Still in the middle of watching this video, but had to comment. I’m a mom of girls your age and I’ve been heartbroken since you lost your precious mum. Every video I want to wrap my arms around you, as I would want some mum to do for my girls when I’m gone. Anyway I just want to thank you for sharing that bit of your heart in this one, I’m sure all the mums watching feel as I do. Feeling your pain and sadness and praying for the days to get just a bit easier for you. I hope that sharing these tender thoughts helps you in some way and that you can feel the love we viewers send you, especially in these moments. 💕
Thank you so much for your incredibly kind and heartfelt message. It truly means the world to me, and I’m deeply touched by your words. Sharing those tender moments does help, and knowing that there are wonderful people like you out there, sending love and understanding, brings so much comfort. Thank you for your prayers and support-it's moments like this that remind me how special this community is. Sending love back to you and your girls. 💕
It was always Cardinal birds for my mom. Now every time I hear or see one I like to think that it's mom sending a message that she's thinking of me too. 😊
Hi Catherine, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mam. I lost my own Mom 3 weeks ago.💔 I am planting a little memory corner in my garden of my Mom's favourite flowers and plants. She loved her garden. Mind yourself ❤
What a lovely sign from your mama. I lost my Dad many years ago and I carry him with me everyday. Every now and then something happens to show me he is with me, just as your Mom is with you 🩷
Thank you for sharing that with me. It’s such a comfort to hear how others feel their loved ones close, even after they're gone. Those little signs are so special, aren’t they? It's a beautiful reminder that they’re still watching over us. Sending love your way as you carry your dad with you each day x
my dear you are a treasure,i love to watch your video's ,i lost my darling mother when i was 11 years old,today i'm 80 years old and still miss her,and wonder how my life would have been if she had not passed. i know she is with me,and i truly believe if you keep them around you with thoughts,and words they will never leave you. I now live in America,but was born,and raised in England,iv'e been here since 73. My grandfather was born in county Cork a Cahill no less. Anyway l love you dear you are so genuine and honest, a breath of fresh air.
Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. I can feel the love you have for your mother, and I truly believe she’s always with you in spirit. It’s such a beautiful thought that keeping them in our hearts keeps them near. I’m so touched by your story, and I’m grateful to have you as part of this community. Wishing you continued warmth and peace in the New Year. Your kindness truly shines through. 💕
I know your mom is so proud of you. I also think your sign is a sign. Best wishes to you. Take your time, do what you need to do to heal, enjoy the family you have, and keep lovin' those kitties.
I think it's so very special that you will plant a small garden on your mom's grave. I feel like it's a perpetual sign of hope amidst the sadness. What a wonderful idea. Love the sign you found with her name. You are in my thoughts often.♥♥
Oh I definitely believe in signs our loved ones are always with us. I have a memorial garden I made in my yard for my mom and now have one for my husband too that I lost not long ago. Every time I work in those beds I feel them with me and feel at peace. It’s amazing how much comfort our gardens can bring us💗
I loved that story about finding the little sign with your Mam's name, and how you were assessing the soil on her grave! Got a little teary! If there's a heaven, she would surely be looking down and smiling with pride at you! I also had a bit of a moment realising for all the bad rap that social media gets, there can be a genuine sense of connection and people who really care. I feel very moved when I read all the comments on your videos. Sending so much love and prayers to you and your family. ❤
That's so lovely that you can garden on your mother's grave. Here in Delaware we aren't allowed to dig on graves or plant things. Which makes me sad, I'd love to do something for my parents graves. If you do a small garden I do hope you'll share it with us. Many blessings for you dear Catherine.
I think that the "soil thoughts " came to you because gardening and beautiful flowers bring you joy and happiness. Making a garden there will be a special way to honor her memory ❤️. Wishing you peace and comfort in your heart and soul. God bless xoxo
First you make me cry with your story about the sign and then you have laughing my ass off over the cat peeing on you. I know you don’t know it but we had such a nice visit today. I look forward to your videos so much. Take time and be happy.
Yes there are Signs I think Catherine I've had quite a few moments like that after my Husband died he definitely keeps things going, I was never one for that before but I certainly am now 😊 it gives comfort xxx
How sweet to find that sign from your mum. I did not think of it as morbid if you were thinking of soil, it gave you joy and I’m sure your mum is smiling too. 😌 I love your table and chairs and it’s full of history within your home. Nothing that that a table cloth cannot cover when you have folks for dinner or tea. Love your hair. The table looking lovely. Lucky find of the 5 lb chair. ❤ Score on the Alan Tichmart books. Love seeing him work in the gardens.
Thank you so much for your kind words! Finding that sign really felt like a sweet moment, and I like to think my mum is smiling too. 😊 I’m so glad you like the table and chairs-they’ve certainly seen some history in my home! A tablecloth definitely works wonders when hosting, you’re so right. The €5 chair was such a lucky find, and those Alan Titchmarsh books are a real treasure! I love watching him in the garden as well. ❤
I love the sign and your ideas you have for your mom's resting spot. I think building a little garden is perfect. Sending you much love and strength. As for your table, I love the warmth of the wood showing through. I remember when you left the table leg warmer than the top. I am glad that you are going to leave the top the same. The cats are a handful but totally cute! I am a dog person but I lost my Archie last Oct. He was the sweetest Maltese. He sadly passed shortly after his 17th birthday. He was healthy and limber his whole life but suddenly a few months before we had to let him go, he barely ate and things went down hill fast. Boy did I cry for months. I was his person until the end. Pets have a way of making their way to your heart!
My mom passed away about 25 years ago now when I was 30 but she’s buried about 2 hours away so planting wasn’t an option really. My sister and I included a few favorite things in her casket for her though. Camel cigarettes, a Tab, her favorite drink and her favorite little bathtub pics of us. She said seeing us so sweet in a bubble bath like that kept her from killing us during our teen years. 😂 you do whatever you need to do to make this time easier.
Catherine, im soo sorry to hear about your mum. I'm sending you soo much love, healing energeis, peace, comfort and blessings. Maybe also plant something your mum liked. Sending you soo much healing energies. xx
Nobody can tell you what to feel or think when you lose a loved one, especially your mum. I remember when we took our mother off life support, I immediately cut some of her hair and some of my sisters got angry with me. A few years after, they told me they wish they had taken some hair too cause they saw how every now and then I would touch her hair and it helped me with the grieving process. So no that wasn’t morbid. Sending prayers to you and your family. 🙏🙏🙏
Some of our historic cemeteries here in Tennessee in the US have programs for volunteers to tend to graves that have a ring around them to plant flowers in. It’s really lovely. I’ve helped out in the past and it’s so nice seeing people tend to them. That garden sign is such a treasure. I can only imagine what a wonderful and emotional moment it was finding it.
It's wonderful that you saw the garden sign with your mums name on it. My eyes welled up. I do believe you were meant to find it ❤ The solid chair is beautiful. I'm looking forward to seeing the transformation. The table looks incredible after a good sand & wax treatment. Bon is very inquisitive 😊 We've had a mild, warm day today. The grass has had what may be the final cut for the year. The leaves are plentiful as the garden is surrounded by huge trees. The slugs appear in the evenings to munch at my lavender. They seem so much bigger this year. Sending you all good wishes 🙏 ❤️ xx
Thank you so much for your lovely words! I truly believe that finding the garden sign was meant to be; it felt like a warm hug from my mum. It sounds like your garden is thriving, even with the slugs enjoying your lavender! Those big trees must create such a beautiful atmosphere, especially this time of year. Wishing you all the best as you enjoy the last of the warm days! 🌿❤️ xx
Love the vlog. I just love to see your cats playing you up.lol It brought a tear to my eye, when you spoke about your mother. Take care. I wish every happiness for you.x
How special that you can plan a wee garden for your mam’s grave, even if it takes a bit of time before you’re actually able to plant. Gardens are such a lovely way to remember - I take holly in every Christmas from the trees my late husband planted and I think of it as him still giving me flowers, the way he always did when he was alive.
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, but I think it's a lovely idea. Planting a garden on her grave and I do believe in; signs❤ your table looks very nice.
When my little sister passed, mom and I chose the plot with the perfect elm tree. We can't plant on graves. We do take garden flowers and a grave blanket for Christmas. It makes a lovely mulch against the cold wind here in Omaha, Nebraska. We have lovely grass when the blanket is removed in Spring. I used to make them myself from evergreen clippings. Your backless chair could be turned into a stool/side table/cat perch. The spindles could be a wind chime....Love your videos.
Oh Cathrine! I love getting signs from my loved ones ! I have lost 4 members of family in past few years and really enjoy getting messages from beyond. Your mom was with you, no doubt. Gives me the goosebumps every time. So happy to be hanging out with you. For anyone in Calgary Alberta, Canada- Reader rock garden is a lovely hidden gem. Has a special place in my heart, since it is where my husband proposed.
Thank you for sharing that! Those signs really do bring so much comfort, don't they? I'm so sorry for your losses, but it's beautiful that you feel those messages from beyond. Reader Rock Garden sounds like such a special place, and how lovely that it’s tied to such a sweet memory of your husband proposing. Sending lots of love to you, have a lovely weekend x
Most of my household consists of second hand items. Some from shops and some from family. I think of them as treasures. Many are one of a kind! Your projects inspire me to refresh and wallpaper with birds is on my mind lately. Keep up the great work. ❤
My mom’s name is Frances as well and she passed away in 12/2021. It’s like it was just yesterday. Thank you for sharing your treasures. You give me so much inspiration. Thank you for sharing ❤️.
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I can understand how fresh those feelings can still be. Thank you for your kind words-I'm so glad my videos inspire you. Sending you lots of love as you hold onto your precious memories. ❤️
You might already have decided on the chair, but I would suggest sawing the shattered pieces of the spindles off. Then get a thin wooden dowel, drill down in the spindle a ways and glue the dowel on place of the shattered end. Should be sturdy enough if you drill down a bit and the other two is in good condition 💕
Hi Catherine, your mum's grave will look lovely when you've planted it. I have daffodils bulbs around my mum and dad plaques in the cemetery. Which look pretty the spring unfortunately I can't plant anything more as space is a issue. The little sign you picked up is lovely such a kind lady in the market. Alan's books was a good find. I love your table too . The cats have grown so much . Have a nice weekend lovely xxx ❤️
I watch Alan's new series on HGTV, I know his older TV shows as well. I love Charly Dimmock who worked with him and still has her own TV show. They are all a source of inspiration like you, dear Catherine. The sign with your mum's name is so wonderful. I feel with you so deeply.❤
I love the highlights in your hair Catherine. Lucky you to have found the garden sign with your mother's name. The table top looks fresh and clean. Take care and sending ❤ thank you for the video.
Thank you so much! I’m really happy with how the hair turned out. It felt like such a lovely sign to find that garden piece with my mum’s name-it made the day feel extra special. I’m glad you liked the table refresh as well! Sending lots of love right back to you, and thank you for watching! ❤
Hi, my name is Cassandra. I'm from Portland, Oregon (US) I've been watching your videos for several years now, and I just love them. I'm a beginner gardener amd its nice to have a realistic view of a beautiful garden that's not so staged and maintained by staff.Thank you for sharing. Also, if anyone is in the area, the Leach Botanical garden is beautiful.
I love the sign for Frances Garden and that you are allowed to plant on graves. I love the way the Irish respect those who have passed….they are remembered forever. We aren’t allowed to add plants (just a vase of flower) not allowed to add custom signs in most cemeteries either (Australia) AND the greedy cemeteries are “renewing” graves… which is a polite way of saying they have destroyed my great grandmothers grave, the headstone removed….her plot will become a grassy pathway and the space between current burial plots will be new burial plots. It’s like she never existed but people are walking in her. I would definitely be checking out the soil during a funeral….it’s part of the process of creating a beautiful memorial for our parent. It will look so pretty ❤
I love that you shared your story about your mom. It is so fitting and gives us a glimpse of a healthy way to help process grief. I'm also delighted to hear that you can actually plant on your mom's grave. In my area there are so many rules and sometimes you aren't allowed to even leave a bouquet of real flowers.
Those flowers in the walled garden are beautiful You were destined to go there and find a plaque with your mums name on it bless you your mum will be forever with you in your heart Happy planting for your mum
Such wonderful fnding the plaque with your mum's name. I'm glad you took it with you. My mum wanted to be layed to rest in the same plot as my dad and her parents once she was cremeated, so we set her over my dad's heart, the weather in my home country is very extreme, very cold winters and very hot summers, so we planted type of succulent that has beutiful white flowers in spring and summer, but is frost and draught resistent. You know that when you hear magpies chatter outside your window, it calls in prosperity and good fortune. Autumn gardens, nature's flamboyant farewell before settling for winter's rest. I live in Hounslow in greater London, my favourite hidden garden is the Italian fountain in Twickenham and my favourite nature walk is in Crane Park, starting with the gunpowder tower takes you all the way to Richmond. Favourite places to trift and rummage are Witton High Street, plenty of charity shops, and Twickenham, too. Also, the vintage market in Chiswick 😊
Thank you so much for sharing that beautiful story, and I’m glad you liked the plaque! It’s so lovely to hear about your mum’s resting place and how you’ve made it special for her. Those gardens sound magical- they sound right up my alley! Sending lots of love 💕
What a lovely little sign, a gift from above maybe. You are going to create a mini garden for your mum, how wonderful xx Roses do well in clay. You did a great job on your table. Love to you Catherine and have a great weekend everyone 💋
Hi Catherine just to say we put snow drop bulbs on my mum's grave as she had a January birthday, also wild primroses. We do of course put cut flowers for the rest of the year. Thinking of you, take care 😊
I have a old desk cut down to a coffee table, recently had it redone, sanded and changed the colour again. Can't fault good solid heavy wood. What a lovely way to celebrate your mum 💕💕💕
That’s a sweet sign you found in memory of your mom.❤ Also, the garden idea on her grave site. Your a dear daughter. Hope your doing well and thank you for another inspiring video! 😊. God bless you.
Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your support and hope you enjoy the video. Wishing you all the best! God bless you too! ❤️😊
That sign was absolutely your mom getting your attention. The flower idea is so wonderful I wish I could do that for my dad's grave, but alas, they only want grass. Your table is giving me ideas, but for some wood walls I have in my home.
Awwww Catherine I'm sure your wee Mam had a giggle at you about the soil. I love getting little things happening that I feel my wee mum & Dad are letting me know they will always be near . Loving how the table turned out ❤ Patricia xx.
Your viewers are all so concerned for you Catherine. My heart broke for you when I saw the sign with your mum’s name. You’re brave and strong and I’m sure life will be good to you coz her spirit’s in you. Take care 💞💞
Dear Catherine! When I watched your video today ( I'm a " young at heart"😂 69 years old single woman from Germany) I had tears in my eyes. I was so sorry for you when I heard some weeks ago, your loving mom passed away!😢. I know exactly your feelings. My mom passed away 3 years ago and I still miss her every day. The name of your mom was Frances - I think it's the same name like my mom! In Germany it is " Franziska". The beautiful sign you've found it's an inspiration for me to design a similar sign for my mom's grave, because her grave is looking like a little garden ( she loved flowers as much as I do). I'm sure when the time is comming you will plant a beautiful flowerful grave for your mom. Take care and stay strong and healthy. I love your videos!!!! You are an amazing young woman! Many regards from the city of Bonn, Germany, Heidi🙋🏼♀️ Please forgive my english mistakes.
Keep the bottom of the chair, and fill in the holes. Maybe refinish it like the chair. Use it as a stool for additional seating should you need it! Enjoyed this video of a little bit for shopping and diy! Love seeing you working hard and doing so many beautiful projects in and outside! All of that work is good for the heart and soul!
Love the thrifting finds, and the garden message from your Mom for you. ❤ If you decide not to paint the chair, you could sand, then use a paint brush to apply bleach. It takes the orange right out of the wood. Then stain, seal with wax, or whatever you choose. Your style is wonderful. 😊
Hi Catherine loved what you had to share those flowers were beautiful your table turned out looking new again looking forward to your next video give the playful pretty cats a hug for have fun be safe ❤❤❤
I couldn’t help grinning with you Catherine when you said you were looking at the soil thinking 🤔 “Mulch” 😆 lovely plaque you found , was meant to be, my Grandma’s name was Frances, I never got to meet her she passed 2yrs before I was born, but apparently we were very similar and would of got on like a house on fire 😊 Bonn is a true rascal! But a a love a mischievous cat😁 I like the warmer tone of the table, and the chair you found is full of character. I am so hopeful for you to have honey next year. I am sure you Mam is watching over you and sending comfort where she can ❤ Hugs, Suze. 🤗 x
What a lovely video, just enjoyable to watch … I wish I was close to the shop I’d love a mooch around 😂. It’s like fate- finding the sign,just a reminder of your dear mother (watching over) would it be nice in your green house - & when your having a cup of tea after your hard work - it’s just a little (subconscious nod )in a way 🕯️😘sorry it’s just me & my daft sentimental thought. The table looks good,did you notice the needlework wooden case- always think they look good & so practical- ideal for you. Have a lovely relaxing time reading your new books 📚take care 🙏🏻💐😁 😊
That’s so sweet 🥹 thanks for that! I do hope you have some similar shops near you for a mooch too, can’t beat it 😍 always some treasure to be found! Thanks for stopping by xx
Sure do 🤣thing is I’m sure I could sell them items 🤣you can’t help liking things, I like random things - you can’t help liking things you like but it’s so varied & obviously if it’s a bargain that’s even better😊.
Hi Catherine, I believe the Frances garden sign was a message from your Mam. So lovely for you to find it. Your table turned out lovely, I know you said it needed a 2nd coat but I thought it looked finished. Beautiful flower arrangement on the table too. Love the chair, great find. Have a lovely weekend, take care 💜
Lovely video Catherine...I am a spiritual person ...a sign..oh yes I would like to think you coming across that little name plate was your mum just letting you know she was with you on your little trip out ...that's a wonderful comfort...those little signs mean so much...your table top looks fantastic & your fur babies at times can create extra chores I know, but we wouldn't be without them..I know I definitely wouldn't be without mine...xx
The little garden of spring bulbs for your mums grave is a beautiful idea. I also believe in signs and seeing a lot since my dad passed away. It helps me feel a bit brighter when I see a little sign. I'm also reading a book called Signs By Laura Lynne Jackson, which is such a comforting and gentle read for anyone recently bereaved - you might like it too ❤ Thanks for the table diy, I'm planning on doing the same soon as I have a similar table. This has given me a clue on how to go about doing it 😊x
May the Lord give you healing in your heart. The only thing I know and learn is that your loved one is more love after they are going. Also, you have an angel 😇 always and anywhere you go . ❤
Love that little sign takes a good while for grave to settle my mam is gone a year and it took a few months especially this time of year with all the rain my brother removed lots of stones too from the soil in it. I have a second hand oak table we sanded it and oiled it years ago does need a bit of love but currently in middle of renovation so no point just yet 😊
I have a Craftsman orbital sander. I love it! They also make a detail sander. It's shaped like a triangle, so the tip is good for small areas. Both sanders are available in battery and corded versions.
Hello sweet Catherine!! Hope you're doing better.. I am sure that the "signs" we come across in life are never by accident.. it is a way to get in touch with what we cannot reach.. have faith and be on alert for them, they are everywhere! I am wishing you, as the time goes by, to remember your mum with a smile and a warm heart! Also..I would like to suggest something about your broken chair.. you can use it at another room, the bedroom for example, where noone will sit, but you can display some seasonal decorations on it, place some books or use it as a clothes stand.. just a thought I had.. Take care! Wishing you all the best!! Greetings from Greece, Konstantina ❤
That sign with your mums name on is so sweet. My mums middle name was Frances. She was Joy Frances. I always put a Joy decoration on my Christmas tree, so she’s with me at Christmas.❤❤❤❤
Hi Catherine to remove marker pen or felt tips just spray with hair spray. Thats a lovely plan to do a garden at your mothers resting place and the name plaque is perfect, table and chairs are fabulous. ❤🏴
I’m so sorry Catherine. I lost my Mom in 1989, and I still miss her so much, here in California we can not dig on the graves, I would’ve to have been able to do that for my parents, with your green thumb you will have it beautiful . God Bless you🙏🙏🥰🥰❤️❤️
Geoff Hamilton was an amazing gardener, he lived near us and developed an amazing series of small gardens in Rutland, they are still there, Barnsdale Gardens. He taught Adam Frost! He loved repurposing things to use for his gardens, his videos are great if you ever see them x
I just came across your channel this morning and I’m delighted I did. I’m sorry for the loss of your mum, I know only too well what it’s like. Your accent reminded me of my mum. She was from the south of Ireland. I’m from Newry. Like you, I believe in signs too. Maybe your mum guided you to the gardening books, who knows - it’s a nice thought anyway. My wee dog, Mika, a 10 year old Shih Tzu is away getting groomed, so for the next hour or so I plan on getting myself a cup of coffee and a few chocolate biscuits, whilst laying up to watch a couple more of your videos. God bless 💕
Still in the middle of watching this video, but had to comment. I’m a mom of girls your age and I’ve been heartbroken since you lost your precious mum. Every video I want to wrap my arms around you, as I would want some mum to do for my girls when I’m gone. Anyway I just want to thank you for sharing that bit of your heart in this one, I’m sure all the mums watching feel as I do. Feeling your pain and sadness and praying for the days to get just a bit easier for you. I hope that sharing these tender thoughts helps you in some way and that you can feel the love we viewers send you, especially in these moments. 💕
Thank you so much for your incredibly kind and heartfelt message. It truly means the world to me, and I’m deeply touched by your words. Sharing those tender moments does help, and knowing that there are wonderful people like you out there, sending love and understanding, brings so much comfort. Thank you for your prayers and support-it's moments like this that remind me how special this community is. Sending love back to you and your girls. 💕
What lovely comments
I love this comment .as a mum myself now but lost my dad when i was 18 i feel the same way about wanting to wrap my arms around Catherine.
Such a lovely nod to your Mam, i’m sure you’ll make a grand job of making her space look beautiful - sending you lots of love chick ❤
What a lovely comment ❤ and so say all of us too, such a wonderful community on here ❤❤
100% believe that our loved ones send us signs that they are watching over us❤️🤗
It was always Cardinal birds for my mom. Now every time I hear or see one I like to think that it's mom sending a message that she's thinking of me too. 😊
Mines a feather from my Dad😃
Yes I always have since I was a small child and it seems to bring comfort.
Mine is a coin found on the street. Friends left a trail of pennies at our wedding reception. Dad is never far ❤️
You were and still are a blessing to your mum. You make my mama heart smile!
Hi Catherine, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mam. I lost my own Mom 3 weeks ago.💔 I am planting a little memory corner in my garden of my Mom's favourite flowers and plants. She loved her garden. Mind yourself ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss Patricia 💔 look after yourself ❤️ what a lovely way to honour your mum
@DaintyDiaries thanks Catherine you too ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤❤❤
What a lovely sign from your mama. I lost my Dad many years ago and I carry him with me everyday. Every now and then something happens to show me he is with me, just as your Mom is with you 🩷
same 🙋🏻♀️💟✨
Thank you for sharing that with me. It’s such a comfort to hear how others feel their loved ones close, even after they're gone. Those little signs are so special, aren’t they? It's a beautiful reminder that they’re still watching over us. Sending love your way as you carry your dad with you each day x
my dear you are a treasure,i love to watch your video's ,i lost my darling mother when i was 11 years old,today i'm 80 years old and still miss her,and wonder how my life would have been if she had not passed. i know she is with me,and i truly believe if you keep them around you with thoughts,and words they will never leave you. I now live in America,but was born,and raised in England,iv'e been here since 73. My grandfather was born in county Cork a Cahill no less. Anyway l love you dear you are so genuine and honest, a breath of fresh air.
Thank you so much for your kind and heartfelt words. I can feel the love you have for your mother, and I truly believe she’s always with you in spirit. It’s such a beautiful thought that keeping them in our hearts keeps them near. I’m so touched by your story, and I’m grateful to have you as part of this community. Wishing you continued warmth and peace in the New Year. Your kindness truly shines through. 💕
Purple basil is a must for your bees. They love love, it's flowers😊
I know your mom is so proud of you. I also think your sign is a sign. Best wishes to you. Take your time, do what you need to do to heal, enjoy the family you have, and keep lovin' those kitties.
I think it's so very special that you will plant a small garden on your mom's grave. I feel like it's a perpetual sign of hope amidst the sadness. What a wonderful idea. Love the sign you found with her name. You are in my thoughts often.♥♥
Thanks so much Danielle 💕 that’s very kind of you xx
Oh I definitely believe in signs our loved ones are always with us. I have a memorial garden I made in my yard for my mom and now have one for my husband too that I lost not long ago. Every time I work in those beds I feel them with me and feel at peace. It’s amazing how much comfort our gardens can bring us💗
I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 it sounds like a beautiful memorial garden you’ve made! So much comfort ❤️
I loved that story about finding the little sign with your Mam's name, and how you were assessing the soil on her grave! Got a little teary! If there's a heaven, she would surely be looking down and smiling with pride at you!
I also had a bit of a moment realising for all the bad rap that social media gets, there can be a genuine sense of connection and people who really care. I feel very moved when I read all the comments on your videos. Sending so much love and prayers to you and your family. ❤
That's so lovely that you can garden on your mother's grave. Here in Delaware we aren't allowed to dig on graves or plant things. Which makes me sad, I'd love to do something for my parents graves. If you do a small garden I do hope you'll share it with us. Many blessings for you dear Catherine.
I think that the "soil thoughts " came to you because gardening and beautiful flowers bring you joy and happiness. Making a garden there will be a special way to honor her memory ❤️. Wishing you peace and comfort in your heart and soul. God bless xoxo
Bless you. You’re a joy to listen to, it’s a great thing to share your tips and so sorry for your loss. ❤
Aw thanks for your kind words x
I'm very lucky I live about 15mins drive from Wisley Gardens. I never tire of it there's always something new to see 😊
All I want to say is don´t apologize for being sad. We love you ❤
First you make me cry with your story about the sign and then you have laughing my ass off over the cat peeing on you. I know you don’t know it but we had such a nice visit today. I look forward to your videos so much. Take time and be happy.
The sign is definitely a sign. Our loved ones know what we are up to. I get confirmation in my dreams. ❤💐
Yes there are Signs I think Catherine I've had quite a few moments like that after my Husband died he definitely keeps things going, I was never one for that before but I certainly am now 😊 it gives comfort xxx
How sweet to find that sign from your mum. I did not think of it as morbid if you were thinking of soil, it gave you joy and I’m sure your mum is smiling too. 😌
I love your table and chairs and it’s full of history within your home. Nothing that that a table cloth cannot cover when you have folks for dinner or tea.
Love your hair.
The table looking lovely. Lucky find of the 5 lb chair. ❤
Score on the Alan Tichmart books. Love seeing him work in the gardens.
Thank you so much for your kind words! Finding that sign really felt like a sweet moment, and I like to think my mum is smiling too. 😊 I’m so glad you like the table and chairs-they’ve certainly seen some history in my home! A tablecloth definitely works wonders when hosting, you’re so right.
The €5 chair was such a lucky find, and those Alan Titchmarsh books are a real treasure! I love watching him in the garden as well. ❤
Catherine, lovely sign and a nice way to remember your mam. We like the chair you found. 👍👍❤❤
Thank you so much! The sign feels like a special little reminder of her, and I'm so glad you liked the chair too! It was such a great find. 😊💕
I love the sign and your ideas you have for your mom's resting spot. I think building a little garden is perfect. Sending you much love and strength.
As for your table, I love the warmth of the wood showing through. I remember when you left the table leg warmer than the top. I am glad that you are going to leave the top the same.
The cats are a handful but totally cute! I am a dog person but I lost my Archie last Oct. He was the sweetest Maltese. He sadly passed shortly after his 17th birthday. He was healthy and limber his whole life but suddenly a few months before we had to let him go, he barely ate and things went down hill fast. Boy did I cry for months. I was his person until the end. Pets have a way of making their way to your heart!
My mom passed away about 25 years ago now when I was 30 but she’s buried about 2 hours away so planting wasn’t an option really. My sister and I included a few favorite things in her casket for her though. Camel cigarettes, a Tab, her favorite drink and her favorite little bathtub pics of us. She said seeing us so sweet in a bubble bath like that kept her from killing us during our teen years. 😂 you do whatever you need to do to make this time easier.
Catherine, im soo sorry to hear about your mum. I'm sending you soo much love, healing energeis, peace, comfort and blessings.
Maybe also plant something your mum liked. Sending you soo much healing energies. xx
Nobody can tell you what to feel or think when you lose a loved one, especially your mum. I remember when we took our mother off life support, I immediately cut some of her hair and some of my sisters got angry with me. A few years after, they told me they wish they had taken some hair too cause they saw how every now and then I would touch her hair and it helped me with the grieving process. So no that wasn’t morbid. Sending prayers to you and your family. 🙏🙏🙏
There’s no right or wrong when it comes to grief ❤️
The highlights and low lights in your hair are beautiful
I like the table with 3 chairs!
Me too? and it feels more spacious x
Some of our historic cemeteries here in Tennessee in the US have programs for volunteers to tend to graves that have a ring around them to plant flowers in. It’s really lovely. I’ve helped out in the past and it’s so nice seeing people tend to them. That garden sign is such a treasure. I can only imagine what a wonderful and emotional moment it was finding it.
That’s such a lovely idea 💕
Finding your mom’s name on the little garden sign was definitely a big hug from her! 🥰
It's wonderful that you saw the garden sign with your mums name on it. My eyes welled up. I do believe you were meant to find it ❤
The solid chair is beautiful. I'm looking forward to seeing the transformation. The table looks incredible after a good sand & wax treatment.
Bon is very inquisitive 😊
We've had a mild, warm day today. The grass has had what may be the final cut for the year. The leaves are plentiful as the garden is surrounded by huge trees. The slugs appear in the evenings to munch at my lavender. They seem so much bigger this year.
Sending you all good wishes 🙏 ❤️ xx
Thank you so much for your lovely words! I truly believe that finding the garden sign was meant to be; it felt like a warm hug from my mum.
It sounds like your garden is thriving, even with the slugs enjoying your lavender! Those big trees must create such a beautiful atmosphere, especially this time of year. Wishing you all the best as you enjoy the last of the warm days! 🌿❤️ xx
Those "Pooh" dahlias are beautiful, and the shot you got with the bee was so nice!
Love the vlog.
I just love to see your cats playing you up.lol
It brought a tear to my eye, when you spoke about your mother.
Take care.
I wish every happiness for you.x
How special that you can plan a wee garden for your mam’s grave, even if it takes a bit of time before you’re actually able to plant. Gardens are such a lovely way to remember - I take holly in every Christmas from the trees my late husband planted and I think of it as him still giving me flowers, the way he always did when he was alive.
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, but I think it's a lovely idea. Planting a garden on her grave and I do believe in; signs❤ your table looks very nice.
Love the new colour of the table. A sweet sign from mom😀
The table and chairs are so pretty.❤️
When my little sister passed, mom and I chose the plot with the perfect elm tree. We can't plant on graves. We do take garden flowers and a grave blanket for Christmas. It makes a lovely mulch against the cold wind here in Omaha, Nebraska. We have lovely grass when the blanket is removed in Spring. I used to make them myself from evergreen clippings. Your backless chair could be turned into a stool/side table/cat perch. The spindles could be a wind chime....Love your videos.
It’s a shame that you can’t plant on the graves but the elm tree sounds like beautiful spot❤️
Oh Cathrine! I love getting signs from my loved ones ! I have lost 4 members of family in past few years and really enjoy getting messages from beyond. Your mom was with you, no doubt. Gives me the goosebumps every time. So happy to be hanging out with you. For anyone in Calgary Alberta, Canada- Reader rock garden is a lovely hidden gem. Has a special place in my heart, since it is where my husband proposed.
Thank you for sharing that! Those signs really do bring so much comfort, don't they? I'm so sorry for your losses, but it's beautiful that you feel those messages from beyond. Reader Rock Garden sounds like such a special place, and how lovely that it’s tied to such a sweet memory of your husband proposing. Sending lots of love to you, have a lovely weekend x
Here is a warm hug for you from South Africa - and how lovely that you are planning some of your gardening magic on your Mum's grave.....
Thank you sweetheart x
Most of my household consists of second hand items. Some from shops and some from family. I think of them as treasures. Many are one of a kind! Your projects inspire me to refresh and wallpaper with birds is on my mind lately. Keep up the great work. ❤
My mom’s name is Frances as well and she passed away in 12/2021. It’s like it was just yesterday. Thank you for sharing your treasures. You give me so much inspiration. Thank you for sharing ❤️.
I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I can understand how fresh those feelings can still be. Thank you for your kind words-I'm so glad my videos inspire you. Sending you lots of love as you hold onto your precious memories. ❤️
Awww there are signs all around us and I believe that was definitely a sign that your sweet mamma is with you ❤
Absolutely! It's comforting to think that our loved ones are always watching over us. Thank you for your kind words! ❤️
Aww love that was definitely a sing from your ma letting you know she's with you always 💖
You might already have decided on the chair, but I would suggest sawing the shattered pieces of the spindles off. Then get a thin wooden dowel, drill down in the spindle a ways and glue the dowel on place of the shattered end. Should be sturdy enough if you drill down a bit and the other two is in good condition 💕
Hi Catherine, your mum's grave will look lovely when you've planted it. I have daffodils bulbs around my mum and dad plaques in the cemetery. Which look pretty the spring unfortunately I can't plant anything more as space is a issue. The little sign you picked up is lovely such a kind lady in the market. Alan's books was a good find. I love your table too . The cats have grown so much . Have a nice weekend lovely xxx ❤️
I watch Alan's new series on HGTV, I know his older TV shows as well. I love Charly Dimmock who worked with him and still has her own TV show. They are all a source of inspiration like you, dear Catherine.
The sign with your mum's name is so wonderful. I feel with you so deeply.❤
I love the highlights in your hair Catherine. Lucky you to have found the garden sign with your mother's name. The table top looks fresh and clean. Take care and sending ❤ thank you for the video.
Thank you so much! I’m really happy with how the hair turned out. It felt like such a lovely sign to find that garden piece with my mum’s name-it made the day feel extra special. I’m glad you liked the table refresh as well! Sending lots of love right back to you, and thank you for watching! ❤
Hi, my name is Cassandra. I'm from Portland, Oregon (US)
I've been watching your videos for several years now, and I just love them. I'm a beginner gardener amd its nice to have a realistic view of a beautiful garden that's not so staged and maintained by staff.Thank you for sharing. Also, if anyone is in the area, the Leach Botanical garden is beautiful.
Ah Cassandra I’m so glad to hear that ❤️ thanks for being here all these years and all your support 🥹
Hugs and love to you, Catherine . There is no shame in matters of the ❤️ 😘🫂
The sign you found was your mom’s way of showing you that she is still with you.
Very nice. Table will look gorgeous when finished. 😊
Woe and just like that a brand new table🎉🎉🎉🎉
I love the sign for Frances Garden and that you are allowed to plant on graves. I love the way the Irish respect those who have passed….they are remembered forever. We aren’t allowed to add plants (just a vase of flower) not allowed to add custom signs in most cemeteries either (Australia) AND the greedy cemeteries are “renewing” graves… which is a polite way of saying they have destroyed my great grandmothers grave, the headstone removed….her plot will become a grassy pathway and the space between current burial plots will be new burial plots. It’s like she never existed but people are walking in her.
I would definitely be checking out the soil during a funeral….it’s part of the process of creating a beautiful memorial for our parent. It will look so pretty ❤
Love the garden sign, def a nod/wink from your mum ❤
I am so sorry for your loss! I lost my mother years ago but I still miss her greatly. Hold tight to all your memories.
I was so pleased to see you had a new video it gives me a lift I loved it xx
I love that you shared your story about your mom. It is so fitting and gives us a glimpse of a healthy way to help process grief. I'm also delighted to hear that you can actually plant on your mom's grave. In my area there are so many rules and sometimes you aren't allowed to even leave a bouquet of real flowers.
So good to see your beautiful smiley face 💕 sending you hugs and love x
Those flowers in the walled garden are beautiful
You were destined to go there and find a plaque with your mums name on it bless you your mum will be forever with you in your heart
Happy planting for your mum
My favourite market in the city
You were meant to find the garden sign with your mam’s name. So perfect Catherine. 💝🦩
So special ❤️
Alan Titchmarsh is the best❤ what a great set of books! I loved watching him when I was younger and his garden designs
Such wonderful fnding the plaque with your mum's name. I'm glad you took it with you. My mum wanted to be layed to rest in the same plot as my dad and her parents once she was cremeated, so we set her over my dad's heart, the weather in my home country is very extreme, very cold winters and very hot summers, so we planted type of succulent that has beutiful white flowers in spring and summer, but is frost and draught resistent. You know that when you hear magpies chatter outside your window, it calls in prosperity and good fortune. Autumn gardens, nature's flamboyant farewell before settling for winter's rest. I live in Hounslow in greater London, my favourite hidden garden is the Italian fountain in Twickenham and my favourite nature walk is in Crane Park, starting with the gunpowder tower takes you all the way to Richmond. Favourite places to trift and rummage are Witton High Street, plenty of charity shops, and Twickenham, too. Also, the vintage market in Chiswick 😊
Thank you so much for sharing that beautiful story, and I’m glad you liked the plaque! It’s so lovely to hear about your mum’s resting place and how you’ve made it special for her. Those gardens sound magical- they sound right up my alley! Sending lots of love 💕
@DaintyDiaries I appreciate your reply and candour and sharing such sweet, vulnerable, and personal moments with us. Sending love your way 💕
What a lovely little sign, a gift from above maybe. You are going to create a mini garden for your mum, how wonderful xx Roses do well in clay. You did a great job on your table. Love to you Catherine and have a great weekend everyone 💋
🤣🤣🤣 you are priceless! Most people would clear the table before unscrewing it😂… your approach is so you! Don’t ever change darling xx
Hi Catherine just to say we put snow drop bulbs on my mum's grave as she had a January birthday, also wild primroses. We do of course put cut flowers for the rest of the year. Thinking of you, take care 😊
I have a old desk cut down to a coffee table, recently had it redone, sanded and changed the colour again. Can't fault good solid heavy wood. What a lovely way to celebrate your mum 💕💕💕
That sounds beautiful! Solid wood pieces like that have so much character and can really bring warmth to a space. x
You were already thinking of tenderly caring for your mums grave . You are such a sweet soul . Tfs
That’s a sweet sign you found in memory of your mom.❤ Also, the garden idea on her grave site. Your a dear daughter. Hope your doing well and thank you for another inspiring video! 😊. God bless you.
Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot to me. I really appreciate your support and hope you enjoy the video. Wishing you all the best! God bless you too! ❤️😊
Nicely done, Thanks for inspiring us
That sign was absolutely your mom getting your attention. The flower idea is so wonderful I wish I could do that for my dad's grave, but alas, they only want grass. Your table is giving me ideas, but for some wood walls I have in my home.
Your table will look fab again can’t wait to see it when it’s finished and your chair. Love the flower arrangement. ❤
Awwww Catherine I'm sure your wee Mam had a giggle at you about the soil. I love getting little things happening that I feel my wee mum & Dad are letting me know they will always be near . Loving how the table turned out ❤ Patricia xx.
I love your table and the thrift shopping!! So many things!!❤
Your viewers are all so concerned for you Catherine. My heart broke for you when I saw the sign with your mum’s name. You’re brave and strong and I’m sure life will be good to you coz her spirit’s in you. Take care 💞💞
Hugs and prayers for you always!!! Thank you for the lovely tour of walled garden and the thrift shop.❤❤❤❤❤
Dear Catherine! When I watched your video today ( I'm a " young at heart"😂 69 years old single woman from Germany) I had tears in my eyes. I was so sorry for you when I heard some weeks ago, your loving mom passed away!😢. I know exactly your feelings. My mom passed away 3 years ago and I still miss her every day. The name of your mom was Frances - I think it's the same name like my mom! In Germany it is " Franziska". The beautiful sign you've found it's an inspiration for me to design a similar sign for my mom's grave, because her grave is looking like a little garden ( she loved flowers as much as I do). I'm sure when the time is comming you will plant a beautiful flowerful grave for your mom. Take care and stay strong and healthy. I love your videos!!!! You are an amazing young woman! Many regards from the city of Bonn, Germany, Heidi🙋🏼♀️ Please forgive my english mistakes.
Keep the bottom of the chair, and fill in the holes. Maybe refinish it like the chair.
Use it as a stool for additional seating should you need it!
Enjoyed this video of a little bit for shopping and diy! Love seeing you working hard and doing so many beautiful projects in and outside!
All of that work is good for the heart and soul!
DIY time is good for the soul you’re right! 😍
Your table looks good sanded. Love your new chair
Love the thrifting finds, and the garden message from your Mom for you. ❤
If you decide not to paint the chair, you could sand, then use a paint brush to apply bleach. It takes the orange right out of the wood. Then stain, seal with wax, or whatever you choose. Your style is wonderful. 😊
Hi Catherine loved what you had to share those flowers were beautiful your table turned out looking new again looking forward to your next video give the playful pretty cats a hug for have fun be safe ❤❤❤
I couldn’t help grinning with you Catherine when you said you were looking at the soil thinking 🤔 “Mulch” 😆 lovely plaque you found , was meant to be, my Grandma’s name was Frances, I never got to meet her she passed 2yrs before I was born, but apparently we were very similar and would of got on like a house on fire 😊 Bonn is a true rascal! But a a love a mischievous cat😁 I like the warmer tone of the table, and the chair you found is full of character. I am so hopeful for you to have honey next year. I am sure you Mam is watching over you and sending comfort where she can ❤ Hugs, Suze. 🤗 x
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My name is Steven Lauder from Durham your craft ideas are great they have given me some ideas
Defo a beautiful sign from your mum x ❤
What a lovely video, just enjoyable to watch … I wish I was close to the shop I’d love a mooch around 😂. It’s like fate- finding the sign,just a reminder of your dear mother (watching over) would it be nice in your green house - & when your having a cup of tea after your hard work - it’s just a little (subconscious nod )in a way 🕯️😘sorry it’s just me & my daft sentimental thought. The table looks good,did you notice the needlework wooden case- always think they look good & so practical- ideal for you. Have a lovely relaxing time reading your new books 📚take care 🙏🏻💐😁 😊
That’s so sweet 🥹 thanks for that!
I do hope you have some similar shops near you for a mooch too, can’t beat it 😍 always some treasure to be found! Thanks for stopping by xx
Sure do 🤣thing is I’m sure I could sell them items 🤣you can’t help liking things, I like random things - you can’t help liking things you like but it’s so varied & obviously if it’s a bargain that’s even better😊.
Hi Catherine, I believe the Frances garden sign was a message from your Mam. So lovely for you to find it.
Your table turned out lovely, I know you said it needed a 2nd coat but I thought it looked finished. Beautiful flower arrangement on the table too.
Love the chair, great find. Have a lovely weekend, take care 💜
Thanks Jo ❤️
Lovely video Catherine...I am a spiritual person ...a sign..oh yes I would like to think you coming across that little name plate was your mum just letting you know she was with you on your little trip out ...that's a wonderful comfort...those little signs mean so much...your table top looks fantastic & your fur babies at times can create extra chores I know, but we wouldn't be without them..I know I definitely wouldn't be without mine...xx
Signs like that are a huge comfort that’s for sure ❤️
The little garden of spring bulbs for your mums grave is a beautiful idea. I also believe in signs and seeing a lot since my dad passed away. It helps me feel a bit brighter when I see a little sign. I'm also reading a book called Signs By Laura Lynne Jackson, which is such a comforting and gentle read for anyone recently bereaved - you might like it too ❤
Thanks for the table diy, I'm planning on doing the same soon as I have a similar table. This has given me a clue on how to go about doing it 😊x
Signs are very comforting and that means the world ❤️
💖✨ that’s a wonderful tribute to landscape your mom‘s grave! I know how much you miss her 💖✨sending you so much love take care XOXO
Thank you for sharing, that was definitely a sign from your mom,sending you hugs
May the Lord give you healing in your heart. The only thing I know and learn is that your loved one is more love after they are going. Also, you have an angel 😇 always and anywhere you go . ❤
Love that little sign takes a good while for grave to settle my mam is gone a year and it took a few months especially this time of year with all the rain my brother removed lots of stones too from the soil in it. I have a second hand oak table we sanded it and oiled it years ago does need a bit of love but currently in middle of renovation so no point just yet 😊
I have a Craftsman orbital sander. I love it! They also make a detail sander. It's shaped like a triangle, so the tip is good for small areas. Both sanders are available in battery and corded versions.
Hello sweet Catherine!! Hope you're doing better.. I am sure that the "signs" we come across in life are never by accident.. it is a way to get in touch with what we cannot reach.. have faith and be on alert for them, they are everywhere! I am wishing you, as the time goes by, to remember your mum with a smile and a warm heart!
Also..I would like to suggest something about your broken chair.. you can use it at another room, the bedroom for example, where noone will sit, but you can display some seasonal decorations on it, place some books or use it as a clothes stand.. just a thought I had..
Take care! Wishing you all the best!! Greetings from Greece, Konstantina ❤
That sign with your mums name on is so sweet. My mums middle name was Frances. She was Joy Frances. I always put a Joy decoration on my Christmas tree, so she’s with me at Christmas.❤❤❤❤
That’s so sweet ❤️ such a nice touch to include her x
Hi Catherine to remove marker pen or felt tips just spray with hair spray. Thats a lovely plan to do a garden at your mothers resting place and the name plaque is perfect, table and chairs are fabulous. ❤🏴
I’m so sorry Catherine. I lost my Mom in 1989, and I still miss her so much, here in California we can not dig on the graves, I would’ve to have been able to do that for my parents, with your green thumb you will have it beautiful . God Bless you🙏🙏🥰🥰❤️❤️
She will always be with you Susan and looking over you 💕
Geoff Hamilton was an amazing gardener, he lived near us and developed an amazing series of small gardens in Rutland, they are still there, Barnsdale Gardens.
He taught Adam Frost!
He loved repurposing things to use for his gardens, his videos are great if you ever see them x
I just came across your channel this morning and I’m delighted I did. I’m sorry for the loss of your mum, I know only too well what it’s like. Your accent reminded me of my mum. She was from the south of Ireland. I’m from Newry. Like you, I believe in signs too. Maybe your mum guided you to the gardening books, who knows - it’s a nice thought anyway. My wee dog, Mika, a 10 year old Shih Tzu is away getting groomed, so for the next hour or so I plan on getting myself a cup of coffee and a few chocolate biscuits, whilst laying up to watch a couple more of your videos. God bless 💕
Love it thanks ❤❤❤