leonne Yeah. The producers may have had a chat with her and Tamar. They've both piped down this season. The others are actually getting to speak...
It’s funny how women talk about what’s long and what’s not. And then the day the man has a good turn down the man has to stay hard the man has to perform . Women can just show up and spread their legs piece of cake. So I laughed when women talk how long it should be or not is that up to you. Facts
Yeah you just lay there and get fucked a man has to be turned on a man has to be at hard. The man has a perform you just show up and spread your legs sounds pretty easy to me
Anna Stella Yeah maybe when I was 21 or if it’s somebody new and she’s super hot but that’s just a man’s perspective. It’s like asking a woman to give me a head for one hour. Which I don’t know nothing much but it seems easier moving your neck up and down then keeping a hard on for a hour lol
Adrienne is the only one getting anything proper. LOL
Truth
I agree. She has that Caribbean blood right there. lol
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30 mins, isn’t long. Especially if it’s including foreplay! That’s accurate.
hi montiel how are you?.
I don’t think many men can last that long tbh
Thats plenty enough
Arlene Montiel I agree lol
Arlene Montiel ola bonita
Sex should last as long as you please different stokes for different folks period
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I feel bad that Adrienne’s the only one getting it right 😭
Ikr?!
Right! Like her timing adds up. If 7-13 mins is adequate sex, then take 5 to do kissing and all that 10 for foreplay, 10 for sex thats damn near 30 mins lmfao
@@bribricatherine8577 So I guess the afterglow is NOT included?
Ikr, I came to comments thinking it would be same, disagreeing with Adrienne. Trust me 20-30 minutes is so correct for real normal realistic people and if living with partner long, it’s not even an everyday thing. They’re just saying it for camera. I believe Tamera but sometimes making love but close to 1r and that will be once or twice weekly
@@markk4473 If you take a full hour, then you'll probably have to give up simply from physical fatigue, even if you take breaks during the act (been there, done that)!
I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is about right. That includes EVERYTHING! Kissing, hugging, foreplay, the wam bam and then you continue about your day, lol. Unless, like Tamera said, you're just looking for a quickie then that could take about 5-10 minutes. I hate how they tried to make Adrienne look like she was crazy. I AGREE WITH YOU ADRIENNE!!! Lol!
The other ladies are married and with kids they cant exactly just have a whirlwind going on in the bedroom. Its different when ur married and things are different when ur still dating. Different strokes for different folks as long as there is a happy ending in the end duration shouldnt be an issue. Coz u can have 30 mins of horrible sex.
Leah S. I'm married with kids too and I still agree with Adrienne lol! But it's like you said, different strokes for different folks.
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well i never really sided with anyone. im just saying ppl shouldn't judge the quality with duration. im not married btw.
20-30 is not long if u think about. but I feel it's long enough to please each other
I agree
If sex was over in 10 minutes I would be hellllllaaaaa disappointed. 30 minutes including foreplay is prime. Anything longer is just a bonus.
Ok 🐷 oink
Thats true
29 mins 59sec or no deal
@@laiks5485 ?
1 hour is the least I expect. Never been with a girl who wanted less than 1 hour with me. Every girl I've been with went on and on with me even on regular days. Never had sex for under even 45 minutes before. Not sure who these ladies have been fucking. They seem really unsexed at all. They need to really get fuckedddd .... loooong
Adrienne was right wtf was all that screaming and nasty eye aimed at her for?
Exactly
yup
because she was WRONG!
She even said including foreplay
Halloween Magic
not haters ...
its the people who watch lot of porn...
and don't get laid....a lot .
think that sex lasts forever.
Sex doesn’t have a time limit. As long as both parties 🎉 then it’s good!
I've been married for 10 years and together from 12 years with the same man, it all depends when we are tired it last about 10-15 mins. When we are not tired and it s on and poppin' it's a good 40-120 mins. Like Adrienne said that includes kissing, foreplay, etc. You need passion to have a good sex life.
Tamara Eubanks you must be gay and with a stud no man can do that but a stud with a strapon yeah
Tamara Eubanks I am looking for a real woman
How often do you have sex
You said it, passion an also chemistry without it's not good sex.
The awkward moment when you can't relate because you're a Virgin..... but I agree with Adrienne if I was guessing I would have thought 30 mins too
me too, 7 minutes sounds ridiculous
Right loool
bevz90 yesss when the other one said that it was 3-7 I was like that short I though It was moree
bevz90 hello my name is Bryan let me change that
Bryan Wighins your late by a year bro lol
That awkward moment when Loni says, "Idk what man you're with" to Adrienne and Adrienne just recently called off her engagement...too soon Loni, too soon...
And I agree with Adrienne. 20-30 minutes is a good amount of time lol.
I know it look like it pierced Adrienne's soul lmaook
What are Yall talking about I would say 1 hour so what is she talking bout 30 min Thats too short #yesimafreak
+LexiMB Right?! I was thinking the same thing lol
30 min is too long. I can be a freak in less time than that lmao
I agree! 30 minutes for the whole thing is on average. not including complete foreplay of oral and allat. anddd if you're going back to back with different positions that's about an hour.
i was already in love with Adrienne but now... I am even more. she's just perfect
I agree with the first chick, 20-30 minutes is fair game. Women who require and demand 4-6 hours AND more than one round are insatiable and need medical help. That's almost a full time job.
JesuCristoEsREY full time job lmao so true
JesuCristoEsREY Full time job... hahaha
JesuCristoEsREY hahhahahahaa. I can't with u LoL.
JesuCristoEsREY yupppp
Zack jay Women are different and get satisfied in different ways. Some women anatomically can only orgasm through their clit. Its like they don't even have g-spot (or it takes hours). I also know women who only take 2mins. Its all varied. Regardless of a man's technique, there's some women that you may never satiate
Am I the only one who just never wants it to stop once I'm started...like ever?! They're making me feel like nymphomaniac.
+latina7292 dont feel that way... do you even if you have to hold a gun to his head.
+latina7292 Agreed, if I don't got anything to do that day I could have it all day tbh lol...but I think what Adrienne was saying is normal, 30 minutes is a television show how is that too long? I think it's funny us as women be acting like we doin ALL the work anyway
+Tany Britt hahaha true that
+latina7292 Lol I feel you, we latinas baby. Like we can go all day if I have nothing planned
+Nicki Santiago YES! Seriously!😂😂😂
They aren't listening to what she's saying, she said 20-30 mins with foreplay involved. When you include foreplay it's not that long
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30 mins is not a long time! What the hell is wrong with them..they acting like she bugging.
Chastity B. The Entrepreneur I am looking for a real woman in my life
There’s nothing wrong with them, they just have different opinions
You can not even run for 15 minutes... Can you !!
cause she is, what kind of man can just screw for 30 minutes without ejaculating? i feel like y’all are dragging the time
It really ain't! It's crazy how short the average is to me.
These ladies must be having nothing but quickies 😂
Really though!
30 minutes for you is a quicky?
Stop
Sam_ S No. they're saying the other women who are disagreeing with Adrienne and saying 30 minutes is long are having quickies.
One hour or more is a good sex time.
Jeanie made it clear she likes quickies.
45 -1hour without break, if there are chemistry and passion. I love Adrienne she's always keepin' it real.
Chile, sex should last until we can't do it no mo'! Just sayin'.....
+LaCheleWallace OKay!!!! I'm just saying!!! lol
***** OKAAAAAY!
Anthony Simmons I'm nothing like Rhi-Rhi. Yuck!
+LaCheleWallace LaChele, that was too hilarious!
TheRetroWoman80 okaaaaay!
I’m a virgin so I can’t talk, but 30 minutes doesn’t seem long.
Xk8rsx yeah ok
30 min ALOT, the average time is 6 min and maximum is 12 min
Xk8rsx oh ok getting of this channel no one cares
well stick to being a virgin. Cause you would know about that yet.
You are missing a lot dear.. Lol.
'The day I'm married'
Who else is watching this after Adrienne IS married.
Female King It happened sooner than expected. U Still watching?
N with a kid🥺
i always thought 20-30 minutes was the average time. it scares me that some people want it shorter. and I'm trying to make it last longer.
Wait, you're like 7?
+Diya K lololololllllll
go do some homework...
+Diya K I'm like 22. try again
+peachpetals what homework? experience is the best way to learn about sex
Gonna come back to this tomorrow cos I know the comments are gonna be a mess.
+coco chilli same girl. same.
I don't think I can bear to read the comments on tomorrow.
Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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I'm dying of laughter at their reactions to 30 minutes because thats like a quicky in my sex life. Adrienne knows what good sex is 😂😂😂
3 to 7 minutes????? What, they interviewed 60 year-old housewives??? 7 minutes is barely enough time to say hello and kiss a little.
or maybe you're just doing it wrong
+James Kiefer what is wrong with you telling everyone who does it for more than 2 seconds that they're doing it wrong? How do you even do sex wrong lol. If you finish that fast it's not everyone else's fault for being able to enjoy it for longer🙄
electromaitotandonde i'm entitled to my opinion and obviously my opinion has studies and focus groups to back it up!!!
A lot of time it takes me half hour to come is that normal?
+George Abdo yes...i like 3 hours myself
I'm over here like nothing under 45 minutes unless it's a quickie and y'all talking about 5 mins and 15 mins. Obviously I need prayer...lol...
lmao
Girl okaayyy! 😩
+Jameela Rosaé You and I both lol
15 minutes??? Really??
Lmao right!
+Jameela Rosaé I met a 5 minute guy once. Was finished before I even started. O.o
40 minutes when there is love... 10 when there is not.
Julio Cesar Arias hell yeah
Julio Cesar Arias Damn ninjas is ruthless out here
Julio Cesar Arias ,that is true dude
well when your atracted to woman you may cum faster ...but when there is love it's difrent story for me personaly i try to make the girl orgasm before me and then i can let my dick do his work lol
Julio Cesar Arias jackpot
I agree with Adrienne. I don't know who the hell Lonni has been sleeping with. Sounds like Tamar ain't used to getting it for at least 20 minutes either. Either I've been with some really good men or they just are with the wrong ones.
Really though! Very well said.
Bad man? Why a man would be bad in bed cause they can make you finish in 20 minutes?
@@princessreal6134 Naw...You misunderstood. It was talkin' about him being done, not her.
when Jeanie admits she likes the wham bam thank you ma'am aka quicky. "i love that one" and points at herself....LMFAO Dead
zbluepirate I am looking for a real woman in my life
I totally agree with Adrienne about the 20 to 30 minutes. And yes, that is including foreplay. 20 minutes is reasonable. That is, if you really love and care for each other and want the sex to be good. I think the other "real" gals thought she meant doing the actual deed for that long. By what Adrienne said here, you can tell that deep intimate sensual good sex and connection is important for her.
I completely agree with Adrienne that 20-30 minutes is a good time to make love with someone. That's not a very long time, because you're doing different things within that amount of time. I don't believe that the girls fully understood what Adrienne meant.
Five minutes Tamara, you have got to be kidding me.
G J five minutes.. My dogs at home last more than... Even the birds... Lmao
🤣
eric sample you don't believe?
G J do you have a man
Hello Shawn Smith
Adrienne you not buggin. The rest of them are just old. 20 - 45 minutes I would believe is the ideal amount of time for most people.
Why are they acting like 30 minutes is a long time for sex, including foreplay?? I'm so confused... lol
Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan that's what I'm wondering 😂lol
Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan so true
rare2b exactly I go 2hours at least wtf about 30min
I guess they're just busy women lol
Brandon Mr.Unattainable Sloan I'm young and only been with three girls, but I read up on sex positions and foreplay and stuff, so I've always tried to good even though I had no ideas what I was doing, but usually foreplay is about 10-15min, I learned 20min might make her mad cus its taking long (some women think that I guess). after that I go through the usual missionary, doggy, spooning, whayever that would be I guess another 10-15min at least. I also read Kamasutra recently so I've added like three of four others to try. I'm doing all this and I'm only a teenager. I'd say about 45-60min goes by like NOTHING.
I'm guessing that Tamera, Jeannie, and Tamar's perspectives are all coming from women who have been with their men and have been married for years. A perspective I can't at this point in my life understand and hopefully one that I never have to accept as truth when I settle down and get married 😂! But for now, 30 minutes or more, please!
Yes!!
Yes!!
Yes!!
yes, PLEASEE
YES EXACTLY😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely with Adrienne. I generally get 20 min of actual sex ( when he's really focusing) and 30 minutes of foreplay (him and me)
I don't know how long it SHOULD last but it tends to last over an hour most definitely. I can't have a quickie. my body won't let me. lmao. 45 minutes minimum is all I got.
Hell! foreplay lasts a good while with me also. Lol I like to build up to the actual moment. ;) lol!
Dang
+Houston Scott I agree. with my bf and I, we could both go 45 minutes pleasuring each other easily (not including foreplay). with foreplay, that's an hour. even in a rush, we need at least 25 mins (without foreplay).
my bf and I both like the intimacy that you get when you're building up to the moment. Like Tamera said, making love is different from "wam bam thank you mam"
+Ishrat Huque I love foreplay and I can hardly go without it when it comes to sex and like you it lasts quite awhile. actual intercourse is never short for me. haha
+Houston Scott same here
LMAO!! Adrienne looked genuinely confused @1:43. I don't know why they were acting like what she was saying was such a long time. Of course not every time you foop with your partner is gonna be that long. There are some times where you wanna actually make love and caress and canoodle and all that and there are times where you want that quick fix and have that quick shake down on the bathroom sink. It varies but Adrienne's response is definitely not incredulous like they were making it seem.
madeyoulook I am looking for a real woman in my life
You all are nuts. If you can get it longer do it. My fiancé and I go for at least 30 minimum, our first night was6 hours. If you can't last 30 minutes your gone.
+East African Queen... Lmao 😭
A: 6 hours? Lies you tell!
B: If it takes you that long then you are doing something wrong
+East African Queen LMAOOAOAOAOOA
+James Kiefer not even funny. What is wrong with you all?! Everyone is different! So what that I love long sex. I'm not here for 10 minutes. And if I'm telling lies why don't you come find out!
+East African Queen not at all
Adrienne was just talking about her weekdays 30mins and all of them jump on her so she couldn't say about her weekends 😆
lol at Jeanie "I love that one "
I died! I'm surprised the comments ain't going mad at this, she was like a kid is preschool who wants to get picked to answer a question but spills the answer too quick! 😆😆
+BlessedandRedeemed lol
Adrienne has the right idea. I don't know WHAT the other ladies are on.
Everyone is so judgemental about this topic lol as if there is a right and wrong amount of time sex is suppose to be. Do what works for BOTH OF YOU problem solved!
Fantastic💥
I’m with Adriene! 20-30 minutes is perfect
Lol I need Jesus I was thinking 30-40 minutes and they said five 😂
30-40 min is average to me and I'm a guy
LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1 hour
chinitahh94kc I need Jesus HAHA
lovelylina come to daddy....i can go over 1 hour
Five minutes????? Are you chicken.??
Shes into virgins...
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Alinaitwe Samuel haahahaha
Alinaitwe Samuel we do quickies. . We both work an do some Ot
Lol
I am confused, do they not want 30 minutes or do they think no man gets that far?
Sounds like they don't want 30 minutes and they don't get that far. Jeannine said 5 :-/ and Tamar and Loni were gasping like that's an outrageous amount of time. Smh
+Melissa Jackson well tamar I love my girl but let's be honest her man can not last that long at all. only position she getting is he hitting it from the back and she riding. and he has health problems so that's y she acting like that. loni ass ain't having sex cause she so lame nobody ain't running to hit that.
jerk I thought I had a spider on my phone😂😂😂
+Robbyn Kennedy Yeah cause you in they bedroom sit down hater just cause nobody running to tap yo ass.
kaitlyn jackson
She has a point though.
"5 minutes... I like that one"
"making love takes 15 minutes"
"doesn't that hurt?"
"that's a lot of cramping"
i feel bad for these ladies. different strokes for different folks, but i guess they're not getting a lot of strokes.
Right ? Who are they married too ? 5 mins ?! My man needs longer than that to come.
@@Sophie.H just depends, I was with a man who lasted about 40 mins with his last gf, and with me it would be like 10 minutes. He just got off quicker with me.
Man. They are not getting that many strokes so what? If she finishes why would she want sex of a thousand years? My boyfriend is amazing at eating me out and i can finish in 5 minutes when he does that. Sometimes we have time to keep fucking after oral to each other sometimes no.
Omg you making me laugh
sabrina berriez I’m a mom of 3 year old twins. 15-20 mins is perfection for us. We get what we need and it feels great and we don’t need much else. That’s just average for us though, it depends sometimes. But I don’t have a lot of time with these damn kids lol
it's a known fact that women take longer to reach their climax. Besides Adrienne, why is everyone else talking like their men?
because they aren't having orgasms
+Robyn Dae Thank you ... seriously ... i don't get loni .. either she can reach orgasm as fast as guys could ooor she really doesn't get any herself which would be extremely sad ..
+Robyn Dae All women bodies are different. I remember Tamera said it don't take her no time reach climax.
+Joshua McDowell yeh Tam Tam said that on the trial run when the Sex therapist was there here was the exact quote "I get it almost immediately" .
+Robyn Dae I don't I can have one within a couple of minutes, but I still keep going.
I agree with Adrienne. I think a good amount of time is 20-30 mins and I've been married before. I thought more people would agree or say longer lol. A quickie to me is between 2-10mins! that's the same amount of time I take for a smoke break!
p.s Yes i know smoking is bad. I don't encourage anyone to start...")
thanks for your honesty(last line). you have my like
Lol aww thank you hun!
Loni annoyed me in this discussion for some reason
I knw I'm disliking the way she's reacting to the subjects they be talking about. like she don't care & looking at the rest of the girls like their dumb or something.
+Shrutika Ondich I wish we could've seen the look on Tamera's face when she paused when Loni was making annoying ass noises and comments when she was talking about the different types of intercourse
Loni can be really annoying on a lot of these discussions. Like I know you're a comedian, but come on.
+madeyoulook I think its kinda funny that they pick on Tamera, but I agree. she's married! she knows what it is! Loni acts like she knows everything about sex
+lmkp18 but shes not the only one married
Y’all 30min is the perfect time. Any longer and I start getting frustrated cause I gotta move on with my life and got some work to do
Adrienne was the most honest of them,she spoke to her mind ,I can feel the others were not being honest their playing social politics to appear acceptable,and shamed Adrienne.How ever practically it is well proven with many researches that women need more time than men.For men 5 to 10 min may be enough but ,for women it is just a start of the marathon .....,
merhawi zerom
Ummmmm
Can’t believe I am still watching after 4 years
Can’t believe I’m reading your comment after 4 years …
It should be good enough that you don’t keep track of the time. If you are watching the time, you’re probably doing something wrong
Being in love with each other FORREAL and the kids are away for a few days makes ALL the difference. When you're in love and he's crazy in love with you makes the difference.
Am I the only person that agreed with Adrienne? Why was everyone looking at her weird lol, I would rather have 30 minutes then 15 minutes of just rushing the entire thing.
It depends on the sex. You can have boring sex for two hours or a mind blowing quickie that lasts a few minutes.
Frances JAMES Facts💯
I'm with Adrienne. 30 minutes is a bare minimum.
These broads have no stamina.
Truth
Sean1983 L
Absolutely!
Sean1983 it can hurt for women after a while
@@miranda0298 It truly depends. Pain comes to both Sexes when it ain't right.
I completely agree with Adrienne! 30 mins is just right. I’ve never had 5 min sex and I hope that I never will lol
I never had that either well not with a partner 😂😂😂
LMAO!! I never comment but I MUST chime in on this one! Adrienne boo boo kitty, I feel you girl! 20-30 mins including the wind up is definitely adequate. anything beyond that is just too much
Did Tamera yell "doesn't it hurt" when Adrienne said 30? Lol everyones body is different because sometime I feel like I don't want my hubby to ever stop lol. I would have thought Tamar would be the one to say 30 because she talks about cracking her back...guess not lol
she probably be hoping Vince hungry and not horn lol
Natasha AndCompany omg lmao
am i the only one who doesn't want sex to last forever ?? like 15 minutes (not including foreplay) is good for me
Bri okkkkkkkkkk
AGREE
Same... I think its mostly because Tamar, Tamara and Jeannie all have been in a relationship for a long time and are married.... in the beginning obvi sex lasts longer when it's still fresh and new... but after years of being with someone it doesnt last that long... I've been with my boyfriend 7 years and I agree with the others and not Adrienne...
@@victoriasmith2965 Whaaat? Who are you married to, a 65 year old retiree. My wife and I, 50minutes - 1hr .15 minute averages. Yep, we always keep track of time. Ever heard of sex therapy as a form of keeping a stronger bond in marriage? We are still in our late 30s, got married in our early 20s and have kids .... we F like rabbits ... atleats 4x in a week and all of every weekend except for the 5 - 6 days period breaks.
Please please please .... get the book 365 Days of Sex by Anne Harper.
Y'all ain't living. I truly feel sad for your sex life ..... like seriously?
OMG no wonder why women are so rigid in today's world .... 😂😂😂😂. Y'all ain't getting DICKED right. Wow ..... y'all been living with 10 minute sex men. WTF .... are you even happy? .... WOOOW! ..... Get into sex therapy with your man ASAP!
Get 365 Days of Sex with Anne Hooper. Y'all will F like rabbits.
I love quickies .... but that's always a prelude to a good 1 hour average later that day or evening.
My wife and I only stop F'ing when she's in her 5 - 6 days period.
We jump right back at it.
Sex therapy teaches, never use tiredness as an excuse not to F*.
Get a good 30 minutes in even on the days that your are very tired.
Teach your brain to F your lover, ALL THE TIME .... and no, THERE IS NO SICH THING AS TOO MUCH SEX.
Married since 2005
..... in my late 30's with MULTIPLE KIDS .... soooooo 👀
Love this show!!! I literally could watch these videos all day
Honestly, we'd just be getting started at 30 minutes; Making-out and fondling. One hour later, still making-out and fondling; "Get your life" ladies of The Real.
Preech, Girl they need to get their life...
Shay A um
u better say that, cause ur right, i mean 1 hour i havent even got to my fav position
I hit 3 hours a few times so I'm really confused 30 mins is being debated
Indeed it's shocking they r debating 30min! Have easily hit 3hrs with all ingredients at play a number of times before.
can't stop watching these old episodes. seriously misses tamar
random mari thickums omg yeah...she brings fire into the conversations
thickums chick I am looking a real woman in my life
I feel bad for everyone but Adrienne lmao
30 minutes really isn't a lot of time lol
They left out so much of this discussion. Jeanie used Lionel Ritchie's "All Night Long" as an example, "Are you counting sleeping? Because I want to sleep 5 hours, and night is 8 hours, so you have 3 hours left. All night long?!? I can't get up and walk!!" Then they say that there's breaks in between. Tamar: "Ain't nobody kickin' it all night...Good Night!" Adrienne: "At the same time, you don't want Missy Elliott's 'One Minute Man'". Tamar: "Well, you know...Fine with me!!" Adrienne looking shocked. Tamara: "Tamar, would you agree with this...When you have a toddler, you learn the art of a great quickie" Tamar: "What you talkin' about Willis" and they high-five. Tamara: "Because the toddler comes walking into the room wanting mommy and daddy and you have make sure to take care of yourself and you don't want to get caught." Adrienne: "Have you ever been caught?" Tamar punts, but Tamara looks uncomfortable and winces. Adrienne: "Tamara, have you ever been caught?" Tamara: "No comment." Adrienne's jaw hits the floor. THEN they go to commercial.
I still can't believe everyone on here likes such short sex! Wtf is 3-7 minutes?! I'm with Adrienne!
For me, and I can only speak for myself; the amount of time spent having sex depends on how often we have it. Like if we're having it everyday, multiple times a day, I need it to last only like 5 minutes max. But if we're having it only a couple times a week then yes, I agree 30 minutes is not long at all.
im in shock tbh! 3-7 minutes WITH foreplay? thats like not even having sex!
I think 15 minutes not 30is too much
Most of the people complaining about 7-10 minutes being short are the same ones who can't jog for 5. The problem is that everyone's adding foreplay. That's NOT sex. That's the prelude to sex. 10-15 minutes isn't short for the actual act of sex.
abc zyx EXACTLY! I've noticed (experience & conversations) that a lot of the lazy ones like to have sex for a long time. Of course, because you aren't putting in work. Sex with a tranquilized mattress will take 30+ minutes
I need a full hour
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Sex can last however long you and your partner wants it to.
an hour is a perfect time😉
israel iloba hell no thats mean her pussy lose
Oh Im Godly !!! Bahahaha oh dear!
israel iloba u must be taking a pill..........
israel ilob
Do you happen to still be a virgin?
jeanie's "i love that one" killed me XD
Girls' Generation I am looking for a real woman in my life
15 mins is a quickie for me, I need an hour or 2 then we are good. As long as its good to u, I dont think a time limit is necessary and long u 2 can get ur satisfaction.
blancamunoz3151 2 hours??? Hell no. 15 minutes is not a quickie either. A quickie is 5 minutes or less. I know for a fact you can’t stay wet that long and after a while you get dry and makes the dick numb. If I was fucking past an hour there is no way I could reach climax I would be too tired and my dick would be too numb to cum. So it would just be pointless at that point.
You're crazy
What man is able to penetrate for up to two hours and not cum?
😩 ........ I'm with Adrienne. This is a thumbs down to couples, especially married ones. 20-30 minutes makes sense.
It depends on how long you/your body wants that pleasure. Besides, it's not about how long you do it, it's about the quality of the sex. Me personally, I'm good as long as I actually got my satisfaction met. I don't necessarily need marathon sessions. As long as we got our enjoyment out of the sex, that's all that matters to me.
One of the things I hate about this show sometimes is how judgmental these women can be. This is a matter of opinion. Personally, I agree that with foreplay included, sex should last 20-30 minutes. That's not some bizarre thing. The actual sex may only last 5 minutes, but there needs to be that 15-25 minutes of foreplay for a normal sex session. Quickies can be a few minutes and love making and be 45+ minutes of seduction and romance and sex, but for me, 20-30 is ideal and that's all Adrienne was trying to say and these women hound her and make her seem crazy for what she thinks is ideal.
30mins is purely foreplay
It can be.
30 minutes is not a lot of time!
Ike and I'm a guy
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What world you live in!
totally agree
I agree
I´ve never has sex, becuase I wanna wait until marriage, but Loni´s schedule of cooking while getting it on sounds interesting. You enjoy, then you eat.
+lucecita19 Good for you!
I'm happy for you! That's beautiful :)
lucecita19 I am looking for a real woman in my life
30 mins is too long?? What? 5 mins is not acceptable on no day, Lmbo...
That's all some of us get lol
then maybe you are doing it wrong.
when you have been with the same person long and you have sex frequently. you know what they like and they know what you like. so it 5 to 10 mins and your done!!
London Naughte pretty
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Someone forgot to finish Tamera's dress.
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lol lol Jeanie is a mess "I like that one". Poor Freddie
she last longer when it's a black rapper
Or when there are more people involved. Lol!
Or when there are more people involved. Lol!
If its not at least 20 to 30 minutes, it's almost not worth it honestly.
I agree
if you need that long than you are not doing it correctly. you might need to learn something
+James Kiefer maybe your the one not doing it correctly. U don't sound like u know how to have fun
Laini D or maybe you are just a pathetic woman commenting on a thread that is dead
+James Kiefer u can't last 20 minutes and u have the nerve to call someone else pathetic? lol
I'm gonna have to agree with Adrienne, INCLUDING foreplay and all the stuff besides the actual intercourse, it should last a good 20-30 minutes. I think it all depends on how you do it
5 mins? Yes please! As a busy and exhausted mom I want it to be done fast so I can get to bed. I do it not for my satisfaction because I choose sleep over sex. I do it so my husband can do what he needs to do and feel good. Now when we are alone celebrating it can go on for an hour or so.
I sometimes feel like the other hosts don't take Adrienne seriously because she's the youngest. Did you notice they were all laughing at her & she was trying to share her opinion on the topic? Like, stop snickering & let her share her viewpoint.
Depends on the quality of what you're dealing with..
psh. even if its a quickie me and my man end up going for over an hour because he keeps holding back.
You took the words right out my mouth!!! lol
Lol right? If it isn't over an hour it isn't for me. Been there, done that. I finally found a man to keep up with my sex drive!
+Janina Buscus That's me right there.
In my opinion sex is not a time thing. It’s about enjoying the moment. That moment can last hours or minutes. It all depends on the moment .
I totally agree with what Tamera and what Adrienne said.
Josephine McKenzie
Loni look like she don't want to be there
loni should be replaced
+Natasha AndCompany yup
+Sienna Leonne Yeah. The producers may have had a chat with her and Tamar. They've both piped down this season. The others are actually getting to speak...
+C Fas probably
+C Fas yeah, even though Jeannie ain't get no type word in 😣😣😣😣
"wam bam thank you mam" hahaha i like that xD
Tamar cracks me up everytime!😂 1:00
wen your married, Who, wham bam thank you ma'am does not exist
I'm with Adrienne on this one!!
I agree w/Adrienne 30 min is good
I say an 1 hour is perfect 👌🏾
Chels_Revenge_ Sweets how long is fourplay?
It’s funny how women talk about what’s long and what’s not. And then the day the man has a good turn down the man has to stay hard the man has to perform . Women can just show up and spread their legs piece of cake. So I laughed when women talk how long it should be or not is that up to you. Facts
Hell yeah
Yeah you just lay there and get fucked a man has to be turned on a man has to be at hard. The man has a perform you just show up and spread your legs sounds pretty easy to me
Anna Stella Yeah maybe when I was 21 or if it’s somebody new and she’s super hot but that’s just a man’s perspective. It’s like asking a woman to give me a head for one hour. Which I don’t know nothing much but it seems easier moving your neck up and down then keeping a hard on for a hour lol