This thing is not even a dating/men/women issue. Its a lack of home training issue. If you invite me to your house as a guest, depending on what time the guest comes over you take on the responsibility on feeding them. Don't invite me over and then expect me as a guest to feed you. That's wild
And then add the quiet part out loud...it's not cause u were sick or somehow unable to get it yourself or pay for it it's simply cause he don't feel like leaving the house so he expects her to not only pick it up but pay for it simply because he don't feel like it or cause he asked. That's bogus
Years ago, I said to my friends that some black men want to be the "new white woman". They want to be the princess and you are the knights. They dragged me and were so MAD. A few moments later. The same women in the group crying and meltdown about how they buy their bfs this and that and they cussed them out. Cheat on them and they don't know what to do. Now my nieces and lil cousins are going through the same now with these lil boys.
@@ec9833 I've talk to them and I'm a old woman who don't know the game. But when their friends, celebrities on social media are telling them. That's how ninjas act and it's all a part of the toxic struggle love story that they want. It's the Same Game just with younger players.
Facts 😅 I'm in my 30s and just like all these podcasts. I was trying to uplift women around me and tell them they're the prize. But nobody listen, everybody settled for bums. Most of them are now baby mama's crying about their poor decisions. While I have no kids n im happy that I take my own advice😊
@@monejohn9973 Sometimes people are not ready for the Harriet's of the world to save them from slavery. They have to fck up and find out for themselves.
Black men ARE the white women of the BC. They always been damsel in distress. The Karens... I'm glad that Black women are reclaiming their femininity and womanhood from these jealous ass 🥷🏾 Being with a Bm...you might as be in a lesbian relationship 😂
I also think it’s wild how HE is hosting and she is going out of her way to his home but he expects her to bring him something…. Lol I bet he expected some dessert on the side otherwise why would she be invited over, right 🤷🏾♀️ A lot of men are just hardwired to take any and everything they can get out of you. It’s normalized because it benefits them, and they know the pickmeishas will happily jump to their defense for free.99
I don’t even bother dating anymore bc there is nothing to gain from a lot of these men. It’s altitude for tat. Some women recognize the game or not willing to give up anything. I don’t blame them, mfs act stupid when you’re too nice .
I laugh so hard it makes my sides hurt 🤭........Everytime I imagine the same women prize that have the unmitigated gaul to fix their mouthes to call themselves 🎁 prizes sleeping on an air matress in their homegirls front room.
My ex was similar to this man he wanted to “trade place” like ushers song. I ignored for awhile but when he continued to bring it up, i explained to him I am a woman and he is a man and if he wanted to be treated like a woman then go get a man. I didn’t hear about again 🤦🏾♀️ just sad
@@ShielaM-p1w he wanted me to open his door pull his chair so he can sit down. He basically wanted to be treated like a woman. So I let him go find that.
My daughter is a Freshman in college. Her bf sends her $100/wk and pays for anything else she needs. A Fellowship and scholarships pay for her education. Oh and he’s only 4 days older than she is.
I have the mentality that if a man can’t meet my match and willing to equally elevate each other, he’s not the man for me. We both have to be equally yoked with a strong bond and foundation in our spiritual, mental, emotional and physical health and relationships.
I went out with this guy for new years. He was very feminine, attractive but feminine. Before we went into his friend’s New Year’s party he asked me, “how do I look?” Then another instance we were talking and he said, “I love everything beauty”, such as massages, facials, spas, he brought some $1500 shoes and was barking about people not stepping on them all night. Before we got out of the car to go into the party he spray hisself down in cologne, not the one spray most men do but he spray his self multiple times down like a woman. He was also emotional. He was a black guy. It was too much for me. I started to feel like the guy
Blk males have the highest estrogen level compared to non-Black men. Sooooo....I'm not surprised of your experience. I suggest date non-Black men moving forward.
You sure he wasn't a homosexual. By the way what type of energy you are putting off if you take on masculine energy you will attract fem. men with high masculine energy natural are drawn to the feminine
It's not bad for a man to self care sure your man is doing a lot yet still. It becomes a problem however if he expects his woman to up keep him. Men do need care, hygiene, and frankly to take pride in their appearance and that pride should very by man even into the case your saying if this does give him internal healing rather then ego.
The thing is women don’t need men, men need women. We’re just experiencing one of the downsides of hookup culture which is we are losing the experience of dating where a man proves himself to a woman. Some women indulge these guys, give themselves easily and then expect them to do a 180 and turn into Prince Charming? That’s not how it works.
The worst part is even if you’re a woman who never ever participated in hookup culture, you will still come across males like this. So you’re going to experience the “fallout.” Males think in general terms or the lowest input they can get away with. They fear that you are what they are. It’s a whole battle. That’s why I just said to hell with it. I’m out.
They're desperate too. Most of them work as sex workers having shenanigans w CLOSETED MEN FOR PAY -- And using that money TO ROMANCE YHE MEN THEY REALLY WANT -- SIMILAR TO THE BBL CHICKS who can't get a man, or even a sugar daddy (because the bbl doesn't give you good sex or sex appeal )😂😂
You still got him to pay for the first date. I went out with this guy this week and I had to buy my own food. Then he had the audacity to tell me that he really liked me and asked me to come over to his home to watch a movie on RUclips. As if I don't have Netflix and Disney plus!
@@singlemamanodrama4546 LOL why do some men think having the ability to watch something at their place is a sign of succuss like most people can't watch a movie in their home. It's like look at me look at me I can provide you with RUclips where would you be without me lol. I have met men that offered watching on their lame service like women don't have access. If you give in and watch on their small cheap tv they end up thing you owe them something for the oportunity.
BTaylor this is a bit hilarious and just down right pitiful...the testosterone is being drained by the gallon....ladies make any man you come in contact with WORK to even talk to you at this point...stop the coddling and the desperation for THESE BM who don't care and they tell you they don't care BELIEVE it......thanks for sharing this BT.....women ARE the PRIZE, absolutely....
Bishop BTaylor you gave a word today honey 🙌🏾🙌🏾 either they will come correct or not at all 💯 facts! Us women have to start playing chess instead of checkers with these males because we have been taking L’s for wayyy too long
I really wish people would get past this whole prize sh!@. And call things as they are. Which is women are tired of mistreatment, and some are just opting out. And that should be okay, but things are never that simple, are they.
It's because the women still want the man to chase them but they don't have self value, so they have to remind him that she's the prize. Men already know they need women, they just don't want to do right by them, so they resort to abuse.
I mean I don’t mind treating a man like a princess but the house better be cleaned, food better be ready when I get home, and the gps tracker on my fur babies damn well better show he had them outside and being played with for at least four hours. But sure. I’ll bring flowers, food, games, etc when I get home from work. Most men won’t agree then when they realize work still happens!
Right and it's not like historically this hasn't happened. They did a study on stone age humans recently and found 30% of hunters were women these women would defacto also be their fighters. In the woman's kits they found them to be both specialists and inventors as they had unique tools no male had & some made swiss army stones that were multi-tools of the era, these hunters provided more food to the tribe as they aged only death stopped them they did not retire. The male hunters rarely specialized, they quit at age 30, and held the same basic stone kits as when they became hunters meaning no upgrade just stagnation. So these men once they retired at age 30 means they became the childcare, the village home defense force, and the secondary batch or co-batch of foragers they still had to do other work it wasn't just retire and do nothing. If it truly was a do nothing situation then all women's homes would be an episode off the worst horders show.
When I FIRST heard this video , I didn’t closely listen to the entire scenario. And that’s MY fault, because honestly you hear similar stories all day long and it’s like black or white and never grey areas when either the man responds or the woman. Basically, I heard him saying he was dating a woman and she was headed to his house and he asked her for food since he was on her way . Then I heard him say he’s always the one and never complaining with her etc. Which is a fair point from him UNTIL I listened AGAIN to his story . Yeah , she had every right to request him to cash app her so she could get the food. He’s not in a relationship with her , so the dynamics are different. He’s supposed to win her over . He was completely wrong and sounds like a whiny little child on video. I took my own advice and listened before responding which I didn’t do the very first time I heard the story 🥴
It was confirmed that the video/story in question was fake. He made this video for clicks. He's BEEN in a whole committed relationship for years. People are making think pieces on something that never happened. We need to look into peoples content before we go off.
I'd be embarrassed if I was his gf (*but I bet she is color redacted-and therefore thinks this doesn't affect her.....until it does). It speaks volumes about BM that this is what they choose to put out into the world for "clicks."
If no body else is looking for helping or want these men why should I. We hear all the time about how men cry about how much they struggle and what they’re going through in the world and for whatever reason I’m supposed to deal with the drama he go through I’m supposed to sit there and let him cry
I saw the original video a while ago, and I keep forgetting to ask...what's on that guy's face? Those green things.... Is he out in public with silicone hydrogel undereye masks?
No one should date anyone who acts like this, man or woman. The fact that people do goes a lot towards a person's desperation or love. In a healthy relationship, each individual should be allowed to tell each other no, hell no, or go to hell, and the other person should be allowed to get a little pissy and feel a certain way for not getting what they want. But if someone reasonably saying no is a deal breaker, or if you want to break up with someone because they are establishing/enforcing their boundaries or having an opinion/emotions, you should be sing Byeeeeeeee!
Well he going to have to sleep for a long time is he's trying to get any beauty from using those eye patch if anything he need to use a whole mask, cover that mug completely. And also glue his mouth shut, because he really sounds STUPID.
There's a thing of raising the bar and then there is raising the bar to dog some men out. Just like some men there is some women that just don't have good intentions.
@@SelahMoonRa lol no, he knows how guys deal with other guys, not how guys deal with chicks. It's not the same. That would be like me trying to speak on a lesbian relationship. Chicks don't hold each other to the same standards as they hold guys to. Gay guys have a higher percentage of happy and successful relationships than heterosexual relationships. So as I said, he does not have a dog in this fight IF he doesn't deal with chicks.
@@btaylortv firstly, having testosterone doesn't make him a man, it makes him a male. Secondly, the relationships guys have with each other differ from that of a heterosexual couple or even a lesbian couple. The dynamics are not even remotely the same even if a few things are in common. There's a history behind why guys and chicks interact the way they do, and stats showing how the relationships between two guys are usually lasting longer than that of heterosexual couples or even lesbian couples. So what he's dealing with isn't the same thing heterosexual couples are dealing with and fat different than that of lesbian couples just in general.
THERAPY is hopefully the answer if there's no home training. I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE. I'm gratefully glad I BLOCKED and left from a 38 year old with kids who acts like a kid himself. My first and last time experiencing that foolishness.☮
Some of us don’t form emotional bonds when we have sex. I’m aromantic and don’t feel the need for romantic relationships. I can have sex with no feelings and be perfectly fine with that. I think that is an old way of thinking.
@@gardenwonder7977Why? Men been saying they can have sex without emotions being involved. No, not everytime a woman has sex will she be emotional over the guy. Some she will and some she won't.
@@dollhouseq1530So you want to be a male disconnected from your feminine energy just having sex without any real intent 😏🙄😬 Wow!!! So basically you just allow any energy to enter your womb! And, to be proud 😢 #DeadWomb #NoSelfWorth #KnowthySelf
Because he started by saying she wasnt his woman. He didn't say girlfriend, he said they were aquatinted lol. So dating casually, not exclusive. So either y'all dont want to listen or you guys are in situationships running around for "y'all" men.
There is no problem if he is equally putting in the effort. The women that are venting about it being an issue is when a man puts no effort energy and demands the women to take care of them all while being disrespectful. Like the story they weren't even in a committed relationship, yet the man seems to never have treated her yet expects her to come over plus pick up buy the food that is disrespectful cause even though he shows no true interested put no effort he is likely also going to expect sexual favors being he trapped her at his place. Yes, in a healthy relationship there is back and forth mutual showing affection. But in the beginning stage if the man is not initiating, he is showing he has no real interest a man will invest when he wants value something so if up front, they are acting entitled that's a sign they don't respect you.
@@Hyear2030 we’re in a committed relationship now, but at the beginning we both treated each other. So I am listening, it’s just everyone is different in how they date.
@@_politefrog_8892Sounds like you weren’t seeing other people though? And spoiling each other can mean different things. Unless you were in this exact scenario, your experience isn’t as relevant.
I see nothing wrong with it if she asked to hang with him. If he asked her to hang out with him, then ya, he should pay for the food. We're adults. Women can be the aggressors and can be the ones that corts. I really don't understand why I got to wait for a guy to ask me out? Why does he get to plan the date. I know what I like. I can take him out, and if we hit it off, he can take me out and plan the next one.
The one who asks for the date is the one who pays. I don't understand how that's "doing anything for attention". If you're on a date with someone you're not interested in, it's unfair to also be expected to pay.@@paisleykinchlow
@paisleykinchlow Who's waiting for a guy to get around to asking them out? I know what I want, and I go for it. That's independence. If I like a guy, I'll ask him out. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
I am from India. And hot guys who have money, or sometimes even broke ones, act the same here. They always want to know what you as a woman will give him your money, resources, sex, house, property, what not..? Because they are in the minority here. They can have whatever they want and not give the woman anything in return. What this well meaning woman at 4:30 doesn't see is he can have a different woman who pays for him, a different one for sex, and so on.
He only asked for a $20 dollar meal and she couldn’t do that but she wants her hair and nails done. This guy is a really nice person. These women want all the qualities of a man but give low performances. Pray for this man that finds someone matching his standards
Lets not be so negative about these kings now. Just pray and ask God to change him! because with God all things are possible! Oooooh I feel the spirit! Ohh shonda shiimmy shummy shonda! Hallelujah 🙌🏾!
@@btaylortv 🤣nooooo ! Seriously ...Some black women in fact a lot of black women have enlightened me about my NEGATIVE energy about black men, and I must change my attitude! So, so I'm only following expectations. I will speak 🗣️ LIFE!! into the kangz! 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏻♀️🙌🏾
Men move by two levers and two levers only....FEAR AND SELF INTEREST. They don't care about your prayers and they will drain someone like you who's ready and willing to open yourself up to the manipulation. I'll pray for you, not them. U gone need it
If you take sex out, you will see these toxic men are not offering you nothing of real value. Might as well be alone if he not providing.
Thank you. I say the same thing.
Exactly why it's a lot of sexless males out here, its at all time high rate. It's breaking them down
Take sex out period((everywomen) you'll see whole different men. Like chi raq.. "no progress...no 🐱"
What can you.offer a man
Other than open your legs
All of this fam! 💯🙌🏾
As a Woman we should exit left if a guy gives zesty vibes. Let these guys toot toot for a Zaddy and leave them be!!
😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂😂
💯🙌🏾❤️
Rofl😂
Oh he was absolutely zesty 😅😂😂
This thing is not even a dating/men/women issue. Its a lack of home training issue. If you invite me to your house as a guest, depending on what time the guest comes over you take on the responsibility on feeding them. Don't invite me over and then expect me as a guest to feed you. That's wild
Don’t invite me at all. With technology and hidden cameras hmm integrity and trust comes to mind
He invited her over because he was broke and hungry. 😹😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾
Exactly! My parents used to yell at me for not feeding my friends whenever they came over. A host feeds their guests, not the other way around
That’s so true. Why invite her over.
And then add the quiet part out loud...it's not cause u were sick or somehow unable to get it yourself or pay for it it's simply cause he don't feel like leaving the house so he expects her to not only pick it up but pay for it simply because he don't feel like it or cause he asked. That's bogus
Years ago, I said to my friends that some black men want to be the "new white woman". They want to be the princess and you are the knights. They dragged me and were so MAD. A few moments later. The same women in the group crying and meltdown about how they buy their bfs this and that and they cussed them out. Cheat on them and they don't know what to do. Now my nieces and lil cousins are going through the same now with these lil boys.
Save your nieces, please. 🙏🏽
@@ec9833 I've talk to them and I'm a old woman who don't know the game. But when their friends, celebrities on social media are telling them. That's how ninjas act and it's all a part of the toxic struggle love story that they want. It's the Same Game just with younger players.
Facts 😅 I'm in my 30s and just like all these podcasts. I was trying to uplift women around me and tell them they're the prize. But nobody listen, everybody settled for bums. Most of them are now baby mama's crying about their poor decisions. While I have no kids n im happy that I take my own advice😊
@@monejohn9973 Sometimes people are not ready for the Harriet's of the world to save them from slavery. They have to fck up and find out for themselves.
Black men ARE the white women of the BC. They always been damsel in distress. The Karens...
I'm glad that Black women are reclaiming their femininity and womanhood from these jealous ass 🥷🏾
Being with a Bm...you might as be in a lesbian relationship 😂
Women need to learn to utilize the block button when 🥷try this foolishness. It’s not even worth a back and forth.
AGREED and it will forever stay on BLOCKED. I'm single and upset all over again for clicking on this video lol
I also think it’s wild how HE is hosting and she is going out of her way to his home but he expects her to bring him something…. Lol
I bet he expected some dessert on the side otherwise why would she be invited over, right 🤷🏾♀️
A lot of men are just hardwired to take any and everything they can get out of you. It’s normalized because it benefits them, and they know the pickmeishas will happily jump to their defense for free.99
Exactly!!
YES!!!!! And give you absolutely nothing in return. Why, why, WHY would anyone even bother with ANYONE like that??!!
And he probably still got it too, from a woman with what he considers a « character flaw ». Very telling
I don’t even bother dating anymore bc there is nothing to gain from a lot of these men. It’s altitude for tat. Some women recognize the game or not willing to give up anything. I don’t blame them, mfs act stupid when you’re too nice .
Don’t let it blow your mind. This is #gawd-knows-what thing they do within the same bounds of draining women of their energies & labor & resources.
Women are the prize
Sure are!!!!
All day every day!
on period 💅
always have been, always will be.
I laugh so hard it makes my sides hurt 🤭........Everytime I imagine the same women prize that have the unmitigated gaul to fix their mouthes to call themselves 🎁 prizes sleeping on an air matress in their homegirls front room.
It's mommy issues! Mothers need to stop babying them by the 6th grade! It creates grown babies.…
These men that want to be treated like princesses give me DL vibes.
My ex was similar to this man he wanted to “trade place” like ushers song. I ignored for awhile but when he continued to bring it up, i explained to him I am a woman and he is a man and if he wanted to be treated like a woman then go get a man. I didn’t hear about again 🤦🏾♀️ just sad
And you did right 💅 got to put them in place
Lmaoooo. But I bet he excised himself from your life after that lol.
What was he asking you to do exactly?
@@ShielaM-p1w he wanted me to open his door pull his chair so he can sit down. He basically wanted to be treated like a woman. So I let him go find that.
Lol not trading places 😂
He carries purses and gets his nails polished😮😮😮 so if yall cant see the red flags then thats on yall duh. And he was in prison🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
😨ROTFL! Don’t forget the lashes and waxing☠️☠️☠️
Lmaoo
😂😂😂
Oh boi! 😂
Gangstalicious 😊
My daughter is a Freshman in college. Her bf sends her $100/wk and pays for anything else she needs. A Fellowship and scholarships pay for her education. Oh and he’s only 4 days older than she is.
Ok a provider… love this for her!
Date with intent to marry, not to waste time and go with the flow and see where it goes. It's a mindset my baddies. Now go forth and do great things!
Marriage is sl¤v*ry for women. Dating for marriage is a trap!
I have the mentality that if a man can’t meet my match and willing to equally elevate each other, he’s not the man for me. We both have to be equally yoked with a strong bond and foundation in our spiritual, mental, emotional and physical health and relationships.
Ladies, don't just know your worth, make moves like you know your worth. Choose peace.
🔥🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽😘😘😘😘
I went out with this guy for new years. He was very feminine, attractive but feminine. Before we went into his friend’s New Year’s party he asked me, “how do I look?” Then another instance we were talking and he said, “I love everything beauty”, such as massages, facials, spas, he brought some $1500 shoes and was barking about people not stepping on them all night. Before we got out of the car to go into the party he spray hisself down in cologne, not the one spray most men do but he spray his self multiple times down like a woman. He was also emotional. He was a black guy. It was too much for me. I started to feel like the guy
Blk males have the highest estrogen level compared to non-Black men. Sooooo....I'm not surprised of your experience.
I suggest date non-Black men moving forward.
You sure he wasn't a homosexual. By the way what type of energy you are putting off if you take on masculine energy you will attract fem. men with high masculine energy natural are drawn to the feminine
It's not bad for a man to self care sure your man is doing a lot yet still. It becomes a problem however if he expects his woman to up keep him. Men do need care, hygiene, and frankly to take pride in their appearance and that pride should very by man even into the case your saying if this does give him internal healing rather then ego.
Downlow
The thing is women don’t need men, men need women. We’re just experiencing one of the downsides of hookup culture which is we are losing the experience of dating where a man proves himself to a woman. Some women indulge these guys, give themselves easily and then expect them to do a 180 and turn into Prince Charming? That’s not how it works.
The worst part is even if you’re a woman who never ever participated in hookup culture, you will still come across males like this. So you’re going to experience the “fallout.” Males think in general terms or the lowest input they can get away with. They fear that you are what they are. It’s a whole battle. That’s why I just said to hell with it. I’m out.
no hook up culture in South East Asia still same here
I swear if they just go get transformers they will be 1000% happier 🤷🏾♀️
They’re (some not all) are at the level how desperate they want women to be 😂
They're desperate too. Most of them work as sex workers having shenanigans w CLOSETED MEN FOR PAY -- And using that money TO ROMANCE YHE MEN THEY REALLY WANT -- SIMILAR TO THE BBL CHICKS who can't get a man, or even a sugar daddy (because the bbl doesn't give you good sex or sex appeal )😂😂
These type of Men are enslaved by their enabling Families
Christian Walker has been making points for a while now and Idk how to feel about it 🤣
I think Christian has a new therapist because his messages have been filled with clarity, truth, and common sense. 🤔
Right! Talk about even a broken clock being right twice a day….like damn, if he is speaking on it than it really is bad out there in the dating world.
I guess after the whole thing with his dad, reality woke him up.
I don't know dude. But it doesn't seem like he is courting a female either 😅
@@brandonburns5365
He ain't lying either way 😂
I had a guy demand that I pay for our second date. When I questioned him he got angry and blocked me. His loss.
You still got him to pay for the first date. I went out with this guy this week and I had to buy my own food. Then he had the audacity to tell me that he really liked me and asked me to come over to his home to watch a movie on RUclips. As if I don't have Netflix and Disney plus!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@singlemamanodrama4546 LOL why do some men think having the ability to watch something at their place is a sign of succuss like most people can't watch a movie in their home. It's like look at me look at me I can provide you with RUclips where would you be without me lol. I have met men that offered watching on their lame service like women don't have access. If you give in and watch on their small cheap tv they end up thing you owe them something for the oportunity.
the under eye patches sent me, case closed.
Case closed shut 😂😩
I always wondered about this Trell the trainer guy. He provides hygiene and dating tips but still gives off player / I am the prize vibes
@@acestaronehe also went to prison… you know what be happening in male prisons … butt fucking 😅. Case closer
@@number-uz1es oh my
bring the zest but leave the entitlement
Even if he sent her the money (miracle that would be), then I would add, she is NOT a food delivery service either.
Men want to be the girl in the relationship 🎯
men gotta prove themselves! if they don’t benefit us, then bye dusty! 💅
we don't need to prove anything we know our self worth
BTaylor this is a bit hilarious and just down right pitiful...the testosterone is being drained by the gallon....ladies make any man you come in contact with WORK to even talk to you at this point...stop the coddling and the desperation for THESE BM who don't care and they tell you they don't care BELIEVE it......thanks for sharing this BT.....women ARE the PRIZE, absolutely....
Thank you for watching 💕💕💕
Why be with a man if you have to pay?
because days are gone when men used to earn and women stayed at home, now both earn
im familiar with this male influencer, ladies he been giving sassy. He paints his nails wears a purse and skirts.
Did he lie though?
@catmouse2882
Exactly. He should know because his father is Herschel Walker, one of the kangz of Dustiness (with non-black women though).
The first guy though oh my man.
Wow, this truly is the sassy men apocalypse. 💀
Perfect example of how some men do not know how to raise a boy into a man. B Taylor..you are appreciated.
Bishop BTaylor you gave a word today honey 🙌🏾🙌🏾 either they will come correct or not at all 💯 facts! Us women have to start playing chess instead of checkers with these males because we have been taking L’s for wayyy too long
Thank you 💕💕💕
These XY's want to rest in their femininity
These guys expecting to be treated like gals, describes the red pill community to a t.
Omg he hasn’t told any lies! This applies especially to guys (not men) from Blackistan!
Lol
I really wish people would get past this whole prize sh!@. And call things as they are. Which is women are tired of mistreatment, and some are just opting out. And that should be okay, but things are never that simple, are they.
It's because the women still want the man to chase them but they don't have self value, so they have to remind him that she's the prize. Men already know they need women, they just don't want to do right by them, so they resort to abuse.
I mean I don’t mind treating a man like a princess but the house better be cleaned, food better be ready when I get home, and the gps tracker on my fur babies damn well better show he had them outside and being played with for at least four hours.
But sure. I’ll bring flowers, food, games, etc when I get home from work.
Most men won’t agree then when they realize work still happens!
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Right and it's not like historically this hasn't happened. They did a study on stone age humans recently and found 30% of hunters were women these women would defacto also be their fighters. In the woman's kits they found them to be both specialists and inventors as they had unique tools no male had & some made swiss army stones that were multi-tools of the era, these hunters provided more food to the tribe as they aged only death stopped them they did not retire.
The male hunters rarely specialized, they quit at age 30, and held the same basic stone kits as when they became hunters meaning no upgrade just stagnation. So these men once they retired at age 30 means they became the childcare, the village home defense force, and the secondary batch or co-batch of foragers they still had to do other work it wasn't just retire and do nothing. If it truly was a do nothing situation then all women's homes would be an episode off the worst horders show.
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Yep. Hilarious how many people don’t know any of this and just pretend women have always been some damsels.
Lmao and he has a Latina gf 😂😭🫣 story not adding up now……..💀💀💀💀
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Protect this lady, smartest lady in the internet
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Say that‼️ love this. This is exactly why I. Single. Kuz if these men don't lie they cheat. Not all. But definitely most of them
Same, they’re becoming too sassy 😩
@@btaylortvSASSY? EXPLAIN
@@rahzikashiharris9539 they want princess treatment
Sassy and according to Forbes, they are the gold diggers.
@@btaylortv it's a lot of hit dogs that be hollering in the comments. These are the ones it applies to. These men think they are running game.
I been seeing this for years ... they envy the seemingly ease at which women get material things... shallow materialistic men are like that ....
Hilarious, I literally told my ex that he wanted princess treatment. This will be a joy to watch
I'm speaking from experience, I've dealt with "men" living that soft pillow girl lifestyle. Including/starting with my dad
"What will you do for me?" = "The labor you do is not valued so I don't see it."
When I FIRST heard this video , I didn’t closely listen to the entire scenario.
And that’s MY fault, because honestly you hear similar stories all day long and it’s like black or white and never grey areas when either the man responds or the woman.
Basically, I heard him saying he was dating a woman and she was headed to his house and he asked her for food since he was on her way . Then I heard him say he’s always the one and never complaining with her etc.
Which is a fair point from him UNTIL I listened AGAIN to his story .
Yeah , she had every right to request him to cash app her so she could get the food. He’s not in a relationship with her , so the dynamics are different. He’s supposed to win her over .
He was completely wrong and sounds like a whiny little child on video.
I took my own advice and listened before responding which I didn’t do the very first time I heard the story 🥴
These Male want to be Bad B's.. I never liked that guy.
I’ve Noticed This With My Daughter’s Friends… Same Story All The Time … It’s Unbelievable!!!..Continue To Work On Yourselves Ladies… SAHWM Of 30 Years
It was confirmed that the video/story in question was fake. He made this video for clicks. He's BEEN in a whole committed relationship for years. People are making think pieces on something that never happened. We need to look into peoples content before we go off.
I'd be embarrassed if I was his gf (*but I bet she is color redacted-and therefore thinks this doesn't affect her.....until it does). It speaks volumes about BM that this is what they choose to put out into the world for "clicks."
@@BB-gd7ez correct!. She is not of African descent. If they sitting in the car talking to the camera I just keep scrolling.
@@BB-gd7ezyou fell for it😅
Sassy man apocalypse 💀
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Your welcome very essential content that the young ladies and even the older ones like me need today 🙏
The guy who said the woman wouldn’t bring him food is in a whole relationship. He made that story up for clout.
lol!! He wants bypass Uber eats fee!! With an extra bonus😅😅😅
He probably doesn't have a credit or debit card to pay for Uber eats.
Alot of black men are super sassy and really need to come out and live their truths.
Boundaries.
Amen!!! The dude in the green!! Is spot on!! Value yourself ladies or stay single!! Also black women!! Open your options!!!!!
Love this advice. Thank you!❤
If no body else is looking for helping or want these men why should I. We hear all the time about how men cry about how much they struggle and what they’re going through in the world and for whatever reason I’m supposed to deal with the drama he go through I’m supposed to sit there and let him cry
I saw the original video a while ago, and I keep forgetting to ask...what's on that guy's face? Those green things.... Is he out in public with silicone hydrogel undereye masks?
Lol yesss 😩🤦🏾♀️😂
No one should date anyone who acts like this, man or woman. The fact that people do goes a lot towards a person's desperation or love. In a healthy relationship, each individual should be allowed to tell each other no, hell no, or go to hell, and the other person should be allowed to get a little pissy and feel a certain way for not getting what they want. But if someone reasonably saying no is a deal breaker, or if you want to break up with someone because they are establishing/enforcing their boundaries or having an opinion/emotions, you should be sing Byeeeeeeee!
Up becoming Down and Ðown is becoming Up.
Well he going to have to sleep for a long time is he's trying to get any beauty from using those eye patch if anything he need to use a whole mask, cover that mug completely. And also glue his mouth shut, because he really sounds STUPID.
There's a thing of raising the bar and then there is raising the bar to dog some men out. Just like some men there is some women that just don't have good intentions.
It's not Men it's Only Black American Men Say that own that And Recognize that.
It’s our fault. Women are too easy these days.
Men nature never fell foreal cheating but we love you
Stop taking advice from gay men about dating hetro. Y’all crazy
He hasn’t said anything that other straight men and women haven’t said. He said nothing new
Does he even date women? If not, he doesn't even have a dog in this fight lol
He definitely does even if he dates men cuz he's a man as well and knows how yall act
He’s a man, still has testosterone just like other men and can still call out his counterparts
Just because a man dates women doesn't mean they don't secretly date men either. Which is why most of them want Princess treatment 💅🏾
@@SelahMoonRa lol no, he knows how guys deal with other guys, not how guys deal with chicks. It's not the same. That would be like me trying to speak on a lesbian relationship. Chicks don't hold each other to the same standards as they hold guys to. Gay guys have a higher percentage of happy and successful relationships than heterosexual relationships. So as I said, he does not have a dog in this fight IF he doesn't deal with chicks.
@@btaylortv firstly, having testosterone doesn't make him a man, it makes him a male. Secondly, the relationships guys have with each other differ from that of a heterosexual couple or even a lesbian couple. The dynamics are not even remotely the same even if a few things are in common. There's a history behind why guys and chicks interact the way they do, and stats showing how the relationships between two guys are usually lasting longer than that of heterosexual couples or even lesbian couples. So what he's dealing with isn't the same thing heterosexual couples are dealing with and fat different than that of lesbian couples just in general.
THERAPY is hopefully the answer if there's no home training. I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE. I'm gratefully glad I BLOCKED and left from a 38 year old with kids who acts like a kid himself. My first and last time experiencing that foolishness.☮
Son husbands and feminine energy make for a bad day.
Lmao, she literally said " you got McDonald's money" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Absolutely right!
Facts B Taylor...
Hey Queen Btaylor hun had a busy day so catching the play back this AM, keep Queening ✨
Morning Tea with my coffee
I been saying this for a minute. Ooh child that man was speaking facts.
💯%true but why do I feel like Christians talking about his dad🤷🏽♀️🙃?
Real talk with yani exposed him. He lying. Go him a whole latina GF.
Isn't That Herschel Walker's Son??...
He's actually in a relationship and the story is fake
Yup! Everything is clout now
Match my energy, match my effort.
Yea he is def sassy, I see a lot of his shorts pop up in YT. All of them are suspect
How is a gay man criticizing another man’s masculinity..😭😭
Closed up shop ladies clink clink!
Hw would’ve been mad at me, cause if he’s at home why can’t he go get food.
Princesse men
Present and accounted for……😆👍🏿
This man paints his nails also and has been an inmate so do with that what you will.
Some of us don’t form emotional bonds when we have sex. I’m aromantic and don’t feel the need for romantic relationships. I can have sex with no feelings and be perfectly fine with that. I think that is an old way of thinking.
That's called a sociopath.
@@gardenwonder7977Why? Men been saying they can have sex without emotions being involved. No, not everytime a woman has sex will she be emotional over the guy. Some she will and some she won't.
@@gardenwonder7977 it's called being a human. Sex is whatever. What builds a bond, in my opinion, are the little things like walks
@@dollhouseq1530So you want to be a male disconnected from your feminine energy just having sex without any real intent 😏🙄😬 Wow!!! So basically you just allow any energy to enter your womb! And, to be proud 😢 #DeadWomb #NoSelfWorth #KnowthySelf
@@Mavuika_GyaruWTF?!?! Sex is not whatever......it's an extreme energy exchange!!! WTH😮
Now he got a video up telling men what women like🤔🤔🤔 🙄🙄🙄
You didn't show the video of him talking?
Amen!
It was a fake story, and he has gf and he just wants trending.
this fool again. did he get anything to eat? lol
I spoil my man like how he spoils me and we have an amazing relationship. I don’t see the problem with this.
Because he started by saying she wasnt his woman. He didn't say girlfriend, he said they were aquatinted lol. So dating casually, not exclusive. So either y'all dont want to listen or you guys are in situationships running around for "y'all" men.
There is no problem if he is equally putting in the effort. The women that are venting about it being an issue is when a man puts no effort energy and demands the women to take care of them all while being disrespectful. Like the story they weren't even in a committed relationship, yet the man seems to never have treated her yet expects her to come over plus pick up buy the food that is disrespectful cause even though he shows no true interested put no effort he is likely also going to expect sexual favors being he trapped her at his place.
Yes, in a healthy relationship there is back and forth mutual showing affection. But in the beginning stage if the man is not initiating, he is showing he has no real interest a man will invest when he wants value something so if up front, they are acting entitled that's a sign they don't respect you.
@@Hyear2030 we’re in a committed relationship now, but at the beginning we both treated each other. So I am listening, it’s just everyone is different in how they date.
@@_politefrog_8892Sounds like you weren’t seeing other people though? And spoiling each other can mean different things. Unless you were in this exact scenario, your experience isn’t as relevant.
@@_politefrog_8892 Okay masculina.
Not cutie sleep😂
I’ve seen that guys RUclips videos lol
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I see nothing wrong with it if she asked to hang with him. If he asked her to hang out with him, then ya, he should pay for the food. We're adults. Women can be the aggressors and can be the ones that corts. I really don't understand why I got to wait for a guy to ask me out? Why does he get to plan the date. I know what I like. I can take him out, and if we hit it off, he can take me out and plan the next one.
😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡ok pick me
@@angelchampagne2486 If you seating there waiting for someone to ask you out who's the pick me?
@@magoo9279 you’re still the pick me aka do anything to get a man’s attention 😂😂😂
The one who asks for the date is the one who pays. I don't understand how that's "doing anything for attention". If you're on a date with someone you're not interested in, it's unfair to also be expected to pay.@@paisleykinchlow
@paisleykinchlow Who's waiting for a guy to get around to asking them out? I know what I want, and I go for it. That's independence. If I like a guy, I'll ask him out. Ain't nothing wrong with that.
This is why Jasmine is my least favorite Disney Princess.
“I am not a prize to be won!!”
Girl, shut up…
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I am from India. And hot guys who have money, or sometimes even broke ones, act the same here. They always want to know what you as a woman will give him your money, resources, sex, house, property, what not..? Because they are in the minority here. They can have whatever they want and not give the woman anything in return. What this well meaning woman at 4:30 doesn't see is he can have a different woman who pays for him, a different one for sex, and so on.
He only asked for a $20 dollar meal and she couldn’t do that but she wants her hair and nails done. This guy is a really nice person. These women want all the qualities of a man but give low performances. Pray for this man that finds someone matching his standards
Lets not be so negative about these kings now. Just pray and ask God to change him! because with God all things are possible! Oooooh I feel the spirit! Ohh shonda shiimmy shummy shonda! Hallelujah 🙌🏾!
Lmaoooo I just know you’re trolling 😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@btaylortv 🤣nooooo ! Seriously ...Some black women in fact a lot of black women have enlightened me about my NEGATIVE energy about black men, and I must change my attitude! So, so I'm only following expectations. I will speak 🗣️ LIFE!! into the kangz! 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏻♀️🙌🏾
@@PINKBOIKWEENOFSOUL 😩😩😩😭
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Men move by two levers and two levers only....FEAR AND SELF INTEREST. They don't care about your prayers and they will drain someone like you who's ready and willing to open yourself up to the manipulation. I'll pray for you, not them. U gone need it