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  • A patient who has a condition called genetic mosaicism or both male and female DNA is finally told by the Boy's parents with pressure from Thirteen.
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    Season 5 Episode 16 "The Softer Side"
    The team encounters a teenage boy (Dominic Scott Kay) who collapsed from severe pelvic pain after playing basketball. The boy was born with a condition called genetic mosaicism (46, XX/XY), or both male and female DNA, and the boy's parents inform House and the team that the boy is unaware of his condition. They chose a gender for him when he was born and raised him accordingly. However, when his condition worsens and his life is threatened, the parents wonder whether they made the right decision. Meanwhile, Cuddy and Wilson suspect something is wrong with House when he starts acting way too nice.
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Комментарии • 2,1 тыс.

  • @Nakima666
    @Nakima666 5 лет назад +15880

    What the mom is saying: He's not ready for this.
    What the mom is really thinking: I'm not ready for this.

    • @infinitesauce8206
      @infinitesauce8206 5 лет назад +87

      yeaah...

    • @mackansw
      @mackansw 5 лет назад +80

      EXACTLY!

    • @marlonrando9272
      @marlonrando9272 5 лет назад +37

      Yes. Very good.

    • @gabrielgzz7585
      @gabrielgzz7585 5 лет назад +81

      You could also see it like this... the doctor robbed the family of the chance of sitting down with his son and properly talking to him about his condition when he’s a bit older and able to understand properly what is happening. The doctor disregarded the mother’s wishes which is a offense to her profession, it’s not right no matter what she might feel the parents know the child better than her and have their reasons

    • @Nakima666
      @Nakima666 5 лет назад +270

      @@gabrielgzz7585 I never said that the doctor was in the right for telling them, though. The problem is that the kid could tell that something was going on, and the parents weren't doing anything to help that process because they themselves were too scared/ashamed. A kid needs their parents most when something goes wrong, but these parents weren't stepping up and being there for their kid. The mom should be angry for the doctor saying something, yes, but she could also be freaking out because now she actually has to do something about her kid rather than pretending that everything is okay. It's a complex issue, sure, but actually acknowledging the problem is the first step in getting anything resolved. The parents weren't even doing that.
      Keep in mind that the parents' attitude about their kid almost killed him.

  • @lachlanroche1373
    @lachlanroche1373 5 лет назад +1962

    I love how House is always the one to walk in the room, tell everyone they’re dumb. Explains what the problem and it’s okay and walks out again

    • @StCreed
      @StCreed 5 лет назад +55

      I worked with someone like that. If they're not a sociopath that's great - you can learn a lot from someone like that.

    • @largol33t1
      @largol33t1 2 года назад +14

      House probably invented the mic drop!

    • @feyyazkasl8640
      @feyyazkasl8640 2 года назад +3

      @@StCreed i literally think that All the time

    • @fenixchief7
      @fenixchief7 2 года назад +3

      @@largol33t1 more of a cane drop but yes.

    • @sebastianrussso6958
      @sebastianrussso6958 Год назад +19

      -Enters the room
      -Calls everyone a blittering idiot
      -Proceeds to explain in great detail why everyone is a blittering idiot
      -Everybody is shocked
      -Says a hurtful and ironic yet valuable phrase for reflection
      -Refuses to elaborate further
      -Leaves

  • @nickwarren9007
    @nickwarren9007 5 лет назад +7468

    Overprotecting your kids WILL backfire. Protect them from the things that are worth protecting them from. Otherwise, you might as well have them live in a bubble.

    • @pacrat6271
      @pacrat6271 5 лет назад +168

      Nick Warren I can vouch for this
      My cousins, a few friends, and me to an extent we’re all very shielded and now we either smoke, are gay or bi(not saying it’s wrong just that our parents tried to prevent it or disagree with it), have depression, have self harmed, and do shit we shouldn’t (i mean none of us are that bad but it is usually to rebel)
      What I’m saying is being over protective pushes kids away

    • @FRENCHIZE420
      @FRENCHIZE420 5 лет назад +35

      Watch bubble boy with Jake Gyllenhaal. A great movie with a pretty important lesson.

    • @nickwarren9007
      @nickwarren9007 5 лет назад +5

      @@FRENCHIZE420 yeah, that movie pretty much proves my point.

    • @ApexAZnn
      @ApexAZnn 5 лет назад +90

      Sheltered, over protected kids end up being the best liars. I can confirm that.

    • @freezesociety1120
      @freezesociety1120 5 лет назад +12

      @@ApexAZnn It's the truth

  • @Names_buck
    @Names_buck 4 года назад +855

    Funny how the mom starts off with "what you've done to ME" which shows how self absorbed she is

    • @Nehasupnfan
      @Nehasupnfan 4 года назад +39

      Smart piece of writing there

  • @akaimo32
    @akaimo32 4 года назад +2532

    "I will stay away from the kid"
    "NO YOU ARE NOT. In about 15 minutes you are the only one that kid is gonna trust. If he needs a hand to hold make sure yours is available"
    I dont know why but I love this lil bit of dialogue right here.

    • @harvest4peace
      @harvest4peace 2 года назад +8

      can i keep you

    • @elistari1050
      @elistari1050 2 года назад +6

      I read this as it came on.

    • @fenixchief7
      @fenixchief7 2 года назад +24

      Yep. One of Cuddys best moments. Had 13s back and the kids.

    • @DeathnoteBB
      @DeathnoteBB Год назад +19

      It’s really sweet, and shows she’s more worried about her patients than how the hospital looks to the parents.

    • @dontwitty1656
      @dontwitty1656 Год назад +3

      @@fenixchief7 and walked it back, some time later, with an attitude filled- I didn't do it for you

  • @GrippingRaccoon7109
    @GrippingRaccoon7109 5 лет назад +3291

    13 was in the right the whole time. He deserved to know. Mom says "he's not ready" next thing you know he 14 "he's not ready" 18 years old he finds out and never speaks to his parents again.

    • @Ebunoluwa13
      @Ebunoluwa13 4 года назад +73

      Whether the kid deserves to know or not it was not her place or her business, she was out of order

    • @MrWTFgameplay
      @MrWTFgameplay 4 года назад +112

      Ebunoluwa13 then you could make the argument that the parents were never in the right to NOT tell him since it wasn’t their place to decide since it was his body. The kid never even got the chance to choose to wanna know or regret knowing because it was held from him.

    • @Ebunoluwa13
      @Ebunoluwa13 4 года назад +34

      @@MrWTFgameplay As a minor they can decide for him and even though they should have told him the truth, they are his family and they care about him. 13 is a stranger that can't mind her own business, no matter the scenario she had NO right to tell him

    • @monarch_9634
      @monarch_9634 4 года назад +79

      @@Ebunoluwa13 and it's also illegal for a doctor to lie to their patients

    • @Yetaxa
      @Yetaxa 4 года назад +87

      @@Ebunoluwa13 she didn't tell him
      She just refused to lie to him

  • @darkohunter5739
    @darkohunter5739 5 лет назад +3623

    "we were just trying to protect you" the most annoying cliche

    • @nqk_0662
      @nqk_0662 5 лет назад +37

      *BS alarm RINGING*

    • @Mayakran
      @Mayakran 5 лет назад +63

      I love how the kid is upset and scared and his mom just throws excuses at him (and shifts the blame gdi woman)

    • @glitterrave453
      @glitterrave453 5 лет назад +17

      How can you protect your kid but when you tell them later then you crash harder because they kept it from you for so long

    • @tahunuva4254
      @tahunuva4254 4 года назад

      @Chicken nuggets they say it in real life too :/

    • @Tigressa101
      @Tigressa101 4 года назад +18

      At least here House actually calls them out on the cliche and rubs their face into it

  • @laurablair287
    @laurablair287 5 лет назад +3949

    How was 13 supposed to know that it was a homework assignment and not a suicide note? She doesn`t even know Jackson personally, they were harsh on her for no reason.

    • @charleenlangley8709
      @charleenlangley8709 5 лет назад +496

      True, true. And if, by chance, it were not a homework assignment and they ignored it? They'd be in trouble.

    • @vilwarin5635
      @vilwarin5635 4 года назад +247

      How were the parents ignorant of their own child homework? My own parents used to ask me and my brother about the teachers and the classes, just to know if everything was ok. How on Earth didn´t they had a conversation about suicide notes homework?

    • @Kpba32
      @Kpba32 4 года назад +110

      @@vilwarin5635 because not every parent asks their kid about homework or school

    • @dxyeart7318
      @dxyeart7318 4 года назад +101

      @@vilwarin5635 Also not every kid tells them every detail of every project, he might've told them he has to write a poem if they did ask

    • @blindpeopledostuff3587
      @blindpeopledostuff3587 4 года назад +12

      Laura Blair and why is the homework at home? Shit should be at school.

  • @TheKnightDrag0n
    @TheKnightDrag0n 5 лет назад +5931

    Man, that poor kid would be fine without that crazy woman as a mother.

    • @rsrt6910
      @rsrt6910 5 лет назад +125

      I think that's all that's available in the modern western world.

    • @RaelgunXIII
      @RaelgunXIII 5 лет назад +63

      Rs Rt Hey now, not all of us are short on brain cells. Just most.

    • @aamgdp
      @aamgdp 5 лет назад +85

      r/entitledparents

    • @nihalmohammed6674
      @nihalmohammed6674 5 лет назад +10

      Are you a teenager maybe .?

    • @crimsonpotemkin
      @crimsonpotemkin 5 лет назад +116

      every woman is at least a little bit crazy when it concerns her children. The problem here is that the father should've been objective, reassuring and should've take the lead. This guy is like a domesticated cat, pretty spineless. He listened to his wife every step of the way, should have taken the initiative instead.

  • @SteveCowlishaw
    @SteveCowlishaw 5 лет назад +3160

    The mother blaming 13 as if it's not even the mothers fault for lying in the first place? I might be weird, but I'd just take the blame for what I did.

    • @nehpetsaaa
      @nehpetsaaa 5 лет назад +88

      Sadly this actually happens a lot in reality.

    • @iltercio
      @iltercio 5 лет назад +8

      @@nehpetsaaa A LOT! 😂

    • @ThePatrickis
      @ThePatrickis 4 года назад +13

      It was thirteens fault though

    • @ladydovedove2240
      @ladydovedove2240 4 года назад +33

      @@ThePatrickis technically it wasn't she just told the kid if they wanted answers ask their parents which is really what a child should do

    • @ThePatrickis
      @ThePatrickis 4 года назад +25

      @@ladydovedove2240 "technically" she bnrought up the fact that it wasn't vitamins and told the kid to ask his parents about it when she was under strict instructions to not let the kid know about his condition.
      You're dead wrong on all accounts, love your picture though. Very cute

  • @ChaseTerrier
    @ChaseTerrier 2 года назад +503

    As a person who was born with a severe speech impediment, I love when House said "you give birth to a freak of nature, doesn’t mean you can treat him like one”.

    • @MissCaraMint
      @MissCaraMint 2 года назад +1

      Honestly I think the truth is that we are all freeks. Some are just so good at hiding it that it makes those who can’t feel like they are alone.

    • @bloodaonadeline8346
      @bloodaonadeline8346 Год назад +6

      having a speech impediment doesn’t make you a freak of nature or a freak of any kind.

    • @i.147
      @i.147 Год назад +11

      @@bloodaonadeline8346 neither does intersexuality

    • @WingMaster562
      @WingMaster562 Год назад +17

      @@bloodaonadeline8346 definetly feels like one when you have it and try speaking to a stranger.

    • @officerpolarbear8670
      @officerpolarbear8670 Год назад +6

      I love that dialogue too. It shows how House thinks and what people think about his actions. On the surface he seems cruel, cold, objective, and rude, which he is, but the reason he does the things he does and says the things he says is because be cares about the people around and wants them to understand things as well as he does.

  • @ezekielproctor7858
    @ezekielproctor7858 5 лет назад +7775

    He's not a boy or a girl...
    He's lupus

  • @shrikadhir5897
    @shrikadhir5897 5 лет назад +4443

    we are not here to make him happy
    we are here to diagnose him
    lol house is definitely a doctor

    • @kwl189
      @kwl189 5 лет назад +55

      He's not wrong though. Was glad to see 13 not make any movement into his personal life because FFS how anyone can help the kid find his comfort zone is anyone's guess. This is a unique situation.

  • @VivaLaDnDLogs
    @VivaLaDnDLogs 4 года назад +284

    After working in healthcare for some time, I've come to see Cuddy in a whole new light. Lisa Edelstein NAILED it. Being the boss in this sort of environment means being able to roll with the madness the pops up on a daily or even hourly basis without losing track of everything else going on. You cannot babysit one employee all day every day. Cuddy is surprisingly realistic.

    • @Leenapanther
      @Leenapanther 2 года назад +17

      I loved that one episode from Cuddy's POV.

    • @dontwitty1656
      @dontwitty1656 Год назад +3

      @@Leenapanther diagnostics is a chaotic spinning wheel of fortune; each member of the team sees through the eyes of their discipline, not a bad thing let's them focus on that significant set of symptoms/ causes or causes and symptoms. The oh you have a headache and nausea so, is the headache causing the nausea or is the nausea causing the headache merry-go-round. House sees the overall picture by listening to the puzzle makers and cuddy has to manage him and overall experience, with him usually, usually means he's right

  • @emmanueljohnson589
    @emmanueljohnson589 5 лет назад +14569

    Love it when House says “you give birth to a freak of nature, doesn’t mean you can treat him like one” he is so blunt lol

    • @parahumanoid
      @parahumanoid 5 лет назад +385

      He said that in kid's presence. That is not blunt, it's rude and asshole-grade all the way.

    • @Venetii_
      @Venetii_ 5 лет назад +1127

      @@parahumanoid No it's not. A 'freak of nature' is simply something that is very, very unlikely to happen (unnatural). He isn't saying the child's a freak, he's being blunt by calling the parents out on treating their child like a freak. Try to understand before you comment calling him rude and an asshole.

    • @parahumanoid
      @parahumanoid 5 лет назад +157

      @@Venetii_, do you seriously believe that attaching "of nature" to a loaded term applied to a kid in his presence makes it all OK? I don't.

    • @Venetii_
      @Venetii_ 5 лет назад +611

      @@parahumanoid dude. It's a definition. He's saying the child's condition, having both male and female DNA, is not very common, a freak of nature. Quit being so emotional and realise that 'freak of nature' is not a loaded term. Grow up and try to understand the scene, thank you :)

    • @parahumanoid
      @parahumanoid 5 лет назад +49

      @@Venetii_, in that case, a freak is just an abbreviation of the same notion. And historically, it is. Might just as well use that. I don't need growing up, I'm old enough to know what constitutes complete lack of care for the feelings of those around, when they are in a vulnerable state. Also, when I say he's an asshole, I am not being overly emotional. I am voicing my judgement on this behavior. I have the right to just by the virtue of being a free man.

  • @robertjensen4541
    @robertjensen4541 5 лет назад +422

    the mom basically just doesnt want to tell the kid the truth because shes afraid. they should have told him as soon as he was old enough to understand the difference between boys and girls

    • @jillibeens57
      @jillibeens57 3 года назад +11

      Just like parents need to let their child grow up knowing they're adopted (if they are). Some things should never, ever be kept from a child, their health and paternity status.

  • @alym7430
    @alym7430 4 года назад +7104

    There are only two genders: dancing and basketball

    • @splattercatbambi4965
      @splattercatbambi4965 4 года назад +430

      There are actually 3: Ford, Chevy, and Dodge

    • @mayfriend2959
      @mayfriend2959 4 года назад +274

      Chad from High School Musical supports this message

    • @sandrapd3247
      @sandrapd3247 4 года назад +70

      Troy Bolton would disagree

    • @elizaevans2345
      @elizaevans2345 4 года назад +38

      But my gender is basketball, what now?

    • @schechter01
      @schechter01 4 года назад +39

      @@splattercatbambi4965 There's a 4th one: Prius. It's the most feminine of all.

  • @GanonGhidorah
    @GanonGhidorah 3 года назад +355

    This is one of the most interesting episode of House.
    The kid has simple dehydration - if they brought him into the clinic on any other episode, House would've pegged that in under half a minute, got the kid of fluids and sent him on his way. But _this_ particular episode...It wasn't just the parents' paranoia - House has dealt with difficult parents before, and he's managed to shut them down in the past.
    No...This episode is interesting because House lost his _edge._
    He's on Methadone - Heroin without the high as he puts it. It completely eliminates the pain in his leg. Without that pain, House doesn't need to focus on the puzzle to ignore it - without the focus, House doesn't see things. And because he's not fighting back his temper due to the pain, he's acting nicer...
    It was because House was _nice_ to these people that nearly got the kid killed...
    The end of the episode has House come to this realization and he goes off the Methadone. It's sad because it's one of the many times that seems to confirm that House can either be a brilliant Doctor or he can _not be in pain_ - ...but he can't have _both._
    It honestly kind of makes the season where he goes to rehab and gets clean to be rather frustrating.

    • @anthonyortiz350
      @anthonyortiz350 Год назад +1

      Why is that frustrating?

    • @BigFatCock0
      @BigFatCock0 Год назад +5

      @@anthonyortiz350 Read the last paragraph again slowly.

    • @megatronusorionpax4900
      @megatronusorionpax4900 Год назад +4

      Thing is his leg wasn't always like that right? And he was still brilliant before so why would he be worse now? Cause either way, he figured it out

    • @jugiery
      @jugiery Год назад +6

      The season where he goes to rehab showed that he can detox... But the pain is always there. He seeks high by continuing to solve his puzzles. However, he is used to using drugs as a way to cope, hence he returned to it when is overwhelmed with emotions (failed to save the women under the building) and when he is back to his miserable self (post breakup)

    • @MisterDenisTT
      @MisterDenisTT Год назад +2

      That is a n interesting concept. Interesting to see how it applies in other matters too.

  • @keza108
    @keza108 5 лет назад +542

    How I imagine the end scene going
    Dad: Did you hear that, you're going to be fine
    Son: No thanks to you dipshits.
    Mother: Rushing out, crying and complaining again

    • @fatimakhan4671
      @fatimakhan4671 5 лет назад +7

      This kid must be part of his school's losers club.

    • @Venetii_
      @Venetii_ 5 лет назад +4

      @@fatimakhan4671 wtf? What's wrong with you?

    • @fatimakhan4671
      @fatimakhan4671 5 лет назад +11

      @@Venetii_ It's a reference to the 'It' movie.

    • @Venetii_
      @Venetii_ 5 лет назад +2

      @@fatimakhan4671 Aahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh wow I feel like such an idiot, soz

    • @janesmith699
      @janesmith699 5 лет назад +1

      Losers Club ftw! ❤️

  • @Sleep_is_delicious
    @Sleep_is_delicious 4 года назад +50

    They picked a great actress for the mother. Those of us who felt annoyance with her probably has either personally experienced or has heard from friends who have experiences overly protective/clingy parents.

    • @MaxwellsDemon9
      @MaxwellsDemon9 2 года назад +3

      actually she was just narcissistic and self-serving

  • @Arkalius80
    @Arkalius80 4 года назад +28

    When someone claims their justification for lying to someone they care about is that they were just trying to protect them, what they really mean is they were protecting themselves. It ultimately hurts both people and damages the relationship.

  • @garlicxlr
    @garlicxlr 5 лет назад +70

    6:44
    "Oh I'm so sorry that I didn't know my own son well enough to know he wasn't suicidal when a complete stranger told me he was! Oh wait... That was YOU!"

  • @RikuVA
    @RikuVA 5 лет назад +806

    Can we talk about how amazingly respectful the series handled a story about an intersex child?

    • @catbeara
      @catbeara 5 лет назад +13

      I was honestly shocked. 😅

    • @agirlwithdreams15
      @agirlwithdreams15 5 лет назад +45

      RikuSenpai You should see the one with the intersex teenager. That was fucked up

    • @LordPyro25
      @LordPyro25 5 лет назад +23

      ronnie. og yeah, that episode about the patient with Androgen immunity really missed the mark, but to be fair that was an early episode. This one handled it a lot better

    • @ParanoidBobby
      @ParanoidBobby 4 года назад +15

      @ She drugged and seduced her father so she can blackmail him and do whatever she wants, ps there's only 2 genders

    • @justfood48
      @justfood48 4 года назад +13

      But then there’s also the episode with the model who House kept referring to as “he” when they figured out her ovaries were actual cancerous testes

  • @william21186
    @william21186 5 лет назад +62

    I really love it when House makes the parents feel stupid.....the sooner the kid (or any kid) hear of their condition the sooner they can accept it and understand it.....just my opinion

  • @shai.loves.tacos.
    @shai.loves.tacos. 5 лет назад +587

    so weird to see House clean-shaven & not using a cane

    • @jsmithers.
      @jsmithers. 5 лет назад +22

      He's on heroin.

    • @bakarenibsheut12
      @bakarenibsheut12 5 лет назад +31

      @@jsmithers. More specifically, methadone.

    • @myshreksbox
      @myshreksbox 5 лет назад +13

      It was explained in season 2 or 3 he doesn’t need the Cane or the viacadin(this is a season I haven’t seen yet) he just uses both as an emotional crutch and to get sympathy from patients

    • @jsmithers.
      @jsmithers. 5 лет назад +27

      @@myshreksbox lol no

    • @padelistrougas1532
      @padelistrougas1532 5 лет назад

      @@jsmithers. μπακογιανμης

  • @Ssylphie
    @Ssylphie 5 лет назад +24

    “You gave birth to a freak of nature. Doesn’t mean it’s a good idea to treat him like one.”
    That is just... powerful.

  • @AaronTsuii
    @AaronTsuii 5 лет назад +104

    I love that last line from House. so heartwarming.

  • @darthimperious1594
    @darthimperious1594 4 года назад +71

    I just want to say that thank God Cuddy stood up to those parents when they wanted 13 off the case. Too many managers bend over backwards for "the customer" rather than do the right thing.

    • @peachydarl
      @peachydarl Год назад +2

      yeah she did good. we mostly see her being the person who has to say no to house which is frustrating as viewers as we want house to always get his way. and because he is usually right (eventually) it can make her look weak/ineffective - even though she is just following protocol which she has to do. but the reality is she's quick, capable, fair and good at dealing with the mess that house's and his team make. its moments like this where we see that properly

  • @gabe6222
    @gabe6222 5 лет назад +1569

    Show: *do you feel like a girl?*
    Me: u h o h . . .
    Show: (*handles it well*)
    Me: oh.

    • @a.j.2362
      @a.j.2362 5 лет назад +65

      I never understood that question. How are you supposed to feel like if you're a girl or a boy? Is it like feeling mad or happy? So confusing.

    • @g.s.651
      @g.s.651 5 лет назад +68

      A. J. It’s hard to explain. You just... kind of know. People are who they are; just like some people prefer blue over red, or classical music over rock, it’s just how they are. Some people need to experiment before they can feel sure-sometimes they just... don’t find one they fit completely or, they don’t even fit any. The latter cases are genderfluidity and agenderism respectively.

    • @TheYoutubaki
      @TheYoutubaki 5 лет назад +92

      @@a.j.2362 I'm a trans guy, I'd like to explain it as best as I can. I grew up female and I was expected to do stereotypically "feminine" things, like being graceful, playing with other girls, being cute, playing with "girl's toys" (like dolls), like boys, wear makeup, wear women's clothes, etc. But, even though I tried to fit into that role as hard as I could, it never "felt right". I had always felt like I wasn't supposed to be doing all these things. It's like being somewhere where you feel you don't belong. Instead, when I did stereotypical "boyish" things, I felt a lot better. This is what many people call "dysphoria". When people say they "feel like a boy", they usually mean that they feel more comfortable, confident and content with behaving as a boy and being accepted by society as one. I could go on talking about this for ages but I don't want this comment to be a million words long, so I wrote some examples. I hope I helped, have a nice day! :)

    • @a.j.2362
      @a.j.2362 5 лет назад +23

      @@TheYoutubaki Now I'm even more confused. If you were allowed to do all that as a girl than you wouldn't feel like a boy? I mean I've never acted girly or wore makeup or dresses or played with girl toys growing up and it was whatever to everyone else. So maybe it's your parents being too strict about those things? What do you think?

    • @TheYoutubaki
      @TheYoutubaki 5 лет назад +39

      @@a.j.2362 It's not about what others make you do, it's about how you feel when you act as a girl. That's what we call "gender identity". Someone who identifies as a girl usually has no problems fitting into that role. But someone who identifies as a boy feels dysphoric when trying to fit into the social role of a girl.

  • @lykafernandez3601
    @lykafernandez3601 3 года назад +16

    How is it 13's fault that they hid this important medical issue from their child? The child was already expressing some doubts and he felt there was something wrong. What? How will they keep convincing their kid to take some 'vitamins' for the rest of their life? What if the kid did feel like a 'girl'? But he's a 'boy' so now he's just confused and feel like a freak.
    Even the dad wanted to come clean. Mom wasn't really worried about the kid --- she said it herself, "what you did to me".
    Getting into a fight with your son's doctor doesn't really seem like a smart thing to do, especially when said doctor is your best chance at saving your son.

  • @BigMnotia
    @BigMnotia 5 лет назад +423

    One episode of House addressed the issue of suicide, gender stereotypes, and over protective parenting.
    This is one of the greatest shows of all time.

    • @badaboom8843
      @badaboom8843 4 года назад +1

      netflix like moppppe cant handle

    • @Destroyer2150
      @Destroyer2150 3 года назад +8

      That's because it was treated as something normal and common.
      Instead of the typical show that play with these topics in an over the top way...

  • @psychohist
    @psychohist 2 года назад +12

    Cuddy's "I didn't do it for you" is even harsher honesty than House's.

  • @pranayvenkatesh8815
    @pranayvenkatesh8815 5 лет назад +295

    Guys, I'm a professional doctor-dude-guy. I can tell you FOR SURE, with 100% accuracy-
    Genetic mosaicism = lupus no doubt. They should've run an ANA to confirm and started him on prednisone.

    • @pranayvenkatesh8815
      @pranayvenkatesh8815 5 лет назад +3

      @Lydia-Mary Haverstock why thank you

    • @ct92404
      @ct92404 5 лет назад +1

      Dang it. I have an autoimmune disease and, unfortunately, I know all too well what ANA is :/
      Where is House when I need him?

    • @lepredator189
      @lepredator189 5 лет назад +4

      First of all, shut up. He was already on anti-inflammatories. Plus that was not his immediate problem. I'd call to serious question your clinical acumen.

    • @Einsteinguppy
      @Einsteinguppy 3 года назад

      @@lepredator189 he's joking lol

  • @rasberryjamdoughnut2288
    @rasberryjamdoughnut2288 2 года назад +13

    That mother had a lot of blame to throw at 13 for someone who lied to her child just because she couldn't handle the truth

  • @Devizze1
    @Devizze1 5 лет назад +81

    House just slapped that woman for me😂

  • @chariot5154
    @chariot5154 4 года назад +234

    He's not a girl, he's what he feels like. Liking dance more than basketball doesn't mean you're a girl bruh.
    But at least if he wants to become a girl it will be easier I guess

    • @rev1714
      @rev1714 4 года назад +3

      @3 AM Paranormale e Horror human is a male if he has xy chromosomes. Human is a female if she has xx chromosomes. Its not about vagine or testicles. Hermaphrodites have something like xxy(IM NOT SURE, correct me if i'm wrong), which means that they are both male and female

    • @chariot5154
      @chariot5154 4 года назад +8

      @3 AM Paranormale e Horror are you dumb or you didn't watch the video? He has both of them! He can at least choose

    • @boogerrrrr
      @boogerrrrr 3 года назад +8

      I don't get why the mother didn't let him do dance... Like there are tons of boy dancers and it wouldn't affect her wanting him to be a boy anyway. Just too controlling bleh

    • @skyblanket4000
      @skyblanket4000 3 года назад +5

      @@rev1714 yeah, intersex is a lot more than that. there is a ton of other conditions, many of them having xx or xy chromosomes. for example i have xy chromosomes and my anatomy was completely feminized in the womb, so no one questioned that my chromosomes were xx until i was 11 and had a karyotype test.

    • @ZeldagigafanMatthew
      @ZeldagigafanMatthew 3 года назад +3

      "He's not a girl, he's what he feels like. Liking dance more than basketball doesn't mean you're a girl bruh."
      says more about society and gender stereotypes than anything.

  • @TailsIsDisappointed
    @TailsIsDisappointed 5 лет назад +262

    The right side of the patients body is literally softer than the left. He's essentially a raw piece of flesh. Could be Lupus...

    • @iamdmc
      @iamdmc 5 лет назад +9

      It's not lupis...
      it's lupus

    • @user-gl2ss2th3m
      @user-gl2ss2th3m 5 лет назад +6

      @@iamdmcIt's never lupus

    • @vizunalvarez883
      @vizunalvarez883 5 лет назад

      It's Lumbago

    • @inayshi
      @inayshi 5 лет назад +2

      @@vizunalvarez883 its an oompaloompa

  • @jackinthebox1993
    @jackinthebox1993 5 лет назад +50

    I'm so distracted by how beautiful Olivia Wilde is as Dr. Hadley/"Thirteen"

  • @LecardeK
    @LecardeK 4 года назад +9

    The parents and Cuddy were too hard on 13. Both of those parents read it and even they had no idea it was a homework assignment. Even if they ignored his school work entirely they would still be more familiar with the curriculum than she could ever be.

  • @crimsonpotemkin
    @crimsonpotemkin 5 лет назад +30

    I appreciate Cuddy's wise advice here.

  • @scholachu
    @scholachu 4 года назад +7

    Dominic Scott Kay, the actor who played Jackson here and young Brad in the film Front of the Class. Outstanding child actor to take on such challenging roles.

  •  5 лет назад +46

    cuddy spitting out factz straight

  • @cooperknueven346
    @cooperknueven346 5 лет назад +11

    Good ups on the dad for standing up and telling the truth.

  • @sya286
    @sya286 5 лет назад +68

    Kid was eventually going to find out and be pissed he was given hormones without knowledge for years. 13 was wrong but the truth needed out

    • @Destroyer2150
      @Destroyer2150 3 года назад +7

      She had to spill it out. It may has went against what the parents wanted but witholding information from your patient is unethical.
      You can even see that Cuddy is way more worried about the patient, than what the parents might think.

    • @MissCaraMint
      @MissCaraMint 2 года назад +1

      Yeah she couldn’t be complicit it giving him drugs under false pretences. Where I’m from there are laws against that. A child has a right to weigh in on medical desicions concerning them and they must be listenes to and their plinga seriously considered starting at 12.

  • @Panwere36
    @Panwere36 Год назад +4

    The mother's selfishness nearly killed her child. She didn't deserve anything less than House's bluntness. Her lies nearly killed her child.

  • @ottokarl5427
    @ottokarl5427 Год назад +3

    I love how the mother basically said "this isn't about you [13], this is about me...I mean my family!"

  • @elnombredelarosa3167
    @elnombredelarosa3167 4 года назад +6

    "I'm not here to make him happy". He has a point

  • @BigMoney23223
    @BigMoney23223 2 года назад +9

    Imagine going to the hospital and in walks a woman as drop dead gorgeous as Olivia. I get lost in her beauty

  • @dominicdigginnursingstuden7833
    @dominicdigginnursingstuden7833 2 года назад +4

    Its so cool to see how she talks with him and helps him through this tough time

  • @joshuacollins9346
    @joshuacollins9346 2 года назад +6

    I love how Cuddy and the Karen act like 13 was in the wrong for refusing to tell the kid that his testosterone injection was "vitamins." 13 was 100% in the right to tell him as much, or little, as she did, even if she didn't think the kid was suicidal.

  • @saleendriver
    @saleendriver 3 года назад +6

    I love the shot as he walks out. Perfect words at the perfect time.

  • @m0ldy137
    @m0ldy137 4 года назад +6

    House seems like he needs a good nap, a hug, and then a day off

  • @Br0nto5aurus
    @Br0nto5aurus 2 года назад +3

    Conditions your kid is born with and adoption are 2 things parents should never deliberately hide from their children. When these things are discussed from a young age in a matter of fact way, "this is just how things are and there's nothing wrong with that, it's what is", they have a foundation of understanding before they're worried about what other people will think about it.

  • @L1VE3V1L
    @L1VE3V1L Год назад +1

    House creates chaos in the knowledge it’ll bring order. He’s playing chess with people and he’s ten moves ahead.

  • @birdyb6496
    @birdyb6496 4 года назад +7

    His mom emphasising the “nearly” like it makes it any better. It doesnt.

  • @amauriherrera6022
    @amauriherrera6022 3 года назад +4

    I'm not a doctor, but honestly, I get that House trains them to break the law. However, 13 technically shouldn't LIE to a patient even under duress. So, she did avoid the gray area by not directly answering and redirecting the responsibility where it should be: the parents.
    Even Cuddy realizes 13 played it super professional in the shitty situation she got put under.

  • @Somegoy
    @Somegoy 3 года назад +3

    Man cuddy is such a badass. "No you won't. In about 15 minutes your the only person that kid is going to trust. If he needs a hand to hold, make sure yours is available."

  • @fivehundredlux
    @fivehundredlux 4 года назад +64

    The fact that thirteen is bi and she’s the one that is telling him makes this so much better

  • @monam5962
    @monam5962 5 лет назад +17

    4:54 : 'You don't have to hide behind a mask ' .
    Me : Tell that to Bruce Wayne .

  • @reallauradee
    @reallauradee 4 года назад +13

    Thirteen's eyes are so gorgeous. I want her to gaze at me for eternity.

  • @slyguythreeonetwonine3172
    @slyguythreeonetwonine3172 2 года назад +2

    At the people throwing *both* parents under the bus, you are showing your sexism and bias. There aren't over protective parents, just over protective *parent.* And it is always the mother. Every single time.
    Ref: My own fucking life.

  • @timw.5030
    @timw.5030 Год назад +2

    I want House to be a reality show that runs 24-7 and is watchable foreeever. And I work there, as a 'the' janitor.

  • @alexanderwolfe7602
    @alexanderwolfe7602 4 года назад +3

    why do parents think that lying to your kid will have no consequences? Lying does nothing but delays the inevitability of the truth.

  • @8Bitnoobgamer
    @8Bitnoobgamer 5 лет назад +7

    "Killing yourself is never the answer"
    Ooof 13 thats a rough one for you of all people to say

  • @geekjokes8458
    @geekjokes8458 5 лет назад +19

    "This isnt the time to start listening to him" HAHAHAHHAHAHAAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAH

  • @ClassicalSquaresoft
    @ClassicalSquaresoft 10 месяцев назад +1

    0:46 Got to love the force acting here.

  • @TrainHunter94YT
    @TrainHunter94YT Год назад +2

    That ending line from house hit the spot.

  • @happyglowworm2419
    @happyglowworm2419 5 лет назад +24

    Those lashes mah dude. They're majestic

  • @thatonedog819
    @thatonedog819 5 лет назад +75

    Toxoplasmosis wouldn't harm anyone unless you are pregnant

    • @Riema505
      @Riema505 5 лет назад +7

      It will lead to depression though

    • @littlesnowflakepunk855
      @littlesnowflakepunk855 5 лет назад +13

      it does lead to liking cats tho

    • @lexclark7542
      @lexclark7542 5 лет назад

      littlesnowflakepunk and risky behaviors

    • @alexanderstrickland9036
      @alexanderstrickland9036 5 лет назад +12

      It does alter brain chemistry. It’s not especially dangerous but it isn’t a good thing

    • @dogoftheg
      @dogoftheg 5 лет назад +9

      Toxoplasmosis is only deadly in patients who are immunocompromised. HIV patients are especially susceptible to toxoplasmosis.

  • @artemisjuliussilver5252
    @artemisjuliussilver5252 3 года назад +2

    Honestly that's just horrible. They should get to know and decide once they're older, not be forced into what their parents think is better and then get heartbroken when the parents decide they'll tell them. Horrible.

  • @cctomcat321
    @cctomcat321 4 года назад +9

    "Hoping to fry my brain to death, I smoked some primo crystal meth"
    Well, it's not Cameron standing there or she could say it. And probably add, "and then because my heart did race, I called over and slept with Chase"

  • @Trinton
    @Trinton 5 лет назад +55

    I miss House 😓

  • @pastasauce5101
    @pastasauce5101 5 лет назад +144

    Why is thirteen called thirteen,. I've just realised that thirteen isn't her name

    • @thetakengamer4256
      @thetakengamer4256 5 лет назад +159

      she was candidate thirteen for the job with house, house liked it due to her lucky nature, so it stuck

    • @dangshnizzle6929
      @dangshnizzle6929 5 лет назад +59

      She didn't want people using her name initially and thirteen stuck

    • @shamelessmoose
      @shamelessmoose 5 лет назад +37

      Her real name is Remy Hadley.

    • @Mafia_x_Phantom
      @Mafia_x_Phantom 5 лет назад +36

      And her real real name is Olivia Wilde

    • @shamelessmoose
      @shamelessmoose 5 лет назад +4

      @@Mafia_x_Phantom Olivia Cockburn actually.

  • @lavasharkandboygirl9716
    @lavasharkandboygirl9716 Месяц назад

    Whoever that young actor is, they’re phenomenal at their job

  • @Elfos64
    @Elfos64 2 года назад +1

    "You gave birth to a freak of nature, doesn't mean you should treat him like one". ....that was a very backhanded piece of sage advice. House has some kind of a way with words.

  • @ethans7316
    @ethans7316 3 года назад +46

    if Olivia wilde is sitting next to you and you are contemplating liking boys, you probably aren't into women LOL

  • @bunifluffer
    @bunifluffer 5 лет назад +9

    The parents in the show: We need a therapist, I can’t believe he felt like this!
    My parents: Oh stop, it’s just a phase! You’ll go to a mental hospital if you say that!

  • @gravysamich
    @gravysamich Год назад +1

    having thirteen be there to comfort him is such a good touch. out of the whole team, she is the only onw who would truly understand what its like to be struggling with your identity in this way. this boy is confused because he now knows he was born a genetic anomaly. he is different from those around him and no longer knows if it is okay for him to feel the ways he does and is just trying to make sense of it all. thirteen would have gone through basically the same thoughts when she realized she was bisexual.

  • @jerado14
    @jerado14 4 года назад +1

    "Killing yourself is never the answer"
    Kutler "you are so wrong"

  • @skotnica93
    @skotnica93 4 года назад +4

    House is a character that displays that truth is more important, than not getting your feelings hurt.

  • @fishfossils8858
    @fishfossils8858 4 года назад +4

    Kid: whats wrong?
    13: ask your parents
    Mom: yOU RuiNeD My FaMiLY

  • @vallangaard
    @vallangaard 2 года назад +1

    HEY! PARENTS!
    06:51
    Soooo many people need to hear this.

  • @randomindividual769
    @randomindividual769 3 года назад +2

    To be honest it seemed like the Mom wanted the son to indentify as a boy than a girl. All the activities that the boy was forced to do were things that he did not want to do.

    • @georgebrantley776
      @georgebrantley776 3 года назад

      Well the kid looked more like a boy, so it was possible the parents just assumed that the kid would develop to act more like a boy as well. Should've communicated better, but parents often miss the forest for the trees when it comes to their own children. Doesn't necessarily mean they wished one gender or the other though.

  • @theoneitself
    @theoneitself 4 года назад +3

    7:24
    -Cuddy missed me
    -What happened to your cane?
    - *She has to borrowed it for some reason*
    Daaamn, I really missed a lot of these jokes as a kid

  • @regalplays7135
    @regalplays7135 3 года назад +3

    It's funny seeing Cuddy being the voice of reason this episode

  • @slaymyface1357
    @slaymyface1357 4 года назад +3

    The first karen has been formed "IM NOT GONNA TELL MY KID ABOUT HIS CONDITION BECAUSE I CHOOSE WHEN HE IS READY NOT HIM"

  • @UnderTheNothing
    @UnderTheNothing 4 года назад +2

    The one tv parent who's like yes let me get my child a therapist and the DOCTOR is the one who says no.

  • @lunaneedzhelp3450
    @lunaneedzhelp3450 4 года назад +1

    Are we gazing over the fact on how funny the first scene was and how quick his mom changed her mood

  • @pariveymimi3842
    @pariveymimi3842 4 года назад +4

    House is filled with sarcasm I ❤️ it 😊.

  • @THEFIRST39
    @THEFIRST39 5 лет назад +5

    If Lie To Me, and House had a crossover episode...
    Oh Damn.

  • @Saintbow
    @Saintbow 3 года назад +2

    Kid: "So i'm a freak?"
    Dad" No buddy, you're just a little different"
    House: "You know what else is different? Freaks...Quit your crying and be happy you're not in the circus on display with the bearded lady" *pops some pills* "from where i'm standing, you got it made"

  • @archon4412
    @archon4412 4 года назад +4

    Actually...the boy was ready to deal with his condition. His mother wasn't.

  • @myshanthpillay5693
    @myshanthpillay5693 5 лет назад +49

    4:48 PHRASING

  • @ABC-xp8bd
    @ABC-xp8bd 3 года назад +1

    Thank God House got back in time to treat the parents for idiotemia. Idiot means idiot (simple term actually) -emia means presence in blood.

  • @inkednova82
    @inkednova82 2 года назад +1

    I LOVE HOUSE! He is the honesty people NEED.

  • @AymenDZA
    @AymenDZA 4 года назад +3

    Did House just say:
    "I go down a blind alley looking for a blind uterus"???

  • @katielouwho888
    @katielouwho888 5 лет назад +6

    13 meant well. Mom needs to cool it and understand that.

  • @dennisjordan5917
    @dennisjordan5917 4 года назад +14

    Why is suicide “never the answer”? Why are people who didn’t ask to be born obligated to stick around in a world they didn’t agree to be a part of? Once someone kills themselves they are not experiencing anything anymore, so really what people are saying is “you should continue to suffer and live a life you don’t want to live so I don’t have to be sad.”

    • @dickottel
      @dickottel 4 года назад +3

      So happy to see someone who thinks like me. Let living organisms choose if they want to stay alive. Otherwise it sounds like life is a punishment. I'm happy for everyone who prefers to stay alive, but I'm not one of them. I understand every person who chose death. My life is lonely and painful all the time. No reason for me to live. I'd love to get peacefully euthanised.

    • @dennisjordan5917
      @dennisjordan5917 4 года назад +2

      SkoczMiNaPukiel I’m sorry to hear your life doesn’t feel worth living. Just remember that can change, but don’t ever let anybody make you feel bad that it hasn’t. I agree that life can feel like a prison or a punishment when people think they should make you feel like it’s always wrong to end your life. For some reason that is the way people respond instead of trying to help you change your situation to one that is bearable. If you ever need someone to talk to about it let me know, I try not to judge anybody.

    • @richardscathouse
      @richardscathouse 4 года назад

      Exactly

    • @japooskas
      @japooskas 4 года назад +2

      Lol .. that comment was made to a potentially suicidal teenager .. not really the place for the discussion people are having above

    • @dennisjordan5917
      @dennisjordan5917 4 года назад

      SdSl I was bring up a general point, but I don’t see how someone being a teenager changes anything.

  • @moreblack
    @moreblack 4 года назад +2

    Cuddy had the most thankless job at that hospital

  • @Tammonius27
    @Tammonius27 8 месяцев назад

    “I like dancing, more than I like basketball “😭❤️‍🩹