Women Are Attracted to Men Who Make Them Feel Uncertain - Why? | Science Has the Answer

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @thecount_1957
    @thecount_1957 5 лет назад +447

    Never EVER give a woman any form of certainty! Stay aloof and distant, focus on your own life!

    • @hueyreddi1847
      @hueyreddi1847 7 месяцев назад +6

      Ever tried just being confident on what you want. Ffs grow up 😂

    • @BlueDude-cf9mk
      @BlueDude-cf9mk 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​​@@hueyreddi1847Women percieve the aloof and distant man as confident...Like seriously, women are wierd af. It's crazy. I had the best success when I wasn't chasing the woman and she was anxious for my attention.
      Now, that being said, I don't believe in mistreating a woman. Rather, be kind to her. Never mistreat her. But don't chase and be too emotional. Give her some attention, then back off a little. Be cool, calm and collected. Don't fall for her tests.
      If you don't play into her tests, this makes you difficult to read. It drives women crazy when they cannot read a man, but it also makes them want him more. Because he's mysterious.
      In a way, they feel secure with men like that.

  • @joeaverage3444
    @joeaverage3444 5 лет назад +631

    If a woman knows you're at her feet, you've lost her already.

    • @beetlejuice8147
      @beetlejuice8147 5 лет назад +7

      What do you mean with this sentence?

    • @beetlejuice8147
      @beetlejuice8147 5 лет назад +4

      @James W so I have to do nothing for a girl and be rude to her or what? Like huh 😂😭

    • @beetlejuice8147
      @beetlejuice8147 5 лет назад

      @James W okay thanks man :)

    • @segsuc6399
      @segsuc6399 5 лет назад +17

      @James W entirely wrong. Just be yourself. That is literally all women want. Don't act.

    • @segsuc6399
      @segsuc6399 5 лет назад +6

      @James W then you're a bad version of yourself

  • @tannhausergate6310
    @tannhausergate6310 Год назад +102

    "Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy. I always thought this was a brilliantly funny line, but over the years I've realised just how brilliantly TRUE it is. Women value arrogance, aggression, danger and uncertainty ... and pick up the broken pieces of their lives further down the line and blame it all on the men they chose.

    • @emmcee476
      @emmcee476 Год назад +4

      Haha. Do you happen to know which episode that's from? I'm a big fan of MWC and would love to hear it myself
      Al Bundy really was a genius 😁

  • @Aldo7899
    @Aldo7899 5 лет назад +145

    Nothing works like being real. You know when you are.
    When you are honest and self-assured as a man, you are not out to prove anything, to yourself or to others. You will, as a result, come across as a “bad boy” when she tests you or steps over your boundaries. She will do this like clockwork.
    She will eventually catch on to the fact that she gets whatever she is willing to put in to the relationship. She is likely to cut and run after figuring this unfortunate (for her) fact out, but she will eventually come back. Time and time again.

    • @mayorofthenonsense
      @mayorofthenonsense 4 года назад +15

      Absolutely true. There is no short cut or cheat code to being an alpha. You can try, but until you have fully internalized a state of indifference, your house of cards will always tumble down sooner or later.
      But once you become truly indifferent to the whims of a woman, there is no need to act. This doesn’t mean you don’t care at all, or you don’t enjoy being with a woman: it just means she could up and leave at any moment and you would be fine.
      When you really are this way, women can sense it, and even though they will still test you to see if it’s real, they will always come back in the end if it is.

    • @Rawyalty220
      @Rawyalty220 4 года назад +2

      U just described me

    • @epicenterbasshd9636
      @epicenterbasshd9636 2 года назад +5

      I had trouble reading wtf you just said lmao

    • @DGodwithaplan2
      @DGodwithaplan2 6 месяцев назад

      Discard her

  • @mehranmac
    @mehranmac 5 лет назад +423

    ATTRACTION comes when you allow women to feel ANGRY, SAD, BITTER, FRUSTRATED, NERVOUS, ANXIOUS, RESENTFUL, JEALOUS, ENVIOUS, and DISAPPOINTED

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 5 лет назад +43

      makes sense, women are Emotional lol

    • @TheY2AProblem
      @TheY2AProblem 5 лет назад +41

      So women are oversized Tamagotchis?

    • @Krist_Mal008
      @Krist_Mal008 5 лет назад +16

      Mehran from a guy who always set up parties, what you said is 100% on spot

    • @Englishsea24
      @Englishsea24 5 лет назад +25

      Women compare their feelings to others and think everyone else thinks the same, and get disappointed when they don't and just blame the other person

    • @IslaRenzo
      @IslaRenzo 5 лет назад +6

      @@Englishsea24 Soooo right!

  • @eidiazcas
    @eidiazcas 5 лет назад +252

    I agree but it's just not worth it, feeding a toxic relationship just to stay on her mind, just date many women and have good time

    • @Mr-Wade
      @Mr-Wade 5 лет назад +20

      You hit it right on the money

    • @josemari2758
      @josemari2758 5 лет назад +1

      Hear, hear

    • @holehearted3723
      @holehearted3723 4 года назад +24

      the coach said that attraction is when we triggered the possitive or negative emotions...
      i agree, triggering her negative emotions even though it may increase her attraction, but it also might lead into a toxic relationship...
      i prefer going on possitive and keep the relationship fun and playful...

    • @traviswoodfin3044
      @traviswoodfin3044 4 года назад

      Whole heartedly agree!

    • @timothybogle1461
      @timothybogle1461 4 года назад +6

      If a woman knowing that you are dating around, the emotions in this video would be triggered.

  • @alexismalicsi3395
    @alexismalicsi3395 5 лет назад +169

    Dont chase women.. Unless you want to loose yourself

  • @AzizShavershian-
    @AzizShavershian- 5 лет назад +228

    I lost my girl after 7 years because of needyness and anxiety, i wish i could turn back 3 weeks were all the ish started.
    Guys if she got Not time dont take it serious, jusf keep a little distance and act like it doesnt hurt you.
    Go out for those 3 days she dont wanna see you, spend time with friend, go shopping or sleep.
    If you are needy this time you will gonna see her never ever again, so just wait a few days.
    Everything what develop attraction is saying is totally right, even if you dont believe it because you think your girl is not like the other girls.
    Every girl is the same! They all want a strong men, without needyness or anxiety to loose her. And if she needs space give her a spaceship!

    • @nt6351
      @nt6351 5 лет назад +37

      She was banging other guys while you were gone for those 3 days.

    • @edumaros25
      @edumaros25 5 лет назад +20

      @@nt6351 Which turns man insecure and possessive. In that kills attraction.

    • @Exxon300
      @Exxon300 5 лет назад +10

      NT it’s ok, now he knows she ain’t shit 😂 there is nothing better than the truth

    • @AzizShavershian-
      @AzizShavershian- 5 лет назад +25

      All i smell is that u guys are very very insecure just by giving a girl 3 days space, you will loose a lot of women!

    • @nt6351
      @nt6351 5 лет назад +1

      @@AzizShavershian- It's called a joke, killer.

  • @1992Xenomorph
    @1992Xenomorph 4 года назад +20

    I learned and continue to learn how to tick a women’s emotions on every level. Fear, anger, uncertainty, love, happiness, disgust etc etc. With me you’ll never know what will come out on my mouth or what it’ll make you feel. I feel Ill leave a greater impression on a girl if I tick all her emotions.

  • @kentucky_ken
    @kentucky_ken 5 лет назад +224

    Damn that's why Harley Quinn clings to Joker.

    • @XYZCBA50
      @XYZCBA50 3 года назад +15

      It’s true tho Joker don’t give a fuck and just be doing whatever he wants

    • @SouvenTudu1
      @SouvenTudu1 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yes. She didn't move on in the comics?

  • @rodrigosanroman5858
    @rodrigosanroman5858 5 лет назад +135

    sadly true. I dated a girl for 5 years. Amazing relationship but when I took away the uncertainty by telling her I'm getting to the stage of life where I feel we will probably get married soon and said I planned to propose soon our relationship fell apart. it was funny because she kept telling me she wanted to get married but when I finally gave in she fell out of love apparently and we broke up. 5 years waisted because I let her know she won and she could have me. she still tells me that one day shell come back when we are older Because she thinks ill wait since I wanted to Mary her but I already have a new gf...

    • @Calidore1
      @Calidore1 4 года назад +12

      rodrigo san roman well done on the new gf! But amazing the last one talked about marriage for five years but never told you what she really felt about it.

    • @officialrichsmith
      @officialrichsmith 4 года назад +20

      “She tells me that one day she’ll come back” means she wants to explore other men and get ran through by many of them first. If she ever did try and come back it’ll be because you’ve upgraded your life (physically, success wise etc). By then she wouldn’t be sought out by other men like she once was (single mother or weight gain or both). That’s usually the cycle.

    • @Calidore1
      @Calidore1 4 года назад +5

      I’m sorry that your former intended was so selfish. I will take it as a warning, though, marriage talk is risky. What should one say if she asks you? If she asks “do you want to get married?” I would refuse to answer it and get her to reframe it as a proposal. Heart in your mouth time but who would ask when they weren’t sure?

    • @Talia_IceCreamPaints
      @Talia_IceCreamPaints 3 года назад +1

      😮😔

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators 2 года назад +1

      @@Calidore1 if I'm reading this correctly, you would get her to purpose to you?

  • @RodClarkson
    @RodClarkson 4 года назад +37

    Agreed 1000%. Also, not caring so much must be authentic. Women smell fear.

  • @plasmaarmelund
    @plasmaarmelund 2 года назад +20

    Part of me is like why does a relationship have to be so hard? Why can't it be easy most of the time? As a man, if your woman is acting up, just walk away and show her that you don't tolerate any drama.

  • @Revenger079
    @Revenger079 5 лет назад +36

    You're videos as well as your audio book 'atomic attraction' has helped me immensely ! I've implemented a lot of your techniques into my day to day life and have seen a massive difference in terms of success with woman and just in general life. Thank you !

  • @Theuniverseisstrange
    @Theuniverseisstrange 5 лет назад +94

    My father told me to ignore women...
    Women don’t like to be ignored because they are all princesses...
    They will want to sit on your pole because you aren’t paying attention to them, works every time.

  • @SuperQdaddy
    @SuperQdaddy 5 лет назад +177

    Sex glamorous money...woman love this over a stable family man...great guys are still single for a reason..

    • @mistuhe4778
      @mistuhe4778 5 лет назад +70

      This is so so true three month ago I've lost the love of my life which I treated with love and respect, I cherish her with all my heart and she left me to be with a fuck boy that has more assets than I do like a car and a better job than I had... they don't care about love no more all they care about is the fast life... so I'm no longer going to give any of them my heart cause its not fair what happened to me, it's not.😔😔

    • @TherealSIRenity
      @TherealSIRenity 5 лет назад +26

      Mistuh E I feel you bro. Just gotta do you fuck these females

    • @vickiecordon7887
      @vickiecordon7887 5 лет назад +12

      @@mistuhe4778 she was a very superficial woman to begin with. It is sad a lot of women act like that but things work both ways.

    • @rockboy360
      @rockboy360 5 лет назад +10

      @@mistuhe4778 you need to subscribe to the Alpha Male Strategies channel bro, it will change your life

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 5 лет назад +14

      Mistuh E grow a set of balls and move on! Make more money, hit the gym fuck hotter women! Start manipulating women and being that asshole it’s much easier that way bro trust me

  • @renep7008
    @renep7008 5 лет назад +78

    I was a player, had all the women. Every flavor. Slowed down with age, and tried to go the “Love” route. EPIC FAIL! Now it’s back to BIG PIMPIN. It’s how the ladies like us.
    Period. End of Story!

  • @wusgoodie7498
    @wusgoodie7498 5 лет назад +193

    This dudes videos has helped me for life. I will never make the same mistakes I did before.

    • @johngomezp.3953
      @johngomezp.3953 5 лет назад +12

      Yeah, your right. I have made some mistakes as well. But I have changed many things since I started watching the videos 2.5 years ago.

    • @frenchiegonewild7264
      @frenchiegonewild7264 5 лет назад +12

      Happy to see the community of men that want to develop themselves in becoming more and mor alpha is becoming bigger....I am inlove with the idea of evolving as human beings and reaching our best potentials :D

    • @MyHadriano
      @MyHadriano 5 лет назад

      Indeed

    • @eyevincast5440
      @eyevincast5440 5 лет назад +7

      WUSGOODIE yep don’t be mr nice guy all the time and don’t be afraid to say no when it needs to be said or walk away. This can apply to everything in life not just picking up girls in fact women should not be in your top 3 priorities.

    • @chasem3549
      @chasem3549 4 года назад

      @@johngomezp.3953 how has it turned out for you so far?

  • @Daku5522
    @Daku5522 5 лет назад +149

    Relationships are not worth the effort

  • @davesbar7359
    @davesbar7359 5 лет назад +627

    You see kids...? This is why your fathers tell you to just avoid women & you'll be fine! 😂

    • @mithileshtarkar1
      @mithileshtarkar1 5 лет назад +16

      hahahaha.. right on spot :P

    • @renep7008
      @renep7008 5 лет назад +2

      But I love the nana, so can’t do that. Haha

    • @renep7008
      @renep7008 5 лет назад +3

      Al Simmons
      Duly Noted! 👍

    • @uneeversal
      @uneeversal 5 лет назад +10

      What father

    • @dn2k718
      @dn2k718 5 лет назад +3

      @@uneeversal LOOOOOL

  • @frenchiegonewild7264
    @frenchiegonewild7264 5 лет назад +171

    I can confirm, its true....reason is because as guys we are always thinking based on logic facts...the logic in us guys tells us that women definitely want men that are calculated,predictable...However, whoever has been dating for a while, they know women love badboys, guys that are always unpredictable, misterious, challenging, hard to get.

    • @zjpangilinan9625
      @zjpangilinan9625 5 лет назад +3

      Yes yes i agree with you

    • @frenchiegonewild7264
      @frenchiegonewild7264 5 лет назад

      @@zjpangilinan9625 🤗

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 5 лет назад +1

      Absolutely spot on.

    • @PoweredbyJESUS7
      @PoweredbyJESUS7 4 года назад +3

      Only people who think girls “actually want a bad boy” in the long run are highly delusional. Little boys who can’t control themselves. It’s fun at first for them and women get pulled into it but then those same “Bad boys” are the talk of the town by women for how lousy they are as actual men. And only ones who stay with a bad boy are bimbos who have no self respect. All these immature tampon boys keep telling yourself’s girls like bad behavior or bad boys just to give you a excuse to keep acting a fool.

    • @kfen8794
      @kfen8794 4 года назад +3

      @@PoweredbyJESUS7 they still end up attracting the most women and have the most options when it come to dating than a man who simps and puts women on a pedestal.

  • @philbell5774
    @philbell5774 5 лет назад +80

    Until they hit a certain age and then crave stability.

    • @princewillwp
      @princewillwp 4 года назад +23

      You mean when they're not pretty anymore, or stuck with a kid or hit THE WALL

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 года назад +5

      Yeah, Starts with 26. But most begin at 28 to 29

    • @Badasseditz-s4c
      @Badasseditz-s4c 4 года назад +3

      I had a mate where he dumped his 28 y.o GF because she wanted to settle down, he's still 23 so obvsly didn't want to go that path. She just got desperate

    • @palindrome06
      @palindrome06 3 года назад +5

      But they still look for that badboy type of alpha male with one eye open in the relationship

    • @JamesWhiting-iw5tp
      @JamesWhiting-iw5tp 11 дней назад

      @@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 thank you, I’ve been looking for this information for weeks… When do they stable out and do not seek so much chaos

  • @markuslanz88
    @markuslanz88 5 лет назад +48

    Yeah that's why you can have the women you don't really want so easily

  • @yayagazab4449
    @yayagazab4449 5 лет назад +47

    Too much work, and it’s probably not a good idea to toy with people’s emotions. Just treat each other with respect. Attraction eventually fades anyway.

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 4 года назад +6

      Don't you get it?! Just treating her with respect and never giving her anything but positive emotions is exactly why the attraction fades and why he's saying you need to give her these negative emotions as well! That's the secret to maintaining attraction. Giving her an emotional rollercoaster.
      Otherwise she'll just get bored.

  • @MyHadriano
    @MyHadriano 5 лет назад +11

    To all men out there ,
    Listen to this Guy !!

  • @agee7777
    @agee7777 5 лет назад +53

    i dont chase women anymore, i talk to them but im never suggestive, i m more relaxed because i know im not going to be asking for a phone number, if it happens it happens.

    • @kieransimpson4965
      @kieransimpson4965 5 лет назад

      @thatonephannie whoexists this works for you?

    • @markwhittaker6866
      @markwhittaker6866 5 лет назад

      That's the way to do it Adam G.

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 5 лет назад

      @@kieransimpson4965 i got a message via fb from a girl i spoke to in a bar.

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 5 лет назад

      @SKITTL 3Z not yet.

    • @davidsanches2803
      @davidsanches2803 4 года назад +1

      @@agee7777 what about now?

  • @swp9999
    @swp9999 5 лет назад +78

    They believe in turning bad boy into a good man.

  • @victorarregnelle8976
    @victorarregnelle8976 5 лет назад +20

    People think attraction is love. we need to start learning the difference. Why people stay with assholes, is because they are waiting for a random good behavior. The fact that they don't know when it will happen keeps them around waiting. If they knew 100% time it would be all good, they would lose interest. This is called intermittent reinforcement. Exactly like gambling addiction. It was never love.

  • @latestfootballnewsdaily828
    @latestfootballnewsdaily828 4 года назад +12

    To the author of this, u r just too much, ur understanding of the topic is impeccable n the organization n clearity in ur teachings r superb. U r the bomb

  • @amol465
    @amol465 5 лет назад +23

    The moment when she takes you for granted, brother believe me your time is up.

  • @livingvision8658
    @livingvision8658 3 года назад +9

    It's all about the balance of push & pull ;
    sometimes u make her feel great n another time feel bitter - qualify her n disqualify her, give ur attention n another time withdraw ur attention.

    • @JetBazooka21
      @JetBazooka21 9 месяцев назад

      But why though ?

    • @rampatil1219
      @rampatil1219 4 месяца назад

      @@JetBazooka21 can u eat daily spicy or will u change and eat bitter, sweet etc... Why do u change??

  • @EmmaElite
    @EmmaElite 5 лет назад +31

    Speaking from experience every woman has a different tolerance to their emotions and therefore you can overdo the negativity just like the positivity... it has to be a balanced don't just treat a woman like shit, I'm pointing straight at you the narcissistic readers too! I know personally I like for there to be slightly more positivity than negativity

    • @waltjabsco9338
      @waltjabsco9338 2 года назад

      Speaking from experience you have to learn how to really p1zz and funk her off big time, if you fail to do this she will never respect you and you will spend your whole life under her thumb like a good little boy.

    • @davvyki4178
      @davvyki4178 Год назад +1

      You are mama boy

  • @Captain_7_7_7
    @Captain_7_7_7 5 лет назад +15

    I'll just be myself and women can get over it. .
    !

  • @peterjohn5300
    @peterjohn5300 5 лет назад +84

    Women are attracted to men who are physically attractive.

    • @Felix-lj4cy
      @Felix-lj4cy 5 лет назад +23

      In other news, water is wet

    • @filazkeita2272
      @filazkeita2272 5 лет назад +10

      @@Felix-lj4cy uh technically you are wrong, water makes things wet but isnt wet itself

    • @hachikoinu5598
      @hachikoinu5598 4 года назад +2

      Finally a red pill

    • @peterjohn5300
      @peterjohn5300 4 года назад +5

      @Vlasko60 looks are the be all and end all. Everything else is cope.

    • @evans2267
      @evans2267 4 года назад

      @@peterjohn5300 looks wont keep them tho. but will surely make u slay.

  • @omarsaad1426
    @omarsaad1426 5 лет назад +31

    Or you can be rich and get them anyway, so focus on fulfilling your dream

    • @deepakpoddar3334
      @deepakpoddar3334 4 года назад

      True mate

    • @fabiocosta0107
      @fabiocosta0107 4 года назад +1

      that’s foolishness, you won’t have the woman of your life... she will be with you because of your money, make a woman loves with $0.💆🏾‍♂️ be confident because we don’t need money to get a the perfect woman.

  • @jonathancooper4914
    @jonathancooper4914 5 лет назад +7

    Negative attraction means the relationship is on quicksand.

  • @AshishChavan2904
    @AshishChavan2904 5 лет назад +43

    A happy girl is a myth.

  • @lagosbay
    @lagosbay 2 года назад +5

    Take this from a man nearly 50 and married for 1000 years. There are periods where you create storms, create uncertainty, anger and anxiety. The next minute you are sweet telling her how much you love her, complimenting her and doing feminine things with her. You cannot just create uncertainty all the time, it just won't work.
    Also. She won't chase you, sone women are conditioned not to chase. Chase, but create certainly and then uncertainty, good luck guys.

    • @SifuSmoFlatEarth
      @SifuSmoFlatEarth Год назад

      Well said Bro. Yes that’s a bit more realistic, tbh you have to have a bit of both

  • @jwill9877
    @jwill9877 2 месяца назад +2

    They are aroused by a man who makes them feel anxious and uncertain. But eventually they are going to need the comfort to know that attractive, arousing man will stick around for the long haul to protect and raise her offspring.

  • @Bardesigners
    @Bardesigners 4 года назад +7

    Brilliant! Every man needs to share this with his sons.

  • @HawaiianCrow
    @HawaiianCrow 5 лет назад +14

    Omg those silent endings... They always get me. So powerful and unexpected and amazing. The endings are undescribeable.
    After such great and interesting knowledge, it ends.. 💔

  • @janigujjarvideos
    @janigujjarvideos 5 лет назад +16

    This channel deserves more than 100 M subscribers

  • @hue8hue8
    @hue8hue8 5 лет назад +23

    That's a negative attraction and won't last in a relationship.

  • @verde629
    @verde629 4 года назад +2

    So basically in a real version of The Office, Pam would’ve stayed with Roy lol

  • @hackeronte7970
    @hackeronte7970 5 лет назад +22

    This is way too stereotypical.
    I have met lot of women who are not into guys that make them feel uncertain or anxious, but prefer a solid reassuring man. A man they know can trust.
    Of course most of the girls in their adolescence act the way you just described. But it's not the norm.
    Every woman is different and so their taste about men.

    • @alaa341g
      @alaa341g 5 лет назад +3

      In reality , you are wrong , its not just woman , its all human are more attracted to the once who they feel are supperior or hard to catch , if u are too Nice to someone , you will lose his respect and won't Care about you , cuz ur the nice Guy that Always good and won't get mad , simple psychology

    • @JohnJohnson-lr3zu
      @JohnJohnson-lr3zu 5 лет назад +4

      You are right man, unfortunately most of the people in the comment section don't understand it, you should be yourself, also be able to show your character, but never play a role which doesn't reflect you aka fake bad boy. Peace!

    • @OneSelfActualized
      @OneSelfActualized 5 лет назад

      Hackeronte it’s quickly becoming the norm...

  • @AdagioPhoenix
    @AdagioPhoenix 4 года назад +6

    In programming we call this unexpected and weird behavior a bug. God needs to get his work checked more often.

  • @ang47
    @ang47 5 лет назад +6

    just dont go to the other extreme. I destroyed a relationship like that

  • @jmak98jsuboom
    @jmak98jsuboom 5 лет назад +89

    The bad guy has on the tightest pants. Lol

    • @trahouston
      @trahouston 5 лет назад +5

      He's wearing women's jeans like a mumble rapper.

  • @n06320
    @n06320 5 лет назад +21

    Is this advice for young single people? If you want to have a good long term relationship, this doesn't really make sense... A man can be utterly interesting for a woman when he tries full heartedly to have a good relationship with her. Girls don't necessarily need dramas and uncertainty especially when we are seriously looking for a long term partner. Men who try to find solutions (even for a relationship) in a creative and genuine way, they are absolutely fascinating to be with. And of course women should be responsible for 50% of the relationship too. I might come across a boring person, but have been happily married for 23 years. So have a think! Great food for thought anyway!

    • @roy-arghya
      @roy-arghya 5 лет назад +11

      Girls look for long term partner when they are past their marriage age.

    • @nerdturd8718
      @nerdturd8718 4 года назад

      respect dude, uttermost respect ^_^ xxx

    • @E_GIBSON
      @E_GIBSON 4 года назад +1

      Who wants to try "heartedly" to please someone else? A needy weakling that's who. People with courage and balls do not need romance or long term partners. People who live life crawled up in the fetal position do.

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators 2 года назад

      @@roy-arghya Wow way to blanket every women out there. There are plenty of conservative women who find a husband and settle in their 20s.

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators 2 года назад

      The point of this video is be emotionally mature.. Many many guys (especially ones in their 20s) are not that. Emotionally mature person won't invalidate the other person's feelings, they'll emphasize (not sympathize) with the other person, but also call them out when they're being emotionally abusive or irrational. Don't put a push over, but don't be a controlling asshole who throws a fit when he doesn't get his way; I assure you that will driver her into the arm of another man. One of the keys to long-term survival of a relationship is letting them win arguments, they'e get so tired of it that they'll rethink their way of thinking...There you go, you kept her guessing.

  • @alexfxlll
    @alexfxlll 5 лет назад +38

    This only applies to dating, you can't hide your feelings for the rest of your life lol

    • @madjunir
      @madjunir 5 лет назад +18

      Applies in relationship too. In fact even if married with them become too friendly and predictable and they'll place you in their friendzone...

    • @K9amilo90
      @K9amilo90 2 года назад

      @@madjunir shiet

  • @manshadow513
    @manshadow513 4 года назад

    This is the video I need right now. Thanks man. I love the animation at 3:03.Inspiring

  • @tinalove7860
    @tinalove7860 5 лет назад +2

    Also find that the masculine energy and feminine both must be balanced in a relationship because then it will not work. If there is too much masculine energy from both or feminine from both sides partners loose interest overtime same . Most people want to be loved but they don't know how to give out love and it won't work

    • @Englishsea24
      @Englishsea24 5 лет назад +3

      Problem is some women are plagued by this idea of destroying masculinity completely😔

  • @garug1246
    @garug1246 4 года назад +4

    This vid is golden.
    💯 hundred percent true

  • @franciscoantonio5306
    @franciscoantonio5306 11 месяцев назад +2

    The thumbnail illustration is hilarious lol

  • @unkownenkay
    @unkownenkay 11 месяцев назад

    Loved the podcast bhai..
    main ek budding content creator hu aur abhi mehnge equipments afford nahi kr sakta.. iss giveaway se mujhe bohut help hogi.. baki jo bhi winner ho.. main apki videos regular follow kruga.. ❤❤

  • @khawajamazhar9188
    @khawajamazhar9188 4 года назад +5

    So that's why women are attracted to their children as they spark all these kinds of emotions?

  • @Rudolph_Manor
    @Rudolph_Manor 2 года назад +2

    Indifference Makes All Of The Difference. 😎

  • @EternalLife91
    @EternalLife91 5 лет назад +39

    Happy 3rd of December!

  • @bonfacemacharia8712
    @bonfacemacharia8712 3 года назад +2

    Women respect men who are able to walk away and mean it

  • @ravipeiris4388
    @ravipeiris4388 4 года назад +3

    I'm in the plans of getting back together with a lovely woman. I appreciate all your videos as you reference scientific studies in your analysis which gives a lot of weight and credibility to your premises.

  • @mirzasinggih
    @mirzasinggih 5 лет назад +13

    The more you are there for her the less she thinks of u.

  • @renaldsunset
    @renaldsunset 5 лет назад +34

    Because they adore the feeling of victimhood. Period

  • @OmerMan992
    @OmerMan992 4 года назад +4

    If I get a woman attracted by being mysterious, and we end up together, then won't she leave when the mystery ends?
    It sounds like a good bait, but also like a bad building block for a long lasting relationship..
    I am not criticizing, I am really asking out of curiosity, and also because I am thinking of applying this too.. I'm afraid it can't be maintained, and that relationships that are built on top of it will be unstable and eventually break...
    Would love to hear other perspective than mine, so I'll feel more assured to try this method. Thank you

    • @muhammadk9081
      @muhammadk9081 4 года назад

      I got the same question

    • @calphaking4893
      @calphaking4893 3 года назад +2

      @Christopher Bowler now be unpredictable. If she knows where you gonna be every hour change that. If she knows what you gonna eat every morning change it sometimes, change the routines sometimes. That's unpredictability, therefore mystery. Really important in marriage.

    • @muzyozymorey
      @muzyozymorey 3 года назад

      the biggest fear of women is when you walk away. just stay to be a responsible men and nice. don’t fear to leave her when she cheat on you. then she will be regret that she can’t find another men like you.

  • @noname89636
    @noname89636 5 лет назад

    This video is very good and educational. You have helped to evolve my thought.

  • @Calidore1
    @Calidore1 4 года назад +5

    I just don’t get this. My parents are fifty years married and they never acted out like this.

    • @ichaga
      @ichaga 4 года назад +1

      It's about 2021 relationships not in 40's

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 3 года назад

      @@ichaga But that still doesn't make sense, because the studies here based are on Evolutional theories

  • @vinaykaycee
    @vinaykaycee 5 лет назад

    Most Anticipated videos ! Gr8

  • @Seetesh-h4x
    @Seetesh-h4x 10 месяцев назад

    Nice explanation.. genuine comment

  • @gsf5882
    @gsf5882 2 года назад

    Hmm. This video seems to imply that if your girl is taking a hissy fit you should get angry back at her and storm out. I have watched lots of other videos that says the opposite. They say that because a woman is more emotional and a guy shouldn't be he should remain calm and 'weather the storm' and even just laugh it off because a woman needs a man who isn't controlled by her emotions. Which is correct.

  • @patrickharding4831
    @patrickharding4831 4 года назад +4

    So, treat them like a little girl that's looking for her lost dad.

  • @jesus4pincho
    @jesus4pincho 5 лет назад +11

    Not my case, 4 years with my crush and no uncertainty for her nor for me!! Best relationship ever PERIOD

  • @dantesaid4718
    @dantesaid4718 Год назад +1

    If your a Man always on your purpose the attraction naturally happens … it builds and builds the more you put yourself first….she won’t get enough of you.

  • @NhemLee
    @NhemLee 4 года назад +1

    Women just like everything else in life should not be the focus of your life but one of many pursuits.

  • @BlueFlame_l.o.g
    @BlueFlame_l.o.g 5 лет назад +1

    Excellent video 👌 Thanks

  • @anony5021
    @anony5021 4 года назад +1

    Save it. Short?: Keep drama in intervals.

  • @thesimpledevil4817
    @thesimpledevil4817 5 лет назад +11

    wtf. iam so wise i never hurt anyone thats why im single😂

  • @mreverybody1150
    @mreverybody1150 4 года назад +1

    The only thing that women can be certain about with me....is that they will be uncertain about me.

  • @goatonthatrack
    @goatonthatrack Год назад

    What women say and nothing are the same thing, they are based on emotions on that moment. Love/hate walks together, always. I saw my ex girlfriends do things that they said lot of times when they are into me that will ever do.

  • @XA1985
    @XA1985 2 года назад

    This is very true for men with options, I live in Colombia now and my value shot up and all the sudden I’m high value there cuz of the access to US dollars I have. I am now using this tactics I have learn on beautiful colombia women and it works as state fellas. I put myself out there but show no interest in women on purpose. The women know what I have access to and respond favorable

  • @sbdr.1241
    @sbdr.1241 5 лет назад +8

    Women you cant live with them, you cant live without them, even a super computer cant figure them out, they cant even figure themselves out..lol

    • @ontraccapp
      @ontraccapp 5 лет назад +3

      henry R. Understand the woman, and you will understand the world. Don’t give up brother. It’s all logical once you understand the source of their emotions.

    • @josephemris
      @josephemris 4 года назад

      Because it's all emotions running them in the background, and that shit changes constantly

  • @sompeace7417
    @sompeace7417 5 лет назад

    You helped me a lot, thank you so much man!

  • @halflifeepisode34980
    @halflifeepisode34980 4 года назад +2

    The cartoon woman just looks like a vacant future crazy cat lady

  • @GodsOwnKid
    @GodsOwnKid 5 лет назад +3

    Thank You

  • @_noname2032
    @_noname2032 3 года назад

    So basically so say, let her feel all her emotions?

  • @GStar1
    @GStar1 5 лет назад +7

    Tips for College guys?

    • @ronaldchannel
      @ronaldchannel 5 лет назад +3

      Go mgtow, safest option for young people.

    • @Hhhh22222-w
      @Hhhh22222-w 5 лет назад +3

      Focus on your college first, chase your ambitions and let woman chase you

    • @jehkjshrfk
      @jehkjshrfk 5 лет назад

      @@ronaldchannel says the guy who's be rr been laid

  • @zjpangilinan9625
    @zjpangilinan9625 5 лет назад +7

    Girls in my classroom likes bad boys,perverted,funny,handsome

  • @ytytyt2516
    @ytytyt2516 5 лет назад +1

    Than why girls dont like Dan Bilzerian?

  • @buiducmanh5052
    @buiducmanh5052 3 года назад

    What if the girl needs certainty, security and enthusiasm? Will I give her?

  • @Amousawie
    @Amousawie Год назад

    It sickens me to find out how shallow people are and how thin they think of a relationship between a man and a woman.
    So, please, leave couples alone, help if you can, if they ask for your help.
    Or you know that your provision will help them, so, give them what they need, if you see them struggling and can not ask for help in fear of disappointment.

  • @jarradhurley4866
    @jarradhurley4866 2 года назад +2

    Let's face it, if men had the same emotional and psychological make up as women, they'd all be diagnosed with bipolar disorder.

  • @222vessel
    @222vessel 5 лет назад +8

    Chris is the best

  • @stevenbrooks7787
    @stevenbrooks7787 4 года назад +2

    Liquor and women two things I don't chase

  • @ariesdm1981
    @ariesdm1981 4 года назад +1

    Men are rational & women are emotional. So men, please allow women to show their emotions.

  • @nvn__
    @nvn__ Год назад

    Pure gold 🪙

  • @Eckoolt
    @Eckoolt 5 лет назад +3

    I need a woman to make me cry

  • @kennyomegapushcesaropushhe4184
    @kennyomegapushcesaropushhe4184 5 лет назад +20

    Wait...so you're telling me to make a woman have negative emotions because of me and not just positive ones?
    Got it! 👍
    PS:
    I treated her like crap all day, insulted her as "fat chick" and slapped her in the face because the meal she cooked was bad (it was very good in fact, but I pretended it wasn't).
    At the end of the day she cried, so I guess I did it right, right?

    • @ronaldchannel
      @ronaldchannel 5 лет назад +10

      Good job, repeat that everyday !

    • @frenchiegonewild7264
      @frenchiegonewild7264 5 лет назад +1

      Yep...you should do it every second.

    • @ひろゆき二十一
      @ひろゆき二十一 5 лет назад +2

      Yeah I know, I hate these kind of manipulations but do not get the wrong idea that this gives leverage to treat women wrong. Just have your own opinions and do not over pursue by having your own dreams and aspirations. Thats it

    • @mikemurunga6570
      @mikemurunga6570 5 лет назад

      thats crazy

    • @jja.gaskeun
      @jja.gaskeun 5 лет назад

      😂

  • @Remo1147
    @Remo1147 4 года назад +3

    Why can’t women just be logical?

  • @ryanmiller5810
    @ryanmiller5810 5 лет назад +1

    Does this apply when you are already exclusive?

    • @10314347
      @10314347 5 лет назад

      ESPECIALLY when you are exclusive!

    • @myname4884
      @myname4884 5 лет назад

      @@10314347 what do you mean with exclusive ?

    • @asdefg374
      @asdefg374 5 лет назад

      @@myname4884 he mean he's OWNED!

    • @myname4884
      @myname4884 5 лет назад

      @@asdefg374 what do you mean by owned ?

  • @isaacjacob6986
    @isaacjacob6986 5 лет назад

    Best advices Chris....

  • @livingurdreams09
    @livingurdreams09 5 лет назад +1

    Basically, unconsciously women like to be treated as shit at time.

  • @reallifesituationsknowledg2630
    @reallifesituationsknowledg2630 5 лет назад

    Good one