Felt this. It's the reason I became as minimalist as possible. If I don't NEED it I don't buy or worry about it. Drink sea moss tea everyday to get the vitamins and minerals. That eliminated my vitamin regimen and worrying about getting enough fruit and veggies in. So much better fr.
When you leave your clothes in the washer rewash with your detergent and use white vinegar in the softener spot it will take the smell out and your clothes will not smell like vinegar.
The fact that James missed Fuhad's "what it is, what's up" and somehow Fuhad was the one apologizing in the end just shows how insane James is at gaslighting🤣
Managing to crap on women, completely unrelated to this convo, & on both of them for your perceived 'masculity' criteria is crazy. Just say you're mad you can't get 😼 & go @@SolomonGrod
@@greyscalesx The fact you broke down a women to "cat" is ironic in your defense to them. The joke is that all the fans think James is the woman (or the bottom) in the relationship, it's a gag most of the fans participate. The joke here is that husbands can never win against their wives, and end up apologizing even though the wife is technically in the wrong.
No one warned me about the chores, literally every single day. Cleaning, laundry, cooking , dishes and grocery shopping and work and how easy it is to gain weight
See, my parents took full advantage of their free labor lol. So this is one of the few things they actually prepared me for at a young age... Now taxes, credit, insurance, stock, consumer researching... CHARGED IT😭🤣
F: "He was on the treaders. His heart couldn't take it." "Man woke up in hosp." J: " you're a liar " 👀 F:"on my mothers" 😁 J: "you're a liar " 😲 F: "on my mothers " 🤣
Having to parent your parents is real. You grow up thinking they had everything figured out, only to find out they were just like you, kids who got old and had to figure things things out...
Both my mom & dad turned 68 this year. It's been rough watching them go through certain medical issues, but they still walk around sprightly & you can't even tell what they've been through
There comes a point where when you have to use the bathroom….u have to stop what ur doing and go. There is no more holding it 😂 ur bladder says F around and find out😂
Continue to love your parents cause it sucks when they're no longer around. I lost my mom yesterday. My regret we were on the outs , nothing unusual for us, and I didn't get to tell her that I love her or goodbye 😢
FYI James, see a Massage Therapist and/or a Physical Therapist. If your muscles get too tight, they can compress the nerves. I've got that issue in my shoulder.
Have you got anything about knee pains? Cuz let's say I sit cross legged, and after sometime when I get up my right knee starts hurting a lot. And sometimes when I'm walking it just randomly starts hurting 😭
Bro, the fucking laundry. There are always some bitches to fold, I am OVER IT. And fuck deciding what to eat all the time, I'm tired of coming up with dishes, just let me starve
My parents are 15yrs apart- Dad is 80 and mom is 65 but activee and don’t look it. Like my dad is the original calorie counter 😂 they have always walked twice a day xo
As an American I can’t comprehend the garbage not being taken nor this electric and gas meter concept they just send you the bill every month for what you use I don’t send them a damn thing
Backstory, I have had a lot of family die in the last few years so family is become very important to me. One thing I wasn't prepared for would be working jobs that require me to not be home for the holidays with family or getting a emergency and having to help family and then getting fired when I push back because I want to be with the last bit of family I had left. I would never choose my job but I didn't know that there was supposed to be a choice when it was your family.
As someone who's recently lost my dad after my mom. Keep fighting to see your family and connecting with them. Sorry for your losses and I wish more jobs are understanding *for you.
2:50 Them saying their parent's ages is making me question everything because i'm 26... dad's turning 72 and mom's 56. Neither one of them can see anything 😂
Iv reached the point in my life were I am parenting my Mom. I get so mad at her when ever she hides her health problems from me. When she finally tells me, all I want to do is put her in the corner so she can reflect on her actions.
I've been adulting since I was like 8. I feel like the eldest usually has to grow up quicker especially in single parent households. I've been filling out paperwork since like 6th or 7th grade
Meal prepping dishes you'll be willing to eat for a few days is game changing! You save time, money and reduce food wastage. I don't know how workers have time to cook everyday.
Haha the food waste one really hit because I live alone but travel often, honestly when you are in that position; it’s better to do your grocery shopping day by day. It’s not as expensive as people think, and reduces food wastage by such a high percentage. The best way I do it is by looking at your food budget for the month. There’s 28-31 days in each month, you would just divide your budget by how many days you will be needing that money to eat and the number that appears will be the amount you have to spend each day on food (bearing in mind that you will probably have leftovers from the day before). Of course, if you are still in locations where you can cook and preserve some food (for the duration you are there), I highly recommend cooking and opting for healthy options.
In the UK we are also billed every month but if you are on a meter it is in your best interest to send your provider meter readings of your usage regularly. Otherwise the company will bill you based on high estimates of your usage (this is usually a lot higher than what you are actually using so the company isnt losing money by estimating too low) thus costing you more money
My dad recently passed away at 70 one week before his 71st birthday. My mom is 63 with health issues. Taking care of people is what I do but nothing prepares you to take care of your parents
@@krissy_7778 until your GREAT grandmother dies and you’re in your 30’s and you have to fight your job for bereavement cuz whose 32 with a great grandma lol
Tip for your washing machine, use vinegar instead of softener, it doesnt smell of it at the end but it does destroy lime scale and it softens your clothes. Softener is real bad for your machine
James, your dad just needs a reading portion lens on his glasses. He is probably near-sighted (and his current glasses enable him to see far), but as we age we tend to have difficulty to see things that are near (so he needs either reading glasses, or his glasses can have that reading portion on the lens). Regarding exercise, your parents should concentrate on walking and stretching their bodies. What ages people is stiffness which leads to aches and pains.
I wasn’t looking at my screen at first and I heard James talking about, what it is what it do!?” I was like wait who tf am I watching? lol 😂 yall were smooth w. That 😂
As a fellow person who just throws pillows out and buys new ones 😂 I agree. Once the pillow isn't billowing correctly anymore it's done! . . Also not being comfortable with pillows and constantly replacing them or not liking them is a sign of adhd/autism
When I was younger, my dad would only keep a mustache and goatee cuz my mom didnt like facial hair and before it really started turning grey, he started shaving it off altogether cuz he had promised her. I don't live at home anymore, so when my Dad came to pick me up just before Christmas last year, I stood at the window of his SUV for 5 mins straight, just staring at him, as he was sporting a full grey beard. I was choked up. He had been keeping it grown out for a minute so he forgot this was my first time seeing it. All I could think was, my Daddy is old now 😭
@@Bhocobhipbookie, I assume though, you all live a bit differently. Here, it’s WASTE. And mainly because we stick our fridges and shelves at home, as if we own a grocery market ourselves, lol. A part of that though, came from earlier generations, and experiencing great economic collapses here. I assume most of Europe shops in smaller quantities, and more often, due to more sources for fresher food.
Watching parents get old hits different!!!! 😢 also, my mom's letting her hair go grey and when she said it!! 😮😮😮 I almost lost it, not my mom!!!! Can't deal! 😂
Their parents watching this and thinking wtf are these boys doing ratting us out like this 😂😂😂😂
Yoooo😂
😂😂😂😂😂was thinking the same 😂😂😂 James' dad must be livid😂😂😂
“Safe space?”
*Tells the whole internet 😂
My thoughts exactly 😂
icl james dad is save babes Cuz well..he can't see sooo❤️
When you have to make a lot of money, stay healthy, have a family, buy a house, and still get 8 hours of sleep😢😢
This 😩
Just life for everyone 🤷♂️
Felt this. It's the reason I became as minimalist as possible. If I don't NEED it I don't buy or worry about it. Drink sea moss tea everyday to get the vitamins and minerals. That eliminated my vitamin regimen and worrying about getting enough fruit and veggies in. So much better fr.
When you leave your clothes in the washer rewash with your detergent and use white vinegar in the softener spot it will take the smell out and your clothes will not smell like vinegar.
1st world problems
The fact that James missed Fuhad's "what it is, what's up" and somehow Fuhad was the one apologizing in the end just shows how insane James is at gaslighting🤣
He'd have to be slapped lol babe is a menace
once again showing who is the woman in this relationship.
Managing to crap on women, completely unrelated to this convo, & on both of them for your perceived 'masculity' criteria is crazy. Just say you're mad you can't get 😼 & go @@SolomonGrod
^Wow
@@greyscalesx The fact you broke down a women to "cat" is ironic in your defense to them. The joke is that all the fans think James is the woman (or the bottom) in the relationship, it's a gag most of the fans participate. The joke here is that husbands can never win against their wives, and end up apologizing even though the wife is technically in the wrong.
"She's given up on him !" "What's going on in this house ?!" Fuckin sent me !!
😂😂😂😂😂 SAAAAAME! I had to pull over😂😂😂
Omggggg saaaameeeeee!!! It was how he said it. I hollered!!! 🤣😭😭😭
No one warned me about the chores, literally every single day. Cleaning, laundry, cooking , dishes and grocery shopping and work and how easy it is to gain weight
FACTS! This comment hits the nail on the head. And add failing to get enough sleep and being constantly tired
THERE AREN'T ENOUGH HOURS IN THE DAY
Everyday chores, chores. The weight and the tiredness
You never helped your parents? My sister and I cleaned the house when we got back from school. I thought that was normal
See, my parents took full advantage of their free labor lol. So this is one of the few things they actually prepared me for at a young age... Now taxes, credit, insurance, stock, consumer researching... CHARGED IT😭🤣
I've never felt James more than when he said " who wants to live long when this is what life is".... 🤭
F: "He was on the treaders. His heart couldn't take it." "Man woke up in hosp."
J: " you're a liar " 👀
F:"on my mothers" 😁
J: "you're a liar " 😲
F: "on my mothers "
🤣
Having to parent your parents is real. You grow up thinking they had everything figured out, only to find out they were just like you, kids who got old and had to figure things things out...
Felt
Parenting them and they don’t really listen! Just like us when we were young.
Calculating if you have enough energy to go to the gas station now or if you have enough gas to wait until tomorrow lol
Never wait 😂😂😂😂😂. It won’t work out in your favor.
Both my mom & dad turned 68 this year. It's been rough watching them go through certain medical issues, but they still walk around sprightly & you can't even tell what they've been through
I get it. My parents are in their 70s and it's rough to watch.
Strongs ❤
Only the NHS and your mum knew he was in hospital 😂😂😂😂. Couldn't have you thinking he's weak.
There comes a point where when you have to use the bathroom….u have to stop what ur doing and go. There is no more holding it 😂 ur bladder says F around and find out😂
Literally happened to me today…age 😢
F-A-M-I-L-Y!!!!
Why did it just stop caring?!? With no notice!
Continue to love your parents cause it sucks when they're no longer around. I lost my mom yesterday. My regret we were on the outs , nothing unusual for us, and I didn't get to tell her that I love her or goodbye 😢
My sincere condolences🙏🏾losing a mom hits hard
Prayers for peace and comfort
She knows babe. 🕊️
Bro… the never ending tasks of adulthood leave you fighting for your life! Adulthood is ghetto
Adulthood is ghetto😂😂😅
FYI James, see a Massage Therapist and/or a Physical Therapist. If your muscles get too tight, they can compress the nerves. I've got that issue in my shoulder.
Have you got anything about knee pains? Cuz let's say I sit cross legged, and after sometime when I get up my right knee starts hurting a lot. And sometimes when I'm walking it just randomly starts hurting 😭
"It's so difficult not to waste food nowadays "😭😭😭😭😭😂
So hectic... 😢😢😢😅
@@nevfelixKnow you’re from SA
The most adult thing EVER!
@@SAHarry was it the "hectic" that gave it away 😭🤣🤣🤣👀🇿🇦👊🏽
It's not, unless you're incompetent
That you finally understand why your mum was pissed with you for forgetting to take the chicken out of the freezer 😮💨😒😭
Why does James being picky bout his pillows make so much sense 😂😂🥹
Bro, the fucking laundry. There are always some bitches to fold, I am OVER IT. And fuck deciding what to eat all the time, I'm tired of coming up with dishes, just let me starve
I am with you. Laundry is the devil 😈
“Age isn’t just a number, it’s a state of mind” 😮💨 bars
one minute hes in HOSP 😂 im dead already ☠️
You know it's gonna be class when James is all like 'You man...'
When Fuhad said "back pain when you sneeze" made me yell "OHH MY GODDD!" 🤣
Walking into your parent’s house and thinking “what’s going on in this house” is the bar! Cause I know most of us have been there 😂
Laundry tip: If your clothes ever mildew, add a little bit of ammonia to the re-wash. You’ll never be able to tell it ever happened 👍🏾
No one told me when I was older that health insurance is hard to get and you have to pay for it yourself I got that check I cried on how expensive was
I found yall like a month ago and theres so much content ive been catching up on. 😂😂
Same😭😭😭
Fun times😂❤❤
Have fun!
Imagining James angrily shaking the washing machine has me spinning😂😅🤣
My parents are 15yrs apart- Dad is 80 and mom is 65 but activee and don’t look it. Like my dad is the original calorie counter 😂 they have always walked twice a day xo
WowThats so good
Seeing parents getting old is bitter sweet especially when they start forgetting your names
Wanjiru njuraga udie😂😂😂😂
fuhads dad really went to win strain for the week on woop
Side note - Ellis is looking wam (as the boys say, lol). Training and recovering for real! Keep up the good work my boy 👏
Saw the thumbnail and immediately burst into tears with a deluge of sympathy
"It's on the ske-lee-tal"🤣
As an American I can’t comprehend the garbage not being taken nor this electric and gas meter concept they just send you the bill every month for what you use I don’t send them a damn thing
You don't have to send it if you don't want, they'll charge you on a higher estimate if you don't though
Yes, but our trash is also taken twice a week here in the US. I couldn't imagine less than once a week 😧
Backstory, I have had a lot of family die in the last few years so family is become very important to me.
One thing I wasn't prepared for would be working jobs that require me to not be home for the holidays with family or getting a emergency and having to help family and then getting fired when I push back because I want to be with the last bit of family I had left. I would never choose my job but I didn't know that there was supposed to be a choice when it was your family.
As someone who's recently lost my dad after my mom. Keep fighting to see your family and connecting with them. Sorry for your losses and I wish more jobs are understanding *for you.
When James said daddy’s tight pause. I immediately took my AirPods out. I can’t hear stuff like that.
Facts😂
i can’t wit y’all😭😭😅
but you still chose to leave a comment. Shut up bruv
Nah... *RESUME* 👀
Hahaha when you said I can't hear stuff like that I instantly thought of James saying that hahahaha
2:50 Them saying their parent's ages is making me question everything because i'm 26... dad's turning 72 and mom's 56. Neither one of them can see anything 😂
Respectfully, that age gap is wild
I am 38 my mom died at 56 4 years ago. My dad turned 60 this year.
@@HermanRothFor. Real. 😂😂
Same, I’m 22 with a 52 and 62 y/o mom and dad. Here I was thinking my parents’ age gap was as weird as it gets😅
@@kikialeaki1850 10 years is not really a bit age gap after that geta a bit techy
When see that little tummy appear and your abs fading away
Iv reached the point in my life were I am parenting my Mom. I get so mad at her when ever she hides her health problems from me. When she finally tells me, all I want to do is put her in the corner so she can reflect on her actions.
Adulting is appreciating a goose feather pillow lol! 😂
Safe space, 1.7 million subs 😂😂
I've been adulting since I was like 8. I feel like the eldest usually has to grow up quicker especially in single parent households. I've been filling out paperwork since like 6th or 7th grade
The brown envelope...seeing that in my post gives me ANXIETY!!!!
Meal prepping dishes you'll be willing to eat for a few days is game changing! You save time, money and reduce food wastage. I don't know how workers have time to cook everyday.
Haha the food waste one really hit because I live alone but travel often, honestly when you are in that position; it’s better to do your grocery shopping day by day.
It’s not as expensive as people think, and reduces food wastage by such a high percentage.
The best way I do it is by looking at your food budget for the month.
There’s 28-31 days in each month, you would just divide your budget by how many days you will be needing that money to eat and the number that appears will be the amount you have to spend each day on food (bearing in mind that you will probably have leftovers from the day before).
Of course, if you are still in locations where you can cook and preserve some food (for the duration you are there), I highly recommend cooking and opting for healthy options.
The American accents in the beginning had me confused af 😂😂 I definitely say “What it is.. wassup!” 😂😂
In the US, the utilities don't wait on us. We receive bills automatically each month.
In the UK we are also billed every month but if you are on a meter it is in your best interest to send your provider meter readings of your usage regularly. Otherwise the company will bill you based on high estimates of your usage (this is usually a lot higher than what you are actually using so the company isnt losing money by estimating too low) thus costing you more money
@@xwinwinwinx So they just... steal from you?
When they said about bin days mine come at 10:30 on a Tuesday and switch up from general and recycling each week
I was not prepared for…mammogram 😳😬
No fun babe.. weirdest thing ever.. had to be a man that thought it designed it.. cos a woman would never!!!
On that note.....Pap smears 😬
The back+sneeze thing…MY GOD!
Add a bit of vinegar to your wash and you will never have lime stone sediment anywhere, way cheaper than Calgon
So no one noticed James go faster when saying washing machine @13:50 😂😂🤣
My dad recently passed away at 70 one week before his 71st birthday. My mom is 63 with health issues. Taking care of people is what I do but nothing prepares you to take care of your parents
When James started talking about his dad’s hair, I did my BEST not to laugh so I would not be offensive. But when I saw Ellis breakdown, so did I 💀💀😭😭
James talking about his dad’s hair 😂😂😂😂😂😂 i can’t 😂😂
8:54 is the best reaction from James to anything ever🤣😭
Nobody prepared me for motherhood ,I'm withered 😂but the love i have for my little beauty is everything ❤❤
Yeah I just turned 40 and my mom just turned 55😂 sooo we gonna be old together lol
🤣🤣🤣 that’s awesome!
hmmmmm
@@krissy_7778 until your GREAT grandmother dies and you’re in your 30’s and you have to fight your job for bereavement cuz whose 32 with a great grandma lol
@@easybreezy4559 my mom was 39 with a great grandma so that's a dumb way to think about it
Am i tweaking the age difference don't make sense
Tip for your washing machine, use vinegar instead of softener, it doesnt smell of it at the end but it does destroy lime scale and it softens your clothes. Softener is real bad for your machine
James, your dad just needs a reading portion lens on his glasses. He is probably near-sighted (and his current glasses enable him to see far), but as we age we tend to have difficulty to see things that are near (so he needs either reading glasses, or his glasses can have that reading portion on the lens).
Regarding exercise, your parents should concentrate on walking and stretching their bodies. What ages people is stiffness which leads to aches and pains.
My dad prepared me for pretty much everything in life except health issues 🤦🏾♀️
I just turned 18 and I can already relate to so many of these 😭
Not me watching this while doing laundry and the dishes, remembering I didn't take the trash out 😅
Physiotherapist, James. Physiotherapist.
You're still here 😂😂 take care of yourself😂😂😂😂😂
The American accent in the intro is funny! Love you both ❤
12:13 wait y'all have send in gas and electric readings? Nah America got that one right because I can't be bothered
You need to freeze half of what you cooked!
13:06 😂 we’re all the same because I do this too!!! 🤣
I wasn’t looking at my screen at first and I heard James talking about, what it is what it do!?” I was like wait who tf am I watching? lol 😂 yall were smooth w. That 😂
What's going on in this house ? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
James the best pillows are from hammacher schlemmer, they’re pricy but you got money big man.
How expensive rugs, wall paint, and laundry detergent are.
WHY.
Adulthood didn't prepare us for credit. Creating a budget and sticking to it. Saving money. Taxes.
As a fellow person who just throws pillows out and buys new ones 😂 I agree. Once the pillow isn't billowing correctly anymore it's done! . . Also not being comfortable with pillows and constantly replacing them or not liking them is a sign of adhd/autism
I find James' chubby fingers so cute
0:38 we love that
James the typa fella to say "Quit being such a pain in the neck!" and mean it literally 😂
Folding and putting away laundry!
The african in Fuhad was mad at him for the wasting food comment
James, that might be gout or arthritis.
Get it checked and mind your diet.
I’m laughing sooo hard but have happy tears because I’m not alone on ANY of these statements lol especially the food and dishes😂😂
The relatability of this had me fully creasing at work!
😂😂😂 James is funny!
'die early' James brotha!!!😂😂😂
When I was younger, my dad would only keep a mustache and goatee cuz my mom didnt like facial hair and before it really started turning grey, he started shaving it off altogether cuz he had promised her. I don't live at home anymore, so when my Dad came to pick me up just before Christmas last year, I stood at the window of his SUV for 5 mins straight, just staring at him, as he was sporting a full grey beard. I was choked up. He had been keeping it grown out for a minute so he forgot this was my first time seeing it. All I could think was, my Daddy is old now 😭
You guys always make my day, lots of love 🫶🏽🫶🏽
9:35 shiii! In the US, at least in my area, we have two days a week, each service.
it depends on the area in the UK…where i live it’s a weekly thing.
@@Bhocobhipbookie, I assume though, you all live a bit differently. Here, it’s WASTE. And mainly because we stick our fridges and shelves at home, as if we own a grocery market ourselves, lol.
A part of that though, came from earlier generations, and experiencing great economic collapses here. I assume most of Europe shops in smaller quantities, and more often, due to more sources for fresher food.
James: what it do ??
Fuhad: 🙄
Bro, the thumbnail for this clip and then James saying daddy's tight👀👀😂
Why did my TikTok have me on bed making competition and I was TUNED IN 😂😂
“Back pain when you sneeze” 😭😭😭
James got anger issues 😂😂
James and Fuhad are the only humans on this planet that make my jaw vibrate like this 😂😂😂
- 😑PAUSE
Me, someone with Adhd, relating haaaaarrrrrddd to the trying not to be wasteful, forgetting about the laundry, dish avoidance... yup.
Watching parents get old hits different!!!! 😢 also, my mom's letting her hair go grey and when she said it!! 😮😮😮 I almost lost it, not my mom!!!! Can't deal! 😂
10:58 I live alone so if I buy groceries in bulk they spoil before I could eat them. I tend to just buy what I need for the meal as I go
honestly i appreciate you guys so much. no matter what kind of day im having i put youse on and LAUGH. would love to be on one of these😂😂😂
Rem & Ellis trying to keep the space safe still, & hold in their laughter took me out!!!!
Makes me grateful for my cook and cleaning lady here in Mexico.