Dating and Marrying a Filipina: 3 Keys to Winning Her Heart
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- I haven't talked about dating and marrying a Filipina for a while so here's a video about how to win her heart. The 3 keys that I mention here are: 1. Show your intentions and commitment, 2. Love and respect her family, 3. Respect here culture.
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You're 100% right on spot. I was already working here in the states when I met my husband. We dated for almost 10 months and he decided to propose his intention to marry me. I told him to call my father first in the Philippines and ask for my hand. If my father says no, then I won't marry him. Boy, was he nervous but he did. He spoke with my father i don't remember how long, he was sweating like crazy. When my father said yes, 2 months later we got married. My father died 2009, even on his deathbed he never fails to tell me that my husband was his favorite son in law.
The PI courting ritual is not different from the courting ritual here in America decades ago. My father phoned my wife's father and asked for his blessings for the engagement to proceed. My wife had never been kissed or dated at 28 years of age. She is from Mexico and I am a Chicano. I used the techniques you have stated to win her heart. We have been married now for 39 happy years. We are now retired and are together almost 24/7. No friction and we enjoy each others company. We do not need time alone. We follow our Lord Jesus and we know all we have is by God. God has directed us in how to be financially secure in our last years. We are in love today as from the first day we dated. Great video Kevin.
I'm very proud to be marrying a beautiful Filipina next year
good luck
Best decision you will ever make, bro! God bless you both.
Congrats!
markbrave make sure she’s not the money type there’s 2 kinds the one that takes your money and gives you an allowance and also sends money back home because they all need money, money and more money or the good one that will love you and is not about money.
Omar Don never asks for money my friend, I've won the lottery when I found her :) mahal ko Pilipinas
Met a Filipina and she is my world . I asked her to marry me and she accepted. I live in a big city and can give her a good life. Watching these videos so I can be her world ,too
thanks Kevin I'm an 18 year old Filipino - American man looking for a mainland Filipino girl in the Philippines and these tips should help thanks again
Always about the respect for the Family, the culture and respect for her. Commit to that person U love and she'll love you More. Great job Kevin.
I came overseas to meet my future wife only. She was very impressed that there wasn't a list of filapinas. Really that just never occurred to me but I guess some guys come over here to "interview" many filipinas without any committment. We wrote and talked on Yahoo for a year and I came here for her only. Big brownie points. We're married 9 years.
Love and respect the family, absolutely. Even providing a little financial assistance to the parents is ok. But the problem is when the expectation of financial 'help' starts coming from other family members ... sibings, their spouses, children, and other extended family. The comparisons with their neighbor's foreigner husband starts, and how much can one say 'no'? As they say, when you marry a Filipina, you marry her family, and extended family.
I think culture was the toughest thing. You can respect the culture but sometimes compromise is all you can do. Especially, as in our case, Anna's Ate ( oldest sister) is a total you know what from hell. Total sense of entitlement. Not what we are taught here. I am the oldest in my family and was taught to have respect you must give respect. So teaching Anna about that concept was very tricky but we have gotten through it. Thanks for the video. Oh, also you might want to do a video about annulment at some point. Lot of guys run in to this I speak from personal experience.
Thanks for putting these things into perspectives. This is for me for sure. So true about the time frame.
Yes sir ! absolutely you are correct we are very closed and important our family and culture. God bless your family.
I totally agreed with you. Respect is number one for me. Been here in Florida for 10 years and I have not found serious , committed guy.
There are a lot of us out there, don’t give up. Filipinas are so special, at least for me they are similar to Mexican women in some senses
I AGREE WITH YOU KEVIN...I'M LIVING IN TURKEY FOR 26 YEARS AND HAVE NOT FOUND ONE SERIOUS MEN....FUNNY...NOW I'M OLD AND TOO OLD TO LOOK FOR A REAL SERIOUS PERSON ...GOD BLESS YOU THANK YOU.
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if you want to marry pilipina, you should love also their family... I agree to you
will you marry me rose :)
+padraic 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
your welcome :)
Kevin I guess I was lucky, I blended right from the start with my wife's Filipino family. Also I'm like you, I have always wanted to meet a girls mom and dad when I first start dating them.....
thank you I think I have her heart she really opened up to me today like never before!!!♡♡♡
Nice video Kevin, a lot of good info. This should help some people out for sure:)
Yes she grow up in philippines and we like each other but I'm very nervous to approach her because I don't know how
Your korek kevin.. . Bec .pilipino culture is very important .. we all loving . People . .thank you..
Funny , my hubby wanted to marry meI told him we are not in a relationship yet. He then asked me to be his GF. and then after a year we married.
Yep--we don't always propose in the West to be girlfriend/boyfriend.
I totally agree all you said thanks for this video
There are different kinds of Filipino women raised a different way... I've been married to my Filipino wife for 7 years..... Just be yourself and keep an open mind, that's it bra....
What do you mean by open mind, like in what sense
It's all good showing an interest in her family and the Filipino culture but it cuts both ways.
Kevin....thanks for sharing your thoughts....based on my experience....though somewhat limited....would say that you are spot on. take care
Being married to a filipina for over 20 years the one thing that gets me is the "respect my culture", its a street that goes both ways. Philippine culture always seems to over rule my culture seeing that it does not even get any consideration. The filipina is always right and to go against that means the PINAY STARE followed by days of silence. ;-) JUST SAYING IMHE
I guess I should also mention I am a Caucasian American.
Thankyou for your advice Kevin. God Bless you.
Your advice is always on point and makes a lot of sense.
Kevin I enjoy your videos thanks for sharing.
Peace
thanks kevin fo your advice
thanks for the advice.
Hello I find looking long term relationship and spicaily kind hearted person.
Yes..truly...thats all importants.
Hi. Thanks for the informative video. I have been married in the past 23 years and am not really looking to marry again. But I would like a ltr with an older woman. 45-55. Is that going to fly. I believe in committed relationships. But I think I'm kind of feeling burned by marriage. What are your thoughts?
Thank you so much..I felt like I read a book...so detailed and straight forward your advice...I wanna contact you ... anyway like email?
If the person farts too much it is said to be a nono, but if it is mutual.....well it could work. 😐
Hi Kevin
I've been texting and skyping with a Filipina lady for about 6 mos. I'm 66 and she's 35, she will be coming to the states on a tourist visa, while she's here if do decide to get married is that an issue with immigration and how can she get green card etc.?
John Spooner if you two get married while she is here on a tourist visa ( if she can even get one ) you will be committing a crime against immigration...there's a lot more to getting married there is a whole big process. You can marry her & live abroad the US doesn't care about that but they do care if you marry her without completing all the checks & interviews
@@fluffyjoker69 hi James Carl how are you and your wife pilipina. I'm Glenda from Philippines
John Spooner I grew up with many filipinos I know them very well. On the other hand my neighbor married one he lived in the Philippines for 13 years he’s a white American he poured his heart and soul for this Beautiful lady sadly she had other plans she married another guy as soon she arrived to the states she disappeared with her Filipino boyfriend. So be careful.
@@glenkylie5130 I'm fine but not married to Filipina, matter of fact, I just ended a 2.5 year courtship with the one I thought was the one I was going to marry. I love her family, friends, cousins, nephews n niece's. I did everything correctly but after that much time, she just couldn't make time for me anymore.
@@glenkylie5130 ur single?
nice video little things mean alot
Great video Kevin 😉
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your right....
Is this advice only for filipinas living in philippines..what about those living here in the states?
love your channel
Very good video Kevin
Hello I am praying also for my Life time partner who is American..In biblical need Single or widowed..Matthew 19:1-19 & Hebrews 13:4@
salamt po for video Kevin and Im filipino/ american looking to hook up with a pinay
thanks for this vid
its true what you saying ..
Filipino culture is a lot like Mexican culture so it wasn't hard for me
Would love to email you with a question and update...
that's the trick men do online.. they thought once they mention that they're serious and would want that woman to be their gf the woman will believe them...they often say that after chatting with girl for just like a week...lol..they just want to play with that asiasns they thought women will believe them ...you don't have to ask them nor say anything .. action speak louder than words ..you can say how much you love or care for them but if the actions not there.. then it's a pfft...... kevin whatever you're saying here its COMMON SENSE .. lol you dont have to waste your time talking about it ... ..share something that people don't know...
lol.. again what you just mentioned there are pure common sense .. that is if you have gray matter to use...
Where do you live in Alabama
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money ,visa and a big house in US
Show her your bank account
Leilani Vasquez my neighbor married one oh boy he’s got the saddest story with a filipina he really wasted 10 years of his life as soon he married her and brought her to the states she disappeared she had someone else.