Come Sit with Me | Cleaned Ray's house out this week!
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- Come Sit with Me | Cleaned Ray's house out this week!
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Hi Kelly Big Hugs 🤗 I’m not understanding why people think it’s their business to ask such personal questions??? What you choose to share with us is more than enough!! Come on folks mind your business.
Exactly what I thought! Some people are just compassionless! 😔
Agreed. I meant to add a comment on that, too. People can be nosy. Asking why his wife this or that was their way of being nosy and finding answers to questions they had. It's really rotten. No one needs to know anything unless you choose to share it. Some people feel entitled to ask things or stick their nose in where it isn't appropriate.
This❤
It seems people are never taught what respect is all about. I’m a “boomer” and I learned early how to mind my own business. I think others who demonstrate such poor manners have not lost someone close. To lose a child is beyond devastating and just the fact that Kelly is willing to let us in to her heart is a gift. God bless you and yours. 🙋♀️🙏⚔️🛡️🔥
Sending hugs… and praying for peace and serenity for you and your girls…. You’ve been on quite the journey…. A journey no Mother should ever have to endure…. You’re doing everything with such dignity….and thoughtfulness…!
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing such devastating part of your life… you are such an incredible inspiration to those that are suffering through a life changing loss of their own… you’re going to be ok my friend 💕
That was very generous of Ray to leave those things to Kayla. I know some people are curious and have good intentions, but we are not entitled to personal details. You and your girls can hopefully do more healing through this process. Thank you for the update, Kelly.
Am I the only one crying at this? It brings back sad memories of the day we’d come to decision to clear my sisters clothes out of our joint wardrobe. She was only 14 so didn’t have anywhere near as much as Ray had to clear, part of a wardrobe and 2 drawers. It’s no one business what you or your daughters do or when you do it. We are just privileged that you give us a snapshot of your lives and I know you do it to help with your healing process but it also can help others here too
You are helping me deal with my husband’s pancreatic cancer journey…he is home with my son and I as he spends his final days surrounded by the things he loves. Thank you and God Bless.
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It's very hard when you are cleaning out a loved ones belongs. I've had to do that with my sister and then my mom. Take your time, take a break when you need to. People don't realize that you're walking thru someone else's life and you'll discover things that your loved one never envisioned someone else would see. Be kind to yourself and never let anyone tell you how long you're allowed to grieve or what your grief should look like. We all grieve in different ways. I shall keep you and your family in my prayers ❤
I can only imagine how tough that would have been. I'm so proud of you guys and your resilience through this season of grief
Kelly, I feel your pain. We just last week reached the first anniversary of our son’s transition to Heaven. Oh how I miss him. But there’s a song that’s put all this in perspective. One line goes, ‘I’m not really gone, just gone on before.’ We’ll see our sons again, Kelly. Just hold on til God decides our time here is up. What a day it will when we see our savior and our sons as well! ♥️🙏🏻
Beautifully said ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏😭
We lost our youngest son 11 yrs, 8 months and 3 days ago. As time passes, grief changes. Not easier, just different. I also believe we will be together one day.
@@mattiesful I’m sorry for your loss-you’re right about grief changing-we’ve experienced that as well.
I am so sorry for your loss and your pain, I have no words
Love that Ray left his vehicle an house to Kayla, so sweet. ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. Dispersing a loved one's things is the hardest thing to do. Ray's things are now serving the needs of other people.
People “STOP ASKING PERSONAL QUESTIONS”!!!! It ISN’T any of YOUR business!!! Are those the questions you would want to be asked or have to answer. Kelly, you and the girls are going to be ok. Take your time healing. You have come a long way already. Y’all have wonderful memories, that is what is important not the things. NO ONE can take away your memories.
PLEASE take care of yourself!!! Sending you and the girls a “bunch of hugs.” ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kelly , as a mother I know how hard this is for you! My heart just aches for you and your daughters❤ Know that you always have that guardian angel looking out for you! God bless your family !! Sorry to hear about your accident, I’ll be praying you heal fast ! Sending my love hugs and thoughts your way ! Take care my friend !!!
What got me is when you talked about Ray at his desk...my 31 year old son has stage 4 cancer. He lives with me and spends alot of time gaming with his brother that lives in a different state. I realize there will be a time he will not be there. I hope when the time comes I will have the grace to do what you have done.
I am so glad Ray had a chance to have his own home, even for a while. It was lived in and loved in.
Oh Kelly, I just want to send a hug and love to you. My son passed as a child; it’s never easy.
Grief is a lifelong process. Know that the love you and Ray shared is still alive.
Sending blessings and love to you and the girls ❤❤❤❤
What an amazing thing you did keeping Rays pictures for all those who entered to see! I was unable to sell my dad’s belongings, what wasn’t given to family and friends was donated to The Coffee Bunker ( for vets). I’m glad you were able to get this part of the process with courage and grace. It won’t be very long until the house is rented, laughter once again brings life and love into the home. You have brought honor to your son, gentle hugs, my friend. A thought on the pool table, perhaps there is a game room/officer relaxation room at the sheriffs office where Ray used to serve. What a great tribute and joy for them to be able to unwind after a long day, play a game of pool in memory of their dear friend Ray.
What a neat idea!
They would absolutely love that from Ray. Very thoughtful idea💯❤️🙏🏻
Thank you for this video…..I lost my son 8 months ago. He lived 1500 years away. We sold his house last year with furnishings. His personal items were shipped to me. I still can not go through the boxes. You have given me strength to maybe be able to go through them soon.
You may find a bit of happiness to go through son’s stuff.May help in the end to help with grief.🫠
Sorry! I lost my son recently too! I posted info to Kelly here. Big hugs to you!
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Sending love to you all...
Hi Kelly, Thank you for sharing. Praise God one step at a time. Loving memories❤
In September it will be 12 yrs that I lost my son. The right time is when you do things. No one can tell you anything different. You & the girls do things when you are ready! 🙏
My son died of brain cancer 4 years ago ago at the age of 33. I’m having a hard time of it! I wouldn’t wish it on anyone! Losing your child is the worst thing anyone could ever go through! God Bless any parent who has ever lost a child!
Hugs and prayers 😢
Now I am getting mad. It is absolutely NO ONE’S business what you and your girls with anything of his. I know it is devastatingly hard and sending you all love, light, strength, nd prayers as you go through everything. Kelly you don’t owe anyone an explanation. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I TOTALLY AGREE
Sometimes people honestly care - not meaning to be hurtful or cruel; maybe trying to deal with their loss/pain. We never know. I hope anyone who intentionally made malice comments towards Kelly & her beautiful family, never have to walk through her pain. It’s beyond crushing! It doesn’t end! We pray for strength, & to see the light of life through the pain & darkness. God bless Kelly & her beautiful family. God bless everyone who comes here to offer them love & support. God bless those who make comments, whether intentionally or not, that hurt Kelly & her girls. And, God bless those who have suffered the unimaginable pain of losing a (grand)child of any age - a dear loved one. I don’t believe the heart ever completely heals. That’s the part of our heart where our loved ones live on. They’re holding that part of our heart together for us. I have to believe in us, Kelly. Please feel all the love. I promise you it’s filled with hope, faith, love, & a promise for tomorrow. You are loved dearly❤️
One day at a time. I think that it's awesome that Ray thought about taking care of Kayla. The way he lived is a testimony about what a wonderful mom and person you are.
Kelly, remember when our treasures become memories, our memories become treasures. Use your talents to create some peace in your life. You will get through this, never over, but through.
I cannot fathom the depth of your pain. I can see your strength and undying love. Ray was blessed to call you Mom. Hugs to you and your family.
Rays energy and spirit will always be where you are! 🫶
This video was heartwrenching for me to watch. We know that we can't take our things with us but it's not easy to let our loved one's property go bc it makes us feel like we've lost them all over again. I think you should take his gaming chair to your house so that he'll have a place to sit when he comes to visit😊
You guys are a special family. Do what you can to get through these hard times.
You are a strong lady. May God continue to bless you and your family.
I wish I could give you a real hug. Bless you sweetie! I'm so sorry you hurt yourself, and pray for a full recovery. Please be kind to yourself! ❤
So hard. I couldn’t do it. I told my husband that I couldn’t go into the house my son died in. Fortunately he honored that but the day I had to sign the papers when we sold his house was absolutely soul crushing. I honor your courage and strength.
I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏😭
I am so sad to hear about your pain.
My husband passed today. I will have to go through all his things and it is going to be so hard. Thanks for sharing.
Please take your time. Praying. Sorry for your loss
My condolences. Prayers your way! Let the Lord be your strength.
First, I want to say of all our warriors here on earth parents who have lost a child of any age are the strongest..........May peace find you all again 🌄
You are strong. You will keep going forward. The grief process is difficult and takes time, lots of time.
The first born boy often takes after mom. Obviously, your sweet son had your sweet personality❤
Kelly, I'm so sorry you got hurt and need surgery. Hope it goes smoothly for you. Thanks for sharing this part of your journey with us. It's so hard, but hopefully it will help with healing. ❤
I believe that Ray will always watch over you and his sisters. Know he is with you and approves of the decisions you are making for his belongings. I can't imagine your pain as a mom. But your strength is awe-inspiring.
It's one of the hardest things to have to do. I love that people are sending you pictures of the items being used in their new home. I'm glad the house is staying within the family. Physical items may be gone, but you and your girls will always have the memories (good & bad) and can start a new chapter to continue the memories.
It is nobody's business why you guys are doing what you're doing. You guys do what is best for you and your healing process. Praying for all of you🙏🏼
Kelly, you are incredibly brave, sharing this all with us. It couldn’t have been easy, but It feels as though it has been a part of your healing process.
I’ve not been in your position but do have children and want you to know my heart is full of love and compassion for you and your daughter. Please walk away from the noise people speak, and walk your own path through this grieving journey. Thank you for sharing this with us, and please take care of yourself, as you’ve taken care of us in the past. ❤
I hope you know how many of us you are helping by being so honest and open through your grieving and healing journey. I am 5 months into my own journey, and I cannot imagine how much more difficult this would be without your insight. I pray for your family, as if they were my own. Thank you for trusting us with your thoughts and emotions. ❤️
Wow so caring of Ray to leave his house and car. That was so thoughtful of Ray and it shows his sister how much she is loved by him. Do everything on your time when your ready and let the ray's of sunshine shine down on you all and paw babies. Ray loves you all so much as you all love him.
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This journey is so very difficult. You are such an amazing woman. Sending virtual hugs your way.
Hi Kelly, Another option for the Captain America painting would be to cut the painting out & replace that section of drywall. That way you wouldn't have to worry about renters damaging it. It's something for you to think about.
Btw, thats a beautiful home. Ray had good taste. I pray that renters take care of it❤
Cleaning out Rays house would feel so goodbye, so final. I admire you and your daughters strength. Wise decision Kayla. Oh Kelly, praying for you. Hugs
How lovely that people shared pictures of Ray's things with you. It must comfort you, somewhat, knowing others will enjoy a part of his legacy. Best to you as you face your upcoming surgery.
May God be with you and your family during your time of healing. God Bless.
What a fun memory, nerf gun wars in the dark! It made me smile.
Kelly & Kids Many Prayers For You All. Ray is Looking Down on You and The Girls & saying He is Very Happy With You. What A Beautiful Painting.
Thank you Kelly for sharing your journey with us. I just want to give you a hug. I am sorry your family has had to go through this. Sending love.
You accomplished so much at Ray’s house. So proud of you and the girls. ❤
So sorry you had to get rid of his things. I lost my youngest and last sister a couple of weeks ago. You will heal but never stop thinking about him. Keeping your family in my prayers.
I would put a piece of plastic glass over the mural then maybe white contact paper over that. Just for a little extra protection. Virtual hugs ladies ❤
Such a good idea!
Yes, I was thinking I would put something thicker over that, paper might get torn.
I was thinking about nails....we don't want nails through it either.
Wow, you’re one very strong person! I have never had to bury a child, so I really have no idea what you’re going through, but this whole video had me crying! God bless you and your beautiful family! Hugs and prayers! ❤🙏
Grieving is different for everyone. I know that for sure. I just wanted to share with you that there is a program called "Griefshare". It's usually presented at local churches. That may be something you might be interested in for further healing. Prayers are with you and the girls Kelly.
Happy Heavenly Birthday to Ray🙏♥️🙏 Many hugs and much love to you and your girls Kelly ♥️ You are amazing and strong and I’m sure Ray is still around you in spirit !!
Happy birthday Ray! Today is my husbands birthday, he would have been 70. In December he will be gone five years, still seems like yesterday. We will see our loved ones again one day, praying for you and Kayla.♥️🙏🏻
Kate i know what you going through. I don't have kids but I lost my younger brother to Stage 4 stomach cancer in June 8, 2024. He was 3 years younger than me. We were really close. When I was sick he would be there by my side just about every day. I did it with me. But I know he is in a better place. He got his life right with God before he passed. Before he passed he told me me and my husband can move to Florida where my sister, her daughter, husband and 3 boys and my nephew are. I told I will but not right now. He showed his love in a different way. He wouldn't say i love you. But right at the end he said "I always love you no matter what. I ready to go and see mama in heaven. See you on the flip side." God bless you. Keep Ray's memories alive. We love you Kate Barlow.
There are some beautiful memories waiting to be made with Kayla in the house. Only to be combined with memories of Ray. It will be a House of Memories!! Prayers for you and the girls.
Kelly, that had to be very difficult for you and the girls! I’m proud of all of you and what you have been able to accomplish!
What amazing memories you have
Kelly you’re doing amazing! Your work at Rays was extremely difficult but you did it! You are moving forward with little steps first your house and now Rays. Progress my friend, progress. You’ve got this Kelly. I pray for you and the girls and believe in my heart Ray is watching over you all. 💖
What an amazing Son you had!! and your girls are so amazing. I’m sorry you have to answer such personal questions, because it’s no one’s business. You share what you are comfortable. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
So sorry that you are injured and facing surgery. Big hugs and prayers for you and your girls.❤
Kelly you and the girls have come a long way. I can only imagine how hard it is to clear out Rays house.
You guys are doing just what Ray would have wanted💕💕💕💕
My God continue to hold you and your wonderful daughter’s in his loving care🙏🏽❤️
My heart goes out to you all for this trying time to have to do what you have to do as a mother,his sisters and the closes people to your Angel in the sky… I feel your pain of loss.. I’m sorry and Lift you &your girls in prayer 🙏
Sending big virtual hugs. You are brave and strong, and your daughter is an amazing artist!
You stay strong sweetie. My prayers are with you and your family.
What a beautiful thing for a big brother to do.
Kelly, I am so proud of you!! Keep moving forward. Reinventing yall’s Life!! You are my super hero!
Sweet sweet Kelly you are sooooo blessed to raise such an Angel! Seriously an Angel. I hope you know he would never want you to go through all the pain that you have. You had such a good loving relationship with him that IS NEVER ENDING. He’s happy and he’s perfect, and you know he wants the same for his Momma. One day at a time. Jesus is with you. He will NEVER leave you or forsake you. He PROMISES that. We are all here for you too! Praying for you, and always willing to help any way I can. You are sooooo much stronger than you ever thought possible. Big Hugs- Rebecca 💙😘😘💙
Kelly and family that's a great idea about keeping the house and sending you prayers and family prayers 🙏
Hi Kelly! Sorry to hear about your injury. Wow! Kayla is an amazing artist! I too am a huge Avenger fan. Thank you for sharing such amazing personal moments! Get better soon and take care!💐❤️
You have made some very wise decisions, albeit difficult. Ray was so blessed to have you for a mom. I enjoy hearing about him and seeing clips like the perfect gun wars. Thank you.
We pray for your healing and prayers for your family. God Bless kelly
What a great financial plan your family has come up with, with Kayla's house. Although the housing market is top notch these days for sellers, not so much for buyers, I totally understand her passion about keeping it. She seems really smart!
That’s so hard Kelly to clean out Rays house, God bless you prayers for you and the girls sending hugs and love your way ❤❤❤
May God bless you and your family Kelly!🙏
You and the girls are so brave. Thank you for sharing. ❤️
You are such a strong woman. Ray would be proud of you for how you are handling yourself and your daughters. Prayers to you.
Hello Kelly I'm just seeing the video my heart is just filled with emotions it takes a lot of courage and to dispersed rays belongings I had to say tears was streaming down my face takes a lot of Courage God bless you Kelly and the girls pray for your continued strength❤❤❤❤
Kept thinking about the house and praying for a way for it to stay in the family🤗 The gifting to Kayla is a testament to the love you nurtured between them, too! Kayla's mural is beyond beautiful! Stay you❤🙏🏾
P.S. Prayers for your healing!
God bless you and your girls , prayers for your strength, and a speedy recovery from your injuries 😔🙏🏽
Wow your daughter is artist! Love that story and the story of the nerf wars. I think we keep our loved ones alive by sharing your memories. Speaking about them keeps their memory alive. It’s therapeutic. They will never be forgotten and always with us.❤
😢 you're very strong. Please take care of yourself. God bless you, bye ❤
You're an amazing strong lady!! Hugs to you guys
Kelly, still praying for strength for your family!
So sorry you hurt yourself & praying for the Holy Spirit to guide the surgeons hands!
Do everything you need to do in your own time!!
Kayla is an amazing artist!
Love y’all! ❤
So so sorry for your loss and anguish. Wishing you easier days ahead. Promise, good things to come …..
Yes I still have my hubbys hats too. Some of his jackets & flannel shirts. I even wear some of his heavy coats in the cold winter.
Proud of your and the girls, and Kayla made a very mature decision to rent it until she is ready to take it over, tell her to be very choosy on renters so they take care of the house, we love you, and hope you get better soon too, prayers to you all
Bless your heart. You know Ray is smiling down on you and amazed at your strength. With him in your corner...girl you've got this
Prayers for continued healing for all of you. It looks like you're all making great progress. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for sharing and you staying positive. Sending you a big hug.❤🩷💜
God bless your family. Do what you have to do to keep it in your family like he asked. I'm sure if you couldn't he would have understood . Praying for you all.
Prayers to you and family, 🙏❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗🤗, sending hugs and love
Kelly I understand just how you feel I lost my mom and dad and it was hard to part with there belongings I still have some things but still never start thinking of them ,stay strong Kelly you had a wonderful son He is with you in your heart ♥️ He’s watching over you from heaven God bless you.
Thank you for Sharing. My prayers 🙏 are with you, Kayla,Alley.
Please Stay Safe Happy and Healthy Have A Wonderful Day
You guys know yourselves better than anyone, and know what's best for you. Do what you can, when you can, and don't feel badly about it. ❤ to you guys, and highest hopes in moving forward.
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I can only imagine this. My father died 2 years ago. I inherited my childhood home which I have literally not set foot in since the day my dad left it. I should be living in it instead of renting. I cannot let it go, but can’t imagine living in it without my parents.
Kelly, you’re a rockstar. I hope you feel better soon!
Have you thought of renting it out or sell and buy yourself a new home to create new memories in?
We love you Kelly and your daughters & pets 🙏❤️.
What a wonderful brother. I think it is a great decision to rent the house. I am sorry to hear that you got hurt. I am sure it was painful cleaning out Ray's house. Nerf wars sound like really great memories. We used to play hide and seek in the dark. Great memories. I hope you are able to sell the pool table. Maybe a pub owner would be interested. I pray that you all continue to heal. Kelly please take care of yourself. I hope the surgery goes well. Have a blessed week.
Sorry for your painful experience, prayers and love to you and your family ❤️🙏
My heart goes out to you Kelly. That was so hard to watch. I felt your pain. Love seeing Ray picture. He was so handsome. Hope you find a good tenant who does respect everyting in Ray/Kayla house. He was a great brother and still is just in spirit. Much love to all tree of you.🫂🫂🫂
Kelly, you are amazing and my heart goes out to you and the girls! Nobody’s business what you decide to do with his things. So difficult. Hang in there…❤