honestly watching her video hit me really deeply. Some people are so hateful in this world. In my experience, I've had people make up rumours about me while I swear to god I never hurt a fly. So honestly hate comes to anyone way everyone's way especially because of jealousy IT'S NOT US!!! She is confident successful and an amazing human so they are just jealous. So when we realize that their words are irrelevant and not credible it allows us to ignore them and live happily. Never let anyone take your achievements or peace away.
@@jamscorner6416 that’s seriously what it is. It’s a twisted compliment honestly. It means you’re doing something right. Anytime someone is happy there are people who just can’t stand it and it’s very sad. Like go make yourself happy did being rude make you any happier? i guarantee it didnt 😑
@@user-cr8xl4hn4u yes there’s a guru gossip forum where people say she’s a sugar baby and irresponsible with money like ok? And? She still has more than most of us and good for her
I'm a large woman and when I first seen u, I thought of the bullies in high school pretty and mean as hell. And I was absolutely wrong. You are one of the kindest big hearted women on RUclips. U make me feel empowered, beautiful, worthy and I could go on and on whenever I'm hating on myself all I got to do is come watch one of your videos and I feel better you make me feel better so screw the haters. I'm so sorry that at one point I was one of them. But I absolutely love you, and wish more women were like you.
Omg bullies🤦♀️ even though im a total stranger, I can already say that ur stunning THAT ENERGY RADIATES THROUGH UUU ur dazzling through just this one comment
same, media targeted towards young girls had forced a narrative onto me that pretty girls and girls who wear makeup have to be mean and narcissistic, and in return I judged them more than they judged me. Around last year, I finally touched some grass and interacted with girls who I always thought were pretty, and realized I was wrong. I was a pick me anti-feminist, and I'm so glad that I'm over that stage. I'm finally myself, and I forgive myself for the person I used to be.
People absolutely used to bully me for my fashion sense. I can't tell you how many times in middle school people would try to steal my beret by plucking it off my head. I never stopped wearing berets, AND I became a fashion designer. :)
People to girls who wear makeup and do "feminine" things: ur so basic stop seeking attention People to girls who don't wear makeup and play videogames: stop trying to be qUiRkY stop seeking attention
One of the most wonderful pieces of advice I have ever heard is this: If someone literally had a physical bag of shit and said "here, take this!" would you take it? I'm willing to bet that you wouldn't. So why would you take shit from someone figuratively? You shouldn't!!! I don't even know any of you, but I have love for all of you.
@@torpid5092 Oh yeah, I seen hate accounts about Amber making rumors about “she’s changing the trap girls” “she’s a gold digger” all those type of stuff. I seen TONS and tons of people comparing between Shea and Amber, acting like it’s a ‘who better who challenge’. Everyone always saying “Colby looks so happy with Shea than Amber”. I was like “he’s EQUALLY happy BOTH of them. If he’s not happy with Amber, he shouldn’t invite her.”
@@torpid5092 There’s a lot of Sam and Colby fans (I’m SnC fan but I’m not a hater, or send out a negativity/false opinion) always making Amber feel bad or something like that. But some SnC always ship Colby and every single girl that he’s filming with. There’s two side of this fandom; Half of fandom love them together, and the other half doesn’t, they send out the hate. And doesn’t care about Colby’s happiness.
I actually had a guy tell me he was just "too real" and that's why girls didn't like him 😂 like no honey. There's a difference between being real and being an asshole lol
As I always says : being honest isn’t a free card giving you the right to be an asshole ! “I prefer to be honest and brutal than nice and lying” - No one ever said you can’t be honest and nice 👏🏻
“The moment anyone tries to demean or degrade you in anyway, you have to know how great you are!! Nobody would bother to beat you down if you were not a threat!!”~ Cicely Tyson 🙏🏻❤️
honestly, small compliments mean the world. i was once in school and this random girl told me my eyeliner was nice and I haven't forgotten about her to date. at a time when I was dealing with body dysmorphia and child-abuse and intense self-hatred to where I developed an eating disorder, it felt great to have something good said to me.
english is not my first english and at first i thought "gold digger" is an compliment.. like you dig (work) for that gold (money/succes)... you know what, i'm actually gonna keep this meaning, it's nicer lol.
"really just existing at all as a girl" oh yes, yes yes. I've tried all my life to take up less space, to not interfere with anything, to not cause any harm, to not draw attention to me, to exist as little as possible and be invisible, and STILL there is drama, still there is stress and people shittalking or being mad at you, and the only way to avoid it sometimes seems in a grave. But oh well..
And thats when u realise they gonna do what they gonna do so you gotta do what u gotta do..they will always open their mouth if u r 0 or a 10 so why not be a 10...and u have to just shine brighter and brighter..ur shine will make them blind. U have to realise that u dont need to dim ur light to fit in.
It can feel that way and you feel completely defeated. Like, literally nothing you do matters...but the truth is people tear down those that they may admire or has something they wish they had. A lot of times, people who hate are more likely envious and jealous, because people who genuinely don't care about someone or something don't give them another thought. It's a reflection of themselves and they're own insecurities.
I don't think you really tried being invisible if there is still drama around you. And I am not saying that is a bad thing. Because I succeeded and it's not nice. I became completely invisible, with no friends and no drama. And now that everything is boring, empty and lonely, I can honestly say I miss the drama.
@@Kat-qf7ov Please don't claim that I haven't tried because you can't really know that. You can claim that I am stupid, and that maybe I am too hypersensitive (because many things aren't drama, it's just peoples opinion and me being too focused and trying to avoid these opinions). E.g if you don't greet someone you're "that quiet bitch" and if you do, apparently it's misinterpreted as something more. You can't really choose not to interact as long as you're around humans (which is kinda semi-unavoidable in school, some work places, ect..), maybe once you drop out of everything, are unemployed (but not yet homeless) and isolated, it's minimized. I too have no friends, I feel alone but I consider myself lucky that I don't feel lonely (yet?). For now I am very grateful for every peaceful & boring minute but yea, sometimes I have to remind myself how much better "nothing" is than "bad" when I feel shut in. But I am bitter about my past and about humans, even though It was my fault for not being tough enough. ANYHOW I hope you will find a way to live in a way that fulfills you and makes you happy! It can all change.
My therapist said to me once that “other people’s opinions of you are none of your business”, and for some reason it made me kind of angry, and I kept thinking up ways that it wasn’t true, but when it comes down to it, I could not find any REAL evidence that made it untrue.
My therapist told me the exact same thing and at first it made me angry too, but as time passes the more I realize the truth behind this and stop caring what others think
I went to the gas station a few weeks ago and I had a tie dye sweatshirt and sweat pants on and I was kinda embarrassed because they low key looked like pjs, but I was checking out and this girl was saying how much she loved my outfit. So now that made me love my outfit. Like a simple compliment can boost someone’s confidence a LOT.
Yes girl !! “forgive but never forget” is tattooed on my side , I got it at 18 & 10 years later I still feel the same . Everything made me who I am , I’ll never forget.
Same. In jr. high & high school, they called me 4eyes and a vulture (due to my nose) and said my white skin looked like a raw chicken. The mean girls walked behind me singing a song about cow patties (poop): “yippee ay aaaa, cow patty (and inserted my name here).” When I was 6, they said, “You’re pretty. Pretty ugly. “ I still experience haters in my 50s, but now it’s because they say I’m too pretty and look like a Barbie!!! What?!??! I don’t even take that as a compliment.
When handling haters, I think about the two quote from Liberace - “What you said hurt me very much. I cried all the way to the bank” and “You know the bank I used to cry all the way to. Well, I bought it.” Basically, their opinion doesn’t matter because I’m still living the high life.
Her eyes watering made my eyes start to water as well. She's such a kind person who has changed so many girls' lives by just existing and spreading her positive energy. She deserves nothing but the absolute best. Amber is amazing and the haters won't see that because her shiny jewellery is probably blinding them.
I recognize myself a lot in you! Especially about “showing yourself right” - it’s something that I try to apply now, I try to stop the bully in my head saying “you can’t do that” by being like “OH YEAH I CAN’T ?!? Let me grab that and show you” but it’s all to myself 🥰
You honestly helped me so much for my confidence and still going through severe anxiety but now I have self respect and self love, which is making it easier to overcome my anxiety and doing the things I want to do because I deserve it. So thank you for being unapologetically you!
I still remember the compliment I got at the gas station from the girl working there. My hair was in pigtail French braids and i wasn't wearing any makeup. I didn't feel confident about myself that day. She told me I was beautiful and that still makes my day years later. Thank you random girl working cashier at the gas station ❤️
“What people think about you, has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them” Jen Sincero - her book gave me that slap in the face I needed to wake up. Loved this and made me emotional ❤️
Can you put these into podcasts? Some of it is literally so inspiring that I would rather re listen to this in the car while I'm driving or while I'm doing things around the house just as much as I like watching the video on RUclips
I was dating a guy who thought I wasn't skinny enough for him, and my weight was 95 pounds. Now I'm happily single, weigh 135 pounds, and this is the best I have ever felt myself and my body. I love watching your videos ❤️
Wow how tall are you ? 🙂 Any one who wants you to lose or gain wait that will in the long run will put you in an unhealthy state( mental and physical,weight) then you need to drop them.
this video rly hit me. im very emotional. its my strength and my weakness, and when you add very low self esteem/self worth in the mix, it rly leaves me with no armor to protect me. but that is what im focusing on and have been for the past year. unlearning all the bad things ive been telling myself, and learning how to truly take control of how others will affect me. emotions are beautiful, and i shouldnt "contain them", "shut them out", "stop crying and being emotional" etc. but i shouldnt let them take control of my life. and i think the only way to combat all that, is by learning to believe in me, my abilities and my worth. thank you for rly helping me and all of us to focus on the important things in life. ily amber, with all my very emotional heart
honestly, i wasnt feeling well these past few days, and for the first time ever a video was able to change my mood 180 degrees. your positive energy is contagious, thank you! i needed that.
If anyone doubts our homework for this video, I remember pretty clearly the girl at the grocery store telling me she liked my shoes, or the cashier at petsmart saying my hair was pretty. Those little compliments made me smile and stuck with me for the rest of the day, and I still think about them sometimes! ❤
I met you at the Century City mall. You were so warm and friendly, kind and patient with the people approaching you to say Hi! You were filming your blind shopping video! I still have our picture that my husband took of us! Thank you for being you! 💕💕
You could be the tastiest, most juiciest, most delicious peach out there in the world; there's still going to be people out there who don't like peaches
I honestly think that you should write your own book, your words bring peace and make me feel better, I can't understand how people could dislike this video.. Wish you all the best
Womens are source of life, you should act like it. I'm 37, mother of 2 and i still grow up with Amber's videos. You are a 💎 Bernadette and you will be a wonderful women. Congrat! 🌹
My philosophy is: It's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier. -Anthony Hopkins. I saw this quote on my motivation app. I decided to click my RUclips app and saw this as my recommended video to watch. You’re a hard working woman. You’re an inspiration to me and probably others in this comment section. Your hard is paying off and I wish you nothing but success. A lot of us here do love and appreciate you for what you do. These haters have nothing better to do. They’ll try to tear you down. But I do believe a lot of us will of course stand with you. Xoxo
"If people make fun of you for it now, you can probably make money off of it later." People make fun of me for being "too smart" I can't wait to see how I'll make money off of that in the future 😆😂
My husband asks me so the time" why don't you care what people think" and to that I say, "why worry myself with what strangers think of me?" Their opinions don't matter. You are such an awesome human being. Thank you so much for all you do, truly
The hate pushed her off the edge and showed her she had wings to fly....girl this is it..this is the video that I'll look back to n say "that was the turning point in my life"
Going through school was so hard for me. I've been fluffy my whole entire life. I went through hell. There have been times that I've had no friends. I am going to be 61 this month and I've gotten to the point that I just care what people think. They don't know who I really am. Last Sept I almost died. I was in a coma on total life support. Here I am alive and well. If no one likes me that is their loss. I like myself and I don't mind being alone because I'm really not alone; I have myself. You, my dear, are a wonderful person and a great influence on how to overcome adversity. You rock girl! Never change!!
Honey I’ve never watched u until right now and u are fricking adorable. Don’t let people who hide behind their computers say things to you on here that they would never say to your face. You’ve got this. The Chanel glasses comment killed.
turn that into your fire and do you. Believe it or not, later she will be proud of you. Parents often do this because they themselves feel like losers and don't believe in anything better.
How could someone hate you? It’s called jealousy! Your so beautiful and humble! I love your positive attitude! My goal for 2021! I’m 48;years old and from being abuse mental and physical and emotional by my parents hurt more than anything else! But learning to forgive and forget and not allowing then to rent space in my mind and heart! I love you so much for you positive videos! I wish I knew you along time ago !
Getting here 11 seconds after it was posted, seeing her talk about Taylor Swift's song and proving yourself right with actions has just made my day 300% better 💜
One day this thought came to my mind and I wanted to share" our opinion of me doesn't matter to me, my opinion of you is what matters to me". People loved to belittle me, shame me and so much more and at first I used to take it to heart but then this made me think and to this day I live by it. This thought isn't meant for someone else it is just for me, to remind myself what really matters and what should matter.
Bro some people on youtube just put me through bullshit yesterday 🤦🏿♀️ I really don't see the point of haters like why are they even human they do stuff that's just so cruel, I never had the audacity in my life to hate on somebody I really never had because I found it so pointless, keep shining Amber you're so inspiring
I saw this quotes somewhere, #people are never jealous of losers, so if a person don't like u for ni reason it is because you are living the life that they wanted, so you have haters but you have 3 million of people on youtube who can't live without you and love u so don't care love u
How can anyone hate Amber she's such a beautiful down to earth person, the ones that hate her are miserable individuals who have nothing better to do. We love you Amber🤩🤩🤩
Being nice does indeed make a change in someone's life. I remember one time I had a presentation and I just didn't feel confident about the way I looked and a student whom I've never met before stopped and told me that I looked really pretty. Little does she know, she not only made my whole day but made me feel so much better about the way I look in general and her words changed the way I see and carry myself. From that day on, whenever I see someone who looks great or had nice shoes or a cool hat or a beautiful smile, I let them know because you never know how such simple words could change the way someone thinks about themselves. I really do enjoy this new series and it made me think profoundly of a lot of things. I've always loved you and loved watching your videos, but this series has been my favourite. Lots of love!
The things you said really resonated with me. I sometimes feel like people in the world aren't self-aware or objective enough to step outside of themselves and see the effects their comments may have on someone else. I see it all the time. I went to Subway the other day and the woman there was so upset because customers kept shouting abuse at her over order delays, lack of stock etc. Things she could do nothing about. I spoke to her for quite a while (she seemed like she needed to get it out) but it hurt to think people could be so thoughtless and unkind to her, she is just doing her job. I've heard countless of similar stories, in a variety of different situations and contexts where people cause real emotional damage to someone without a second thought. I have depression and sometimes see the world as place that I don't want to be a part of because of the way we treat one another. I've spent years working in my local community to improve things but when there are so many things I cannot fix, I get frustrated and beaten down with it. You reminded me that there are other people out there trying to make a difference, even if it's just spreading kindness and compassion. That other people care and think about the same things I do. So thank you, I really think I needed to hear that. I hope you continue to inspire people to be the best versions of themselves. I think it definitely makes a difference. Best wishes, Abbie
Omgomgomgomg!!! I wasn't expecting her to like my comment 😮 I don't wanna sound annoying but that like made me SCREAM (PS woke up my parents, I'm dead but happy 😊) I Really Really Really love every video of yours 😍. Omg I really can't shut up I'll end up writing a whole essay 😭❤️I love you sooo much Amber, you really make my mood every time 😭😭❤️💕✨
I was once told always ( Consider The Source) Before taking anything personal. I've learned That when i get hate in the world. I just say over and over (Have Compassion Have compassion Have compassion. So that negative hurtful feeling turns into loving energy for you and for them that they truly need. NOT EASY BUT WORTH IT> Turning the negative into a positive. Its gonna happen either way its just how i choose to deal with it :)
Aww I needed to hear this, had a rough day at work with my own hater... and I was upset the rest of the day. thanks for posting this 🥰 love ya and your videos. And anyone going through hard times with haters, mean words etc., sending positive vibes and love ❤️
Taylor Swift once said “people throw rocks at things that shine” and baby girl you’re a whole shiny sparkly galaxy ✨
True
Yessss❤️
Absolutely 👌👌
You know you've made it when you've got "haters" 😉
Love this so true
Exactly!
“Can’t see the haters through Chanel” -Amber Scholl
The Queen energy is radiating today
Yess
Epic!!
YES! Huge Zendaya vibes when she sniffed her red bottoms, haha.
Best quote -ever- 🤣
yESSSSSS
the best piece of advice i ever got was, “don’t take criticism from the people you wouldn’t take advice from.”
Works well with my personal philosophy. Always take advice from yourself first. If the criticism comes from yourself it's worth looking at
yesssss
I love this!
wrote that down now lol. i'm trying to work on this part after i finally lost a big amount of stress and negative energy
Wow! Love this 🙌🏼
“You can’t see the haters through Chanel” that’s just legendary-
My net worth isn't high enough to understand this quote 😆😂😭😭
Epic 🔥❤🔥❤
YEAH!!! 333,,I wanted to like but it is at 333, so a comment instead!
The haters hate themselves cause she’s literally a ray of sunshine. But people who live in the dark hate the light.
The fact that Amber even HAS haters...what a sad world.
I was surprised too, but any time someone is successful and beautiful people get mad because they’re envious and unhappy
i was SHOCKED
honestly watching her video hit me really deeply. Some people are so hateful in this world. In my experience, I've had people make up rumours about me while I swear to god I never hurt a fly. So honestly hate comes to anyone way everyone's way especially because of jealousy IT'S NOT US!!! She is confident successful and an amazing human so they are just jealous. So when we realize that their words are irrelevant and not credible it allows us to ignore them and live happily. Never let anyone take your achievements or peace away.
@@jamscorner6416 that’s seriously what it is. It’s a twisted compliment honestly. It means you’re doing something right. Anytime someone is happy there are people who just can’t stand it and it’s very sad. Like go make yourself happy did being rude make you any happier? i guarantee it didnt 😑
@@user-cr8xl4hn4u yes there’s a guru gossip forum where people say she’s a sugar baby and irresponsible with money like ok? And? She still has more than most of us and good for her
I'm a large woman and when I first seen u, I thought of the bullies in high school pretty and mean as hell. And I was absolutely wrong. You are one of the kindest big hearted women on RUclips. U make me feel empowered, beautiful, worthy and I could go on and on whenever I'm hating on myself all I got to do is come watch one of your videos and I feel better you make me feel better so screw the haters. I'm so sorry that at one point I was one of them. But I absolutely love you, and wish more women were like you.
Omg bullies🤦♀️ even though im a total stranger, I can already say that ur stunning THAT ENERGY RADIATES THROUGH UUU ur dazzling through just this one comment
@@esharahman4691 thank u so much. U just made my day so much brighter
💞💞💞
same, media targeted towards young girls had forced a narrative onto me that pretty girls and girls who wear makeup have to be mean and narcissistic, and in return I judged them more than they judged me. Around last year, I finally touched some grass and interacted with girls who I always thought were pretty, and realized I was wrong. I was a pick me anti-feminist, and I'm so glad that I'm over that stage. I'm finally myself, and I forgive myself for the person I used to be.
@@kajlir5802 wonderfully said
"Don't do it to prove them wrong, do it to prove yourself right." Well that hit different
I swear that needs to b on a shirt
People absolutely used to bully me for my fashion sense. I can't tell you how many times in middle school people would try to steal my beret by plucking it off my head. I never stopped wearing berets, AND I became a fashion designer. :)
go head girl! ;)
Omg icon 😍 💖
This is so weird. I can't really imagine anyone hating Amber.
notice how some of her haters are colby brock fans mad because she colabed with him
“Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words leave psychological wounds that will never heal.” - fairly odd parents 😭
This is so so powerful
not me starting to sing rihanna’s S&M 🤣🤣🤣
"Don't do it to prove them wrong, do it to prove yourself right."
-Amber Scholl
“Existing at all as a girl, people like to have a lot to say about basically everything.”
If those weren’t the truest words, omggg!
People to girls who wear makeup and do "feminine" things: ur so basic stop seeking attention
People to girls who don't wear makeup and play videogames: stop trying to be qUiRkY stop seeking attention
@@kajlir5802 basically
One of the most wonderful pieces of advice I have ever heard is this:
If someone literally had a physical bag of shit and said "here, take this!" would you take it? I'm willing to bet that you wouldn't.
So why would you take shit from someone figuratively? You shouldn't!!!
I don't even know any of you, but I have love for all of you.
I love this.
😘😘thanks
This made me freaking cry. "Why wouldn't you wanna be on your own team?"
That made me think...thank you.
i heard it as soon as i read your comment
"Gold digger"
Yet you're single and have/make your own money. Ppl will find any excuse to hate on ppl. It's sad.
Hilarious how they think their insults have any weight
The fact everyone said “omg you’re using Colby” and yet she has more subscribers than him.
@@unknownname4748 i didn't know anyone was saying that o_o i just knew people kept shipping them which is wronggg
@@torpid5092
Oh yeah, I seen hate accounts about Amber making rumors about “she’s changing the trap girls” “she’s a gold digger” all those type of stuff.
I seen TONS and tons of people comparing between Shea and Amber, acting like it’s a ‘who better who challenge’. Everyone always saying “Colby looks so happy with Shea than Amber”. I was like “he’s EQUALLY happy BOTH of them. If he’s not happy with Amber, he shouldn’t invite her.”
@@torpid5092
There’s a lot of Sam and Colby fans (I’m SnC fan but I’m not a hater, or send out a negativity/false opinion) always making Amber feel bad or something like that. But some SnC always ship Colby and every single girl that he’s filming with.
There’s two side of this fandom; Half of fandom love them together, and the other half doesn’t, they send out the hate. And doesn’t care about Colby’s happiness.
They dont hate you, they hate that you have something they dont. Keep this in mind everyone! Their hate says more about them than it does of you. 💞💞✨
The fact that 31 people disliked...broke my heart lmao. I swear she's the kindest person I've ever seen
U know the fact that less than 100 people dislike and 10k+ likes says alot and speaks volumes
Most people who pride themselves on being "brutally honest" tend to be more brutal than honest.
I actually had a guy tell me he was just "too real" and that's why girls didn't like him 😂 like no honey. There's a difference between being real and being an asshole lol
@@elizabethvaughn5694pffffffffft what?! quite delusional for someone who's "just too real" Lol
As I always says : being honest isn’t a free card giving you the right to be an asshole !
“I prefer to be honest and brutal than nice and lying” - No one ever said you can’t be honest and nice 👏🏻
@@JulyRuliia exactly, telling a harsh truth shouldn't be a weapon to hurt others, harsh and rude ain't the same
PERIOD!!!!!!!
"Not prove them wrong but prove yourself right" That quote really hit me and I love it!
Can't imagine hating this woman , She's such a light 😂❤️
Literally! People who hate on her are insecure and are jealous of how successful and beautiful she is.
When she said "sticks and stones can break my bones "
I immediately said "but chains and whips excite me".
I- HeLp
NaNaNa cOme oN~ 😂😂😂
@@jhopesnoseflute YOUR NICKNAME I CANT xD
@@MonaHerSelfM 😂😂😂😂
Honestly? Me too 😂
You spelled excite wrong...
That should be one of your jewelry pieces “and the rest is history “
I'd preorder so quick lol
“The moment anyone tries to demean or degrade you in anyway, you have to know how great you are!! Nobody would bother to beat you down if you were not a threat!!”~ Cicely Tyson 🙏🏻❤️
honestly, small compliments mean the world. i was once in school and this random girl told me my eyeliner was nice and I haven't forgotten about her to date. at a time when I was dealing with body dysmorphia and child-abuse and intense self-hatred to where I developed an eating disorder, it felt great to have something good said to me.
We need to protect Amber at all costs. She’s too precious. 🥺💖
"Gold digging" when she earns her own fame and money
Did anyone ever call her a gold digger? Because that wouldn’t even make sense
🤣🤣🤣
@@Hi-ky2wd the thumbnail, ya ikr
She digs her own gold 🤷🏽♀️
english is not my first english and at first i thought "gold digger" is an compliment.. like you dig (work) for that gold (money/succes)... you know what, i'm actually gonna keep this meaning, it's nicer lol.
"really just existing at all as a girl" oh yes, yes yes. I've tried all my life to take up less space, to not interfere with anything, to not cause any harm, to not draw attention to me, to exist as little as possible and be invisible, and STILL there is drama, still there is stress and people shittalking or being mad at you, and the only way to avoid it sometimes seems in a grave. But oh well..
Truth!! But, honey, that last sentence :*(. I don't mean to be rude, but is everything okay?
And thats when u realise they gonna do what they gonna do so you gotta do what u gotta do..they will always open their mouth if u r 0 or a 10 so why not be a 10...and u have to just shine brighter and brighter..ur shine will make them blind. U have to realise that u dont need to dim ur light to fit in.
It can feel that way and you feel completely defeated. Like, literally nothing you do matters...but the truth is people tear down those that they may admire or has something they wish they had. A lot of times, people who hate are more likely envious and jealous, because people who genuinely don't care about someone or something don't give them another thought. It's a reflection of themselves and they're own insecurities.
I don't think you really tried being invisible if there is still drama around you. And I am not saying that is a bad thing. Because I succeeded and it's not nice. I became completely invisible, with no friends and no drama. And now that everything is boring, empty and lonely, I can honestly say I miss the drama.
@@Kat-qf7ov Please don't claim that I haven't tried because you can't really know that. You can claim that I am stupid, and that maybe I am too hypersensitive (because many things aren't drama, it's just peoples opinion and me being too focused and trying to avoid these opinions). E.g if you don't greet someone you're "that quiet bitch" and if you do, apparently it's misinterpreted as something more. You can't really choose not to interact as long as you're around humans (which is kinda semi-unavoidable in school, some work places, ect..), maybe once you drop out of everything, are unemployed (but not yet homeless) and isolated, it's minimized.
I too have no friends, I feel alone but I consider myself lucky that I don't feel lonely (yet?). For now I am very grateful for every peaceful & boring minute but yea, sometimes I have to remind myself how much better "nothing" is than "bad" when I feel shut in.
But I am bitter about my past and about humans, even though It was my fault for not being tough enough.
ANYHOW I hope you will find a way to live in a way that fulfills you and makes you happy! It can all change.
i love you queen
She said awhile ago they are definitely working on more, they just take a really long time to do!
She's my older sister that I've never had
My therapist said to me once that “other people’s opinions of you are none of your business”, and for some reason it made me kind of angry, and I kept thinking up ways that it wasn’t true, but when it comes down to it, I could not find any REAL evidence that made it untrue.
okay i absolutely love this
My therapist told me the exact same thing and at first it made me angry too, but as time passes the more I realize the truth behind this and stop caring what others think
Same, I have a worry therapist and I worry about other people’s opinions of me. Then I thought
Hey, who cares.
“Let’s see the haters through Chanel” OMFG MOOD
Haters: Your outfit looks like trash.
*Amber: Literately makes dress out of trash bags*
-mic drop-
Period. 👏
And a beautiful Dress it was
TRUEEEE
amber just remember this quote, "whoever puts you down is already below you."
u helped me to overcome my eating disorder that ive struggled with for years. Thank you, you deserve all the best.
Awe this is absolutely amazing! I hope you feel good and proud of yourself!
“cant see the haters through chanel”
always a mood even when talking about haters 🥺
“Whether you love me or hate me. I love you. ”
What an icon❤️
I went to the gas station a few weeks ago and I had a tie dye sweatshirt and sweat pants on and I was kinda embarrassed because they low key looked like pjs, but I was checking out and this girl was saying how much she loved my outfit. So now that made me love my outfit. Like a simple compliment can boost someone’s confidence a LOT.
"If people make fun of you for it now, you can probably make money off it later." I'm crying. You have become my safe place and inspiration.
Yes girl !! “forgive but never forget” is tattooed on my side , I got it at 18 & 10 years later I still feel the same . Everything made me who I am , I’ll never forget.
I remember being the ugly girl in class. No friends because people thought I was weird. Now I have nothing to prove, only to myself.
Same here girl
Same here
Sameeee then when I got out of high school people who hated and bullied me look up to me now ... 🤣🤣🤘🏻😁
Same. In jr. high & high school, they called me 4eyes and a vulture (due to my nose) and said my white skin looked like a raw chicken. The mean girls walked behind me singing a song about cow patties (poop): “yippee ay aaaa, cow patty (and inserted my name here).” When I was 6, they said, “You’re pretty. Pretty ugly. “ I still experience haters in my 50s, but now it’s because they say I’m too pretty and look like a Barbie!!! What?!??! I don’t even take that as a compliment.
I think you are pretty
This is so sad. Amber is the reason I’m so confident today. I hope she knows that she is well beyond the queen she thinks she is. ❤️
Please if you don’t like her but still watch every single move of her then hunnyyy
you’re just a fan lmaooo
periodd
Exactly
Bitter fan 🤣
"Take it as a compliment and make it to advantage."
"You can stand back and watch me shine." (Amber Scholl)
"I'm going to be over here glowing no thank you" I love that alot I really want her confidence I just love her confidence so much💖💖
“I don’t think forgetting is the answer.” TRUTH!! 👸🏻👑
When handling haters, I think about the two quote from Liberace - “What you said hurt me very much. I cried all the way to the bank” and “You know the bank I used to cry all the way to. Well, I bought it.” Basically, their opinion doesn’t matter because I’m still living the high life.
Who would actually hate you , you’re so nice and genuine . They are literally Jealous
Her eyes watering made my eyes start to water as well. She's such a kind person who has changed so many girls' lives by just existing and spreading her positive energy. She deserves nothing but the absolute best. Amber is amazing and the haters won't see that because her shiny jewellery is probably blinding them.
Truly love this comment!
I recognize myself a lot in you! Especially about “showing yourself right” - it’s something that I try to apply now, I try to stop the bully in my head saying “you can’t do that” by being like “OH YEAH I CAN’T ?!? Let me grab that and show you” but it’s all to myself 🥰
Quote I always live by is: "Honesty without tact is cruelty."
Trent Shelton said “haters are just confused supporters”
Amber this literally changed my life. ¨What you think of me is yours. But who I am is mine.¨ WOW. MY ACTUAL ROLE MODEL I LOVE YOU
You honestly helped me so much for my confidence and still going through severe anxiety but now I have self respect and self love, which is making it easier to overcome my anxiety and doing the things I want to do because I deserve it. So thank you for being unapologetically you!
I still remember the compliment I got at the gas station from the girl working there. My hair was in pigtail French braids and i wasn't wearing any makeup. I didn't feel confident about myself that day. She told me I was beautiful and that still makes my day years later. Thank you random girl working cashier at the gas station ❤️
“What people think about you, has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them” Jen Sincero - her book gave me that slap in the face I needed to wake up. Loved this and made me emotional ❤️
Which book is it?
Monalisa Chowdhury You are a Badass , she also has two others but start with her first. It’s such a motivational read
Literally reading this book for the second time and it is amazing!!
mayknow peace it is !! It helped me so much and I always recommend it to everyone !
@@Olea.C Oh definitely!! I am doing the 75 days and this has been my book!! I got my mother to read it too
Can you put these into podcasts? Some of it is literally so inspiring that I would rather re listen to this in the car while I'm driving or while I'm doing things around the house just as much as I like watching the video on RUclips
Yesss
Get youtube premium you xan listen while your phone is locked
I was dating a guy who thought I wasn't skinny enough for him, and my weight was 95 pounds. Now I'm happily single, weigh 135 pounds, and this is the best I have ever felt myself and my body.
I love watching your videos ❤️
Wow how tall are you ? 🙂
Any one who wants you to lose or gain wait that will in the long run will put you in an unhealthy state( mental and physical,weight) then you need to drop them.
So glad you all are able to call them "exes".
I am 5'3 and thank you all for the kind words.!💕
this video rly hit me. im very emotional. its my strength and my weakness, and when you add very low self esteem/self worth in the mix, it rly leaves me with no armor to protect me. but that is what im focusing on and have been for the past year. unlearning all the bad things ive been telling myself, and learning how to truly take control of how others will affect me. emotions are beautiful, and i shouldnt "contain them", "shut them out", "stop crying and being emotional" etc. but i shouldnt let them take control of my life. and i think the only way to combat all that, is by learning to believe in me, my abilities and my worth. thank you for rly helping me and all of us to focus on the important things in life. ily amber, with all my very emotional heart
honestly, i wasnt feeling well these past few days, and for the first time ever a video was able to change my mood 180 degrees. your positive energy is contagious, thank you! i needed that.
If anyone doubts our homework for this video, I remember pretty clearly the girl at the grocery store telling me she liked my shoes, or the cashier at petsmart saying my hair was pretty. Those little compliments made me smile and stuck with me for the rest of the day, and I still think about them sometimes! ❤
I met you at the Century City mall. You were so warm and friendly, kind and patient with the people approaching you to say Hi! You were filming your blind shopping video! I still have our picture that my husband took of us! Thank you for being you! 💕💕
You could be the tastiest, most juiciest, most delicious peach out there in the world; there's still going to be people out there who don't like peaches
That is so good 😍
my fav quote is "as long as you know your flaws , no one ,absolutely no one can turn them against you" 💕 love u Amber, you are an angel!!
I honestly think that you should write your own book, your words bring peace and make me feel better, I can't understand how people could dislike this video.. Wish you all the best
I wish I had a friend like you. "Who I am is mine" that touched me.
I was struggling since I was told I was to old for a baby now that I'm pregnant at 40. This video I came across today helped me a lot thank you ❤
Womens are source of life, you should act like it. I'm 37, mother of 2 and i still grow up with Amber's videos. You are a 💎 Bernadette and you will be a wonderful women. Congrat! 🌹
Congratulations ! I wish you all the best x
Noo.. never.. never is too old if you want it... congratulations.
“When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred.” - Madara Uchiha
Fellow weebs..
My philosophy is: It's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier.
-Anthony Hopkins.
I saw this quote on my motivation app. I decided to click my RUclips app and saw this as my recommended video to watch. You’re a hard working woman. You’re an inspiration to me and probably others in this comment section. Your hard is paying off and I wish you nothing but success. A lot of us here do love and appreciate you for what you do. These haters have nothing better to do. They’ll try to tear you down. But I do believe a lot of us will of course stand with you. Xoxo
1:17 this is the first time someone didn’t just bs ab the fact that words hurt, but you learn to overcome it, thank you!
This series is turning into Amber realizes she could do with some therapy 😂❤
😂 i wish i could vlog therapy lmao
"If people make fun of you for it now, you can probably make money off of it later." People make fun of me for being "too smart" I can't wait to see how I'll make money off of that in the future 😆😂
Selling your noble price on eBay 🤣
Uhm but I can't make money from being layz...
@@purpleplant3842 there’s people that pay for you to test mattresses
My husband asks me so the time" why don't you care what people think" and to that I say, "why worry myself with what strangers think of me?" Their opinions don't matter. You are such an awesome human being. Thank you so much for all you do, truly
An angel queen helping all the rest of us angels get through life.
oh Amber i want to hug you right now, you are growing so much and you are so inspiring to me, love you
Amber is like my goal in life like I strive to be as amazing as she is. She is such an inspiration to me THANKK YOUU amber:)
The hate pushed her off the edge and showed her she had wings to fly....girl this is it..this is the video that I'll look back to n say "that was the turning point in my life"
"Happy hoes ain't hating"
- Kylie Jenner 2016
bible verse
@@AmberScholl love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Hating hoes ain't happy and happy hoes ain't hating"
- Fabolous 🎤 Ball Drop (2014)
😉👏🏼😀
Going through school was so hard for me. I've been fluffy my whole entire life. I went through hell. There have been times that I've had no friends. I am going to be 61 this month and I've gotten to the point that I just care what people think. They don't know who I really am. Last Sept I almost died. I was in a coma on total life support. Here I am alive and well. If no one likes me that is their loss. I like myself and I don't mind being alone because I'm really not alone; I have myself.
You, my dear, are a wonderful person and a great influence on how to overcome adversity. You rock girl! Never change!!
“Words can hurt you, but you don’t have to let them affect you.”
That’s such a great reminder amber thanks! 💗💗
Honey I’ve never watched u until right now and u are fricking adorable. Don’t let people who hide behind their computers say things to you on here that they would never say to your face. You’ve got this. The Chanel glasses comment killed.
I love how she literally stays unbothered no mater what🖤
My mom's my biggest bullie, but I still love her I don't let her words affect me n I don't hold a grudge either lifes to short ain't no one got time.
write her a letter
write her in a flipping book
turn that into your fire and do you. Believe it or not, later she will be proud of you. Parents often do this because they themselves feel like losers and don't believe in anything better.
If anyone has the audacity to call amber “shallow” after these videos.... fam you’re blind lol
How could someone hate you? It’s called jealousy! Your so beautiful and humble! I love your positive attitude! My goal for 2021! I’m 48;years old and from being abuse mental and physical and emotional by my parents hurt more than anything else! But learning to forgive and forget and not allowing then to rent space in my mind and heart! I love you so much for you positive videos! I wish I knew you along time ago !
Getting here 11 seconds after it was posted, seeing her talk about Taylor Swift's song and proving yourself right with actions has just made my day 300% better 💜
People only hate because they are unhappy with their lives
They want you to feel the same pain they did.
Some of the girls who bullied me in middle school for a medical condition are now nursing majors, and idk why I find that very ironic
Yes, that is quite ironic...
Also, never feel ashamed about your condition! I love you regardless
One day this thought came to my mind and I wanted to share" our opinion of me doesn't matter to me, my opinion of you is what matters to me". People loved to belittle me, shame me and so much more and at first I used to take it to heart but then this made me think and to this day I live by it. This thought isn't meant for someone else it is just for me, to remind myself what really matters and what should matter.
Bro some people on youtube just put me through bullshit yesterday 🤦🏿♀️ I really don't see the point of haters like why are they even human they do stuff that's just so cruel, I never had the audacity in my life to hate on somebody I really never had because I found it so pointless, keep shining Amber you're so inspiring
I saw this quotes somewhere, #people are never jealous of losers, so if a person don't like u for ni reason it is because you are living the life that they wanted, so you have haters but you have 3 million of people on youtube who can't live without you and love u so don't care love u
How can anyone hate Amber she's such a beautiful down to earth person, the ones that hate her are miserable individuals who have nothing better to do. We love you Amber🤩🤩🤩
“cant see the haters through chanel” 😂
Being nice does indeed make a change in someone's life. I remember one time I had a presentation and I just didn't feel confident about the way I looked and a student whom I've never met before stopped and told me that I looked really pretty. Little does she know, she not only made my whole day but made me feel so much better about the way I look in general and her words changed the way I see and carry myself. From that day on, whenever I see someone who looks great or had nice shoes or a cool hat or a beautiful smile, I let them know because you never know how such simple words could change the way someone thinks about themselves.
I really do enjoy this new series and it made me think profoundly of a lot of things. I've always loved you and loved watching your videos, but this series has been my favourite. Lots of love!
The things you said really resonated with me. I sometimes feel like people in the world aren't self-aware or objective enough to step outside of themselves and see the effects their comments may have on someone else. I see it all the time. I went to Subway the other day and the woman there was so upset because customers kept shouting abuse at her over order delays, lack of stock etc. Things she could do nothing about. I spoke to her for quite a while (she seemed like she needed to get it out) but it hurt to think people could be so thoughtless and unkind to her, she is just doing her job. I've heard countless of similar stories, in a variety of different situations and contexts where people cause real emotional damage to someone without a second thought.
I have depression and sometimes see the world as place that I don't want to be a part of because of the way we treat one another. I've spent years working in my local community to improve things but when there are so many things I cannot fix, I get frustrated and beaten down with it. You reminded me that there are other people out there trying to make a difference, even if it's just spreading kindness and compassion. That other people care and think about the same things I do.
So thank you, I really think I needed to hear that. I hope you continue to inspire people to be the best versions of themselves. I think it definitely makes a difference.
Best wishes,
Abbie
“can’t see the haters through chanel” is a mood
Venus in Cancer??? Okay I'll be sending you soft blankets and chocolate every day, softies should be protected ❤️🤧
Omgomgomgomg!!! I wasn't expecting her to like my comment 😮 I don't wanna sound annoying but that like made me SCREAM (PS woke up my parents, I'm dead but happy 😊) I Really Really Really love every video of yours 😍. Omg I really can't shut up I'll end up writing a whole essay 😭❤️I love you sooo much Amber, you really make my mood every time 😭😭❤️💕✨
Amber actually helped me to love myself n my appearance
I was once told always ( Consider The Source) Before taking anything personal. I've learned That when i get hate in the world. I just say over and over (Have Compassion Have compassion Have compassion. So that negative hurtful feeling turns into loving energy for you and for them that they truly need. NOT EASY BUT WORTH IT> Turning the negative into a positive. Its gonna happen either way its just how i choose to deal with it :)
Aww I needed to hear this, had a rough day at work with my own hater... and I was upset the rest of the day. thanks for posting this 🥰 love ya and your videos. And anyone going through hard times with haters, mean words etc., sending positive vibes and love ❤️