"This Is A Woman's Sexual Fantasy" - Stop Being The Nice Guy & Master Seduction | Robert Greene

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  • Опубликовано: 11 июн 2024
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    Join me for a deep dive into the art of seduction with best-selling author and expert strategist, Robert Greene. Known for his profound understanding of human nature, Greene shares game-changing insights that are a game-changer in your dating approach and what women will find attractive about you.
    In this episode, we're breaking down the barriers that hold many men back in their romantic pursuits. We're challenging the "nice guy" stereotype and embracing the power of strategic moves, artful authenticity, and the courage to be vulnerable.
    Greene says, "Seduction involves the desire to lose control." It's time to step out of your analytical mindset and tune into the woman you desire and dare to be vulnerable. Discover why Robert believes that flirtation is more about the looks you give than the words you use.
    We're also exploring the power of fantasies, and unpacking the role of men in today’s society. What’s the right amount of masculine that commands power and respect without being hyper masculine and a turn off for many women?
    By the end of this episode you’ll have a deeper understanding of seduction, attraction, and the authentic connection that women crave. Your journey to becoming irresistibly desirable starts here.
    Chapter Markers:
    [00:00] Introduction for Seduction
    [00:28] What She Fantasizes About?
    [11:23] Secretly You Want Seduction
    [15:57] This Isn’t Seduction…
    [22:42] The Powerless ‘Nice Guy’
    [39:11] Seductive Masculine Qualities
    [53:12] Channeling True Power
    [1:09:55] The Game of Seduction
    [1:14:31] Your Mother’s Seductive Power
    [1:18:50] Up Your Dating Game
    Robert Greene’s Seductive Wisdom Quotes:
    “Seduction involves the desire to lose control.”
    “The origin of seduction actually comes from our relation to our parents.”
    “I just want to get men out of the mode because we are so goddamn analytical that it’s such a problem that reading a book, [...] get the f*ck outta there and pay attention to the person.”
    “An ambitious man, he may be a little uncontrollable, he may be a little bit dangerous, but damn it he’s going to be able to survive in a very tough world.”
    “Seduction is a language that does not involve words.”
    “The flirtation is not in the words that you say but it’s in the looks that you give and the energy that you radiate.”
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Комментарии • 1,2 тыс.

  • @TomBilyeu
    @TomBilyeu  6 месяцев назад +198

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @henrythegreatamerican8136
      @henrythegreatamerican8136 6 месяцев назад

      Two guys discussing a woman's sexual fantasy....
      Could you not find two women for the panel?

    • @dtsai
      @dtsai 6 месяцев назад +13

      My wife is crazy and I f'n hate it.

    • @mickcrovo5238
      @mickcrovo5238 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@dtsai Divorce her

    • @chrisw7347
      @chrisw7347 6 месяцев назад +4

      You refer to "the rules", for seducation, flirtation, how things changed for you personally and how you met your wife once you learned. Who does one listen to/read for these rules?

    • @N.V.P69
      @N.V.P69 5 месяцев назад

      I DONT THINK U HATED CAUSE IF YOU DO YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN GONE LONG AGO
      @@dtsai

  • @juancruzlives
    @juancruzlives 4 месяца назад +86

    - do not treat people by stereotypes but get into their world.
    - powerlessness corrupts more than power
    - women (and men) want to feel special, important, different
    - a weak ego (insecurities) is anti-seductive
    - being dominant is a positive trait
    - your mother conditions your unconscious desires

  • @Oblisk
    @Oblisk 5 месяцев назад +529

    Keanu Reeves is a great example of someone who doesn’t need to yell or get out order when explaining himself. He’s always cool, calm, and collected and is highly generous, not only with his money, but his time and attention. He’s definitely someone that young men or just anyone should look up to.

    • @Therevolution7
      @Therevolution7 5 месяцев назад +58

      Hes also a goodlooking, tall multimillionaire.

    • @autoclearanceuk7191
      @autoclearanceuk7191 5 месяцев назад +15

      He has $300 million

    • @endlessnameless6494
      @endlessnameless6494 5 месяцев назад +43

      @@Therevolution7 He also lost his pregnant wife and baby to a car accident, and has spent most of his life on a spiritual journey to get over this. As well as his best friend dying at 23 (River Phoenix). You would have to 1.) live a high end actor life and 2.) lose everything (and have to overcome it) to reach his level of spiritual chill. It's very unlikely anyone will be like him; he's in the top .0001 percent OF the top .00001 of people. He's awesome, but...an odd life and a rare gem.

    • @taopaille-paille4992
      @taopaille-paille4992 5 месяцев назад +11

      But Keenu Reeves is highly attractive and has had incredible success. it is very hard to introduce into you the type of charisma that Keenu emulates. However, I appreciate him a lot

    • @starfox300
      @starfox300 5 месяцев назад +15

      Keanu Reeves is also very tall and in his youth he was one of the most handsome men. He didn't really have to do anything, women looked at him for 3 seconds and were in love

  • @jairosouza7994
    @jairosouza7994 6 месяцев назад +212

    I would definitely watch a 5h podcast if Robert Greene is the one talking.

    • @dw2367
      @dw2367 5 месяцев назад +6

      Robert is a national treasure.

    • @No-Ones-Safe-AGI
      @No-Ones-Safe-AGI 2 месяца назад +2

      Same lol

    • @ItsBrown__
      @ItsBrown__ 2 месяца назад +5

      I think it's nice time from time to hear the host's thoughts too. It is a conversation afterall

  • @jules-bz5vc
    @jules-bz5vc 6 месяцев назад +174

    Robert is so interesting and good at explaining hard things in a gentle way

  • @wtfmusic1961
    @wtfmusic1961 5 месяцев назад +294

    Looks like this guy wanted to interview himself with Robert. He literally did

    • @MSA-uj7cp
      @MSA-uj7cp 4 месяца назад +15

      "this guy" owns this huge platform and is having a discussion with RB

    • @rachelpidduck549
      @rachelpidduck549 4 месяца назад

      correction... its an interview, where he just spoke the entire time. People are watching this to hear what robert greene, the guest, has to say@@MSA-uj7cp

    • @UDice-cz3mz
      @UDice-cz3mz 4 месяца назад +41

      ​@@MSA-uj7cpTom, is that you?

    • @jolseywales
      @jolseywales 4 месяца назад +45

      ​@@MSA-uj7cp "That guy" is naive. He should take notes from Mark Laita of Soft White Underbelly and LISTEN. Not steam roll his knowledge on said subject down his guests throat. "That guy" needs to give his guest the attention and respect he deserves. "That guy" doesn't understand the concept of making the guests the "star" of his show.

    • @cheddarpuff
      @cheddarpuff 3 месяца назад +8

      He always does.

  • @nickidaisydandelion4044
    @nickidaisydandelion4044 5 месяцев назад +237

    Very important information from Robert for men: Stay calm, breathe, don't yell, don't be violent, be gentle, be generous with a woman, take responsibility for your mistakes and don't blame others.

    • @sednasix6608
      @sednasix6608 4 месяца назад +26

      Also be able to read if you're dealing with an abusive passive aggressive covert narcissist.

    • @nickidaisydandelion4044
      @nickidaisydandelion4044 4 месяца назад

      @@sednasix6608 What do you mean with that?

    • @ashwinashwin3663
      @ashwinashwin3663 4 месяца назад +8

      Say no, never accomodate and never be a nice guy

    • @nickidaisydandelion4044
      @nickidaisydandelion4044 4 месяца назад +3

      @@ashwinashwin3663 Good luck then.

    • @robmcguckin7605
      @robmcguckin7605 4 месяца назад +4

      Sounds like you got half of it.

  • @natecook2103
    @natecook2103 3 месяца назад +135

    As a home schooled I can say my success with women compared to public schoolers is far greater. Human connection is built within us, during school years we gather nothing but insecurities which mess with our built-in perception. As a homeschooler I was primarily focused on my work and hobbies, not many friends, just brothers and sisters to play with. This upbringing has set me up, my flow and conversation is almost effortless, it did take me a couple of years to refine myself in the public world but now social skills combined with concrete personal identity makes me very peculiar compared to regular people. Public school puts filters and resentments on ppl, home school allows kids to find their strengths and weaknesses without societal pressures, which come later on.

    • @boethius1812
      @boethius1812 3 месяца назад +26

      Interesting perspective. I thought the opposite, but you make sense. Public school was a psychological and physical warzone, at times.

    • @leighatkins22
      @leighatkins22 2 месяца назад

      ​@@boethius1812Homeschooling is crapped on by society alot and it is encouraged by the system becoz the public schooling system is the only way that they can get their claws into your child's head and psyche while they are young and tear them down before they get a chance to become strong.
      Homeschooled kids are often mentally healthier and that's not a co-incidence...

    • @smokingcrab2290
      @smokingcrab2290 2 месяца назад +6

      Depends on what your parents are like. In my experience home schooled kids were always hyper sheltered weirdos with god complexes who thought they were so much better and smarter than everyone else

    • @marthinusstone5530
      @marthinusstone5530 2 месяца назад +7

      ​@boethius1812 The opposite is true too. I also did homeschooling. Is saw some children become better equipped socially than the average public school kid, and others become way worse off than a public school kid. It depends on the social opportunities, experiences and social exposure available to the homeschooled kid.

    • @brentmorton3680
      @brentmorton3680 2 месяца назад +5

      You’ve got to figure in attachment theory; sounds like your family was secure. If you grew up in an alcoholic family, public schools, insane as they are, might have provided moments of true friendship and connection with positive role models

  • @chopisdish2
    @chopisdish2 2 месяца назад +285

    I will do 1 pushup for each like this comments get...

    • @jkaigler6562
      @jkaigler6562 Месяц назад +2

      When?

    • @Vert0313
      @Vert0313 Месяц назад +3

      I can do 33 push-ups in a single rep.
      Whew.

    • @Findmylimit
      @Findmylimit Месяц назад +2

      I did 30 in 1 push up

    • @jackslater8688
      @jackslater8688 Месяц назад +1

      Was push-ups mentioned in the interview?

    • @Findmylimit
      @Findmylimit Месяц назад

      @@jackslater8688 you have to watch it. No cheating you sneaky dog

  • @anthonyw1499
    @anthonyw1499 5 месяцев назад +138

    Generosity VS Nice Guy is the key. My 'nice guy' has an agenda of sex or attention depending on the woman. It's definitely trauma induced from childhood and wanting to make mom and dad happy and to stop fighting. It makes you stingy in so many ways. Whereas when I'm being generous there is no real agenda going on. I just want to be there for the person and give more of myself in that moment rather than being stingy with my energy.

    • @chrismaxwell1624
      @chrismaxwell1624 5 месяцев назад +6

      Exactly, being nice is people pleasing action. Kindness not so much generosity but can include it. you don't have to kind to her even. Be kind to others show's her you are kind. If you kind to people who serve you then that intrigues her. The man is nice to her but unkind to others is a red flag.

    • @joshwah4838
      @joshwah4838 5 месяцев назад +8

      Whoa, never thought of personifying the "nice guy" part of myself. I'm definitely a people pleaser (also stemming from childhood trauma, yuh) and find myself giving all my energy to everyone except myself. Then I'll feel resentful towards others for not doing the same, but like, that's not fair to them, unrealistic, and just not a healthy way to go about things in general. That's my fault/problem though, not theirs. Whenever I start to feel resentful, I can totally just think the "nice guy" is telling me I should dedicate some time to myself.
      Thanks for sharing homie

    • @contona4492
      @contona4492 4 месяца назад

      wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me

    • @contona4492
      @contona4492 4 месяца назад

      wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me

    • @AlexPenn.DatingCoach
      @AlexPenn.DatingCoach 4 месяца назад +2

      Real talk, bro. Nice guy vibes often come with strings attached. Generosity, on the other hand, no hidden agenda. It's about giving without expecting anything in return. Drop the nice guy act, be genuinely generous - that's where the real power is. Keep it real, no strings attached.

  • @soothsayer2406
    @soothsayer2406 2 месяца назад +18

    My goal in life is to become a Vampire Billionaire

  • @MiracleAstonvilla
    @MiracleAstonvilla 6 месяцев назад +105

    I read the book "art of seduction" and "laws of human nature". Although laws of humans nature does not soley focus on love, It is still paritaly related to seducction. I read them as a last resort when no girl would ever show interest in me. Completion of his books allowed me to understand psychology deeper, however I am still single. I would recomend anyone who is struggling just go out and make some female friends. Reading is not even 20 percent of the answer, I personally would give reading around 5 percent credit if you want to succedd in love or relationships. His other books are far more useful in workplace or business and easier to apply than romance.

    • @sparkeyjones6261
      @sparkeyjones6261 6 месяцев назад +29

      You're absolutely correct. Surround yourself with women of all types. Become friends with as many as you can, regardless of their physical attractiveness or whether they're single or not. Not only will you come to understand them better, but you'll become much more confident around them. That makes it far easier to attract romantic partners.

    • @NatrajChaturvedi
      @NatrajChaturvedi 6 месяцев назад +10

      It's most useful when you already have a normal life and are already surrounded by female friends, colleagues etc whom you can practice some of these principles on.

    • @-CC_.Puppets-
      @-CC_.Puppets- 6 месяцев назад

      After reading the book, I now get more ass than a toilet seat.

    • @Pedrolcs07M
      @Pedrolcs07M 5 месяцев назад +12

      Everything has to be natural, there's no point reading a book and following rule by rule because it won't seem natural, Robert already said that

    • @Daniel-zm1wt
      @Daniel-zm1wt 5 месяцев назад +6

      I read "How to win friends and influence people" and immediately I was basically able to get any woman who would give me a chance, e.g. if she'd reply to my messages, was single and in my league, I could get with her. The problem them became about being selective enough to pick a good woman rather than just getting laid or getting a relationship.

  • @19wael96
    @19wael96 5 месяцев назад +656

    Tom Talks too much about himself and how he has mastered it all.

    • @CBfeb1
      @CBfeb1 5 месяцев назад +90

      TRUTH‼️… and clearly he hasn’t mastered it!

    • @MikenMc
      @MikenMc 5 месяцев назад +112

      Noticed this too. To me, Tom’s talking about himself is him highlighting his insecurities

    • @mrsherwood2599
      @mrsherwood2599 5 месяцев назад +47

      Well I mean he cultivates looking like a roadie for a butt rock band.

    • @mikegetstuffed225
      @mikegetstuffed225 5 месяцев назад +38

      Yep, noticing that too, as well as him mentioning ON EVERY PODCAST of his, I've listened too, about how" MUCH MONEY I HAVE!"

    • @jamesbond5285
      @jamesbond5285 5 месяцев назад +47

      In all his podcasts, he interrupts and tells about himself and his problems when he needs to just let the guest talk. He needs to take lessons from his wife and her podcasts

  • @robertwysocki2073
    @robertwysocki2073 5 месяцев назад +15

    There's also _How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen_ by David Brooks.

  • @brittanystickle2035
    @brittanystickle2035 6 месяцев назад +40

    I wasn't sure if I'd like this based on the title, knowing it could go so many ways, but Robert Greene is great. I love hearing about the why. Very informative and clicks any missing pieces into place.

    • @godswittness69
      @godswittness69 6 месяцев назад +5

      I am highly present with you in what you are saying. Totally into what you are saying, getting to know you deeply...
      I am slightly dangerous, and very resourceful....
      😋

    • @user-wj3bn1yi8f
      @user-wj3bn1yi8f 6 месяцев назад

      This is not Tinder, buddy! Hehe@@godswittness69

    • @terrisolaroli4169
      @terrisolaroli4169 5 месяцев назад

      Sure does!

    • @nickidaisydandelion4044
      @nickidaisydandelion4044 5 месяцев назад

      Hahahah Same here.

    • @humanyoda
      @humanyoda 4 месяца назад

      Brittany, do you find Robert sexually attractive?

  • @caseyharrison9576
    @caseyharrison9576 4 месяца назад +10

    He’s spot on about using niceness strategically

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 4 месяца назад +76

    6:00 People secretly want to be vulnerable
    13:00 People secretly want to be seduced
    25:50 Women have a sixth sense about insecure men
    29:50 Develop observation skills
    36:00 Being stingy is anti seductive
    39:30 Virtual sex
    43:00 Masculine role models
    46:00 *Aggression; ambition*
    51:00 Channeling testosterone
    54:00 Elon Musk; ferocity
    1:00:00 Be like water; it can flow or crash
    1:05:00 Have an element of “I don’t care”
    1:08:00 It’s the mental aspect that makes you a great athlete
    1:11:00 Women vs men in seduction
    1:27:30 Be in the moment

  • @bengasco3605
    @bengasco3605 6 месяцев назад +11

    So happy you have him on today

  • @shafiuadventurous
    @shafiuadventurous 6 месяцев назад +10

    Robert green is always the man for alot of topics for men❤

  • @nickidaisydandelion4044
    @nickidaisydandelion4044 5 месяцев назад +22

    33:14 Spot on what Robert is saying here. That is what we will think in a situation like that because All women regardless of how confident some may be, we still have this insecurity and this fear of rejection. That is what I would feel immediately in that situation when a man says lets not go any further. I would actually cry thinking he saw my fat rolls and wants to go home. Haha.

    • @merrilbarry8771
      @merrilbarry8771 5 месяцев назад +4

      😂😂. The fat rolls part. Too funny

  • @CarlosMartinez-uw1ib
    @CarlosMartinez-uw1ib 6 месяцев назад +6

    Great interview!

  • @lmiller1413
    @lmiller1413 2 месяца назад +4

    Yes! Tom nailed it. Woman do want to feel they are the only one that their man wants, desires, and cant contain his strong desire for her, but only for her.

  • @webthom
    @webthom 5 месяцев назад +12

    That was a very insightful conversation. Specially I connected to the lines: fear of no loss, specially when you talking to your type of woman. Also the part you have to be present in the moment with your heart. Find myself often follow my script. Thanks for all the value both of you.

    • @Ashnesss
      @Ashnesss Месяц назад +1

      Not fearing loss means moving on when rejected. Not stalking, harassing, obsessing over her in any shape or form, contacting people asking about her or ruining her life, social life, career, decision to move, love life, etc. that’s not cool, calm and collected. It’s the opposite. It’s brash, psychotic, jealous, bitter and insecure. The longer you do it, the more bitter you are.

  • @reidarmor
    @reidarmor 6 месяцев назад +39

    Robert is an absolute gem of a human, can’t wait to listen 📈

  • @ligiasommers
    @ligiasommers 6 месяцев назад +15

    Love it ! always love Robert Greene’ books and ideas 🙏🏻🌷✨🙏🏻

    • @godswittness69
      @godswittness69 5 месяцев назад

      Glad you’ve enjoyed it, sweet sexy little honey 🍯 pot

  • @howtosnatch
    @howtosnatch 6 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you for this podcast. Everything he said was true!

  • @quidsquid6628
    @quidsquid6628 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much for this interview!

  • @oredaze
    @oredaze 6 месяцев назад +89

    I have a bit of a problem with the whole concept of going out of your way to seduce someone. You are engaging in actions that you would not otherwise do. Actions that are not born out of your own character. You are trying to game the system. It is definitely being fake. But fine, let's say that being fake is good enough for you. How long do you think you can keep the act up before you drop the ball and revert to your real character? Until you are in the relationship? Until you marry? What about the years after that? Isn't it better to be your real self and let the person get attracted to the real you? Isn't that a much bigger win? You can do some self improvement if you don't like yourself, go to the gym, make more money etc., but don't go trying to be someone else.

    • @patrickmahon3476
      @patrickmahon3476 6 месяцев назад +16

      My interpretation is not to put up a facade, but rather to be focused in your approach and mindful of your actions, and how they are intepreted. You gotta get one foot in the door before you both put on sweatpants and eat a tub of B3n and Jerrys. Also don't be a "nice guy(tm)". Which is actually kind of a crappy facade in a way. Seducing =/= gaming the system unless ya are.

    • @emf2482
      @emf2482 6 месяцев назад +17

      yes 100%. Society also tells men to do all the chasing. And that we need external things to be good enough. Thats why people chase money or exhausting careers. We literally contribute to woman's favor instead of being stoic and let them come to us. Which from experience works a lot better then the opposite.

    • @rml4289
      @rml4289 6 месяцев назад +5

      ​@emf2482 you need some form of value for women to come to you though
      Women don't care about a stoic man if he's still a bum

    • @oredaze
      @oredaze 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@patrickmahon3476 To be fair this video teaches some things that we are doing wrong and should fix, that are not part of your character identity.
      The world is nuanced.
      But overall I think the whole premise of the video is wrong.

    • @-CC_.Puppets-
      @-CC_.Puppets- 6 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for telling us you didn't watch the video without telling us lol.

  • @lyndonstucker6710
    @lyndonstucker6710 6 месяцев назад +18

    This interview was profound and exactly what I needed. Thank you.

    • @KamelCase
      @KamelCase 4 месяца назад

      Follow this garbage at your own peril. He’s right about everything he’s right about mystery and seduction. His advice will definitely get you laid. And in the morning, when you are not able to be her fantasy into the next day, when you have to go back to work when you have to return to your real life, when the responsibilities rise with the sun to dissolve your fantasy island, she will destroy you.

  • @oliverpinelli3334
    @oliverpinelli3334 5 месяцев назад +8

    I always like what Mr. Greene says.

  • @igor_alban
    @igor_alban 3 месяца назад +3

    This is what is called an incredible deep level conversation!

  • @abdolhamedsharef2924
    @abdolhamedsharef2924 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for sharing and time your renowned guest

  • @Suspect333
    @Suspect333 5 месяцев назад +11

    How fucked up is it that you have to be mean to women or treat them poorly to get them to like you!

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 4 месяца назад

      Your statement is one of the only statements in this chat room that makes sense. Everyone else are slaves to their female masters.

    • @omars365moments
      @omars365moments 4 месяца назад

      blame the fucking parents

    • @mrsherwood2599
      @mrsherwood2599 16 дней назад

      It's easy once you stop overconflating the amount of respect they deserve.

  • @michaelk4740
    @michaelk4740 4 месяца назад +5

    Omg they finally posted Timestamps 🙂😄😊👏👏👏 THANK YOU

  • @Daniel-zm1wt
    @Daniel-zm1wt 5 месяцев назад +22

    If this guy were really a master of seduction, surely he wouldn't have picked those glasses.

    • @josephfdunphymba3241
      @josephfdunphymba3241 5 месяцев назад +4

      One minute into it, it sounded like two teenage gamers trying to plan how to storyboard an animation.video of anime porn.

    • @challism
      @challism 2 месяца назад +2

      Or would he? The point is, if you've got skills/game, you can wear dorky glasses. Doesn't matter.

  • @Bitsurf24
    @Bitsurf24 4 месяца назад +4

    Robert is a blessing to us all

  • @Groux504
    @Groux504 6 месяцев назад +7

    Ohhhhhh is that the Infamous Robert Greene😳 OG fa real. Thank you for this

  • @MsKolo92
    @MsKolo92 6 месяцев назад +73

    That was hell of a podcast. This man is a gem to society.

    • @masteryoda498
      @masteryoda498 5 месяцев назад +5

      That’s debatable.

    • @A_n_y_t_i_m_e
      @A_n_y_t_i_m_e 5 месяцев назад +3

      If advocating extreme manipulativeness and psychopathy is being considered a gem today, then f society.

    • @bobmathews9072
      @bobmathews9072 5 месяцев назад

      He wrote the famous book "The 48 Laws Of Power" , a favourite of the ultimate psychopath Tony Blair , says it all ​@@A_n_y_t_i_m_e

    • @peersupportcounselor1904
      @peersupportcounselor1904 5 месяцев назад

      He has his own RUclips channel: Just search for him 😊

    • @t5396
      @t5396 5 месяцев назад

      @@masteryoda498 you’re negative and self defeating.

  • @KK-dv3wh
    @KK-dv3wh 6 месяцев назад +106

    "You need to know when to disappear for a week so they know they can't take you for granted". "Everyone secretly wants to be vulnerable." So... gain trust, then cynically manipulate. Great way to create lasting connection.

    • @neomacchio4692
      @neomacchio4692 6 месяцев назад +6

      Boom.

    • @PeteLG
      @PeteLG 6 месяцев назад +11

      Female language exactly.

    • @KK-dv3wh
      @KK-dv3wh 6 месяцев назад +12

      @@PeteLG but in this case, a book of it written by a guy describing how to succeed in relationship. Bad approach no matter who is doing it imo.

    • @rml4289
      @rml4289 6 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@KK-dv3whwomen like that though

    • @pentrubarbati
      @pentrubarbati 6 месяцев назад +11

      thats why i quit dating women this days not worth it ...

  • @nickfischer8510
    @nickfischer8510 4 месяца назад +9

    1:01:04 "meek"
    It doesn't mean "weak"
    it's more like "trained" or "disciplined"
    similar to "cooperative/ controllable by its master"
    To illustrate:
    a MEEK horse is still strong to carry loads and people. But it is rideable and can be steered by a rider.
    Same case with police dogs.
    They are meeked but not weak.
    #tamed

  • @aminblm
    @aminblm 5 месяцев назад +4

    Your humility and confidence shine through every episode, Tom! 🌟🎥 #ConfidenceIsKey #StayHumble

  • @momen78699
    @momen78699 6 месяцев назад +3

    amazing episode please do more such episodes on seduction!

  • @magnaajube7784
    @magnaajube7784 3 месяца назад +3

    Robert Greene is a ninja of seduction and very knowledgeable and advanced. I love you!

  • @DavidWCoulter
    @DavidWCoulter 2 месяца назад +12

    Yes. Some hosts are smart enough to know we came on the hear their guests.

  • @raphaelklijn6358
    @raphaelklijn6358 5 месяцев назад +3

    What an interesting conversation this is.

  • @d.f.s.studios281
    @d.f.s.studios281 4 месяца назад +2

    I really needed this video

  • @Chrollo_x2
    @Chrollo_x2 2 месяца назад

    thanks man for provide us this great interview with sir Robert Greene

  • @kayumochi
    @kayumochi 6 месяцев назад +7

    Tom needs to stop injecting what he thinks about the subject and instead draw out Greene. Tom made an interviewer's biggest mistake at the beginning of this interview but did get better as it continued.

  • @user-og7nh5vm5f
    @user-og7nh5vm5f 4 месяца назад +5

    Is something wrong with me, or why do I care so less about people who show resistance and no interest. Love whom who loves you. Simple and good.

  • @tophat2115
    @tophat2115 2 месяца назад +1

    People pleasing can be a sign of complex/childhood trauma as part of the fight-flight-freeze-fawn response. Fawning, being overly nice to protect one's self from a perceived threat, making sure you're 'being good' to avoid the pain of a parent who is likely highly critical/abusive. Anticipating their needs and fulfilling them to be safe. A deep seated pattern that once you understand its origins, you can begin to amend your behaviour to better or improved reactions to people around you.

  • @MariaBrinks25
    @MariaBrinks25 6 месяцев назад +56

    None of this matters if the woman doesn't find you attractive,, women are allowed to care about looks now and that bothers some men

    • @Des_Armoni
      @Des_Armoni 6 месяцев назад +8

      Bingo

    • @tresjolieme81
      @tresjolieme81 6 месяцев назад

      Yea we've always wanted the pretty boys since our teens. Guys don't know the power of a handsome man to us. Gets the oxytocin going not the sexual stimulation men get by visual. The infatuation hormone is super strong. Look at how girls scream for BTS or boy bands that's oxytocin. Look how hypnotized men are at strip clubs, it's a diff hormone reaction.

    • @otruwarrioro
      @otruwarrioro 6 месяцев назад +10

      Absolutely nailed it. FIRST establish that she's attracted to you, if not , it doesn't matter.

    • @Techtalk2030
      @Techtalk2030 6 месяцев назад +17

      Attractive physically? Ive seen a lot of successful, confident men with game who arent the best looking get with woman who are better looking than them.

    • @dogsandyoga1743
      @dogsandyoga1743 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@samnectarUh.. I'd take an ugly billionaire chick 7 days a week and twice on Sunday 😂

  • @terrisolaroli4169
    @terrisolaroli4169 5 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent interview!!!

  • @Negarefi
    @Negarefi 5 месяцев назад +25

    There’s still hope in this world. Thank you Tom and Robert Greene.

  • @the_awaker_DJ
    @the_awaker_DJ 7 дней назад

    There is so much information and videos on this topic. It's overwhelming. I am just going to stick to this video and watch it on repeat until the end of the year.

  • @themightymiracleman
    @themightymiracleman 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for the insight

  • @andreaskrbyravn855
    @andreaskrbyravn855 5 месяцев назад +3

    Be nice with boundaries

  • @JOEL31785
    @JOEL31785 4 месяца назад +3

    Great conversation and awesome interview. Robert is one of my favorite authors and I see why he's comfortable with Tom. Great yield of info.

  • @davidfarrall
    @davidfarrall Месяц назад +1

    You can’t beat Game, mental strength and positive moves as seductive tools. The resulting serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin make you feel constructively powerful.

  • @sourapril
    @sourapril 4 месяца назад +1

    "It's pretty clear if you pay attention, right?" Nice one, Robert. :)

  • @colettithekid
    @colettithekid 6 месяцев назад +12

    Robert Green is my spiritual leader.

  • @billnye8143
    @billnye8143 6 месяцев назад +3

    The teacher student thing would be a good ethical question regardless of it being done at an adult school.

  • @user-bf9jo1gh2b
    @user-bf9jo1gh2b 6 месяцев назад

    Finally!!! Thanks!

  • @kagisowealthmoseki5100
    @kagisowealthmoseki5100 5 месяцев назад +1

    I like how he referred to Machiavelli(knowing how to shift with the times), that took me straight to 48 Laws of power.

  • @GFD_VIDEOS
    @GFD_VIDEOS 6 месяцев назад +9

    These days you need written contracts and video documentation to prove that everything was consensual

  • @diahajee9380
    @diahajee9380 6 месяцев назад +19

    Tate be catching stray bullets everywhere he goes 😂

    • @maryhalverson5713
      @maryhalverson5713 6 месяцев назад +10

      ,,, As well he should.

    • @PowerofRock24
      @PowerofRock24 3 месяца назад

      That's one very insecure dude. That's why he got rekt by Greta Thunberg and pizza boxes lul

  • @user-mf7ll4nm4n
    @user-mf7ll4nm4n 3 месяца назад

    Well done.I appreciate your advice. The discussion about office dynamics is so true. All I can say is well said and all I advise is look at your own integrity and at the same time do not let yourselves people to get used ( look at this closely)
    You probably/ likely be deeply hurt in so many ways however don't perpetuate that hurt.

  • @scottishguy6352
    @scottishguy6352 2 месяца назад

    “Be Yourself”… one if not the most misunderstood secrets to a fulfilled life

    • @IAmTheEggMan111
      @IAmTheEggMan111 2 месяца назад

      If “be yourself” worked everyone would already be successful at this

  • @leehelmick4065
    @leehelmick4065 6 месяцев назад +5

    I only got through tye first 9 minutes, but I sure wish you'd understand that women are listening too!

    • @f.avilla6383
      @f.avilla6383 2 месяца назад

      What are your thoughts on this?

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 4 месяца назад +3

    Tom doesn't look like he's going to achieve his goal, which is to live forever. He really ought to rethink his life choices.

  • @deluxxe9541
    @deluxxe9541 4 месяца назад +1

    Robert Greene is a genius very great a session

  • @charlyspade4943
    @charlyspade4943 2 месяца назад +1

    Peace through strength. Forge your body and skills, but most importantly, your will to act when it is absolutely necessary, but the best fight or battle is the one that never took place. Using the brain is the most important tool and weapon...keep it all sharp!

  • @Suspect333
    @Suspect333 5 месяцев назад +10

    make yourself as good looking as possible, women choose men based on their looks.

  • @bradleywitbooi5268
    @bradleywitbooi5268 6 месяцев назад +11

    this conversation will go down the history books. I've learned so much from these two guys and I'm looking forward to reading the art of seduction❤.

  • @beskidwood
    @beskidwood 4 месяца назад +1

    about @23:00 "POWERLESSNESS CORRUPTS MORE THAN A POWER" -
    Thank you for this.

  • @GideonGames
    @GideonGames 3 месяца назад +1

    When a fighter invites a wizard to a philosophical discussion, both have distinctly different ways of understanding reality and/or and solving problems.

  • @cihangirbozdogan4549
    @cihangirbozdogan4549 5 месяцев назад +6

    How can you bring Robert Greene and speak more than him!!

  • @forevermotoring
    @forevermotoring 5 месяцев назад +7

    A woman's fantasy is a man who is authentic and confident enough to just live himself fully and be vulnerable.

    • @t-lawsfitness6044
      @t-lawsfitness6044 2 месяца назад

      4 women gave this a thumbs up. Your sentence literally means nothing

  • @fred.k9875
    @fred.k9875 5 месяцев назад +2

    Okay we human have duality,you have to strike a balance not too nice and not too harsh, to show that you are capable of both.

  • @blakeloyd1
    @blakeloyd1 3 месяца назад

    This guy (Robert) is real. Exactly the places where we deal with violence everyday.

  • @friarnewborg9213
    @friarnewborg9213 5 месяцев назад +4

    GREAT. was even more interesting than I expected. Touched on some topics we dont hear every day

  • @LOLITA541
    @LOLITA541 6 месяцев назад +15

    I love Robert Greene's interviews.

  • @MarkDreamsPhilosophy
    @MarkDreamsPhilosophy 3 месяца назад

    30:35 immediately made me click the like button cuz bro...he started speaking some real truth...but so far this has been a great podcast...im watching it while i do my workout.
    so imma get back to my workout and get back to listen to this.. much love to yall

  • @thoucreator
    @thoucreator 5 месяцев назад +2

    Love the vulnerability from Tom in this video lol

  • @asborisov1
    @asborisov1 5 месяцев назад +4

    Playing games will only get you into a divorce down the line.

  • @animal79thecat
    @animal79thecat 5 месяцев назад +5

    Fool in the cap looks like that chef dude in Emmerdale

  • @hmaidhaydari9662
    @hmaidhaydari9662 3 месяца назад +2

    I think of myself as a nice guy, and I know it came from my childhood because my mother showed love toward me if I was a nice boy. So now, as an adult, I'm always nice to others because I want them to like me, and most of the time, I get hurt and feel being used by others.

    • @carolinecantelmo3790
      @carolinecantelmo3790 2 месяца назад +2

      Don’t feel that way ,there are plenty of women who will embrace your kindness and will want you as a loving partner .❤

  • @vtmegrad98
    @vtmegrad98 4 месяца назад +1

    "Meek" is derived from a greek word describing their war horses. Very powerful, but obedient to their rider. It had nothing to do with weakness, in the context the word was used 2000 years ago.

  • @thenyashnienie233
    @thenyashnienie233 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank uuuuuuu

  • @jackstoltz1379
    @jackstoltz1379 5 месяцев назад +8

    Taking love advice from this guy sounds dangerous enough lol

  • @roserevancroix2308
    @roserevancroix2308 2 месяца назад +1

    What is interesting about this conversation is that it's aaaaall about the woman and what THEY want.
    No one is asking or is interested in what men want, who cares right? It's all about the women women women 24/7.
    Men have fantasies too men have needs too men also have certain things they like that they want to see.
    If my needs are not met and no one cares about what I want as man then why should I care about what the woman wants?

  • @peterdavila3045
    @peterdavila3045 11 дней назад

    Great video. Thank you.
    The whole video is essentially a dissertation on the male Sigma personality itself.

  • @marcuspickens25
    @marcuspickens25 6 месяцев назад +10

    They made sliding into the adventure of human emotions EXPENSIVE, lol. Plus, social media exacebates the degree to which women want to feel, which raises the bar for what women desire, making it to where the average man can not fulfill those desires.

    • @mickcrovo5238
      @mickcrovo5238 6 месяцев назад +4

      That's why I dropped out of the market. When the market recognizes my value, I will make the product available again.

    • @maryhalverson5713
      @maryhalverson5713 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@mickcrovo5238- Some guys just aren't relatable.

    • @rml4289
      @rml4289 6 месяцев назад +1

      Don't be average then

    • @mickcrovo5238
      @mickcrovo5238 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@rml4289 I’m 6’, fit and athletic, 6-figure income, and socially skilled. If you listened to what they said, it’s not just the average guy who is undervalued, it’s all but the top 10%.

    • @marcuspickens25
      @marcuspickens25 6 месяцев назад

      @@rml4289 exactly

  • @libertasadvitam4538
    @libertasadvitam4538 6 месяцев назад +16

    Great video. I don’t enjoy when people who have never been to war speak on it. War is like football? I’ve done both and they couldn’t be more far apart. Stick to what you know brother. Both of you are smarter than I am by far. Neither of you are warriors.

    • @itsPreznt
      @itsPreznt 6 месяцев назад +7

      I think perhaps you might havectaken that comparison too literally. My suggestion is that they were referring to strategy in that strategy is applicable to both scenarios.

    • @NatrajChaturvedi
      @NatrajChaturvedi 6 месяцев назад +2

      Your taking that statement too literally. They are just making a rough comparison there because both things are physical in nature.

    • @orangeiceice12
      @orangeiceice12 6 месяцев назад +1

      Football is a lot like war. Or rather, it's a proxy for it. It allows you to execute plans with teammates against another team of males. It requires strength, skill, and courage, and it's relentless in its rules. I've never been to war, and I can't speak on the terror, shock of reality opening up before you, the depth of being forced to make choices that shake your whole self, the darkness and inescapability. There's not much of that in football. But football allows you to determine who might be good in a war, and having a sorting hat for mate quality, without a bunch of your males dying. So goes the theory.

    • @bigdog2084
      @bigdog2084 5 месяцев назад +1

      I didn't watch the video to be honest. I do think you have a point. The subject of women shouldn't be compared to war or football in anyway. Men are the reason both(football/war) happen. Men also are the only ones playing or fighting. These guys are trying to be part of the groups trying to create better men for women. Why? Women are suppose to support their men in general. Pretty simple concept. Men must respect the women WHILE women support and respect men. It's all changed now. Women are entitled and spoiled. How can you change that. If men are basically still the same.🤷‍♂️. In general of course.

  • @totadol
    @totadol 5 месяцев назад +2

    Two of my favorite thought leaders.. epic episode 🙏🏼

  • @Om11811
    @Om11811 2 месяца назад +2

    Wait , why are not the same videos being posted about men for women? I call bs

  • @ashaaib
    @ashaaib 5 месяцев назад +5

    The whole interview is him shelling his books

  • @jakegjorloff421
    @jakegjorloff421 5 месяцев назад +3

    From an evolutionary standpoint, women have historically exhibited a preference for robust mates capable of ensuring protection, provision, and the ability to produce healthy offspring. These inclinations are deeply embedded in their genetic makeup, forged over hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. However, contemporary efforts to alter these dynamics within a mere few decades have led to an increase in individuals, both women and men, relying on antidepressants, experiencing fractured familial structures, and engaging in neurotic relationships.
    Emphasizing adherence to fundamental principles rooted in nature's design could potentially provide a more stable foundation for relationships.

  • @user-chris_zervakis
    @user-chris_zervakis 6 месяцев назад

    good video

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks

  • @RyanDMarrs
    @RyanDMarrs 6 месяцев назад +3

    32:17 Man, this made me LOL. I have been there brother.

    • @NatrajChaturvedi
      @NatrajChaturvedi 6 месяцев назад

      I made a similar mistake. We were undressed and she was the one who said maybe we should slow down and I listened... facepalm
      (Not saying one should force things after that point but one can be a little more insistent if the woman is just casually and orally suggesting to take it slow or whatever)

    • @sharkizinhanha3317
      @sharkizinhanha3317 6 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠@@NatrajChaturvedino you definitely did the right thing!! ❤❤