9 ways I stopped wasting my evenings after work.

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @itsnicolesyk
    @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +14

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  • @thisismyyoutubeaccount3322
    @thisismyyoutubeaccount3322 2 месяца назад +1136

    Biggest thing I've found that helps is not sitting down when you get home. Keep the momentum going. Once you sit on the couch it's all over.

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +81

      Yup, once my butt plops on the couch, that’s easily pretty much my evening 😅 That said, I still think it’s important to be able to rest in a healthy way :)

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet 2 месяца назад +16

      I understand that for people that works standing most of the day, but people that are attached to a desk like me, the next thing we should do is working out 😅

    • @makeupartistrybymuskan
      @makeupartistrybymuskan Месяц назад

      💯 agree!

    • @MsIlovemusic07
      @MsIlovemusic07 Месяц назад +17

      I’m on my feet 12 hrs at work. When I get home I’m laying down 😂.

    • @farihareza6464
      @farihareza6464 Месяц назад +1

      @@MsIlovemusic07 I love this idea. Relaxing yourself is also giving you fruitful time.

  • @Softerhaze
    @Softerhaze Месяц назад +222

    Where I work is around 30 min walk to the train station, and the route is honestly really lovely with lots of greenery and a river, I always walk, and it’s super nice to enjoy the sunset when I can catch it around this time of year and watch all the birds and planes in the sky

  • @rebeccabroos6600
    @rebeccabroos6600 Месяц назад +112

    "As a good day starts the night before, so does Sunday start off a good week" Very true!

  • @KelseyStyron
    @KelseyStyron Месяц назад +83

    Love this! The biggest thing that helps me transition from work to personal time is some sort of physical activity. A quick run, a yoga class, or just a walk with my dog is always a MUST right after work! Otherwise I feel so stagnant from being at a desk all day.

  • @tesslemoing727
    @tesslemoing727 Месяц назад +89

    I recently bought a bike to commute to my new job. The bike to and from work is the perfect transition. Not to mention I get my cardio workout done before I get home to relax, eat dinner, and cuddle with my kitty 🥰

  • @ob649
    @ob649 2 месяца назад +70

    This was so straight to the point!
    As much as I love emotional videos or monologues on videos, i barely get their routines.
    But your video is very helpful, thank you for this :)

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +2

      Wow, I appreciate your feedback a lot 🥹🫶🏻 so glad it was helpful to you!

    • @farhakhan8176
      @farhakhan8176 Месяц назад

      @@itsnicolesyk

  • @nikit6669
    @nikit6669 2 месяца назад +65

    as a zoomer guy who really struggles to calm down after a work day, I thank you for this video and will definately try to organize more and have beter time management. I really struggle to get motivated after work rn

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +6

      You're not alone Nikit, people are now leaving work more emotionally and physically drained than ever - I hope you can give yourself lots of grace to just rest if your body and soul needs it as you craft out your own evening for yourself.. you deserve it 🙏 ❤

  • @nalinidagreat12
    @nalinidagreat12 2 месяца назад +57

    I accidentally stumbled on your video and it was the best thing to listen to before turning in. Thank you for your wise insights. Hope you have a great week ahead

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +2

      that's awesome to hear, sending you some love and good jujus for the week too Nalini :)

  • @WillShannon-s5i
    @WillShannon-s5i Месяц назад +16

    I just saw this video as I was about to do absolutely nothing for the rest of the evening, thank you

    • @cozygentlenight
      @cozygentlenight Месяц назад

      Here we are watching her video after work 😂

  • @pururu2703
    @pururu2703 2 месяца назад +32

    Refreshing content, straight to the point and doesn't romanticize too much~ 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      Thanks so much! so glad this helped you 👌🏻👌🏻🫰🏻

    • @abbysings13
      @abbysings13 Месяц назад

      Yes, more realistic than romanticizing

  • @juliahart8593
    @juliahart8593 2 месяца назад +54

    One thing that really helps me is to imagine you don't start work until 1 in the afternoon and then envision what you do from 9 in the morning to 1 in the afternoon, then do it from 5 PM-9 PM instead.

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +1

      Ouu, I have never heard of this one, Julia! Thanks for sharing. I'm curious what you do imagine between 9am-1pm?

    • @ssergium.4520
      @ssergium.4520 2 месяца назад +16

      I’d be in waiting mode until 1 😅

    • @shanaesmith112
      @shanaesmith112 Месяц назад

      ​@ssergium.4520 yep me too. Do nothing before work mode.

    • @JessicaFreda62
      @JessicaFreda62 Месяц назад +1

      Ooh that’s a great idea! Love that mindset.

  • @Wildflower1013
    @Wildflower1013 Месяц назад +10

    Good video! I agree with all of these, but I would suggest that personal preference might play into the "one day for admin/chores" thing. Personally, I used to try and do all those things on the weekend, but then sometimes they'd feel overwhelming and result in me doing little or nothing at all. Lately, I've been trying to do a little cleaning/laundry through out the week, and I've found I get more done! Just a quick 10-15 minutes each night to clean up one small area of my apartment or to wash and put away some laundry.

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +1

      Ouu, that's a good point. I like your suggestion of doing a little bit throughout the week too bc it's true that sometimes if the chores feels like a big daunting project, it's easy to want to avoid it.
      I also should mention that I live in a small condo and I'm pretty minimalistic so it's also easier to clean compared to a bigger place with more things and more people.

  • @moomoocaocao
    @moomoocaocao 2 месяца назад +18

    love the video! especially about being present and giving ourselves grace - so important 💕

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      thank you Andrea!! and yes, those are my genuinely my favourite ways of making the most of my experience of time ❤️

  • @romy8661
    @romy8661 Месяц назад +60

    5 - 6 hours after work! I wish. Lucky to have 3!

    • @millala89
      @millala89 Месяц назад +4

      Same

    • @TianXiaoMao
      @TianXiaoMao Месяц назад +3

      Exactly

    • @polinka5621
      @polinka5621 Месяц назад

      Do you guys work more than 8 hours per day?

    • @lucykunes
      @lucykunes Месяц назад +11

      Yes same for me, I have a long commuting when I am not working from home. I dont have kids yet, but couldnt imagine the routine mentionned in the video with a 9-6 work.

    • @millala89
      @millala89 Месяц назад +3

      @@lucykunes same for me. Unfortunately it's rarely possible for me to work from home. Overtime working and mandatory one hour lunch break does the rest.

  • @sarahm4669
    @sarahm4669 Месяц назад +14

    My disconnection activity after work is my 1.5h public transit commute home, then I get home at 6:30pm starving and just wanting to sleep 😅 In all seriousness though, I'm trying to do what I can to improve my routine and make the most of my limited free hours

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +2

      I like that you're being kind and compassionate to yourself and doing the best you can with what you've got, sending you tons of love ❤

  • @gloryv188
    @gloryv188 17 дней назад

    Great advice!! This was a refreshing video :) lots of focus on practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment

  • @tcoleman307
    @tcoleman307 2 месяца назад +10

    This is exactly what I needed. Wonderful . Thank you. 🙏🏽

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +1

      So happy hearing that from you, T! I would love to know what stood out most to you 😊

  • @Rothko333
    @Rothko333 2 месяца назад +6

    This is such a well balanced video thank you ❤

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      Thank you Dia ❤ I'm so glad you enjoyed it! x

  • @JuneJamayVillanueva
    @JuneJamayVillanueva 2 месяца назад +7

    Thank you so much for this, Nicole! Now I feel like doing some short walks after work

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      Oh yes, you’re going to appreciate those post-work walks so much! I walk at least twice a day now 😆🫶🏻

  • @Augustus_Peabs
    @Augustus_Peabs Месяц назад

    This was great! Very well put and extremely helpful, thank you so much!

  • @tyleryoo1351
    @tyleryoo1351 2 месяца назад +6

    Great tips! I’ll definitely try to implement them in my daily routines! 👍

  • @astraradiance
    @astraradiance 2 месяца назад +6

    Really enjoyed the tips!

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      Aww, so glad you did - thanks Astra! 😌

  • @RuthTicoalu-mk5lx
    @RuthTicoalu-mk5lx Месяц назад

    These are some great and helpful tips. I love that it is actually practical and also intentional

  • @Nefertiti7788
    @Nefertiti7788 2 месяца назад +5

    Love it, thank you Nicole, as always a wonderful video ❤

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      So much love for you Brigeetty ❤

  • @monkeyshinserman
    @monkeyshinserman Месяц назад +11

    How on Earth do you have the energy to do all this? I am emotionally and mentally exhausted after work. Last thing I want to do is a side hustle or learn something new.

    • @Envy28213
      @Envy28213 Месяц назад +8

      Same… I only got about 3 hours of „free“ time a day. What helped me on some days is to have that „transition activity“. For me it‘s taking a walk, going swiming or even just taking a shower. It seems to clear my mind, so I can do something that I don‘t really want to do or to learn something new.
      NGL it doesn‘t always work 😅 and sometimes there is other stuff that needs to get done like laundry, cooking, appointments. But I try to make some extra time by preping the day before to get a free evening.
      I feel like a lot of those influencers live in fantasy land. Most people don‘t have 5-9 hours after work. 😅

    • @moths.for.valentine
      @moths.for.valentine Месяц назад +1

      just making time every now and then is great already

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +2

      Oh, I don't do everything in one day 😅 Each day is different, depending on my energy levels.. I also used to get emotionally and mentally drained after work, but I realized that having a transition activity (workout or a walk) can help a lot. If you get very exhausted, please try a yoga nidra (I listen to Ally Boothroyd) and it's so healing.
      Usually I'm able to do a transition activity, dinner, and then I like to work on my side hustle for at least an hour (I only focus on doing 1 thing and it's something I enjoy / i.e., creating content).

    • @monkeyshinserman
      @monkeyshinserman Месяц назад

      @@itsnicolesykI’m curious how you generate momentum on a new project with variable energy levels? I’m a software engineer, and have been trying to build a micro-SaaS business after work, but I’ve been completely overwhelmed by the number of new skills I need to learn just to get to the point where I can finally code!

  • @rhiiilol2399
    @rhiiilol2399 Месяц назад +1

    My Saturday mornings always start with chores. I need a clean house to relax over the weekend and also it means I get to actually enjoy the tidy house before the dogs mess it up again haha

  • @kzfingerprint
    @kzfingerprint Месяц назад

    Appreciate that this was to the point but thorough!

  • @justonemorestitch
    @justonemorestitch 2 месяца назад +8

    I shared this with my partner... thank you!

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      Aww, thanks Tiffany! Hope this serves your partner :)

  • @claudiajank5964
    @claudiajank5964 Месяц назад +9

    In Germany we call Sunday Ruhetag! Nix Waschen, Saugen oder andere laute Tätigkeiten.

    • @erniesunny2
      @erniesunny2 Месяц назад +1

      Same thought! And all supermarkets are closed 😂 but as an alternative, i guess Saturdays work just as good

    • @jayvivelavida
      @jayvivelavida Месяц назад

      I live in germany and do all of those things except grocery shopping

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +1

      I love that so much!! We need that here (and more days like that) in North America.

  • @poogbooket
    @poogbooket Месяц назад +1

    girl you are so right

  • @miunya
    @miunya Месяц назад +4

    This is lovely. Thank you

  • @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau
    @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau Месяц назад

    This is so true! Take time for what makes you happy. ❤

  • @PozzaPoe
    @PozzaPoe Месяц назад

    This video was honestly so helpful I will be referring to this in the future

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      I'm so happy to hear that! 🙏❤

  • @mariakelleybianchi
    @mariakelleybianchi Месяц назад

    This was so helpful, thank you so much!

  • @kadeeeartiaga
    @kadeeeartiaga 2 месяца назад +3

    This is so relatable!!!

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      thanks Kade!!! I'm happy it was for you 🫶

  • @zenitzu6946
    @zenitzu6946 Месяц назад

    Personally, I work as a CNA at a ltc facility and how I start my mornings determines how the rest of my day goes. You just have to maintain yourself and know how to recharge during your 5-9. Find ways to let go of the toxicity and stress that comes with a full time job. Another thing that helped me was spending your days off and your time off being productive instead of sleeping in all day. Use this time to relax and do something valuable with your time.

  • @doctorkuroshi
    @doctorkuroshi Месяц назад +8

    Bold of you to assume I get back at 6

  • @kellyktang
    @kellyktang 2 месяца назад +3

    I really enjoy your videos! wishing you all the success in life :)

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      That means a lot, thank you Kelly! ❤

  • @hxjdjdn6236
    @hxjdjdn6236 Месяц назад +2

    I wish my routine was like yours at the beginning of the video😂 Get home and straight to bed- dont have energy to shop/cook/shower/exist

  • @medhaviraina
    @medhaviraina 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @alikariananda6149
    @alikariananda6149 25 дней назад

    Notes for myself:
    1. set all admin & planning in 1 day: Sunday. Grocery, planning, financial, meal prep
    2. Have a shut down ritual. Take notes what has been finished, what to do next, grateful journal, take a deep breath
    3. have transition after work (physical/mental): walk, workout, meditate
    4. have solitude time to do nothing (up to 30 mins): journaling, do nothing, meditate
    5. focus on the present/slow down: meditate or plank, washing dishes/clothes. BE INTENTIONAL, u have more time
    6. be friends with people. Grabbing dinners after work, workout w/ friends
    7. have fun life outside work (hobbies, interest, new things). u don't have to attached to ur works
    8. never stop learning! podcast, utube videos, books
    9. give urself grace & compassion. turn on potato mode.
    * don't forget to prioritize urself

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  24 дня назад

      Love your notes!! And also, you can change things to fit what you need. Some people expressed 1 day of chores is too much and spreading a bit throughout the week works for them! :)
      I'm also in the works of creating another video for mornings, for those who are too tired after work to do much 🤞

  • @Shadyn.
    @Shadyn. Месяц назад +2

    As a student the good thing about being in a crazy competition school is that I sure can’t afford to waste my evenings XD

  • @wayne1
    @wayne1 2 месяца назад +2

    love it !

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад

      thank you Wayne 🙏 I would love to know your biggest takeaway! :)

    • @wayne1
      @wayne1 2 месяца назад

      @@itsnicolesyk definitely the structured approach !

  • @the_gaming_witch
    @the_gaming_witch Месяц назад

    one minute in and immediately subscribed! 😊

  • @nicolelailo
    @nicolelailo Месяц назад

    great video! short and sweet!

  • @maevafiata9909
    @maevafiata9909 Месяц назад

    Thank you !

  • @amandaw4945
    @amandaw4945 Месяц назад

    Yes I was very lazy after work which was physical work but I could have done a lot more for myself and my family. I was single living alone for about 4 years and did nothing. But I did try to work out mostly yoga in the mornings when I got up early and journal.

  • @todayiglowup4286
    @todayiglowup4286 Месяц назад +25

    but what if ur so exhausted then u end up sleeping for 12 hours right after work

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +1

      Hi my love, I’m sorry to hear that. Feel free to DM me about this on IG so I can help more. 🩵 I don’t know much about your situation so I can’t speak on length but have you considered a different job/work environment?

    • @starminoui
      @starminoui Месяц назад +5

      Hey I feel you, I’m usually exhausted after work. But sometimes if you force yourself to do something fun or relaxing you will gain more energy!

    • @Wildflower1013
      @Wildflower1013 Месяц назад +2

      I'm not a professional, but I would say that means your body needs the rest. The question is though, is there an underlying condition that making you so exhausted? Depression? Sleep Apnea? Some other condition? If you need to sleep 12 hours every night to feel well rested, I would talk to a doctor!!

  • @Tnamo_
    @Tnamo_ Месяц назад

    Love you
    Thank you

  • @eri3989
    @eri3989 Месяц назад +1

    Please show us a walkthrough or share your Notion template if possible!

  • @IsuCompare
    @IsuCompare Месяц назад

    you mastered life! this is a positivity/self love channel!

  • @nathally1998
    @nathally1998 Месяц назад

    Thank u

  • @suzi-ml8ep
    @suzi-ml8ep Месяц назад

    Im literally trying to start small business and be more active on socials now... but also needing to find a first job after grad in graphic design, and feeling burnout... do you plan to do a video or storefront list of the equipment you use ?

  • @solenelao1742
    @solenelao1742 Месяц назад

    Which software do you plan your task on please ? Thanks for the tips looking forward applying it!

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      I used Notion! You can create a kanban board for organization like how I did it :)

  • @meowriiah
    @meowriiah Месяц назад +1

    What to do list application was being used at 2:36?

  • @ai222
    @ai222 Месяц назад

    What’s the software you’re using at 2:39, on shutting down and moving your tasks to the next day

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      I use Notion! You can create a kanban board for organization like how I did it :)

  • @SuzanneLiew
    @SuzanneLiew Месяц назад

    may I know what software you use to organise / list out your tasks shown in the video?

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      Hey Suzanne, I used Notion! Inside their pages, you can create a kanban board like how I did for organization :)

  • @raWrFireball
    @raWrFireball 2 месяца назад +2

    Beautiful! ❤

  • @cozygentlenight
    @cozygentlenight Месяц назад

    Here we are after work hours watching her video 😂

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      I'll spare you guys only 10 minutes to watch this video.. no more. Then it's time to implement.. 😂

  • @karabells2210
    @karabells2210 2 месяца назад +1

    hello Nicole, thanks for the helpful video. May I ask what app are you using at 2:36 for tracking to-do list?

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  2 месяца назад +2

      Hey Clarine! I’m happy this video gave you value and I use Notion! You can create a kanban board in Notion like how I did in the video for organizing tasks :)

  • @loveonlytee483
    @loveonlytee483 Месяц назад

    You have beautiful, healthy looking hair 😊

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      Thank you Tee, I appreciate that 😊

  • @LunaticXiao
    @LunaticXiao Месяц назад

    What would you recommend to people with a long commute? I travel 3 hours by train every day... Moving closer to my workplace is not an option due to the high cost of rent. I feel like so much time is wasted... and I don't know how to use those hours productively....

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      What are your priorities / what would you do if you didn't have those 3 hours of commute?
      Some things I personally like doing on my commutes: reading my Kindle, listening to podcast/music, working on my side hustle (typing content like for my RUclips, creating content/talking on my IG stories, writing my emails), journaling, meditate/rest.
      Sometimes I think it's also important to just do nothing and just be. You don't always have to be productive + optimize every moment of your time. What if you can just enjoy the train ride and scenery and be grateful for a seat on your safe, comfortable ride, for your workplace? :)

  • @Maria-db9yb
    @Maria-db9yb Месяц назад

    Ugh if only I had a 9-5 Monday to friday job I too could get things done… it’s impossible to have a routine on stupid continental 12 hours day and night rotations

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      Sorry to hear about that, I definitely do have privileges with my lifestyle! I am sending you good energy and love, hope you can take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally ❤

  • @wesleytarr6302
    @wesleytarr6302 Месяц назад

    Right there! On her phone! 8:40
    Is that? Dr.K from Healthy Gamer GG?

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      Yeesh, how did you catch that? 👏👏 I recently discovered this guy and I love the way he speaks - probably bc I used to be a gamer lol.

  • @acoast84
    @acoast84 Месяц назад +1

    You are beautiful!

  • @SA-cloud
    @SA-cloud Месяц назад

    Hhmm, 171k views, but only 20k subs? I guess there's no pleasing some folks 😄 - I could never do this job, there's so much distraction in life these days and only 24 hours in a day.
    @Nicole, that part next to the sea looks so nice! Being near the sea is like a reset switch to me.

  • @robertmaxa6631
    @robertmaxa6631 Месяц назад

    Define "waste".

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +1

      I was defining it according to society - "if you're not optimizing your time to do something that is productive and makes money, it's wasting."
      But I also share my personal take on this - just because you're not doing something that makes money or contributes to "growth", isn't "wasting." One of my tips was to practice doing nothing and genuinely enjoy being :) what's your definition of waste?

  • @rebecca55371
    @rebecca55371 Месяц назад

    Set up for the week ahead? You did a whole weeks worth of work in one day.

  • @AshokMarko-io8yn
    @AshokMarko-io8yn Месяц назад

    dsa

  • @SbjsksmNx
    @SbjsksmNx Месяц назад +1

    Pregnant with my 4th and live in a big house. Stay at home mom/wife: such a different life.

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      Your life is my dream future haha, I'd love to see a day in the life of yours!

  • @savitakadam4856
    @savitakadam4856 Месяц назад

    as

  • @DharmendraSingh-uq9fi
    @DharmendraSingh-uq9fi Месяц назад

    sad

  • @JennyZibreva
    @JennyZibreva Месяц назад +1

    That's so easily said when your're a 20+ single living alone. Now imagine you have a partner, pets, sick parents second job or god forbid - kids :D

    • @MusiicRoolz
      @MusiicRoolz Месяц назад +3

      a partner is supposed to make your life easier not harder lol
      obviously you have to spend more time with someone, but they also help with cleaning cooking physical/emotional support etc
      you can also split rent with them
      I don't think there's a clear cut better or worse

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад +2

      I now do have a partner and thankfully they respect my boundaries when I need alone time and helps with cleaning/cooking/emotional support. Having kids is harder but you can get a bit more creative - I have 3 younger siblings who are ~10 years old, I had to assign them chores and get them to help out when I was living at home.
      That said, on a macro-level, I do think there's a big societal problem with long, tiring jobs, pay that doesn't keep up with inflation, and rising illnesses (physical + mental) and I just hope that we can all take care of ourselves on the micro-level while advocating for systemic change.

  • @jumpingbee4717
    @jumpingbee4717 Месяц назад +1

    You should do a video about how to not waste your sleeping hours. As humans, we waste so much precious (self) productivity sleeping.

  • @originalfred66
    @originalfred66 Месяц назад

    Good video, but I would add one thing for young people. Make time to meet a potential boyfriend or girlfriend. You are exposed to all kinds of potential partners in high school and college, but after you start working, you really have to make an effort. People are so afraid of rejection that they do not even make an effort. You cannot play to not lose. You have to play to win. The right person is out there, but you have to find him or her. That person will not just fall into your lap. There are a lot of very miserable 40 year olds out there who thought they had plenty of time. Life is short. Sure, getting married and having a family is scary, and it will turn your life upside down. But it is totally worth it.

  • @rockgsxr
    @rockgsxr Месяц назад +1

    Where is your husband/ boyfriend. I can feel the loneliness reaching through my screen

    • @002Chemistry
      @002Chemistry Месяц назад

      Sounds like a you-problem, not a her-problem

    • @rockgsxr
      @rockgsxr Месяц назад +1

      @@002Chemistry you were sold a feminist lie, women in their droves are now pining for a family when it's too late

  • @anaromero5583
    @anaromero5583 26 дней назад

    Thank you for this!

  • @CarlyHendersonTV
    @CarlyHendersonTV Месяц назад

    These are such wonderful ideas. Thank you!

    • @itsnicolesyk
      @itsnicolesyk  Месяц назад

      You are so welcome! Happy it helped ❤