Charisma on Command, I couldnt find a video on your take for dealing with difficult situations. For example, in teamwork situations and along with other people. I understand that praise and modesty can be utilized for gaining trust and charismatic purposes. What about advice on how to proceed when someone isnt performing in a teamwork environment. While remaining true to some charismatic philosophies you mentioned in past videos. I would like to pick your brain on what to do as a leader and a general member. I try to be honest and straightforward to the point. I notice some members of my team arent performing as well, most of the other members casually insult them behind their backs about their performance. Sometimes I comment on what they are doing well and make suggestions, sometimes I just tell them what they need to fix. I find that maintaining a high level of charisma in a team where some members arent performing well to be a difficult task. Sometimes I feel I am too neutral or not decisive enough to communicate while keeping in mind that I want to be charismatic with everyone. I was wondering what is your take on these issues. Charisma is important and utilized for different purposes at times, but I wanted to maintain the guidelines of charisma, while dealing with those issues that arise in the best way possible.
Dude, awesome content! I couldnt find the exact video though on those other two emotions you were talking about in this video..but you've put up a video on "this innocent mistake on first immpressions..".. Do you have the original video?
Gary’s game is unpredictability. He is randomly mean and nice. It’s scientifically proven that uncertainty is addictive. That’s how abusers operate and make their victims blame themselves
To be honest, I don't like to be around guys like Gary. Sure they're charismatic, but I still never feel great after leaving them and not being rude in the first place is more important than whatever you do to make up for it.
People like you hated me growing up and I'm still dislike people like you. Because I'm like Gary and you just reminded me of so many people. People like me and Gary don't care what you think. We don't change who we are. People like you dance around feelings to save face.
@@Malik_Hoff A different view: That's very black and white. I like blunt people, but not people like Gary, tell me I'm bad at x y and z; I welcome that but don't touch me/hug me while you're saying it, I want respect that I can handle the truth not patronising hugs/touches (I often find he does this in place of just allowing people to air their view), that is also really dancing around peoples feelings. In essence the tactic is 'I know I'm saying all this mean stuff and not allowing you to speak but that's ok because here's a hug :D'
Gary is the kind of person that feels the need to be dominate all the time. The only reason why he’s getting away with the touching, interrupting and just being flat out rude is not because he has the skills to get you to like him despite the flaws but because those around him lack the confidence he has to challenge him. Not saying he’s a horrible person but he’s still a prime example of how confidence can be a dangerous tool in the wrong hands.
This is the type of guy you'd pretend to like if you were physically with him, but when you're alone you'd realise he's an irritating person that you don't want to be with. The only redeeming quality I find with him is that he's being blunt.
will have to disagree here, I feel the opposite. Feels like the kind of person that i'd find annoying at first but appreciate the honesty and the kind-meaning in the long run. If you stick with him you just see through actions how much sheer value he tries to give away to people he talks to. And it's refreshing to know someone won't refrain from calling you out for fear of confrontation
I’ve been following Gary since 2016 and I can say he has improve so much with the interrupting thing, and best of all since the beginning he knew he was a little annoying during interviews, and he work that. He teaches self-aware and he live that everyday. This guy has to be one of the most honest people on earth, he will give you everything he know without asking anything.
I just interviewed Gary for my podcast and I told him about this video! He got really curious about it and I sent him the link. You guys did a great job here :)
Carolina Millan that's very interesting Carolina thank you. So he doesn't even realize what it is that he's doing? Or what? I think he must but maybe just doesn't understand why I don't know this is weird. Maybe in your next interview you can ask him what he thought of this video.
How: 1. Friendly touch, early, often, before aggravation 2. Compliment, with good humor 3. Authentic/genuine: true energy and honesty, without caring about others’ opinions (with care) 4. Have good advice 5. Be willing to apologize
Just remember Gary hasn't always been this Charismatic. Gary has been practising giving value for ages before showing himself to the public eye. Stay patience brothers!
Jordan Peterson works so well because he uses bluntness plus vision. And he is speaking well for a group that doesn't have a lot of people able to speak for it in a way that doesn't upset people, he's really pretty eloquent and you can see he is not really extreme and does not come off as an enemy to others on an opposing side often. now i haven't watched his videos talking to trans people so I don't know how he comes across there. , since there are not a lot of speakers right now able to do this, it is also being at the right place at the right time.
All those interruptions were pissing me off and i wasn't even the one getting interrupted. Plus when i'm irritated i don't particularly like being touched. This guy would drive me nucking futs.
I'm the same way, someone constantly talking over me after asking me a question without allowing me to deliver the answer unimpeded is usually a conversational crime that I tend not to forget by the end of the dialogue. That, and despite not having an understandable background excuse for disliking physical contact from others (for example, being physically abused as a child or something along those lines), I usually instantly internalize physical contact during a discussion as being decidedly negative/uncomfortable. I think for most people, you can suss out through a conversation what sorts of things they find to be offensive or visibly uncomfortable through their micro-expressions, but physical contact is always a unique risk as you never know how the person is going to feel, and the manner in which you touch them is EXTREMELY important to whether they identify you as either a comfortable presence, or an uncomfortable one.
Also I would really like to see a video on how to see if someone is hiding sadness and pain and how to reach out to them? Even when you do not know this person very well. How to see something is wrong.
Nice idea. I think it's going to involve a lot of reading body language and tone, and reading into what they're saying and past the actual words. It's been so long since I watched it, I don't know if our video on "how to read anyone" would help but that has some similar stuff in it. In terms of how to reach out, I feel like any attempt to reach out and extend some love is better than not reaching out
That's awesome! And yeah I think that's a great video idea. Years ago I could've just recording a video of Charlie arguing, would have been amazing! Sadly he's gotten much less stubborn with time haha
I'm a fan of Gary and I think it's fine that he interrupts if that's what he wants to do and how he wants to run his show. But if he really wants to find out what makes his guests tick, the most important skill is listening. It's when people get comfortable and spill the beans. Whatever floats his boat though! It's still entertaining and true to his personality.
Hmm, I don't see the charisma. I guess the appeal is that he's "blunt" to people who can't be realistically self-critical. To me, he just seems condescending and manipulative. He isn't captivating or charming, he's an average joe, I'm surprised he has that many followers. Good for him though, you gotta respect success.
I've been following him for sometime now and I can honestly say he is not the type of person to manipulate people. The reason some people don't like him is becahse he is not afraid to say the truth and he isn't fake.
Exactly. They may still like him but it’s manipulation and fake, I used it for 32 years negotiating. And usually walked away with more than I wanted. Selling ice to Eskimo’s is about manipulation. Through humor or fake compliments or however.
Hey guys! I have been following the channel for a few years already, and I just wanted to say thank you for all the wonderful lessons you have taught me and at this point millions of people. I am glad to have found this channel and grateful for the impact It had in my life.
I think it is deeper. It is not a matter of touching, or anything. It is that if you say what you think and you are genuinely honest with everything you do and you genuinely project a good intention for that person it makes you authentic and also on their side which you cant get mad at because people at the end of the day want honesty with out digging for it and they will respect that if it is put upfront.
1. fully being who you are by not caring how other people think(stable personality) 2. body touch when people get aggravated. humor, physical warmth, kindness, blunt. 3. good intention even saying sth. offensive. 4. be a happy, kind and charismatic person
He just looks people in the eye when he is listening to show that he's really listening, and he smiles a lot when disagreeing with someone, openly while looking at them.
Benjamin Altman well it is a show on the History Channel and it's about the world of the Vikings. Ragnar was the most famous Viking of his Era and he was a good leader. I think he is a really interesting character and I think you will like the show. Ps: you guys are the best!
Thank for telling me how to be rude without being rude. I love interrupt with people talking about a meaningless and repetitive thing even though I know it is a human desire to express their feelings and ideas, it just wasting my time.
Is it possible that this is more of a testament to his guests and their patience and composure than Gary. Possibly. (Touches you) But still some GREAT points! Awesome video!
Hey people in the comments... NO. DO NOT DO THIS. DO NOT GRAB AND TOUCH PEOPLE MID-CONVERSATION. The way he grabs people in this video especially after annoying someone is an absolute NO. Maybe there are some people who don't mind it, but most people I'm sure would be even more annoyed if not downright angry at anyone doing that. I repeat - DO NOT DO THAT.
It depends on the situation and how well you know there person and how the person feels about you I think. Everyone's different amd some people are going to like it and other aren't. Gary Vee is always talking about how you shouldn't let one persons opinion about you put ypu down so I guess that's how he lives his life.
Okay first of all just because they were cordial while on camera does it mean when they left the show or left his presence they weren't cursing his name and as far as his followers people love controversy not that hard to figure out and definitely wouldn't give anybody at the advice to be like him he's a very special individual
George Daugherty i never gave my open Yin of him and the fact of the matter is the people that he interviewed that you don't know and have never met it's impossible for you to know what their true opinion of this man really is that's all I was stating if you didn't comprehend what I said
@@CREATORWORKSINFINITE He's a special individual, bit it doesn't mean he's a bad person. He has a different way of thinking and he's not afraid to say what's o his mind. That's why I like him and one reason why I've been following him on social media for a while. He is honestly just a geniune guy that want's to see people succeed. You may not agree with him, but I can tell you that a lot of people don't follow him because he's controversial. He's honestly has some really good advice and wisdom.
Nice one adding your add to the middle of the video, it made me watching it as i looked to the video limit. Well played, love your channel keep it rolling
I think Gary is a great balance of ego and self awareness. He is competitive and aggressive about influencing the world and the people in it, so he can come across as an asshole cutting people off and being SO abrasive and no bullshit IF necessary. This is his natural sales ability and what he refers to when he says he could have been a sleazy salesman. He also tempers this with his use of touch, facial expression, humour, flattery and crucially VALUE. All these things but particularly the value he delivers make his personality pallatable to others. He not only communicates that he's your friend he SHOWS you what value he brings as a friend or it's apparent because you're on his show speaking to his hundreds of thousands and millions of followers. That makes you more likely to forgive someone when they're directly benefitting you. In my experience when someone is delivering apparent value to me and is critical or annoying or unfunny, they also get more leeway. How they frame it with touch, with an expression with flattery can allow you to perceive it as playful or in the case of harsh criticism even helpful.
With gary it is very important to know the intent and context. Once you see a couple videos of him you will notice the kindness and his mission of bringing value to people by expressing we should all look for happiness. He is a business owner and loves to work so maybe he can come off as annoying but he is an amazing guy who wants all of us to be happy. There should not be any negative comments
TheRealHerbaSchmurba *That's* what it's called - I noticed it was similar to what Trump does/did with the infamous handshake, but didn't know it was a known technique
How do you become more articulate? I have this problem where I try to explain a topic, even something I'm interested in, and I seem to lose focus because I'm trying to remember the information as best as I can more than how I express my interesting topic. As a result, I stammer, derail my focus, and come off boring.
Same here, or I just explain that topic badly. I would think that the best fix would be to master that topic, which is something I’m currently kinda lazy on.
"How do I give a ton of value to other people while pursuing my dreams?" That is the question I'll be asking myself on the daily. It's a winning formula.
That's crazy, I just saw a book of him in the store and now I got home and there's a video about this guy What the hell I never heard of him before haha And now you nailed it right when I wanted it
I love gary, he is what I would consider an amazing friend, just the way I want somebody to be to me like. I've watched him for three years and from the first moment I considered him intelligent and then I grew attracted to his personality that is so inspiring and or special.
He's acknowledged his audience's dislike for him interrupting his guests (with whom he's friends with outside of these interviews), and has gotten better about it in the past few months. He's been doing this for a while, and learns and adapts. He has done the interview thing before, even back in the WLTV days, but doing a full on proper interview centric show is relatively new for him, so he got the feedback on his interrupting and took what he preached and adapted/improved. You gotta give him credit on that one :)
The body language of his guests at the end express resentment and hostility toward gary. The bald guy actually clenched his fist and mock hit him in the arm. Not good.
to understand gary you really have to count the number of whiskers on his face. I myself counted his whiskers in every one of his videos, and I discovered that the number of whiskers on his face is ALWAYS a multiple of four. This is not a coincidence. The human mind is hardwired to be become more receptive and forgiving when faced with multiples of the number 4. (i am a psychology)
Hey Terra! Deeeeefinitely need to calibrate touch based on gender, culture, religion, etc. Did you see the Chris Hemsworth breakdown "how to be popular without trying"? I did a pretty detailed stretch on touch that you might like
I was wondering if there is some sort of alternative to the touching because as a woman I really don't think it's a good idea for me to be touching on men too much. And really women either ... I don't think most people really like to be touched by people they don't know well.
I hope you make a podcast because we need to listen when we're out in the street, or while we're doing something and makes us remember what to do in social life ! Thank you
Really well done, thank you so much for this content! I love the decision to have many different scenes of Gary pan quickly while you were talking, it created a very enticing viewing experience. Also, very nice touch showing the RUclips comment that endorsed Gary while you made the point that people like his bluntness, great synchronicity.
You should do a video on MBTI personality types and how each have a different way of being charismatic. I think Gary is ENTJ personality type, which perfectly explains his style. It can help people pick the style that is bet suited to their own personality.
Maybe he’s a sociopath? Doesn’t care if he offends people, ‘I apologize’ is a mere phrase to him that doesn’t mean anything. He’s just a skillful communicator and he just does his own race without regard for anything other than his own utility. I respect that.
He often says he doesn't get why people have certain emotional hang-ups or have emotional problems from a rough upbringing or a traumatic past, which could point to narcissistic/sociopathic tendencies i.e. a lack of empathy. The dude brags about how easy it is for him to get whatever he wants and do whatever he wants all the time. Boy does he love to tell you what he is "a big fan of". It's the world according to Gary and nothing else.
The thing no one tells you about beeing yourself and about beeing honest, authentic, blunt, whatsoever, is that - whilst there may be a lot of people that like you for it - there's even more who will either hate you as much or do not even take the time to understand that this IS actually authentically you and you're only up to helping people... #speakingfromexperience #thankyouworld
I absolutely love your videos and can't wait for more!!! I was wondering if you do a video over Lucifer from the T.V show? I just find his personality so fascinating!
surely gary vee has a lot he can teach me (an aspiring entrepreneur and youtuber). but then again, so do many people who are not obnoxious and rude. so i do often feel like my time is better spend watching someone who doesnt constantly yell at me...
Very interesting to see how Gary Vee invokes "fury" in his conversation partners, which doesn't even backfire, but adds tremendously to his unique charm. In "How The Rock Went From Flop To Superstar" you mention how The Rock invokes strong emotions in his audience, which captivates them. What Gary Vee does seems quite similar... although the emotions differ.
Hey guys! This channel has had such a positive impact on my life. You and Charlie are awesome and such an inspiration. I think it would super cool if you guys did charisma breakdowns on each other or even just videos of you in everyday conversation. Thank you for all you do!!
You know how you connect with someone only because you like the same folks? To me that folk is Gary. If you like him we will probably get along, but if you don't get him, I know that we see the world in a completely different way. And that's ok. It just saves time! That being said, he puts out so much content that if you want to get him you should definitely watch more of him. 10 minutes is just not enough. Great video though! Good job :)
He makes you feel like you are stupid or that you cannot get along, followed by making you feel loved regardless, which is humbling and relieving. He is very manipulative.
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You mean to tell me a good looking guy with a lot of money has charisma? GTFO of here!
Charisma on Command,
I couldnt find a video on your take for dealing with difficult situations. For example, in teamwork situations and along with other people. I understand that praise and modesty can be utilized for gaining trust and charismatic purposes. What about advice on how to proceed when someone isnt performing in a teamwork environment. While remaining true to some charismatic philosophies you mentioned in past videos.
I would like to pick your brain on what to do as a leader and a general member. I try to be honest and straightforward to the point. I notice some members of my team arent performing as well, most of the other members casually insult them behind their backs about their performance. Sometimes I comment on what they are doing well and make suggestions, sometimes I just tell them what they need to fix. I find that maintaining a high level of charisma in a team where some members arent performing well to be a difficult task. Sometimes I feel I am too neutral or not decisive enough to communicate while keeping in mind that I want to be charismatic with everyone.
I was wondering what is your take on these issues. Charisma is important and utilized for different purposes at times, but I wanted to maintain the guidelines of charisma, while dealing with those issues that arise in the best way possible.
@ Charisma on Command, Can you PLEASE do a video about what to do when you feel like you're becoming lost and think nothing will get better.
Could you describe please the pros and coins of Dr. Cox's charisma from TV show ''Scrubs''
Dude, awesome content! I couldnt find the exact video though on those other two emotions you were talking about in this video..but you've put up a video on "this innocent mistake on first immpressions..".. Do you have the original video?
Gary’s game is unpredictability. He is randomly mean and nice. It’s scientifically proven that uncertainty is addictive. That’s how abusers operate and make their victims blame themselves
Good insight!
Gary's only abuse is good habits, and hard work.
so true, he is a good example... not saying that he emotionally abuses women though lol
I'm unpredictable
I think he's fucking annoying, I'd hate to be around him constantly
To be honest, I don't like to be around guys like Gary. Sure they're charismatic, but I still never feel great after leaving them and not being rude in the first place is more important than whatever you do to make up for it.
The feeling you have after leaving someone is your true feelings about them. Trust your intuition.
People like you hated me growing up and I'm still dislike people like you. Because I'm like Gary and you just reminded me of so many people. People like me and Gary don't care what you think. We don't change who we are. People like you dance around feelings to save face.
totally agree, I can't get behind him.
@@Malik_Hoff A different view: That's very black and white. I like blunt people, but not people like Gary, tell me I'm bad at x y and z; I welcome that but don't touch me/hug me while you're saying it, I want respect that I can handle the truth not patronising hugs/touches (I often find he does this in place of just allowing people to air their view), that is also really dancing around peoples feelings. In essence the tactic is 'I know I'm saying all this mean stuff and not allowing you to speak but that's ok because here's a hug :D'
Gary is the kind of person that feels the need to be dominate all the time. The only reason why he’s getting away with the touching, interrupting and just being flat out rude is not because he has the skills to get you to like him despite the flaws but because those around him lack the confidence he has to challenge him. Not saying he’s a horrible person but he’s still a prime example of how confidence can be a dangerous tool in the wrong hands.
This is the type of guy you'd pretend to like if you were physically with him, but when you're alone you'd realise he's an irritating person that you don't want to be with.
The only redeeming quality I find with him is that he's being blunt.
Though, I'd personally prefer someone to say the rude things he has to say about me in my face than behind my back.
will have to disagree here, I feel the opposite. Feels like the kind of person that i'd find annoying at first but appreciate the honesty and the kind-meaning in the long run. If you stick with him you just see through actions how much sheer value he tries to give away to people he talks to. And it's refreshing to know someone won't refrain from calling you out for fear of confrontation
"When someone is brutaly honest, he don't want to be honest but brutal". I don't trust that kind of people.
@@FlorenciaVM1 that is inherently wrong to be brutally honest is to be unfiltered while talking
@@OrnateOwl I'd prefer not to be around fake people at all lol
This is the best title ever for Gary
Thanks! I brainstormed about 20 of them before landing on this one soooo pretty excited to read that haha
Yes! Perfect title! Great video & Gary explanation ❤️
no shit!
Thanks Red Rocket Resells!
I’ve been following Gary since 2016 and I can say he has improve so much with the interrupting thing, and best of all since the beginning he knew he was a little annoying during interviews, and he work that. He teaches self-aware and he live that everyday. This guy has to be one of the most honest people on earth, he will give you everything he know without asking anything.
I just interviewed Gary for my podcast and I told him about this video! He got really curious about it and I sent him the link. You guys did a great job here :)
Carolina Millan that's very interesting Carolina thank you. So he doesn't even realize what it is that he's doing? Or what? I think he must but maybe just doesn't understand why I don't know this is weird. Maybe in your next interview you can ask him what he thought of this video.
Whats your podcast called?
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How:
1. Friendly touch, early, often, before aggravation
2. Compliment, with good humor
3. Authentic/genuine: true energy and honesty, without caring about others’ opinions (with care)
4. Have good advice
5. Be willing to apologize
Just remember Gary hasn't always been this Charismatic.
Gary has been practising giving value for ages before showing himself to the public eye.
Stay patience brothers!
Goodstuff before wine Library?
When he sold lemonade and baseball cards I think he got some understanding of what kind of value people want to pay for.
Hope the Jordan Peterson video is coming next. We voted for it !
IRM TV - Irish Rap & Grime would love to see that tbf
Yes !
You know it! Charlie’s working on it as I type this 👍👍
Yessss!! Love him
Jordan Peterson works so well because he uses bluntness plus vision. And he is speaking well for a group that doesn't have a lot of people able to speak for it in a way that doesn't upset people, he's really pretty eloquent and you can see he is not really extreme and does not come off as an enemy to others on an opposing side often. now i haven't watched his videos talking to trans people so I don't know how he comes across there. ,
since there are not a lot of speakers right now able to do this, it is also being at the right place at the right time.
All those interruptions were pissing me off and i wasn't even the one getting interrupted.
Plus when i'm irritated i don't particularly like being touched.
This guy would drive me nucking futs.
I'm the same way, someone constantly talking over me after asking me a question without allowing me to deliver the answer unimpeded is usually a conversational crime that I tend not to forget by the end of the dialogue. That, and despite not having an understandable background excuse for disliking physical contact from others (for example, being physically abused as a child or something along those lines), I usually instantly internalize physical contact during a discussion as being decidedly negative/uncomfortable.
I think for most people, you can suss out through a conversation what sorts of things they find to be offensive or visibly uncomfortable through their micro-expressions, but physical contact is always a unique risk as you never know how the person is going to feel, and the manner in which you touch them is EXTREMELY important to whether they identify you as either a comfortable presence, or an uncomfortable one.
*nucking futs* 😂😂😂 Same
Also I would really like to see a video on how to see if someone is hiding sadness and pain and how to reach out to them? Even when you do not know this person very well. How to see something is wrong.
Nice idea. I think it's going to involve a lot of reading body language and tone, and reading into what they're saying and past the actual words. It's been so long since I watched it, I don't know if our video on "how to read anyone" would help but that has some similar stuff in it. In terms of how to reach out, I feel like any attempt to reach out and extend some love is better than not reaching out
I don't know who this guy is , but the video was great.
Ps. Can you do a video on how to deal with extremely stubborn people?
Sarah A. Prove them wrong through kindness and aggravation;)
That's awesome! And yeah I think that's a great video idea. Years ago I could've just recording a video of Charlie arguing, would have been amazing! Sadly he's gotten much less stubborn with time haha
Sarah... if you can get passed any initial feelings, Gary Vaynerchuk is one of the most valuable business and marketing minds of our time.
Benjamin Altman yes, please please please! !!!
He has some great motivational speeches, and for me his rough voice pleasant :)
I'm a fan of Gary and I think it's fine that he interrupts if that's what he wants to do and how he wants to run his show. But if he really wants to find out what makes his guests tick, the most important skill is listening. It's when people get comfortable and spill the beans. Whatever floats his boat though! It's still entertaining and true to his personality.
Who care if you hate him or
hate him again.
The Art of Happiness He doesn’t.
Hmm, I don't see the charisma. I guess the appeal is that he's "blunt" to people who can't be realistically self-critical. To me, he just seems condescending and manipulative. He isn't captivating or charming, he's an average joe, I'm surprised he has that many followers. Good for him though, you gotta respect success.
I've been following him for sometime now and I can honestly say he is not the type of person to manipulate people. The reason some people don't like him is becahse he is not afraid to say the truth and he isn't fake.
Exactly. They may still like him but it’s manipulation and fake, I used it for 32 years negotiating. And usually walked away with more than I wanted. Selling ice to Eskimo’s is about manipulation. Through humor or fake compliments or however.
@@kilo393 no, he is the fakest fake there is. Just of a different, kinda new kind.
Hey guys!
I have been following the channel for a few years already, and I just wanted to say thank you for all the wonderful lessons you have taught me and at this point millions of people. I am glad to have found this channel and grateful for the impact It had in my life.
Dang Juan! Way to make my day man :-)
Seriously appreciate the comment and I'm really really happy to hear it's had a positive impact on your life
I think it is deeper. It is not a matter of touching, or anything. It is that if you say what you think and you are genuinely honest with everything you do and you genuinely project a good intention for that person it makes you authentic and also on their side which you cant get mad at because people at the end of the day want honesty with out digging for it and they will respect that if it is put upfront.
1. fully being who you are by not caring how other people think(stable personality) 2. body touch when people get aggravated. humor, physical warmth, kindness, blunt. 3. good intention even saying sth. offensive. 4. be a happy, kind and charismatic person
I like this guy straight to the point, doesnt beat around the bush and is as real as can be.
He just looks people in the eye when he is listening to show that he's really listening, and he smiles a lot when disagreeing with someone, openly while looking at them.
Can you make a charisma analysis on Ragnar Lothbrok from Vikings?
I will add him to the list! What kind of show is it? It would involve 5 seasons of catching up so hopefully I like it haha
Benjamin Altman well it is a show on the History Channel and it's about the world of the Vikings. Ragnar was the most famous Viking of his Era and he was a good leader. I think he is a really interesting character and I think you will like the show.
Ps: you guys are the best!
I'll check it out!
YES, please!
The good thing about Gary is he doesn’t sugarcoat you with BS. Raw facts. That’s why I love him.
Thank for telling me how to be rude without being rude. I love interrupt with people talking about a meaningless and repetitive thing even though I know it is a human desire to express their feelings and ideas, it just wasting my time.
Is it possible that this is more of a testament to his guests and their patience and composure than Gary. Possibly. (Touches you) But still some GREAT points! Awesome video!
please do more about gary because his personality is so special and one of a kind you should really dig deep into it
Hey Mustapha! If the video does well then I can definitely do a second one. I have pages of unused clips and notes to pull from haha
Do it already Benjamin!! ;)
Yeessss
Absolutely agree! I'd love to watch and share it too
Hey people in the comments... NO. DO NOT DO THIS. DO NOT GRAB AND TOUCH PEOPLE MID-CONVERSATION. The way he grabs people in this video especially after annoying someone is an absolute NO. Maybe there are some people who don't mind it, but most people I'm sure would be even more annoyed if not downright angry at anyone doing that. I repeat - DO NOT DO THAT.
It depends on the situation and how well you know there person and how the person feels about you I think. Everyone's different amd some people are going to like it and other aren't. Gary Vee is always talking about how you shouldn't let one persons opinion about you put ypu down so I guess that's how he lives his life.
No they should do it only if it was authentic and their personality is the type of touchy person like Gary.
Okay first of all just because they were cordial while on camera does it mean when they left the show or left his presence they weren't cursing his name and as far as his followers people love controversy not that hard to figure out and definitely wouldn't give anybody at the advice to be like him he's a very special individual
As someone who's met him and have talked to others who have met him, most if not all, think the world of the guy. Trust me, he's a special individual.
George Daugherty i never gave my open Yin of him and the fact of the matter is the people that he interviewed that you don't know and have never met it's impossible for you to know what their true opinion of this man really is that's all I was stating if you didn't comprehend what I said
This comment shows me that you literally have no idea who Gary Vaynerchuk is.
Sacredgeometry lol ... We have an Einstein on Deck watch out...lol I literally do not know who he is but I do study psychology whoever you might be
@@CREATORWORKSINFINITE He's a special individual, bit it doesn't mean he's a bad person. He has a different way of thinking and he's not afraid to say what's o his mind. That's why I like him and one reason why I've been following him on social media for a while. He is honestly just a geniune guy that want's to see people succeed. You may not agree with him, but I can tell you that a lot of people don't follow him because he's controversial. He's honestly has some really good advice and wisdom.
I m a really great fan of Garyvee..thx a lot charlie and Ben for bringing up this video.. enjoyed it..
My pleasure Abhishek, glad you enjoyed it :-)
Love that you did someone with rather unconventional charisma. This vid is great. 👍
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Nice one adding your add to the middle of the video, it made me watching it as i looked to the video limit. Well played, love your channel keep it rolling
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As always, wonderful video!
I think Gary is a great balance of ego and self awareness.
He is competitive and aggressive about influencing the world and the people in it, so he can come across as an asshole cutting people off and being SO abrasive and no bullshit IF necessary. This is his natural sales ability and what he refers to when he says he could have been a sleazy salesman.
He also tempers this with his use of touch, facial expression, humour, flattery and crucially VALUE. All these things but particularly the value he delivers make his personality pallatable to others. He not only communicates that he's your friend he SHOWS you what value he brings as a friend or it's apparent because you're on his show speaking to his hundreds of thousands and millions of followers. That makes you more likely to forgive someone when they're directly benefitting you.
In my experience when someone is delivering apparent value to me and is critical or annoying or unfunny, they also get more leeway. How they frame it with touch, with an expression with flattery can allow you to perceive it as playful or in the case of harsh criticism even helpful.
With gary it is very important to know the intent and context. Once you see a couple videos of him you will notice the kindness and his mission of bringing value to people by expressing we should all look for happiness. He is a business owner and loves to work so maybe he can come off as annoying but he is an amazing guy who wants all of us to be happy. There should not be any negative comments
You guys are killing it!Would love more videos on youtubers
Glad you think so! And you got it, that is definitely on the calendar for 2018 :-)
A master of push pull
TheRealHerbaSchmurba rsd
TheRealHerbaSchmurba *That's* what it's called - I noticed it was similar to what Trump does/did with the infamous handshake, but didn't know it was a known technique
How do you become more articulate? I have this problem where I try to explain a topic, even something I'm interested in, and I seem to lose focus because I'm trying to remember the information as best as I can more than how I express my interesting topic. As a result, I stammer, derail my focus, and come off boring.
Same here, or I just explain that topic badly.
I would think that the best fix would be to master that topic, which is something I’m currently kinda lazy on.
"How do I give a ton of value to other people while pursuing my dreams?" That is the question I'll be asking myself on the daily. It's a winning formula.
Could you guys do a zlatan ibrahimovic charisma analysis video?
jon ken YESSSSSSS
jon ken we all love Zlatan
Yo Jon! I'm not a huge footballer so don't know much about him but I'll add him to our list to look into
Yes please!
Yesssss pleaseeee
Amazing analysis .. I wish this could have been longer .. one of the videos that I did not want to end ... :)
~ Awesome! Glad you're digging it :-)
absolutely LOVE GaryV
That's crazy, I just saw a book of him in the store and now I got home and there's a video about this guy
What the hell
I never heard of him before haha
And now you nailed it right when I wanted it
Thank you My Dear
I love gary, he is what I would consider an amazing friend, just the way I want somebody to be to me like. I've watched him for three years and from the first moment I considered him intelligent and then I grew attracted to his personality that is so inspiring and or special.
Great idea to answer comments in the first hour. Made me click the bell to receive a notification when you post next!
~ Awesome! Watch out for a new video on Monday. :-)
We need an Eric Andre charisma on command episode
I'll add him to the list!
Benjamin Altman, oh my god thanks for the replie. This is amazing you just made my day
Yes, please do this
How could you say something so controversial yet so brave?
He's acknowledged his audience's dislike for him interrupting his guests (with whom he's friends with outside of these interviews), and has gotten better about it in the past few months. He's been doing this for a while, and learns and adapts. He has done the interview thing before, even back in the WLTV days, but doing a full on proper interview centric show is relatively new for him, so he got the feedback on his interrupting and took what he preached and adapted/improved. You gotta give him credit on that one :)
He acts like he is wired on coke.
Hahaha that's definitely not an inaccurate description for some of his clips
He is just happy that he is alive I think.
Punocchio maybe. I think it is a front.
He acts like he is full of gratitude
Did coke once, remembered how he acted then, emulates it now.
The body language of his guests at the end express resentment and hostility toward gary. The bald guy actually clenched his fist and mock hit him in the arm. Not good.
One of the greatest entrepreneurs of all time. Love him, amazing video guys
to understand gary you really have to count the number of whiskers on his face. I myself counted his whiskers in every one of his videos, and I discovered that the number of whiskers on his face is ALWAYS a multiple of four. This is not a coincidence. The human mind is hardwired to be become more receptive and forgiving when faced with multiples of the number 4. (i am a psychology)
He tells the cold blooded truth. Its hard for people to swallow that, but that is what is most needed.
Gary is awesome !!! 😎😎😎
I’m curious if that kind of touch would work with women too. Personally if I was touched like I would be extremely creeped out, or maybe it’s just me
Terra Carr I had the same thought. I found it very invasive.
Hey Terra! Deeeeefinitely need to calibrate touch based on gender, culture, religion, etc. Did you see the Chris Hemsworth breakdown "how to be popular without trying"? I did a pretty detailed stretch on touch that you might like
I also wonder how this personality would be received if it were a woman. Especially with the touching.
I like Gary.. Soo many females dislike me. Unless they are extremely comfortable with themselves.
I was wondering if there is some sort of alternative to the touching because as a woman I really don't think it's a good idea for me to be touching on men too much. And really women either ... I don't think most people really like to be touched by people they don't know well.
I hope you make a podcast because we need to listen when we're out in the street, or while we're doing something and makes us remember what to do in social life ! Thank you
Do Lavar Ball next
Great breakdown of one of the most charismatic speakers out there right now!
~ Glad you like the breakdown Adnan!
Really well done, thank you so much for this content! I love the decision to have many different scenes of Gary pan quickly while you were talking, it created a very enticing viewing experience. Also, very nice touch showing the RUclips comment that endorsed Gary while you made the point that people like his bluntness, great synchronicity.
~ Glad you're liking it Dylan!
You should do a video on MBTI personality types and how each have a different way of being charismatic. I think Gary is ENTJ personality type, which perfectly explains his style. It can help people pick the style that is bet suited to their own personality.
Been waiting for this @charisma I love this Garyvee
This is so true. He loves to hear himself talk more than others it seems like. Still a fan, but its an issue
I know this is an oldie, but really liked this video. Good points.
This is one of your best videos yet! Thank you for the content.
~ Appreciate that, Eric!
Another great breakdown guys. I love +GaryVee. He's so authentic. I was super stoked when I saw this video pop up. Thanks again for a great channel!
~ Glad you're liking it Anthony!
I've been waiting for this video!
Great vid mate.
Thanks Kai!
Gary's the man. He's improved on his interview skills, as well. #GaryV4life
Maybe he’s a sociopath? Doesn’t care if he offends people, ‘I apologize’ is a mere phrase to him that doesn’t mean anything. He’s just a skillful communicator and he just does his own race without regard for anything other than his own utility. I respect that.
He often says he doesn't get why people have certain emotional hang-ups or have emotional problems from a rough upbringing or a traumatic past, which could point to narcissistic/sociopathic tendencies i.e. a lack of empathy. The dude brags about how easy it is for him to get whatever he wants and do whatever he wants all the time. Boy does he love to tell you what he is "a big fan of". It's the world according to Gary and nothing else.
The thing no one tells you about beeing yourself and about beeing honest, authentic, blunt, whatsoever, is that - whilst there may be a lot of people that like you for it - there's even more who will either hate you as much or do not even take the time to understand that this IS actually authentically you and you're only up to helping people... #speakingfromexperience #thankyouworld
I absolutely love your videos and can't wait for more!!! I was wondering if you do a video over Lucifer from the T.V show? I just find his personality so fascinating!
surely gary vee has a lot he can teach me (an aspiring entrepreneur and youtuber). but then again, so do many people who are not obnoxious and rude. so i do often feel like my time is better spend watching someone who doesnt constantly yell at me...
I love this man
Gary's really amazing 🔑🔥
Love it.
~ Glad to hear it :-)
I needed this
Nice!
Gary's charismatic habits:
1. Raising the energy
2. Enthusiastic hand gestures
3. Friendly touch
4. Compliment
5. 24/7 honesty
Gary V is a machine!
Gary doesn't hate science even if he says he does. He preaches learning from failure and observation. Literally the definition of science.
Love!
Very good!
Loved it guys!
~ Glad you loved it James!
Haven't been a fan of Gary, but this has made me see him in another life. That's the sign of a phenomenal video. Persuasion through quality content.
~ Glad you're digging the content Jay!
I was waiting for this video, I love Gary. You guys did a great job! Love y'all.
~ Glad you like it!
Love this!!!
Very interesting to see how Gary Vee invokes "fury" in his conversation partners, which doesn't even backfire, but adds tremendously to his unique charm. In "How The Rock Went From Flop To Superstar" you mention how The Rock invokes strong emotions in his audience, which captivates them. What Gary Vee does seems quite similar... although the emotions differ.
this is from the good videos, appreciate it
He is one of my fave people!! 💘
i've been waiting for this video
Love love love Gary- listening to his books now- he is so authentic and rude! :)
Great video!! What do you guys think about school, college and middle school. Should you drop out and self educate or continue schooling?
Basically blunt and genuinely good, great video
Thanks for a great video, Charisma on Command!
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I 💙💜💚💛❤ THIS CHANNEL !!!!!!
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Charisma on Command always 😊
Hey guys! This channel has had such a positive impact on my life. You and Charlie are awesome and such an inspiration. I think it would super cool if you guys did charisma breakdowns on each other or even just videos of you in everyday conversation. Thank you for all you do!!
Best description of Gary 🤣 also I love you guys for all that you have done ❤️
Haha thanks Skilanator!
You know how you connect with someone only because you like the same folks? To me that folk is Gary. If you like him we will probably get along, but if you don't get him, I know that we see the world in a completely different way. And that's ok. It just saves time! That being said, he puts out so much content that if you want to get him you should definitely watch more of him. 10 minutes is just not enough. Great video though! Good job :)
Hell yes. Finally. FINALLY
He makes you feel like you are stupid or that you cannot get along, followed by making you feel loved regardless, which is humbling and relieving. He is very manipulative.
This was a good one. 🙌🏼
~ Glad you like it Daisy!
Great content!
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