Doing What's Right For You.
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- Опубликовано: 29 июл 2024
- I wanted to have an honest chat about something that I believe is so important: listening to your gut and finding the courage to do what's right for you. I hope this message finds you well xx
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I always told my daughter that dating is really just trying on other people to see if they fit. Take the time to know them and when someone is right for you, there is no doubt. It just "feels" right. If you fake yourself to get them, you cannot sustain that, no matter how cute they are, without getting an ulcer or something. So be yourself and never settle for sorta ok, on this one way trip in life, because that only keeps both of you away from true happiness and that is a real tragedy.
You are absolutely right. Thank you for sharing the wisdom you passed onto your daughter! She's lucky to have a mom like you :)
This is exactly what I needed to read... thank you
I want to watch more of this kind of videos. You are my biggest inspire recently and you made a big impact in my life. I am going through the same thing right now, ive been in this toxic relationship for 1,5 year and finally i am able to let it go. We broke up with him for the thousandth time today but the difference is that, i am not willing to be back. Ive been always scared to see what would my life look like without him and always ended up being with him. But I feel more gratitude than pain this time that we are not together. Whenever that sad feelings come, i just tell myself “ everything will be okay at the end” like you said. I trust your words Meghan. And I can let go of this toxic person for me. I can be happy even happier without him in fact. Life is beautiful.
I need some more tips on how to keep busy and not focus on being alone.
Thank you for the video
Dang… I’m watching this a year after it was made, but man oh man this is meant for me right now!!!! I’ve been dealing with some real indecisiveness in my life, and know what I need to do, but am too scared to do it! You hit the nail on the head. I just need to make that leap!!!
YES! Trust me. You got this. Whatever it is, you'll be a-okay. I promise!
Moving on from my last toxic relationship honestly healed me inside and out. I thought the world was over, but as those weeks passed, I realized that my health and emotional well-being was WAY more important than any boy will ever be. I can truly say that I’m happier than I’ve ever been, and it’s because I’m finally taking care of myself and doing what’s right for me for once. Loved this video, Meghan ❤️ I needed that extra reassurance boost.
Hi Katie! Good for you for prioritizing your well being and knowing what you needed to do. I'm happy this video was able to provide reassurance! :) xoxo
You are so right! It is awesome that you have realized this at your age. It took me almost 50 years to learn this. You hit the nail on the head. This is one of the most important videos that I’ve watched. I can only hope whoever needs to see this will. Great video 👍🏻
Thank you so much Patricia. Hugs xoxo
Everything always works out in the end. If it hasn't worked out, it's not the end. Wonderful video and a message I needed to hear today. ❤️
Love this quote. xx
Meghan life has its ups and downs, what is meant for you won't pass you by. You're learning fast and that takes guts. Well done. I'm 61 and only now learning to become much more assertive and not accept shoddy treatment from anyone. I was and still am a people pleaser, probably too kind but once that's taken for granted or someone over steps the mark, I'll let them know I'm not impressed nicely. Does this make sense. Maybe you could put it better than me in a video. Thanks, jx
I absolutely know what you mean Joan! Good for you for learning to stand your ground. Being assertive is important, and I know how tricky it can be as a "people-pleaser"! xoxo
I am still in the process of learning how to be assertive. Thank you for sharing.
Our gut instinct comes from our solar plexus chakra, which acts as the guardian of our energy system. When a situation is misaligned with our values, we can feel a knot or tension in that area. Sometimes though I find that fear triggers my gut/solar plexus as well, so it's important to distinguish whether fear or misaligned values are triggering our gut. For example, does fear of losing a relationship trigger our gut or does incompalibility trigger it? It's tricky sometimes but ultimately we know deep down what we must do. I listen to my heart when all else fails.
Yesss Meghan! So proud of you for being so brave. That is such a victory. I love this message and cherish your heart and wisdom. So excited for you and what lies ahead!😍💖✨✨
Thank you so much for your support! BIG hugs xoxoxo
I love coming back to this video when I need it. It is going to be ok. I can do this.
Thank you for your transparency, honesty, and counsel! I, too, suffered through a broken engagement. I am happy to report that I’ve been married for 34 years to the man that God provided for me. It has been a difficult road in many ways, but my husband was just what I needed to grow and develop into the person I am today. Stronger, wiser. God bless you! 💜
Meghan, you have no idea how much I needed this video at this very moment of my life. God used your video to comfort me. Thank you for not waiting until the end of the year to give this message. I'm so thankful you are on RUclips. You're a blessing to me.
Hi Jen, I am so happy to hear this message came your way at just the right time. Big, big hugs!! xx
It's so refreshing to watch a genuine, transparent person speak, not another self absorbed, fake wanna be......... Never change......
Thank you for sharing your wonderful message Meghan!
Thank you, Meghan! Needed to hear this 🌞
great words of encouragement that I needed to be reminded this week
This message couldn't have come at a better time in my life! Thank you
I heard a teenage (hasppy) mom saying - if you do not want to have kids with this person, stop dating them. You never know.
I step upon this video day after gaving up my job. Yes.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom about believing in yourself. There's nothing more important than fostering that healthy, non judgmental relationship with ourselves and accepting that whatever we decide, that in the end it really does always work out. Keep the faith✌🏼
I am glad that things are working out in your favor. I do not know you, but I wanted to say that I am proud of you for making what sounds like a not so natural/straightforward step in your life. Continue with on the path that you are on. I pray many blessings for you.
I have made my head so clear after watching this video but not only about relationships but also about decision making .Thank you for making this video .
Amazing, I think the same things, I just have to remember this more often
Thank you for sharing beautiful Meghan... and for the gentle encouragement to carry on listening to that place inside that knows.... 🙏 I can so relate to what you shared.... Much love to you sweet, beautiful human being. X
This video was so timely! Thank you for your message Meghan. You are so inspiring :)
I really needed this! I have to make a big decision soon and I just don't know what I should do... Anyhow, thank you for your inspiring videos 🧡
I needed this SO much! Thank you Thank you! you are such an inspiration and every time I watch your videos I feel so comforted
I am so happy this message resonated with you!! Big hugs xoxo
Good for you for following your gut Meghan! Wishing you all the best in life and love.
Thank you so much :)
just found your channel and thank God I did! I needed to hear this message today and thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Excellent video. So inspiring.
Meghan, I cannot even tell you how much I needed to hear this. You moved me to tears. Your sincerity, warmth and kindness helps so much. I will save this video to help me through this time. Thank you for being here. I needed these words. What a blessing.
I am so beyond happy that this message has been able to help you. Thank you for listening and for being here! Big hugs ❤
Thank you Megan for sharing this message. I recently when through a breakup. It hurt at first but after a short time I felt better because I started doing things that made me happy. Love your messages and you are always inspiring me.
Breakups are never easy! I'm with you on that! But it always gets better and I'm glad you've been able to find happiness :)
Thank you for opening up and sharing this personal story with us! I was in a toxic relationship that ended this past spring & I'm still having a hard time getting over it even though I know it was what I had to do for my own well-being. Hearing things like this helps me to remember that I made the right choice given the circumstances.
Hi Jess! I know how hard it is. Good for you for knowing what you needed to do. Good things are on the horizon :)
Beautiful video! 💗
Congratulations on making it through! I know you are going to be okay ... all is well for you. Repeat it often ... I appreciate your heartfelt video. :)
This could not have come at a better time. I left a difficult, complicated, toxic relationship and I related to everything you described in this video. Thanks for making me feel like I'm not alone in what I'm living and for making inspiring, awesome content!
I know how hard it is and I'm so happy I was able to help in some way! xoxo
megan, when things don´t follow smoothly, we feel things don´t match. follow ur heart and be happy !
Woww soo inspiring!! I am new around here and it is so great to see people like you on this platform doing the right things, and for the right reason!! Thank you for being you!
Thank you for your support!! Big hugs.
Creating room in your heart is one of the best things you can do for yourself! ❤️
I agree! :)
Don’t know how to say but i’m really thank of your video. I’ve been think about what you think and i don’t know which is right or not to have such a thought like that.
Thanks for this vid, I know when I rely on God and dig deep in prayer and my relationship with him my life has better direction! God’s my rock
NaturallyBree Amen!
Meghan you're so so wright. Many thanks for being open and share your story with us. Your words are holding the wisdom. We should alwayslisten to our gut.
Great message, so good for you to realize how you feel deep inside, before moving on. It is so important to feel good inside and know you made the right decision. Best of luck in all you do, love your videos.
Thanks very much Beth :)
Thanks for this 💛
awesome! just what I needed!
Wow just what I needed especially today. I cannot agree more. Thank you!!
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Rarely find a woman I relate to, especially one so bubbly lol. You are awesome and keeping away the "lonely's" here through out my healing. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. You are gorgeous on the outside AND in. True beauty. You inspire me.
Thank you so much, I'm really happy to hear you were able to relate to the message in this video! Thank you so much for your kindness ❤
Great message! I left a relationship that wasn’t right for me. As soon as that change came I met my husband! Taking the risk of changing direction into a direction that feels right is one of those character building moments. Thanks for sharing x
It really does build character! To this day I'm blown away by the wonderful things that came into my life after making the decision I made. xx
Thankyou sooo much for this...i felt like you said my story!!!!
Aww I'm sooo happy you could relate to this!! Thank you so much for watching and listening xoxoxo
Meghan, I COMPLETELY relate. This time last year I was completely fixed on moving to another province. Everything seemed to be pushing me to make that decision and it honestly felt like fate. When it actually did happen I had this overwhelming feeling that it was wrong and I needed to be closer to home and to my family. In the end it was one of the most difficult choices I have ever had to make but I feel so grateful that I listened to my gut. Things still aren't perfect, but I can trust that I am on the right path, the one that is right for me. I find that the major benefit we can achieve from listening to our inner voice is that we come to realize what we truly value above everything else. If we pursue the things that really matter to us, we will always be moving in the right direction. Thank you so much for this video and for always creating content that is true to you! 🙏🏼
I completely agree. Listening to our inner voice really does help us realize our values, and it's always the right direction if it feels right and matters to us. Thank you for sharing and I'm so happy you could relate to this message! xoxoxoxo
Thank you for this video Meghan, it seemed to arrive just when needed. I am struggling to decide my academic path. I left high school one year earlier because social anxiety was making it really hard to go, there or anywhere else. I figured I could have a mental health year and come back after that, but my parents thought i was just rebelious and I ended up taking care of the house. Depression and an eating disorder came after that, but my social anxiety seemed to be getting better. After thinking it way too long, I decided I wanted to go back to high school, the issue was that I had to start all over again. Me being 18 going back to first year of high school. I convinced myself it was the right thing to do, and now, four months into high school, I don't know anymore. I've been dealing with a lot of anxiety, and a couple panic attacks. Just found out i also have ADD. I know all of that is meant to be treated separately, and to be honest, school is quite pleasant. But a part of me feels like, the effort and the money put into it is not worth it. Like I'm too much in my comfort zone. Like I'm just sipping information. And I can't really relate to my classmates anymore. I don't know if I really want to do this. I can make an exam in a couple months to get my high school certificate and go to college, I just would have to study a lot harder during those preparation months. And decide on my career choice, which is another thing that's still unclear. Please, if you could give me some advice I'd really appreciate it. Sorry this was extremely long. Thank you for your videos.
Samantha Am hi there! I know exactly how you feel. Can you get your grade 12 by doing online classes or GED? In this day and age, you can get your grade 12 without even entering a school. Once you accomplish your grade 12, you will feel more confident in yourself to do the next best step. I understand social anxiety is hard but is it only really bad when you go to school or even when you go to restaurants, malls etc?
Megan, I think this video showed up today to me because I really needed to hear words like yours. Almost two years I work somewhere I know I don't belong to for long time. But I don't have a courage to quit. Last few months were very hard for me. I was on sick leave I couldn't stay there. I am 36 and I search for my path. But I feel so strongly I cannot stay anymore in this place, every day there is a struggle for me. Yesterday afternoon I almost makde a decision I am going to quit tomoroow (it means today). I decided to get up a little earlier and think a little, watch one your video and make a decision. And I found this, like a little miracle. I heard words I needed to hear. More than anything I wanted to feel my choice is right because it is mine and I know place where I am now only stops me for doing...what is right for me.
Megan, thank you for content you create. I would like you to know you are someone special, you make me wiser and more confident. I wish you to always be a person like you are. Thank you so much! :*
Hmmm I guess the universe is sending me a message since this is in my recommended. Thank you SO much for sharing your personal situation, it helps me know you’re real ya know. Listen to your gut, this is the second video I’m hearing you say it. And yes, this is so on point.
I always, like ALWAYS watch this video when I’m feeling down, and it ALWAYS make me feel better.
Me too! This is probably the 5th time I’m watching it. I just need some support right now. Hoping you’re well too.
@@surfnyolly I'm much better now!! Thank you! I hope you are too!
You always seem to have the right video at the right time.
Wow, Meghan, this was so inspiring! Thank you!!
You're so welcome ❤ ❤
Like I said on one of your IG posts.... You are just SO genuine and down to Earth!! Thank you for sharing and encouraging the rest of us.
Sandra, thank you so much. And thank you for being here!! :)
Thank you so much for this
You're welcome!!
This video was everything I needed to hear right now. Thank you so much for being so geniune and yourself, all the love and more ❤️❤️❤️
And thank you for being here!! I'm so happy I was able to help ❤
YES GIRL
Absolutely :)
I’m glad you found peace and happiness in your life. I hope you continue to follow your instincts and make great choices! I think 2018 will really be your year to shine!
Sarah! It's so nice to hear from you, thank you SO much. I'm excited for more great things in 2018 :-) I hope you're doing well! xoxo
I love you.. you have suchhh a sweet tender heart and it comes out in everything you share on video. You are a very brave courageous inspirational young soul. Please continue in your work. Continue speaking the truths you are learning. So many can be touched and blessed by them xoxo
Thank you so so so much for your kindness. It means a lot ❤
YES
Service as a way of life, is the only sure way to be happy... bad people can't be happy... always be nice...
I’m going through a very similar situation, Meghan. And I needed to hear all that. Thank you! And much peace to you! :-)
Sending lots of love your way! Everything always works out in the end. :)
Meghan Livingstone Thank you, Meghan! =*
So calm and stress free as always, Meghan! I love the message within the video here today and I appreciate your insight as I have come to this very near and dear decision within the past couple of years to continue to follow my gut feeling and I have yet to regret a serious decision so far! :)
Blessings,
Austin Sutton
Thanks for being here, Austin :)
There are many people in toxic relationships these days! Your such a brave person God bless!😇
Thank you so much! xoxo
Thankyou for sharing such a moving video
Thank you very much for listening :)
thank you! you made this video at the right time
Big hugs to you Reggina! Glad you enjoyed this chat :)
You are a darling Meghan ✨
Absolutely
Thank you for this video! I needed to hear this and have recently found mysel fin a similar situation... my only question is how do you know which choice is right? ...
I know that you’ve uploaded this a year ago, but as I am on the process of making huge changes on my life that will completely alter my future, I really needed to listen to this. I believe that seeing this video on my feed this morning was some sign that I must do it no matter how hard it might seem. A huge thank you ❤️ (PS: I have been binge watching your videos, your channel has everything I look for)
bviula hi there!! I am SO happy this video resonated with you. If it weren’t for making the difficult choices I had to make and going through some tough stuff, I wouldn’t be as happy and fulfilled as I am today.
An old co-worker from when I was going through all this gave me a quote and it’s one of my favourites:
“It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.”
You got this ❤️
Meghan Livingstone thank you so much! 🙏🏻❤️ this made my day
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Thank you for this ^_^^_^^_^
Yeah your right things in this world not easy but when I watch this your video. . I'm open up . .
Again thank you..Ms.Meghan🙂🙂
Thank you so much I'm really trying to do something I need to make my future so much brighter just so scared to do what's best for me and get out of the comfortable suffering thank you this helped so much wish me luck I'm going to make the call
Sending you big, big hugs!! Xoxo :)
Yes to this! Have you ever listened to the jess lively podcast? It's all about this!
I haven't! But I am so interested to, thank you so much for telling me about it!
This relationship is also, not right for me. I am strong to go on my own again.
Love the sweater! Is it wool?
You're a sweetie
Thank you for listening :-)
So much truth here.
*Sits down on one knee*
Will you marr...😄
what about when you feel so disconnected that you can't hear your own gut anymore :(
I’m glad I click on your video..
You seemed to of talked around your situation. Are you not with Sean?
Yes I am still with Sean! This video is about a past experience.
I think you would really like the book “Anatomy of the Spirit” by Caroline myss
Ohh thanks for sharing! I'll look into it :)
So are you in the mist of making a hard decision that you know is best for you or have you already made such decision? What is happening in your life right now that is stirring up these feelings? Just wondering because it appears you are concerned or bothered by something. Just an observation. Hope all works out for you!
Is this how you still feel?
Meghan I realise u have some of us muslim followers
Then i thought wow ur way of thinking is actualy very similar to Muslim way of thinking
Simple, pure life
In a good way
I really like the way you think
Beautiful posotive but at the same time real ♡
Hi there! Thanks so much for listening. I'm glad you enjoyed this chat. :)
This partner didn’t work out. That’s okay. As a Pagan, we believe in hand fasting. For a period of a year and a day, a couple commits to each other. At the end of the time, vows can be renewed. Marriage, while okay for 50% of people ( the other 50% hire lawyers), is largely a money grab by first, the church and now by the wedding industry. For those who say a year and a day doesn’t give stability to children, my relationship lasted 30 years, saw all three kids go to university and provided more happiness than it did tears. All done without the need of payment to a religious institution or going into heavy debt.