How I Stopped Talking to Myself (Turn Off Your Inner Monologue and Live Peacefully)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @crazycookfyrelomenot
    @crazycookfyrelomenot 10 месяцев назад +10

    i love this, had the same realization after extreme depression. inner monologue can be killed through the destruction of the ego or through hyper awareness of your internal awareness; the inner monologue, when allowed to grow like a weed in the garden of the mind, chokes all other plants...

  • @kingofcelts
    @kingofcelts Год назад +12

    I think the way we are taught language and reading in our basic schooling encourages this endless self talk. Try reading and that voice is automatically there..

  • @calebquimby
    @calebquimby Год назад +5

    Dude I turned it off for a long time. I then turned it on because I was like what does it feel like to hear one’s thoughts. This was crazy. And I understand why so many of us distract ourselves with simple pleasures.

  • @DesignDesigns
    @DesignDesigns 2 месяца назад +3

    So so true....I always had deppression like issue. Back in 2015, I learned about Buddhist meditation and started to practice how to identify self talk(amazing how many of them in my mind) and distance myself from them. And within months, for the first time in my life, I started to feel good.....Crazy how stressful and influential the self talks are!

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  2 месяца назад

      @@DesignDesigns I'm glad you were able to free yourself from excessive thought. Thank you for sharing my friend.

  • @SentByNature
    @SentByNature Год назад +5

    You're a smart man.

  • @ExcellentHealth
    @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +13

    Stopping my inner monologue has been one of the best pursuits I've ever chosen. Doing what I say in this video will seriously make your life so much more enjoyable. Trust me, the contents of this video are unlike anything you've ever heard.
    Book Recommendations in order for going about this even faster:
    1. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
    2. The Book of Not Knowing by Peter Ralston (with rereads)
    3. Pursuing Consciousness by Peter Ralston (with rereads)
    4. The Genius of Being (with rereads)

  • @bannedwagon2006
    @bannedwagon2006 3 месяца назад +2

    Bhagavan Ramana maharshi is esteemed on the topic. Glad you brought up the idea of removing self

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  2 месяца назад +1

      Ramana Maharshi, Nisargadatta, Shinzen Young, Peter Ralston, and even Frank Yang are great.

  • @HonchoUNO
    @HonchoUNO 9 месяцев назад +4

    Literally two days in and although it feels like a CONSTANT battle, by stopping my internal dialogue whenever I feel it building up I do feel way more present around people. I'm somebody who can go into hyper thought loop patterns evaluating everything in life whether myself, others or the whole universal and by actually being present even when just in your room doing something, you can get a lot more out of the situation although as I said, if you're someone like me who can think internally a lot it does take discipline.
    When alone if I feel a strong resonation to thought and I identify it as a conducive one, I will go speak it out loud to be more intentional and direct about where it's coming from rather than handle it in my head.
    Crazy that you have only 2.5k subs, my friend. Great video my friend.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  9 месяцев назад +1

      You'd benefit a lot from The Book of Not Knowing. Glad to have you here my friend.

  • @markghammartist
    @markghammartist Месяц назад +2

    eckhart tolls pretty much changed my life! great video brother!

  • @pureoxin8135
    @pureoxin8135 Месяц назад

    When I find myself here it’s strange. It’s like a different world. It gets so very interesting when you see the thoughts. Where do they come from? I don’t know. Just amazing

  • @SoulEscalator
    @SoulEscalator Год назад +2

    Wow, nice video. Very insightful, thank you.

  • @sladeinfiltrator3360
    @sladeinfiltrator3360 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve never realized it, but when I throw away my sense of “self,” talking to everyone is so much easier

    • @sladeinfiltrator3360
      @sladeinfiltrator3360 6 месяцев назад +2

      Like I don’t feel peace until I suppress my inner monologue.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  6 месяцев назад +1

      Usually, in moments of intense pleasure or happiness, self disappears. Most people don't notice these things because they're not important for survival.

  • @zdravko.jelev.
    @zdravko.jelev. Месяц назад +1

    But if we don’t think, how can we create?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Месяц назад

      This question is indicative of having missed the point of the video. Conscious thinking is not an inner monologue. An inner monologue is something involuntary. As far as thinking goes, you don’t need to talk to yourself to think.

    • @zdravko.jelev.
      @zdravko.jelev. Месяц назад +1

      @@ExcellentHealthmy english is not excellent and i missed the point. Thank you for explaining.
      I asked the question but in any way i didnt say this is false, because i am going through this and was wondering, am I happy or am I fooling myself by avoiding problems

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Месяц назад

      It's not about avoiding problems, it's about your disposition to them. I can clean up a spilled glass or solve a relationship issue while being peaceful inside, or I can perform the same actions while overthinking and being agitated. That's the distinction to make.

  • @evabertoluzzi68
    @evabertoluzzi68 Год назад +4

    How do you not fall asleep when doing this? I just tried it out, but fell asleep…

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад

      Happens to me sometimes. If you do it close to bed time, you fall asleep. If you still experience sleepiness, do it with your eyes open.

  • @jordanrogan2534
    @jordanrogan2534 Год назад +4

    I Used to be able to go into this state with ease. discovered it by myself when I was 17 years old through yoga practice. There is no state like it, it is absolute stillness of mind and body. Good video my friend 👍

  • @katieakakt
    @katieakakt Месяц назад +2

    But people say you have to have a strong sense of self and be self aware… ? Life is so confusing

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Месяц назад

      I've never heard anyone say this. Awareness and having as strong sense of self are opposites.A strong sense of self is the result of accumulating many mental-emotional patterns. One part of self awareness is to recognize these mental-emotional patterns as illusions. Life being confusing is just a thought you have.

  • @ThinkingFreedom
    @ThinkingFreedom Год назад +3

    this video made me have a very deep realization at around 12:38 / 12:39, had to pause the video. Even in uttering the phrase “I killed myself” there is in it an embedded inescapable confession built into the very man made fabric of language itself that there is something beyond the self. 😮

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +2

      The fact that "you" observe the inner monologue renders the inner monologue not you.

    • @ThinkingFreedom
      @ThinkingFreedom Год назад

      @@ExcellentHealththat’s deep, not sure I fully understand will think on it a little. What I was getting at is if the I is only capable of killing the self then that suggests there’s something beyond the self in that statement itself. For example if I were to say I ate my food it would imply there is food beyond my food which I didn’t eat. Or I slept in my house implies there are houses that are not mine. If you were the last man on Earth it wouldn’t make less sense to say “I slept in my house” as there is no demarcation between what is yours and what isn’t anymore.
      We don’t say “I killed I” or “I ceased to exist.” Maybe the self in I killed myself is a reference to the physical vessel and a for some unintended confession that there is something beyond that physical body.

    • @crazycookfyrelomenot
      @crazycookfyrelomenot 10 месяцев назад

      @@ExcellentHealth consider the muslim belief in the qareen, a jinn who functions as the shadow of the self who whispers into your ear. metaphysically the prophet was superior for converting his qareen to islam, a right path. The model is set - defeat the whisper! every culture has its own understanding of this inner monologue...

  • @AtalBur1
    @AtalBur1 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful video bro

  • @slizer88
    @slizer88 5 месяцев назад +1

    Inner monologue doesn't have to be bad. The better approach is to have your inner monologue be positive, not to turn it off. That's the equivalent of getting an error on a computer, and solving it by unplugging the computer. There are a lot of advantages to having inner monologue that one misses out on if they simply stop trying to use it. That's not to say that everyone must use inner monologue, it's each individual's choice, but it would be wrong to just let people do that without hearing arguments for both sides.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@slizer88 listen to the quote from The Genius of Being again. It’s not that the inner monologue is good or bad; it’s fundamentally false and conceptual. It’s a mechanism for maintaining self and other to aid in survival. What’s talking to itself isn’t you.

    • @Lilsaiyaman
      @Lilsaiyaman 4 месяца назад

      ⁠@@ExcellentHealthI’m 12 and going through it I learned it at the age of 10.

  • @stiggy6371
    @stiggy6371 Год назад +1

    Hello, I recently got diagnosed with Ulcerative colitis, do you have any tips or any knowledge on how to cure it or dampen the symptoms? Thank you for your great videos on health

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +2

      In general, applying the knowledge present in the nutrition playlist as well as my 5 step acne cure video (ruclips.net/video/Cry5JhqLkQw/видео.htmlsi=W7IYLIDmoTxWxlv6) should be really helpful. If you feel like there's more to do after doing what I've mentioned, I'd have to know more about your situation through a consultation. I hope this helps my friend. If you were looking for the short answer within my reply: eat high quality animal products (raw if you've unlocked that ability) to rebuild your damaged digestive system.

    • @stiggy6371
      @stiggy6371 Год назад

      @@ExcellentHealth Do you think milk is fine for me, like normal low heat pasteurised milk? thank you

  • @kejv777
    @kejv777 5 месяцев назад

    i had an internal monologue.. and lost it.. people have no idea. these are different worlds we are talking about.. the first ones dont have acces to the second and vice versa. especially those who never had it. acquired aphantasia is rare, but also the transformation takes a long time. usually losing that inner voice, is through great traumas. and you need years before you can get accostumed with the new stream of counsioness.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  5 месяцев назад +1

      I’d say it’s an immediate peaceful experience and no more.

    • @soulspiritself
      @soulspiritself 4 месяца назад +1

      Fascinating how Aphantasia interacts with meditation and self-liberation, I've been looking into it for years since I realised I had it when during a deep group meditation retreat an image flashed into my mind and I was stunned by it - I thought I must have achieved Buddhahood - actual images inside my mind!! 😳🤯I had no other inner senses but I did have a constant-inner monologue at the time. Losing that doesn't really take an adjustment period, any more than taking off a tight shoe requires an adjustment period. It's just a relief of discomfort, a massive relief at first, then a gentle contentment.
      I imagine that the opposite would be Hellish. Having no inner monologue and then suddenly gaining one in adulthood would likely send someone over the edge. Losing it and regaining it for a time is bad enough.
      If you have complete Aphantasia you effectively have a spiritual superpower.

  • @denizkenger52
    @denizkenger52 Год назад +1

    Hello I know it’s not related to the video but what kind of Kefir would you recommend? I want to start consuming Kefir in my diet but I don’t know too much about it.
    Can you release a video based on fermented foods/drinks you’d recommend and please let me know in the comments what Kefir you use yourself, I wanna implement it asap. Thanks

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад

      I love it when I can answer a question with a 15 minute video. Here you go brother: ruclips.net/video/iZuolrpIft4/видео.htmlsi=jiKQUIr91CVKA5s0

  • @kamadotanjiro6511
    @kamadotanjiro6511 3 месяца назад

    When you don't have inner voice you can easily be manipulated

  • @xTheRazor
    @xTheRazor 3 месяца назад +1

    hi jesus

  • @johnmartinsen963
    @johnmartinsen963 9 месяцев назад +1

    The captions are very helpful since the audio is quite quiet. My volume is on max, but I'm straining to hear you. I'm new to the channel thanks to vegetable police.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  9 месяцев назад +1

      I test the audio on many devices and I personally don’t have any issues. Might be that the system volume in your device is low. Glad to have you here my friend.

    • @johnmartinsen963
      @johnmartinsen963 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@ExcellentHealth I normally listen on a chromebook at home or my phone while driving. I don't use headphones or external speakers. I can't read captions while driving or walking my dog. Your content is a rare exception that is difficult for me to hear. Use your testing protocol on a Pottenger's Human video (as an example) and compare it to your content. Mary Ruddick comes through loud and clear on the interview from Jesse Chappus, unlike your gentle indoor voice. Thank Vegetable Police for directing me your way.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  9 месяцев назад +1

      @@johnmartinsen963 Is it like this with all my videos? In that case I’ll see what I can do. I’m very thankful for Kasey’s gesture. Bless him.

    • @johnmartinsen963
      @johnmartinsen963 9 месяцев назад

      @@ExcellentHealth I'm new to your content so haven't watched them all, yet. I'll test a few when I take the dog for a walk later. Waiting for the sun to come up still...

  • @jordanthinton
    @jordanthinton Год назад +1

    💯💯💯

  • @Music0Rocks1
    @Music0Rocks1 8 месяцев назад

    How long can you go without your inner monologue going? I can’t wait to do this Thankyou I’d have to check your other videos out too!

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  8 месяцев назад

      Since I haven’t destroyed the machine yet, I need to use concentration. If I’m walking, I can go forever really. When meditating it takes a little while to get into the zone.

  • @yannisaudouin4592
    @yannisaudouin4592 Год назад +1

    My method for that is simple:
    -Eat Raw Brain and fermented high liver with max animal fat and honey drinking blood is also good if you have.

    • @Andy-mi1hu
      @Andy-mi1hu Год назад

      I tried to eat bovine brain, in the form of freeze dried pills. At first it started to make me feel uplifted and free of any brain fog. Words came to me very easily and i became much more coherent, didn’t have to paise to think of words or catch up on my train of thought. But after a few days, i became very numb and depressed, a sort of anhedonia if you will, any thoughts to why?

    • @yannisaudouin4592
      @yannisaudouin4592 Год назад

      @@Andy-mi1huYou ate an almost unusable food, which is why the effects are not there.
      Start again with a fresh, unrefrigerated food, humans have never prospered by eating dry food, they are incomplete and hardly usable.
      I am lucky enough to be able to eat about 1 kilo of pig's brains per week and it is life changing, I was very prone to intrusive thought loops depression and madness everything went away by eating this very powerful organ.
      When I eat 300g of brains I have the impression of having drunk 100 coffees without the coffee intoxication in addition to being extremely relaxed and calm and therefore mentally stable.
      There is also a great feeling of anchoring in the present, the past and the future no longer exist which considerably reduces the madness.
      100g of brain = 2000mg of cholesterol the only food that can compete is breast milk.
      Eating raw brain is essential to obtaining PERFECT mental health; it is the perfect bridge food to replace the cholesterol intake from breast milk.
      Be careful, always eat the brains of unvaccinated animals, the brain is the body's favorite trash.
      So I hope this can help you.
      PS: sorry for the grammar mistakes, I'm a Frenchman who's bad at English.

    • @DD-wb8cn
      @DD-wb8cn Год назад +1

      @@Andy-mi1huThis is why you need to be careful with organs. It can cause nutritional imbalances. You probably filled the gap of nutrition you were lacking, but then over consumed it. Always listen to your body. If it starts making you depressed don’t consume it anymore. This is why when I consume high meat organs, I try to get a small part of every organ to avoid any imbalances. Or sometimes I just make high meat with animal flesh. That’s my guess. Hope that helps.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +2

      Now I like what you're saying, but here's the reason why I didn't mention nutrition. This is something that requires practice. Although nutrition can give you mental clarity, making the correct distinctions within one's field of experience is strictly related to practice. Same applies to boxing. Good nutrition will give you a necessary physical base for boxing, but it won't give you better technique.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +1

      @@Andy-mi1hu I wouldn't say that nutritional imbalances caused this. In general, you're not consuming something normal. We are talking about freeze dried pills here. To see if it really is an imbalance, which I really don't think because you've been eating it for a short amount of time, get fresh high quality brain and see how you feel.

  • @SentByNature
    @SentByNature Год назад +1

    Why do I feel like I can read other people's minds,
    especially when I have a full head of hair and beard?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +2

      A feeling is not the truth of the matter. I'd start there.

    • @saharafradi
      @saharafradi 7 месяцев назад

      Because EIYPO

  • @seantriplesevyn8152
    @seantriplesevyn8152 9 месяцев назад +1

    Forger?

  • @chancewilliams5278
    @chancewilliams5278 3 месяца назад +1

    check out jesse lee peterson he's also good at this and alive

  • @newkingofengland
    @newkingofengland 4 месяца назад +1

    Might be a good idea to not use subtitles when watching something. Always associating written text with a spoken voice will make it harder to read in peace.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  4 месяца назад

      Good thing I've only used it for this video.

  • @ThinkingFreedom
    @ThinkingFreedom Год назад

    can I ask you something with regards to sense of self and not reflecting on yourself too much when conversing with others - I think it kind of relates.
    I noticed you publicly refer to yourself as Jones Hussain. As someone born to an Arab family it’s unlikely your parents would have named you Jones. Is it insecurity that drives the reference? If so, there was a point in my life where I could heavily relate to it. if you don’t want to answer this feel free to delete

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад

      They did, so no insecurity here.

    • @ThinkingFreedom
      @ThinkingFreedom Год назад

      @@ExcellentHealtharen’t you ex Muslim? You’re telling me your Muslim parents named you Jones?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад

      @@ThinkingFreedom my father was smart enough to value my integration into western society, so he chose to spell the same Abrahamic name with different letters. My eradication of belief systems has nothing to do with a name assigned at birth.

  • @pessiandpenaldomoments
    @pessiandpenaldomoments 5 месяцев назад

    rothschilds ideal citizen:

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  5 месяцев назад +2

      The last thing they want is me my friend

  • @wes_1001
    @wes_1001 Год назад +2

    why are you dressed like a monk when you are still in your own home?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +3

      The only reason I'm wearing monks clothes is because you believe I am wearing monks clothes.

    • @wes_1001
      @wes_1001 Год назад

      @@ExcellentHealth Lol you’re right, that wasn’t my point though. Why do you dress like that when you are still in the comfort of your home? Do you just find it more comfortable?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +3

      @@wes_1001 Your point is that I was wearing something out of the ordinary. In reality, that's just a T shirt I use for the mic.

    • @wes_1001
      @wes_1001 Год назад +1

      @@ExcellentHealth if that was my full point i wouldn’t have added the second half. but yeah i see what you are saying bro, i was just curious

  • @SentByNature
    @SentByNature Год назад

    Don't trim the cheeks of your beard bro
    You'll look more beautiful

  • @sod4xprincess
    @sod4xprincess 6 месяцев назад

    Jesus?

  • @bubbamanandkids2974
    @bubbamanandkids2974 Месяц назад

    You trying to look like Jesus . Right?

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Месяц назад

      @@bubbamanandkids2974 I'd say it happened automatically. I never intended to look like someone else.

  • @ach25omouth
    @ach25omouth Год назад +1

    Appreciate your effort and good content but stop pretending to be another aspiring guru who basically just hopes to earn money, fame and power through views. Too performative for your dress, background and music. Too obvious to not point them out.

    • @ExcellentHealth
      @ExcellentHealth  Год назад +7

      My friend, there really is no need to view my intentions in relation to this channel in a negative manner. I do not pretend on camera. When it comes to money, fame, and power, remember that any analysis you have of someone says more about you than the other person. In any case, glad to have you here.

    • @SentByNature
      @SentByNature 11 месяцев назад

      😊❤
      ​@@ExcellentHealth