11 THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED! Learn from my Mistakes (5 Years Later)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Hey loves🤍, Welcome back to another interesting video🥰 Today, I'll be sharing with you 11 things I wish I knew before getting married. All the points listed in this video are based on personal experience, so if any of these points resonates with you, please feel free to share your experiences in the comments.
    Do not forget to like and share this video to your friends, loved ones and even your enemies😉 You never know who will benefit from this vital information.
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    / @spruceofficial__
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    Time Stamps
    Intro - 00:00
    Compromise - 01:50
    Marriage is not all about sex - 04:20
    Kids will change everything - 06:18
    Marriage comparism - 08:00
    Marriage is not about winning - 10:15
    Your partner is your family, not your enemy - 12:44
    Heal from your trauma - 17:42
    Marriage is 100/100 - 22:08
    Communication is key - 24:35
    Love language - 26:12
    God factor - 28:19
    Conclusion - 31:00
    Practical things to put in place before marriage. What we wish we knew before marriage. Things I wish I knew before saying I do. Godly marriage. Things I wish I knew before marriage. I wish someone told me this. Before you say I do. Marriage talk. Courtship. Relationship. Dating. Divorce. Marriage proposal. Questions to ask before getting married. Talking stage. Relationship advice. Marriage advice. Marriage counselling. Things to consider before choosing a life partner. Best marriage advice. What marriage counsellors will never tell you. What I wish I knew about sex before marriage. Sexual intimacy. Sexual intercourse in marriage. Sex education. Questions to ask before getting married. Must ask questions before you say I do. How to move on after a divorce. How to move on after a separation. Learn from my mistakes. Watch this before saying I do, Love is not enough. Compromise. The God factor.
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Комментарии • 76

  • @Babygirlp369
    @Babygirlp369 3 месяца назад +5

    I’ll be getting married in a couple of months, i am filled with so many emotions and tbh this was timely…sooo thorough, detailed, genuine and of course helpful. You have a warm aura (I especially enjoyed the pidgin and English mix throughout the video 😊).May God continue to bless you and your marriage ❤

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      Firstly, OMG😱 Congratulations on your wedding dear🥰 I pray God blesses your home with so much joy, peace and happiness, Amen🙏

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      Secondly, thank you so much for this heartfelt compliment🥰 I truly appreciate it and I’m glad you found this video helpful 💕

  • @adadichecheryl
    @adadichecheryl 3 месяца назад +5

    Y’ll I’m the bundle of joy my mummy is talking about😂🙈🥰🥰🥰

  • @azashmuz7282
    @azashmuz7282 3 месяца назад +4

    As a single person, Thank you for this video, kept on rewinding

  • @adadichecheryl
    @adadichecheryl 3 месяца назад +2

    Best marriage video on the streets of RUclips 💯 Well done Mummy❤❤❤

  • @NwosuAugustine-zf8us
    @NwosuAugustine-zf8us 3 месяца назад +2

    Where’s my pen? I need to jot fhings down for the future 😂😂😂

  • @joychizzy6603
    @joychizzy6603 3 месяца назад +9

    First time coming across your channel and I like what I see😂 and hear. I have subscribed already.
    All your points are valid.

  • @lifewithchioma
    @lifewithchioma 3 месяца назад +1

    You are such a joy to watch. Welldone mama! Marriage ehhh! No words😂

  • @the4thmaninthefireinternat114
    @the4thmaninthefireinternat114 3 месяца назад +5

    Hi Joy, you might not know this but I am telling you that you have just presented the best video ever on marriage! God bless you so much. I am sharing right away with my wife.

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      Awww, this is so heart warming😊Glad you enjoyed watching💃🏽

  • @victoriamidetaiwo
    @victoriamidetaiwo 2 месяца назад +1

    All of the things you mentioned is so true especially coming from someone who recently got married. Plus, the God factor is really important. The moment he his out, the devil comes in.

  • @user-ml9bc2ef1h
    @user-ml9bc2ef1h 3 месяца назад +4

    Communication resonates with me a lot because I wasn't big on taking about my feelings before Marriage. Now I'm a pro😂😂😂😂

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 This is exactly why i said that Marriage is a teacher, as long as you are open to unlearning and relearning

  • @Spear_Strong
    @Spear_Strong 3 месяца назад +2

    Queen with feathers indeed!😂😂

  • @user-ml9bc2ef1h
    @user-ml9bc2ef1h 3 месяца назад +7

    I totally enjoyed watching this video🥰 Your sense of humour is next to none😂 almost like you are talking to your friends

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      Glad you enjoyed the video🥰

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +1

      I consider every subsciber in my community a bestie and i try my best to be as transparent, honest and friendly as possible💞

  • @ChigozieFrank-ty3hy
    @ChigozieFrank-ty3hy Месяц назад

    Well noted💯❤

  • @NwosuAugustine-zf8us
    @NwosuAugustine-zf8us 3 месяца назад +2

    You look so beautiful and your speech is so eloquently put together 👏🏽👏🏽❤️

  • @joseymusicchannel000
    @joseymusicchannel000 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice piece to listen over and over again

  • @tikristinimiakande8600
    @tikristinimiakande8600 3 месяца назад +2

    I so much love this video of yours . Thank you ❤

  • @adeena_hair
    @adeena_hair 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing...I have learnt a lot😊 really appreciate you taking time to do this .God bless u😊

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +1

      It’s my pleasure dear, glad you found it informative 💕

  • @juliet854
    @juliet854 3 месяца назад +1

    Very apt. Oil dey your head, my sister. These are all very much on point and progressive as well. Thanks for sharing

  • @ugochukwuonuoha7723
    @ugochukwuonuoha7723 3 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for sharing. I resonate a 100% with this

  • @EkweozorChinedu-mp2yo
    @EkweozorChinedu-mp2yo 2 месяца назад

    I need to start taking notes for the future🤣 Thank you for the info💯

  • @Amarachi_Ezidiegwu
    @Amarachi_Ezidiegwu 3 месяца назад +2

    I enjoyed watching this video, and I love your nail color 😍

  • @chiamakanwakozor8114
    @chiamakanwakozor8114 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for the information

  • @chukshenry5134
    @chukshenry5134 3 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your experience joy. learnt something new today.

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад

      Glad you found it educative and informative😊

  • @Pearllight456
    @Pearllight456 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this information

  • @freelancemaintenanceconstr8924
    @freelancemaintenanceconstr8924 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this beautiful information

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed it and found it informative💓

  • @Annsheddy_family
    @Annsheddy_family 3 месяца назад +3

    Great video ma’am marriage is a learning school

  • @ngoziokorie160
    @ngoziokorie160 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice one ma

  • @symplyclara8846
    @symplyclara8846 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice one

  • @diogobellaokoli
    @diogobellaokoli 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you

  • @egwonoakporherhe3104
    @egwonoakporherhe3104 3 месяца назад +2

    I love your smile

  • @mizquincyquincy7584
    @mizquincyquincy7584 3 месяца назад

    I am new here thanks ma

  • @ucheiwuajoku1037
    @ucheiwuajoku1037 3 месяца назад +2

  • @aio4128
    @aio4128 3 месяца назад +5

    I wish I can like this video over and over again. All points are on point!
    I love the humour you added to it though..the part of love onwere language got me lol 😂
    Well done. I love how the channel is growing! We see the numbers increasing.
    Bia, lastly...stop smacking ya lips so loudly jor😢 I have said it before. Some of us use earpiece when listening so when you do that the smack goes so loud and deep into the ear drums! Hian!
    Anyways, keep it up Nne! You are doing well. God bless you and your family always!

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +2

      Awww🥰🥰 your comment warms my heart🙈 thank you so much💕

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +2

      Glad you got the humour in it😂😂 we bless God for daily growth, God has been truly faithful 🥺

    • @Spruceofficial__
      @Spruceofficial__  3 месяца назад +2

      Re the 3rd paragraph, I promise to do better😂😂 so help me God🙏

  • @taiwoelizabeth7824
    @taiwoelizabeth7824 3 месяца назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @elizabeththomas8704
    @elizabeththomas8704 3 месяца назад +2

    Lol, my sistur is not like dat😂