I’m 21yrs old now, and have achieved all my goals in life so far, (except a million dollar brand), I feel less motivated now as I have proved to myself what I am capable of. I have less hunger. And that annoys me. I was so use to being hungry for 11years. “Looking back the best memories were the ones I was suffering to create reach a goal.” This video really resonated with me. Thank you.❤
This is me right now I've reached all my goals I just got my own house I got a car an a grate job I still have no idea what to do next an it's a supper weird feeling...
It's like completing a game, leveling up to the highest level possible, being the best of the best. Then you lose motivation for that game and move on to a new game, similarly you move on to a new goal.
When I was in grade school my mother used to say “If recess was a class I would’ve failed that too”, but she meant it in a caring way. She put me in tutoring and drove me to school early to get extra help and get me into martial arts to become a better man. I graduated high school with a 3.5 weighted GPA and a 3.7 unweighted GPA with a perfect score in AP bc Calculus and a few more prestigious awards. That was my one goal for a little less then a decade. To achieve in academics. I could barely understand why 1/3 was larger than 1/4 and my math teacher practically gave up on me but I later managed to get a perfect score on a AP test. I had achieved what I wanted. But, I realized very soon after I graduated, I had no more goals. It’s a scary feeling. I graduated high school three years ago now and have started finding new goals. But it’s hard, it’s almost as if your new goal once you complete your old goal is to maintain the discipline to keep the rewards you gained when completing the new goal. Whether it be still going to the gym or still keeping yourself mentally sharp. Best wishes to anyone going through this.
I'm there right now. It's an awkward place to be. I've exceeded the goals I've had for nearly two decades... now what? I searched for this topic and that's when I found this episode. I would love to be in a mastermind with people in this situation.
yeah, that's a tough one. I think, that's exactly what's oftentimes holding me back, making me sabotaging myself so I wouldn't achieve my goals and never find myself in that place. I've been spending some time figuring out, how to overcome that fear, and just go for and achieving my dreams, but I think, I haven't managed to fully solve that issue, .....yet.
Thanks Jeff. For me, I have made some small achievements that I am really proud about. My next big goal is really being able to free myself and have the independence from the constraints put on me by toxic family relationships that I cannot rid because of lack of money and circumstance. After watching this, I questioned why I am not moving forward like Jeff? Two things popped up: The lack of desperation/action you had. There was a moment that spurred you to try to monetize. I am sitting on a very small email list I have yet to try that with. Second, lack of traffic. I need to man up and start reaching out to JV.
I wanted to reach an typing speed of about 75 and complete all the lessons in the typing club, but today i completed my goal. 🙃 it feels really different. I know you guys can feel it to.
I just turned 40 and feeling exactly what you said. I accomplished everything on my goals “list” now what? Thank you for your video, it confirmed how I’m feeling and it is truly uncomfortable. I’m hoping to find my next level of what I’m here to do.
I have achieved every goal I set. They weren't they crazy high but they seemed impossible when I set them. Now I don't know what new goals to set. It's very uncomfortable.
Its not a goal but something you can exercise in reality day in and day out. Success is about being... Materialism is a result of your being...im talking real success not this illusion that most people buy in to
Summary: After all your work, study and effort leads you to achieve all your goals, you'll feel bored, lonely and empty inside. To remove these feelings, focus on helping other people complete the path... the path that lead you to feeling bored, lonely and empty inside.
Sorry, but I didn't understand. I achieved all of my goals and dreams, and then I found myself, want to end my life. I'm now having suicidal thoughts a lot. It feels like a game you reached the level you want, you don't want more, and you just want to quit the game. I didn't get the video, it's an uncomfortable feeling, then what?
Message of the video is to find a new focus and new goal... But i agree that it won't work for everyone. I haven't achieved all my goals, but i already have sort of depression and suicidal thoughts and those goals are probably the thing that are pushing me to go forward but if i lose them, i probably lose everything... Sorry buddy, but I'm yet to get in exact your position and I'm already fearing it.
are you born in this world to making money or helping others with your skills?. ALWAYS give the best of what you can give,not based on the paycheck or the bills you get. and after you do maybe material things InsyaAllah will follow to support your life and lifestyle. based on that perspective you can develop your skills or the things that youre passionate about to another level to help others problem around you/in this world. money supposed to be a tool to support / facilitate what you want to do to helping others, solve others problem,create new things that can help others . or just give it who in need. hope this help brother. Assalamualaikum
Hi @@brownculture , Thank you for your kind reply, sharing thoughts and ideas. Well, no one said my goals were materialistic or about money or position, right? Maybe my goals already include what you mentioned, right? So simply, there are people who did what you said, but they just don't want to do it every day or any more! Simple as that. But InshaAllah we all find the motive to always push forward. Thank you again, your words helped :)
hi @@omareldaghar9390 , thankyou for your appreciation . sorry for my words about the materialistic things,im just generally speaking. InsyaAllah we will find a way and share thought. and have you already find a way to keeping you push forward after you achieved all your goals and dreams? . maybe i can try it. thankyou :)
Sounds weird indeed, but it's a problem having achieved all your dreams. Being in a place with no passion and thrive, but having much more responsibilities. Need to act fast, as it drains the life energy quickly. That's where I am currently with my life ... or maybe should simply stop masturbating so much
I achieved all my goals. It took me about 15 years to accomplish them. Now, I feel lost, yet hungry to find my new challenge.
You found something helpful? I'm 20 yo I'm finding it so overwhelming
@@raphaelhage8398yeah just chill
I’m 21yrs old now, and have achieved all my goals in life so far, (except a million dollar brand), I feel less motivated now as I have proved to myself what I am capable of. I have less hunger. And that annoys me. I was so use to being hungry for 11years.
“Looking back the best memories were the ones I was suffering to create reach a goal.”
This video really resonated with me. Thank you.❤
This is me right now I've reached all my goals I just got my own house I got a car an a grate job I still have no idea what to do next an it's a supper weird feeling...
It's like completing a game, leveling up to the highest level possible, being the best of the best. Then you lose motivation for that game and move on to a new game, similarly you move on to a new goal.
@@bx6p166 yeah 5 years later and the update is I got a new job even better and make more money and have started a family
Two things define you: Your patience when you have nothing and your attitude when you have everything.
When I was in grade school my mother used to say “If recess was a class I would’ve failed that too”, but she meant it in a caring way. She put me in tutoring and drove me to school early to get extra help and get me into martial arts to become a better man. I graduated high school with a 3.5 weighted GPA and a 3.7 unweighted GPA with a perfect score in AP bc Calculus and a few more prestigious awards.
That was my one goal for a little less then a decade. To achieve in academics. I could barely understand why 1/3 was larger than 1/4 and my math teacher practically gave up on me but I later managed to get a perfect score on a AP test. I had achieved what I wanted. But, I realized very soon after I graduated, I had no more goals.
It’s a scary feeling. I graduated high school three years ago now and have started finding new goals. But it’s hard, it’s almost as if your new goal once you complete your old goal is to maintain the discipline to keep the rewards you gained when completing the new goal. Whether it be still going to the gym or still keeping yourself mentally sharp.
Best wishes to anyone going through this.
I'm there right now. It's an awkward place to be. I've exceeded the goals I've had for nearly two decades... now what?
I searched for this topic and that's when I found this episode. I would love to be in a mastermind with people in this situation.
This was a wonderful video..people usuallu just make videos about accomplishing your goal. But some of us actual do. We get there. Thank you.
yeah, that's a tough one. I think, that's exactly what's oftentimes holding me back, making me sabotaging myself so I wouldn't achieve my goals and never find myself in that place.
I've been spending some time figuring out, how to overcome that fear, and just go for and achieving my dreams, but I think, I haven't managed to fully solve that issue, .....yet.
i found you leave this comments 3 years ago. i wanna know , have you already find the answer of your question?
Thanks Jeff. For me, I have made some small achievements that I am really proud about. My next big goal is really being able to free myself and have the independence from the constraints put on me by toxic family relationships that I cannot rid because of lack of money and circumstance. After watching this, I questioned why I am not moving forward like Jeff? Two things popped up: The lack of desperation/action you had. There was a moment that spurred you to try to monetize. I am sitting on a very small email list I have yet to try that with. Second, lack of traffic. I need to man up and start reaching out to JV.
i think doing things you love doing without thinking of creating money is the right direction re:after reaching your goals.
I wanted to reach an typing speed of about 75 and complete all the lessons in the typing club, but today i completed my goal. 🙃 it feels really different. I know you guys can feel it to.
You climb the mountain, you reach the top, only one way to go. Just chill, enjoy the air, the wind, the sun…live
when u reach your goals set new ones.
Yes, but when you reach all the goals you cared about, you're now setting goals about things you don't care about.
I just turned 40 and feeling exactly what you said. I accomplished everything on my goals “list” now what? Thank you for your video, it confirmed how I’m feeling and it is truly uncomfortable. I’m hoping to find my next level of what I’m here to do.
Such a powerful and important message Jeff. Thanks for sharing this. 😊😊
I have achieved every goal I set. They weren't they crazy high but they seemed impossible when I set them. Now I don't know what new goals to set. It's very uncomfortable.
i feel very EMPTY.... i built my dream home, perfect wife, car i want, my family is happy and healthy but i feel Sooo empty. is this it???
Well, change your life. Take a van and travel the world
Maybe start helping others?
Its not a goal but something you can exercise in reality day in and day out. Success is about being... Materialism is a result of your being...im talking real success not this illusion that most people buy in to
I’m at this point now. I don’t really enjoy traveling because flying gives me anxiety. So I’m lost
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I started wondering what happens after, you reach your goals? I guess this sort of answered it for me. 11:55
Summary: After all your work, study and effort leads you to achieve all your goals, you'll feel bored, lonely and empty inside. To remove these feelings, focus on helping other people complete the path... the path that lead you to feeling bored, lonely and empty inside.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So just helping others after acheiving all the goals ?
Sorry, but I didn't understand.
I achieved all of my goals and dreams, and then I found myself, want to end my life. I'm now having suicidal thoughts a lot.
It feels like a game you reached the level you want, you don't want more, and you just want to quit the game.
I didn't get the video, it's an uncomfortable feeling, then what?
Message of the video is to find a new focus and new goal... But i agree that it won't work for everyone. I haven't achieved all my goals, but i already have sort of depression and suicidal thoughts and those goals are probably the thing that are pushing me to go forward but if i lose them, i probably lose everything... Sorry buddy, but I'm yet to get in exact your position and I'm already fearing it.
are you born in this world to making money or helping others with your skills?.
ALWAYS give the best of what you can give,not based on the paycheck or the bills you get. and after you do maybe material things InsyaAllah will follow to support your life and lifestyle.
based on that perspective you can develop your skills or the things that youre passionate about to another level to help others problem around you/in this world. money supposed to be a tool to support / facilitate what you want to do to helping others, solve others problem,create new things that can help others . or just give it who in need. hope this help brother. Assalamualaikum
Hi @@brownculture ,
Thank you for your kind reply, sharing thoughts and ideas.
Well, no one said my goals were materialistic or about money or position, right? Maybe my goals already include what you mentioned, right?
So simply, there are people who did what you said, but they just don't want to do it every day or any more! Simple as that.
But InshaAllah we all find the motive to always push forward.
Thank you again, your words helped :)
hi @@omareldaghar9390 , thankyou for your appreciation .
sorry for my words about the materialistic things,im just generally speaking. InsyaAllah we will find a way and share thought. and have you already find a way to keeping you push forward after you achieved all your goals and dreams? . maybe i can try it.
thankyou :)
Hi omar. Curious to see how are doing now? Hope you're well!
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Sounds weird indeed, but it's a problem having achieved all your dreams. Being in a place with no passion and thrive, but having much more responsibilities. Need to act fast, as it drains the life energy quickly. That's where I am currently with my life
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or maybe should simply stop masturbating so much