Hi Jess,watching from England,thanks for informative vid,enjoyed it💯 probably she already has new bloke for long time but she wanted to take time and make sure before first guy gets the 👢 boot x
Had a gal use this on me. I'm not stupid as I see her insecurity. I told her straight up, I expect people to bring stuff to the table and I can handle rejection. She couldnt. RUN!!
Most guys need to look in that ol mirror sometimes it could be you’re too good. I’ve heard that twice in my life and I learned to just be a man not a damn b***h meaning put up boundaries don’t be afraid to say no put your foot down in the relationship. My current relationship is great simply because it’s balanced my woman trust my leadership I put my foot down and actually lead instead of being too good. Ever notice how the good passionate worker never gets a position at work meanwhile the guy who works smart and has those conversations with supervisor and others and the ones who get the promotion it’s the same with women guys who are good loose to the real men the guys who’ll lead the guys who aren’t to good the guys who aren’t afraid to put their foot down.
Sometimes men try too hard for women.. It's not worth the effort. Work hard for yourselfs maan enjoy life, dress well, spend money on good food, don't be afraid to flirt around, and trust your instincts if it feels like she's rejecting you then probably she is. Move on don't negotiate a loosing battle for a second.
Thanks for the link to the 'how to get over her video ' from 2 years ago Jess, found it really helped,you are a fountain of knowledge, loved the way you filmed it on the lake ❤
I did this with my ex but she refused to let me go. She was always comparing me to other men and her ex’s, criticising me a lot and saying I’m pushing well above my weight with her, mentioning she had to lower her standards to go out with someone like me as I was never her type. She was a BBC fan. Based on all this, I told her several time that she can do so much better and don’t be with a guy like me who no one respects and likes. She was way superior to me and I knew I was out of my depth, being my first gf at 41. I told her all this prior to us being an item but she didn’t want to let me go. She told me another guy made her privates wet just by flirting and wished he came along a week before I asked her out. Told her to go for it but she refused. She kept blowing out whenever I tried to see her, going to her male friends house because he’s cooked dinner for her, never invited me to her flat, no sex, no hugs or affection. We only kissed. I struggled with affection myself as I’m a Lone Ranger and this didn’t help. Also, I’m a quiet person and she didn’t like that either so I have no idea why she was holding on to me. I never felt that we were in a relationship. I ended it out of love for her. NEVER settle for someone that’s beneath your level as this will lead to divorce. Decided to stay away from women as I’m too weak, passive and have no leadership qualities . After break up, she told me I was never her bf and only in a situationship. She was older than me but never told me her age.
@@alfacentauri3686 really thanks for those videos you publish, is really my story cause any time I went crazy because of fear she didn't like it and again she said she felt locked inside, when she came back the second time she went to Canada but I stayed with her and I was getting scared and she didn't support it and left then she said she didn't want me to realise she was dating me out of pity because I am a very sensitive person
Drop her and work on yourself get a game or life couch. She broke up with you twice sir you need to check yourself. She left maybe because you’re a nice guy a push over a softie. The common denominator is you sir once a woman breaks up with you you’re not even supposed to move on but you’re supposed to be working on yourself and never ever ever take a female back after they break up with you. She left her seat another female will replace her place. Maybe you’re too nice
@@Jmelpegues yes you are right I should be working with myself cause I really give like my whole heart into someone but these days I can't fall in love and is really something hard for me
@@Jmelpegues I tried to get my ex back after I broke up with her because there was a lot of unanswered questions. She agreed for me to take her on a date, providing I pay her ££150 for her beauty treatment. After giving her the money, she became cold and told me to pay an extra £75 and we fixed a date. I booked an expensive restaurant to have a chat and see whether I would be granted another chance. Two hours before the date, she blew out and told me she never had any intention of giving me another chance and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I would leave her alone for good. She used my money to look good for her man. I realised Never BEG, CHASE or FORCE anything in life. Didn’t care about the money but let myself down for falling in love with a player. Never got my closure or another chance. Modern day women are dangerous and good for taking advantage of the weak.
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That sometimes sounds like a recruiter telling a candidate at an interview conclusion that they're "overqualified" for the job
My all time favorites are:
"You're too perfect."
"We're at different life stages."
"I'm afraid you're going to get tired of me."
I know a woman told me that and comes to find out I was too good for her cause I found out that she was for the streets.
i just came out of a "you're too good for me" phase😅 everything you said is true
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Oh my Geez, Jessica long time sub here. She has literally empowered the boychild where everyone is neglecting them. Thanks
My pleasure
I can’t stop listening to you
This happened to me several times thanks 🙏🏿 for shinning this light
Second reason points to this directly - choosing to not work on the issues that need to be in the relationship
Checking in From Kansas City, Missouri🇺🇸. Thanks Jessica🙌🏾
You are so welcome!
Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦!!! I immensely thankful for your profound wisdom🙏🔥🥰
Love this perspective. Very insightful!
Thank you Very very much Jessica DEAR for being Sincere to us in your teachings... Especially explaining The Phrase "YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR ME"
Beautiful.....New approach! Straight forward not every video needs an intro. Keep growing Jess ❤
Excellent analysis and very clarifying Jessica!Thank you so much! Love and happiness to you always!❤❤
Thank you! You too!
@@JessicaOS 🌹❤️
Yes, you bottomlined it right: "You know, you're right", and then walk off. Good info.
Hi Jess,watching from England,thanks for informative vid,enjoyed it💯 probably she already has new bloke for long time but she wanted to take time and make sure before first guy gets the 👢 boot x
Had a gal use this on me. I'm not stupid as I see her insecurity. I told her straight up, I expect people to bring stuff to the table and I can handle rejection. She couldnt. RUN!!
You're too good for me is the lamest excuse, I always role my eyes backwards now and just tell them to be straight up
Most guys need to look in that ol mirror sometimes it could be you’re too good. I’ve heard that twice in my life and I learned to just be a man not a damn b***h meaning put up boundaries don’t be afraid to say no put your foot down in the relationship. My current relationship is great simply because it’s balanced my woman trust my leadership I put my foot down and actually lead instead of being too good. Ever notice how the good passionate worker never gets a position at work meanwhile the guy who works smart and has those conversations with supervisor and others and the ones who get the promotion it’s the same with women guys who are good loose to the real men the guys who’ll lead the guys who aren’t to good the guys who aren’t afraid to put their foot down.
Watching from Uganda 🇺🇬
Watching from South Sudan 🇸🇸
This recently happened to me, and I just knew what to do next. Lessons learnt and I move on 😅
Wow, so insightful and on point. Thank you Jessica. I'm forever educated by all your teachings 🙏
Sometimes men try too hard for women.. It's not worth the effort. Work hard for yourselfs maan enjoy life, dress well, spend money on good food, don't be afraid to flirt around, and trust your instincts if it feels like she's rejecting you then probably she is. Move on don't negotiate a loosing battle for a second.
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Thanks for the link to the 'how to get over her video ' from 2 years ago Jess, found it really helped,you are a fountain of knowledge, loved the way you filmed it on the lake ❤
Glad it was helpful!
Watching from South Africa 🎉🎉thank you. May your respiratory & nasal system be well❤
In any relationship or as a man u must always prepare for the worst to shame the move or the System because no condition is permanent
I hear your as changed due flue bh still you come out to pass over such wonderful advises Jessica OS we appreciate your energy
So deep.. watching from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Well stated & detailed 👏🏾
Thanks Jess!
I'm really happy I didn't miss this one
I like your video so much you have helped me in different ways
Happy to help!
❤wow...hitting the nail on the head. Thank you, gal.i love your content
Precursor to ending a relationship 📍
Also when they say: It's not you it's me. Take it as it is and say: Deuces ✌🏾
Another way of saying it's not u, it's me.
If she's telling you this, believe her
@jessicaOs thank you for the wisdom always 🙏🏾
The good ones always finish last, but again don't engage on people dealing with their own demons.
Watching From Malawi 🇲🇼🇲🇼🇲🇼
Thanks for this information
Welcome
Kkkk very true.....l thought its a compliment....but haaah it was the end of the road
I did this with my ex but she refused to let me go.
She was always comparing me to other men and her ex’s, criticising me a lot and saying I’m pushing well above my weight with her, mentioning she had to lower her standards to go out with someone like me as I was never her type. She was a BBC fan.
Based on all this, I told her several time that she can do so much better and don’t be with a guy like me who no one respects and likes. She was way superior to me and I knew I was out of my depth, being my first gf at 41. I told her all this prior to us being an item but she didn’t want to let me go.
She told me another guy made her privates wet just by flirting and wished he came along a week before I asked her out. Told her to go for it but she refused.
She kept blowing out whenever I tried to see her, going to her male friends house because he’s cooked dinner for her, never invited me to her flat, no sex, no hugs or affection. We only kissed. I struggled with affection myself as I’m a Lone Ranger and this didn’t help. Also, I’m a quiet person and she didn’t like that either so I have no idea why she was holding on to me.
I never felt that we were in a relationship.
I ended it out of love for her. NEVER settle for someone that’s beneath your level as this will lead to divorce.
Decided to stay away from women as I’m too weak, passive and have no leadership qualities .
After break up, she told me I was never her bf and only in a situationship. She was older than me but never told me her age.
Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦
Great insight sis
Thanks for watching
Great content
thank you I was not aware
I wish I have an idea on something I can do on RUclips just like you in order to educate people
Make a list of things you're good at. Implement the first one
Thanks for educating me and or us! Cheers
You said it right 👍
Those will be the same women who spin the block after 10 years😂
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
A woman I've loved for 4 years, after we went to different universities l became an oddball 😢 to her.
What is the difference between "you are too good for me" and "you are too good to me"?
Can you make a video on challenges faced by men that want to marry a second wife. Challenges by the house wife and the incoming one. Thanks
In my case she was cheating. I'm glad it's over.
Is not the first time that J.OS saved me from shit. 🇬🇧 🇬🇧
Can you make a video of tendencies and behaivior to see if she is likely to be a virgin or not ? Love your content. Keep it up.
Blessings
I can relate to that
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later
Hie Jess
Hey
"You know what, I think you're right."
f yea
In my experience when she’s says this she’s really wants a sorry ninja and she’s about to cheat
I got the same phrase, then she broke my heart twice, should I stay in contact with her? As a friend
Twice? She doesn't pay you respect, and your trust in her can never be repaired. And both are needed, even for friends.
So move on.
@@alfacentauri3686 really thanks for those videos you publish, is really my story cause any time I went crazy because of fear she didn't like it and again she said she felt locked inside, when she came back the second time she went to Canada but I stayed with her and I was getting scared and she didn't support it and left then she said she didn't want me to realise she was dating me out of pity because I am a very sensitive person
Drop her and work on yourself get a game or life couch. She broke up with you twice sir you need to check yourself. She left maybe because you’re a nice guy a push over a softie. The common denominator is you sir once a woman breaks up with you you’re not even supposed to move on but you’re supposed to be working on yourself and never ever ever take a female back after they break up with you. She left her seat another female will replace her place. Maybe you’re too nice
@@Jmelpegues yes you are right I should be working with myself cause I really give like my whole heart into someone but these days I can't fall in love and is really something hard for me
@@Jmelpegues
I tried to get my ex back after I broke up with her because there was a lot of unanswered questions.
She agreed for me to take her on a date, providing I pay her ££150 for her beauty treatment. After giving her the money, she became cold and told me to pay an extra £75 and we fixed a date.
I booked an expensive restaurant to have a chat and see whether I would be granted another chance.
Two hours before the date, she blew out and told me she never had any intention of giving me another chance and wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I would leave her alone for good.
She used my money to look good for her man.
I realised Never BEG, CHASE or FORCE anything in life.
Didn’t care about the money but let myself down for falling in love with a player. Never got my closure or another chance.
Modern day women are dangerous and good for taking advantage of the weak.
What?
How about when she says: "You are not good enough for me"?. Isn't that another form of rejection?. Lol
You are nice to me....... Such phase
Or It's not you it's me the same thing she breaking up with you she for the streets
Yep
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My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.
My lady said these to me and expounded further I should get another woman to marry and not her. We broke up later as her bad behavior was unbearable.