Agressive Toy Poodle Hates Men | Full Episode USA
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- Опубликовано: 26 мар 2023
- On this episode Victoria meets a family with a household divide: it's Male vs. Female. Junie B hates men! She growls, barks & bites. Dad & son have had enough!
US Season 1 Episode 10
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A close friend of my husband and I adopted a dog who was abused by men. This dog hated any man. My husband was determined to make friends. He brought treats every time he saw this dog he would offer a treat, first from far away them closer and closer. Now this dog shakes in excitement everything he sees my husband, even if pats is all he gets
That's adorable
It's really about changing their perception. It's why it's easy for a dog that doesn't have those pre existing traumas
Because with your husband bringing treats every time it made the dog realize that he wasn’t a threat. 😊
I’m actually surprised the husband in the video put up this long
Aww that is so sweet❤
The end with Apple and Zuzu got me, ngl. Neglect is one of the worst things you can do as a pet owner, but I'm so happy to see how invested this family was in working to enrich all of their dogs' lives!
The end?
@@helloitislucie4475 the end of the video
@@helloitislucie4475?
Yeah, that got me too. As a fellow trainer for over 25 years, it's heartbreaking to see scared and nervous dogs...small dog syndrome, some call it. It's often an easy thing to remedy. It can be quick or take some time, but either way it's so worth the effort to build up trust and confidence. Neglect is definitely up there as one of the worst. Seeing families play favourites with one dog and leaving the others lonely and treated as less important is such a sad situation to behold. I hope that those adorable terrier mixes are now living in the the house and getting as much positive attention and love as Junie B. Victoria Stillwell is a fantastic trainer and her ability to connect with and enlighten the caregivers is always great to watch.
I was so sad to think that these dogs didn't know why they couldn't come inside or the girls didn't like them. It's good to see everybody loving every dog
That mum is so jealous of Juni bonding with the dad lol
Yes she is.
Exactly... they should get marriege councel instead. The all thing is sooo wrong
I have a feeling that she got the dog because se hates men so the mom and the daughter get more affection
So true
I thought (saw) that, too! I also think in the end she saw the advantage of the dog not being totally dependent on her was a good thing and embraced that the dog was happier being happy with her son and husband. I hope that was what happened anyway.
I'm happy Apple and Zuzu got to bond with their people - that's beautiful. However...they were having a blast unattended in the back yard. 😂
Lol they really were 😂
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XD
Big dogs are always fun tbh
Those dogs aren't big. I have 2 Dobermans. They're big. Each is 29 inches at the shoulder. The best dogs. (Jan Griffiths).@@weedlebunz
The wife definitely loved the fact Junie B liked her more
Right she seemed pretty passive when junie b started showing progress
She was jealous
I was looking for this comment
as evidenced by her allowing the dog to be so aggressive to him in their own freaking bed.
Is it really surprising the poodle doesn't like the boys when the husband keeps grabing her by the neck and the boy shoots her with rubber?
I love that by the end of the video Junie B was in his arms. I lowkey think the wife is jealous of Junie bonding with him. Lol love this.
I noticed this too
Aw, don’t say that. I hope that’s not true. She should be happy that Junie B and her husband both feel safe in their own home now!
@@Sarah-re7cg I’m not necessarily saying it in a bad way. Like for me my dog didn’t like my boyfriend for awhile. Then they spent more time together. Now he lights up when he walks in a room even more than me! I’m a little jealous but I love their love for each other.
As for as when I thought that in her case, I seen that she felt left out when the son & dad were giving the dog treats.
That was my first thought and I’m only 3 minutes into this! My aunt has a poodle, Dior, that is alpha of the pit bull back. She rules with an iron fist and it’s hilarious to see! 😂
Junie B Jones? 💀
Those kids are absolutely adorable,patient and sweet. Spencer realized and responded so well with the training and being patient and empathetic with Junie B. Aww this is one of my favorite episodes. Sweet family. And Victoria you are amazing.
This part! Everyone is ragging on that boy but he's a kid! They don't understand how to regulate feelings until taught and he absorbed that knowledge like a sponge!
@@Chris-ew7pb yeah that's a product of bad parenting.
I don’t think there will ever come a time when Victoria’s ideas for dog training don’t work. Why do people still think her training won’t work?
Yeah, the mother was very negative, but I think that was mainly because she didn't want the training to work. She loved the status quo. She loved being adored by her dog and her husband being the "bad one". She got very jealous when the taining worked and er husband was making progress with Juni B.
@@kennikitty I would wonder why someone like the mother agreed to call a trainer in the first place, then I pondered if it was because she gets to be on television and it all made sense afterwards.
Because they don't want to admit that someone else can understand and train their dog better than them. It seems like a lot of people who ask a specialist (like a dog trainer or nanny) to come in, honestly think the specialist will fail and prove them right, that nothing can be done. The parent often says: "we tried everything, nothing works!" Uhm, no, you didn't try the RIGHT things.
@@kennikitty Your comment is projecting a lot on to her
Poor guy almost crying because there was hope to work with Junnir B after all , AND his own dogs are trainable 😢❤ I'm still glad that unlike a big variety of Male owners he was the one who said "no, we dont give the dogs away, I want to work on this" ❤❤❤ guy has my heart
Damn I love this family. They didn’t take Victoria calling them out at the beginning personally, they taught all the dogs new tricks other than the ones Victoria taught them, all the kids were constantly involved, and they were all really curious about training. The mom even got emotional at the end. What a great family 🥰
The dad being so close with Junie B at the end was special 🥰🥰
Teaching👏🏾children👏🏾empathy👏🏾! What a great episode.♥️
Nice name :)
Yes! ❤
I know everyone is saying its not the boy’s fault and that he is just a kid, but he is aware of what is right or wrong. He wouldn’t be embarrassed if he didn’t know what he was doing was wrong, and he did knew that he was hurting the dog. Is true that his parents didn’t correct him, but that is no excuse for his behavior.
yes. these people don't deserve dogs
This was such a pleasure to see. Everyone worked so hard, they all respected and followed through with Victoria’s trainings and you could really see how much it paid off for the whole family, dogs included. 😊
So they have 3 dogs but they never thought about proper education; training or the attention and patience needed to manage 3 dogs.?
This is awful. They had a real problem with the poodle already but no they wanted 2 more dogs that end up left out in the yard.
I don't think they wanted 3 dogs. They wanted one dog, but when that dog ended up being glued to mom, the boy who the dog was supposed to be a companion for, was sad. To make the boy happy, the dad got the two other dogs for him to play with - why he got two and not just one, no idea. Mom probably never wanted Appe and Zuzu, still referred to them as "these dogs" at the very end, refusing to use their names. I'd say Appe & Zuzu are 100% dads doing.
The problem: if you have a problem with a dog, getting a second dog doesn't solve you problems with the first dog. It creates new problems on top of the old ones and that happend here.
@@kennikitty The girl was more gentle with her dog than the boy so at the end he should have learned to play & interact with the dogs better.
It annoys me the man just sort of gave up at the start. I have a rescue. It's taken her four years to realize that people besides me and my parents are alright and that other dogs can be okay too. It takes time and patience. They knew she was fearful when they got her.
People get rescue dogs and think all they need is a nice home to undo all the trauma they went through. A lot of adopters aren’t equipped and educated enough to realize how much work a dog could potentially need to build trust within the family.
Patience is key with all dogs. Great advice 😁
It shouldn't take 4 years. You let the dog run the show at your house.
I think that he, like most people, underestimated exactly how much time and patience it can take- especially for somebody with no experience and not much idea how to go about it.
Just get a cat: same size, an actual inteligent animal & they are actually cute. Unlike some dogs rescue cats are all thankful & ones that have trauma & fear issues don't turn it into extreme hostility like this vial creature.
The Mom feeds into this. She is regaining control through the dog. It’s ALWAYS the people that are the problem!
I saw the young boy teasing the dog. That has to stop. And the father saying "my son and I have tried..." is not true. The son has not been told to stop teasing the poor dog. He is shooting rubber bands at her for heaven's sake! :( But watching the outcome of all the training has been terrific. Victoria brought this family together with patience and ability. Wonderful.
VICTORIA is just amazing. The way she explained to the kids how the lil dog feels and the way they picked it up. Also I like how she didn't get mad at the kidd for shooting rubber bands at her and understood the boy's pov and explained to him the dog's language and THE PERSONAL SPACE LESSON SHOULD BE SHOWED IN SCHOOLS I STG THAT WAS AN AMAZING WAY OF TELLING !
To me, it looked like the wife was actually enjoying being loved by Juni B while Juni B hated her husband. She did nothing to stop that behavior and even enforced it (maybe unwillingly, but still...) . Also, I think she smiled more at the beginning of the episode when her poodle still hated her husband. At the end she even said she was happy her husband was happy. That means, she totally evaded the actual question. She's NOT happy with the situation. She loved being Juni Bs entire world and she got very jealous when her husband managed to form a closer bond with the dog.
At the very end when she was seen training the terriers, she still referred to them as "these dogs", not by their names. For her, Apple and Zuzu, are still those nameless dogs outside her husband got as a consolation. I don't think she ever wanted them and i don't think she seriously wants anything to do with them. Unlike her husband who really wanted to make an effort and get better with Juni B.
If Juni B wouldn't have been that aggressive, I'm pretty sure no trainer whould have ever entrered their house and nothing would have changed. Even with that behaviour, it took them 3 years to get a trainer. My educated guess: it was mainly the husbands doing and the fact that Juni B was biting the son. The mom was happy the way things were.
I was looking for someone to point this out
I’m so happy it turned out this way. The mom looked like she was going to need to adjust to sharing Juni B but that’s ok too. As long as everyone is happy and all the doggos are safe and loved.
Cesar Millan was completely right when he said (multiple times) that dogs-and cats- living in USA are totally spoiled and mistreated by their owners. Living stressed, rarely take them for a walk, incorrectly feed, and the list goes on and on. Poor dogs and cats, no wonder why they have behavioral issues, it's all because their owners have theirs and transmit those to the dogs/cats.
Look at that little nugget asleep in his arms at the end! She's gonna be a daddies girl for sure!
seeing dogs that are neglected heal and dogs with trauma heal literally make me so happy
I love how genuinely interested and excited the mom was about the training, and the rest of the family seemed eager to learn as well! This family I am actually confident are going to keep up with the training :)
Too many negative posts in the comments. This was one of the most likeable families I've seen on the show
I’m surprised Victoria didn’t address Spencer shooting rubber bands at Junie. I feel bad for the babies outside.
Edit: it looks like she actually did by telling him to have more patience.
She may have off camera as well. He looked so embarrassed and like he might cry. They don’t always put segments in order, but he look very embarrassed.
She did it in a very nice way.
@@JMBBrasil she’s amazing with kids
@@JMBBrasil Yeah, she said “ I get why you’re resentful, but you’re not helping.” That’s pretty direct and fair.
Here in the neighbourhood is a young boy always anoying my dog, trowing rocks, stones sticks, and than he went to claim by his parents, that my dog wanted to bite him. This was going so far that i had even to bring the boy with his parents to justice. After that, never any problem.
This is such a typical dog family! These are problems so many people have with their pets. They love their dogs, but don’t know how to deal with them. Joe has shown so much patience and willingness to solve old engraved negative behaviors in Junie. Very interesting episode!
The wife loved that the dog keeps the husband at bay. I can totally see this behavior going on.
That's what I thought, too. It's a divorce waiting to happen. Like how she smirks whenever he talks is a massive red flag.
I wonder what this man’s temper is like when the cameras aren’t on him.
Ugh, that snarky little smile.
Those kids are so well spoken!
I had a little poodle just like her, a long time ago. Her name is GEM. She was adorable little Teacup poodle.. I loved her so much.
Is it just me or Victoria is like super nanny but for dogs?
That's not just you. Victoria got the idea for this program when she watched Supernanny.
Oh ok
Dogs are more inteligent than most people think.🥰
Poor Apple and Zuzu…
The 3 dogs are so cute. I hope they all work in developing good relationships with them.
Men taking rejection personally...That's probably what Juny is afraid of. Glad Victoria brought in an empathy lesson.
They should have gotten a trainer earlier. It's so amazing why people in general are so afraid of the question "why" and avoid it.
Even before I got my staffy I watched these videos for a long time, they really do help and whenever I had a problem with my staff when she was younger I’d just review the videos and now she’s trained up by me, a 13 year old
Used to have a dog we got when he was 10 months old. Obedience trained, temperament tested but he absolutely hated my dad. Only thing we can think of is my dad had a strong English accent and it’s possible the dog had a very bad experience with an Englishman in the first 10 months of his life.
Could've also just been a fear with unfamiliarity. New things are scary to dogs and English accents are strong.
Are you British though?
Her tail wagging at the end is so adorable 🥰
We have adopted a dog without a name 3 days ago. She spent 2 years without being talked to. I even thought she might had been deaf. 2yo not having a name, not knowing any words like walkies, sit... She wasn't even looking for us when we were talking to her, because she didn't know any communication. In 48hrs she learnt her name with us, she learnt sit and come on (she learnt these words in 2 languages as we are bilingual). She started to observe us and spend time with us more and more because all she had been doing was sitting on her bed or sleeping before. She was exactly like Apple & Zuzu and she is such a loving girl. Now we are working at her fear triggered aggression towards dogs. These people just for doga and made them homeless. Terrible.
Victoria is fixing the entire family. Great job!
Junie B, that’s a cute name. I was really upset at the rubber band thing but I can see he’s upset over feeling rejected. One of my best friends, when we were roommates at uni, she found an abandoned dog. After she got him all cleaned up and checked out medically, we noticed that he didnt like men 👀 👀 we think he might have been forced into dog fighting or bred for dog fighting because he’s a full bred American bully. She had to go through a lot to guide him through his emotional trauma, poor thing.
Victoria: reprimand the dog.
The wife, in a soft voice: aH
The kids now are having fun with the dogs because they have a good trainer teaching them. It melts my 💜 to see them as a family with no barrier between boys vs girls
I actually cried watching this video. My dog is also traumatized and rescue. He was never that bad because we read a ton when he arrived, but is really sad to see traumatized dogs
I really enjoyed this episode because the family was so sweet and everyone worked to make the dog training work. Great job!
Me too! I rarely find myself watching full episodes nowadays bc my schedule is so busy (trying to finish up my PhD in animal behaviour ☺️). I’ll often watch a few minutes and maybe skip to the end. I started watching because I have an adopted toy poodle too and he looks like he could be Junie B’s twin brother, it kinda freaked me out for a sec lol. But I got very invested and kept watching because the family, especially the kids, seem so kind and really wanted to help their animals. Really wish there were more people like this in the world!
16:55 That's what is called empathy, one of the most important elements of emotional intelligence, and Victoria is teaching those kids that. So as we can see, empathy is not just only for humans, but for any living creature; empathy is also about respect. If schools at all leves around the world teach emotional intelligence and self-esteem instead of preparing us for getting a job first, this mankind would be totally different.
There will be brand new ones in the near future. During the next month if you have a problem with your dog,take video and send it and an explanation to Victoria and the show. For address look at her post from the last week or two. The older videos Need to be seen to remind people and be seen by others that haven’t seen them.Please keep in mind like people of all ages need to keep up all through their lives educating themselves. Dogs need the same! Go give your dog lots of love and keep in mind they need some training all their lives. It’s good for both of you. It’s more bonding between you.
Can she come to Canada? I have a neighbour who could really use some advice/training when it comes to dogs. She got this big rambunctious lab mix who keeps getting out of her yard but he’s not a bad dog just young and needs an owner who knows what they’re doing.
I notice something that isn’t mentioned. The mother and daughter are possessive of Junie Bee 🐝 and hold her protectively. That will cause a dog 🐩 see others as a threat. Anyway they had success, it seems.
It's a form of enabling her behavior which she took as acceptable since it wasn't corrected
I feel so bad for Juni b and the two dogs outside💔but mostly for apple and Zuzu getting into ignored 😢at least they got to bond with them
The mother had enjoyed the fact that she loved and trusted only her! Now the dog is adjusting to dad, it is disappointing to her. I think mom could use sum attention too!😊😊😊
I noticed that too!
These parents are amazing. They have AMAZING kids.
I have watched a ton of these and this family are among the few that actually listen and applied the techniques shown to them by Victoria
usually when dogs are scared of one gender or type of person its because they have traumatic experiences with them...
The foster family really should not have allowed Junie B to go to this house.
Well at least she has a permanent home.
@@MillennialMountainMama - she could have gone to a better suited family 3 yrs ago tho
It works now it’s better the good has grown comfortable with both sexes than going to a female house to not solve the issue 😊
Binge watched one weekend, next thing you know I'm looking up dog trainer schools. I'd love to do it.
Work on your dog psychology. Being able to see the world thru a dogs eyes and having plenty of patience is key to dog training... good luck
Wow..Just seeing Junie B lay on the daddy relaxed and comfortable warms my heart! God Bless them all!!! :)
Woman: I mean do we need to get rid of junie b……
Husband: well now hold on that’s quite the stretch.
If your first reaction when there’s an issue with an animal.. is “maybe we should get rid of them” just don’t get animals.
This was one of my favorite episodes. I love the dad and how committed he was to turning things around. I love the transformation of their dogs, especially Junie B. Love Victoria!!
I felt so bad for the other dogs with no attention🥺
those children are so smart and well spoken
It’s interesting how often it happens that rescues are more scared if men than of women. I feel really sorry for the guys, that must be frustrating 🙁
It’s not fascinating 🤨 it’s horrible. It means they were abused and traumatized by a man.
@@MillennialMountainMama that's how it goes... True ❗
Well men are scary so
@@MillennialMountainMama yeah… I didn‘t want to sound mean, so I used „fascinating“ 😅 of course it‘s horrible.
@@MillennialMountainMama even if a man didn't do something to them, men tend to be larger and potentially just seem more intimidating for a small dog.
HE SAYS THEY DONT HURT MUCH..MOMS FAULT LETTING HIM TORMENT THE DOG 😢
So angering that they keep Apple n Zuzu only outside, but let Junie B inside all the time. How dare you. That is so cruel to those puppies and they are going to hate your mini poodle.
waow junie B is such a smart girl!! i m suprised at how quickly she learned everything
This was such a heart warming episode seeing the guys really put in the gentle time to win over Joonie-bee. All three dogs were so smart and eager to learn! All everyone needed was to learn how to communicate to each other. What a sweet little family.
Regardless of the mom's jealousy.. A progress is a progress. She was just super attached w/ Juni, that's it. And it's like letting Juni bond w/ someone else now. She already had thiz idea that it's just HER for Juni. It's like letting your child be free and be open to other ppl that's the feeling. Im pretty sure even w/ slight jealousy she's happy that peace is now achieved in their home.
Never the dog, always the owner. Every dog deserves a home but not every home deserves a dog. Every "misbehaving" dog has been mistreated.
My poodle's favorite person in the world was my dad. Like her #1. Then i came next, then my mom & then my sister. She never really liked kids tho. She loved my aunt but loathed my uncle. My uncle loves dogs to death tho. He's rescued 13 dogs in the past 30 years. His rottweiler bit him in the face when they were playing around. He got stitches but he never loved him any less for it. I got my poodle when I was 11. She passed away 2 weeks after i turned 26, in January. Poodles are little rascals with amazing personalities. She broke my family's heart when she left us. It felt like I lost my little sibling but we spent her last holiday season with her. She even got to go for the Pumpkin patch for the first time. So, not so many regrets.
I like this family. I LOVE how this entire family is invested in creating a familiar bond between themselves and all 3 pets. They appear to truly want to make their pets a part of their family.
You can tell they're good people. The family's transparency, honesty about issues for all 3 dogs, the crippling contributions from each family member, willingness to take accountability & receptiveness to change/coaching.....speaks VOLUMES! Not to mention how both children have an Impressive degree of compassion, understanding and perception; Great head on their shoulders.
Is it only me or does Abbey show already she could be one great dog or animal trainer shes a natural ! She even told mom when she was wrong wrong !!
Wonderful humans, young and old, everyone responding positively to training ❤
One of the few families I actually thought were generally good but unfortunately clueless about what to do with the dogs. Glad they got help and it was nice to see how willing they all were to work on training and sticking to the rules.
I can't believe the parents weren't called out for abusing their dogs by Victoria.
It's a dog.
@@Dan-di9jdWhat of it???
lol that's an overreaction.
My toy poodle hated men we first got her, but she got over it slowly.
So the mother knew juni didn't like men but chose to bring her home to her husband and son?
I like how the sister is like “this is not how you are little rat”
Great job Victoria, you helped the family and their dogs! 👍
poor apple and Zouzou
That man has the smoothest southern accent I’ve ever heard
Little dogs are famous for being possessive and using their person as their protection. So if the “person” doesn’t take control they do. So always push them off when they growl etc to person or another animal near them. They don’t get to be with their person when misbehaving not using them as a crutch to be bad.
I'm glad that I wasn't the only one noticing it... The mother was definitely enabling the dog's behavior and didn't want anything to do with the "other" dogs.. And I think this hasn't change.. It was clear that she was jealous of her husband by the tone in her voice and her look and by saying at some point: "you think you could walk her without me??".. No comment... But I wonder how can a mother not feel sorry for her son getting rejected and bitten by the dog that was supposed to be for him..?? The poor kids almost cried when he was describing Victoria about the situation. I don't agree with the father taking 2 more dogs to make his son feel better but at least he was thoughtful and did something...
This whole video was awesome! So informative! ❤️
That boy is a menace to the dog. Who shoots anything at a dog?!
I extremely liked this video, its very interesting to see how just with treats what you can accomplish ,I think you all did very well, 😀
Bro that kid blushed when he said she was a "beautful worker" you can just tell
So much respect for Victoria!!
Great job everyone keep up the good work ❤
Lovely family and great that it's now a united family.
Victoria Stilwell🤗
I cant understand why anyone would want three dogs and think its not going to be a lot of work to take care of them😮
I can’t believe peoples first thoughts when they FIRST get a dog - puppy, usually, they don’t think to train them; they just coddle them. sure, dogs DO need attention, lots of it - but they do need training, too. thats one of the most important things for normally *ANY* house pet!
TRAIN YOUR PETS. Cats, birds - ANY house pet can be trained.
My first thoughts when I get a new pet would be, “Attention and training is what this animal needs,” i usually train as soon as i can!
Training can prevent SO many things from happening.
First episode I’ve watched. Its literally supernanny but for dogs
Same this is my first episode too but super nanny is a bit more British
Which dog has the cleanest coat?
A shampoodle!
Why are the 2 dogs living outside and the other dog inside? don't get it!
Apple and Zuzu has my heart
Watching this made me smile
The pups want to feel safe secure great episode Useful insightful techniques Commuincation is key ❤🙏💯
Everyone is dogpiling on Joe as if it wouldn’t hurt to get a pet and have them hate you. For 3 years he’s watched his snobby wife baby Junnie and her hate him. Joe doe’s obviously have a temper but a lot of people do, losing your cool isn’t the problem it’s how you go about it that is he was visibly frustrated and angry but learned to back down.
I noticed they also have a cat in the house 0:07. I'm wondering if that cat is also insane or, he's the most stable member of that family🤔