Sex shouldn't feel like work. Both partners should only have sex when they are rested and in the mood. If you are not horny, don't do it. It should be spontaneous. It should never be scheduled unless you are trying to make a baby.
Yeah and they're looking at her like she's crazy. I don't have kids. 4 is more than enough for me. If the sex is great every single time, 4 times a week is perfect amount.
Look, guys are site stimulated. If you WIFE WITH KIDS is still HOT...the man will get stimulated and want it whenever he is around her. Especially a young husband
@@VampTwinkie Its definitely not at big as it was 20 odd years ago, nowadays to buy a house and pay the bills and raise kids well you do need two incomes
My husband is divorcing me because of this! We have sex 4 times a week and it’s not enough. We have 2 kids. I work, get off, pick up the kids, help them with homework, clean the house up a little bit, then it’s time to make dinner, after dinner clean up, bath time for kids, reading time with them, then bed time.
Agreed. That lady must have an addiction to sex because we've all experienced that one weekend or couple days where you get it in 4-5 times because things are fresh and new and fun. But how can you do that consistently every single day? OMG
Bass Mainer try my style.... i do it every 2 days but i go 2 to 3 times on the sex day so its basically 6 to 9 times in a week. for me its like going to the gym. men’s testicles need recovery. but when sex day comes i will go 2 to 3 rounds. after first round it only takes me 5 minutes before it becomes ready again... trust me its the best feeling.. the 2 days off builds up your lust for each other. if you cannot do it then try every other day.
Juliën Bernard that 3-4 times a week is not gonna happen once you have kids . When I’m married however my rule is sex everyday if she wants it that often . Keep your man happy or he will leave
amen!! cuz chile my freak days over. if im a freak its a lotttttttttta effort and mental training. "u can do this. make him cum, so u can sleep good." be the highlight if i wanna have sex now. #truthbetold
This is the funniest damn segment they've done so far I can't stop laughing. So glad to see all the ladies finally getting along the chemistry is getting better. Especially with Jeannie ☺️
@austin they've ALWAYS got along. The ignorant ppl in these comments just seem to *think* and put together in their own mind that these girls have issues. LOL
When I’m only 20 , Engaged and LUCKY if we do it 3 times a week. My man is an electrician working 14 hour days 6 days a week, and he’s tired. I don’t at all take offense to it. Of course he’s tired ! A normal person would be!!
Before kids, we were getting it in everyday, wherever we went, after kids 2-3x a week, after my hysterectomy due to fibroids (still have ovaries) a couple months ago, down to 1x a week 😕 hopefully it will go up again once I'm %100 better 😊also kids have moved out.
According to the average healthy relationship you are about average. Good for you that you are compatible sexually. Without regular sex most relationships will be doomed to be unhappy
I've been married 15yrs every other day works great for us and we have three kids but there not babies there all pre teens, but were still super attracted to each other and we make time to be alone. To each it's own :-)
As a woman, let me just say. THAT WOMAN IS CRAZY! I don't know who in the world is up for having sex 28 times a week unless they are not working and have a sex addiction. We don't know much about the man, maybe is a very hard working person and like TamTam said, people get tired. I'm sorry, but a divorce over this? I don't get it! Maybe she really needs to find a fellow rabbit to satisfy her :-S
I agree with you. That's a lot to ask of someone; it's also petty of her to leave her husband for something like that. It's quite interesting though...if the divorcer was the man, I'm certain the conversation would not have been as light-hearted.
I’m practicing abstinence until marriage and its been 5 years now. When I get married, I ABSOLUTELY will be doing it every night. I’m sure eventually later down the line its not gonna be like that, but in the beginning I’m letting my friends and family know not to bother us for awhile.
I sympathize with Adrienne, I’m married and I always want it. But it’s easy for me because it doesn’t take all that long, like seriously 5 mins and I’m good no shame 💁🏽♀️
Now once a day I can understand! But having sex more than one time every day?! You have got to be kidding! How can anyone do it that many times every single day? That's just too much for me to think about! I get tired just watching Buffy The Vampire Slayer do it!
LMAO - I'm long in the tooth now, but in my 20's and 30's 3 to 4 times a week was perfect. A man needs to recharge and he biologically does not have the same amount of fluid as he did on day one if he doesn't wait until two days later to perform again. Plus, at some point it becomes painful to the male to keep trying to ejaculate in too short a time!!!
Ok I don't know if I'm normal or not but everyday is TOO much. When I actually get the URGE to do it or when that CRAVING comes, its usually once every two weeks. I can do it every OTHER day to please my husband, but not everyday. Once every two weeks is when I need another fix lol
There is a saying "that too much of a thing is a disease." Two to three times a day would make sex loose it's "specialness" in my opinion. Adrienne's idea of everyday (even though that is still quite a lot) is A BIT more realistic.
Esther Grace There is no book or science that determines what's considered a normal sex appetite and what is abnormal. If the men and women are healthy and don't have external pressure they can have sex frequently.
2-3 times a day is WAY too much -- not many men can MANage that! After all, there's a reason why the instructions for fertility tests say to "take the test not earlier than 2 days after your last ejaculation"!
That is a legitimate reason to get a divorce. It doesnt matter what your sex drive is like, if you aren't being satisfied, you should not have to stay with that person. My last relationship only lasted 6 months because I only got to see him 3-4 days a week and he wouldn't even get me off once a week sometimes and it is so frustrating to have a partner that doesnt care about your needs.
If the person I am with is not willing to satisfy me sexually, then I am with the wrong person. I am amazed you stayed that long. I had a gf who did not satisfy me and within a month of living together, I gave her an Altima. It did not take long for me to realize she was the wrong person so I left.
My ex would make me wait.. he said a woman initiating is unattractive.😒 and it doesn't feel the same if you have sex all the time. Then I met my current man and that man is total opposite!! Thank God. Sometimes I still have to pull myself out of my past trauma and ways of thinking. The feeling unwanted and not good enough because my man literally wants ME! IT'S A BLESSING
Doing it every single night going make u bord of the person eventually the excitement just ain’t gonna be there no more , every other day or maybe two days in between would be good for me it gives u the craving to want the person again
I guess it depends on the person. As a dude with no kids, once a week is enough for me. I work FT and I work long days so when I get home I'm freaking tired. Plus I gotta get up super early to go to the gym before work so everyday is too much for me.
+sami ijaz no i agree, we've been togheter for 11 years and i've had alot of different sex...but the hormones that give you the same yerning that you had before is not the same anymore always. Sure sex always feels good, but sometimes i just want to sleep or to do something else.
@@Thaleya1 Yup finally someone gets it! When you in your late teens your hormones are going crazy and you ain't got no responsibilities or stress, then yea you can get down 2x a night. Lol Once you get past your mid to late 20s them hormones start to slow down a lil. Especially if you got 2 to 3 kids in tha house. Once you get into your mid to late 30s, 3 to 4x a week is good! Lol (Been married 18yrs)
My ex as a husband made love EVERY single night, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day for 8 years... Menstrual cycles and all. Now that I look back, I definitely think he had a problem.
+The English Tree I definitely had to get used to it, I mean, when we first got together it was really rough because I would end up incredibly sore. But I couldn't really say no to him either, even when I'd try he'd get all pouty and I'd eventually give in. The only time we didn't have sex was if he or I travelled separately which was maybe once or twice our whole relationship. Even when we went camping (out in the woods mind you), sex was expected. We split because he was a pathological liar and I hated his mom and she hated me.
+kurdistanss well to be honest, he was a very very good lover, very passionate, some orgasms were more intense than others. But yes, in all honesty, I would fake it sometimes, especially going on the 3rd or 4th time.
Ohh Adrienne Adrienne Adrienne! Hahaha she'll see. Especially as soon as she has a baby!! The second you and the hubby have all your clothes off is the second the baby wanna start crying😩😩😩😩
Agree. Not to mention a man's stamina - even if they are a pro athlete - needs to recharge!! It gets very painful for a man to try and come after twice (and that's after resting for a few hours!!). As the saying goes, I want to see the tape on those couples stating they can go at it 5 times a night without the women being sore and the man being in pain.
I'm with Adrienne! My average is about 20-30 minutes. I don't understand the problem. She's 33 & I just turned 27 about 3 mos ago... We're not super young, but we have a bit more of a hormonal advantage. Maybe that's a norm for me bc of my slightly higher sex drive, but sex 5 or 6 days a week is ideal for me. I love sex. And I love really good sex. I think about it as often as the average man would. I love sharing myself with my partner. So, to not have my sexual needs being met, EVEN after working together as a team to correct the issues, would be a deal breaker. I've never cheated before, but I could imagine that emotional connection not being made could drive someone to want to cheat.
Boogiefizzie Ya but Adrienne says all this and doesn't have any children yet. She can't relate so idk why she's opening her mouth on these mothers and claims she knows what she's talking about. How can she predict how her children will be like and her life with them if she didn't even have them yet?!
Adrienne did come out and finally say she had to talk to her husband cause she couldn't do it every night. All the girls said finally you understand..she did say she felt bad about not doing it cause she was saying she'd do it everyday..
"Four times a week isn't a lot"?? Adrienne, ONE time a week is a lot. Let's get that straight. And I know a man who wouldn't want it every day, not even ever month, and that is my husband. So yes, four times a week is a LOT.
I guess normal is relative but to me, once a week is the minimum and if you get too busy, you better have it twice the next week 😂 that # for me is the balance bw desire and practicality.
Sex when you loose your virginity is very painful and the moments after. I had pain during sex everytime until 3 years later when I had my child. And I was 23 years old when I lost my Virginity. after giving birth I have no more pain.
I've been practicing celibacy now for 5 yrs + all glory to God. I'm anticipating my honey moon to get it in, so I'm looking at them like huh? When you've really been holding out, you can't wait to get struck
I don't know if I could do it 3 times a day! But 4x a week is fine. 😂 Working all day and then coming home to clean or cook... No Sir! I can slip some quickies in maybe but I work and get tired. 💀🤣
Ive been in a relationship 3 years and we finally moved in together 2 year in and the first year we did it EVERYDAY at least one time sometimes more but eventually we started to take 1 or 2 day breaks and the sex felt way better.
It's not that the girls are saying they CAN'T do it multiple times a day, they're just saying it's not realistic. Sure, in theory that sounds amazing, but when you've got yourself a full schedule, plus kids, you get exhausted. No harm no foul in taking a day or so off.
T is telling the truth. I be tired sometimes or not in the mood at all. I will admit after being on birth control for so long I’ve lost my want for sex like I don’t want it anymore or care for it. Birth control fucked me up and I’m only 23 years old. I have to force myself to want it
LOL this so funny. I remember being the Adrienne in my group. " Yeah! me and my fiance have sex every day, blah blah" Got married, the kids came. That scenario quickly changed. 16 yrs later. If i get in a solid 2 a week, 3 if business was good. I'm more than satisfied. She'll learn, we've all been there.
Having sex EVERY DAY is way too much! and this is coming from a female nympho!!! like Tamar said i need a day or two to reflect!! Plus, having sex everyday with the same person can get kinda boring.
All you need to know is that I'm engaged. Meanwhile I bet your perpetually single ass wonders why she can't keep a man with your "oooh sex 4x a week is more than enough" mentality.
thatkidd jennifer I agree it's too much. I want to ask you, do you think that by spacing the sex out throughout the weeks would prevent you from getting tired of doing it with the same person? In your opinion what should a couple do to avoid getting tired of sexing the same person? I despise the foul act of cheating and think that sex with many different random partners is damaging to one's physical health, soul and mental and emotional well-being. Thanks. I kindly await your response....
wow jennifer I need a moment to take that in and let that sit with me. I shall totally marinate on that as I'm totally in agreement with you. I also acknowledge that there are people who don't see it that way. Your point about how you should not have sex just because you're horny is a very good one. Unfortunately, we live in a society that promotes and values random sexing lol; but since having this conversation with you I've really come to realize that a connection and a bond while engaging in sexual contact is so much more powerful and stimulating than empty, horny, physical attraction sex. This way, I feel we value it more because we focus on the love connection to it instead of abusing the act of sex because remember, great sex starts IN THE MIND. :) Hope we're still on the same page. P.S. I know you have great, passionate sex. You better get yours girlfriend!
Me too!! I am a triple rabbit. I love it when a man wakes me up and gets me going half asleep too. Very erotic. But it must be in a monogamous relationship because then I get hornier for that man each and every time we go.
I understand work and kids could get in the way but y’all makin sex sound like a chore when it should be something you crave and look forward to. I agree with Adrienne, everyday doesn’t seem impossible if you’re sexually attracted to your partner and love them as well. 🤷🏾♀️
When you work full time and have bills to pay errands to run food to cook a house to clean and other chores and things to do like pretty much every adult, it absolutely can feel like a chore at times. If it does every single day thats when you run into a problem. But no functional responsible adult is going to be in the mood every single day. People get tired and stressed and busy and life happens and when thats the case, the last thing on their mind is feeling sexy and having sex. That's just not realistic. And when youve been in a relationship longer than a year, you can still be very much in love and very sexually attracted to each other, but you dont feel the need to get it on every single time youre together. When you live together you dont need to have sex multiple times a day to feel satisfied or in love.
Kait I understand your point of view and I’m not saying every couple has to have sex every single day, just that doing so doesn’t seem impossible and if that’s what even one of the people in the relationship want then it should be taken seriously. I wanna clarify that I’m not saying not having sex everyday diminishes your sexual attraction to your partner or lessens it in any way. And although I agree that people become busier as they grow and mature, wanting or being able to have sex everyday or even multiple times a day does not make you a non-functional nor non-responsible adult. That’s a very blanket statement to make because just as you said being together for a year allows some people to not need sex every day, it also (like Jeanie said) allows you to understand each other sexually to the point where doing it everyday is doable even if it’s not a whole event every time. I mean, surely there ARE many couples out there who are having it everyday just as much as there are ones who are not. Sex is just as important as emotional stability so at the end of the day (like Tamar said), if one person’s needs aren’t being met then that needs to be addressed within the relationship.
im a virgin.. so i probably don't have a say in this.. but who the hell have time to do it every night.. ? like im always tired. and i dont have any kids.. im just a regular college student.. i have to take naps during the day..like honestly people who do that have too much time on their hands..sex cant possibly be on your mind 24/7
Swagmaster 21 and how is four times week not alot?? that's most of the damn week....adrienne be going in! four times a week seems pretty reasonable if you ask me.. maybe even a little too much.. people need to stop abusing the gift god gave us/
Sex shouldn't feel like work. Both partners should only have sex when they are rested and in the mood. If you are not horny, don't do it. It should be spontaneous. It should never be scheduled unless you are trying to make a baby.
Kimwarpytape even trying to make a baby ...it shouldn't be scheduled
ovulation
Willpowerv my friend says she has sex even when she is tired because it helps her sleep better
Loni always horny
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I feel like Tamera is the only one speaking some truth!! 😂
Yeah and they're looking at her like she's crazy. I don't have kids. 4 is more than enough for me. If the sex is great every single time, 4 times a week is perfect amount.
True.
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Look, guys are site stimulated. If you WIFE WITH KIDS is still HOT...the man will get stimulated and want it whenever he is around her. Especially a young husband
“Doesn’t she have to go to work, what does she do?!” 😂😂😂
She working that pole😂😂😂
Femboithecleric LMFAO Tamera
im actually suprised Tamera asked that to be honest, stay at home parents is a big thing nowadays, but i fking died at the way she said it...
@@VampTwinkie Its definitely not at big as it was 20 odd years ago, nowadays to buy a house and pay the bills and raise kids well you do need two incomes
@@user-ib4bo4kx2l im mad you dragged me back to this lmfaoooooo i already replayed Tamera 5 times already
Imagine if a guy was divorcing his wife for not having sex three times a day. 🤔 I don't think this would be a the tone of this debate.
Avirag Vishwas agreed
Exactly
My husband is divorcing me because of this! We have sex 4 times a week and it’s not enough. We have 2 kids. I work, get off, pick up the kids, help them with homework, clean the house up a little bit, then it’s time to make dinner, after dinner clean up, bath time for kids, reading time with them, then bed time.
Kristina Courtney sounds like he’s a child and doesn’t he help with all this?
@@kristinacourtney341 learn something from Adrian. Once a day is not much.
“4 times a week is not a lot” ummmm *WHAT!?* 💀💀💀💀
I am every day so long so deeply
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It’s not. It’s not a little either so I guess average.
It’s not
It's definitely not
one time me too
Two to three times a day is not realistic for a fully grown, employed member of society. Adrienne's cute though.
right!!! that person would have to be a nympho
Agreed. That lady must have an addiction to sex because we've all experienced that one weekend or couple days where you get it in 4-5 times because things are fresh and new and fun. But how can you do that consistently every single day? OMG
Kolli Oral?
Kolli I think she was talking about do it every night or in the morning before work.
Tnazup Yup she must have an addiction like those people who have multiple orgasms
"Twenty is a lot of minutes." DEAD lmao Jeannie...man she's hilarious.
For me 35 minutes are not enough.
45 is not enough
With the right one....baby let me tell you
😂She made seem like a pre payed card
It's really not though
I personally think 3 or 4 times a week is more than sufficient
Right!
YUP! 🙌 😋
Juliën Bernard I want it 7 days a week. at least give it to me once a day
Bass Mainer try my style.... i do it every 2 days but i go 2 to 3 times on the sex day so its basically 6 to 9 times in a week. for me its like going to the gym. men’s testicles need recovery. but when sex day comes i will go 2 to 3 rounds. after first round it only takes me 5 minutes before it becomes ready again... trust me its the best feeling.. the 2 days off builds up your lust for each other. if you cannot do it then try every other day.
Juliën Bernard that 3-4 times a week is not gonna happen once you have kids . When I’m married however my rule is sex everyday if she wants it that often . Keep your man happy or he will leave
My husband also wants a divorce due to us not “having sex enough” even though we do it 4 times a week. Sounds like this woman is his soulmate lol
Divorce him and I'll give it to you once a week 👉👌
Awww lol
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4 times a week is enough, you're right Kristina
Lol lol.lmao. lol.are u serious
When your a wife and a mother what you look forward too are naps.
amen!! cuz chile my freak days over. if im a freak its a lotttttttttta effort and mental training. "u can do this. make him cum, so u can sleep good." be the highlight if i wanna have sex now. #truthbetold
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Kris J Well thats unfortunate.....😂😂😂
Shiiiiii as a father too, naps are good. Even God after he saw everything He made said, "Aight Adam you in charge cuz Ima take a nap. Lol
im a virgin and im watching this 😂😂
+Natasha same. thinking about the future like..haha
same 😂
Same here
same lol
same lool
"She's a rabbit in real life"
😂😂😂😂😂😂 dying OMMMG
My ribs hurt from that comment.
Mariah Braxton-Wyatt lmao
mustlovemusic I didn't get it
Explain
Chipotle Obsessed Rabbits have sex and procreate EXTREMELY often. ;-)
Tamar: "She's a rabbit in real life." DEAD lol
@Dan Rabbits can reproduce several times a year. Calling her a rabbit is saying she has lots of sex.
@DJ I thought it had somthing to do with like playboy 😭💀😬
I really wish Tamar was still present now that Adrienne is married.
😂😂😂😂😂
They’re friends again! They told each other they missed each other
This is the funniest damn segment they've done so far I can't stop laughing. So glad to see all the ladies finally getting along the chemistry is getting better. Especially with Jeannie ☺️
When didn't they get along ?
Agreed!
Yes, the only time I've ginuinely laughed at a segment. Tamera was hilarious.
*****
well you missed a lot
@austin they've ALWAYS got along. The ignorant ppl in these comments just seem to *think* and put together in their own mind that these girls have issues. LOL
"20 is a lot of minutes" I died LOL
Maurice Montgomery lol!
Maurice Montgomery I know right not even
20mins aint enough
lol.
Maurice Montgomery lol
"She's a rabbit in real life" ..........DEAD.
I will miss Tamar so much😫
+Love Mad it's still showing episodes on TV of her know that I don't know if they've announced it that she's not going to be on it anymore
+Love Mad but ik she's not which is sad
lol.. yesss..she love sex
watch the other vids... she's talkin 20 min+... Yep..she's had some good stuff
“Don’t give people false hopes, it doesn’t work like that” 😂😂😂 truth.
When I’m only 20 , Engaged and LUCKY if we do it 3 times a week. My man is an electrician working 14 hour days 6 days a week, and he’s tired. I don’t at all take offense to it. Of course he’s tired ! A normal person would be!!
I agree with Tamera haha. Although 2/3 times a day is no biggie. But 2/3 times a day EVERYDAY now that's a commitment I can't show up to😁 haha.
Kiss Couture I could.
MrThekidisback oops...hehehe
Rachel Coffie lol
Its very big
Tru even pornstars leave da room when they drain one good round
"It's like a lot of work" hahahaha my dude
+Hugo Guerrero bet if he was in a new relationship he wouldnt mind it everyday
+Hugo Guerrero LMAO he killed that!
Hi sexy moms l love it every day it keeps me less stress
They are going IN on Adrienne. That is usually reserved for Jeannie...*the tables have turned* muhahahahah
“I gotta recharge” so true
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I am alone
Single
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Okay Beautiful
HA! NO I'm VIRGIN FOREVER
3 times a day are they in high school?!?
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I've been married 8 yrs and 2-3x a week is great for us but we started out like rabbits the first 3 yrs
Michelle Denise yes truth that’s what I’m talking about.
Before kids, we were getting it in everyday, wherever we went, after kids 2-3x a week, after my hysterectomy due to fibroids (still have ovaries) a couple months ago, down to 1x a week 😕 hopefully it will go up again once I'm %100 better 😊also kids have moved out.
Finally someone who speaks the truth.
According to the average healthy relationship you are about average. Good for you that you are compatible sexually. Without regular sex most relationships will be doomed to be unhappy
2-3 times a week is actually better than average!
I've been married 15yrs every other day works great for us and we have three kids but there not babies there all pre teens, but were still super attracted to each other and we make time to be alone. To each it's own :-)
Queen ! I hope me and my husband are like yall if we ever get blessed with becoming parents!
knowthyself Aaw thank you and ya'll will be parents, i know God will bless you and your husband. Best of luck 😄
Queen ! THANK YOU!!!!! That's awesome!!!!
too real for you how do u keep the attraction alive? 15 yrs is a long time! Hope u have it forever
It’s important to have sex I’m telling y’all
As a woman, let me just say. THAT WOMAN IS CRAZY! I don't know who in the world is up for having sex 28 times a week unless they are not working and have a sex addiction. We don't know much about the man, maybe is a very hard working person and like TamTam said, people get tired. I'm sorry, but a divorce over this? I don't get it! Maybe she really needs to find a fellow rabbit to satisfy her :-S
I agree with you. That's a lot to ask of someone; it's also petty of her to leave her husband for something like that. It's quite interesting though...if the divorcer was the man, I'm certain the conversation would not have been as light-hearted.
Kimberly Halliday I was just thinking that too! It would be a much bigger deal if the roles were reversed
Kimberly Halliday thats true they woulda been like what else is new...lol
Kimberly Halliday Yeah, the panel would go IN if a man did that.
Lashaun Gordon Try African men and women...the healthy ones. yes Sex is every single day
I’m practicing abstinence until marriage and its been 5 years now. When I get married, I ABSOLUTELY will be doing it every night. I’m sure eventually later down the line its not gonna be like that, but in the beginning I’m letting my friends and family know not to bother us for awhile.
So how is it going ??
I sympathize with Adrienne, I’m married and I always want it. But it’s easy for me because it doesn’t take all that long, like seriously 5 mins and I’m good no shame 💁🏽♀️
I am play long lone deeply 2 hours and more mmm
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A couple times every single day is crazy. People have things to do. I think 3-4 times a week is enough lol.
Now once a day I can understand! But having sex more than one time every day?! You have got to be kidding! How can anyone do it that many times every single day? That's just too much for me to think about! I get tired just watching Buffy The Vampire Slayer do it!
LMAO - I'm long in the tooth now, but in my 20's and 30's 3 to 4 times a week was perfect. A man needs to recharge and he biologically does not have the same amount of fluid as he did on day one if he doesn't wait until two days later to perform again. Plus, at some point it becomes painful to the male to keep trying to ejaculate in too short a time!!!
Lmao😂😂😂
That is very true. If I ejaculate, I need a day to recover. But if the man can avoid it, he can go more than once.
Ok I don't know if I'm normal or not but everyday is TOO much. When I actually get the URGE to do it or when that CRAVING comes, its usually once every two weeks. I can do it every OTHER day to please my husband, but not everyday. Once every two weeks is when I need another fix lol
agreed!
Thanks for not making the rest of TORTOISES feel bad!
2 years later and I agree
And 2 years later im still feeling the same way lol
Y’all are lame
There is a saying "that too much of a thing is a disease." Two to three times a day would make sex loose it's "specialness" in my opinion. Adrienne's idea of everyday (even though that is still quite a lot) is A BIT more realistic.
Esther Grace There is no book or science that determines what's considered a normal sex appetite and what is abnormal. If the men and women are healthy and don't have external pressure they can have sex frequently.
2-3 times a day is WAY too much -- not many men can MANage that! After all, there's a reason why the instructions for fertility tests say to "take the test not earlier than 2 days after your last ejaculation"!
“She’s a rabbit in real life”🤣 I cant 🤣
Tamar's voice "you not providing me enough of what i NEEDED" hahahaha
Asena Yaman in
"20 is a lot of minutes" lmao Jeannie cracked Me up! With her facial expression.
you need a day to reflect! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
That is a legitimate reason to get a divorce. It doesnt matter what your sex drive is like, if you aren't being satisfied, you should not have to stay with that person. My last relationship only lasted 6 months because I only got to see him 3-4 days a week and he wouldn't even get me off once a week sometimes and it is so frustrating to have a partner that doesnt care about your needs.
i agree
If the person I am with is not willing to satisfy me sexually, then I am with the wrong person. I am amazed you stayed that long. I had a gf who did not satisfy me and within a month of living together, I gave her an Altima. It did not take long for me to realize she was the wrong person so I left.
My ex would make me wait.. he said a woman initiating is unattractive.😒 and it doesn't feel the same if you have sex all the time. Then I met my current man and that man is total opposite!! Thank God. Sometimes I still have to pull myself out of my past trauma and ways of thinking. The feeling unwanted and not good enough because my man literally wants ME! IT'S A BLESSING
"She's a rabbit in real life" 😂😂😂
I love u really i am alone 💋👄💏💏❤❤😍
She’s Hispanic and you know they love to do it every chance they get
Sometimes my husband & I don't leave our bedroom for the entire weekend!
😂😂😂😂😂😂Same here😂
4 times a week is good for me.
Right? If you work and have responsibilities who has the energy every single night
Taylor Boynton Only if they are marathon sessions, lol. For me, I mean.
Lavish C depends on what job
Yeah
This is such a hilarious mess. So much fun!
Intersectionality I'm your 100th like
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I’m just here watching this after today’s video when she confesses she now gets it 🤣👌🏽
Lmao me too. When she said it back then I was thinking she will come back and say she gets it now
Grace A mhmmmm and no shade towards her but when we’re young we always say that we would do or would never do this or that and learn the hard way 🤣
@@Geeloveesu facts..
I am alone 😚😙😘💋👄💏❤❤😍😍😍
Doing it every single night going make u bord of the person eventually the excitement just ain’t gonna be there no more , every other day or maybe two days in between would be good for me it gives u the craving to want the person again
Ashley...tru....bored. No matter how much u spice it up, after a while...
Good pussy grip, all over the place pussy get tired easily! This is not an insult, I'm just telling you're the truth.
Agree...
I am alone
Meet me 💋👄💏😚😙😘😍💑❤🌷🌷
Exactly me doing it everyday will make me get bored and takes the fun and excitement out of it
4 times a week. Goals lool
yep :)
CandyTre1 ahahahahhhh
I guess it depends on the person. As a dude with no kids, once a week is enough for me. I work FT and I work long days so when I get home I'm freaking tired. Plus I gotta get up super early to go to the gym before work so everyday is too much for me.
I agree.
It depends on the person, for sure. Couples really need to communicate their needs completely.
once a week!? lmao damn yeah that really depends on the person
You're putting the gym before the P ??? Lol jk
Damn, you're a young male, no kids, in shape & only want once a week?1?
Tamera said, "you're tired, Ayden jumps in the bed, its a night off" lmao I can't
After getting married and having a 9-6 job, 4 times a week sounds just about perfect
I agree with Adrienne 💯 everyday is not too much to ask...
Tamera: "Let me recharge, let me recharge !!!" Lol 😅
when ur married having sex gets borning. sometimes waiting for weeks and months can feels good.
+sami ijaz switch things up....
+sami ijaz no i agree, we've been togheter for 11 years and i've had alot of different sex...but the hormones that give you the same yerning that you had before is not the same anymore always. Sure sex always feels good, but sometimes i just want to sleep or to do something else.
Yep
@@Thaleya1 Yup finally someone gets it! When you in your late teens your hormones are going crazy and you ain't got no responsibilities or stress, then yea you can get down 2x a night. Lol Once you get past your mid to late 20s them hormones start to slow down a lil. Especially if you got 2 to 3 kids in tha house. Once you get into your mid to late 30s, 3 to 4x a week is good! Lol (Been married 18yrs)
this is one of the most disgusting comments I have read in a while LOL. Glad I'm not your man
Shut up Adrian.. when your working that 9-5 and have a kid, come home make dinner, bath time, putting them to bed.. hahaha don't make me laugh.
Wait til you got 3 kids then 2x a week guna be good! Lol (been married 18yrs)
Yet Michael Jackson's mother had time for sex every day, and you know how many kids she had
@@iamshakuri People on the internet nowadays are mean :-(
You don’t need to be rude ma’am 🙄
@@aspiknf Did she work though? No. She was a classic ‘50s housewife. In those days the wife did whatever the man told her to.
I literally cried @2:53 “she’s a rabbit in real life” 😂😂 dying
so wild watching these old videos because so many lives have changed and thoughts have changed
I’ve Been with my man 11+ years and I have two kids ! I’m so tired ! Twice a week or once a week is enough for me 😂 everyday they’re tripping 😂😂😂😂
Lisette Renee right! 😂
Thank you lol. The fatigue is real.
U so damn right! 😂😂😂 I have 2 kids and married for almost 7 years, I can't get down every night, I need some rest
Biibech N lmao
Biibech N lmao I also have 2 children and been married for 7 years, so I can totally relate to you! 😂😩
Now that Adrienne is married I want them to revisit this topic.
My ex as a husband made love EVERY single night, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day for 8 years... Menstrual cycles and all. Now that I look back, I definitely think he had a problem.
Why did you guys split up? And were you okay with that frequency?
+The English Tree I definitely had to get used to it, I mean, when we first got together it was really rough because I would end up incredibly sore. But I couldn't really say no to him either, even when I'd try he'd get all pouty and I'd eventually give in. The only time we didn't have sex was if he or I travelled separately which was maybe once or twice our whole relationship. Even when we went camping (out in the woods mind you), sex was expected. We split because he was a pathological liar and I hated his mom and she hated me.
+kurdistanss well to be honest, he was a very very good lover, very passionate, some orgasms were more intense than others. But yes, in all honesty, I would fake it sometimes, especially going on the 3rd or 4th time.
Thanks for being candid.
+The English Tree absolutely! Lol it's weird talking about my sex life over RUclips, I hardly ever talk about it at all. Hehe 😊
Ohh Adrienne Adrienne Adrienne! Hahaha she'll see. Especially as soon as she has a baby!! The second you and the hubby have all your clothes off is the second the baby wanna start crying😩😩😩😩
Agree. Not to mention a man's stamina - even if they are a pro athlete - needs to recharge!! It gets very painful for a man to try and come after twice (and that's after resting for a few hours!!). As the saying goes, I want to see the tape on those couples stating they can go at it 5 times a night without the women being sore and the man being in pain.
Lmao preach
😂😂😂!!!2funny im ☠💀!!!
😂😂Loni's laughter when Jeanie said" when you get married you'll know this " to Adrienne😲😲😂So shady
I am single 😍😍❤❤
1:50 Tamera's face lololol she's like "Oh okay... yall don't go for the marathon??" 😂😂
20 is a lot of minutes!!!!! LMAO YESSSS JEANNIEEEEE I'm crackin up in my office at work.
i LOVE Adrienne
Tamar: "You getting it every night?....Liessss"
Adrienne:"You getting it everynight..Yassss" i love their dynamic"!"
When was thus
+SimplyDianax 4:04
Sassy Besos I love sex like food like wow
I read as I watched this part.
Me too sex is beautiful but it can get bored esp when yr friend ends immediately or when he's a five min rider and this I hear its more with white men
I'm with Adrienne! My average is about 20-30 minutes. I don't understand the problem. She's 33 & I just turned 27 about 3 mos ago... We're not super young, but we have a bit more of a hormonal advantage. Maybe that's a norm for me bc of my slightly higher sex drive, but sex 5 or 6 days a week is ideal for me. I love sex. And I love really good sex. I think about it as often as the average man would. I love sharing myself with my partner. So, to not have my sexual needs being met, EVEN after working together as a team to correct the issues, would be a deal breaker. I've never cheated before, but I could imagine that emotional connection not being made could drive someone to want to cheat.
Boogiefizzie Ya but Adrienne says all this and doesn't have any children yet. She can't relate so idk why she's opening her mouth on these mothers and claims she knows what she's talking about. How can she predict how her children will be like and her life with them if she didn't even have them yet?!
Boogiefizzie But this woman wants it 3 times a day EVERY DAY. Not once a day 5 or 6 times a week.
I need like 10 hours of back breaking
You sound like me
“and when you’re married you’ll know this” -J 😂😂😂
I miss Tamar so much. I can literally get a good laugh by listening to her. I loved this combination of women.
totally understand Adrienne! thought the same thing before I married ... now that I'm married we both get tired and understand if we need a night off
Like Tamera, I prefer quality over quantity. 4x a week for a GREAT one is a lot better than 3x a day for an okay one
i wanna meet adrienne one day :)
For real
😂😂
No you dnt datz my bitch
Me too! But Loni if my fave
same
I’m a man and I think 4-5 times a week is enough cause 3-4 times a day everyday I’ll get tired and bored with you real fast
Adrienne did come out and finally say she had to talk to her husband cause she couldn't do it every night. All the girls said finally you understand..she did say she felt bad about not doing it cause she was saying she'd do it everyday..
Which video?
The episode about liking your partner @@katy5362
I'm not married but 3 times a week is already tiring lol
jouxpane ...did she explicitly say that you're allowed to do that? Cuz otherwise that's very worrying.
@@indirects868 did i read it wrong caz that sound like rape
@@ddh19454 A lot of wives love those semi rapes. They are half awake but will still go hard at it.
@@stevostevo5032 lmfaooo yall are wild
@@stevostevo5032 😯😯😯
What about them who are still virgin? Like me!
Good luck!
OneLoveRSR LMFAO
OneLoveRSR Why good luck?
Wait till marriage dear.
Don't be asking "what abouts" ..... Just wait till marriage. :D
Lily Kalombo That was also my point ;)
"Four times a week isn't a lot"?? Adrienne, ONE time a week is a lot. Let's get that straight. And I know a man who wouldn't want it every day, not even ever month, and that is my husband. So yes, four times a week is a LOT.
+Jayme Sigler: Thank you!
wow
that normally means he prefers masturbation over sex. but everyone is different
Morgan Dawn, no he just has a VERY low sex drive.
I guess normal is relative but to me, once a week is the minimum and if you get too busy, you better have it twice the next week 😂 that # for me is the balance bw desire and practicality.
They should do a update to this question/topic!!!
“I wouldn’t be able to walk” 💀
Lol I'm with a Adreinene. When I get married I want to do it everyday. I mean c'mon I've waited long enough!! #Virginlife
+Sara Williams I'm sure you will for the first 6 months- a year or so :)
You are damn bitch
@@beaohbea Exactly. This will change quickly. Lol.
@@quentonwillis3846 not even up to 6months after the 3 month I was like oh okay, that's what sex is huh , let's do this every other day
Sex when you loose your virginity is very painful and the moments after. I had pain during sex everytime until 3 years later when I had my child. And I was 23 years old when I lost my Virginity. after giving birth I have no more pain.
Tamar; "Oh, I get it. You saying you need a day to reflect." LOL!
I've been practicing celibacy now for 5 yrs + all glory to God. I'm anticipating my honey moon to get it in, so I'm looking at them like huh? When you've really been holding out, you can't wait to get struck
I thought am alone three and half years now without tasting on any personz gina
I don't know if I could do it 3 times a day! But 4x a week is fine. 😂 Working all day and then coming home to clean or cook... No Sir! I can slip some quickies in maybe but I work and get tired. 💀🤣
I am every day one more i am hot and very Cruzy
I am alone
Single 💋💋👄👄💏💏😍😍❤❤💑💑🌷🌷
💯💁🏽♂️I think four times a week is good enough!
I agree Adrienne 😂 gotta get it at LEAST once a day.
Yeah once a day
If possible. Yep. Healthy for married couples.
Ashley only the stupid men are married to you crazy bitches. Good luck guys lol
Ive been in a relationship 3 years and we finally moved in together 2 year in and the first year we did it EVERYDAY at least one time sometimes more but eventually we started to take 1 or 2 day breaks and the sex felt way better.
@@dianaosoria9684how so ?
It's not that the girls are saying they CAN'T do it multiple times a day, they're just saying it's not realistic. Sure, in theory that sounds amazing, but when you've got yourself a full schedule, plus kids, you get exhausted. No harm no foul in taking a day or so off.
Show me someone that says that having sex 4 times a week is not enough, and I'll show you someone that has lost their righteous mind.
+Morpheus Exactly. For many people, 4 times a week is GOALS lol
Morpheus 😂😂😂
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Morpheus I guess I lost my mind
4 times a week is VERY good!
T is telling the truth. I be tired sometimes or not in the mood at all. I will admit after being on birth control for so long I’ve lost my want for sex like I don’t want it anymore or care for it. Birth control fucked me up and I’m only 23 years old. I have to force myself to want it
I agree with everyday even when I was tired running a business with a child… so I guess everybody is different 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I love Jeannies shes so real and honest she makes all of us feel normal
4:33-4:36....WE TALKIN 'BOUT WE GOT k-I-I-I-I-I-d-s XD I lost it there here voice cracks soo much but I love it jajaja
LOL this so funny. I remember being the Adrienne in my group. " Yeah! me and my fiance have sex every day, blah blah" Got married, the kids came. That scenario quickly changed. 16 yrs later. If i get in a solid 2 a week, 3 if business was good. I'm more than satisfied. She'll learn, we've all been there.
Twice a week is actually not bad!
Tamar: she's a rabbit in real life
Me: Lmfaooo 😂🤣😂😂🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tamar to Adrienne: "she's a rabbit real lifeee!!🤪🤪😅😅😅
Adrienne... She says a lot of things "she would do".
4x a week is not that much. Girl, please.
Having sex EVERY DAY is way too much! and this is coming from a female nympho!!! like Tamar said i need a day or two to reflect!! Plus, having sex everyday with the same person can get kinda boring.
JewelsScarlet Ok! Lmao and who are you??
All you need to know is that I'm engaged. Meanwhile I bet your perpetually single ass wonders why she can't keep a man with your "oooh sex 4x a week is more than enough" mentality.
thatkidd jennifer I agree it's too much. I want to ask you, do you think that by spacing the sex out throughout the weeks would prevent you from getting tired of doing it with the same person? In your opinion what should a couple do to avoid getting tired of sexing the same person? I despise the foul act of cheating and think that sex with many different random partners is damaging to one's physical health, soul and mental and emotional well-being. Thanks. I kindly await your response....
wow jennifer I need a moment to take that in and let that sit with me. I shall totally marinate on that as I'm totally in agreement with you. I also acknowledge that there are people who don't see it that way. Your point about how you should not have sex just because you're horny is a very good one. Unfortunately, we live in a society that promotes and values random sexing lol; but since having this conversation with you I've really come to realize that a connection and a bond while engaging in sexual contact is so much more powerful and stimulating than empty, horny, physical attraction sex. This way, I feel we value it more because we focus on the love connection to it instead of abusing the act of sex because remember, great sex starts IN THE MIND. :) Hope we're still on the same page. P.S. I know you have great, passionate sex. You better get yours girlfriend!
Dallas Destilworth Totally, i agree 100%. It was nice having this discussion with you. Wish you the best!:)
I'm a rabbit in real life Tamar!!!🙋🙈🙊
Work the tung like it was a magic bullet
😛😝😜😝😛 😆😆😆
Me too!! I am a triple rabbit. I love it when a man wakes me up and gets me going half asleep too. Very erotic. But it must be in a monogamous relationship because then I get hornier for that man each and every time we go.
+latina7292 ME TOO BIHHH! 👌👌🖐
+latina7292 Yep, we latinas want it a lot. Hell, I'm ready right now.
+ladynottingham89 maybe i should find me a latina girlfriend...i'm a bit of a rabbit too lol
Does anyone know if they “checked in” with Adrienne now that she’s married?? Lol
She said yes. She said she hasn't missed a day.
I understand work and kids could get in the way but y’all makin sex sound like a chore when it should be something you crave and look forward to. I agree with Adrienne, everyday doesn’t seem impossible if you’re sexually attracted to your partner and love them as well. 🤷🏾♀️
Beimnet Zerefa yeah shouldn’t be chore that’s why it becomes non existent in a lot relationship .
When you work full time and have bills to pay errands to run food to cook a house to clean and other chores and things to do like pretty much every adult, it absolutely can feel like a chore at times. If it does every single day thats when you run into a problem. But no functional responsible adult is going to be in the mood every single day. People get tired and stressed and busy and life happens and when thats the case, the last thing on their mind is feeling sexy and having sex. That's just not realistic. And when youve been in a relationship longer than a year, you can still be very much in love and very sexually attracted to each other, but you dont feel the need to get it on every single time youre together. When you live together you dont need to have sex multiple times a day to feel satisfied or in love.
@@kait490 💯
Kait I understand your point of view and I’m not saying every couple has to have sex every single day, just that doing so doesn’t seem impossible and if that’s what even one of the people in the relationship want then it should be taken seriously. I wanna clarify that I’m not saying not having sex everyday diminishes your sexual attraction to your partner or lessens it in any way. And although I agree that people become busier as they grow and mature, wanting or being able to have sex everyday or even multiple times a day does not make you a non-functional nor non-responsible adult. That’s a very blanket statement to make because just as you said being together for a year allows some people to not need sex every day, it also (like Jeanie said) allows you to understand each other sexually to the point where doing it everyday is doable even if it’s not a whole event every time. I mean, surely there ARE many couples out there who are having it everyday just as much as there are ones who are not. Sex is just as important as emotional stability so at the end of the day (like Tamar said), if one person’s needs aren’t being met then that needs to be addressed within the relationship.
im a virgin.. so i probably don't have a say in this.. but who the hell have time to do it every night.. ? like im always tired. and i dont have any kids.. im just a regular college student.. i have to take naps during the day..like honestly people who do that have too much time on their hands..sex cant possibly be on your mind 24/7
Swagmaster 21 and how is four times week not alot?? that's most of the damn week....adrienne be going in! four times a week seems pretty reasonable if you ask me.. maybe even a little too much.. people need to stop abusing the gift god gave us/
and u r absolutely right
Complete tapping, FOR SURE!
I'm crying when Tamar's voice crack 0:53 😂😂
I kept rewinding 4:34 I was laughing so hard.
I was looking for this comment.
Me too!!!
a couple months later Adriene is married 😂 now we wait for kids
Nah me &’ my fiancé go 2-3 times everyday &’ we both have full time jobs. I can go without for a day , but once it hits two days ? Nah I cant
I am every day one shot 😍❤💑
You need a day to reflect ? Yes !!!! That’s so me 🤣🤣🤣