After a long day of praying for the ability to let go, this came at the very exact moment I knew I was letting go of someone very special to me. It was a gift. We are in this together and we're never alone. Thank you, thank you so much for this beautiful moment.
Incredible...it took this man's suffering and practice to discover this question within himself. The question and answer resonated with me deeply and helped me heal. Thank you!
i struggle with letting go. my wounded child constantly feels not good enough and not worthy. she wants validation and love so desperately. i keep looking for this love outside of myself and keep getting even more hurt. it is so hard to stop these habits.
Aww this is so beautiful. Amazing how the work transforms us. I love how aware Scott is of what is happening for him. Can completely relate to this. I've been searching for love especially romantic love mt whole life. I find it quite regularly but it always ends... It's my most painful lesson. I just want someone to accept me and keep loving me... I realise that person is myself. And it seems the more work I put in the harder the lessons are. I keep attracting people more wounded than myself and having to let them go 💖🙏
I am so grateful for the humility and courage of this man to share his little child within. I have carried along my little child story all my life. And when the brother says, we hold on - tell another story I agree. At times I feel this non-self relatedness and there is no woundedness. In romantic/intimate relationships here is where I have found myself having to pass through all of the painful emotions from my childhood. I always find myself abandoned/neglected/not worthy/unloved. I wonder if it is better I focus my energy on practice and renunciate these kinds of relationships? I need the strength of practice to renunciate/live a life of celibacy. I believe I will have to keep on going through them until I do, finally let go. And if I don't renunciate - how do I go about causing as little harm as I can? in this process?
Très émue par ce témoignage. Beaucoup de personnes vivent cette expérience mais Scott a eu le courage de l’exposer avec franchise, lucidité et simplicité . Merci Scott 🌷🙏 Merci pour la sagesse et bienveillance de vos réponses avec une touche d’humour .😊 💝🙏
This is a lovely and powerful post and one I think so many of us share with Scott for different reasons with different levels of impact on ourselves. Really lovely post, thank you for your strength in sharing your vulnerability. Indeed nearly all of us are wounded children inside. Lovely advice and the biggest thing to do is to talk, talk and talk as it helps you and helps others to open up and realise its not just them that are struggling. I hope your in a better place now Scott where ever that may be and what ever you are doing. Big love and deep joy 🙏
Did anybody else think the second monk subtly told Scott to move on from plum village at 10:50, especially taking into consideration how he later spoke about changing his story. I totally agree with the second monk, Scott needs to change his story and move on, from what the second monk said, he seems to have gone through the transformation he needed. He spent several years working on his 5 years old self, but we remain 5 years old for only one year. I hope Scott is well. May all beings be well :)
When people say goodbye to me That means that I can’t love them And they are leaving because I haven’t been able to love them This expresses so precisely why I feel the pain of separation and letting go
Thanks for the q&a. Tbh, I think it might be somewhat clearer to use less words, and choose them more carefully, mindfully (in the second part of the answer). For me, I got lost with the speed, all the compliments made and referrals to mother, father, mother earth, etc, and little explanation for the audience. Anyway, good vibes, thanks for your wonderful channel💛
Basis of Budhism is reincarnation and law of karma . The necessity of Budhism is impermanence sufferings and concept of no soul . Budhism guide us to stay in human world and heavens until final stage is attained 🙏🙏🙏
Easy,…have your voicemail greeting as follows: “Hi, thanks for calling. I’ve decided to make some changes, please feel free to leave a message but note: if I don’t call you back,..it means you are one of those changes,..goodbye”
After a long day of praying for the ability to let go, this came at the very exact moment I knew I was letting go of someone very special to me. It was a gift. We are in this together and we're never alone. Thank you, thank you so much for this beautiful moment.
This is such a beautiful video. I hope Scott knows how much good he did to the world through his vulnerability and openness.
Thankyou Scott for asking the question. I see the needy in me. 🙏
I want to love freely too without making people feeling caught or me feeling caught. Thank you for sharing
I can relate wholly to Scott. May we find refuge in ourselves and learn to let go. 🙏.
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Such a blessing that I found this video🙏🏻
Incredible...it took this man's suffering and practice to discover this question within himself. The question and answer resonated with me deeply and helped me heal. Thank you!
Yes me too 💖
i struggle with letting go. my wounded child constantly feels not good enough and not worthy. she wants validation and love so desperately. i keep looking for this love outside of myself and keep getting even more hurt. it is so hard to stop these habits.
I could have written all of this myself. Yes, it’s hard to change all of this.
Thank you for sharing. Love you Scott. You're a beautiful soul❤
Aww this is so beautiful. Amazing how the work transforms us. I love how aware Scott is of what is happening for him. Can completely relate to this. I've been searching for love especially romantic love mt whole life. I find it quite regularly but it always ends... It's my most painful lesson. I just want someone to accept me and keep loving me... I realise that person is myself. And it seems the more work I put in the harder the lessons are. I keep attracting people more wounded than myself and having to let them go 💖🙏
This one makes me cry.
Me too...
@@isabellefaubert940 me too, makes you want to put your arms around him and comfort him.
@@gerrievanderlee4701 yes and we'd all cry together really hard. And then we would be sorted 💕💕💕💕💕
@@isabellefaubert940 are you sarcastic?
@@gerrievanderlee4701 sometimes yes (in life) but not with what I just wrote. I feel like that at the moment...
Thank you for sharing, thank you for allowing your vulnerability, thank you for the teaching.
Congratulations, Scott. What a transformation, mate. That is the result of decades of intense psychotherapy with the best practitioners. Very cool.
This was beautiful. I needed this. Letting go is necessary for growth for yourself and others. Holding on to stories only hurt us
Dear thay, dear sangha and all other living beings, thank U for Sharing this with US. 🙏
Yes...freedom to go or to stay. Thank you to everyone making me feel that way. ❤
Learn to tell a new story...I needed to hear this. ❤👏
I am so grateful for the humility and courage of this man to share his little child within. I have carried along my little child story all my life. And when the brother says, we hold on - tell another story I agree. At times I feel this non-self relatedness and there is no woundedness. In romantic/intimate relationships here is where I have found myself having to pass through all of the painful emotions from my childhood. I always find myself abandoned/neglected/not worthy/unloved. I wonder if it is better I focus my energy on practice and renunciate these kinds of relationships? I need the strength of practice to renunciate/live a life of celibacy. I believe I will have to keep on going through them until I do, finally let go. And if I don't renunciate - how do I go about causing as little harm as I can? in this process?
Très émue par ce témoignage. Beaucoup de personnes vivent cette expérience mais Scott a eu le courage de l’exposer avec franchise, lucidité et simplicité . Merci Scott 🌷🙏
Merci pour la sagesse et bienveillance de vos réponses avec une touche d’humour .😊 💝🙏
Amazingly beautiful talks. ❤️💗❤️💗 I have accepted the fact my mom’s passing 13 years ago painfully, I am still missing my mom every day. 😢
Me too it made me cry and feel such love
This is a lovely and powerful post and one I think so many of us share with Scott for different reasons with different levels of impact on ourselves. Really lovely post, thank you for your strength in sharing your vulnerability. Indeed nearly all of us are wounded children inside. Lovely advice and the biggest thing to do is to talk, talk and talk as it helps you and helps others to open up and realise its not just them that are struggling. I hope your in a better place now Scott where ever that may be and what ever you are doing. Big love and deep joy 🙏
What a dear man asking the question. So blessed to find this video. Truly awesome🌿
Yes..it’s a beautiful sharing..thanks Scott..u have so much love in u
how fortunate for him to be there
Such a beautiful video. May we all learn to truly love and accept ourselves. May peace and love prevail on earth.
Beautiful story from Scott. Wonderful sharing & teaching from Brother & Sister. Thank you so much
Really touched by this. Thank you beautiful souls.
🧡 Lovely sweet humble man. Thank you to all who spoke. 🧡 When you’re forced to let go, you have to let go. You have no other choice. 🧡
Very good question and wise answers! Very uplifting!
I’m so glad I’ve made it here.
I am so grateful to have heard this. Thank you🙏🏽
We are all ONE. Thank you 🙏
Powerful teaching ,thanks to you Scott,be blessed .love yourself!
This is so beautiful sharing, thank you! Thank you Scott for being so brave to show your vulnerability.
Thank you Scott for bringing this subject up!
So moving. Scott, you’ve put in the work and you’re awesome. Thank you for sharing ❤️🙏
I have similar feeling...
A little attachment is ok :D
Thank you all so much for this beautiful talk! Felt it deeply
Such an important topic...
感谢有中文字幕！
Here is difficult in not only to say goodbye, but after to be open for saying Hello
Did anybody else think the second monk subtly told Scott to move on from plum village at 10:50, especially taking into consideration how he later spoke about changing his story. I totally agree with the second monk, Scott needs to change his story and move on, from what the second monk said, he seems to have gone through the transformation he needed. He spent several years working on his 5 years old self, but we remain 5 years old for only one year. I hope Scott is well. May all beings be well :)
Beautiful conversation..
When people say goodbye to me
That means that I can’t love them
And they are leaving because I haven’t been able to love them
This expresses so precisely why I feel the pain of separation and letting go
What a great video
What a beautiful and precious sharing, what wonderful answers, thank you 💖
Wow, the question's so amazingly put that it seems to answer itself :O
Thank you so much for this. I wept.
Scott, Thank you for being brave and vulnerable in asking this question. May I ask who is answering the question?
Dear Melissa, it's Dharma teacher Sister Tuệ Nghiêm plumvillage.org/monastics/dharma-teachers/sr-tue-nghiem/ 🙏
Thanks for the q&a.
Tbh, I think it might be somewhat clearer to use less words, and choose them more carefully, mindfully (in the second part of the answer).
For me, I got lost with the speed, all the compliments made and referrals to mother, father, mother earth, etc, and little explanation for the audience.
Anyway, good vibes, thanks for your wonderful channel💛
take care of yourself, Scott!
Hermoso video, cómo está hoy Scott? Se nota su belleza interior. Graciass
Ich bedanke mich bei euch allen von ❤
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Basis of Budhism is reincarnation and law of karma . The necessity of Budhism is impermanence sufferings and concept of no soul . Budhism guide us to stay in human world and heavens until final stage is attained 🙏🙏🙏
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Thanks
Where is plum village location
France
Easy,…have your voicemail greeting as follows:
“Hi, thanks for calling. I’ve decided to make some changes, please feel free to leave a message but note: if I don’t call you back,..it means you are one of those changes,..goodbye”
That was beautiful but happy farm sounds a bit like a cult. Do you guys grow your own food there?
Seems a bit like it. But people are free to leave as I understand it, which makes it not a cult.
It is painful to see so much mental illness,…may God’s Grace somehow find you and remove you from this false narrative and false doctrine
This video is one of my favorite ones
Sister ngieu tu,love to you.sympatetic face,lovely