So many principals discussed here are EXACTLY what Jesus teaches both in the BIBLE, and A COURSE IN MIRACLES. The whole Crucifixion was a lesson for us to see the possibility and result of forgiveness. Thank you Gary for breaking this down into something doable and not religious! (I mentioned Jesus here to show that it's NOT about Religion, but about our own sanity, peace, and the development of Love)
Jesus Said..”Forgive and You shall be Forgiven.” The Will of God is Forgiveness. We hurt ourselves and stop our own progress when we do not forgive. Knowing the principle is one thing. This mans illustration is Excellent! It really helped me. We have to judge right and wrong for Ourselves to determine the Right thing for us to Do..but once it is Done..there is nothing left..but Forgiveness..for ourselves and for others. I have greatly hampered my own happiness and progress with my own Unforgiveness. Thank you so much for this illustration!
I got the word to simplify my opinion. It is not a sin to reject ourselves, rather it is because we've seen ourself as sinners that we reject ourselves. That's what I've been trying to say in my very long earlier post. Thanks.
I'd say that's a good point. That we first perceive something as "rejectable" and then express the judgment of criticism about it. Yes, the false perception does come first, as we see it through the mote "belief system" that filters our eyes.
@@garyvanwarmerdam1206 waoh! Been ages sir. Never have I needed your help than I do now. Been very lackadaisical in straightening myself up despite knowing about your coaching sessions and podcasts since 2013. Forced myself to listen to "Anger Management" and "Overcoming Fear" podcasts. and they took me a whole week to fully internalize, due to a slew of issues bedeviling my brain. I've infact gotten to a stage I've decided I'll NEVER get married. I'll just have baby mamas and continue my life in solo, due to the numerous issues I've had with especially women, and people in general. There are so many things I'll love to discuss with you about personally- if you can, as my case is VERY special. I'm the past born, bullied by my sisters for 24years whe I graduated college as a Medical Doctor in 2011. These issues have made me really hate women, and just see them as sex objects. I've however hurt myself more though, as I'm still stuck in the same position while my colleagues I was even far bette than in college are now at least 5years ahead of me. I've been through hell I once contemplated committing suicide after I take out a girl that disrespected me. Sorry for the LONG epistle, but in a nutshell, I've been through hell in this life, and I can't even say I'm in "survive mode", I'm just there. Please help out sir. Hope it doesn't take years before you reply this again, I could be reached on drlawalonaolapo@gmail.com and I'm a Nigerian doctor. Thanks and remain in Love!
@@onaolapolawal4952 Are you doing the Self Mastery Courses at pathwaytohappiness.com/courses/ That's where you can learn and develop the skills you need to change these thoughts and emotions at the belief level.
Just finished watching this and I've always followed your line of thought, albeit incompletely. I see this topic of forgiveness as me being a teacher marking my students' exam sheets. Some students may fill in the correct answer and be marked right while some the wrong answer and be marked wrong. I mark the incorrect answers wrong without any ill feelings that the person has done something wrong, in other words I "punish" the person by marking them wrong, same way I believe I should be able to punish someone for a wrong doing in real life without punishing or beating up myself as you described in this video. I look forward to your view on this analysis just made. Thanks.
Hello Gary, i wanna critique one of your podcasts name "Impeccability". You said it is a sin to judge one's self. I think you got it mixed up. We judge ourself after we believe ourself to be have sinned or become "un-impeccable" if I may use this. You said the expression of fault is not impeccable but that's wrong. Cos we first of all see our fault and once we see our fault, that's where the judgement comes in. Except you want to say it is a sin to see a fault in ourselves. Meaning we should see ourselves as perfect. But if you conclude it is a sin to judge ourselves for the fault we see, I think that's wrong. Impeccability means without fault, without sin, you're right on that, but when we take things personal, we see a fault and we therefore judge ourselves. What's impeccable is something that has no fault, when it becomes "peccable" it's because there is a fault with it which makes it "judgable", should I say "peccable". Except you're trting to make us totally negligent or oblivious of our fault that's when you can say we are impeccable. But your line that "finding fault with our image and rejecting it, is a sin" is wrong in my opinion. I wish I could be more clearer and explanatory than this. I really do hope you get my point of view so I can get a proper feedback from you. Keep up with the great and fantastic work sir!
It's a process to change your beliefs. Changing you beliefs includes changing your perspective, emotions, and assumptions that feed your conclusions. It's a process that takes skills. It's what I teach in my self mastery courses.
I feel I was meant to find you. This is my life right now. Thank you, Gary.
So many principals discussed here are EXACTLY what Jesus teaches both in the BIBLE, and A COURSE IN MIRACLES. The whole Crucifixion was a lesson for us to see the possibility and result of forgiveness. Thank you Gary for breaking this down into something doable and not religious! (I mentioned Jesus here to show that it's NOT about Religion, but about our own sanity, peace, and the development of Love)
Jesus Said..”Forgive and You shall be Forgiven.” The Will of God is Forgiveness. We hurt ourselves and stop our own progress when we do not forgive. Knowing the principle is one thing. This mans illustration is Excellent! It really helped me. We have to judge right and wrong for Ourselves to determine the Right thing for us to Do..but once it is Done..there is nothing left..but Forgiveness..for ourselves and for others. I have greatly hampered my own happiness and progress with my own Unforgiveness. Thank you so much for this illustration!
I feel that this video is a grounding exercise.
I got the word to simplify my opinion.
It is not a sin to reject ourselves, rather it is because we've seen ourself as sinners that we reject ourselves.
That's what I've been trying to say in my very long earlier post.
Thanks.
I'd say that's a good point. That we first perceive something as "rejectable" and then express the judgment of criticism about it. Yes, the false perception does come first, as we see it through the mote "belief system" that filters our eyes.
@@garyvanwarmerdam1206 waoh! Been ages sir. Never have I needed your help than I do now. Been very lackadaisical in straightening myself up despite knowing about your coaching sessions and podcasts since 2013. Forced myself to listen to "Anger Management" and "Overcoming Fear" podcasts. and they took me a whole week to fully internalize, due to a slew of issues bedeviling my brain. I've infact gotten to a stage I've decided I'll NEVER get married. I'll just have baby mamas and continue my life in solo, due to the numerous issues I've had with especially women, and people in general.
There are so many things I'll love to discuss with you about personally- if you can, as my case is VERY special. I'm the past born, bullied by my sisters for 24years whe I graduated college as a Medical Doctor in 2011. These issues have made me really hate women, and just see them as sex objects. I've however hurt myself more though, as I'm still stuck in the same position while my colleagues I was even far bette than in college are now at least 5years ahead of me.
I've been through hell I once contemplated committing suicide after I take out a girl that disrespected me.
Sorry for the LONG epistle, but in a nutshell, I've been through hell in this life, and I can't even say I'm in "survive mode", I'm just there.
Please help out sir.
Hope it doesn't take years before you reply this again, I could be reached on drlawalonaolapo@gmail.com and I'm a Nigerian doctor.
Thanks and remain in Love!
@@onaolapolawal4952 Are you doing the Self Mastery Courses at pathwaytohappiness.com/courses/ That's where you can learn and develop the skills you need to change these thoughts and emotions at the belief level.
It is what it is..thanks for sharing this....
Great video, thank you.
Just finished watching this and I've always followed your line of thought, albeit incompletely.
I see this topic of forgiveness as me being a teacher marking my students' exam sheets. Some students may fill in the correct answer and be marked right while some the wrong answer and be marked wrong. I mark the incorrect answers wrong without any ill feelings that the person has done something wrong, in other words I "punish" the person by marking them wrong, same way I believe I should be able to punish someone for a wrong doing in real life without punishing or beating up myself as you described in this video.
I look forward to your view on this analysis just made.
Thanks.
Hello Gary, i wanna critique one of your podcasts name "Impeccability".
You said it is a sin to judge one's self. I think you got it mixed up. We judge ourself after we believe ourself to be have sinned or become "un-impeccable" if I may use this. You said the expression of fault is not impeccable but that's wrong. Cos we first of all see our fault and once we see our fault, that's where the judgement comes in.
Except you want to say it is a sin to see a fault in ourselves. Meaning we should see ourselves as perfect. But if you conclude it is a sin to judge ourselves for the fault we see, I think that's wrong.
Impeccability means without fault, without sin, you're right on that, but when we take things personal, we see a fault and we therefore judge ourselves.
What's impeccable is something that has no fault, when it becomes "peccable" it's because there is a fault with it which makes it "judgable", should I say "peccable".
Except you're trting to make us totally negligent or oblivious of our fault that's when you can say we are impeccable. But your line that "finding fault with our image and rejecting it, is a sin" is wrong in my opinion.
I wish I could be more clearer and explanatory than this. I really do hope you get my point of view so I can get a proper feedback from you.
Keep up with the great and fantastic work sir!
I can relate with belief system illness, emotional behavior. But how can someone get over it ?
It's a process to change your beliefs. Changing you beliefs includes changing your perspective, emotions, and assumptions that feed your conclusions. It's a process that takes skills. It's what I teach in my self mastery courses.
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Riiight until it's your little grandchild.