I'm 34 single mum and I've given up on stressing myself on buying a property. I earn 33k and live in London work 9-5. There's so much pressure to earn more, be your own boss, own property. I've sat ba k and after careful deliberation, it's not financially feasible for me. I will lose more than gain. I'm not looking at others, I'm glad for them but this pressure to own your place is too much. Body goals I workout to be strong not to have the bbl look without having the bbl procedure. Friends, if they are not putting in the same energy as me then I'm not putting in anymore. I've learnt to be content, feel happier
😂 nah not at all! It’s to go with the pace/blessings/opportunities you’ve been afforded with and that are available to you. It’s just that we all have different timelines and sometimes society makes us believe that we are behind if we don’t have “it all together” by the time we’re 25
I’m on a roll with your videos, lol love your channel, energy everything!!❤️....I’m getting the “why am I single” at 31.....I completely relate to everything you said ...it’s almost like there’s a deadline to achieve everything by 30
Glad you are enjoying my channel! That’s really encouraging ❤️ and yes 100% the single questions literally flood in after 30, and it’s frustrating because people seem to have more of an interest in your relationship status than for example your mental health status or how you are generally in life. I’m finding that the key is to stay focussed on your goals and your purpose and try not to live by societies benchmarks and ideas of where they think we should be.
Alexandra Marshall-Grant thank you for your wise words 🙏🏾 I’m Nigerian so these ‘single questions’ are constant now with relatives🤦🏾♀️...like you mentioned, I also prioritise my mental health, and I also believe in divine timing so I try to ignore the relatives who feel the need to tell me I’m running “late” lol...thank you once again ❤️
This video is very sweet it is always nice to see positive content like this I would love to get your opinion on my first podcast I posted it is about being a 20 something and just trusting the process as well
Firstly I’m so sorry that you’re struggling 🥺 please feel free to DM me on insta if me if you want to talk Secondly, I would tell myself that things are going to be okay and just because it doesn’t feel like it or even look like it right now it doesn’t mean that this is my forever situation. Thirdly, I would tell myself that God has a specific plan and purpose for me. That I have not been forgotten and that I am loved and seen. And lastly I would tell myself that I have so much value to offer and to stop comparing how I look to my friends and what I saw on tv (we didn’t have social media back then) Remember you don’t have to have life all figured out, no one does.
The friends one is such a big one. Often not a nice feeling so it’s so important to remember that some friendships really are just for a season
100%
You look so great! Watching a month before I turn 25
thank you 😊 hope you found the video helpful x
Just turned 25 was looking for a video like this
Just watched one of your shared ownership videos and thought you were 22/23 😕 gorgeous!!
Awww thank you ♥️
34 and you look better than my 25 self lol 👸🏽
This was sooo good! A lot of this we’ve talked about together in many conversations. And omg guess who is 25?! MEEEEE ☺️❤️
I'm 34 single mum and I've given up on stressing myself on buying a property. I earn 33k and live in London work 9-5. There's so much pressure to earn more, be your own boss, own property. I've sat ba k and after careful deliberation, it's not financially feasible for me. I will lose more than gain. I'm not looking at others, I'm glad for them but this pressure to own your place is too much. Body goals I workout to be strong not to have the bbl look without having the bbl procedure. Friends, if they are not putting in the same energy as me then I'm not putting in anymore. I've learnt to be content, feel happier
Im 25 married with a kid and I own a house. feel like I'm moving too quick lol. Can't imagine what a whole decade later feels like.
😂 nah not at all! It’s to go with the pace/blessings/opportunities you’ve been afforded with and that are available to you. It’s just that we all have different timelines and sometimes society makes us believe that we are behind if we don’t have “it all together” by the time we’re 25
I’m on a roll with your videos, lol love your channel, energy everything!!❤️....I’m getting the “why am I single” at 31.....I completely relate to everything you said ...it’s almost like there’s a deadline to achieve everything by 30
Glad you are enjoying my channel! That’s really encouraging ❤️ and yes 100% the single questions literally flood in after 30, and it’s frustrating because people seem to have more of an interest in your relationship status than for example your mental health status or how you are generally in life. I’m finding that the key is to stay focussed on your goals and your purpose and try not to live by societies benchmarks and ideas of where they think we should be.
Alexandra Marshall-Grant thank you for your wise words 🙏🏾 I’m Nigerian so these ‘single questions’ are constant now with relatives🤦🏾♀️...like you mentioned, I also prioritise my mental health, and I also believe in divine timing so I try to ignore the relatives who feel the need to tell me I’m running “late” lol...thank you once again ❤️
25 today watching this
im 19 n ur my role model i will take on all ur advice x
Awww I’m so glad you found my advice helpful ♥️
At 44 I would have all the fun you can, do it safely. When you turn 30, get serious, get a job get a skill, get a house.
❤️❤️❤️ love this and your channel
This was a good video. As always you give great advice. Keep it up!!❤
Thanks girl! ♥️
This was really helpful, thanks
great video. super encouraging xx
This video is very sweet
it is always nice to see positive content like this
I would love to get your opinion on my first podcast I posted it is about being a 20 something and just trusting the process as well
Don’t get into debit and save
You look amazing ❤
Thank you!
she'd say to listen to Kevin Samuels
Weirdo
He’s dead no one is listening to him
Great advice!
Glad you found it helpful 🙂
im almost 25 feel extremely old
Trust me you are not old! You are in the prime of life. Your 20s is a great time of discovery 😊
@@Alexandrasblog_ thats what alot of people say but i dont see it i was thinking about checking into a retirement home
@@zimtheinvaderofficial lol, me too , l feel old b4 my time lol, but l shall trust God's timing 🙏 .
Lovely
Turning 25 in few hours🤗
Yasss! Enjoy your celebrations ☺️
What about your 15 year old self 😭I’m really struggling
Firstly I’m so sorry that you’re struggling 🥺 please feel free to DM me on insta if me if you want to talk
Secondly, I would tell myself that things are going to be okay and just because it doesn’t feel like it or even look like it right now it doesn’t mean that this is my forever situation.
Thirdly, I would tell myself that God has a specific plan and purpose for me. That I have not been forgotten and that I am loved and seen.
And lastly I would tell myself that I have so much value to offer and to stop comparing how I look to my friends and what I saw on tv (we didn’t have social media back then)
Remember you don’t have to have life all figured out, no one does.
Don’t look 30
You look like in late 20s (27-29)
🤍great video
Thank you!