I understand that you’re not attracted to men but, the fact remains you’re still a beautiful woman and some are still going to try you even if you let them know from the start. I even heard a man say he’s more attracted to girls who like girls because that lets him know she hasn’t been “ran through” by different men. It’s so important to set boundaries and don’t budge from them. I’m happy you’re safe. ❤
Correct , because they know we use toys which is not the actual man part from another man . But some women are “ran through “ that’s gay now. & I set boundaries, people just overdo. But thanks . 💙
Regardless to what you like, you are attractive, your going to have ppl come at you like that, you have to tap more in to self awareness if you’re trying to build friendships with others so you won’t feel disrespected
I’m in a relationship doesn’t mean I can’t have friends or try to have friends with boys/men not another woman it’s a difference..and it wasn’t my number. I can tell your partner have did you dirty and it wasn’t no loyalty there partna.. or trust.
She is masking pain so great that you can see her hurt exceeds the story. Men and have a difficult time accepting the rejection of what's a natural inclination to seige femininity.
I had a homegirl who went through similar a year ago, damn near got Assaulted because she rejected dudes advances..shit wild outchea Stay up tho, Dawg 💯
Men can’t be men anymore? She will push up on straight females like they did her. Her type be aggressive even 🤣😂but as soon as a real man does it then there’s a problem. See how confused this world is?
You can be a man , BUT NO MEANS NO !! You confused !!! YALL SWEAR JUS CAUSE YALL “MEN” y’all could do whatever. Ian going for it I just ain’t you mad cause I’m not ? A man can do what he wanna do but if the person not going for it , THEY NOT.
@@redbeendat did he take it from her? Or ask multiple times? Because y’all females be confused!!!!!! Everyone knows that a stud has at least one dude she will give it up to!!!!! Dude was just shooting his shot from what I heard. A little over the top but hey he is a MAN!!!! Don’t go hang out with dudes that like you if u don’t like them.
nah foreal. I have vey few associates I KNOW for a fact would never disrespect me like that. Its not that they are "trying" its the fact that you NEVER have shown them any attention/ flirted nothing. You can find anyone attraction but when they don't listen that's when I flat out ignore. they get angry that's why I had to get my gun
From jump men and women can’t be platonic friends and two by u being a sweet tart u should have never been aligning yourself with a straight man it’s just not going to work
Plus, you’re not the only one that’s dealing with that as well because I looked on liyah badd and her friend which is a trans man. She’s not fully trans, still got the woman’s voice but men be calling her all the time but guess what he said that he the dominant one because he be doing the penetrating.
Wants to be like men but don’t understand mens desire to procreate with almost anything is crazy, why you think slave owners raped even tho they had wives smh
I’m offput everytime I see or hear a man hit the “men will be men” in situations like these. Y’all are literally insinuating that “men are just naturally super sexual/ predatory” and it’s weird asf. Seen you some help gang
@@imauniryne6757 it’s on them for wanting to pretend to be something God DIDNOT maKE them, that’s what comes with that 🤷♂️ her choice 🤷♂️ ACCEPT all that come with it 🫵🏾 SHES NOT PERFECT NOR US 🫵🏾🖕🏾
It’s because lesbians are fetishized but I see so many so called straight men who talk about gay men 24/7 barley talk about women and that’s who they attracted to
You fell for the okie doke. If a dude tells you that he’s attracted to you, that attraction never goes away. He was just pretending to be your “friend” to get close to you. That’s the oldest trick in the book. Be safe out there.
Nah I get compliments All the time from both genders . THAT DONT MEAN IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY . People need to learn no is no. I didn’t fell for nun. I’m human at the end of the day I know I’m attractive. I know WHO I AM !! Anybody says I’m attractive i don’t have to run .. wtf
@@redbeendat to be more pinpointed bouncing from the above comment more so towards “it’ll never go away” is regarding someone who is more so of a “Predator!” A predators thought process is scary..you have to be more discerning of someone who keeps trying you from the JUMP. Ex; a Normal human being thought process would be more respectful, accept what you told them the first time, say something maybe along the lines: “oh shit damn my fault! you look good tho bro..that’s wassup” & keep it moving! back to this predator… He plotted, period! He’s your example of someone not to make friends with and to be more discerning of. He constantly questioned you “WHY” you choose your choices ..took advantage of wanting to chill n smoke at your crib and every time he questioned you …!? He gave creepy, weird predator vibes from jump. We all experienced a fall into bs before. It’s okay to accept. Learn from it. And friends plan things together, go do things more so …not always IN THE CAR. If I’m not in someone crib nor know them firstly, I am not sitting in no damn car lmao and especially not inviting anyone to my crib Thank God he didn’t do worse like r*pe 🙏🏾
Nah facts , now that I thought about it it was facebook messenger. No number. But some people can fake a good personality in the beginning just to f you over .. I’m good I read people well.
The crazy part is, had the tables been turned and there was a gay dude continuously trying to sleep with him even after he said no, he would understand boundaries IMMEDIATELY.
Cause if you really think about it, I don’t even think that men aren’t really into women that are feminine. They have high heels that are girly girl. I don’t think they’re with that in the black community. I think they want a girl that is super masculine. that is like youare very far as a woman trans
I think people don't understand whether platonic or romantic if you have someone in your life who is close to you that makes you attracted to that person because your personalities mesh well together, well it hust so happens that if it's the opposite sex who your attracted to who you may also FIND attractive physically then you can't blame someone for catching feelings 🤷🏾♂️
Evrybody human for example i got a homegirl she like women shes beautiful fly and dress like a tomboy guys try her all the time .but being a lil friendly could lead to other things
Hey love I’m so sorry this happened to you. That boy clearly knew what he was doing and you made the right decision to kick him out, and good thing I’m calling your friend cause she a real one ❤️🔥
Hate that happened. you never should have to be in that situation. I also don’t understand how people deny the natural order of things without even trying it, but imitate the very thing they say they don’t like and substitute it with impersonations and toys ect. I just don’t get it You should be pressured or assaulted for that tho
Just came across your video on my front page 🩵🥹 Terrible situation you had to deal with . Mannn. So glad it didn’t get too far 🙏🏾 I definitely have to hit up your other story times 🙌🏾
ITS NOT THAT A WOMAN NEED A MAN, OF COURSE WOMAN CAN DO WHAT MEN CAN DO, THIS IS... WOMAN WOULD RATHER NOT, SIMPLE. YOU SHOULD'VE JUST MADE AN ACCUSE WHEN HE GOT ON THAT BUT YOU DIDNT MAKING A MAN THINKING YOUR CARRYING HIM ON, BEING A STUD (ACTING, THINKING LIKE A MAN) SHOULD KNOW THIS... SO I FEEL YOU BUT SOME OF IT WAS YOUR FAULT TO LET IT DRAG ON SO LONG WITH THAT TOPIC
This my first video I’ve seen from you. Shoutout to RUclips to recommending this. You definitely gotta be careful with these “men” especially in a secluded area with no weapons. He sounded like a creepy ass goofy.
Get off my video with that childish 💩 bro . YOU BEEN AROUND FEMALES WHO GO FOR ANYTHING N YOU FELL FOR ANYTHING TOO.. I LIVE IN MY TRUTH , PEOPLE THINK IM BI TIL THIS DAY. I still stand on business just got respect for myself . Ain gotta be hard to do dat either
Bull was on all nut shit ! He carried it like a Real weirdo ! You would never have to worry bout that wit a Man, cuz Men let it be known upfront no need to lie about our intentions. If your an attractive woman its no way we could ever have a platonic relationship! Unless there's money to be made .
That was definitely a scary situation to be in. I’m glad you made it out unharmed
I understand that you’re not attracted to men but, the fact remains you’re still a beautiful woman and some are still going to try you even if you let them know from the start. I even heard a man say he’s more attracted to girls who like girls because that lets him know she hasn’t been “ran through” by different men. It’s so important to set boundaries and don’t budge from them. I’m happy you’re safe. ❤
Correct , because they know we use toys which is not the actual man part from another man . But some women are “ran through “ that’s gay now. & I set boundaries, people just overdo. But thanks . 💙
Plenty of girls that like girls have been RAN through. Thats why a lot of them go to women. Already ran through the men.
@@redbeendat why use toys tho? Just asking
@@Thadwalls_1female use toys with guys 😂 so what you tryna say ?
It’s also the fact a lot of them be DL & gay themselves messing with women and men ready for a stud .
Regardless to what you like, you are attractive, your going to have ppl come at you like that, you have to tap more in to self awareness if you’re trying to build friendships with others so you won’t feel disrespected
That’s why I got ptsd now and be alone most of the time .. ion trust nobody tbh ..
It’s not about him coming at her that’s regular..it’s the fact that he was acting like he wanted to rape her smh
Men can make women so uncomfortable smh not respecting boundaries ..
Giving out your number and linking up with people while in a relationship is crazy.
I’m in a relationship doesn’t mean I can’t have friends or try to have friends with boys/men not another woman it’s a difference..and it wasn’t my number. I can tell your partner have did you dirty and it wasn’t no loyalty there partna.. or trust.
Maybe she just wanted a homeboy 🤷🏾♂️
She is masking pain so great that you can see her hurt exceeds the story. Men and have a difficult time accepting the rejection of what's a natural inclination to seige femininity.
What are you even talking about?😂 The lengths you dudes go to to justify y’all’s predatory behavior is beyond me. Seek therapy❤
@@Godspeed7-ss3iv more like slow speed. I respond with clinical science. you throw unwarranted unsubstantiated BS. no god here... Smh
@@Godspeed7-ss3ivexactly weird because I bet if this person had a daughter would they want a man to do this to her no
Even with the line up and locs she’s so pretty. Sorrrry
No Kizzy 🤷🏾♂️
Not for a female
I had a homegirl who went through similar a year ago, damn near got Assaulted because she rejected dudes advances..shit wild outchea
Stay up tho, Dawg 💯
Preciate it 💙💯 real one
Same man, my friend told me she went through that and someone she know went through that its absurd man.
What Kodak say ? " Iont really see the confusion " ....
U Ngas be weird
Fuck on a bitch I’m in love fuck on a bitch she a studddd😂😂😂 damnnnnnnnnnn 🔥
It’s people really trying to associate this woman being attractive with dude being a creeper and trying to cross her boundaries 🙃
😮😮
Men can’t be men anymore? She will push up on straight females like they did her. Her type be aggressive even 🤣😂but as soon as a real man does it then there’s a problem. See how confused this world is?
I lost brain cells reading this shit shawty. Learn sum damn English 😂
You can be a man , BUT NO MEANS NO !! You confused !!! YALL SWEAR JUS CAUSE YALL “MEN” y’all could do whatever. Ian going for it I just ain’t you mad cause I’m not ? A man can do what he wanna do but if the person not going for it , THEY NOT.
@@redbeendat did he take it from her? Or ask multiple times? Because y’all females be confused!!!!!! Everyone knows that a stud has at least one dude she will give it up to!!!!! Dude was just shooting his shot from what I heard. A little over the top but hey he is a MAN!!!! Don’t go hang out with dudes that like you if u don’t like them.
i’m sorry u went thru this with this damn weirdo 😓
Preciate you 💯
nah foreal. I have vey few associates I KNOW for a fact would never disrespect me like that. Its not that they are "trying" its the fact that you NEVER have shown them any attention/ flirted nothing. You can find anyone attraction but when they don't listen that's when I flat out ignore. they get angry that's why I had to get my gun
Fasho oml
From jump men and women can’t be platonic friends and two by u being a sweet tart u should have never been aligning yourself with a straight man it’s just not going to work
Y’all sit there and say anything. Men can’t ever hold other men accountable huh?
Sending prayers hugs and strength
I’m good it’s not traumatized went through worst 💩 than this ..but Preciate the love 💙
Plus, you’re not the only one that’s dealing with that as well because I looked on liyah badd and her friend which is a trans man. She’s not fully trans, still got the woman’s voice but men be calling her all the time but guess what he said that he the dominant one because he be doing the penetrating.
Y'all need y'all own RUclips community
Don’t watch it , KEEP SCROLLING
You the one confused 😳🤷🏿♂️🤣men will be men and guess who mad?
Wants to be like men but don’t understand mens desire to procreate with almost anything is crazy, why you think slave owners raped even tho they had wives smh
If a gay men do the same thing to you then it’s men who will be men🤷🏾♀️
Ion think she mad. Wrong terminology. She just a lil frustrated
I’m offput everytime I see or hear a man hit the “men will be men” in situations like these. Y’all are literally insinuating that “men are just naturally super sexual/ predatory” and it’s weird asf. Seen you some help gang
“Men will be men” aka men will be predators…..Got it
He did nun wrong…
I hope sb SA ya mama❤
@@Godspeed7-ss3iv runs n yo family huh
If it was your daughter cousin mom would this opinion still be the same
@@imauniryne6757 it’s on them for wanting to pretend to be something God DIDNOT maKE them, that’s what comes with that 🤷♂️ her choice 🤷♂️ ACCEPT all that come with it 🫵🏾 SHES NOT PERFECT NOR US 🫵🏾🖕🏾
@@Godspeed7-ss3ivdude ain’t right but nah you wild for that
its soo werid but these dude hate lgbt but yet they what to do something with them smh
It’s because lesbians are fetishized but I see so many so called straight men who talk about gay men 24/7 barley talk about women and that’s who they attracted to
Jus subscribed 🫡🤞🏿
Preciate you 💙
ts scary tho .. even tho you being funny an shi , that's dangerous af
Mane I been through it all my life a movie 😂
You fell for the okie doke. If a dude tells you that he’s attracted to you, that attraction never goes away. He was just pretending to be your “friend” to get close to you. That’s the oldest trick in the book. Be safe out there.
Nah I get compliments All the time from both genders . THAT DONT MEAN IT WILL NEVER GO AWAY . People need to learn no is no. I didn’t fell for nun. I’m human at the end of the day I know I’m attractive. I know WHO I AM !! Anybody says I’m attractive i don’t have to run .. wtf
Facts!
@@redbeendat to be more pinpointed bouncing from the above comment more so towards “it’ll never go away”
is regarding someone who is more so of a “Predator!”
A predators thought process is scary..you have to be more discerning of someone who keeps trying you from the JUMP.
Ex; a Normal human being thought process would be more respectful, accept what you told them the first time, say something maybe along the lines: “oh shit damn my fault! you look good tho bro..that’s wassup” & keep it moving!
back to this predator…
He plotted, period! He’s your example of someone not to make friends with and to be more discerning of. He constantly questioned you “WHY” you choose your choices ..took advantage of wanting to chill n smoke at your crib and every time he questioned you …!? He gave creepy, weird predator vibes from jump. We all experienced a fall into bs before. It’s okay to accept. Learn from it.
And friends plan things together, go do things more so …not always IN THE CAR. If I’m not in someone crib nor know them firstly, I am not sitting in no damn car lmao and especially not inviting anyone to my crib
Thank God he didn’t do worse like
r*pe 🙏🏾
It definitely goes away lol looks fade
@@state2statestreetedition453 yeah but they don’t wait until the “looks fade.” I guy who shows interest in you doesn’t want to be your friend.
Hate that some people cant cognitively understand boundaries ...hate your situation at the moment its always a different route coming
Yeah still told dude wouldn’t on dat and yet still proceeded after the fact 🤷🏽♂️
Can’t give nobody a lil room they take it and run with it
Ion like that ppl blaming dude not respecting ya boundaries on you being a good looking woman regardless if you good looking or not NO MEANS NO
That part
💯 smh
But if it was a gay man who do that to them you know they would be mad asf
Bob marley lookin ahh. Yall dry go gay cause you funny looking. Weirdo’s
He should of said let me eat it 1st lol.
😂😂
Or said I ll pay u a band let me eat it for 3 mins
@kellypee2798 You right, I'll pay her lil fine azz fr, I got the money
@@Vito44-c8pbruh what is u talkin bout. 🤨 🤦🏾♂️
I'll pay her fr
You have to also watch who you have hanging around or knowing where you live
Don't even give your number out too apps are way better & watch your location too sharing in time
Nah facts , now that I thought about it it was facebook messenger. No number. But some people can fake a good personality in the beginning just to f you over .. I’m good I read people well.
@@redbeendat Incredibly true asking their view point on things without sharing too much of yours is a great way to!!!
The crazy part is, had the tables been turned and there was a gay dude continuously trying to sleep with him even after he said no, he would understand boundaries IMMEDIATELY.
u funny 😂
I be dead ahh doe.
The fact ppl are being weird to you over this is disheartening but not surprising. I’m sorry you went through that and he’s predatory.
Men and women shouldn’t be friends no matter the cost
Wdh you tb😂
Cause if you really think about it, I don’t even think that men aren’t really into women that are feminine. They have high heels that are girly girl. I don’t think they’re with that in the black community. I think they want a girl that is super masculine. that is like youare very far as a woman trans
Wtf
You right they like masculinity
Bro wtf are you talking about go take a nap and try again
If you around somebody who smoke black n milds you gotta watch them 😂
I smoke em 😒
Watch ya mouth nigga. 😂When im down bad and cant buy weed. I gotta get me a 1982 jazz wit da wood tip stop playing 😂😂😂
I think people don't understand whether platonic or romantic if you have someone in your life who is close to you that makes you attracted to that person because your personalities mesh well together, well it hust so happens that if it's the opposite sex who your attracted to who you may also FIND attractive physically then you can't blame someone for catching feelings 🤷🏾♂️
Dating so trash we got guys hollering at studs now 😭
you too nice fam gotta good heart but get a gun
Preciate it I got one at the time I didn’t
Evrybody human for example i got a homegirl she like women shes beautiful fly and dress like a tomboy guys try her all the time .but being a lil friendly could lead to other things
Hey love I’m so sorry this happened to you. That boy clearly knew what he was doing and you made the right decision to kick him out, and good thing I’m calling your friend cause she a real one ❤️🔥
She was my gf at the time but Preciate it 💯
@@redbeendat aww ok I didn’t know that love
Hate that happened. you never should have to be in that situation.
I also don’t understand how people deny the natural order of things without even trying it, but imitate the very thing they say they don’t like and substitute it with impersonations and toys ect. I just don’t get it
You should be pressured or assaulted for that tho
dawg this not funny but dawg this is to funny bro was off a black and gas station pill the way he begging
Ain’t no way homie tried to R a STUDDDD😂😂😂😂 that’s borderline prison activities
Crazy he ain’t wanna go
Dude was a weirdo for dat..no means no bro ..I understand him trying but once you say no it should be over wit
hard having true real friends. .
Maaaan I’m telling ya !! That’s why I be to myself
Ain’t not nobody agreeing to smokin 40 blacks 😂
4:16 Linkin up to smoke tobacco is crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you heard what I said I was looking for homies on some cool sht. Ion smoke green.. linking up to smoke green is crazy too. It’s still smoke 😂
@@redbeendat I heard u. I just think it’s funny lol
"Aye u trying to smoke is one of the most effective pick up line to link up wit women now days." I swear.
@@spadequan ain’t it man 😂😂😂😂😂
I asked to smoke though. Playing the game just like he was . Never bought a black since we was smoking. So a man asking me to smoke won’t move me..
If you wouldn't said Yes homeboy was bout to turn yo lil ass every which way but loose 😂😂😂😂😂 on god he creepy af tho you seem like good people too
I’m good people gang fr. But he wouldn’t no buff nigga.. Ian worried bout dat.
Y'all link to smoke a black & mild where they do that at
I think you need to get a lil 380 or sum. That was disrespectful af and scary for you.
Lil 380 ??😂😂 I tote glocks.. FOR PROTECTION
Just came across your video on my front page 🩵🥹 Terrible situation you had to deal with . Mannn. So glad it didn’t get too far 🙏🏾 I definitely have to hit up your other story times 🙌🏾
Appreciate that💯
Cus you wanna stay in control …. Lol
🥷 link to smoke blacks? 😂
WHO GONNA HOT BOX A BLACK 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Trying to get his diddy on😂
You are awesome
Hes a simp.
ITS NOT THAT A WOMAN NEED A MAN, OF COURSE WOMAN CAN DO WHAT MEN CAN DO, THIS IS... WOMAN WOULD RATHER NOT, SIMPLE.
YOU SHOULD'VE JUST MADE AN ACCUSE WHEN HE GOT ON THAT BUT YOU DIDNT MAKING A MAN THINKING YOUR CARRYING HIM ON, BEING A STUD (ACTING, THINKING LIKE A MAN) SHOULD KNOW THIS...
SO I FEEL YOU BUT SOME OF IT WAS YOUR FAULT TO LET IT DRAG ON SO LONG WITH THAT TOPIC
😂😂 11:46 😅😅 tryitwichu? what?? 😨🤣 12:25 12:43 the way you said it, buddy blocked allat out his head 🗣️🚫🙅 #NoMeansNo #imcoolbruh 17:30
That's the reason why you have to be careful because you really don't know people intentions for real
This my first video I’ve seen from you. Shoutout to RUclips to recommending this. You definitely gotta be careful with these “men” especially in a secluded area with no weapons. He sounded like a creepy ass goofy.
Better not come around Druski 🤣🤣🤣
Glad bro ain’t put nun in the blacks, I get that vibe. Glad ur good tho
Preciate it 💯
All I wanna know who chop you up that blend on the fade is immaculate chef kiss
I did I do my own
You going go for it one day all women like slick talk and game from men its just natural no matter how masculine you act
You’re delusional
Get off my video with that childish 💩 bro . YOU BEEN AROUND FEMALES WHO GO FOR ANYTHING N YOU FELL FOR ANYTHING TOO.. I LIVE IN MY TRUTH , PEOPLE THINK IM BI TIL THIS DAY. I still stand on business just got respect for myself . Ain gotta be hard to do dat either
Don't speak for all women, you look like an ass doing it🙃
All women? What women you been around?
Yea somebody needa investigate you asap. Weird ass.
I hate that this happened to you but your story telling is funny! 😂 God bless! you too real for folks. Pray for discernment if you haven’t already ❤
Thank you 💙 I just have a lot of slang to my words but same blessings to you as well. I try to tell the stories clear as I can 😂
A say son Your homeboy has been invited to the p diddy party
My homeboys respect me that ain’t my homeboy
I hear that i don't let NOBODY in mine either 💯💯
Good story.
Bull was on all nut shit ! He carried it like a Real weirdo ! You would never have to worry bout that wit a Man, cuz Men let it be known upfront no need to lie about our intentions. If your an attractive woman its no way we could ever have a platonic relationship! Unless there's money to be made .
A real man as a homeboy will understand no means no. You’ll know who get women and who don’t on a daily basis
Bro tripping ain't nobody taking away from nobody cuz he can't find nobody