Managers vs Firefighters - 2 Types of Protectors in IFS (Internal Family System Model)

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  • Опубликовано: 18 дек 2024

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  • @stevenjtodd4368
    @stevenjtodd4368 3 года назад +8

    Thanks for your easy to understand demonstration of this. I have just started with a therapist who facilitates ifs and emdr. It's absolutely changing my life.

  • @samdung5630
    @samdung5630 3 года назад +4

    You do a GREAT job of explaining these topics, in addition to having a lovely, soothing voice and a great accent.

  • @ju9piter
    @ju9piter Год назад

    Great video. I notice that I've learned more about IFS from people who practice it, then I have from Dick Schwartz. Dick is great, but his students and therapists have really made this work come alive for me. Thank you!

  • @shannonstone865
    @shannonstone865 Год назад

    Creative and talented way to explain. I want to show my teen child , might be to repetitive for that age group , fingers crossed she will watch. ❤IFS has helped me a lot :)!!! Thank you 😊

  • @charlenejacoby514
    @charlenejacoby514 Год назад

    This is a beautiful and easily digestible description of IFS. Thank you

  • @metalroofing6708
    @metalroofing6708 Год назад

    This is a really simple and cool explanation - I am fascinated by IFS - Its really intuitive and it really resonates with me. I fully believe that this paradigm of understanding the psyche will take over the world some day. Thank you!

  • @samdung5630
    @samdung5630 3 года назад +1

    You have the perfect voice and accent for this topic!

  • @LilachLavy-Emanuel
    @LilachLavy-Emanuel Год назад

    Thank you, Lucas 🙂

  • @AsianDHD23
    @AsianDHD23 Год назад

    Thank you Lucas!

  • @marinareza
    @marinareza 4 года назад +3

    Love the animal demos. Thank you!

  • @Sophia-yo9rp
    @Sophia-yo9rp 2 месяца назад

    very helpful. Thank you.

  • @ad7123
    @ad7123 Год назад

    Thank u for explaining

  • @mentalispoppinpollard9986
    @mentalispoppinpollard9986 3 года назад +1

    Great presentation

  • @pilgrimsvoyage
    @pilgrimsvoyage 2 года назад

    Great video, thanks. Easy to follow.

  • @leksyify
    @leksyify 3 года назад +2

    I wonder if anxiety is an exhale or a protector? I love this explanation...thanks👍

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  3 года назад +3

      Can be both.
      Can be a protector that is using anxiety to try and keep you safe.
      Or an exile that is anxious.
      My experience: Usually a combination of both!

  • @kls1704
    @kls1704 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for posting this!

  • @Lesley-jq9ks
    @Lesley-jq9ks 3 года назад +1

    Love this! Thank you.

  • @courtneybrubaker9738
    @courtneybrubaker9738 2 года назад

    Love the visuals!!!

  • @cantavoidtrite
    @cantavoidtrite 4 года назад +1

    This was very nicely demonstrated.

  • @rishabhb4800
    @rishabhb4800 3 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @MegaXwillx
    @MegaXwillx 4 года назад

    thank you

  • @nevalans9524
    @nevalans9524 3 года назад

    How long does it generally take to reach exiles?

  • @ribenariver
    @ribenariver 2 года назад

    Which one, manager or fire fighter is associated with dissociation, and which one is associated with distraction and doing easy going mind-numbing activities like browsing for a long time?

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  2 года назад

      can be either.
      But a lot of dissociation can be more fire fighter behavior.

  • @shay8183
    @shay8183 6 месяцев назад

    Will the firefighter come up even if they are not in danger? Like in your example the girl wasnt shamed again. So will the firefighter fight even if there is no danger? Thank you for the video it was excellent

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  6 месяцев назад

      The firefighter will potentially still fight as long as the Exile is burdened!

  • @katpearson309
    @katpearson309 4 года назад

    Hi I like to learn to be therapist of ifs, can you recommend some course plz

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  3 года назад

      If you really want to become a therapist the main training by the IFS Institute is the way to go.
      To learn the skills of IFS I can also recommend my own course or Jay Earleys work.

  • @circleofcats
    @circleofcats 2 года назад

    Is it normal that those parts actually have different labels like name/age/gender/pronouns etc? Because i feel like one of my "Manager" parts is male. Might just be because i am bigender (switching between 2 different genders) but im really not sure. So i got curious. I also do not have DID/OSDD if it sounds like it.

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  2 года назад +1

      It is very normal to have different generds, ages etc in parts.

  • @JJbIrd0608
    @JJbIrd0608 6 месяцев назад

    My firefighters don't set fire to it they used to drown in alcohol and drugs. I have a 24 yr andc26 yr old exile and I'm 54. Free from alcohol 10 yrs, still smoke pot when the hypervigilance is overwhelming. I've been stuck in hypervigilance (death of fiancee and later boyfriend) since 24 yrs old. None of this was available in the 90s 😢 After a life of addiction, and NEVER understanding what the hell was wrong with me I'm finally in PTSD with a trauma therapist, also did 6 sessions of ketamine therapy. It is saving my life. 😊

    • @LucasForstmeyer
      @LucasForstmeyer  6 месяцев назад

      glad to hear thins are moving in the right direction.
      And yes... firefighters do not always burn. They can also drown. Or freeze.