@@bangchanswifey1113 you are not alone 😭 sometimes I try my best to just be natural where I accept when things are done then it's done. I'm trying my best to not hurt or doing something bad to them
@@bangchanswifey1113 same. Just like those who bullied me because of the way i dressed up. This is what i hate most of the time. I hate when people tryin to treat me like their lapdog. I just ask Allah one thing. Let me live peacefully. But it just get more wors since i got bullie not only in my real life but also in social media. I know that i dont dress like He want. But this is too much for me. Sometimes i cursed Allah when my own mom gossip with her friends about woman that she saw at mall wearing thight shirt with hijab. People say Allah know that youre strong. He should know that im not that strong. He know my heart better tham anyone. He should stop it. But no. People said its is test from Allah. People cam only act like they know what or how i feel. But, actually, no, they don care about it.
@@iamhijabsterz9556 Please don't curse allah like seriously don't. I understand where ur coming from but this life is just a test. You might have it hard but there's others who have it worse sorry. Just have patience and keep making dua. If u got all u wished for then wouldn't u be attached to the dunya🤍🤍
"Better to be disappointed than to be the one who is disappointing." Beautiful and so very true. I needed to hear this from a sincere and learned person like Sheikh.
No. The reverse is true. The disappointee is passively only exerting their free will to to the extent that they can.. there was an expectation. It was unfulfilled. That was between them and Allah. I have no authority to feel upset by or deem something to be . Disappointing. Allah is the only judge.
I feel we can disappoint people even when we are not disappointing sometimes people make you feel very down with this, let’s not forget that we can be wrong in when we are disappointed also. Salam 😊
If you are young and Allah has guided your heart towards lectures like this, say Alhamdulillah. It does not matter what your past is, you are being given a chance to rectify at an early stage. If you are older, say Alhamdulillah. Do not waste the opportunity. When you trip or fall off the track, struggle back up as quickly as you can. It gets easier with time. May Allah guide us all on the right path and forgive our sins and shortcomings. Amen.
I learnt about Islam since my childhood and tried my best to apply it in my life but there were times i went in self-doubt because nothing went the way it should. I am a lonely person with absolutely no friends. This made me wonder if I am on the wrong. I thank the present day ulemas who talk on practical topics that help to meet the challenges of the modern world by applying Quran and sunah in life. Thank you for refreshing our Iman. May Allah bless you.
Assalamu a'laikum wa rahmatullah. May Allah bless you endlessly for highlighting a topic that most people are generally clueless or ignorant about. As a result they suffer. May Allah help these good people to come to terms to their painful deprivations and uplift them in their taqwa and closeness to Allah and reward them for their pain and patience in both the worlds abundantly. Ameen. Summa Ameen. Jazak Allahu khairan.
You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .
I am deflated lately, from all angles i am fighting my right to be treated kindly, courteously, respected and loved- it's so so hard when you apply these qualities to all people but they never absorb and share it- nor do they appreciate you or your presence. Lately it's hit me hard and i've never felt so alone in this World.
Just remember Allah swt will never disappoint you, humans will don’t have too high expectations of others. This life is a test and inshaallah every wrong will be corrected on the day of Judgement. Ask from Allah to grant you patience especially pray tahajjud. This is my outlook through life experiences and Allah swt knows best.
I'm with u bro.. im also at a very low point in my life.. the tests just keep on coming.. but then u realise, the real is test is the test of faith.. if we get through it right, we will be closer to Allah.. just keep on doing the right things bro..
Assalamu alaikum brother pls get in touch with me as I know what u mean and we should try to still keep faith in people, where are u from? My name is Sulaiman :)
May Allah make it easy for you brother. I know how it feels. But remember when ALLAH loves you then he qualifies you for the tests. So it also means you are one of his favourites ❤
We need these lectures to be done in our Arab societies to bring them back to the straight path Jazak Allah khair shiekh may Allah rewards you with the highest level of Heaven and be among the prophets and their companions
Being successful don’t happen by magic Success is dependent on the action or steps you take to achieve it. Show me a man who doesn't have an investment and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke Investment is building a safe haven for the future: with the right choice of investment that has at least 1% minimum risk and with an Expert guidance, profit and interest should be 💯 guaranteed.
@@haywanchiu9971 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior colleague at work who was doing well but never had an investment. Unfortunately he lost his job and went from living a comfortable life to hardship. There would had been something to fall back on if he had an investment
@@berryobrain8433 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best
@@berryobrain8433 The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my crypto investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.
"People like leaves w/o thorns." Those are people who walk 🚶♂️ in forgiveness at all times in their lives, and they do not allow life's bad experiences hearden their hearts.
Mufti Menk says look within yourself as well. Do not put 100% blame on others, try to do more good on your part as well, if it does not make them leave you alone you are getting good deeds for your hereafter at least and it may also take your mind off of them. 😅
My Situation exactly with my older family member Sisters and an Aunt. Make Dua for me because at this time I'm tired of trying to be the better person and they don't try it's so bad at this time I don't even want a relationship with them 😔🙁😕☹️ it's like this message was sent to me by Allah. My response was to speak of Allah continuously
Salaam alaikum Wawa barakatuh sister Kaye! Brother Omar has another lecture 'overcoming compassion burnout'.. it will help you, in shaa Allah 🙏🙏🙏. Wassalam
@Kaye Smith just keep your distance. My ENTIRE family betrayed me...even my elderly mom and dad (most possibly connived by my envious siblings and relatives). Allah knows my truth so best it to move away...yes God die this to me because I was blindly making all my decisions based on what they said be it career, friends, self-acceptance and my potential. Family's fangs are most fatal for they are our closest in blood. Sadly, these are all earthly relationships but like he said - don't be the wrongdoer. Bless you.
I'm glad the brother ask this Q because I'm having the same issue..I keep thinking that this world is like a torture for good people.. people who trying hard to be good, do good, & willing to forgive all the time 🤔🤲🙈🙊🙉
Assalaamu alaikum(wrb). Masha Allah! I felt Dr Omar Suleiman was talking to me directly. For someone who has been always let down by one after another, this speech was comforting. Jazakallah khairan. May Allah(SWT) bless you always. Ameen.
Ive been there, and the answer is being brave to be disappointed. So that we can stop and leave. Rasulullah teaches us that disappointment is normal, every story of him and the sahabat also shows that. But the message about being brave to be disappointed is rarely be found
You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .
Worst feeling becuz i dont like raising my voice yelling cussing being mean etc but in the past ive done this a lot "matching energy" mentality is toxic in the end only satan ones. When you are patient long term this is bettee because patience is lile a muscle you have to use it for it to increase.
Would also really appreciate the Hadith reference in the video description! This video was so powerful and relevant. The best lecture I’ve heard on this subject
The beginning of this lecture really surprised me, its not a coincidence that today of all days i was thinking the exact same thing as that man who commented about avoiding and leaving the people and today i came across this lecture of all lectures and it guided me against my wrong judgement/thinking. I am seeing in my life the guidance of Allah (SWT) almost everyday Alhamdullillah. JazakaAllah Sheikh, may Allah (SWT) reward you for your efforts, Aameen. I see you talking about things many Sheikhs/lecturers fail to mention and this is not the first time ive found enlightenment and help through your lecture.
It would've been much better if the first part of the khutbah was still in the video, part where Cheikh Omar was making dua'a... It was very heart warming masha'Allah
I think it’s also important to maybe mention when it is okay to cut off/ not be a push over…many youth struggle with codependency and a lack of self worth and continue on in friendships that are unfulfilling and often damaging…thoughts?
I think u have a point although I think we should not totally cut off people just make some distance and learn to be the good example and expect our reward with Allah SWT 🙂
Mashallah his points are all validated, but Most of what he said so beautifully literally is in the theory. In real practical day to day situation There is only so much a person can be this much subdued and so unworldly patience and understanding to take the high road. I think in general the Muslims community are so good at sugar coding issues.
What the khateeb is saying or at least what I understood based on my little knowledge and understanding is that try to be an ideal Muslim which is trying to be like our beloved prophet, enduring everything and hoping nothing from anyone beside Allah that's the essence of the khutba I suppose, every Muslim should try to get to that level but Allah knows and prophet knew that its not a possible goal to be achieved by everybody so there are different level choices of imans and this is the highest level of imaan the middle ground of an is returning the favor and the lowest level of Imaan is trying not to hurt anyone. So to answer your question 👀I believe that if you can't keep being the bigger person and can't be a neutral person either in a relationship you should walk out that's the most you can do
@@hannaha188 agreed that there only so much a person can endure but it's not suger coding but rather setting examples you would find all kind of people even in prophets Era, not everyone was our prophet nor everyone even from his Era could achieve his level of faith and iman so there were people who walked out of relationships and didn't take shit from anybody and they were not criticized 👀the khateeb is talking about the highest level of iman there's the middle ground and lower grounds of actions and imaan too
@@doncotti_certi4ever its sugar coating and 2nd, there's a difference a level you're trying to achieve cs what you actually do. Why set artificially low standards? Lastly, I don't think he's saying keep people in your life, hex saying don't isolate yourself in fear of getting hurt again, which is fair. Remain a person who is helpful and brings positivity to others, even if they don't always return the favour.
The lecture is truly relatable to us in many ways. May Allah SWT make us amongst the ones who have those high standards. Let us be amongst the ones who forgive others faults for the sake of Allah SWT. Ameen
mashallah these are wonderous words and stories of resilience, morality and being the bigger person from Muhammad (pbuh), and I feel this is coming from a place of great love and understanding, Dr. Suleiman. I am trying my hardest to be that one camel, inshallah it will get easier. I've either burned every bridge in my life or had people betray me, in some cases I literally lost friends from drugs and violence. But I will not give up. I am praying that all of you out there can continue through whatever it is that is burdening you, inshallah we will perservere.
choose your friends wisely, drop them like a fly if you find people unethical.I do my duties towards the needy but do not expect in return. always have your own sets of rules and expectation from friends, if they don't meet your standard, then move on. Still do your duty by helping people and other living creatures. My honor is the most important thing, that precludes trust and generosity.
Subhan Allah... I have sick elderly parents who could be sad with me or my sister if they hear the drama she's making... my other sibling says let's just lie to them to spare them the saddness at either of us... i don't mind what the whole world thinks but i don't want them to be sad with me... lying to them risks making them sad with me... i asked Allah to advise me specifically through Sheikh Omar Suleiman but didn't enter a search topic & was scrolling hurriedly while driving what Allah would send my way... Allah sent me this... I think He's telling me to try & protect them by lying & risk them being sad at me & that Allah will make sure that doesn't happen to me??😭😭😭 please pray for me & for my parents
You may still seek the guidance of the sheikh, but I would say tell them the truth. Allah will protect their hearts and make it easy on them. Sowing that seed of doubt in their minds about you will kill them faster than the temporary pleasure of the lie you tell them. Speak the truth and set yourself and them free. Or another option, avoid the topic. Don't speak of it at all. This can save you from having to make such a decision in the first place. I don't feel lying will be the best option in accordance with the deen. Allahu Alaam.
Subhanallah. Thank you, dear Shaykh, for your many thoughtful lectures. May Allah keep showering you and the family and our Ummah with blessings with miracles. Ameen
I had this experience and then I jumped up to my self Absolutely lonely. Just work and study and surf the internet . recently I found one person that seems honestly and have good character .
BarakAllahufeek dear Omer Suleiman. Tips to get healed from the harm and wrong doings of people is to seek refuge in Allah . Make dua to Allah that we are not wrongdoers in response. And the most importantly to ask Allah SWT by His beautiful Name Al Jabbar ( The Mender) to heal our broken hearts minds, bodies and homes .Ameen
people will show their true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life. You will start loosing your partner/spouse, friends even family. Just stay strong, have faith, and avoid them…until Allah embrace you with unexpected gift…beyond your imagination for your patience.
I am born in south africa. I married a man from India. He is a good soul Alhamdulillah. There is not a day that i live amongst these people, neighbors or inlaws, that i dont feel belittled and hurt by their actions or words. I love amongst them but am treated like someone who is not part of them. Everything you do is judged. You can do the most but it s never enough. Some days i feel that i pray for an early death but i have a son. May Allah give us all strength and guid our muslimeen. Please people, Allah will not be interested in which country you are born in. It is the Iman in ones heart that is whats important. May Allah guide us
Alhamdulillah a true believers healing medicine from a servant of Allaah,,,May Allah Subhanahu wataala continue to strengthen the heart of the muminun Wa muminnat with sabir all the time in trials ameen,jazakhallah Ya Sheikh... Bissallama.
When people keep letting me down, it means I am expecting more from them than I am giving to them. It also means that I am keeping the focus not on my God & Deen, Gratitude included, but rather on my selfish needs/wants/desires...all of which is idolatry, no matter how temporary.
Jazakallah khair my dear brother and all those that helped this video and channel to continue to work. May all the Muslims who help others in any way get reward Ameen ❤
“Don’t punish people with the pain that was inflicted on you” Muhammad PBUH
👍👍👍
But y do I feel like to i seriously feel like murdering whoever has hurt me so far and I couldnt even defend myself
@@bangchanswifey1113 you are not alone 😭 sometimes I try my best to just be natural where I accept when things are done then it's done. I'm trying my best to not hurt or doing something bad to them
@@bangchanswifey1113 same. Just like those who bullied me because of the way i dressed up. This is what i hate most of the time. I hate when people tryin to treat me like their lapdog. I just ask Allah one thing. Let me live peacefully. But it just get more wors since i got bullie not only in my real life but also in social media. I know that i dont dress like He want. But this is too much for me. Sometimes i cursed Allah when my own mom gossip with her friends about woman that she saw at mall wearing thight shirt with hijab. People say Allah know that youre strong. He should know that im not that strong. He know my heart better tham anyone. He should stop it. But no. People said its is test from Allah. People cam only act like they know what or how i feel. But, actually, no, they don care about it.
@@iamhijabsterz9556 Please don't curse allah like seriously don't. I understand where ur coming from but this life is just a test. You might have it hard but there's others who have it worse sorry. Just have patience and keep making dua. If u got all u wished for then wouldn't u be attached to the dunya🤍🤍
"Better to be disappointed than to be the one who is disappointing." Beautiful and so very true. I needed to hear this from a sincere and learned person like Sheikh.
Likewise. It has been a long day for me at work and finding this lecture is certainly a help for me.
@@reziachowdhury9816 jam and jam
No. The reverse is true. The disappointee is passively only exerting their free will to to the extent that they can.. there was an expectation. It was unfulfilled. That was between them and Allah. I have no authority to feel upset by or deem something to be . Disappointing. Allah is the only judge.
I feel we can disappoint people even when we are not disappointing sometimes people make you feel very down with this, let’s not forget that we can be wrong in when we are disappointed also. Salam 😊
6:33 Better to be a MAQTOOL not a QATIL
"When the prophet saw helped people is because of who he was and not because of who they were..." this statement is so deep
Exactly
If you are young and Allah has guided your heart towards lectures like this, say Alhamdulillah. It does not matter what your past is, you are being given a chance to rectify at an early stage. If you are older, say Alhamdulillah. Do not waste the opportunity. When you trip or fall off the track, struggle back up as quickly as you can. It gets easier with time. May Allah guide us all on the right path and forgive our sins and shortcomings. Amen.
Ameen
🙏📿 Allah bless you, for what you have said applies to me and will give me strength in heart inshallah.
I learnt about Islam since my childhood and tried my best to apply it in my life but there were times i went in self-doubt because nothing went the way it should. I am a lonely person with absolutely no friends. This made me wonder if I am on the wrong. I thank the present day ulemas who talk on practical topics that help to meet the challenges of the modern world by applying Quran and sunah in life. Thank you for refreshing our Iman. May Allah bless you.
Be patient. Surely Allah will soon bless you with good friends and a good environment. May Allah grant you success in this world and the hereafter
Assalamu a'laikum wa rahmatullah. May Allah bless you endlessly for highlighting a topic that most people are generally clueless or ignorant about. As a result they suffer. May Allah help these good people to come to terms to their painful deprivations and uplift them in their taqwa and closeness to Allah and reward them for their pain and patience in both the worlds abundantly. Ameen. Summa Ameen. Jazak Allahu khairan.
Surprising, people spend time watching something they don't like.
Aameen
You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .
I am deflated lately, from all angles i am fighting my right to be treated kindly, courteously, respected and loved- it's so so hard when you apply these qualities to all people but they never absorb and share it- nor do they appreciate you or your presence. Lately it's hit me hard and i've never felt so alone in this World.
Just remember Allah swt will never disappoint you, humans will don’t have too high expectations of others. This life is a test and inshaallah every wrong will be corrected on the day of Judgement. Ask from Allah to grant you patience especially pray tahajjud. This is my outlook through life experiences and Allah swt knows best.
I'm in the same situation as you 😳
I'm with u bro.. im also at a very low point in my life.. the tests just keep on coming.. but then u realise, the real is test is the test of faith.. if we get through it right, we will be closer to Allah.. just keep on doing the right things bro..
Assalamu alaikum brother pls get in touch with me as I know what u mean and we should try to still keep faith in people, where are u from? My name is Sulaiman :)
May Allah make it easy for you brother. I know how it feels. But remember when ALLAH loves you then he qualifies you for the tests. So it also means you are one of his favourites ❤
I needed this. Particularly “don’t betray the ones who have betrayed you.” Bless you both for your work.
We need these lectures to be done in our Arab societies to bring them back to the straight path
Jazak Allah khair shiekh may Allah rewards you with the highest level of Heaven and be among the prophets and their companions
Indeed brother.
@@yasminenazarine1629 لكن سبحان الله انا عربي من السعودية جدة
I agree with you brother 👍💯
I love Arabic language also I don't understand Islamic lecture Arabic language
I keep coming back to this particular lecture. It makes me a better person.
"People are like a set of a hundred camels. Out of a hundred, you'll only find one that's good for a journey." - Prophet Muhammed a.s.
For me, this video is worth the 50 therapy sessions. May Allah guide us all.
Never stop dreaming. Be hungry and never stop believing in your dreams. If someone can do it, you can do it. Be strong
Being successful don’t happen by magic
Success is dependent on the action or
steps you take to achieve it. Show me
a man who doesn't have an investment
and I will tell you how soon he'll go broke
Investment is building a safe haven for the
future: with the right choice of investment
that has at least 1% minimum risk and
with an Expert guidance, profit and interest
should be 💯 guaranteed.
@@haywanchiu9971 I agree e with you 💯 .. I had a senior
colleague at work who was doing well but
never had an investment. Unfortunately he
lost his job and went from living a
comfortable life to hardship. There would
had been something to fall back on if he
had an investment
@@berryobrain8433 True, there is never any culture of wealth gathering or wealth creation to keep multiplying your finance that lack an investment value. This means, if you have to plan you must be an investor. that's why Investing in crypto stands to be the best
@@berryobrain8433 The only credible law of increase is investment because money not invested has no future. I make huge profits on my crypto investment since i started trading fx with Mr Kelvin Maorgan, his trading strategies are top notch.
@@haywanchiu9971 It is the planning you put into today that will yield the dividends of prosperity for you tomorrow.
You just can't imagine how this helped me and gave me strength Jazaka llah khayr
"People like leaves w/o thorns." Those are people who walk 🚶♂️ in forgiveness at all times in their lives, and they do not allow life's bad experiences hearden their hearts.
اللهم انك عفوٌ تحب العفو فعفو عني و لي والديا و لاخواني و اخواتي في الاسلام اللهم ثبت قلوبنا على دينانا آمين
Even if u leave people alone, but they won't leave u alone 😭😭😭 i know this so much
I need to find innocent leaves among the thorny world
Mufti Menk says look within yourself as well. Do not put 100% blame on others, try to do more good on your part as well, if it does not make them leave you alone you are getting good deeds for your hereafter at least and it may also take your mind off of them. 😅
Uplifting reminder. May Allah guide us to the best standard of character. May Allah heal our hearts. May Allah heal our pain and sadness.
It's been happen to me for 40 yrs since I was a kid but I thank God for his help and keeping an on Eye me support keep me safe thank U God
All I want are friends who dont hurt and abandon me.
Yea😢
My Situation exactly with my older family member Sisters and an Aunt. Make Dua for me because at this time I'm tired of trying to be the better person and they don't try it's so bad at this time I don't even want a relationship with them 😔🙁😕☹️ it's like this message was sent to me by Allah. My response was to speak of Allah continuously
Salaam alaikum Wawa barakatuh sister Kaye! Brother Omar has another lecture 'overcoming compassion burnout'.. it will help you, in shaa Allah 🙏🙏🙏. Wassalam
@Kaye Smith just keep your distance. My ENTIRE family betrayed me...even my elderly mom and dad (most possibly connived by my envious siblings and relatives). Allah knows my truth so best it to move away...yes God die this to me because I was blindly making all my decisions based on what they said be it career, friends, self-acceptance and my potential. Family's fangs are most fatal for they are our closest in blood. Sadly, these are all earthly relationships but like he said - don't be the wrongdoer. Bless you.
SUBHANALLAH
Prophet Muhammad SAWW helped people because of who HE was,not because who they were. ❤❤❤amazing
Don't punish people the pain that was inflicted in you🔆..amen.. Alhamdullilah.... enlightenment...
Sheikh always amazes us. This khutbah is truly related to our times
These are reminders that I already know I'm going to revisit over and over again throughout my life. Thank you so much
Islam in all livings days...here is the main point
Mashallah this is what the deen is about 🙏🙏
I'm glad the brother ask this Q because I'm having the same issue..I keep thinking that this world is like a torture for good people.. people who trying hard to be good, do good, & willing to forgive all the time 🤔🤲🙈🙊🙉
May peace, countless blessings and Mercy be upon the Holy beloved Prophet Muhammad ( S.A.W ).
❤️🌺❤️💐❤️🌷❤️🌹
This is what I want to hear again n again. الحمد لله for this 😌
Assalaamu alaikum(wrb).
Masha Allah! I felt Dr Omar Suleiman was talking to me directly. For someone who has been always let down by one after another, this speech was comforting. Jazakallah khairan. May Allah(SWT) bless you always. Ameen.
He is sharing his own life experience, as well as Prophet life experience and companion.
Ive been there, and the answer is being brave to be disappointed. So that we can stop and leave. Rasulullah teaches us that disappointment is normal, every story of him and the sahabat also shows that. But the message about being brave to be disappointed is rarely be found
Al Hamdllah for Islam. Nothing makes me feel more ate ease in my life. There is no greater support system Mashallah. Thank you Skeikh for the bars.
I heard this lecture today by auto play. It's like Allah swt made me hear this right when I needed it. Subhanallah
You are never lonely or alone. Allah SWA is always with you. I will always recall my mothers advice: “Friends are like seasons, they come and go but Allah SWA never leaves you. Make Him SWA your best friend. You will never be disappointed like people can disappoint you” .
I know the feeling when u dont trouble people but they keep coming at you.
May Allah ease your burden and guide u towards some honest and supportive companions Ameen 🤲🏽🙏🏽
Me too
Worst feeling becuz i dont like raising my voice yelling cussing being mean etc but in the past ive done this a lot "matching energy" mentality is toxic in the end only satan ones. When you are patient long term this is bettee because patience is lile a muscle you have to use it for it to increase.
Im so glad to be Muslim it is the best gift of this world
Allah leads me here. He wants me to hear this as my heart grow weary and disappointed without a break. Alhamdulillah. ❤️❤️🤲🤲
I'm Kurdish but i watch English khotbah your channel is very useful thanks for everything 🤗👏
Dr.Omar Suliman is that one camel which is better amongs others!
Mash'Allah 😀😃🙂 may Allah make us all among those 1 camel 🐫
Ma Shaa Allah. Wallahi it is true. May Allah SWT reward him with the best of rewards in this Dunya and the Hereafter . Allahouma amine
@@ndeyediouf1101 aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen
I really needed to hear this. Definitely patience is necessary with toxic people/fam in todays’ world.
Would also really appreciate the Hadith reference in the video description! This video was so powerful and relevant. The best lecture I’ve heard on this subject
Alhamduillah 🤲 Sub7anAllah I was struggling with this matter this past month.. may Allah heal the hearts and unite the ummah..
The beginning of this lecture really surprised me, its not a coincidence that today of all days i was thinking the exact same thing as that man who commented about avoiding and leaving the people and today i came across this lecture of all lectures and it guided me against my wrong judgement/thinking. I am seeing in my life the guidance of Allah (SWT) almost everyday Alhamdullillah. JazakaAllah Sheikh, may Allah (SWT) reward you for your efforts, Aameen. I see you talking about things many Sheikhs/lecturers fail to mention and this is not the first time ive found enlightenment and help through your lecture.
One of the most well spoken Scholar. Ma Sha Allah.
It would've been much better if the first part of the khutbah was still in the video, part where Cheikh Omar was making dua'a... It was very heart warming masha'Allah
سبحان الله و بحمده ,- سبحان الله العظيم💕🌷
اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ
ﷺ💕🌷
May All-Mighty Allah continue to protect Dr Omar Suleiman, amin
13:14 JazakumuAllahu kheyran May Allah make us amongst them and grant us ikhlas
I think it’s also important to maybe mention when it is okay to cut off/ not be a push over…many youth struggle with codependency and a lack of self worth and continue on in friendships that are unfulfilling and often damaging…thoughts?
I think u have a point although I think we should not totally cut off people just make some distance and learn to be the good example and expect our reward with Allah SWT 🙂
Mashallah his points are all validated, but
Most of what he said so beautifully literally is in the theory. In real practical day to day situation
There is only so much a person can be this much subdued and so unworldly patience and understanding to take the high road.
I think in general the Muslims community are so good at sugar coding issues.
What the khateeb is saying or at least what I understood based on my little knowledge and understanding is that try to be an ideal Muslim which is trying to be like our beloved prophet, enduring everything and hoping nothing from anyone beside Allah that's the essence of the khutba I suppose, every Muslim should try to get to that level but Allah knows and prophet knew that its not a possible goal to be achieved by everybody so there are different level choices of imans and this is the highest level of imaan the middle ground of an is returning the favor and the lowest level of Imaan is trying not to hurt anyone.
So to answer your question 👀I believe that if you can't keep being the bigger person and can't be a neutral person either in a relationship you should walk out that's the most you can do
@@hannaha188 agreed that there only so much a person can endure but it's not suger coding but rather setting examples you would find all kind of people even in prophets Era, not everyone was our prophet nor everyone even from his Era could achieve his level of faith and iman so there were people who walked out of relationships and didn't take shit from anybody and they were not criticized 👀the khateeb is talking about the highest level of iman there's the middle ground and lower grounds of actions and imaan too
@@doncotti_certi4ever its sugar coating and 2nd, there's a difference a level you're trying to achieve cs what you actually do. Why set artificially low standards? Lastly, I don't think he's saying keep people in your life, hex saying don't isolate yourself in fear of getting hurt again, which is fair. Remain a person who is helpful and brings positivity to others, even if they don't always return the favour.
The lecture is truly relatable to us in many ways. May Allah SWT make us amongst the ones who have those high standards. Let us be amongst the ones who forgive others faults for the sake of Allah SWT. Ameen
I don't have brother. .. I see u as my elder bro.. Guiding me to truth and righteousness... 😎😎 may Allah help u reach levels in jannah masha aAlah
Thank you sheikh lesson learned people having been letting me down
Idk how many times I have came back to this lecture
my fav channel💎
Jazakallah
Another very good Khutbah by Sh. Omar Suleiman. May Allah (SWT) bless you and your family, abundantly, Ameen.
mashallah these are wonderous words and stories of resilience, morality and being the bigger person from Muhammad (pbuh), and I feel this is coming from a place of great love and understanding, Dr. Suleiman. I am trying my hardest to be that one camel, inshallah it will get easier. I've either burned every bridge in my life or had people betray me, in some cases I literally lost friends from drugs and violence. But I will not give up. I am praying that all of you out there can continue through whatever it is that is burdening you, inshallah we will perservere.
May Allah strengthen us all and send us some honest and supportive companions Ameen 🤲🏽🙏🏽
اللهم أصلح أحوال المسلمين في فلسطين اللهم أصلح أحوال المسلمين في فلسطين وفي كل مكان يا ذا الجلال والإكرام
I fehlt so touched by this lecture. Alhamdulillah
Many thanks to you and all your efforts.
Alhamdullilah. Thanks Sheikh. Everyday I strive to be a better muslim.
choose your friends wisely, drop them like a fly if you find people unethical.I do my duties towards the needy but do not expect in return. always have your own sets of rules and expectation from friends, if they don't meet your standard, then move on. Still do your duty by helping people and other living creatures. My honor is the most important thing, that precludes trust and generosity.
Inshallah with the guidance of Allah I will try to follow the correct way of Islam so that I can enter Jannah fordoosa. Amiin
Excellent khutba.
Learned something beautiful today as someone who struggles alot with dealing people as a result of past experiences.
Assalamu alaikum brother where are u from?
This is such a great khutbah. May Allah bless you always, Omar.
I love this message much needed thank you .... all praise is due to Allah
It came as recommended at a time, when I needed it the most. SubhanAllah
Subhan Allah... I have sick elderly parents who could be sad with me or my sister if they hear the drama she's making... my other sibling says let's just lie to them to spare them the saddness at either of us... i don't mind what the whole world thinks but i don't want them to be sad with me... lying to them risks making them sad with me... i asked Allah to advise me specifically through Sheikh Omar Suleiman but didn't enter a search topic & was scrolling hurriedly while driving what Allah would send my way... Allah sent me this... I think He's telling me to try & protect them by lying & risk them being sad at me & that Allah will make sure that doesn't happen to me??😭😭😭 please pray for me & for my parents
You may still seek the guidance of the sheikh, but I would say tell them the truth. Allah will protect their hearts and make it easy on them. Sowing that seed of doubt in their minds about you will kill them faster than the temporary pleasure of the lie you tell them. Speak the truth and set yourself and them free. Or another option, avoid the topic. Don't speak of it at all. This can save you from having to make such a decision in the first place. I don't feel lying will be the best option in accordance with the deen. Allahu Alaam.
Subhanallah. Thank you, dear Shaykh, for your many thoughtful lectures. May Allah keep showering you and the family and our Ummah with blessings with miracles. Ameen
Wooow !!! Until this , I didn't know why Ali (A .S) stayed back . Thank you so much Sheikh Omar .
I had this experience and then I jumped up to my self
Absolutely lonely.
Just work and study and surf the internet . recently I found one person that seems honestly and have good character .
Jazakallahu khairan katsiran...
May Allah bless you and your family Dr. oemar...
Your speech soothe my heart...
Jazak'Allah khair for this speech Sheik. These were the words I needed to hear today
Your weekly khutbas are always the answers to my duas, wallah
I just got betrayed by friend today and I need some motivations on how to overcome them. Alhamdulillah this is the best. 😢
Jazakallah khair brother.. May Allah bless you with great blessings... So overwhelmed to listen to what you have said
SubhanaAllah!! JajakAllah khairun for this wonderful talk 🙏
Ameen ya Rabb! Astagfirullahal azeem ladhi lailaha illah huwa alaihi tawakkalna waatubu ilaihi
So many gems to unpack here. This was recommended to me exactly when I needed it subhanAllah. JazakAllah khair
BarakAllahufeek dear Omer Suleiman.
Tips to get healed from the harm and wrong doings of people is to seek refuge in Allah .
Make dua to Allah that we are not wrongdoers in response.
And the most importantly to ask Allah SWT by His beautiful Name Al Jabbar ( The Mender) to heal our broken hearts minds, bodies and homes .Ameen
Amin ya RABBI. Shukraan ya Ustaz.
people will show their true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life. You will start loosing your partner/spouse, friends even family. Just stay strong, have faith, and avoid them…until Allah embrace you with unexpected gift…beyond your imagination for your patience.
Aslam alikum
Thank you for Ur talks, as British born Muslim now aged 53 your talks got me through hardships. Allamdulliah
I am born in south africa. I married a man from India. He is a good soul Alhamdulillah. There is not a day that i live amongst these people, neighbors or inlaws, that i dont feel belittled and hurt by their actions or words. I love amongst them but am treated like someone who is not part of them. Everything you do is judged. You can do the most but it s never enough. Some days i feel that i pray for an early death but i have a son. May Allah give us all strength and guid our muslimeen. Please people, Allah will not be interested in which country you are born in. It is the Iman in ones heart that is whats important. May Allah guide us
May Allah bless you and your family Dr Omar. You’re indeed an inspiration to the umaah. Mashaa Allah
Masha Allah. May Allah reward you. Amin
This was a great lecture, it really helped me, MashaAllah. SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah for Islam, and JazakAllah khair for the lecture.
Alhamdulillah a true believers healing medicine from a servant of Allaah,,,May Allah Subhanahu wataala continue to strengthen the heart of the muminun
Wa muminnat with sabir all the time in trials ameen,jazakhallah Ya Sheikh...
Bissallama.
This is what l have been thinking past few weeks, Thank you Omar this lecture has given me knowledge of how l can deal with my problems Salaam
Jazakallah khairan Dr. Omar for another insightful and a much needed khutbah
When people keep letting me down, it means I am expecting more from them than I am giving to them. It also means that I am keeping the focus not on my God & Deen, Gratitude included, but rather on my selfish needs/wants/desires...all of which is idolatry, no matter how temporary.
Jazaka Allahu khayran katheeran for this reminder 🙏🙏🙏
This is so beautifully explained.
جزاكم الله خيرا
An eloquent and blessed and intelligent advisory. Many blessings to the speakers and listeners. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Jazak Allah khairan brother sheikh Omar Suleiman for clearing this topic...may Allah reward you 🤲🌷
Jazak Allahu Khairan. Spot on as always. May Allah Grant us a higher standard of character. Ameen.
Ameen 🤲🏽
Alhamdullilah i found it in the right time. Jazakallah khair.
May Allah accept your duas as well as duas made for us too
Jazakallah khair my dear brother and all those that helped this video and channel to continue to work. May all the Muslims who help others in any way get reward Ameen ❤
Jazakallah Khair. This lecture has helped me so much. Being let down by so many....
May each and everyone be blessed with Aafiyah .Everyone is struggling
Maa shaa allah Dr.
Jazaakallah khayr for this wonderful lecture that may help us on our lives here and hereafter
JazakAllah khair! Needed it so bad. Beautifully put together ❤️
Jazak Allah Khairun kaseera dear brother, may Allah SWT reward you in this world and hereafter, ameen sum Ameen Ya'Rabul Alameen.
Walekum Asalam wr wb.
Ameen to all your Duas.
Jazak Allah khair, Sheikh Omar suleman.
May Allah bless you with more knowledge of His Deen.
Just in the right time I found this video. Jazakallah khair brother 💕