Kamiyah Mobley shares about learning from her mother she was stolen as a baby | Nightline
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- Опубликовано: 20 янв 2020
- Now 21, Mobley opens up in a new documentary “Stolen By My Mother” about being caught between the family who raised her and her biological family.
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You never meant to hurt her? Girl YOU STOLE A DAMN CHILD!
Vernon's Blog LMFAOOOOO BRUH 😂😂😂🤣💀💀💀💀
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🤦🤦🤦🤣🤣🤣🤣 right...you ain't Rob a item from someone, YOU ROBBED A WHOLE CHILD....
a "WHOLE" damn child... like are you serious becky??😂😂
Vernon's Blog They all laughing but nothing in your comment is funny. She really stole a child.
I feel bad for her biological mother because her daughter is emotionally attached to another woman. And mother daughter love may never be there for her.
@Ana Ta no I disagree the daughter should be more compassionate to atleast not be so loving to her kidnapper in front of her moms face. Like she knows that she lost her after 8 hours and to still be loving to the kidnapper SO openly is like putting acid on an already broken heart.
@@LadyIsTheChamp I'm not saying be fake I'm saying don't do it infront of her face cause it's like pouring lemon on a paper cut x 100000
@Jenni Pie Kamiyah is just as much of victim as her mother. Some of you act as if Kamiyah asked to be kidnapped and raised by another woman. Its not her fault that she was not allowed the chance to have the same bond with her bio mother as she does as the woman who took her from her bio mother. She can’t force herself to hate the woman who raised and loved her as her mother. So I think there needs to be some compassion for the innocent child as well.
@@Prince-yf9so I understand that and I feel terrible that she went through and I'm not saying she has to stop loving her kidnapper cause she has such a strong bond with what I am saying is not to rub it in her actual moms face like she goes around on interviews saying oh I love my kidnapper and me and my mom are having trouble and though that may be true, to publicize your love of your kidnapper over you mom knowing what she went through is just cruel. I'm not telling her how to feel I'm saying try to keep it private for the sake of her mom cause its hurting her
@Jenni Pie To yall she’s just the kidnapper but to Kamiyah she is the only mother she knows, Kamiyah is the only one who has that mother and daughter bond with her, not y’all,so of coarse you’re going to only see her as the evil woman who stole a child. But that woman manipulated Kamiyah her whole life to have her thinking that she is her mother. I don’t think she’s rubbing it in her bio mothers face but this is just the situation that she is in. The woman she just met as her bio mother, is a stranger to her. I think that they can eventually bond but it is going to take time.
That poor girl. It doesn’t sound like she had a bad life at all, she developed a bond she wasn’t supposed to have with another. It’s just horrible. As a mom, I can’t even imagine how much this would hurt.
She didn’t have a “bad” life but seems the one she was supposed to have would’ve been better…her mom was a crack head the one who stole her abused her neglected her STOLE her she’s just sticking up for and pretending she’s model mother figure 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Because you were there to know ? Mind your dam business I’m not condoning the fake moms actions but the little said she loves her you can’t just erase love and feelings towards someone she thought was family in seconds get real ..
@@Laughingatyouu Who are you tell him to mind their business I know you’re not talking to me because you don’t know me and we’re on social media like on RUclips play go yell at your kids or something lady I’m a grown adult
@@amyalbernaz8687 IM TALKING TO YOU GOOOOFY I SAID WTF I SAID I DO NOT CARE HOW YOU FEEL 😂🤡
@@amyalbernaz8687 Amy shut tf up your not intimidating ish through a screen Karen sit back and relax 😂😂😂😂😐
I lost my first baby at 9 months pregnant 😢 and I couldn't imagine taking someone elses baby. I use to hug a teddy bear pretending it was my son and then 11 months later i became pregnant again and had another son who is a healthy 2 year old. I was hurt but not selfish.
Edit: thank you so much for your likes and comments. Five years ago this was so taboo to talk about at least in my family so I am happy my story is helping others. I now have a 4 year old son and 2 month old daughter. My son in heaven will be 5 this November 💙 if your grieving the loss of a child trust the process you will make it through.
I am so sorry you lost your child but I am also glad you gained a child.
Blessings to you 🙏🏾
Thank God
I’m sorry and happy u think this way. Congrats on your blessings
Wow, the fact that I experienced the same thing last year.. only I haven’t conceived another baby yet but losing a son at 9months.. hugging a bear and pretending it’s him.. it was especially hard when his first birthday came around last month.. but yea kidnapping a child is bizarre and unreal. I could/would never simply because I wouldn’t be able to live with the guilt of lying to the child every day.
The birth mom had to grieve her child twice. So sad.
keedinah right, I think the biological mother would have been better off not getting back in contact with her. I understand why she did, but it probably made her life worse with this outcome.
@@MsStarryNights Maybe she should have been trained how to handle this. The woman talks about Kimaya likes she's her property but not a functional human being with her own agency.
@@Starkardur Seems like the birth mom is just hurt. And she IS her child, that's something worth more than property. How do you train some1 for something like this. Do you hear yourself?
It's soooo unfair
She should not have dived head first in the relationship it was going to take the child sometime to herself and then they should have took baby steps.
It’s crazy how the biological mother even sounds like her daughter even though she didn’t raise her
Elijah Silva nature vs nurture
Genes
Genetics darlin
Elijah Silva genetics
She looks and talks just like her mother😍✨💜💖🌻💕
Her mother was 16 when her baby got kidnapped, then kamiyah was 16 when she found out she was kidnapped. Both of their lives forever changed and defined at 16.
Didn't think of this
could've just adopted instead of stealing someone else's child
Exactly
exactly someone like this wants someone to feel the pain THEY felt when they lost a child, or when they can’t have one
True. But you know how long it takes to adopt a kid?! You gotta fill out an application for adoption, then your application is processed, you and and friends and families are interviewed, then you and your spouse and family are run through a deep background checks for both criminal and mental health records, and then finally you have to have your approval signed off by a judge
@@danielhulse4076 Yeah that's because they want to make sure they're capable of taking care of a kid and won't use them to get checks from the government, still better than stealing a newborn.
True, but part of her motivations were to keep a man who didn’t want her. She had to make him believe it was his to keep him around.
EIGHT HOURS OLD she stole this woman’s baby. I’m so hurt and it’s not even my life.
Microphonechecka she thought it would be easier stealing it from a young mom nx
@@zanelemofikoe2374 that's just mess up the thinking bec she is young she won't be able to take care of the baby she is damn evil. I dnt know how she slept at night and go to church acting all holy knowing what she did smh. If kamiyah didn't need social security number to get a job kamiyah would not be found bec she wouldn't say anything just that she caught now she acting like she is sorry smh I dnt like kidnappers
I watched this young girl show her ass on Iyanla Saturday. I understand she has to be confused; however, the rage that she directed towards Iyanla Vanzant was disrespectful, and totally out of control. She really needs HELP.
Her life stopped at that point. It’s not fair.
@@belindabillingsley1719 she has all that rage pent up inside her she is taking it out on the wrong person when she should go take it out on Gloria bec she is the one who cause all this mess.
This is still so sad because a mother lost her child..... and even though she's found she's still lost......
Livia E out of all of these comments yours a real gem you took the words right out my mouth
You said a mouth full sis 🙌🏽
So true
she also had a dad& his family; that was fighting custody. He also lost a daughter but wears a tattoo of the little girl ; that was not his. Gloria used that little girl as a weapon on that man
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When she has her own children she will definitely understand the feelings her biological parents feel. 💜
she will understand but it wont change the love she has for her fake mom
Maybe
I’m sure she understands now but that doesn’t erase the live she has for the woman who was supposed to be her mom ? What’s wrong with you ppl ..
It won’t change her stance those memories were very real the love real. Everyone in the situation has to step out of their own shoes. She’ll never full comprehend the feeling of losing a child until you lose one
Yup. I agree
That’s so bold to decide to steal someone else’s baby 😭. The mother lost everything that had to do with raising and watching her child grow
I feel like she bonded with her dad so easily because it was something she was missing. But her real mother reminds her of the mother she lost and can’t let go.
that too...she never had a dad!? That's really sad so I'm glad she can have one now...especially that her parents were cery excited about starting a family and taking care of each other...I can only imagine how much pain it caused in their relationship as well..
Nailed it
I feel she bond with the dad bec he probly dnt put no immense pressure on her and just let her be if u look back on iyalana it's like he is afraid to lose her again so he just let her lash out and be disrespectful. Plus the
Dad won't feel the same pain as the birth mom either. Men n women deal with emotions differently
Nikki Powell she bonds with her dad because she never had a daddy. This woman is so disrespectful I say woman because she’s almost 21 she’s a woman not a girl.. The fake mom wasn’t strict with her, never taught her any manners and treated her as a friend because that’s what it was for her. She didn’t see her as her child.
the real mother is not as grateful to have her kid returned. As the Dade She is holding on and wrapped up in her pain of lost...and even with the child back...still holding on to angrish instead of focusing on how to slowly and lovely reunite with her kid. That mother is selfish.
Gloria Williams is a monster. How dare you take someone's baby.
Yea it is horrible and she stole her because she had a miscarriage which is very sad but what I don’t get is if u know what it is to lose a child why put someone else through that same thing
@@justplainweird2727 because she was selfish. She didnt care about anyone else besides herself
brenda suhey96 But her baby just died a miscarriage I think it’s sad but this is stupid
She’ was a monster to steal the baby .... but she took good care of the child ... you can’t forget that ,.
Yeah that's crazy that she stole that child. Gattdamn!! That was cold!! Imagine the first night trying to go to sleep knowing your child is gone/stolen. Smh.....
This is so sad! I feel so bad for the biological mother …. How cruel and evil do you have to be to steal someone else’s baby.
You would have to be a narcissist to be that evil 😈!
Satan comes to steal, kill, and destroy
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That's the only person I feel sorry for is the biological mother
This is so heartbreaking. I feel so sad for the biological mom.
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This child is so brain washed!! She doesn’t understand how her “mother” was completely insane and robbed the lady of her own damn child!!!
She not brainwashed. If somebody out of nowhere told you your mother is not yours, it takes time to process that and figure things out. Each person will not respond the same way.
@Sweet potato Pie She wasn't brainwashed...she was raised by this woman and she grew up knowing this woman as "Mom". The abductor lied and led her to believe that she was her mother.
It was terribly wrong what she did but there was no brain-washing involved, just deceit.
LaTia Jackson I agree 100%
Tony Black where is your brain, the true victim here is the DAUGHTER!
@Tony Black it's not really fair to place judgement on her when I'm sure you have no concept of her perspective. This is a crazy, crazy thing to be thrust into, and suddenly the women who raised you and loved you your whole life becomes the "villian". The daughter is a victim here as well, and she coped as well as she could I'm sure. We did hear her perspective of her bio mom, so it's not really fair to put that all on one person.
I feel sorry for the real parents. All the suffering they had to endure.
And still enduring
Her real mom doesn’t care, that lady that stole atleast took care of her
@@pretty896 Stop spewing trash
@@pretty896 at least took care of her? SHE STOLE HER! Maybe if the real mother was given a chance to actually raise her daughter things would be different. Of course shit is all fucked up now
@@pretty896 that is such an unfair statement. based on what do you say this?
WHEN she becomes a Mother she'll know how her REAL Mother feels.
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Facts
if* maybe she doesnt want kids
No she won't, she can never know that, EVER. Unless her child is stolen and given back at 18, she will never know, EVER. Tbh I don't want her to know, stop trying to punish her because she doesn't bond with her donor like she did her Mother. Let's be honest her Mother is Gloria and her biological is her donor. Gloria is her Mother. We always say I watch a dog give birth but that doesn't make her a Mother. A Mother is who cares and raises the child, therefore Gloria is her Mother.
When Kamiyah has her own child she will truly realize the love of motherhood
Yes and that’s when she will realize how nasty her kidnapper really is. I don’t care what nobody tell me, I’d be upset. But we all don’t react the same
@@eatwithego9131 Soo true!! I remember when this happened
I honestly feel like with the love she has for Gloria having a child would actually have the opposite effect. I feel like it would push her even closer to Gloria. Also Shanara has/had unrealistic expectations on Alexis/Kamiyah. She didn't seem to understand that she was a perfect stranger to Alexis/Kamiyah and that they weren't going to automatically have that mother daughter bond/closeness. Also that Alexis/Kamiyah may never have any hate or anger towards the woman that raised her.
Don’t she have 3? I thought I read that
When? Do you not mean If she will have?
Just imagine how many stories are out here like this that haven't been exposed.😞
Exactly
💯 SMDH
AllThat Glamour exactly!!! But it's just like any other thing. You can't possibly catch it all.
Yes such as mine. My baby was stolen too..
@@MelenaSoleil no it wasn't
I still get chills when she says “I am your mother Kamiyah”
Yess tear rolling down my eye now and to see how the lawyer sitting there with his head down is the cherry on top because he is feeling her pain too even though kamiyah is his client
@A A I agree but if she could, I'm sure she would. It just seems that she can't or maybe she tried and her efforts were met with fails. Maybe she tried the slow route.
Yes still get chills through my whole body that was just so deep and she made sure the whole room heard her..I just feel shanara's heart I just wish we could all give her a hug ..the movie and the interview after that kamiyah did had me in tears just had my heart broken into pieces💔😢💜💕💖✨🌹🌹🌻💎😇
Nicole i know right🤔 that chit does something to me.... it seems so sarcastic.. in such a situation..... maybe im taking it wrong... id think say it in a tone so pple can feel ur pain and want to help.... not in a sarcastic type way... but again we dont know nor cant imagine how deep this pain is and we dont know how tf we’d react!
Her biological mom has to feel like she’s crying out to her daughter but that her daughter that she carried and was stolen from her could not hear her. I pray she receives the peace, comfort, love, & support that she needs. And I pray that she and her daughter build a healthy mother and daughter relationship as she desires.
She can’t just stop loving the mom that raised her just like she can’t force the relationship with bio mom. It sucks but it is what it is.
She is a mess. I don't understand why this girl isn't in therapy.
I feel so bad for her REAL mother, that woman stole all her firsts with her daughter, 1st steps, 1st word, 1st tooth everything
Right
Truly sad
Kimiyah is my cousin blood or not. Ik she’s not her real mom but she was still a good mom.
@@Supade.editorrrr that lady took someone else’s child, she had to be really low for that.
@@Supade.editorrrr idc IF she was a good mom she’s a ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE person at heart to ever even THINK about ripping someone else’s child away from them for 18 years
I feel so bad for the real mother. That girl not gonna understand how her mother feel till she has a child of her own.
I don’t have any children but I can feel the pain smh this is sick
@@ebonymay7906 ikr
Yes, Kamiya has to grow a little more to be able to put this entire LIE -this Debacle in perspective and see how selfish and criminal her abductor is.. regardless of “how well she treated her”! God bless this family
@@deeone5769 No matter how much she "grows", it will never change the fact that Gloria played the role of a loving mother. Deep down Kamiyah will always have that love for her.
Very true.
Honestly there is nothing the biological mothercan do other than accept the fact her daughter will forever love her abductor. As hard as it seems she must find the strength to accept this reality because the daughter will not stop loving the woman who raised her. The daughter wants both families to be happy and that is all that can be done at this moment. I pray both families come into terms and the mother heals her pain in time. As a parent I would just be grateful to God that I have finally found my daughter alive and well taken care of.
She need a build a relationship with the girl.
When u say we’ll taken care of you are saying well brain washed cause God Doesn’t Approve kidnapping honey that woman belongs in hell
You nailed it. Seems as if she was well raised, and loved deeply. Yk, "everything happens for a reason"....ijs
Eggsactly. "Well raised". Gona call a duck, a duck. The biological parents look ratchet. 🤷🏾♂️
I feel bad for her biological mother. May God make the love between Kamaya and her biological mother strong.
She need to have more sympathy for her biological mother. Smh. That’s so annoying.
shes very strong willed and doesn't like being forced to give up the only mother shes ever known . shes doing the best she can . knowing this child personally , shes a great smart young lady
Prolific I feel like they both need sympathy for each other and see it from the other persons side. The mother doesn’t realize Gloria is all kamiyah knows so erasing that isn’t going to be an overnight process
I said the same thing @Prolific, she acts like her mother is supposed to except her calling that bum bitch her mother that really hurts her I feel the mother's pain I can just imagine how she felt when she found out that winch stole her baby it probably took her years for her heart to stop hurting
You cant force this young woman to get over "Gloria" and accept her biological mother. That's all she knows. All she knows is Gloria. It's not like she's not acknowledging her biological mother, but all she knows is the life she live. Yeah she was wrong for taking another person's child.
She can at least be respectful of the fact that her mother has been through hell. Yes it’s traumatic to find out you’ve been kidnapped. But that poor mother.
not only has she ruined that poor girl's life but also her parents and her own man who for 18 years thought she was his daughter. her kidnapper has ruined multiple lives
I just hope the man wasn't paying Gloria child support because then he is really a victim too
The "father" didn't seem the type to pay child support. Doubtful.
@@kitchin666 He was paying child support
@@kitchin666 He was. I saw this story on the episode For My Man and though they had separated, they were working as co-parents and he was providing support. He didn't even know the truth until the day that Gloria was arrested
Ciera Bergman from what was told. He paid child support for Kamiyah
She was so rude and very disrespectful on iylania’s show
She was, but she felt trapped with no voice in what was happening. No one told her she would be spending the night at that house. Iyanla went too far. If kamiyah was calm she would not have gotten out of that house. I love Iyanla but she makes mistakes. And makes a lot of assumptions.
She was! Called Iyanla more than 10x a Bitch. Let me talk to my mom like that or any one period. Kamiyah would be missing again. So disrespectful
She was and Iyanla recognized the words were coming from deeper emotions...her "mother" raised a very disrespectful person
I think Iyanla should tell people her plans before she just starts the exercise.. like this is a kidnapping victim.. you can’t just keep them without them knowing.. even though she allegedly had a fairly decent life, that’s still probably a triggering feeling
I mean she was but i understand because she is just confused i couldn't imagine someone telling me my mom is not my real mom
That is extremely cruel to do to someone. I can’t imagine what the mother went through so soon after giving birth
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I feel bad for the biological mother. She is still that 16 year old mother in a grown woman’s body.
Sylvia Minnifield when you experience trauma to that depth, mentally you get stuck at that point. I pray she eventually gets it.
Yes...exactly what my thoughts were.
@@shebadaboss 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊right
Yup. The daughter is willing. Its the mother that has to heal.
Yes. You can hear it.
She cause permanently damage to a a family, it’s really unforgivable.
DeeRayOfSunshine
Yesssssss!! permanent damage!!
Nothing is unforgivable sis. If God can forgive us every moment,what more of us
Quin Bokwe1 literally shut up. she kidnapped someones BABY
Ceren b 😂😂😂like frl
So surely you haven't forgiven
Europe for kidnapping your
ancestors and rearing them up
totally opposite of Gloria Williams
kidnapped child. Black people in
America is psychologically
damaged by some kidnappers that
never had any good intentions!!!!
I feel for the birth mother who for 18yrs dreamt of finding her missing daughter only to be rejected by her in the end. The kidnapper really established herself as her mother and as such, she is all this poor girl knows and loves. This girl won't ever know what her birth mother is going through until she becomes a mother herself. She will be singing a different a tune. I have no doubt.
It's completely different to not hate someone for affecting your life so drastically & to act as if the effect of that person's actions weren't immoral, illegal & downright unnatural. It's as if she has completely disassociated from reality. That is a dangerous place to be emotionally.
After the way Kamiah behaved on "fix my life" I can never look at her the same. The only person I truly feel sorry for is her biological mom
M D watching her interview now she seems like she is in a much better place.
@@Blackskye211 I hope she is. Buff watching this new interview, I could only think that she's behaving better is because she's in control. She probably only agreed to do the interview if they referred to Gloria as her mother.
This just happened two years ago. She is a child mentally still , going through a lot psychologically, I see why she more connected to her mom because she’s all she knows and that’s her safe scape.
She was going through a lot
you cant judge someone who has been through what she has been through. her issue was with iyanla and it's obvious because alexis/kamiyah hasn't had an issue with any other person interviewing her and she is a happy and mature young woman, BUT she ha djust found out she had been kidnapped and iyanla tells her she has to stay in a room and tells her famiyl to leave and not answer her calls? she was forcing her into isolation and she didn't want that of course she reacted now she shouldn;t have reacted how she did it was pretty bad but she was backed into a corner kind of
This mother got robbed of her daughter TWICE. That’s tragic
I'm a 62 years old and I still cry about my mother because that's something that everybody would love to know is their mother I appreciate you sharing this
How can anyone have a hard time grasping that she still loves her "mother"?! That was her mom for all these years, the only mother she ever knew! Just imagine if you found out the mother you've loved your whole life wasn't you mother, would you stop loving her immediately and go running into the arms of complete strangers!? Of course you wouldn't! No one would who had a loving mother which Gloria obviously was, but I also understand her real parents, the pain on both sides must just be fucking awful! Kamiyah's real mother should try to understand her daughters side and not expect her to just drop the love she has for Gloria, even though it must be absolutely heartbreaking for her to accept.
The fact that she still loves her kidnapper isn’t the issue. It’s the fact that she still loves her kidnapper while showing no compassion or sympathy to her parents. It’s weird
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@@alyssaoliver2135 she’s a child.
@@bigtimecena3676 Teen not a toddler.
Biological mother has every right to hate on kidnapper of her baby!! Stop acting like she is in the wrong !
My heart still breaks for her biological mother
jojo2times facts bro, like no one gaf about how the dad felt
@@kobesan42 they do but he has a relationship with his child. The mother doesn't
Yes indeed my Lord! Her heart had been ripped from her chest... twice! ...because when she thought she got her child back, she had to learn once again, that her child did not return to her, although she stood right in front of her. So close she could touch her; yet so far, she'd never reach her.
@@kobesan42 That's true. We do forget. I'm guilty of that. He copes a lot better than the mother I guess that's why. She can't even accept interviews so I guess we sympathize with her more, not intentionally dismissing the father's grief as well.
@Bats How?
I can’t imagine not knowing what my baby is going through or who she’s with for 18 years. This poor woman was probably being tortured in her mind. :(
Absolutely. She’s traumatized & the parents want their child to be upset with her bc she was stolen from them which caused them great pains but she can’t to much bc she only knew of the decent life she lived and their bond. She didn’t live the trauma her parents experienced. She just now knows that she’s lived a lie being told she was one person when she wasn’t and being told her family was who they weren’t. Her kidnapper will pay for the pain she’s caused.
I just wish the daughter could see her mother’s perspective too. I get she raised you but to the mom this lady was her worst nightmare. I feel so extremely sorry for her mother! Maybe in time the daughter will show a little more consideration for her moms view of things and they can bond. Like she seems to be able to do with her father.
kimberly dobson i truly hope that’s true and she pays for it. I believe in karma but how long? Her poor mother has lived in hell for so long missing her baby and this Gloria women STILL has her around her finger. Smh. I hope the kidnapper never gets outta jail. Nothing would be enough
This story breaks my heart because I can feel the pain from the birth parents that their child was stolen and raised by a stranger who she calls mom.
Her response to the question at 7:26 really resonates with something I've been facing myself. She's a strong young woman in a very difficult situation. I hope that she has a wonderful life, she deserves it.
I honestly understand why she has forgiven Gloria, she’s the only mother she has ever known.
Madison Griffin I agree, I put myself in her shoes and if my
Mom (my mother and I are VERY close but we still have our own secrets) told me
This, I mean she’s my mom.... i would want to be like “no, don’t tell me that.....”
But I am also a mother and I feel for the birth mother, I would feel dead inside.
It was probably the worse case of unintentional manipulation. Gloria probably really and truly loved her as her own child. This wasn't a case of kidnapping that resulted in abuse or where the child knew she was kidnapped. Kamiyah had the best love and family around her so that family bond is with the Williams family and unfortunately her birth mother is still a stranger.........who might be speaking badly about Gloria which probably hurts Kamiyah smh
But Gloria is a kidnapper
@@kitt7531 Agreed but she manipulated Kamiyah so she unfortunately probably sees her real mother as the "enemy" for being resentful instead of seeing Gloria as a criminal who kidnapped her. There's an interview with her mom where apparently the JUDGE is allowing Gloria to still contact Kamiyah!!! smh It's a sad story.......
Exactly ! If I found out my mother stole me at this very moment I wouldn't be angry with her not even a little because she's the only mother I ever knew people are quick to judge before putting themselves in someone else's shoes
She's not a robot. She can't just shut off her emotions. She legit thought that was her Mom. I get it. I also understand her biological Mom's reaction. She probably has played a fantasy in her mind every day of how the reunion would be, and sadly it hasn't gone that way. It has to be frustrating
Exactly. These people expect her to just turn her back on the woman who loved and raised her from BIRTH and run into the arms of a total stranger. Yeah thats her birth mom but she is still a stranger.
@@SF-sl7fi I would have so much hatred for her fake momma!!! To know she told her but continued living their life to the fullest and the only reason it ever came out was because of the friend telling law enforcement
Could you imagine someone telling you right now that your mother kidnapped you? I would be confused but I’m not giving up my mom
Indeed. That's why people need to stop calling it Stockholm'ss Syndrome, because it's not. Alexis was raised by Gloria since she was 8 hours old. She wasn't a toddler who was cognizant that she was being taken away from her mother. She wasn't held captive. She was loved and spoiled by a woman she called "mom."
People don’t understand kids love their parents unconditionally too…idc if they are crack heads abusive alcoholics we never stop loving our parents just as our parents should NEVER ever stop loving us as their kids
I’m praying for the birth mother! I feel the most sorrow for her.
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In the end the kidnapper gets what she wants she gets to keep her child Bc “Alexis” still loves her kidnapper. Smh I feel so so bad for her parents
She had a relationship with her dad though. The biological mother just needs to understand that the mother /daughter relationship is going to take time. She doesn’t know her. The person she knew as mom is gone.She is hurting too
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I agree but Kamiyah won't understand her biological mothers pain until she herself becomes a mom. Then it will sink in a little. All she's thinking now is well my life wasn't bad I was loved. She can't see past that.
The fact that she came and took her out of her mothers arms KNOWING she wasnt bringing her back is bone chilling!! As a mother I could never forgive that kind of evil!
The way the girl talks is low-key annoying to me.
Jonathan Cineus Did you see her on Iyanla fix my life. I understand her frustrations but this child is blatantly disrespectful.
Right it really is
Oeurf
Right.... She does not speak properly. Very immature, street talk but she thinks she is alright! She doesn't realize the in depth of the truth. It sad and i cant stop crying bcz that selfish lady hurt everyone for her selfish emotional unbalanced mental state. No excuses. Lock her ass up 4 LIFE! She ruined everybody's life here. And for the young lady.... She shouldn't have NO contact w this monster!
Jonathan Cineus I like her voice. It’s interesting
It's so weird to think that people can't understand that this young woman who was abducted was raised by this woman who cared for her and loved her. She built a relationship with this woman, and it makes sense that she would still want to maintain that if she was treated well. Yes, Gloria did a bad thing, and I can understand why the real mother would feel that negativity.
You guys don't understand she knows nothing but her kidnapper she can only process so much her real mother will understand if she really loves her
Thank u very much that's the same thing am saying am not saying she supposed to be rude but they need to get the big picture the girl is damaged
Nah y’all don’t get to act like the mother has absolutely no reason to be upset, you sound stupid
She tried to fix her relationship by stealing a baby, truly despicable!
What's sad is, most of these women on crime shows like, "For My Man" and "Snapped" they did it to keep or get the man.
And it still failed anyway
@@blessed4596 right. I actually feel like this could have turned ugly quickly if Alexis/Kamiyah had of reacted differently when she found out. Gloria lacks empathy, even after getting caught, who knows what she was capable of doing.
minions arent hapy
What she did was selfish and evil. This is why my dad went with the nurses everywhere with my bro and I. Can’t trust these people. She’s crazy
Bria Barrows thanks you for sharing that, I have a little one on the way and I didn’t even think that was allowed for me to do. Now that you said your pops did it then hell on every nurse like a hawk 😂😂
@@bamaspeed2057 Yes! So creepy. They can get their shots at the bedside in your room.
@@msch3891 they don't get shots when they are first born. You have to make an appointment at your pediatrician for them.
@Crystal Right. I'm going to keep that in mind when I have a baby.
Yes! My baby had to be rushed away hubby left me and followed my daughter and he brought her to me. He wasn't having that, trust no one.
Her personality is so bomb! Love it! Praying for her mommy & the connection between the two; I couldn’t imagine!🙏🏽
Yes her personality 🔥 ❤
This young lady needs some serious counseling ! My heart goes out to the biological mother 🙏🏾
Why? Being with the other woman is all she has known for damn near all her life… Gloria is the only person she has ever known as her ‘’mother” so you can’t just break that bond, just like you can’t force a bond with her and her bio mom either
Yes she's hurting as well
Yes and prayer
Kimiya is a child, who really needs counseling.
So factzzzzz
Who you to recommend another person needs counseling? She just need time to bond.
Conscious Wright can you really blame her? That was basically her mom. You think you would be quick to adapt to this kind of change?
Donnell Evans um she’s going through some traumatic things. EVERYONE can benefit from counseling, no matter the situation
Doesn't mean she needs it
That ponytail that gloria had has me dead 💀💀💀💀
Man that's that real struggle ponytail
QUEEN LIBRA 😂😂💀 fr
I am actually at this scene right now 😂😂
That's that I don't got no hair pony tail 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
It's sad she doesn't seem to have compassion for her birth mother's experience. Yes the only mother she's known was good to her but until she has a child of her own she'll never be able to comprehend the pain and hurt her biological mother experienced having her baby ripped away. To see her child loving a person that stole her away must be devastating. I pray for healing for them all and that Kamiyah tries to put herself in the shoes of her biological mother the same way she does for the mother that raised her. I hope she atleast tries to build a relationship with her biological mom.
@Ashley Walker that’s horrible let someone steal your baby then tell you that ish 20 years later she’s being ignorant to her bio mom period
I think from the movie I saw she did end up having a baby herself
She don't lack compassion for her biological mother. It take time to build a relationship with a parent hadn't really known for years. Life don't just work like in a snap of a finger. As much ad she missed her child; she should also be considerate and let her child process everything in her own way.
I think she was very rude to her real mom. I feel so sad for her parents.
@@kiarathomas3274
Time has nothing to do with compassion You can have compassion for a person you've never even met.
I CANNOT imaging the pain the true mother must felt. Wow. My child is NOT leaving the room with anyone. My baby will ALWAYS be with me .
*I hate this story so much. Justice was 🗣️NOT SERVED.*
I agree.
@@tajam4769 me too !!
Jessica Beee how was JusticeJustice not served she’s in prison isn’t she what do you want the death penalty?
Jessica Beee She’s locked up , Justice was served.
@@leopardking2099 You're being VERY dramatic sir. Justice wasn't served because there is so much pain from all ends. This young lady has an identity crisis, the biological mom is hurt bc her daughter doesn't recognize her as her mom, the baby snatcher is paved as this model citizen but did some sick shit. I mean shall I go on? TF you mean death penalty smart ass?
I totally understand why Kamiyah loves Gloria. That’s the woman who raised her and loves her. She can’t help her feelings. I feel bad for her real mom and dad and I hate that Kamiyah is caught in the middle. What Gloria did was awful!
Gloria is a low down dirty stinking Thief , it takes a horrible person to do that to another person to take their baby that they just had, think about it, she's a horrible!!!! person, and didn't have a bad conscience about it cuz if she did she would have given her back smmfh
Pacific Ocean You can think what you want about Gloria! It’ll never change how Kamiyah feels! 🤷🏾♀️ Until you’ve experienced it, you’ll never know.
I agree with you actually, I understand that’s her biological mother but she grew to love the woman who took her.
I can also understand her being more close to Gloria instead of her real mother. She formed a bond with the other lady. Only time will tell how the relationship will be with her real mother. IT was also not fair to have her case and therapy aired on TV. She needs time to process everything that happened to her. It's a great deal of her lifetime that we are talking about...These kind of things just have to take time.
Just like the Carlina white story… at the end joy white said “for the past 23 years I’ve talked to you and dreamed about you, but you are just finding out about me”
I bet that is exactly how this girl feels. She grew up with someone else it’s not her fault she has these feelings. I’m sure it’s hard to grasp that you were kidnapped when you didn’t even know you were stolen as an infant. I pray they build a strong relationship over time 💕
She is absolutely beautiful and I love her when she says earff!!!
When she has a child of her own she will then understand what her real parents went through.
The birth mother was robbed of time and memories she will not get back.
imhereforit huntie shut the FUCK up damn!
And The Daughter
The actresses did play those rolls well. Very good appearance in the film. This story is where her family she had to get to know, the need patience with her. They can't expect her to just up and feel like they do. They knew she exists all of her life... She is just now finding out she lived in a simulation all of her life not knowing it wasn't her real life. So you have to let her embrace who she thought she was and then learn who she is supposed to be. She can remember who she thought she was but be who she know she is today. She doesn't have to give up her memories for who she was told she was. This will be with her way heavier than finding out about the whole thing that actually happened this didn't just happen to her parents this happened to her too. They had her in her heart this whole time. Just because you had to learn about the maternal part it doesn't mean she has to accept it. That's the sad part because it was taken away from her. The kidnapper need to give her peace and tell her she was wrong.
This is the lady that raised her. This is the same emotions that these children and mothers have that has been in this situation. Strong support and counseling is needed. God bless them all
She won't understand until she becomes a mother.
D B right?
what if she adopts? then she is still a mother and would still feel empathy towards gloria. There is a difference alexis grew up in a middle class home instead of an underage mother, of course she would prefer growing up in a middle class home.
D B Best comment ever! That’s how it will happen “bless of thé
D B I agree it soooo true
Kathryn Quintin Gloria stole her. She isn’t a mother. It doesn’t matter if Alexis had a better life with Gloria, she is not the Alexis’ mother biologically or legally. She literally robbed someone else’s chance to be a parent. If Alexis had a child and god forbid if that child was taken from her, she would be in the same position as her real mother.
When Kamiya has her own child maybe then she will understand how her real mother feels.
There is no bond. When she has a child key word; her child of her own. No one wins pain all over.
No she wont
Yup
Yes
I know what Gloria did was wrong but the way her biological mother came at her was all wrong. Like give the girl some time. Don’t just expect her to cut out the only person she knows as her mom. Maybe that’s why she connected with her dad so well, because he didn’t force it as much
Kam, you are an amazing girl! Love and peace positive vibes sent!
She doesn’t let her bio mom in.. thats sucks..
Can you blame her?
I mean I can understand just because she was a biological parent she’s a stranger in her eyes, she’s never met this woman and she really has nothing to do with her upbringing besides having her. Her biological mom is like a surrogate to her or an adoptive parent and I’m sure she feels strange being around her as she’s kinda being forced to know a woman she’s never met.
She Let Her Biological Mother In. Her Biological Mother Cursed Her Out & Refused To Talk To Her Because She Still Calls Her Kidnapper Mom. Both Sides Are Understandable But Whether The Girl’s Biological Mother Likes It Or Not, The Kidnapper Unfortunately Raised Her For 18+ Years So She Cant Get Pissed Off At Her Daughter For Having A Relationship With Her Kidnapper Who She Knew As Her Mom For All These Years
@@Jstreet410, exactly!!!
THAT'S what people don't seem to understand!! It's so unfortunate...
Everyone keeps saying Kamiyah is so disrespectful, but haven't walked in her shoes.
Lucia Garcia she has tried. Unfortunately the bio mom wil not see things from her perspective and understand that she cannot help but consider Gloria her mother
Good, she is pretty calm here, she wasn’t like this on Iyanla.
Right?!?! I said the same thing but you can tell she has matured alot since then
that was the beginning im sure she didnt know what to think or how to feel about her parents
No one is telling her how to feel here or force her to feel a certain way.
LOL 😂😂
Iyanla is toxic....
This is so sad. I couldn't imagine my child being taken 😭. I love my son with all of me OMG I can't even fathom him being stolen. Her mom is still hurt because she can't get any love from her. I hope that they have a better relationship now.
I'm just now seeing this story and I have to say this young Lady has truly cleaned my soul. Sweet lady you ate an angel. God will smile upon you. Forgiveness is the hardest part of being human and you know God's will was done when you said there was nothing to forgive. Sweet child, you have two mothers who love you completely.
Her voice makes my ears hurt
Same. Didn’t expect her to sound like that
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same...
Iammennii
So annoying though
Her voice bo disrespect but its really bad wow annoying. I feel bad for her future husband.
As a mother, I would have been so brokenhearted if my son had been taken from me. I would have been inconsolable!
This is a. Bad situation. But I’d welcome Gloria in my home as I love my kids unconditionally. That child loves Gloria I’d have. Thanks the heavens I got my child back and not a body bag.
@@Star-dn3bq gloria is the one who took her baby, you would welcome the one who kidnapped your newborn baby?
@@happynoodle9239 Yes because clearly my child would love Gloria and rightfully so! Now I probably wouldn't invite her to the cookout lol, but I wouldn't pressure my child to cut ties or erase her memories because that is completely selfish and sick. I would never put more trauma on my child just to heal my own trauma! I would seek therapy and learn to accept that my child had a whooole life before she reunited with me.
Thank God the lady took care of her
She was 15 years old she didn't need a baby!! The woman did a did a fabulous job raising that girl..and truly I think that how the girl feels too.. She took one like a crack head and said thank god for taking me...
I feel so badly for her biological mom, she was robbed of her time with her child and will never get that back. She will never see her as her mom because the criminal is her mom. That's so sad. It's heartbreaking just to think about it, almost as if you have to mourn that child while she is right in front of you.
Well, she might eventually love her mom, but is it gonna take time if she does and she might eventually consider her her family but you got understand it’s gonna take time if she does and you people are gonna say that’s hard to do when they realize she is a stranger to her and it’s sad because I do feel bad for that mother because basically, it’s almost like her child died a long time ago and I said to say that’s basically what happened. Her child is like a child Died but she can’t force a relationship with her they both I’ve had any therapy I think they all need therapy to deal with it.
They all definitely need ongoing therapy and spiritual guidance. To try and heal, and teach some of the compassions, love that comes naturally with most mothers and daughters. They all have trauma but different traumas-ITS ALOT to overcome and if therapy isn’t apart of the healing--the situation will get worse
@@tammiepage6489 yes this situation is just unbelievably difficult. I cannot even imagine what they are all dealing with. I’m just hoping they all find their way back to each other.
@@robinjohnson3365 yes so much to deal with.
Y'all cannot be mad at a child for being emotionally connected to the only mother shes ever known. It's definently painful and annoying that she didn't really embrace her bio mom but I honestly felt that she was just trying to "ignore it and make it go away". I couldn't imagine being in her shoes, this entire thing is like a nightmare.
@Black 716 no u
@@tytyr2576 nice
@@universecubed8221 ikr
Poor girl, the story is really touching...
I believe when the daughter gets pregnant or after she has a child she’ll understand just exactly how disgusting, disturbing & just evil that woman is for stealing another woman’s child and not only that but then to have said child defend the woman who destroyed a piece of your heart/ caused so much pain for 18 years. I couldn’t imagine the pain and so many feelings the mother has. I wish them nothing but the best bc when I first heard she was found she didn’t want anything to do with her real mother/family so at least she’s getting to know them now that gave me hope for them. I wish she was found before she was 18 so that she would’ve lived with them & got to know them before she became an adult. Nothing really surprises me any more in this world but how woman can do this to another woman after going through loss & grief herself is still shocking to me but then again I’m an empath & always think about how I effect others. Stay safe everyone. Keep your family close & tell them you love them as much as you can 🫂🩷🩵💞
Stop saying that she will never love her first mother because Gloria is her mother you people said that same thing about Carolina White when she was found and yet she shunned her entire family but she has a daughter and that still didn't stop her from loving Anne. Her entire life was taken from her, she's not just gonna up and love Shanara instantly or when she's a mom herself that's not how it works.
Why would you be wishing bad for the victim’s future kids. None of this is her fault and can she choose to love who she wants. The bio mom was a young crackhead looking teenage..her dad looks like that in the present day. Who knows what kind of life she wouldve had with them. Kids aren’t for children & teenagers to raise. I would feel differently if this happened a more mature female/woman.
Imagine finding out one day your entire life was built on a lie. Honestly this is something that Kamiyah will never really heal from but just learn to cope with. This is not a simple case of just turning your feelings or emotions off. This is something that will take years for her to build a true bond and connection with her biological family.
True! I believe what you are saying!
I’ve been through similar but I was legally adopted! I found out I was adopted at the age of 11 and my life changed completely. I was angry bc I felt like I had been living a lie thinking these ppl were my biological family and they weren’t. My grades dropped tremendously and I was very angry with my biological mother for giving me up for adoption and I held a grudge against her for that and I had a mean attitude. So mean that ppl in our local church knew to be cautious before approaching me any kind of way🔥. I had to heal and grow out of that and I did. But I still face abandonment issues today at the age of 32. It’s not an overnight process.
kimberly dobson Thanks for sharing Kimberly. I’m glad that your are healing!
EXACTLY!
Exactly
I don’t give a damn, how can u steal another’s baby.. that’s just plain evil
Cmnsmoove yes
Agreed
People should stop telling Kamiyah how to feel. She was a child and feels personally that her fake mother raised her like a real one. Had the kidnapping never happened and she’d lived with her bio mother, they’d likely have a different relationship. I feel for everyone involved here, even if there’s no excuse for kidnapping a baby.
I feel horrible for Shanara. She was dealt a really hard life. It's like she was sentenced to a lifetime of mourning and pain 😔 her and her daughters relationship will never be as close as if she raised her ....
never forget how disrespectful she was to Iyanla.
she has a young mind, time will heal her
@@rain0069 kidnapper should've raised her to respect her elders.
@@creditrepairgoddessllc4139 she didn't care about that child just needed the company
Shahaad East I cant even look at that girl. She was way too disrespectful
@@CallmeQuayZ she was nasty that's probably why her voice is shot, it's normal for her
Until she's a mother herself, she’ll never understand
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MissNancyLondon or she might not want to be a mother which is understanding
Yes exactly what I s said
Fucking facts from the two pink lines to the cut of the cord plus I kinda think kamya is not mentally ok idk I am sure phyc has been done but if u don’t get it like somethings not there and a doctor should be working with her to help her live her best life but Gloria needs to be cut out there should have been a no contact order given there’s no reason that there should not have been who cares what kamya wanted or wants it’s what’s best now for her and I hope she’s working closely with a team I truly do cuz she’s not ok if she think ma this is chill .
Sooooo true
Wow I don’t know how I would process this but she’s very enthusiastic and kept a great attitude. Very strong
She literally took this lady baby out her hands and that is totally insane behavior Idc if she did raise her like her own IT WAS NOT HER BABY
The tone of her voice is so similar to her biological mother.
ikr!
True
I agree she sounds like her biological mother.
They both look alike as well. She has both from her biological mother and father, which she don’t look nothing like her abductor.
I noticed this too
Can’t blame her for calling Gloria mom still. That woman raised her, that’s all she knew her whole life. Gonna take years to build a new life with her bio family.
Right exactly and people saying she's wrong you have to understand that's all she's known all her life and if any of us were in the same position people would understand better..gloria is where all of her memories are at and if she gives Gloria up then she's giving up her childhood memories Gloria and her family are the ones that raised her and know her if they want to know everything about kamiyah they have to go to Gloria's family but they have so much anger that is understandable because anyone would be angry but you have to put that to the side if they want to get to know kamiyah and the 18 yrs that they unfortunately sadly last she knows everything about kamiyah the only thing her bio mom did was spend 9months with kamiyah then she was stolen for 18yrs in such a evil way sadly💔😢
I’d immediately stop calling that woman mom. That woman has manipulated and used that girl for her own selfish needs. People need to really understand what love is. Glory didn’t love that girl one bit she loved her selfish need of her.
But it's not fair 2 punish the mother though
I totally agree because that’s all this girl knows and in time she will realize what she wants and it’s truly her choice.
@@Kikitil Its called Stockholm Syndrome. It's a psychological disorder that arises when people bond with their kidnappers. It's not that easy for them to immediately stop calling the person that housed, bathed, clothed, fed, financially and emotionally nurtured them. Shes never going to be able to give up those memories and it's wrong for anyone to believe that psychological disorders are that simple.
I was reading over the comments. Smh. It's natural for her to have a bond with the lady who kidnapped her as a child. Imagine 18 years later somebody tell you your mother isn't your mother ? this is the person you called mom and who was there. The biological mother is upset and I understand but put yourself in her place. This story is super sad. At least both families love that young lady.
This is so bad..😭💔 someone stole your 9 months struggle...stole your labour pains and more heartbreaking she stole the real mom's heart😭💔 i cannot honestly 💔
The one thing that I don’t understand is how nobody she knew saw the news and didn’t realize that sketch was her
That is so true!
Like even the "grandmother" who said one day her daughter had a random baby.
Right like this lady worked at the hospital they should have found her 2 days later wtf
Because she ran away to a different state. This was also before technology was as advanced as it is to this day. Cameras were poor in ‘98
or realized the birthday
It's so sad when lives are destroyed over tryin' to hold on to a man!! Pathetic....😑
So true. The opposite of this are the women who allow that man to do whatever he wants to her child. Sickness.
@intriguing Woman Do a Google search before you come here with that nonsense.
My biological mom treats me so bad. If i found out that she really wasn't my mom I'd be relieved. Sad but true.
I am sorry!!
We're in the same boat! I would probably click my heels in the air if the woman who gave me life wasn't my biological mother.
i remember this story like it was yesterday🥺 i literally understand both sides!