@@AnnamarieForcino oh no! Maybe her saying on the first day of Sinmas that she wouldn't want to spend her Christmas Eve watching Ben Shitbiro she was foreshadowing 😨
My only confession is that I used to give larger portions and better quality food to people who were nice to my servers when I was a chef. Not that I ever gave anyone "bad" food, but if my server came into the kitchen like "OMG table 4 was so patient and nice to me", I'd go fish out brand new product, prepared that day, for table 4.
"I can't sleep without imagining someone beside me hugging me, telling me they love me, and that everything will be okay" Time for my favorite game: is it loneliness or trauma and why is it so relatable
These kinda parents probably do love their kids but can't show it or get angry it's not understood. The feelings ya'll have are 100% valid regardless though; they need to make effort to explain things even if they struggle to process or talk about it. I'm alexithymic, so I don't always know my emotions, I know I might not show them in a stereotypical way too, so I try extra hard to tell people if I'm proud of them, or have been thinking of them. I double-check when they mention harm I did in the past if it's a problem I still need to work on etc. So they know I care, everyone should do this, and while I feel for these emotionally stunted parents, they need to do better and it's not fair on their kids.
The thing is, at least the way I read that one was that when the mother replied with "How could you ask such a ridiculous question," it implied that, of course, she loved the OP. It was just that the mother had a hard time showing it. Either way, I'm glad that that OP is in a better spot now.
When I we were 13, my best friend confided in me that she used her electric toothbrush as a vibrator. I wasn't as 'experienced' as she was, and I totally thought she meant the brush end. It sounded as about as appealing as f*ckin some steel wool. To be fair, I didn't have an electric toothbrush and didn't know that the motor in the handle vibrated like that.
So, I also thought people meant the brush end. And I was curious. Maybe a bit too curious. So I got myself an electric toothbrush and hid it under my bed and used it MANY, MANY TIMES over a few months. I got so many friction burns and I didn't really Get It but I thought I was sooooo cool
About the 11:15 confession: remember that you're not owed sex even if in a relationship! Your partner might be dealing with stuff might be on the ace-spectrum or maybe they just don't want to. Communication is key but don't feel entitled to sex just because you're dating ✌🏼
I agree completely, and as an ace person, thanks for bringing it up. But also, the dude didn’t say he was owed anything, just that he was considering breaking up. It’s good to remember that a break up isn’t always an impugnment of one’s character. Sometimes it is best to break up if you and your partner have different needs that can’t be reconciled.
@@iqi553 yeah! I totally agree with you. like, breaking up with someone for this doesnt imply that your partner owes you sex. if you have a fairly high sex drive and your partner doesn't, it just means you're not going to feel as fulfilled intimately as you may want (or even not feel as desirable as you would want to feel in a relationship). and those are perfectly normal things to want in a relationship which do not inherently mean someone is feeling "entitled to sex". it just means that there's a mismatch in what would make the relationship fulfilling to them.
Absolutely agree. Nobody is owed sex in any relationship. That said, sexual compatibility is a thing, and if the couple is incompatible like they seem to be here, then a breakup might be warranted.
@Veth This has always confused me. I myself feel little need or want for sex, but when doing it with my wife I do enjoy it about. Plus I do initiate sometimes myself. But like I can go months and months without sex as well. Would that qualify as something ace-ish or am I just reading too much into my bambi Lesbian self? X'D
I do many platonically affectionate things that people seem to deem strictly romantic. When she mentioned spooning I remembered spooning with my mate as we slept on a sofa and being confused when our other mates came in and found it funny. I guess they thought romance was happening but I was like 'it was cold so we spooned'. But then again, I also enjoy friendships where I can make out with the person with no strings attached, I just like Queer Platonic friendships, can't be helped. -.-
@@qwandaryexactly what i was thinking, i dont have the same situation bc im barely comfortable with even being just hugged but i know there are many people who do that platonically
@@clownmonomaniac2630 That's fair, I'm kinda hot and cold with hugs and stuff as it depends on my pain levels and sensory needs that day (autistic sensory overload and all that) but generally I'm very tactile. Weirdly, I've noticed I like making out with friends more than partners, but I think it's because too many exs made physical affection a sexual thing with guilt applied because I couldn't take it further as an asexual, just feels safer with friends as there's no expectations :) The expectations we put on people that limit their friendships and box their relationships is something I just can't find much use for. (That includes how people might shame someone for not hugging family members because they just don't like it, for example.)
i have heard the electric tooth brush thing a 100000 times. i also did that when i was a child lmaoooo. i am now 27 with a magic wand lmfao. we make progress
You should do a part 2. Idk this vid just felt really comfy and scandalous at the same time. It’s like having a confessional with your friends around a campfire with snuggies ya know
13:06 it seems this is an unfortunate typo/autocorrect situation. It’s tubal ligation, not tubal litigation. Litigation is to take legal action… Well, unless you’re suing you’re fallopian tubes…. In that case, please disregard. 😅😂😂😂😂
my lord im a new subscriber and you're already trying to kill me i choked on a hit when you said "tom and jerry abortion fanfic" i just. i was not expecting that. i was expecting something kinky.
Cheating while knowing the other person is married is so confusing. What makes the idea of being a homewrecker appealing? As a child affected by an affair growing up, it's hard to understand why you would be okay messing with someone's life like that.
@@botanicalitus4194 I feel like it's not the homewrecker who is blamed per se, it's always the woman. If the homewrecker is a woman, she's blamed, and if the partner who cheats is a woman, she's blamed. If the husband is the cheater, the wife is sometimes blamed for not satisfying his needs. At least that's the message I receive from the media.
just wanted to say thank you for being one of the funniest ccs i've ever watched. you're a super nice and accepting person and your funniness on top of that makes you a great person to watch
For those who imagine someone hugging them and telling them everything is ok, try getting a weighted plush. Feels like you have a pet who’s comforting you. I have a weighted Dinosaur, and his name is Carl. I hug him when sad, and it feels nice. Highly recommend
i have platonically spooned my friend 😭 we are both in relationships and we just cuddle and fall asleep together. neither of us were uncomfortable about it and i def didn’t have any confusing feelings. i think for the person who sent the confession, if you’re overthinking it like this,,, yea you like ur friend lol
12:02 Trust me, as someone with crushes who are married, it’s not worth it. It’s not going to be like ‘Conversations with Friends’. It’s very messy and very complex.
14:18 I have a huge stuffed animal that I hug at night to feel like there’s someone there with me. I have separation anxiety 😅 Just know that you aren’t alone in that ♥️
For the person that can’t sleep until they pretend there is someone sleeping next to them, get squish mallows and a weighted blanket you will feel nice also play some rain sounds you’ll feel great and at peace
I get the different sex drives thing bc I had a relationship like that. if somebody has a lower libido than you, it's really hard to get them to understand how important regular sex is. Sometimes it's a temporary thing, and sometimes it's an irreconcilable difference because you can't make someone want sex more, but you also can't make yourself want sex less. My ex-boyfriend told me for a year straight that his low libido was temporary bc of xyz, abc, etc, but every time the "issue" holding him back was solved, he came up with a new one, and eventually I just had to face that we weren't compatible. It sucked but it wasn't fair that I was basically involuntarily celibate in a relationship
Exactly, people need to understand that you can't force anyone to do things just because you want to but sex is a need for some people, just like space is a need for others. It's so important to be compatible, wants and needs are different and learn yours but once you know them be true to yourself
This is why I love being poly. Takes so much stress off both of us to be each other's "everything". It's incredibly hard to navigate and requires massive trust, but being able to have multiple relationships that give all of us what we need is so nice.
Okay, her music isn't all the same, whenever I hear that it immediately tells me that they've only listened to her singles, when she has such better music. But, I do agree everyone is entitled to their opinion, I just Wanted to state my argument as a Swiftie
THISS. People can think what they want to but they haven't even heard all her songs. Like Shake It Off doesn't sound like Would've Could've Should've or Cornelia Street lmao.
The 12 year old with the 18 year men fighting over her reminds me of me. I was 12 when the same thing happened, on a dance team field trip. The scary part was one of the guys got my address and started sending me love letters. My parents knew none of this. I’m so lucky nothing creepier than just letters happened.
So nice to see an new episode of Sinmas. Confessions are very dicey because you never know what might haunt you. People are weird, yes. I’m here for the Confessions Lottery 😂
Awwwww... I got in expecting to laugh at how weird we can all be sometimes, and yet... Hope you're all doing great/better and have an happy Holiday/Winter time! ☃🌃🌟🌠🎉 Thanks for another superb video, Annamarie! 🥰💜💙💚💛❤
for the person with the story abt wetting themself at a sleepover, i had a sleepover for my 12th birthday. at which there were about 7 of us. one of my best friends at the time wet themself, or i believe they did. when i woke up, they had changed and moved where they were and the spot on the couch where they were was wet and smelled like pee. when i realized what happened, i didn’t even mention it. all i did was make sure i cleaned my couch so no one would notice. i never even told my parents. people who are your friends don’t care about accidents like that. stuff happens. we get it.
19:00 me and one of my friends (who is also a guy) spoon eachother. We’re just friends. We both are cuddly people and he is the only person I can cuddle without feeling weird about it (like in an embarrassing way, and not including my dads ex gf, who I am close with like she’s a second mother to me) plus he offered first when we started doing it (I’ve stayed at his house multiple weekends) and we both feel comfortable doing it. Although I guess we’re pretty much friends with benefits because we have done things (I’m not gonna get into detail, obviously) And we don’t really feel attraction to each other either
The one about the friends spooning is so funny cuz that really is the socially awkward lesbian experience "we made out and held hands and stared into each others eyes lovingly but idk if she's into me-"
Mine was read and it took a minute to realize it was mine, just sat there like," oh someone else who has similar story! .... wait...that's me" 😆 🤣 I can laugh about it now though so it's cool
i kinda knew someone who actually DID use the brush end. we were movie star planet friends lmao, but she told me she would use water on the bristles and diddle the fiddle. it was a christmas gift from her parents which made it worse
7:30 is so sad. my boyfriends mom is the same and he’s really struggled because of it. he has schizophrenia too and they think he’s faking it. my heart goes out to anyone who has to go through that
the funniest thing abt the polly pocket basket shit was that their preface about the toilets was incoherent so we don’t know WHAT circumstances led to this
9:07 YO THEY LIVED MY FANTASY GOOD FOR THEM!!! I hope the killing didn't effect them *too much* mentally, they deserve peace and the bastard doesn't deserve to take more of a toll on her ❤
I remember the first time I fell asleep on my friend and they enjoyed it and was confused if we were crushing on each other or not. very relatable tbh.
I am making drawing gifts for my online friends, I'm going to shock them on the 24th with a few tags. I haven't really had friends before and the fact I have so many now is making me giddy, I want to show them my love as they make living more worth while. My love language is gift giving and we're all artists so it feels appropriate doing so
The toothbrush lady brought me memories of a friend I had about 10+ years ago - she was just entering her horny teen stage, so her sharing about the toothbrush will never leave my head, as I was two years younger, still never thinking about sex yet but always listening her thoughts. [That was my first crush, actually, and never told her] I have never met another person that happened using toothbrush (at least for what they've told) and when she shared it I had the same exact questions, I'll still do - it is common sense to think about those at least 2 things. Vicky, is that you? ..Imagine that situation how she learns about my feelings back than by reading this and having instant flash back - what a perfect sense it will make in her mind, finishing with that realisation that I actually ended up being a lesbian. She wasn't there when that last one happened:D
When I was really young, I used to drink toilet water and I thought it was so awesome. I showed basically everyone who came to my house not my greatest moments.
@@mediocre_fig Yeaaah sorta. He has an ongoing delusion that we are destined to get married, in heaven, I believe. It's actually like sorta fucked me up for a long time, sadly. Even worse seeing as I can't remember the last time he was more mentally sound or was a good father when we had a great relationship. Still feel a level of guilt because of how much it's strained our relationship.
@@mediocre_fig Yeah, but I think it's getting better? I mean, I know as I get older I'll have more control over seeing him and stuff. Plus, I've begun to try and find humor in the situation. To me, if I just laugh about it, and make it into a sorta Inside joke with myself it sorta makes it more bearable.
This has been the best Sinmas ever getting new Annamarie videos on the daily 🤩🤩🎁🎄🎅🥰!!! Thanks for your hard work and dedication to making your viewers have happy holiday’s!
19:49 i mean i dont spoon friends im barely comfortable with them hugging me but i wouldnt say that it’s strictly something romantic, im sure there are many people who are just friends that spoon eachother platonically basically im saying people can do many affectionate things and have it still be platonic
"spooning and falling asleep on each other doesn't sound like something just friends would do" Me, who did that with all my friends until I was like 21 and lost all my friends: oh... Me, remembering I was the only straight kid in my cool queer girl friend group: ... oh
13:40 i had a huge crush on one of my best friends last summer. We’re both the same sex and we’re both bi so I knew there was potential. However I also was sure they didn’t see me the same way so I didn’t want to bring up the crush and potentially ruined our friendship. Months later, my crush went away when I started seeing someone of the opposite sex. While dating them, I finally confessed to my friend that I had had a huge crush on them last summer. It just felt right and I wanted closure. They responded that they had known all along and thanked me for respecting boundaries. We’re still very good friends to this day
I dont know how people can say all Taylor's songs sound the same, I'd get saying all the songs on one album sound the same but all of them? Idk, I just think y'all haven't actually listened to a lot of her songs/gen (said with love, I am not fighting y'all you are allowed to not like her music)
I’m almost always of the opinion you should be honest about your feeling for someone, but especially in the case of that last person. From experience, if they don’t reciprocate you both might need some time apart to recalibrate and set boundaries your friendship going forward. But, honestly, living in a between state of not knowing means you continue to excruciatingly pine. Better to know so you can a) get together and be happy or b) start getting over it and have an honest, healthy friendship. I’ve been on both sides of this and am still friends with both my former crush and the person who had a crush on me. Friendships are just as important as romantic relationships, and it’s just as possible to go from a crush to platonic love as from platonic to crush. *editing to add because IMPORTANT: if the crush doesn’t reciprocate you CANNOT hold it against them (they can’t control who they are attracted to) and you cannot hold onto to the hope they will change their mind. That’s unfair to both of you.
14:00 I'm thinking maybe if it was done in a silly/casual way rather than emotional and heartfelt, it could work out! Like I honestly wouldn't bat an eye at a friend of mine I'd been friend with for years telling me they used to have a little crush on me, especially if it's obvious the feelings are in the past.
“I’m not religious but please go find Jesus.”
Annamarie with the best T-Shirt Ideas.
"You need more than just therapy. You need that supernatural help"
Each day sinmas seems to get more and more cursed. Keep it up.
dw, it'll only get worse!
@@AnnamarieForcino oh no! Maybe her saying on the first day of Sinmas that she wouldn't want to spend her Christmas Eve watching Ben Shitbiro she was foreshadowing 😨
Räi: lmao
cursed is the correct description of these series
My only confession is that I used to give larger portions and better quality food to people who were nice to my servers when I was a chef.
Not that I ever gave anyone "bad" food, but if my server came into the kitchen like "OMG table 4 was so patient and nice to me", I'd go fish out brand new product, prepared that day, for table 4.
This is the equivalent of baristas giving decaf to rude people lmaoo
So you'd dip into the new pot of soup and not the one that is about to be moved out?
This is so real
"I can't sleep without imagining someone beside me hugging me, telling me they love me, and that everything will be okay"
Time for my favorite game: is it loneliness or trauma and why is it so relatable
both
Real
@@oculusquest2460 that was me LMAOA
I thought I sent that when I was half asleep, like it’s way too relatable
I was genuinely wondering if I wrote that, but I don't think I saw the community post and I don't have Twitter so it can't be me
"I always thought how nobody could possibly love me if my own mother can't." Oof, that punched me right in the chest. Entirely too relatable.
felt that one
These kinda parents probably do love their kids but can't show it or get angry it's not understood. The feelings ya'll have are 100% valid regardless though; they need to make effort to explain things even if they struggle to process or talk about it.
I'm alexithymic, so I don't always know my emotions, I know I might not show them in a stereotypical way too, so I try extra hard to tell people if I'm proud of them, or have been thinking of them. I double-check when they mention harm I did in the past if it's a problem I still need to work on etc. So they know I care, everyone should do this, and while I feel for these emotionally stunted parents, they need to do better and it's not fair on their kids.
The thing is, at least the way I read that one was that when the mother replied with "How could you ask such a ridiculous question," it implied that, of course, she loved the OP. It was just that the mother had a hard time showing it. Either way, I'm glad that that OP is in a better spot now.
very relatable. Adopted with abusive parents so I have two sets of parents who don't love me lmao.
too many of us relate to this y'all... let's pour one out for the mommy issues
This was the most wettest, most-earth-shattering-ground-shaking of a trauma dump I've seen in years.
I was on the edge of my seat the whole video waiting for my absolute nonsense confession
was it there?
sam, currently watching the video and i'm very on edge.
@samdoesstuff4924 😭😭😭
The fifth day of sinmas Annamarie gave to me : FIVE LESBIAN RINGSSS
You should do more of these, like occasionally do some confessional, these are fun
Yeah, definitely
When I we were 13, my best friend confided in me that she used her electric toothbrush as a vibrator. I wasn't as 'experienced' as she was, and I totally thought she meant the brush end. It sounded as about as appealing as f*ckin some steel wool. To be fair, I didn't have an electric toothbrush and didn't know that the motor in the handle vibrated like that.
So, I also thought people meant the brush end. And I was curious. Maybe a bit too curious. So I got myself an electric toothbrush and hid it under my bed and used it MANY, MANY TIMES over a few months. I got so many friction burns and I didn't really Get It but I thought I was sooooo cool
lost my mind when i found out they make actual vibrators with a similar shape omg
I throught the same too! Whenever I heard characters talking about that on TV, I thought, "wouldn't that tickle"?
@@suchlou2297 oh god
@@suchlou2297 That sounds so painful. I was grossed out that she would use it as a toothbrush as well, and always left it in the family bathroom. 😂
About the 11:15 confession: remember that you're not owed sex even if in a relationship! Your partner might be dealing with stuff might be on the ace-spectrum or maybe they just don't want to. Communication is key but don't feel entitled to sex just because you're dating ✌🏼
I agree completely, and as an ace person, thanks for bringing it up. But also, the dude didn’t say he was owed anything, just that he was considering breaking up.
It’s good to remember that a break up isn’t always an impugnment of one’s character. Sometimes it is best to break up if you and your partner have different needs that can’t be reconciled.
@@iqi553 yeah! I totally agree with you. like, breaking up with someone for this doesnt imply that your partner owes you sex. if you have a fairly high sex drive and your partner doesn't, it just means you're not going to feel as fulfilled intimately as you may want (or even not feel as desirable as you would want to feel in a relationship). and those are perfectly normal things to want in a relationship which do not inherently mean someone is feeling "entitled to sex". it just means that there's a mismatch in what would make the relationship fulfilling to them.
Also important to remember ace people have sex too, but still important to remember we don't experience sexual attraction the same as allosexuals!
Absolutely agree. Nobody is owed sex in any relationship. That said, sexual compatibility is a thing, and if the couple is incompatible like they seem to be here, then a breakup might be warranted.
@Veth This has always confused me. I myself feel little need or want for sex, but when doing it with my wife I do enjoy it about. Plus I do initiate sometimes myself. But like I can go months and months without sex as well.
Would that qualify as something ace-ish or am I just reading too much into my bambi Lesbian self? X'D
this definitely needs a part 2 !
hello fellow frye pfp
Wait… is falling asleep on your friends not platonic?
I’m going to have so much explaining to do
It just depends on the boundaries of your relationship ig
I guess boundaries of friendship adds context to something like that. But I literally tell my close friends that I love them and whatnot soo
I do many platonically affectionate things that people seem to deem strictly romantic.
When she mentioned spooning I remembered spooning with my mate as we slept on a sofa and being confused when our other mates came in and found it funny. I guess they thought romance was happening but I was like 'it was cold so we spooned'.
But then again, I also enjoy friendships where I can make out with the person with no strings attached, I just like Queer Platonic friendships, can't be helped. -.-
@@qwandaryexactly what i was thinking, i dont have the same situation bc im barely comfortable with even being just hugged but i know there are many people who do that platonically
@@clownmonomaniac2630 That's fair, I'm kinda hot and cold with hugs and stuff as it depends on my pain levels and sensory needs that day (autistic sensory overload and all that) but generally I'm very tactile.
Weirdly, I've noticed I like making out with friends more than partners, but I think it's because too many exs made physical affection a sexual thing with guilt applied because I couldn't take it further as an asexual, just feels safer with friends as there's no expectations :)
The expectations we put on people that limit their friendships and box their relationships is something I just can't find much use for. (That includes how people might shame someone for not hugging family members because they just don't like it, for example.)
I love how these confessions go from "I was severely abused as a child" to "i took a shit in my polly pocket basket"
i have heard the electric tooth brush thing a 100000 times. i also did that when i was a child lmaoooo. i am now 27 with a magic wand lmfao. we make progress
Ik this was a year ago but “we make progress” is the best saying to go along with this story😭
@@gh0stlyars0n1st 😂😂😂
You should do a part 2. Idk this vid just felt really comfy and scandalous at the same time. It’s like having a confessional with your friends around a campfire with snuggies ya know
13:06 it seems this is an unfortunate typo/autocorrect situation.
It’s tubal ligation, not tubal litigation. Litigation is to take legal action…
Well, unless you’re suing you’re fallopian tubes…. In that case, please disregard. 😅😂😂😂😂
OMG i didn't even realize the mistake that's so funny😭😭
as a transmasc person with super heavy cycles, i will be suing my fallopian tubes as soon as possible 😌
@@mammoneymelon i support your case. 💜
@@mammoneymelon I’m not a lawyer but I would love to take your case if I could
@@mammoneymelonan I be your advocate? Or "ad-vocato" 🥑 🥲
my lord im a new subscriber and you're already trying to kill me
i choked on a hit when you said "tom and jerry abortion fanfic"
i just. i was not expecting that. i was expecting something kinky.
i'm still quite horrified
@@AnnamarieForcino oh no!
@@AnnamarieForcinoIf it makes you feel better I've read far worst as bedtime stories
I’ve been on an annamarie binge lately, thank you 😌🙏
Cheating while knowing the other person is married is so confusing. What makes the idea of being a homewrecker appealing? As a child affected by an affair growing up, it's hard to understand why you would be okay messing with someone's life like that.
@@botanicalitus4194 I feel like it's not the homewrecker who is blamed per se, it's always the woman. If the homewrecker is a woman, she's blamed, and if the partner who cheats is a woman, she's blamed. If the husband is the cheater, the wife is sometimes blamed for not satisfying his needs. At least that's the message I receive from the media.
@@J_Lynn 100%
I have never been gayer for a new twelve days of Sinmas episode. In a good way.
I meant happy I swear-
We should have a part two of this!! It was really entertaining to hear
Tbh yes, I’d like a chance to add one of my deranged confessions!
@@AllyBarkin ah...
@@AllyBarkin Me too actually!!
"what is miraculous ladybug"
oh my sweet summer child...
THE SHITTING IN A BASKET ONE 😂😂😂
just wanted to say thank you for being one of the funniest ccs i've ever watched. you're a super nice and accepting person and your funniness on top of that makes you a great person to watch
these videos are giving me the serotonin i need for finals
good luck
Fr same
good luck, stranger! just finished mine. T-T
Hello fellow sinners, hope you're doing well today 😊
hello sinner i hope you are too!
likewise!
Why, how do ya do, fellow sinners?
thank you, same to you!!
For those who imagine someone hugging them and telling them everything is ok, try getting a weighted plush. Feels like you have a pet who’s comforting you. I have a weighted Dinosaur, and his name is Carl. I hug him when sad, and it feels nice. Highly recommend
my weighted dinosaur's name is matcha!
i have platonically spooned my friend 😭 we are both in relationships and we just cuddle and fall asleep together. neither of us were uncomfortable about it and i def didn’t have any confusing feelings. i think for the person who sent the confession, if you’re overthinking it like this,,, yea you like ur friend lol
I love these. Even if some are fake or exaggerated, I can’t help but laugh.
Also the truth can be stranger than fiction at times, I truly believe this
12:02 Trust me, as someone with crushes who are married, it’s not worth it. It’s not going to be like ‘Conversations with Friends’. It’s very messy and very complex.
to the ppl that want a hug : i am hugging u virtually right now, it's gonna be ok. also DRINK WATER !
14:18 I have a huge stuffed animal that I hug at night to feel like there’s someone there with me. I have separation anxiety 😅 Just know that you aren’t alone in that ♥️
thanks 🤭
Samezies. I have one of the larger squishmallows. They tend to stay cooler and are super soft.
7:44
Queen/King/Emprex, I think u dropped this 👑
i didn’t know trauma dumping consisted of people actually dumping
crying
For the person that can’t sleep until they pretend there is someone sleeping next to them, get squish mallows and a weighted blanket you will feel nice also play some rain sounds you’ll feel great and at peace
thank you
Or a cat who comes and sits on on top of you can help as well, if youre a cat person and the cat is cuddly in that way.
When i think im in the clear of her reading my depressing @ss confession. Pt 2 will be haunting me.
Oh my god yes I'm afraid kdjclsjd
I both hope she reads mine and don't.
I get the different sex drives thing bc I had a relationship like that. if somebody has a lower libido than you, it's really hard to get them to understand how important regular sex is. Sometimes it's a temporary thing, and sometimes it's an irreconcilable difference because you can't make someone want sex more, but you also can't make yourself want sex less. My ex-boyfriend told me for a year straight that his low libido was temporary bc of xyz, abc, etc, but every time the "issue" holding him back was solved, he came up with a new one, and eventually I just had to face that we weren't compatible. It sucked but it wasn't fair that I was basically involuntarily celibate in a relationship
Exactly, people need to understand that you can't force anyone to do things just because you want to but sex is a need for some people, just like space is a need for others. It's so important to be compatible, wants and needs are different and learn yours but once you know them be true to yourself
This is why I love being poly. Takes so much stress off both of us to be each other's "everything". It's incredibly hard to navigate and requires massive trust, but being able to have multiple relationships that give all of us what we need is so nice.
not to be rude but Master bation is an option??
The 12 days of Sinmas contains much better gifts than all the friggin birds in the 12 days of Christmas.
Ohmyglob, loved how it became an advice column. Freaking loving Sinmas!
Okay, her music isn't all the same, whenever I hear that it immediately tells me that they've only listened to her singles, when she has such better music. But, I do agree everyone is entitled to their opinion, I just Wanted to state my argument as a Swiftie
same, and it confuses me bc give me an example of an artists whose songs don’t all sound the same then
Literally like compare My Tears Ricochet to Picture to Burn. Very different sounding at least to me
THISS. People can think what they want to but they haven't even heard all her songs. Like Shake It Off doesn't sound like Would've Could've Should've or Cornelia Street lmao.
I know this is somewhat old but exactly! I was the exact same way until I started listening to more of her songs.
8:57 thank you SO MUCH for the trigger warning I needed that
The 12 year old with the 18 year men fighting over her reminds me of me. I was 12 when the same thing happened, on a dance team field trip. The scary part was one of the guys got my address and started sending me love letters. My parents knew none of this. I’m so lucky nothing creepier than just letters happened.
So nice to see an new episode of Sinmas. Confessions are very dicey because you never know what might haunt you. People are weird, yes.
I’m here for the Confessions Lottery 😂
I would love it if this became a series
Awwwww... I got in expecting to laugh at how weird we can all be sometimes, and yet...
Hope you're all doing great/better and have an happy Holiday/Winter time! ☃🌃🌟🌠🎉
Thanks for another superb video, Annamarie! 🥰💜💙💚💛❤
I hope you read more, these were so entertaining! Realizing now the secret I submitted (stoned at 4am,) was unnecessarily long and um... sorry bestie
bro that gay panic is so relatable, except it seems like they have an actual non toxic relationship lmao imagine
14:35 Among Bengalis, we have this thing called ‘Paash Baalish’ (Body Pillow). Great for Sad Singletons.
for the person with the story abt wetting themself at a sleepover, i had a sleepover for my 12th birthday. at which there were about 7 of us. one of my best friends at the time wet themself, or i believe they did. when i woke up, they had changed and moved where they were and the spot on the couch where they were was wet and smelled like pee. when i realized what happened, i didn’t even mention it. all i did was make sure i cleaned my couch so no one would notice. i never even told my parents. people who are your friends don’t care about accidents like that. stuff happens. we get it.
17:28 THE WAY IT KEPT GETTING WORSE
big fan of “tubal litigation” and that is how i will be referring to it from now on lol
19:00 me and one of my friends (who is also a guy) spoon eachother. We’re just friends. We both are cuddly people and he is the only person I can cuddle without feeling weird about it (like in an embarrassing way, and not including my dads ex gf, who I am close with like she’s a second mother to me) plus he offered first when we started doing it (I’ve stayed at his house multiple weekends) and we both feel comfortable doing it. Although I guess we’re pretty much friends with benefits because we have done things (I’m not gonna get into detail, obviously) And we don’t really feel attraction to each other either
The one about the friends spooning is so funny cuz that really is the socially awkward lesbian experience "we made out and held hands and stared into each others eyes lovingly but idk if she's into me-"
I feel really uncomfortable hearing a lot of these experiences! I didn’t expect to hear childhood trauma mixed in with funny stories
STOP I WASN'T EXPECTING TO SEE MINE HERE IM PEEING MYSELF
14:18
don't worry because i can relate
i relate to u SM !
it's okay man you're just like me fr
@@mammoneymelon come here mafuyu chan
Mine was read and it took a minute to realize it was mine, just sat there like," oh someone else who has similar story! .... wait...that's me" 😆 🤣 I can laugh about it now though so it's cool
your fit is extra fire today! also, some of these confessions are sending me
"I don't personally spoon with my friends" top 10 quote of all time
2:29 Why have i read the same fanfic??? Help lol
btw- do y'all remember the zootropolis abortion comic with antichoice nick wild. that was wild
my friend told me about the zootopia one last year and i have not been the same since
NO NOT THE ZOOTOPIA FIC
me and annamarie have the same birthday lol ✨️
anyway I love the confession style of video, very much enjoying sinmas :)
Thanking you keeping us fed during these trying times🙏
i kinda knew someone who actually DID use the brush end. we were movie star planet friends lmao, but she told me she would use water on the bristles and diddle the fiddle. it was a christmas gift from her parents which made it worse
7:30 is so sad. my boyfriends mom is the same and he’s really struggled because of it. he has schizophrenia too and they think he’s faking it. my heart goes out to anyone who has to go through that
3:04 LMAO i did exact same thing with my friends during afterschool hours and read the same fanfiction lmaoo
2:23 is so real
I need a part two this is giving me so much tea and I love it
I feel like you and mr Beard could make such a funny video together hahah
Ooh! She did say tomorrow we'll get a special guest! Cross our fingers then!
this vid made me look up the tom and jerry thing and now im traumatized 😭😭
the funniest thing abt the polly pocket basket shit was that their preface about the toilets was incoherent so we don’t know WHAT circumstances led to this
9:07 YO THEY LIVED MY FANTASY GOOD FOR THEM!!! I hope the killing didn't effect them *too much* mentally, they deserve peace and the bastard doesn't deserve to take more of a toll on her ❤
Me listening to "mirrorball" thinking that it's "shake it off": 🕺🏻🕺🏻
fr i hate when people say all her music sounds the same like tf you mean. they probably have listened to like 5 of her pop songs.
…flashback to the time when your friend group all spooned each other unironically …
I remember the first time I fell asleep on my friend and they enjoyed it and was confused if we were crushing on each other or not. very relatable tbh.
Literally the best !! PLEASE make like so many of these
CAN WE PLEASE HAVE THIS BE A SERIES
Part two! Part two! Part two!
take advantage of the form! do several parts of this because its hilarious
16:01 goes boom
I am making drawing gifts for my online friends, I'm going to shock them on the 24th with a few tags.
I haven't really had friends before and the fact I have so many now is making me giddy, I want to show them my love as they make living more worth while. My love language is gift giving and we're all artists so it feels appropriate doing so
The toothbrush lady brought me memories of a friend I had about 10+ years ago - she was just entering her horny teen stage, so her sharing about the toothbrush will never leave my head, as I was two years younger, still never thinking about sex yet but always listening her thoughts. [That was my first crush, actually, and never told her] I have never met another person that happened using toothbrush (at least for what they've told) and when she shared it I had the same exact questions, I'll still do - it is common sense to think about those at least 2 things. Vicky, is that you? ..Imagine that situation how she learns about my feelings back than by reading this and having instant flash back - what a perfect sense it will make in her mind, finishing with that realisation that I actually ended up being a lesbian.
She wasn't there when that last one happened:D
When I was really young, I used to drink toilet water and I thought it was so awesome. I showed basically everyone who came to my house not my greatest moments.
So glad to know my story ended up here.
But yes infact do not shit in boxes anymore, do not fret!
Lmao. Wait did you say your dad thought you were married
@@mediocre_fig Yeaaah sorta. He has an ongoing delusion that we are destined to get married, in heaven, I believe. It's actually like sorta fucked me up for a long time, sadly.
Even worse seeing as I can't remember the last time he was more mentally sound or was a good father when we had a great relationship. Still feel a level of guilt because of how much it's strained our relationship.
@@Tinfilladey omg I'm so sorry that's terrible
@@mediocre_fig Yeah, but I think it's getting better? I mean, I know as I get older I'll have more control over seeing him and stuff. Plus, I've begun to try and find humor in the situation. To me, if I just laugh about it, and make it into a sorta Inside joke with myself it sorta makes it more bearable.
"Hope I didn't cringe you to death" 😂😂😂
Omg please make this a series 😭
This has been the best Sinmas ever getting new Annamarie videos on the daily 🤩🤩🎁🎄🎅🥰!!! Thanks for your hard work and dedication to making your viewers have happy holiday’s!
Who needs an advent calendar when i have this
I’m very scared of giving confessions because you never know who’s watching 😂
19:49 i mean i dont spoon friends im barely comfortable with them hugging me but i wouldnt say that it’s strictly something romantic, im sure there are many people who are just friends that spoon eachother platonically
basically im saying people can do many affectionate things and have it still be platonic
i mean theres literally people who kiss and make out platonically
"spooning and falling asleep on each other doesn't sound like something just friends would do"
Me, who did that with all my friends until I was like 21 and lost all my friends: oh...
Me, remembering I was the only straight kid in my cool queer girl friend group: ... oh
Anyone who rates another human being peaked in highschool
i love sinmas so much, it was a great idea. and happy holidays.... great gift :) you are amazing
13:40 i had a huge crush on one of my best friends last summer. We’re both the same sex and we’re both bi so I knew there was potential. However I also was sure they didn’t see me the same way so I didn’t want to bring up the crush and potentially ruined our friendship.
Months later, my crush went away when I started seeing someone of the opposite sex. While dating them, I finally confessed to my friend that I had had a huge crush on them last summer. It just felt right and I wanted closure. They responded that they had known all along and thanked me for respecting boundaries.
We’re still very good friends to this day
I dont know how people can say all Taylor's songs sound the same, I'd get saying all the songs on one album sound the same but all of them? Idk, I just think y'all haven't actually listened to a lot of her songs/gen (said with love, I am not fighting y'all you are allowed to not like her music)
Kik was definitely essential lol😂
This is literally the best video ever, you are just awesome
are we... all just going to ignore how someone LITERALLY confessed to murder??? 9:00
i’ve had unrestricted internet access for as long as i can remember and wow, i’ve seen things
I’m almost always of the opinion you should be honest about your feeling for someone, but especially in the case of that last person. From experience, if they don’t reciprocate you both might need some time apart to recalibrate and set boundaries your friendship going forward. But, honestly, living in a between state of not knowing means you continue to excruciatingly pine. Better to know so you can a) get together and be happy or b) start getting over it and have an honest, healthy friendship. I’ve been on both sides of this and am still friends with both my former crush and the person who had a crush on me. Friendships are just as important as romantic relationships, and it’s just as possible to go from a crush to platonic love as from platonic to crush.
*editing to add because IMPORTANT: if the crush doesn’t reciprocate you CANNOT hold it against them (they can’t control who they are attracted to) and you cannot hold onto to the hope they will change their mind. That’s unfair to both of you.
I suffer from incontinence. It's debilitating. If ur reading this and u suffer with this condition, ur not alone and u shouldn't feel ashamed💗
F ableism!
14:00 I'm thinking maybe if it was done in a silly/casual way rather than emotional and heartfelt, it could work out! Like I honestly wouldn't bat an eye at a friend of mine I'd been friend with for years telling me they used to have a little crush on me, especially if it's obvious the feelings are in the past.