Hi Maya! I just wanted to comment that there are plenty of us who were born with female parts that are super critical of how things look. I'm glad that you're being kind to yourself!! 😊🥰😊
@Eve @Maya Henry i am sorry you fell for the grooming, I hope one day you will reach a state of mind where you understand sexual lobotomies are not the solution for the problems you have and sue this "influencer." (groomer)
@@pistoffpussycat5778 she is actually. you can keep ranting but just know you’ll never have the power over another human to tell them what they are or are not. take care and fine this thing called respect for others
@@zach4832 Well said! I find it funny that he litteraly took the time to click on a video about a trans topic just to comment some hate. Says a lot about him. Maybe its a weird obsession/fetish he has and the only way to get attention from us trans woman is for him to hate since nothing else worked out for him kind of like a last resort. Just assuming, but most guys that used to bully me in high school are now in my dm’s.
Thats so crazy, i never wouldve thought it was 1.5 years!!! So happy for you! It feels like yesterday you were getting ready to get it done. So glad you're doing well and are still that vivid sunshine of fun you have allways brightened my day with. - Stay fab Maya!
Wow Maya 1.5 years I can't believe its gone so fast! You look great and sound great seems like you're in a really good place. I at 60 just came out as Bi-Sexual so it's a new and exciting world for me. Maya you and others have given me the courage to come out and be who I really am, thank you.
well I am 19 and mainly into men but also physically into women. I don’t feel like I need to come out. It’s a minor thing in my life, i don’t feel as if it was part of my identity, I don’t even feel part of the “LGBTQ” community, because I am mostly conservative apart from this little attraction for beautiful women. Which btw you d be astonished how many women are able to be attracted by other women, it doesn’t make you special;)
I have watched all of these videos and the mental health struggles are always a focal point. Surgeries like this shouldn’t exist and should be illegal. This surgery will never be over.
Granulation happens after vaginal births and subsequent tears as well!! It’s refreshing to have you be so open. So many “cis” women require surgery to reconstruct their organs after births, and it’s absolutely something that is ignored and glossed over. You’re doing so much good for those on your journey, AND doing good for all of woman kind. Thank you❤️ it sounds so silly, but we need more to connect ourselves to each other. In a climate such as today, more people need to realize the similarities are astronomical. And the differences can be worked through. I hope you continue on with your healing, and may any pain you’ve felt, be left in the past!!
I sent a copy of this off to my sister who is a OBGYN doctor. She would absolutely love to know where you got your information from. It is NOT so many straight women who suffers from this as you claim. What internal organs need to be reconstructed after child birth?? The only organs involved are the womb & vagina & they are below the all organs. Sometime a prolapse womb or vagina need to be put back into place but that is not reconstruction but simply replacement. Fyi a trans women dose not understand what it is like or what is involved in child birth.
@@proud2babiowoman292 I think Mary meant 'reproductive organs' which include the vagina. Some women do have granulation happening after an episiotomy or tear but as a midwife I must say that is very rare. I personally have only had one patient that needed a procedure done.
@Road Rage Prolapses are horrific 😔 it’s nothing like “shoving it back into place”. Why did it prolapse in the first place if it’s so easy to fix!?!? The muscles, the ligaments, the other organs, everything needs to heal and that takes a long time. The nerve damage isn’t something that heals in a couple of weeks. It’s usually a constant reminder for decades to come. I’m so so sorry you’re going through all of that hun❤️ and they’re NEVER talked about. None of the aftermath of birth is ever fully disclosed and talked about. Not even by most OBGYNs. I fully understand where you’re coming from by not supporting others. But it’s always going to be a personal choice. I think all of the surgeries are currently in the “human trial” stage and that’s very difficult to witness others go through. I’ve seen women put themselves through horror after having mastectomies to reconstruct. And I personally cannot fathom it, but again, it’s a personal choice. I think doctors need to be far more realistic with the expectations and the recovery. Because there are so many that market ANY surgery as a “quick” operation without putting into account the healing, aftercare, and subsequent surgeries that may be involved. I truly hope you’re able to get with a pelvic floor specialist to try and repair some of that muscle damage and loss, and to prevent the side effects of your prolapse 😔 I cannot imagine the pain. I truly hope you fully heal, and never experience any issues ahead❤️ we need more transparency, and honesty. Nobody cares about statistics when they’re included in them. 1/100000000000 is too many when you are that 1. ❤️
@@proud2babiowoman292 I never stated it was “common” (which is a vague term regardless since there are nearly 4billion natural born women in the world, and most don’t live near you to proclaim their experiences). I also stated organs. I did indeed mean reproductive organs, but I supposed the area between your vaginal canal and bootyhole doesn’t count as an organ. We can ignore that since it’s never involved in vaginal birth apparently. And with all due respect, you don’t just squish your uterus, bladder, and or rectal tissue “back into place” and be done with it. The lasting effects are terrible and despite physical therapy making them bearable, it’s not like your body is back to 100% for the rest of your life. Never said a trans woman knows what childbirth is like either. It’s ok to hold an opinion. But to project your own animosity onto someone who’s pointing out the similarities in two types of people is astonishingly sad. That being said, your little looks absolutely precious!! Hope nothing but the best for you and your loved ones!!
@@shifterofshape I saw your amazing podcast with Blair and am so proud of your strength!! You’re a hero for speaking up and so damn real! Sending much love shape!
Hi Maya! I had my surgery just a few months after yours, and had major granulation from the start - 15 months later, and 30 nitrate treatments later, it’s almost healed. Fortunately, things are turning out great for me, but there were some really dark times. So I feel for you, and cheer you on to stay the course! I think it’s underestimated by many of us in the community that it can take this long to heal. I had granulation along with dilation issues so bad that I was bed-bound for over a year - it was difficult to do anything without pain. Thank goodness I could work from bed, because I don’t know what I would have done if I had a job that required being physically active. I know I’m an outlier, but I had “heard” that most people were pretty close to fully healed after 3 months. The more of these shared experiences I hear about, the more it sounds like the recovery time is being greatly underestimated. Here in the States, even in a big city, I’ve struggled to always have access to medical care - there’s just not enough doctors, and definitely not enough doctors versed in transgender care. I fortunately have some great doctors helping me out, but trying to get appointments is the same as you describe. That’s why it’s so important that there are people like you who are willing to share your experiences with the world. I’m sad you’ve had to deal with so much recovery, but it’s really encouraging to know we’re not alone. And it does get better. It may take a way longer time than we would have ever expected, but it does get better. In fact, it gets really wonderful. I’ve been watching your channel for years now - you’re amazing. Best wishes. ❤
Fully healed after 3 months? After 3 months I was in pretty good shape. But I was told by my surgeon that it takes a year for the swelling to fully go down. This past December 12th was the 4th year anniversary of my Sex Reassignment Surgery. Except for the fact that I am terrible about dilating; for the most part everything is great. Although I did develop a urethral stricture. I don't know if the surgery was the cause. But since they did have to shorten and reposition the urethra; it seems perfectly plausible that SRS is the cause of the stricture.
I had to have the same silver nitrate treatment for cervical ectropion as you described for the granulation and I’m a cisgender woman! You’re right, everyone’s anatomy is different 🥰
@@zach4832 haha that is funny. So you would need to be on grinder to see someone else’s account. Since grinder is a place for diseased infested desperate people willing to hook up with whatever they can, it would explain why you are there. But, if I am homophobic, I would not be on it because it’s full of those losers. Illiteracy is a serious problem. Phobia is a fear of. Not liking disgusting behavior is not a fear of it, it is a preference excluding it. Please learn vocabulary so you understand the words you use. Making up words is something babies do until they learn basic speech.
I'm sorry you have to keep having these treatments .. but am happy that you're feeling better - physically and mentally. And, boy, you are so beautiful! Blessings on you.
You literally have no idea how much hope and help you are giving me by just being yourself and doing you’r videos, I don’t know any trans woman who can help me through my confusion and journey but seeing you’r experience helps a lot ❤️❤️ thank you very much
I had severe granulation and my surgeon was concerned I may lose the graft. Like, she was surprised I didn’t. So I’m lucky there, but I think it has made dilating harder.
Just come across your videos at the time I needed. I’m from the U.K. and 1 year and 2 months post op (exactly the same routines and dilating methods here as you have) and I’m still struggling with the mental side of things like you have been. It’s reassuring to know I’m not alone in how I’m feeling and that your words are giving me some hope in the future 💗thank you for this video when I needed it most
Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts. I'm still in the beginning of my transition M-F. Graduations on 1.5 years of your post operation bottom Sergey. Hope you get better and have a great life. 🙂
Castration is not the answer to your problems, gender dysphoria is as insulting and degrading as "blackface". You are being told apropriating womenhood is something to strive for, but it is only a painfull and expensive costume you get for a party you will never be invited to.
I’m a cis Grammie to my beautiful trans granddaughter and I just want you to know that you’re such an inspiration. Thank you for all the honesty and information.
it's very insulting to call us CIS. You think you are an ally, but you are a misogynistic enabler. As a granny, I would expect you to have more respect for women and the spaces they have to give up for these delusional individuals.
Wow time flies I can't believe it's been 1.5 years. I'm so happy you're doing great. Seems like your almost out of the woods and I couldn't be happier for you! You're such an inspiration Maya, thank you 🤗💜
Thanks for continuing to share your experience and knowledge on this. I’m really conflicted about getting it done so things like this at least gives me something to think about
I would like to have this surgery, but sadly right now i dont have the financial freedom to do this. I have been on HRT for some time now though. Glad to see you're doing well by the way!
Great video, Maya. I think your willingness to share reality with ‘the world’ helps a lot of people. Managing expectations is massively important with these life-changing surgeries. As opposed to a lot of your brethren who are labeled by general media for just existing without anything being remarkable about them, you are actually ‘stunning and brave’. Health & happiness to you!
ya the trans people in media are hand picked because they best paint us in a bad light. they only will interview crazy misinformed trans people which often misrepresents us. which makes us all feel our truth will never have out, but maya is a beacon of hope for sure. our best representative.
Thank you so much for sharing this very personal and intimate topic with your loyal fans. I've been following you devotedly over the years, anticipating your every video. You have left the world a documentary of the transgender experience that is invaluable and deeply inspiring Maya. I'm so happy for you that the healing process is continuing and you're seeing an appropriate specialist. It sounds like you're not experiencing pain on a regular basis. I'm so moved to hear you talk about feeling Gender Euphoria. I watched your recent interview on The Social, and it confirmed what I've felt about you for a long time now: you present one of the most positive, relatable, appealing personas of any transgender person on the internet. In this disturbing time of homophobia and transphobia, you show the world that transgender people are just like everyone else, deserving of love and equal treatment. Thank you again Maya! You look lovely, by the way!💕💕💕
I love your videos with helpful advice. I’ve been on hrt for just a little over a year now. I love how I’m living my life and the changes to my body. I’m glad you’re doing much better now.
I really appreciate these videos about your surgery. I’m still considering my options but this kind of information really helps me work out what will be best for me.
Ahhh I totally forgot about you (life happens) but I used to watch your vids ALL the time I think! So nice to rediscover you!🖤 I’d never forget that voice!🥰
Do you have full control over your urine flow? I’m asking because I’m discussing having my procedure performed this year and it would help me a lot to know.
Goes without saying you are a beautiful young lady, I hope you are happy within. It took a tremendous amount of courage for you to share your journey with us all. " Leave who you were... Love who you are... Look forward to who you will become.... Blessing's Sent Dear Soul 🕉️
He will only be a girl amongst pandering data/money collectors and in echo chambers. In the real world he is a misogynistic man who does "blackface. It's disrespectful, humiliating and degrading.
Maya- You are seriously glowing! I am happy that you are healing, even though it’s taking longer than you anticipated, I am still happy that you are able to go on vacation and truly feel like yourself and be happy. We are truly our own worst critics, but it sounds like you have an amazing family here on RUclips, and also a circle of friends that can be support for you. :)
Been flowing you scents th begin. Before you I barely even heard of th topic. You look terrific and you sound very good. A 1 1/2 year, you have come so far, it to me in what seems like a very short time, I am sure you see it much different. Before you I had barely even heard of anything like what you have been through. Wishing you an yours the very best in life! My girlfriend and I are 76 an we just love you and your show. Happy trails to you!, Cheers! (Thank you for sharing this with us) 😘
When do you think you'll stop thinking about you being transgender and start thinking just like a regular woman. I would think it's imperative to, at some point, approaching life as if you have always been a natural women without any thought of being transgender. Wish you luck and have enjoyed your videos. For the record, I am a 64 yo White male married to same women for 40 years. We have two sons, both of whom are straight heterosexuals.
If you payed attention she is that's why she hasn't been talking about the topic you obviously are never going to completely forget, like she even said noticing the differences between her body and someone who was delivered nattaly with this configuration, she is definitely living her life comfortably and this is just one fraction of it one component but overall her life is so much more.
@@Demetri333-t7c If you PAID (not payed) attention to my post you would have seen the first word in my post is "When", which is a question of time, not condition. The next clue came in the second sentence when I used the term "at some point", which is a reference to both time and/or coordinate position. Once again not condition. Your inability to write in a cogent manner tells me that you have focused your life on other areas than education, especially English. "Nattaly"? Do you mean naturally? Last item, you predict that I will "never completely forget" something. I don't understand what you are talking about. I will never forget the births of my sons. I will never forget my wedding day or the day I met my future wife. Good luck with your life. You'll need it.
Hey Maya, I’m 9 months post-op and had my surgery done by Dr. Brassard too! I’m still having a lot of trouble with sensation and feeling any sort of intimate pleasure. It’s crushing me. And I don’t know what to do or what is even normal. Any thoughts?
Your mind state can also affect it. But everyone is different. I haven't had the surgery yet, but when I started hrt I lost sensation in my chest and I was devastated. But after a couple years, it came back. I also noticed in times when I was experiencing higher stress, I would hyper focus and I'd feel worse. I know it's hard, but I found it's best to not focus too hard and stay positive.
I've had mine 3 years ago and what I've learned is, pleasure really works in mysterious ways 😅 I haven't managed to get pleasure with partners nor have I been able to achieve it alone but for some reason I'll sometimes get orgasms during dreams, it's really different for everyone, I think it's better not to worry to much about it, the surgeon probably did a good job, we just have to figure out how and what makes us feel good now, I know it's scary and super frustrating but don't loose hope we'll get there eventually 😊
Gender dysphoria is a powerful motivator to be willing to deal with recovery. I spent 7 days in the hospital along with recovery time at home. But in the end it was well worth it.
@@jennoscura2381 If you truly have gender dysphoria, you are lying if you say "in the end"it is a never ending quest, because deep down you know you will not find the treasure. you will always be a MAN.
@@ditjedatje9741 I am never going to be 100% female obviously. But I can still treat my gender dysphoria. So far I have done a pretty great job of treating my dysphoria. It's to the point where I have been able to explore my butch side. Prior to having Sex Reassignment Surgery I wasn't able to properly explore that part of myself. So I am really glad I have been able to medically transition.
Hi Maya darling. I saw Dawn,Her dad and the tractor. I cried my eyes out for about hour had to watch it twice. I felt you through the whole film and it really hit my soul. I too am transsexual and grew up in a small town but have only recently come out to family. I have known all my life but life’s changes just seemed to get in the way. It was also a way different time for me growing up and I never had the chance to be my truth. You are absolutely a beautiful person and I wish you all the blessings life brings you. I am now and always will be your fan. Martina
You are looking wonderful and healthy. I am glad the subjective Maya is in synch with the image and presentation-sort of an anti-dysphoria? In my male experience, I have my whole life (74 years) been appalled by the anxiety and stress many women go through over how they perceive and how they think others perceive their bodies. I’m talking non obsessive (supposedly-within-the-normal-range) women. I can’t imagine the pain and anxiety self…what … dissociation trans people suffer through. Anyway, I hope you and we all have a beautiful spring scented with the blossoms of hope and well being.
I love how you use subconsciously, like transitioning isn't just "oh i want to do this" it's things that naturally come to mind that you are uncomfortable with until you put the pieces together, like "Oooh okay i want to be a female, makes sense" lol....
Thank you for the update , all very informative .......hopefully i will get my dates soon...nervous and excited......mixed feelings of course...hope your recovery continues in the same positive fashion..time to take on the world , and hope 2022 is your year x
That really just depends on how you look at it and your situation. It’s not for you to decide how other people perceive the surgeries they have done and for what purpose. You first have to subscribe to the ‘assigned at birth’ thing (which, in my opinion, only applies to intersex people that have been wrongfully been attributed their ‘official’ sex due to misdiagnosis) for trans people in order for your surgery to be called ‘reassignment’. If you don’t, then confirmation surgery is a brilliant term. 🤷🏻♀️
@@macairhead5137 I go by technical terminology. Anyone can call a pig a dog, but it doesn't mean it's really a dog. I'll agree with you totally, 100% regarding intersexed people born with both and the 'wrong' choice being made by the parents with no input from the child (for obvious reasons)...but for anyone born male or female, the change of gender, which again I have NO ISSUES with whatsoever, is a 'reassignment.' I just believe in calling things by their real descriptions because I feel that by altering a term, it looks like we're trying to gloss it over, to make it 'feel better' and more legitimate, but the general public, still largely unaccepting, sees it as trying to 'pull the wool over their eyes' and I think that is HARMING the movement. Just my thoughts on the matter. I want all trans people to be accepted and for the knowledge to be fully transparent to the public so they can come around faster. Don't hide it, be genuine, it's the best path.
@Mayahenry May i please ask you how you are fairing with it now? I want bottom surgery in the future and my family really doesnt want me to even do hormones.
I haven’t seen one of your videos for over a year, so at first I’m thinking 🤔 “Why am I subscribed to some beautiful woman’s channel?” 😁 This channel should be watched by every one! It’s much needed! ❤️👍🏽
Greetings Maya, I have been following your progress since surgery. You have adjusted well, I think. It took me 2 full years to heal. Of course I am much older then yourself when I had surgery. I was 51 when I finally had my surgery. The problem now is thinking back to my old me seems so alien. It great to finally fell whole. On a second note. How is the career going? I am super glad you have adjusted so well.
Love is skin deep, moments when I deal with stress I try to relate with my pioneer sisters resulting in inner strength to achieve all goals I must face in my womanhood. ❤️😘
I am really happy that you are feeling better Maya. I truly enjoy you are so transparent. Could you please do an episode on why so many trans people choose not to do this surgery because of the complications you experience? I think this would be a helpful discussion.
Hey Maya - You're not going to think this is relevant but bear me out. I had a nasty granulation on a finger - the quick really went nuts and it was about3 or 4 cms sticking out of my finger. I too wondered about the stiptic pencil (as we say in UK) but nurse gave me the advice just to put 1% hydrocortisone cream (OTC) on it and it would work quickly and without any pain. To my surprise, it did. So if it starts to come back or form anywhere else, give that a shot first.
I can’t even begin to grasp how difficult this process has been for you and how strong you must be, even if you you don’t feel it all the time. Full of admiration for you. My best wishes for your complete recovery soon….. Andrew x
im I am transgender I've been on hormone for almost 3 years and I am wanting to get surgery on my face and get breast implants cuz I am just not changing the way I want to be and I really love your guys's videos I try to watch as much as I can
Hi Maya! I just wanted to comment that there are plenty of us who were born with female parts that are super critical of how things look. I'm glad that you're being kind to yourself!!
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@@AshIsAverage... Don't mean to offend... so sorry...😔
I'd love to know what I should say instead...I can't figure it out. 🙁
have you watched "what is a woman"?
@@joey_5060 don't worry you weren't being offensive, that person even deleted their comment because they were clearly over reacting
Being a year and two weeks post, your video's around your surgery were very helpful during my surgery, I watched them all. So thankyou so much girl❤
That’s amazing to hear Eve! Hope you are doing well 💓
You lied
@@Mayavhenry I am thanks! I feel so blessed everything went so smoothly🥰
@Ana LuisaOK ??? Lol!! I don't think she cares about you you know??
@Eve @Maya Henry i am sorry you fell for the grooming, I hope one day you will reach a state of mind where you understand sexual lobotomies are not the solution for the problems you have and sue this "influencer." (groomer)
Your timing is perfect! Today is my 65th birthday and I expect to have my bottom surgery in November!
Happy Birthday Felicia!!! 💓
@@leash533 Thank you! 😸
Happy Birthday :D
Happy birthday!! 🎊
Happy birthday and congratulations on your upcoming surgery ....praying you heal great and get through it fine....
This was so edifying and I am impressed and grateful that you and women like you are willing to put yourselves out there so we can learn. Thank you.
It's " ladyface " .Appropriation of womanhood . Sad .
Not a woman
@@pistoffpussycat5778 she is actually. you can keep ranting but just know you’ll never have the power over another human to tell them what they are or are not. take care and fine this thing called respect for others
@@zach4832 Well said! I find it funny that he litteraly took the time to click on a video about a trans topic just to comment some hate. Says a lot about him. Maybe its a weird obsession/fetish he has and the only way to get attention from us trans woman is for him to hate since nothing else worked out for him kind of like a last resort. Just assuming, but most guys that used to bully me in high school are now in my dm’s.
@@lolosabi And you took your time commenting this instead of just ignoring him. idk how this is any better.
Thats so crazy, i never wouldve thought it was 1.5 years!!! So happy for you! It feels like yesterday you were getting ready to get it done. So glad you're doing well and are still that vivid sunshine of fun you have allways brightened my day with.
- Stay fab Maya!
Thank you for sharing Maya, well spoken, and happy healing 💙💜❣️
Wow Maya 1.5 years I can't believe its gone so fast! You look great and sound great seems like you're in a really good place. I at 60 just came out as Bi-Sexual so it's a new and exciting world for me. Maya you and others have given me the courage to come out and be who I really am, thank you.
well I am 19 and mainly into men but also physically into women. I don’t feel like I need to come out. It’s a minor thing in my life, i don’t feel as if it was part of my identity, I don’t even feel part of the “LGBTQ” community, because I am mostly conservative apart from this little attraction for beautiful women. Which btw you d be astonished how many women are able to be attracted by other women, it doesn’t make you special;)
We thank you for your honesty and your experiences shared with us.
you are seriously an inspiration for young trans women maya. thankyou so much for these videos!! 💗💗
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Instead of being an, "inspiration", he needs to grow out his mustache, and tell young people not to live like him.
@@DiscoMatty79 don't you have better shit to do?
I have watched all of these videos and the mental health struggles are always a focal point. Surgeries like this shouldn’t exist and should be illegal. This surgery will never be over.
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Granulation happens after vaginal births and subsequent tears as well!! It’s refreshing to have you be so open. So many “cis” women require surgery to reconstruct their organs after births, and it’s absolutely something that is ignored and glossed over. You’re doing so much good for those on your journey, AND doing good for all of woman kind. Thank you❤️ it sounds so silly, but we need more to connect ourselves to each other. In a climate such as today, more people need to realize the similarities are astronomical. And the differences can be worked through. I hope you continue on with your healing, and may any pain you’ve felt, be left in the past!!
I have given birth vaginally and yes to all of this.
I sent a copy of this off to my sister who is a OBGYN doctor. She would absolutely love to know where you got your information from. It is NOT so many straight women who suffers from this as you claim. What internal organs need to be reconstructed after child birth?? The only organs involved are the womb & vagina & they are below the all organs. Sometime a prolapse womb or vagina need to be put back into place but that is not reconstruction but simply replacement. Fyi a trans women dose not understand what it is like or what is involved in child birth.
@@proud2babiowoman292 I think Mary meant 'reproductive organs' which include the vagina. Some women do have granulation happening after an episiotomy or tear but as a midwife I must say that is very rare. I personally have only had one patient that needed a procedure done.
@Road Rage Prolapses are horrific 😔 it’s nothing like “shoving it back into place”. Why did it prolapse in the first place if it’s so easy to fix!?!? The muscles, the ligaments, the other organs, everything needs to heal and that takes a long time. The nerve damage isn’t something that heals in a couple of weeks. It’s usually a constant reminder for decades to come. I’m so so sorry you’re going through all of that hun❤️ and they’re NEVER talked about. None of the aftermath of birth is ever fully disclosed and talked about. Not even by most OBGYNs. I fully understand where you’re coming from by not supporting others. But it’s always going to be a personal choice. I think all of the surgeries are currently in the “human trial” stage and that’s very difficult to witness others go through. I’ve seen women put themselves through horror after having mastectomies to reconstruct. And I personally cannot fathom it, but again, it’s a personal choice. I think doctors need to be far more realistic with the expectations and the recovery. Because there are so many that market ANY surgery as a “quick” operation without putting into account the healing, aftercare, and subsequent surgeries that may be involved. I truly hope you’re able to get with a pelvic floor specialist to try and repair some of that muscle damage and loss, and to prevent the side effects of your prolapse 😔 I cannot imagine the pain. I truly hope you fully heal, and never experience any issues ahead❤️ we need more transparency, and honesty. Nobody cares about statistics when they’re included in them. 1/100000000000 is too many when you are that 1. ❤️
@@proud2babiowoman292 I never stated it was “common” (which is a vague term regardless since there are nearly 4billion natural born women in the world, and most don’t live near you to proclaim their experiences). I also stated organs. I did indeed mean reproductive organs, but I supposed the area between your vaginal canal and bootyhole doesn’t count as an organ. We can ignore that since it’s never involved in vaginal birth apparently. And with all due respect, you don’t just squish your uterus, bladder, and or rectal tissue “back into place” and be done with it. The lasting effects are terrible and despite physical therapy making them bearable, it’s not like your body is back to 100% for the rest of your life. Never said a trans woman knows what childbirth is like either. It’s ok to hold an opinion. But to project your own animosity onto someone who’s pointing out the similarities in two types of people is astonishingly sad. That being said, your little looks absolutely precious!! Hope nothing but the best for you and your loved ones!!
5:13....someone who is born with that anatomy is called a woman, or female. Don´t be scared to say that.
Not true.
@@Wuggolo. How so?
Hi Maya, thanks so much for such an honest and informative video ☺️ Can't wait for my GCS - still some years to go, though!
Sounds horrible, shouldn’t have done it. It’s a terrible surgery.
So sad for Maya 😢 I can see sadness in Maya's eyes. Hope Maya peaks soon.
@@shifterofshape I saw your amazing podcast with Blair and am so proud of your strength!! You’re a hero for speaking up and so damn real! Sending much love shape!
Hi Maya! I had my surgery just a few months after yours, and had major granulation from the start - 15 months later, and 30 nitrate treatments later, it’s almost healed. Fortunately, things are turning out great for me, but there were some really dark times. So I feel for you, and cheer you on to stay the course!
I think it’s underestimated by many of us in the community that it can take this long to heal. I had granulation along with dilation issues so bad that I was bed-bound for over a year - it was difficult to do anything without pain. Thank goodness I could work from bed, because I don’t know what I would have done if I had a job that required being physically active. I know I’m an outlier, but I had “heard” that most people were pretty close to fully healed after 3 months. The more of these shared experiences I hear about, the more it sounds like the recovery time is being greatly underestimated.
Here in the States, even in a big city, I’ve struggled to always have access to medical care - there’s just not enough doctors, and definitely not enough doctors versed in transgender care. I fortunately have some great doctors helping me out, but trying to get appointments is the same as you describe.
That’s why it’s so important that there are people like you who are willing to share your experiences with the world. I’m sad you’ve had to deal with so much recovery, but it’s really encouraging to know we’re not alone. And it does get better. It may take a way longer time than we would have ever expected, but it does get better. In fact, it gets really wonderful.
I’ve been watching your channel for years now - you’re amazing. Best wishes. ❤
Fully healed after 3 months? After 3 months I was in pretty good shape. But I was told by my surgeon that it takes a year for the swelling to fully go down. This past December 12th was the 4th year anniversary of my Sex Reassignment Surgery. Except for the fact that I am terrible about dilating; for the most part everything is great. Although I did develop a urethral stricture. I don't know if the surgery was the cause. But since they did have to shorten and reposition the urethra; it seems perfectly plausible that SRS is the cause of the stricture.
Oh my goodness! Time really has flown by!! I remember when you first uploaded the 1 month post op video 🥺 Love the growth :) ❣️
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I had to have the same silver nitrate treatment for cervical ectropion as you described for the granulation and I’m a cisgender woman! You’re right, everyone’s anatomy is different 🥰
Kimbo Spice 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 u killed me
Normal women. Or just women.
@@johnmadsen37 No way! I’ve seen you on Grindr before. Go figure youre transphobic, in the closet I see :/ poor guy
Everyone's anatomy is different because you're a biological woman, for goodness sake and Maya is a biological man!!
@@zach4832 haha that is funny. So you would need to be on grinder to see someone else’s account. Since grinder is a place for diseased infested desperate people willing to hook up with whatever they can, it would explain why you are there. But, if I am homophobic, I would not be on it because it’s full of those losers. Illiteracy is a serious problem. Phobia is a fear of. Not liking disgusting behavior is not a fear of it, it is a preference excluding it.
Please learn vocabulary so you understand the words you use. Making up words is something babies do until they learn basic speech.
I'm sorry you have to keep having these treatments .. but am happy that you're feeling better - physically and mentally. And, boy, you are so beautiful! Blessings on you.
You literally have no idea how much hope and help you are giving me by just being yourself and doing you’r videos, I don’t know any trans woman who can help me through my confusion and journey but seeing you’r experience helps a lot ❤️❤️ thank you very much
I had severe granulation and my surgeon was concerned I may lose the graft. Like, she was surprised I didn’t. So I’m lucky there, but I think it has made dilating harder.
Just come across your videos at the time I needed. I’m from the U.K. and 1 year and 2 months post op (exactly the same routines and dilating methods here as you have) and I’m still struggling with the mental side of things like you have been. It’s reassuring to know I’m not alone in how I’m feeling and that your words are giving me some hope in the future 💗thank you for this video when I needed it most
Stunning. We've missed you.
Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts. I'm still in the beginning of my transition M-F. Graduations on 1.5 years of your post operation bottom Sergey. Hope you get better and have a great life. 🙂
Castration is not the answer to your problems, gender dysphoria is as insulting and degrading as "blackface". You are being told apropriating womenhood is something to strive for, but it is only a painfull and expensive costume you get for a party you will never be invited to.
I’m a cis Grammie to my beautiful trans granddaughter and I just want you to know that you’re such an inspiration. Thank you for all the honesty and information.
it's very insulting to call us CIS. You think you are an ally, but you are a misogynistic enabler. As a granny, I would expect you to have more respect for women and the spaces they have to give up for these delusional individuals.
JFC you're sick lady
@@laylassong4u Not unlike TERFs.
@@chrisevans6223 rather be a terf than in the eunuch cult.
@@laylassong4u You can be an eunuch if you wish. There is a free blast.
Thank you for being so open and honest. You're beautiful and getting better and better. I wish you nothing - - - but the best.
i still remember finding your channel when you had like 10 uploads
Omg OG subscriber 💓💓💓
Wow time flies I can't believe it's been 1.5 years. I'm so happy you're doing great. Seems like your almost out of the woods and I couldn't be happier for you! You're such an inspiration Maya, thank you 🤗💜
i couldnt tell the difference. lookin good
Thanks for continuing to share your experience and knowledge on this. I’m really conflicted about getting it done so things like this at least gives me something to think about
I would like to have this surgery, but sadly right now i dont have the financial freedom to do this. I have been on HRT for some time now though. Glad to see you're doing well by the way!
So happy to hear all the progress you've made Maya!
I have had bottom surgery 4 weeks ago .Still recovering. And Dilating 3 times aday . Healing OK at the moment.
Hi Maya, you look amazing after 1.5 yrs!!! I'm happy that your process is getting better every day!!!
Great video, Maya. I think your willingness to share reality with ‘the world’ helps a lot of people. Managing expectations is massively important with these life-changing surgeries.
As opposed to a lot of your brethren who are labeled by general media for just existing without anything being remarkable about them, you are actually ‘stunning and brave’.
Health & happiness to you!
ya the trans people in media are hand picked because they best paint us in a bad light. they only will interview crazy misinformed trans people which often misrepresents us. which makes us all feel our truth will never have out, but maya is a beacon of hope for sure. our best representative.
So exciting!🎉 Glad to hear you're doing well Maya ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this very personal and intimate topic with your loyal fans. I've been following you devotedly over the years, anticipating your every video. You have left the world a documentary of the transgender experience that is invaluable and deeply inspiring Maya. I'm so happy for you that the healing process is continuing and you're seeing an appropriate specialist. It sounds like you're not experiencing pain on a regular basis. I'm so moved to hear you talk about feeling Gender Euphoria. I watched your recent interview on The Social, and it confirmed what I've felt about you for a long time now: you present one of the most positive, relatable, appealing personas of any transgender person on the internet. In this disturbing time of homophobia and transphobia, you show the world that transgender people are just like everyone else, deserving of love and equal treatment. Thank you again Maya! You look lovely, by the way!💕💕💕
You’re beautiful and amazing woman who will inspire others to be their best selves possible
Male*
@@latinos4whitegirls798 Female
@@richiefrancis8424 naw dummie
@@latinos4whitegirls798 She was a male, but now transitioned to a beautiful woman (to be honest) that3 she always meant to be.
@@richiefrancis8424 always mean to be lol then he wouldn't been born a male stfu
You look gorgeous, girl!!! Your videos do help me a lot for my transition ❤️
eyebrows look fierce Maya, and the makeup looks more feminine than ever
I love your videos with helpful advice. I’ve been on hrt for just a little over a year now. I love how I’m living my life and the changes to my body. I’m glad you’re doing much better now.
Love that hair style Maya. Very beautiful 🤩
I really appreciate these videos about your surgery. I’m still considering my options but this kind of information really helps me work out what will be best for me.
Ahhh I totally forgot about you (life happens) but I used to watch your vids ALL the time I think! So nice to rediscover you!🖤 I’d never forget that voice!🥰
Nice update. Glad things are going so well for most part. Good for you! Hope this last issues heal up soon.
Do you have full control over your urine flow? I’m asking because I’m discussing having my procedure performed this year and it would help me a lot to know.
I can understand it takes an adjustment to get used to.
I mention it because I don't like myself. I'm confused a lot.
Goes without saying you are a beautiful young lady, I hope you are happy within. It took a tremendous amount of courage for you to share your journey with us all. " Leave who you were... Love who you are... Look forward to who you will become....
Blessing's Sent Dear Soul 🕉️
Wow it’s been a year and a half already!! Feels like yesterday that you announced you were getting the surgery. I hope it heals well soon.
OMG what a girl, what a journey, and what the hell ur amazing
He will only be a girl amongst pandering data/money collectors and in echo chambers. In the real world he is a misogynistic man who does "blackface. It's disrespectful, humiliating and degrading.
@@ditjedatje9741 wtf u are talking about
@@forlotsofthings83 If you have to ask, you are choosing not to understand it. You think you are an ally, but you are an enabler.
Maya- You are seriously glowing! I am happy that you are healing, even though it’s taking longer than you anticipated, I am still happy that you are able to go on vacation and truly feel like yourself and be happy. We are truly our own worst critics, but it sounds like you have an amazing family here on RUclips, and also a circle of friends that can be support for you. :)
Been flowing you scents th begin. Before you I barely even heard of th topic.
You look terrific and you sound very good.
A 1 1/2 year, you have come so far, it to me in what seems like a very short time, I am sure you see it
much different. Before you I had barely even heard of anything like what you have been through.
Wishing you an yours the very best in life! My girlfriend and I are 76 an we just love you and your show.
Happy trails to you!, Cheers! (Thank you for sharing this with us) 😘
Don't douch too much. The more you leave it alone the better!
Very articulate on such a personal and intimate experience. Such courage to share and provide a role model for others seeking a similar journey.
When do you think you'll stop thinking about you being transgender and start thinking just like a regular woman. I would think it's imperative to, at some point, approaching life as if you have always been a natural women without any thought of being transgender. Wish you luck and have enjoyed your videos. For the record, I am a 64 yo White male married to same women for 40 years. We have two sons, both of whom are straight heterosexuals.
If you payed attention she is that's why she hasn't been talking about the topic you obviously are never going to completely forget, like she even said noticing the differences between her body and someone who was delivered nattaly with this configuration, she is definitely living her life comfortably and this is just one fraction of it one component but overall her life is so much more.
Delivered Natally? You mean a woman with a real vagina?
@@Demetri333-t7c If you PAID (not payed) attention to my post you would have seen the first word in my post is "When", which is a question of time, not condition. The next clue came in the second sentence when I used the term "at some point", which is a reference to both time and/or coordinate position. Once again not condition. Your inability to write in a cogent manner tells me that you have focused your life on other areas than education, especially English. "Nattaly"? Do you mean naturally? Last item, you predict that I will "never completely forget" something. I don't understand what you are talking about. I will never forget the births of my sons. I will never forget my wedding day or the day I met my future wife. Good luck with your life. You'll need it.
she was mutilated, and now the surgeon that mutilated her doesn't care about her. this is how this mutilation industry works, sadly
@@Demetri333-t7c What do you mean delivered with this "configuration?!?!"
Hey Maya,
I’m 9 months post-op and had my surgery done by Dr. Brassard too! I’m still having a lot of trouble with sensation and feeling any sort of intimate pleasure. It’s crushing me. And I don’t know what to do or what is even normal. Any thoughts?
9 months is still earl I had feelings after 1.2 yrs
Your mind state can also affect it. But everyone is different. I haven't had the surgery yet, but when I started hrt I lost sensation in my chest and I was devastated. But after a couple years, it came back. I also noticed in times when I was experiencing higher stress, I would hyper focus and I'd feel worse.
I know it's hard, but I found it's best to not focus too hard and stay positive.
I've had mine 3 years ago and what I've learned is, pleasure really works in mysterious ways 😅 I haven't managed to get pleasure with partners nor have I been able to achieve it alone but for some reason I'll sometimes get orgasms during dreams, it's really different for everyone, I think it's better not to worry to much about it, the surgeon probably did a good job, we just have to figure out how and what makes us feel good now, I know it's scary and super frustrating but don't loose hope we'll get there eventually 😊
You girls are.awe-inspiring! Just the pain of the procedure itself would out me off... And then the length of recovery!
Gender dysphoria is a powerful motivator to be willing to deal with recovery. I spent 7 days in the hospital along with recovery time at home. But in the end it was well worth it.
@@jennoscura2381 I admire all if you for your grit and determination. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness.
@@AndreDMalan1966 Thanks!
@@jennoscura2381 If you truly have gender dysphoria, you are lying if you say "in the end"it is a never ending quest, because deep down you know you will not find the treasure. you will always be a MAN.
@@ditjedatje9741 I am never going to be 100% female obviously. But I can still treat my gender dysphoria. So far I have done a pretty great job of treating my dysphoria. It's to the point where I have been able to explore my butch side. Prior to having Sex Reassignment Surgery I wasn't able to properly explore that part of myself. So I am really glad I have been able to medically transition.
When the greatest living Canadian speaks, I listen and learn. Keep on kicking ass, Maya.
Hi Maya darling. I saw Dawn,Her dad and the tractor. I cried my eyes out for about hour had to watch it twice. I felt you through the whole film and it really hit my soul. I too am transsexual and grew up in a small town but have only recently come out to family. I have known all my life but life’s changes just seemed to get in the way. It was also a way different time for me growing up and I never had the chance to be my truth. You are absolutely a beautiful person and I wish you all the blessings life brings you. I am now and always will be your fan.
Martina
Where did you see Maya's Movie? Is it streaming online somewhere? Thanks!
@@evilron944 hi sorry for the late reply. If you haven’t seen it yet it’s streaming on Crave right now
It's been a few years since I last saw one of your videos on RUclips, and you look incredible! Glad to see you're well.
I'm glad you're doing well.
Hi, I'd been seeing your videos on and off for 7 or 8 years, it's cool to see your journey come this far.
You are looking wonderful and healthy. I am glad the subjective Maya is in synch with the image and presentation-sort of an anti-dysphoria? In my male experience, I have my whole life (74 years) been appalled by the anxiety and stress many women go through over how they perceive and how they think others perceive their bodies. I’m talking non obsessive (supposedly-within-the-normal-range) women. I can’t imagine the pain and anxiety self…what … dissociation trans people suffer through.
Anyway, I hope you and we all have a beautiful spring scented with the blossoms of hope and well being.
I’m impressed with how nimbly you navigate the language in order to satisfy RUclips and stay monetized as you discuss your “anatomy.” Nicely done.
It's sometimes I didn't see you channel and I missed it.It's always such a good moment. Thank you.
I love how you use subconsciously, like transitioning isn't just "oh i want to do this" it's things that naturally come to mind that you are uncomfortable with until you put the pieces together, like "Oooh okay i want to be a female, makes sense" lol....
have you watched "what is a woman"?
Thank you it was very interesting for me, an you are so so beautiful ❤️ I just love seeing your beauty, you go girl.
Hey Maya, I've been watching your old video's now, and I'm lovin' it. You doing great, I want to support you. You go girl.
You look absolutely stunning
I know I'm 2 months late but I'm so happy to see you in a better head space! I was so worried after your last grs update. Love happy Maya ❤️
So happy for you Maya! Sending love from China
Thank you for the update , all very informative .......hopefully i will get my dates soon...nervous and excited......mixed feelings of course...hope your recovery continues in the same positive fashion..time to take on the world , and hope 2022 is your year x
W o w, hard to believe how fast time flies. Good to see you again. ☺
Everyone has a unique experience, relax, do your best and be yourself.
Why are you trolls here ?
If you are so offended ,don't watch.
Go away !
Congrats and best of luck. Just one correction I'd like to point out...it's REASSIGNMENT surgery, not confirmation surgery.
That really just depends on how you look at it and your situation. It’s not for you to decide how other people perceive the surgeries they have done and for what purpose. You first have to subscribe to the ‘assigned at birth’ thing (which, in my opinion, only applies to intersex people that have been wrongfully been attributed their ‘official’ sex due to misdiagnosis) for trans people in order for your surgery to be called ‘reassignment’. If you don’t, then confirmation surgery is a brilliant term. 🤷🏻♀️
@@macairhead5137 I go by technical terminology. Anyone can call a pig a dog, but it doesn't mean it's really a dog. I'll agree with you totally, 100% regarding intersexed people born with both and the 'wrong' choice being made by the parents with no input from the child (for obvious reasons)...but for anyone born male or female, the change of gender, which again I have NO ISSUES with whatsoever, is a 'reassignment.' I just believe in calling things by their real descriptions because I feel that by altering a term, it looks like we're trying to gloss it over, to make it 'feel better' and more legitimate, but the general public, still largely unaccepting, sees it as trying to 'pull the wool over their eyes' and I think that is HARMING the movement. Just my thoughts on the matter. I want all trans people to be accepted and for the knowledge to be fully transparent to the public so they can come around faster. Don't hide it, be genuine, it's the best path.
@Mayahenry
May i please ask you how you are fairing with it now? I want bottom surgery in the future and my family really doesnt want me to even do hormones.
I watch all your videos! You're amazing and beautiful.
Thank you Maya, live your beautiful best life! 🤩
I haven’t seen one of your videos for over a year, so at first I’m thinking 🤔 “Why am I subscribed to some beautiful woman’s channel?” 😁
This channel should be watched by every one! It’s much needed! ❤️👍🏽
Have you tried Mederma gel to lighten your scars, it worked for my wrist operation.
My scars are paler than my skin 😂
If only people could accept themselves
Do you know how long you will need before you are fully healed? No longer need medical attention.
Greetings Maya,
I have been following your progress since surgery. You have adjusted well, I think. It took me 2 full years to heal. Of course I am much older then yourself when I had surgery. I was 51 when I finally had my surgery.
The problem now is thinking back to my old me seems so alien. It great to finally fell whole. On a second note. How is the career going?
I am super glad you have adjusted so well.
Love is skin deep, moments when I deal with stress I try to relate with my pioneer sisters resulting in inner strength to achieve all goals I must face in my womanhood. ❤️😘
Thank you!
Hair line, color, flow is beautiful. ❤
I am really happy that you are feeling better Maya. I truly enjoy you are so transparent. Could you please do an episode on why so many trans people choose not to do this surgery because of the complications you experience? I think this would be a helpful discussion.
I think you've been a star through all this I can't believe it's 1.5 yrs already! ❤️
Hey Maya - You're not going to think this is relevant but bear me out. I had a nasty granulation on a finger - the quick really went nuts and it was about3 or 4 cms sticking out of my finger. I too wondered about the stiptic pencil (as we say in UK) but nurse gave me the advice just to put 1% hydrocortisone cream (OTC) on it and it would work quickly and without any pain. To my surprise, it did. So if it starts to come back or form anywhere else, give that a shot first.
you are truly georgeous today girl!!
I'm just here to add some support, good job!
My hope is that you are well and happy.
Nothing to do with the video topic but your jewelry is gorgeous! Where did you get these pieces?
I can’t even begin to grasp how difficult this process has been for you and how strong you must be, even if you you don’t feel it all the time. Full of admiration for you.
My best wishes for your complete recovery soon….. Andrew x
do you get phantom limb like the war amputees?
Now this recently scientifically proven since birth Trans positive 💛
im I am transgender I've been on hormone for almost 3 years and I am wanting to get surgery on my face and get breast implants cuz I am just not changing the way I want to be and I really love your guys's videos I try to watch as much as I can
Thanks for the helpful update 😊😊
Thank You for this information Markus, I be listening to everything you talk about. It's bizzare how I needed this info on THANKSGIVING. 😂🤣